Women today are liars thieves and cheaters. The whole family court system is set up to screw a man over in every way

Please explain in the "land of the free"?

My bae is 20 and watches Nickelodeon he's not ugly or anything just likes cartoons. He's weird I like it

Im 26 years old first of all. I really want to quit my job. I am a female doing hard work in a factory. I like all my coworkers and managers/assistants. However, its the work that is killing me. I hurt my lower back really bad with bending too much and lifting heavy things. It hasnt been the same. I recently hurt my wrist on my right arm and now I did something to my neck where I cannot turn my head. I keep going to hed around 7:30pm which isnt like me. My mom tells me that she doesnt want me to quit and I have to think of it like "its a job not your career". Well i am fed up i want a job with my college degree! I had one but they treated me so bad once my mom realized that she was telling me its okay to quit (my mom is in the same field i am in from college) But for now according to her I need the current job because of my apartment, wedding to my fiancé, health insurance since I am not married yet What do I do ? I hate this job and feel stuck. I have a part time job which I know would love to give me more hours but i understand if I get sick no insurance. I never been in such pain in my life

I recently met a boy, he does not speak Spanish And very little English but I love being with him and he is very attentive to me when we do not understand something, we use traslate .. do not think that it will be difficult or that think about it?

I went outside with my mom to help her pick a flower pot that's to heavy for her to pick up due to having a belly button hernia. When I went to it I was freaking out for any bugs to be on there it was so dark out and all I couldn't really see. She went to whip around the pot really fast telling me don't worry just pick it up but then at one point she said "I wish you were a boy" as she said that she slowly stop and realized. I look at her and I said to her you wish you had a boy you wish I was a boy I instead? All she kept saying was when I was born she cried thinking she had a boy and kept saying no I was just joking... anyway she see our neighbor across us that has 3 boys always helping and she said that's nice she must feel like the queen always having them help, their tough she feels guarded. Does this seem she wishes to have a boy like literally another kid? She laugh every time and couldn't look at me but then I said your smiling I don't believe you and she said "what you want me to cry" later on I told her imagine your mother telling you that like the truth came out, she said your 110 percent wrong you think one way like you think you know. She's 44 and when I told her about a dream I had of being pregnant she didn't seem all bother but then I told her in reality my friend wants to set me up with a guy and she said that's the baby... then I said we all don't even have a life all we need is that right now god forbid and she said "that's what I'm saying".

1. you have to work. even as a waitress. I pay £1000 pounds just for her accommodation and bills. she needs to start paying her share. 2. Be responsible of shopping and make sure food (that I can eat) is present at home. Not only the food you like and eat. 3. Arrange holidays and pay your share in it. 4. take me out sometimes, as I took you out all through our marriage. 5. Buy me proper gifts in occasions, not a chocolate bar.Just like I bought you expensive gifts all through the marriage. 6. call my friends wives and engage with them and invite them out and visit them to create a social life to us, not just have your own friends. 7. call my parents and family, and be nice to them. They have always been nice to you even though they hated you. 8. stop sitting there and being pretty, and wait for me to make you happy. Thrive to make me happy as I always tried and was never enough for you. 9. I will have sex only when I want to, not keep demanding it every night and complain if I am not in the mood. 10. I will go out with my friends whenever I want to. I have not been created to entertain you, and I am not forced to only have my spare time with you. 11. you have to look the way I find you pretty, not the way you think you are pretty, with that short hair, baggy clothes, and flat shoes.

Ok I am christian and these topics are well not talked about... First of all I didnt even know it was happening ... its hard to recognize.. but I was suffering and am .I didnt know why.... now that Ive Identified it I need help how to get about about it. My husband I dont think is doing the abuse on purpose its just he was formed .... from childhood because his father is very mentally abusive.. I love my husband very much and divorce is not something I want. How I identified it is- he has a way of manipulating to get his way... and if said no .. brings guilt and low self worth my way.. when I tell him how it makes me feel ,he has a ton of excuses and takes no responsibility of his words but father flips it like he is a victim.... what I need is scriptures to help me threw and how I can help my husband without him realizing it to become better and to realize how he is actually hurting me... I know if I tell him directly it will backfire ... anyone have any ideas???????? .

We were together 1.5 years till 1th of March. We had amazing chemistry. 2,3 months after start, she assked me if I want to face some difficult situation with her. I accepted. We prepared whole year for that. First year was amazing, however last 6 months were hell, and I couldn't understand why. She started threating me worse and worse for months and she wouldn't explain why, things were amazing until then and suddenly it was constant hell when we were separate and amazing as the first day when we would meet. Eventually, she reached point of no return, and there is no going back. I was so dissappointed at the end when she explained why she threated me like that. On 1th of march she broke up with me. She begged me 3 times after that to get back together but I will never forgive her what she did. I blocked all communication, I won't speak word with her again. I still love her, but she never loved me, I made her happy, but she never cared how I feel. My problem is, I still think about her, daily and that is killing me. I know I am good guy, will work as software engineer soon, I look fairly good(going to gym for years), I am completelly loyal and I try my best in relationship. Problem is, I can't forget her, I am not even sad anymore about this, I deserve better, I am constantly busy, but I keep thinking about her and stuff she did. I am still so dissappointed. How to let it all go, it's killing me. Also my good friend hanged himself on 19th of may so I miss him too. How to stop thinking about girl that dissappoined me a lot? I don't plan to ever forgive her, or to speak word with her again in my life. I just want advice on how to stop all this overthinking, cause I can't sleep at nights, and I study a lot, so I am having problems with focus. I also have to work from august. I just want to let it all go, I feel like it's not normal that I am still overthinking about this. Well if anyone stumbles on this, I am fine, I am working on myself, I am getting busy, I am gonna forget her slowly, it jus takes time. She ****** up and I shouldn't even think about her anymore.