I am wanting to have different ceremonies during my wedding. But the main ones I find are all unity ceremonies, but do you know of any others that are unique. I am wanting to have a special ceremonies with taking off my absence ring before the ring ceremony, but any other idea are helpful

TWO weeks ago my aunt had a stroke while attending her daughter's graduation. I live in NC. My family is from NYC. The family was contacted when she went in hospital. Information could not be released over phone. Her daughter was two hours away from the Hospital she was taken to. Her daughter is in early 20's & when she arrived was alone to deal with it all. My father is the oldest sibling of my aunt & the remaing 6 siblings. My father & I rushed all the way down to FL as we were the closest family members. When we got there we were we waited an hour before my aunt's oldest daughter arrived & under the impression we would be able to come together to find out my aunt. Well when my cousin got there. Me and my father were asked to wait in the waiting area while my two cousins and their signfigant others got together to pray & come together and talked to dr. We were shut out! My cousin changed the code so we could not get in and my family in NY could not get information as well. Since then we have not been included. We are a big family and I'm the oldest grandchild and there are 8 sisters and brothers all whom had a relationship with their mother before they were born. first 2 weeks we gave them space to mourn but it has not changed and we are still shut out. No money or property is involved. We just dont understand? we feel angry & confused with her kids right now.