I went to the same state as my boyfriend which is a two hour flight from where I live. Getting to him is also a two hour drive. The problem is, I was with my family as well on vacation. I made time for my boyfriend though. But he never took time off for me. When the day came, he expected me to drive to him, I don't have a car of course. Im in a different state and he was at work so I wouldn't know where I would even drive to. He blamed me for not driving to him. Still does. I felt neglected my I flew back home and no word from him. We spoke yesterday and I'm unsure I should forgive him even without the apology or Break it off. I don't care about the distance so please don't mention it.

They exchanged phone numbers at work about 8 months ago. We all work together. He did tell me that the exchanging numbers was work related so I didnt have a problem with that. I also have co workers numbers for work related purposes. Last week this lady tells me casually that my fiance text her all the time and sometimes at 3am. She said they are just friends. I find out that they talk about other things besides work and joke alot in the texts. I ask him why didnt he tell me that they text each other like that? I told him that being friends with a female isnt wrong but keeping it from me is. Then he got mad. He apologized for keeping it a secret and showed me some of the messages. He said I was mad for nothing. He said he wouldnt text her anymore but I still dont feel right about it because he lied. I've asked him in the past that if he has any female friends then to let me know and I'll do the same so that there are no surprises. He said he does not want me texting any man at 3am or at all. He said I was being insecure to even ask about it because the lady isnt attractive. I said well going forward, if you can have female friends and strictly platonic then there shouldn't be a reason why I cant. He got pissed off and said I better not. I told him he has a double standard but he wont listen. He just gets argumentative

When he does go, he stays in there for 30-40 minutes. We have four bathrooms in our house so an announcement is not necessary in order to get bathroom time.

was together for 6 years broke up month n half ago We broke up because she felt like she lost herself and wanted to focus on herself and get herself togetherShe has no car Or ever had her own place she asked me to do her hair n we hung out The whole time she flirts with me Touch my butt or keep hitting meWhen we talking she looking at me smiling she got naked in front of me and kept trying to get my attention so I would look at her if I make a joke n talk about how I like someone or want to be with someone sexually she seems to get a little upset n be like oh you should be focusing on yourself First or don't believe what they tell you We both talked about how we talking to someone but nothing really serious She even still has a key to my house she keeping just in case if an emergency because I have no family up here I think it's bs I told her how it makes me sad that I'm the only one that's sad about the break up She said that it's not one sided she gets sad n upset too but she doesn't show her emotion and she said no matter who she talk to it will not be that serious because she not looking for a relationship she tells me I should stop rushing stuff n just let things happen she says she wants to have me in her life regardless even if it's just as friends We both admit we have love for each other just not in love Sometimes I feel like she does want to get back maybe but then when I bring it up she says she don't want to be in a relationship but she don't act like that

My guy friend today kept complimenting my hair today and he asked me if he could touch it. I work with him. When he touched it, he touched a strand but I didn't make eye contact with him because I felt it would have been awkward so I kind of looked to the side. I have made eye contact before when he has done this before. He then told me it was soft and asked me what shampoo/conditioner I use. Was this okay to look to the side when he touched my hair? We did talk afterward and he complimented me again later. I found it sweet because my hair was kind of messy today.

Is pedophilia a way of ensuring that men will always have traumatized girls to sleep with? Same with little boys? Trauma based mind control is a way of ensuring people can do things without question right?