My gf is excited to visit Paris and I am going to surprise her by proposing to her on the top of the Eiffel Tower. Not the very top obviously but the highest part where civilians are allowed to be. I'm stuck however as to how to do this. I had a few ideas in mind. Maybe hire a pilot to do skywriting with the proposal message and turn her around when he has finished. Or maybe spell the message with fireworks. Maybe make her choke with the ring inside her champagne glass and give her the Heimlich maneuver/CPR before she dies. (Just kidding lol) or maybe kiss her with passion as I put the ring on her finger without even popping the question. I need y'alls advice guys. How did you guys propose to your mujeres calientes? what would be a good way to propose and what should I not do? Thanks y'all. Howdy up and peace. Dammit

The date is tentative but I have told all my guests gift are mandatory. Whether big or small. It's a fairly small to medium gathering (about 75 people) so, I and my Fiancé want an abundance of gifts. Because we are financing the whole wedding ourselves. My future sister in law, of course, got into it with me calling me selfish and that I don't know her situation. I don't care what it is, we just want a gift. I told her that gift could be socks or a dining room set. We just want anything. She continued to yell expletives at me as I explained my side. I put my foot down and told all my guests that they will not be even let into our venue if they do not give us a gift. Many family members are angry at us. I don't understand what the issue is we're not asking for much. Ok I guess I shouldn't say gifts are mandatory, I might imply they are very much wanted. Also having a tentative date and wanting gifts means I'm a troll? Lol okay I guess

What would you think of them? Are they status conscious? Would you think he was bragging for volunteering that that's where he got the ring from?