Is this weird? I'm worrying about what my family think of bringing someone who look like my cousin. Lol

I've been with my boyfriend "Adam" for two years. I honestly ignored a lot of red flags... He's on dating apps ,I see things in his room. He has also sexually abused me, Within the 1 year mark, I met an online friend "James" in real life and have hung out with him several times. Ever since we met he's been wanting a relationship with me. Looking back he has treated me probably better than any other guy and I do believe he love me. Long story short, James got a new girlfriend 2 weeks ago. I got into a huge fight with him which resulted in him blocking me on Snapchat and me blocking him on FB. I broke up with Adam on June 6, and on June 7 James broke up with his girlfriend because she's falsely accusing him of hitting/attacking her and she's trying to bring the police and court system involved. She also kicked James out of her car and stranded him for over 10 miles. Despite being together for 2 weeks, it looks like they broke up 4 times and she seems unstable as she has two kids and falsely accused her ex-husband/baby daddy of abusing her. Yesterday she wrote a long post about James basically calling herself out saying that she did indeed make up those false abuse accusations, and James commented saying that she is forgiven and that he's trying to move on. I want to reach out to James and apologize/tell my feelings/ be in relationship. If it helps, I have messaged him on one of his backup accounts (not his main); he hasn't seen, recieved or read the message yet: Advice?

My boyfriend just broke up with me, saying that as of late we haven't been clicking. I didn't think that there was any problem, but I still did see the break up coming a week before it happened. It ended weirdly, in the sense that it was kind of random. That not only was said by one person but multiple, all of whom knew us both. Just about two weeks ago he was texting my sister about how much he loves me and loves being with me etc. Also the fact that he was still wearing the relationship bracelet I made him. As well as a "couples shirt" we'd bought together. The breakup was amicable, and we didn't fight or anything. He specifically said that he wanted to remain friends as before we started dating we were very good friends which I agreed to. However, I don't want to just be friends. I mentioned that it ended weirdly because I'm worried that something might be going on with him, as he's seemed more upset as of late. But I don't want to ask if he's okay or anything because of how fresh the breakup is. This is my first break up and I guess I just don't know how to deal with it, because I really love him and I miss being around him and hugging him and talking to him. After he dumped me, he texted me (while I was sobbing on the phone to my mom mind you) that he really did want to be friends, and I believe him. I guess what I want to know is if there really may be a chance to possibly get back together in the future? What are the odds of it happening?

My girlfriend and i have been together for two years. We used to work at Target together. Almost two months ago she quit for another job. But anyways a few days ago she texted me and her text said this: "Ever since I left Target I feel neglected. I'm always asking when can I come see you or when can we hang out or spend any type of time together. I feel like majority of the time it's me initiating contact or meetups. Im tires of going numerous days or a whole week without seeing or speaking to you that's morning okay with me. i feel so ignored. I ask you to go on dates and do fun things just the two of us together and you never take me or you go out with other people. I feel like I have to beg for attention. You don't check up on me or make me feel special. I'm very unhappy and nothing is changing i did apologize and ask her how she was doing she hasn't said anything to me since she sent that text telling me how she feels. I was trying to text her and ask her to come over so we can talk and stuff but no response and it's bwen three days

Ever since i got a new job my boyfriend waits for me to text call and talk to him because he doesn't know my work schedule and i don't have a set work schedule. Am i overreacting ? I feel like he isn't putting any effort in and letting me do all the work because of my inconsistent job schedule he will say things like "when will i see you again or idk when you'll be able to see me"

I've met a guy few days ago in a bar. He approached me and i was not that interested (because of his personality) even though he's really hot, and he realized that. However, he insisted about knowing me and We talked during the whole night. I felt a very strong chemistry with him. He asked my Number so many times that i just gave it to him. 20 minuts later i left the bar he was sending me a text. He seemed VERY interested in me since he asked me questions to get to know me and asked me To have dinner w/him. He has been sending me like 5 texts a day, not much, which makes me Think he's not that into me, and i just answer the texts, i never begin our chats. He also took a really cute pic to ask me dinner, and i said yes. Yesterday he called me. And we talked. However, i was quite disapointed with it, because it just seemed that the guy wanted to impress me so much that he just didn't ask any questions about me at all, but he remembered everything i said when we first met . He sent me pictures of him w/ children/babies, his family (mother), his best female friend, and pics of him, like on the beach. He also asked a pic of me (normal), since i don't have social media. Then, he just asked me when was my last relationship with a guy, and i just said i never a bf (i'm 23) and i'm not into hookups, and he seemed very surprised with that. What does he want from me?

So I and my girlfriend have been together for a little over a year and everything is great and I think that might be the problem. A couple of weeks ago she asked me if it bothered me that I was her only girlfriend which is true. And no it really doesn't I really love her and that's the bottom line. So sometime, later on, we were talking and she said something along the lines of I want you to experience other people and live your life while you're young. She said right after that (Insert my name here) in the future I want you to marry me and have kids and live the rest of your life together. But at some point, we need a little break from each other if things go stale. Now I get that for the most part but the problem is that we haven't had a fight in like 4 months and even then we worked it out and everything and it was fine an hour later. My question is what do we do. I am 20 so I am still young and if we do take a break in like 2-3 years I would still be young enough. But like when would we take a break. Things are great right now and I do not want any other girl. We made a pact that when we break up it wouldn't tear each other apart and we will stay civil. I don't know if there was a question I was just wondering if anybody had any advice. Thanks :)

every woman I want to ask out I already know they probably turn me down in college every woman I want to ask out I already know they probably turn me down in college nothing is good everything gone **** hole

ever single girl i have ever had a crush on my entire life has been taken and im sick of it. i cant stand seeing someone i have a crush on with someone else its really upsetting to me because its every single girl i have had a crush on who just clearly has someone they are with and im so done with it and im just gonna be asexual since im clearly not gay

Im in college and have a class with a girl my age. She laughs at stuff I say, smiles a lot at me and to stuff I say. She said hi when she saw me ask what's up. We had to do peer reviews and she came to my table sat next to me at my table I talked to her she said something, smiled at me and looked deep into my eyes and didn't stop smiling and it felt awkward, if I didn't break the eye contact she probably would've continued. One day I sat down waiting for class and she came in for class walked over and started waiting very close to me, hovering over standing in my personal space, she walked right in front of me and started getting close to me and I could smell her but she had her back to me. This was the closest she's been to me. There was a whole room not a lot of other people. When I talked about another girl flirting with me and asking for advice from some one else on how to not lead her on. She joined the conversation gave advice. said that the other girl will continue pushing boundaries and persisting if I don't say I'm not interested and rip the band-aid right off. She started this stuff after I asked for advice, afraid she knows I have issues with this stuff

3 weeks ago me and him got into an argument and we was thinking about not being with me. We ended up staying together but I didn't know he started talking to other women while we were fighting. I found one on his phone and then yesterday I found out he lets a girl at his work touch him in weird ways and he said he wanted her so badly. I feel so betrayed because he mentions forever but won't for the relationship when things get tough. This has honestly been bothering me for days. I don't know what to do. I'm just kind of lost and feel betrayed and don't know if my trust for him will ever repair. Advice?

What does he mean? He is saying he wants to break up, I don't. But why is he making it like that? If he wants to break up then why is he prolonging arguments about nothing??? If he isn't happy I'm not gonna force him to stay. He keeps calling me back when he hangs up on me. He will say "be happy being single" and hangs up and then he calls me back five seconds later and starts up ****. Then I will ask him what are we doing? Breaking up or taking a break and he says I don't know. He says he wants to break up and then I will say ok, if that's what you want, I don't want to but I'm not going to force you" and I cry and stuff and he says "it's that easy huh?" What does he mean???? HE IS THE ONE THAT WANTS TO BREAK UP. Saying he isn't happy and what not.

I had a boyfriend earlier in the year, but we broke up because we are not compatible in that way, but we are pretty good friends. However I've been hanging out with a friend recently, and I kinda have been developing some feelings for him. And my issue is that he is my ex's roommate for next year. And I am worried that I'll either strain their friendship or lose my friendship. I know that my ex won't view it as a way of me either trying to get revenge, or anything to get back at him. We parted on good terms, but I still have a sliver doubt and guilt when I think about it. Idk what to do.

My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We're both in the US just in different states. We both travel often to see other so we've been making it work just fine. He met my family end I met his when he both of us had the opportunity to visit each other. He graduated last week and he bought me a plane ticket to go see him graduate and while I was there I was invited to his parents house so we got to spend a lot of time with his family. When I flew back home, I texted his mom thanking her for the invite and for having me but shockingly I never got a text back from her and it's been about a week now. She usually always responds back to my texts so I was surprised by that. Anyway, I texted her again today letting her know that I bought him a graduation gift and it will be delivered sometime this week but again, no response nack from her. I don't know why but now I'm having all these emotions in my head. Do you think I'm making this a big deal when I shouldn't? I mean I hope she still likes me after meeting the family again when I went to visit last week.

i can't stop crying. we were planning on getting married and i was waiting for him at the airport because he was going to come and meet my parents and move in with us and he never showed up so i called him and he said "i got back together with my ex, and i truly love her" then hung up and that was it. i can't stop crying we've been together for years and i thought he truly loved me

I have this pretty coworker who I get along very well with. She ONLY lets me joke with her at work, and say funny dumb things. She gets jealous when she sees me talking to another coworker and tells me to do something else.. She always brings me for and treats to try.. Today she randomly asked me" When are you bringing me breakfast", I didn't know how to respond to that and just laughed. She says she always brings me food and stuff and I never do .. She was real happy when I told her to go hiking with me and she immediately said yes. Only problem is that I am 22 and she is 29. Do you guys think she likes me ?

Why would you not tell a girl how you really feel about them? (Situation: knowing them your entire life)

every guy I talk to end up saying they like me but then when I want to take things slow they end up changing their mind. Am I in the wrong?

there's this guy I was seeing. He ghosted me and then later on tried to hit me up a couple times. I miss him so much right now but he has a girlfriend. Should I still call him

All are friends think he skinny n judge him apparance say have fun with he small d. He got big d and very good at s e x very ruff. How I let them no without saying out low? Don't want them thinkin I have bad taste

My boyfriend is an orphan for all intents and purposes. He came to my New York public school and we took some classes together and he never spoke to anyone except a few people me included. He has no memory or refuses to talk about his life prior to everything but he has bad nightmares. My boyfriend is a kind man we live together now, I taught him Russian and we took Russian in highschool together. My boyfriend told me he doesn't remember much about his life, he alluded to me that he was kidnapped as a child by bad people but he doesn't know for sure because he was drugged for years. I don't know what to tell him, I love him and the relationship is good but I don't want him to feel like he's missing something in life. My family has invited him to Thanksgiving, thrown him Birthday parties and treated him like a son. I feel like the best thing is just to be there for him and not to push.

All my life i have been a quiet and shy person. I have been with my bf for over a year, he is the opposite of me, super friendly and outgoing, the main issue in our relationship has been my personality, and today he has had enough, he wants me to change, i have tried before but thats not who i am :( should i keep trying to change for him, or should i move on, we love each other so much but he is tired of my personality.

I'm super shy, I have stretch marks everywhere and acne, but a guy dm'd me on insta and I'm always too scared to reply. The thing is he seems like an f boy because he tries to flex money and his body.... what do I do? Like his dm, reply, or delete it?

In real time. Without words. So yeah, life hacks? Lol...

Like when the sex is for him he cums in like 2 mins. But if we are focusing on me he can t. He never complains about me and he s always touchy feely on me so I know I m not the problem. I m just curious, when we focus on him his stroke is alot different when it s for me it s a lot harder so maybe he s trying to hard?

As a girl, that likes a guy, how do you get out of the friend zone with a guy vent though I've told him I liked him. He hasn't straight up rejected me, and we're still friends, but how can I get out of it?

I met this guy on match. We went out twice. At the end of the second date, he kissed me on the cheek. Then started to suggest to meet again. But he also said he would be busy for a couple weeks. I got upset. He pulled me close, hugged me and rubbed my back gently. He said we continue to talk and discuss. I called him two days after, and I have not heard from him yet. Today is the forth day. I noticed he has not been on match for more than 4 days. Should I check on him again if he did not call?

Im in love with him. 😍😍💘

Like if I am talking to a girl we have a convo on the internet, then she start acting hard to get so I kinda take a distance myself from her and stop writing her then she thinks im cold and wants me to write her but i dont untill she stops acting hard to get, im not wrong in this right?

There's this dude who I've been dating and we both want to make it official. Well I kinda just got out of this situation-ship with some other dude (he's not really an Ex, but we'll call him that for now) back in January. I was done with his **** and mistreatment and mental/ emotional abuse. So we went separate ways. There was a lot of things I did for him a while ago that I'm facing the consequences for, now. I'm over him, but I always feel some type of way when my "ex" is brought up in convo. I'm over HIM, but I guess I'm not over the fact that I'm suffering the consequences because of what I did for him out of love. But this new guy I'm dating, I don't want him to think I'm not over my "ex". Yeah I'm still KINDA upset about the whole situation of my consequences, but my guy keeps saying I shouldn't care at all, and that it's water under the bridge. So I think maybe he thinks I might not be over him. But now that I think about it, maybe I'm just mad at myself for allowing myself to get in the situation to begin with. It was my decision to do what I did and why I'm suffering the consequences now. But I try not to bring up my "ex", but my guy seems to always bring him up. I was blinded by love and was in a ****** up situation. But if I show my feelings of still being, I guess, upset, about this ****** up situation, then Am I moving past the situation??...I'm trying. I feel like me feeling this grudge against my "ex" is also showing that I'm weak and that he still has control over me. Because my "ex" will smile and pretend like nothing ever happened. But I dread the moment I ever cross paths with him. But then, I have a whole thing about forgiveness. I feel like people should learn to forgive to help themselves. I feel like that's one of the strongest things you could do and not hold a grudge. So what do I do? Do I forgive my "ex" to make myself feel at ease? I don't like that he still has this power over me. Hate, is a strong word. I dislike that person. But my guy says how would I feel if he told me he hated his ex?.... He says there'd probably still be some feelings lingering, if you hate your ex or really dislike him. He says I should have no feelings at all and should have a mindset of not caring at all about my "ex" and what happened.

I was at a party last week. I'm a guy and i've Had a girlfriend for 5 years. Anyway at the party I was chillen with another guy that was really cool. I even told my girlfriend that I really like this guy, he seems like a really cool dude to chill with. Is that gay to say, just wondering

So this girl and I have been talkin for about four months now, she's been depressed lately and just told me that a while back she'd had a miscarriaged, and it's really, really been gettin to her. What can I do to help her and support her while she deals with this? How can I be there for her?

Me and my boyfriend just had a newborn and we can't really have sex for awhile Since I'm postpartum and I found that he's been watching porn videos and googling women on his phone some of them are just normal pics of women the only thing that is showing is there boobs and I don't see how he could get off by that he will be in the bathroom for hours and it really bothers me we used to have sex all the time before I got pregnant I just don't know what to do I just don't really feel attractive at the moment and he hasn't really complimented me lately he did when I was pregnant but now that I'm not I just feel ugly

a guy I went to highschool with has crush on me for years. We are now in our early 20's. He is one of them guys that was honestly lame and I was popular honestly but didnt even want to be. I never paid full attention to him but would say hi when we seen eachother. He asked me out but I told him I had a boyfriend at the time. Fast forward 4 years later he is still trying and I just got out of another toxic relationship. He is popular now drive nice car dates a lot of girls all the girls want him. He was nice at first, he took me and my son for ice cream asked me out on dates but i could never go but than he seen my ex call me I blocked his number and that he has all my time and attention his personality changed he became an asshole. Don't invite me anywhere. He just wants sex now even though we havnet he keep trying. He says he want more from me but he scared he is going to get played by me. He just always wanted to have sex with me too.

I had a third date with this girl. Picnic blanket, wine, cheese, played cards, kissed and kissed. we hiked back in the dark with flashlights and had a great time. She texted me after our date and said "thank you for being overly prepared, it was very sweet and I hope you have a great rest of the week!". This is the first time she's texted me after a date. I replied the following day and asked her out again. She replied 3 days later and said she was going to be out of state the next few days and then she has to work right after and that we would get together again soon.

We've been together for a good few months now and sometimes I just can't finish, I've experienced this in past relationships but I don't know what is the cause. I'm not on any medication.

Only thing we did was cuddle and his guy friend slap my butt

Okay so there's this guy I really really like and he likes me too. But his ex girlfriend messed him up so bad that he's not ready for a relationship (he said we should stay friends for a while longer and it's summer rn so I'm thinking we'll get together once the school year starts again) But while his girlfriend was a total *****, together they were very.... sexually active. And I have no experience in this area whatsoever. One of my guy friends has been joking about getting head from me and so I figured this would be a good way for me to get some experience. Please be honest, is this weird??? This kid is also bullied and kinda weird so I might get made fun of if I do this. Idk

We've known each other about three years. She's back from college. She got over a break up about a month ago I'd say. We've scheduled a day to be together. I haven't told her anything about what I have planned besides the date. The pervious summer I took her down to the river with take out and we watched the sunset. I'd like to surprise her and take her to a lake that shares her name about 1.5 hours away(beautiful country side drive). Maybe fish a little swim and have a picnic dinner. FYI both women.