And if it's longer, down her chest or back or whatever. I'm a woman myself and I think other women are so much more comforting to look at with their hair out and brushed down. That reminds me to do so as well instead of stuffing it in a ponytail or whatever. That's lovely Smartypants !

I've been divorced for 7+ years. I have full custody. He has visitation. He does not have insurances, car, or his own living space and hasn't for years. He rarely has a job and cannot keep a job. Last year he posted a suicide note on Facebook and was hospitalized after an attempt. He is also $24xxx behind in child support. He does not have drug or drinking problems. He has been arrested for domestic violence against me. He was mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive. If I die before our child is 18 what happens? Will he get custody? Will there at least be an investigation? Can my family fight/win custody. I live in Missouri and he lives in Illinois. He does visit our child bimonthly as per custody agreement. Please help! I'm having major surgery in a week and would love some peace of mind!!

I love both my brother and husband so much and would do anything for both of them. Which puts me in a very tricky situation, I've talked to my brother about wanting to do it but then when I excitedly told my husband he very firmly said no and that he isn't comfortable with it.

I m 9yrs divorced from a cheater. One of the major blows that came at the end of our marriage was that he had been cheating on me the whole time we were dating & married with an ex I knew nothing about At one point we tried to work it out but I insisted we move 2 hours away from her. Well, she moved 3 miles away in the same town! Affair continued. She was on her 2nd baby daddy at the time, in the process of leaving him for baby daddy #3 but still screwing my husband. I discovered this after my husband left his laptop open to emails btwn them. I was so shocked. I emailed her and asked, mother to mother, for her to consider the pain infidelity and divorce would cause in my child s life & my marriage. She was unphased. I guess she liked the power of destroying our marriage. Fast forward 9 yrs. I m remarried. A year ago we bought a new home, several miles away from her. I ve worked so hard to stay positive, shake off bitterness, and pay no mind to the fact that despite her marrying baby daddy #3 and my ex remarrying to another of his mistresses, they still cheat with each other and she s around my now 9 yr old all the time. I was doing great till my daughter announced over dinner this woman, who knows where I live thanks to my ex, has yet again moved closer to me. WAY closer. Same neighborhood, just down the street. All the anger and bitterness is back and I m furious! Why won t she go away and let me be happy?! They don t know I know yet. I cant afford to move. What do I do?

My mom and I had no choice. Now this is a new world and my daughter never wants to get married. She will date but never live with a man. She is okay with having a child as long as it does not come with a husband. Do you young and modern women think marriage is bad?

Me and my husband dated on and off 6 years. And then have been married for 6months. He has always been very emotionally and verbally abusive. Also physically abusive at times. I would like to divorce him the issue is. I just bought a car. My car got totaled recently. And he made me buy a 2018 car. He said his wife is going to drive a nice car. Only he wouldn't put his name on the loan. It's onky in my name. And the payment is $300 a month. Therefore I only make $13 an hour at my job. I have a son that is not his son. And there is no way I could afford a small apartment with my car payment. If I didn't have the car payment I could possibly scrape by. But barely. My husband makes lots of money. $36 an hour. However he has never gave me a dime. And of course we have separate accounts. The house we live in he purchased before we got married. And he makes me pay all utilities. Is there anything I can do ? Will I just be homeless if I file for divorce ?

I work 9-10 hour days and every single evening my wife wants to run to this store or that. (She works 8 hour days)or what project she wants to start next. I am expected to join or help. That is after I cook dinner, feed dogs, Unload/reload dishwasher and fold the clothes. she is supposed to help but she want to do all of it AFTER going out when I am even more tired (And heaven for bid I ask he to do any of it without my help. I feel rundown and ragged. I don't want to go out after a long day at work every evening. I want to sit on the couch and veg sometimes. My question is why do I feel so guilty every time I actually do it?

My best friend slept with my husband of 16 years and she got pregnant to him. Ultimately my husband and I divorced and her husband divorced her too. It wasn't a one time thing, they slept together multiple times. In fact, she lead her husband to believe the baby she was pregnant with was his child and he raised her for almost 2 years. My husband never told me until I found text messages exchanged between them. We're all divorced now but as revenge I slept with my ex-best friend's dad! Yes, I did. I figure if she wants to screw my husband, I'll screw her dad. I guess my question is... does that make me a bad person? At the time it was exactly what I wanted to do. However, thinking back I wonder if two wrongs really make it right? Lol.

I feel like this is a painful question where even asking the question throws me to utter shame. I love my spouse, I love my baby, I will not ever do anything without my spouse, but when 100 percent of the home partnership becomes: Take your child so I can nap, go get diapers, You were supposed to be home 30 minutes ago, where's Jonathan's vitamin, no can't you see he's not buckled in tight enough! "Where's my coffee? You were supposed to clean up my car last night. I have to do everything men are useless" No we can't do a date night, with what money your good looks? Why is our account balance so low? No there's no time for you to work a second job I need your help at night getting the kids ready for bed .... And then with very little intimacy, you find yourself flashing back to simpler days, and you find your sex drive is out of wack and .... it's just sad . I know I'm guilty for even posting this

We have been together two years, live together and have a dog. We moved fast. We are happy and everything. I'm 22 and he's 32. He just told me last night that he doesn't see the point of marriage in the legal way. He says that he thinks it's a way to hurt guys financially which I don't really see but I do understand that when you marry you take on the other persons debt and their last name. Which I agree. He brought up my parents cuz my mom didn't take my dad's last night when they got married because of debt my dad had from years before but are good now and still hasn't. But she doesn't recognize that As not being married. She is legally married but didn't take my dad's name which is fine. so it made it sound like he didn't want to get married and he said "what's wrong with just being with the person you love and being happy with each other" I understand that point too but every girl dreams of her wedding day, the perfect man, the perfect ring... I don't think I care about the legality of it though because I think marriage is really the celebration of your love and the recognition of continuing to build your life. Am I wrong to think this all? Is it wrong to tell him that I don't want to date him forever that I would like to become his wife one day and give each other rings as the symbol of our love. And have a beautiful ceremony. It doesn't need to be a legal marriage because that to me is not the reason to be married , but I want to celebrate our love one day.

We occasionally socialize with a couple who were married about a year ago. (The guys work together). The couple are married, we are not and we're all over 50. The wife is very attention seeking from any man around. I discovered she is sending inappropriate texts to my boyfriend. By that I mean "Rodney won't notice if we slip off for an hour or so. My boyfriend has not given her any encouragement, yet they do text. I don't want to make a scene or a big issue, but I never want to go around her again. Too much disrespect has been shown. Am I wrong?

I have a court order to attend divorce mediation before the divorce final hearing I am against the mediation from the beginning I would prefer the divorce final hearing but I don't have any choices but to attend mediation How does it work ? Do I have to agree to some parts of the divorce settlement and disagree with the others parts Am I allowed to disagree to all the divorce settlement or how many times should I disagree at the mediation? How do I reply if I disagree What are my rights at the mediation ? Does the court need to see a good reason for refusing the agreement And do I have to reply to all questions?

We have been together for 2 years. 2 months ago my fiancé went through my phone and found out that I am still talking to my ex. Reason for talking to my ex was regarding business property that we bought when we were together. My fiancé was always very insecure since we met that was the whole reason I never told her. Few days before i found out that my fiancé was pregnant. I invested everything I had in my startup and I was working for my father in our family business on the side. Since my parents never approved of her I stopped talking to my parents. I sold my house and invested that in business too. I was planning to buy a new house few months later so I decided to stay with my fiancé. Things were great until she found out. I left her house and started living close to her coz I wanted to be supportive and I love her. But whenever she would meet me she would argue about my ex. I tried my best to work with her but I can't no more. I told her I am moving away coz my dad needs help. Now she thinks I am going back to my ex but I am not. She fought with me again and blocked me. I really care about my fiancé but it's so heard make her understand that I was not in my ex. My ex loves stirring the pot. I called my ex to stay away from us but she immediately called my fiancé and made up a story. Now I just found out that I have been blocked. Don't know what to do? Any advice?

I have a court order to attend mediation which is usually the last step before divorce final hearing I don't want to make any kind of agreement during the mediation I would prefer the divorce final hearing So what should I do during the mediation? Do I mention from the beginning that I don't want any agreement What are my rights? How can I go through this without any agreements?