Family: Question: How do I avoid unavoidable depressed feelings at the family reunion next weekend?

Question: How do I avoid unavoidable depressed feelings at the family reunion next weekend?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 01:32 PM PDT

Two years ago when they had one I had my depressed feelings flare up but really didn't want to have them. The more I fought them the worse it got but I can't have fun when depressed. So how do I avoid these feelings at the reunion next weekend? I'm scared about it. I was so disappointed two years ago. Also can I be in a low mood and still enjoy it?

Question: My sister is a selfish narcissist. Why do my parents expect me to respect such a terrible human being?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 01:30 PM PDT

Question: Am I being selfish?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 12:42 PM PDT

My family has 8 people, 6 kids. I have 2 brothers and 3 sisters and I can't stand any of them. I'm a girl and the 3rd child. I told my parents that I wanted my siblings to leave me alone and that I don't like talking to my siblings. My parents flipped out and started tell me that wanting to be left alone is me being selfish, because we're a "big happy family."

Question: Is my sister jealous of me?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 12:35 PM PDT

She says things about my past. She mentions that I was too friendly in high school (slutty wise) and I was just well liked by everyone because I went to an inclusion school so I was accepting of everyone and people liked that. She also mentions stuff a lot about my past and my boyfriend and if me and her argue she brings up anything she can to basically "bring me down"

Question: Is my dad toxic? What can I do? (nice answers only pls)?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 12:33 PM PDT

So, I'm almost 20 years old, living at home because I'm going to school and (for reasons you'll find out) can't afford to leave right now. My dad has always been extremely controlling, my mom will say yes to something but if he's ever heard of it and said no, both answers change to no, he forces me to give him most if not all of my paychecks I earn because I work for our grandma to help our family out. He takes it. He used to be an architect but decided to quit after finding that Herbalife was his lifes passion. This makes next to nothing in profits and our whole family suffers, but instead of getting another job, he continues to do this and steal money from all of his kids, the youngest is 14. I want to save money but he takes everything I have, I started putting it in the bank so he couldn't, and he calls me selfish and ungrateful. He's gotten so much worse since I've met my girlfriend. We've been together for almost a year now and in that amount of time, he's become 10x more controlling and demanding. He tells me awful things all the time and it really hurts us and I don't know what to make of it. He says things like, my girlfriend is trying to get pregnant on purpose to extort me, (she's extremely wealthy so it's not like that and she wants to wait to have kids), she's wanting to sell my organs to the black market, that she doesn't really love me, just tons of stuff like that and it really brings me down. Is he being abusive or is it just in my head? Am I overthinking?

Question: Read bellow the question then answer?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 12:10 PM PDT

i am getting tall fast cuz i'm a dude, i watched something about short men he said i am short so i feel i must be submissive to others. can you tell what's going on here? so you wanna tell me being taller than others equal being mean to and boss around the shorter ones? why when i was shorter than my sister she was mean but when i got taller than her she stopped

Question: Is it embarrassing if your parents are old enough to be your grandparents?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 12:01 PM PDT

I'm 19 and my parents are already in their 60s. I'm also the youngest in the family. Is it embarrassing?

Question: What would you do in this situation?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 11:55 AM PDT

Long story I apologize but, I have a brother who is in the Air Force we don't really get a long though he will be moving in January not sure where yet. If it was Hawaii my mom mentioned of moving there, we moved to South Carolina in 2015 from Minnesota. I want to get my life together I said no I asked if she was serious later she said no but, I have caught her in lies so I am prepared just in case meaning I am not afraid to go homeless for awhile. I will stay they can go I know like one person in our neighborhood very well but wouldn't live there too much drama in that household. I can see my mom surprising me and change her mind or just lying about it right now. I know my brother mentioned it just for company because if he doesn't move there he would move to Germany for his son who is 4 his wife is moving there. He's made me miserable enough my mom knows this he has made her miserable to so I really don't see the point. I don't think it will happen but if it does I would appreciate some advice.

Question: Inheriting part of a house my brother bought for my father?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 11:05 AM PDT

So, a bit of an odd one. But a few year back my brother bought my father a house. He was in need of a home in and my brother has become relatively wealthy so didn't really think about it, just did what had to be done. Anyway, our father is coming close to passing and in a recent conversation he mentioned how he's written for everything he owns to be split 50/50 between myself and my brother. I also know that for whatever reason, my brother didn't just buy a property he'd own for our father to live in, but bought it, took care of any expense and made our father the only owner. So it really looks like i'm set to inherit what would be equal to hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of property should it be sold. And i feel really weird about that. It just doesn't feel right that i should own part of this property when my brother who is still very much alive paid for all of it... Maybe he did this on purpose so we'd have a family holiday house or because he knows i'm nowhere near as well off as him and he didn't want to outright treat me like a charity. He's incredibly generous and i know given how close we are he wouldn't give a second thought to financially supporting me if ever i needed it, it's just this feels really weird to me... What should I do??

Question: Part of me dislikes my sister, how to cope with her voice in my head?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 10:46 AM PDT

I am 26 and she 37. We have two stepsister 24 and 26. We are very different from our stepsisters but also different from each other. Our stepsisters has kids young, never married, have tattoos, smoke cigarettes, overweight and curse a lot, but they are very close with their mom. Our mom is schizophrenic and illiterate. We went to college (same degree actually), no tattoos, she just had a baby at 35 and isn't married, I have no kids and am dating. My sister is very condescending and critical. She makes fun of people. Says my stepsister dress like they're going to the club. That they don't parent their kids right. Can't have a proper bday party for their kids. Their kids are very happy however, while her 2 year old never talks or smiles. I am just confused. At a family event, I was talking about how my boyfriend and I had a great idea for a catering business (he has a culinary degree and I study marketing). She apparently made a face and rolled we eyes or something. She is very well off and has a beautiful home but I hate her sometimes because she's nothing but hateful.

Question: Frustrated with my mom?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 09:48 AM PDT

We've lived in an apartment since January and she wanted to take my brother's two dogs after two years of wanting them. Now she never walks them or feeds them and they sleep on pissed on blankets in the hallway. I'm the only person who feeds and walks them and cleans up their **** and I can't always because I have a toddler. It's like dealing with a child who got bored of their toy. I can't address it to her because whenever anyone confronts her on anything she yells, slams doors and doesn't talk to you for a long time or just acts petty. My sister and I are ALWAYS cleaning up after her. And whenever we do things to contribute to fixing up the apartment such as get a couch (which I had to do) after 6 months or do the dishes she gets mad at us. I don't understand why or know what to do?

Question: Am I right to feel this way?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 08:09 AM PDT

My nephew is marrying his girlfriend almost everyone in my family is going to their wedding and excited. I love my nephew but I don't know because his girlfriend is beautiful and could do so much better. It's not that my nephew is ugly but as much I love him he's weird and talks soft like a kid. They've been together for 3 years. His girlfriend could be a model my nephew is skinny and tall he doesn't eat enough

Question: My mother treats my heroin lying brother better than me...why?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 08:06 AM PDT

I dont use any drugs at all. My brother has been stealing pain pills from both my parents for years then he went to rehab. My mother treats me like **** and blamed me for her pills being lost. My brother is now clean as he says and all my mom talks about is his life....sometimes i drink but not everyday and my mother demeans me after just 1 drink....why does she hate me but like my brother so much??

Question: I m 26.My mother always asks me about my life.She thinks I m useless and she wants to take charge.Why this?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 07:44 AM PDT

Question: How do I convince my parents to buy me a car as a graduation gift?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 07:05 AM PDT

I'm graduating university in 2 semesters and I want something special for a graduation gift, like a car or maybe a one week trip to Europe.

Question: Mother is trying to make me feel bad for hating her?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 07:01 AM PDT

My mom and I have never had a good relationship. I remember when I was 8 years old, I wanted to commit suicide because I hated living with my mom so much. The only good thing my mother has done for me was always provide me with food and shelter. She never supported me in my activities, never encouraged me to do better, took her anger out on me, beat me for doing things like falling down, never allowed to me to voice my feelings, constantly disrespects my boundaries because she's "my mother and can do whatever she wants to me", and the list goes on. I'm now 20 and I told my mom that I hated her, and I feel kind of bad about it; but it felt good to get it off my chest. Now she's trying to make me feel bad for what I said to her by telling me that she's going to die one day and how I'm really going to need her. She always does this; always blames me for our arguments and never takes responsibility for what she did. Unfortunately I'm not living on campus this year, so I have no where to go, except stay with my mom

Question: What should I buy my grandpa for his 90th?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 06:24 AM PDT

Question: Is it true general consent laws don't apply in porn?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 06:13 AM PDT

My brother (18) decided to participate in a gay porn job where they pay straight guys to participate in gay sex. Long story short he described it as being the worst decision he ever made and that he felt violated as the shoot went on. He said it started out as one thing but escalated and when he hesitated about certain aspects of the shoot, the director/producer or whatever told him that since he consented to the shoot that he had consented to what all they we doing. I dont really want to get into the details of it but the whole "safe word" thing was a joke, and even though, in the end, they paid him what they said, he didnt consent to most of what was done. Before anyone goes on a rant about how he got what he deserved and that what happened was a result of dumb decisions for quick cash. He was a mess afterwards and even though he told me he was gonna do it beforehand, it took him over a week to talk about it afterwards. I already lectured him and it didnt do any good but just upset him more since he was already blamming himself to begin with. I feel bad and want him to maybe take legal action but idek if he could do that since he did sign a contract and took the money. For clarity: Due to the nature of the film, part of the reason he was uncomfortable with how things escalated, why the producer/director said what he did, and why there was a "safeword" to begin with, is because he literally couldn't just up and leave. He was physically forced to stay until they finished the shoot. I agree, it was gullible/stupid on his part but as I said, reiterating that doesn't help the matter at this point. I'm just asking if there if there is anything to be done?.

Question: What does family matter mean?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 06:13 AM PDT

Question: I hate my family, how can I get away from them?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 06:11 AM PDT

I hate them, my mother and father. I'm in my teens. My father doesn't care about me. He ignores me and treats me like crap while yelling at me for about 2 hours (I have depression and anxiety) He makes my mother cry. I just want to go to another family, I don't care about them. I do not feel anything towards them. I have told them multiple times that I have depression and I want to kill myself but they didn't do anything. My classmates lives are so better than mine, most of them have pets and their parents do stuff with them. If I show my mother anything I like, she will say how bad and uninteresting it is in her own opinion (And that hurts my soul)... I really want to get a pet, even an ant farm would be magnificent but no. Also, my father swears a lot and i'm pretty sure he has some mental issue. I don't want to be like him when I grow up, I often make up stories inside of my head where they don't exist.

Question: Leaving Dad behind and moving to new country?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 06:06 AM PDT

My 4 yr. old son sees Dad and grand parents on weekends and they spoil him. He prefers to live with them them than me as a single mom. But his Dad does not help at all financially (not working) and it is tough for me. I want to move to new country with soon to be new husband but I'm afraid my son will miss his dad and Grand parents too much. How will he transition to seeing his dad much less.

Question: My alcoholic mother in law keeps calling my baby ‘her’ baby, it’s driving me mad?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 06:01 AM PDT

Question: How to deal with overprotective parents?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 04:22 AM PDT

I'm 21. I moved out at 18 and lived alone, then at 19 with a roommate, 20 with a roommate, and now 21 with a roommate; my point being that 18-20, my parents were still in the same city while now that I'm 21, they moved to a different city which means I am all alone in this city. I told my mother that I will move out to live alone, and she told me she is upset because there will be anybody I can be "dependent" on (such as my roommate) in the city if I do go live alone if anything ever happens to me While I understand her feelings, I do know she is being overprotective and thinks I am incapable of being independent - which is entirely false because I've been living alone well up until now - even tho I've got my roommate, I death with my issues on my own with no help needed - if that's not what independence is, I don't know what is -clearly my mother doesn't see it and is too overprotective of me so I've decided,I will disobey her and move out to live alone- do you think I should?or do you think I should still listen to her and stay with my roommate and be views the mama's girl still?

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 02:26 AM PDT

My dad and I had a good relationship till my mom got pregnant, whenever my mom would leave to the store he would grab me and move me in positions and grind his dick all over my body. It started small with a hug than a hug with a booty grab to hugging and grinding but it hasn't gone far yet, I keep getting nightmares that he's gonna rape, I always lock my door at night even though my mom gets mad, I don't feel safe around him anymore I can't give him anymore excuses first I said he loves me he wouldn't do that than he's drunk it's not his intention , but 1 day he wasn't drinking so idk what's the reason when he does it he says I'm not his baby anymore and that he wishes I never grow up , I tried acting different not showering dressing bad and he still does it what to do I feel disgusting wheneverhe starts grinding I feel him moan sometimes I pretend idk what happening and I start talking about my day I'm scared of him but I don't want him to know i hate myself because I can't do anything I'm 15 I only have 3 more years In that house I can't destroy my family I just want things to be normal again, I act like nothing happens around him and my mom, I never told my mom because he never actually raped me so there's no point ,when the baby is a boy which is good I prayed endlessly to be a boy and not girl, he is a great husband my mom loves him so much,I don't trust being alone with him bz this only happens when my mom goes to the store, I get nightmares of him raping me

Question: How can I make my mom proud of me?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 01:14 AM PDT

I am 15 & feeling really depressed. I feel like my mom hates me. I have always wished my mom and I were closer but she has always been quite distant with me. I am doing really well in most of my subjects (except sport and fitness) and I keep trying to do well to see if that will help, like I got dux of my year last year but she didn't seem that interested. She said it's a good thing I have brains so I can get a job after school because no man with money would marry a fat cow like me. I sometimes cry about it but never in front of her because it just makes her angry and she yells at me. I tried a couple of times to tell her that I am upset about these things but she keeps saying that the world is a cruel place and if I better learn to deal with it because people are meaner than her and she doesn't know what she did to make such a p*ssy of a daughter. She is really supportive of my sister who used to comfort me because she felt bad mom was so mean to me, but she went to live with dad when she started college. Last night it was really bad because she asked me to dye her hair & I made a mistake & got color on the chair and she told me couldn't f**ken stand how stupid I was & she wished I would hurry up & get the f**k out of the house. I burst into tears in front of her which didn't help because she just screamed at me. I don't know what to do. I really try & do everything she says to make her happy & I never fight with her but i just feel scared & sad all the time. What do i do?

Question: I had a few months of very bad anxiety attacks I’m in fear all the time. I can’t put my issues here, just need to know does my mom seem done?

Posted: 18 Jun 2019 12:53 AM PDT

My mom is 44 I have 2 young sisters & with my last sister she wasnt plan so my parents didnt sleep with eachother for yrs. Now they do & my uncle call me one day saying my grandma did tarot cards & saw my mom is going to have another kid (not true) my face turned blue, my mom notice & she kept asking & I believe she already overheard. I then told her & she said "you believe him?" I told her he said I'll be stuck she said "how'll you be stuck? Why would I have a kid near 50? Maybe for you it is". She kept saying maybe it's showing the kid I was supposed to have when she was 15 but miscarriage. I said maybe it'll be a surprise she said "stoooop" with a hand gesture. I ask her why she kept asking like she was worry she said because of you. She said my cousin told her she already hadn't the last child. Then one day she overheard me telling my grandma I had a dream of her pregnant & she said "that was your nightmare cause I was pregnant? (laughing)" I told her earlier I had a nightmare. My mom complains she hasn't live life hasn't even drive & she's going to be 45 but yet shes on no form of birth control, she doesn't check her ovulations, always ask me when was her last period. Dad had no vasectomy. Awhile since they bought condoms. They use condoms sometimes & the thin ones. Before they use it more I'm confused by it if she has gotten pregnant by accident twice, knows she can still get pregnant, & didnt have sex for yrs due to being scared she said god forbid about being pregnant

Question: My dad is depressing me and being toxic, what should I do and what are your thoughts?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 11:21 PM PDT

So, I'm almost 20 years old, living at home because I'm going to school and (for reasons you'll find out) can't afford to leave right now. My dad has always been extremely controlling, my mom will say yes to something but if he's ever heard of it and said no, both answers change to no, he forces me to give him most if not all of my paychecks I earn because I work for our grandma to help our family out. He takes it. He used to be an architect but decided to quit after finding that Herbalife was his lifes passion. This makes next to nothing in profits and our whole family suffers, but instead of getting another job, he continues to do this and steal money from all of his kids, the youngest is 14. I want to save money but he takes everything I have, I started putting it in the bank so he couldn't, and he calls me selfish and ungrateful. He's gotten so much worse since I've met my girlfriend. We've been together for almost a year now and in that amount of time, he's become 10x more controlling and demanding. He tells me awful things all the time and it really hurts us and I don't know what to make of it. He says things like, my girlfriend is trying to get pregnant on purpose to extort me, (she's extremely wealthy so it's not like that and she wants to wait to have kids), she's wanting to sell my organs to the black market, that she doesn't really love me, just tons of stuff like that and it really brings me down. Is he being abusive or is it just in my head? Am I overthinking?

Question: I miss my mum?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 11:08 PM PDT

Recently I decided to move in with my dad for overall convenience, I'm closer to work, have my own room. Have to cook and do washing for myself (it gives me experience for the real world) but I really miss my mum so much, she has always been there for me and she misses me too but I just feel so sad at nighttime, when it's day and I'm at work it's fine but at nighttime I feel so sad, even cry. My dads house is smaller, and he doesn't have any pets. Whereas at mums it's a bigger house, and we have 2 dogs, and 4 cats. I also miss my dogs terribly :(. But I am closer to work, I get my own room, I am nearer shops and everything and don't have to waste money getting bus tickets to work. I suppose I am feeling 'homesick' in a way, and just wanted your thoughts on how to not feel that way? But it's only my mum I miss. She was just part of my morning routine for everything, but it's not like I've moved far away, as dads house is only like a 12 minute drive from her house, but as I don't drive makes the situation suck a little bit. But just your help would be appreciated!

Question: How to take care of my little brother?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 10:17 PM PDT

My little brother moved in with me a few weeks ago after years of abuse from his father. I'm much older - 26, and he's 15, and I know he's better off here but I just feel at loss on how to care for him. He's afraid of everything. And even though he's very smart, he has trouble standing up for himself and expressing himself in any way other than crying or trying to do whatever he thinks it is I want him to do. It's very frustrating. I know that this sort of thing should be dealt with by a therapist, but I work a minimum wage job with minimal benefits, and since he's my brother I wasn't given any money by the state to provide for him with. I don't want to put him into care, because I think that would just be another trauma on top of anything else. I think the core problem is that he just assumes everyone is going to hurt him, and I don't know how to get that idea out of his head. I really want to be a good guardian, but I'm running out of ideas. Please help.

Question: Latina moms how would you feel if your son brought home an asian girl?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 09:50 PM PDT

Question: Pls need answers: people that only believe in psychics! Does this mean there will be no more kids? Yes or no that’s all thank you?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 08:28 PM PDT

A cousin that's gifted told my mom years ago after having my youngest sister she was the last one... can't remember if she said for now or for definite. Anyway a lot of fears and thoughts were coming to me a few months ago it was mainly to do with a guy that I'm on/off with, but in the back of my head my other fears were coming about and one of them was about if my mom did have another kid. Anyway when I spoke to my cousin she said to take everyday day by day I'm too worry about the future and what will happen, just take everyday slow enjoy my family, my sisters... she also said that I'm young it's important to keep my heart happy. She said ( I can't remember if she started with saying one day or not) but she said: all I'll have is my sisters all we will have is eachother and I'll have to step in take care of my parents when they can't no longer work. Now besides all she said does this mean she's trying to say don't worry about the future like my mom may have another kid or is she just saying that because I'm worry about this guy I like (but our relationship is a roller coaster) and that's it it's me and my two sisters no more siblings? Also she told me all this before the guy I'm having issues with hurt me more in the following week My mom is going to be 45 in a few months

Question: My dad is sexist?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 07:20 PM PDT

i'm 16 and my dad always fights with my mom he calls her fat and insults her and says he can he fat because he's male and girls can't be fat bc it's society and made my mom cry and constantly insults her and i'm sick of it. he said men are smarter then woman too and man are better

Question: How do I punish my 16 year old daughter for this?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 07:20 PM PDT

My 16 year old daughter had a cold, not even the flu. She refused to take tylenol because she thought it was something serious. She then made me take her to the ER and the doctor just told her to take some medication to help with the cold and they can be bought over the counter. We just received a $2000 bill in the mail from the hospital. Should I make her pay it off herself?

Question: Im frustrated that my mom puts pressure for me to stay thin?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 07:18 PM PDT

I cant stand her she was alwyas yelling at me when I was fat and she said woman means beauty. And nobody like fat woman. She kept insulting me until I started losing weight. Why is she so negative? Mom is very thin also

Question: My parents will not stop calling me or messaging me everyday..?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 07:09 PM PDT

Im 20 yrs old in college and my parents are so overprotective they call and text me all day asking me if im alive and there was a sad incident of someone's kid dying in an accident but no one knew about it for a week and so now they call me so often because they are worried i might be dead.. but im alive.. i have to text them something like even a simple letter to let them know im alive and if i forget they freak out and would call my roommate and if i dont answer in a minute they start calling me and it is just getting raelly bad.. and if i ignore they get mad telling me they thought i was dead or something.. what do i do.. even when im out i cant answer all the time you know

Question: I remember I had a younger brother when I was young and one day he was gone. My parents denied it and I found no evidence. Am I crazy?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 07:09 PM PDT

Question: Why can't I ever know the love of a father?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 06:51 PM PDT

My cousin just visited with his little daughter and I saw him cuddling with her and making her giggle and lots of love between them. My father is a bully and hates me and acts like a stranger.

Question: Should I attend my dead fathers memorial?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 06:42 PM PDT

my family wants me to attend some shat *** memorial for my dead fathers birthday. I ve always had resentment for him and I ve always thought he was a retard. He was basically like homer simpson except he smoked so you can take a wild guess on how that dumbass boomer died. I dont want to think about him anymore, but I dont want to shut out the rest of my family. or do i? what do frens

Question: I have a 1 yr old son and am single dad. How can I maximize the amount of sleep I get so I am fresh for work while taking care of my son?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 05:33 PM PDT

Question: Should I leave my fathers buisness?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 05:17 PM PDT

I want to leave my dads buisness. I am tired of sitting there and not doing anything.He wants me to clean bathroom and rooms and answer the phone.I have been doing that for 3 years and really want to leave and work somewhere else/go to school.Lately he has been mad about the bathroom not getting cleaned and stuff but I do not like the job and do not feel like I am earning the money and lost motivation in the job.he does not understand I do not like the job and want to go somewhere else.I am also not in school.i try to convince him to find someone else but he does not want to.idk what to do.I have been out of school for 3 years and can't go back because all this stuff I need to watch.I did had a job but whenever I come home around 11pm(I am 21)he gets upset.I just feel like I can't move toward and do something else.i don't want to be fired because I am his accountant but want to leave the physical job.i do not feel like I have learned anything for my future.i just want him to get Another employee in august so I can go get another job and go to school but he doesn't see I don't want to watch these little things.the only thing I want to get paid watching the financial part of it.I do not think they understand I want to leave.I work their full time so it's impossible to do what I want.should I quit and find another job and go back to school?i am not lazy but I am showing him that he should get another person because I want to move on to something else in my life.what should I do?

Question: Me and my mom went out to eatWe were sitting down eating andwhen i was done my jean button popped My mom yelled at me is she wrong or right?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 05:06 PM PDT

Question: Should I contact child protective services if these parents don’t seem to care where their 10 year old is or who she’s with?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 04:56 PM PDT

My daughter's classmate told me that her parents haven't met any of her friends at all, yet she sleeps over and hangs out at their houses so much. I spoke to another mom who is worried too. This girl spent a 2 week vacation with their family in Hawaii over spring break. Her parents didn't even bother to meet this family first and never asked where they were going for vacation. They just said yes over the phone. This mom had to tell the kid to get her parents to sign a contract and inform her of any medical conditions/insurances she has. I'm worried about the kid's safety because she lacks parental supervision. She's obviously allowed to go wherever she wants without her parents doing their own research first. I'm afraid that once she's a teenager, it'll become even more dangerous when social media and Internet friends come along.

Question: What do you do with angry resentful father who is bitter and always belittles all the family ? by words he says that are abusive ?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 04:52 PM PDT

Question: What s the difference between "******* like rabbits" and "******* like animals"?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 04:31 PM PDT

So whenever im (20) balls deep in my mothers (38) asshole my dad always says that we re "******* like animals" and whenever im going at it with my little sister (14) He always says we re "******* like wild rabbits". It always bothers me because to me they seem kinda like the same thing. Could anyone explin the difference?

Question: How can I convince my parents to let me go on a holiday?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 04:25 PM PDT

I live in Ireland and in Ireland and Europe the regual age to drink is 18 and by the time I will be going on holiday I will be 18 and considered an adult and how can I convince my parents that I am mature enough to go on holidays and btw EVERYBODY in my scho except a few of us did do drugs

Question: Is it bad that I want to go drinking on a first date even though I am looking for something serious?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 04:22 PM PDT

My last date with this other guy went extremely bad. He was a huge douche and I was also extremely awkward and I couldn t talk to him. Like he asked me a question and my mind just blanked but also I really didn t like him and I ended the date early. I have another opportunity to go on a date with this other guy. He suggested a brewery which I feel is a red flag that he s not serious. I told him I m looking for something serious and he said he was ok with that but he s basically dating to see what s out there but he s looking for a relationship also. I feel like I would like to drink on my next date new first date because I fear I ll be awkward and not be able to talk. Should i do that?

Question: If an African American is caught stealing Should their entire family be prosecuted?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 03:46 PM PDT

I for one believe that the Only person being prosecuted is the one who's caught stealing. But a lot of people believe that the entire family should be prosecuted. Why or why not.

Question: I feel really alone and I feel like life is hopeless. I dont know what to do?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 03:32 PM PDT

I feel like everything is just going wrong right now for me. Recently, something happened preventing me from talking to my really close friends and since then I have felt so lonely and even though I make new friends I still really miss all of them. If I do one thing wrong my mom goes on about all the things wrong with me. If I ever try to say my side of things, she tells me Ill do anything to avoid taking responsibility. (When I do something wrong, I always try to take responsibility) If I try to tell her how I feel she just gets angry at me. Earlier, I went downstairs to talk to her about something and when I tried to start talking again she yelled at me for bothering her. My brother went down to talk about the same topic and she was perfectly fine. Its always been this way. My dad does the same thing. My dad used to tell me he hates me and wants me to leave. My mom always brings this up to justify her claims. She says things like Well thats why your dad says that and Thats why you have issues with your dad My parents are divorced and while my dad may not always be the nicest. I actually feel more comfortable over there because I have more freedom and feel safer. However I havent been able to go there for a while. I used to spend half my time at each house Now its only my mom - whenever I try to say I want to go back to that, she guilt trips me and gets angry. My stepdad really scares me (I know he would never hurt me tho) and overall I just feel really trapped and alone.

Question: Why in this house i am treated like garbage or something?. ALSO IS MY BROTHER RIGHT? FIRST READ BELLOW FULL?

Posted: 17 Jun 2019 08:50 AM PDT

then when my brother yells loud at my dad he answer my brother very carefully then when i talk he is like shut up who you are to even talk in front of me. why is this? also tell me why my dad is so stingy .he has three houses in different places that he is paid their rent then he doesnt give us money to buy a trousers or a pillowcase even. two minute ago my brother told him you dont giv e me any money then you went there to build a house that you dont have enough money for.then he( my brother) said why didnt you give me money so i leave this country with inflation rate 100000000000000 percent ( i mean IRAN) then you want to build a house that you dont have enough money for? its all your fault . other wise i was living happy abroad out of this effing country. READ AND ANSWER DONT LEAVE.