My husband and I are both 40 years old with a young beautiful child. Though about three months ago I saw my 15 year old neighbor Anna's number in my husbands phone with an hour long call to eachother. I confronted him on this and he said it was just her and her friend prank calling him at 10 at night. I asked what was said and he said the worse thing he said was when Anna's friend asked what my husband thinks of Anna's dad our neighbor who is also a cop my husband responded with " well he's a nice dude but he won't like me when his old neighbor calls his daughter smoking hot" but he said he told them he was just kidding around. This again was three months ago and I haven't seen anything since then. I'm wondering how I should react to this cause I'm still very uneasy about this whole situation. I hope that story made since thanks!

I'm scared!

My husband and I are both in our early 30s, healthy, attractive, but our sex life is nonexistent. We've been together 2 years and married for only a few months. We have a one yr old and newborn. I always have to initiate sex and usually he finds an excuse or if he agrees it doesn't feel like he really wants it. Even though I just had a baby my baby weight is melting off fast and I'm almost back to my normal size so I don't think it could be my looks I don't know really. I'm just confused why he never tries to have sex with me. I've talked and talked about it so much and told him how it makes me feel like something is wrong with me or him and he says he just has a low sex drive, but he wasn't like this before we had our first son he always usually iniated and we had lots of sex. He just says things change that's all. So now I don't try anymore because I hate getting rejected or feeling like I'm forcing it. We haven't had sex in 5 months. Im on the verge of cheating because I'm so sexually frustrated. I've told him this and he still does nothing. I feel like he's trying to feel like he has power and thinks I won't actually cheat but I'm already searching for a guy to hook up with. I'm tired of talking and getting nothing. Am I wrong or justified if I cheat on him?

Theres this girl ive been talking to at my gym and flirted with back and forth. I even got her ig and stuff. I barely see her like twice a week tho. Shes not ready to go on a date or hang out yet because just got out of a 2 year relationship a little over a month ago. Yesterday i went to her and asked for her number and she surprisingly rejected me saying she doesn't give her number out. Shes a trainer at my gym also. The part where i ****** up was right when she said that i turned around and walked away and she did like one of those heh noises like when youre surprised about something and don't know what to say. I saw her today and she didnt say hi to me but i dont think she saw and if she did she was probably pretending to not see me. I caught her looking at me when i left the gym tho. Should I apologize to her for being rude about it? The only reason i walked off was because im going through alot of **** and she was like the only thing i had to look forward to. She kinda knows im going through stuff but not really.

He sexted with an old flame, even though i'm supposed to find consolation in that he doesn't want to leave me. But he refuses to tell her he will never speak to her again. I'm sorry, but if he can't figure out why I don't want that, then he can get the ____ out! But he won't leave! Says he has 30 days! I DON'T want my family involved in this. What can I do?

1. you have to work. even as a waitress. I pay £1000 pounds just for her accommodation and bills. she needs to start paying her share. 2. Be responsible of shopping and make sure food (that I can eat) is present at home. Not only the food you like and eat. 3. Arrange holidays and pay your share in it. 4. take me out sometimes, as I took you out all through our marriage. 5. Buy me proper gifts in occasions, not a chocolate bar.Just like I bought you expensive gifts all through the marriage. 6. call my friends wives and engage with them and invite them out and visit them to create a social life to us, not just have your own friends. 7. call my parents and family, and be nice to them. They have always been nice to you even though they hated you. 8. stop sitting there and being pretty, and wait for me to make you happy. Thrive to make me happy as I always tried and was never enough for you. 9. I will have sex only when I want to, not keep demanding it every night and complain if I am not in the mood. 10. I will go out with my friends whenever I want to. I have not been created to entertain you, and I am not forced to only have my spare time with you. 11. you have to look the way I find you pretty, not the way you think you are pretty, with that short hair, baggy clothes, and flat shoes.

What I mean by this is having a day a week where u find another couple and swap wives and you let their man do urs and you do his...

My friend has been married for 20 years and has been having an affair with another woman, who is also married. Their affair has been going on for 5 years. He says he loves his wife, yet, he keeps a relationship with the other woman. His wife does not know about the affair and he said he doesn't want to leave his wife.

My husband and I always take a shower together on early mornings before work because neither of us wants to wake up hours earlier and wait for the water to get hot again. We live at his parents home and are anning to move out in 2 years once our other jobs are situated. His mother showers an hour before we do at 6am. She is finished in the bathroom by 7am and leaves for work. We always have showered together at 7am on our work days and leave by 8am. However, my husband's older sister who has made very unfortunate choices in her life is now loving with us again. She has an 8 month old daughter who doesn't walk, talk, or crawl yet. She has no job for almost a year and she is an alcoholic and goes clubbing every Saturday after she drops her daughter off for the night with her ex boyfriend who cheated on her when she was pregnant and after 3 times or more. Just recently, she told my husband that if we shower together again "she's telling dad" and said "she doesn't like it" and that were making it her business??? Thoughts and opinions?

My husband insists we don't need to see a marriage counselor; no one needs to know our business. But I can't take living in a loveless, sexless marriage anymore. We don't even sleep together anymore. I honestly don't think we've would've made it past 2 years if we didn't have children together. How do you when to call it quits? He helps around the house and is very involved in raising the kids. At some point within the last year, we've moved into the roommate zone and I can't take it anymore. He thinks everything is fine, but I would prefer when he's working on weekends than when he's home, at least then the kids get to go somewhere to do something fun.

I just read that you can legally divorce your spouse if they refuse to have sex with you... So... Then that leads me to the question... Wtf is the point of getting married?? If you're going to divorce me BECAUSE i dont have sex with you then what's the point??? I guess you could literally just divorce somebody for anything and apparently the guy has to pay child support.. Bam free money! Like wtf??

My husband and I are both 40 with a beautiful child together. I found in his call history a call between him and out fifteen year old neighbor. He said her and her friend called him messing around, but the call did last an hour at about 10 at night. Three months has past and I haven't seen any more calls between them and I'm still wondering if I should tell the girls parents or not?

Is meeting someone end of 2015, then not officially dating until 2016. Then getting engaged 2017, and having a big wedding in 2018 in Spain. Then becoming pregnant a few months after the wedding too fast? Also changing your last name literally a day after the wedding too much? My hubby and I have each other in our profile pics as well. Is this a sign of insecurity? Are we being too much?

I want marriage before kids but my partner who is 14 years older than me says it's a stipulation to the relationship. That marriage takes time and he doesn't have it. Seems to me like he simply doesn't desire that type of lifetime commitment to me. He only wants a child. Makes me feel like he sees me as a human incubator.

How is having a baby with someone any different than getting married? Why want kids with someone but not marriage? Why want kids before marriage?