So I am a laid back hippy-type person and love to help people when possible, but one friend has taken it too far. She has a ton of issues in her life, fighting over custody of her kid with the baby daddy's parents, doesn't have a car, is currently in between jobs, is always crying about how she doesn't know how she will make rent. I give her rides when I can, if we are having fun for the night I buy, I take her grocery shopping since she has no wheels. The other day she asked me to take her to see her boyfriend in jail (he went to jail after two weeks into their relationship mind you, and no he is not the father of her kid) because I told her I would try to take her there a couple times a month.However I had business planned after work that day, so I told her I couldn't. She started yelling at me "some kind of friend YOU ARE! This is important to me, it's the last time I will see him before father's day, but guess you will never help!!!!" she hung up on me before I could respond, then sent me a ton of texts saying she would kill herself if she didn't see him. We got into a big text argument and haven't seen each other in a week. Now she's telling all of our mutual acquaintances and friends to pass a message to me that she is so sorry and wants to apologize. I really don't feel like working things out with her as I know how she cant take care of herself, but I also feel extremely guilty leaving a friend in such a poor mental state.

Or do they just bully that "weird" Kid with Autism?

The Iranian kid across the street keeps bullying me. A week ago he broke my bike and two days ago I was playing with my drone and he stomped it while laughing. I always chicken out of facing this bully. Btw my name is Donald

When a person is trying to find a reason to tell you off or is impulses with anger at you and is trying to find a reason to tell you like it is. When they find a reason front you and start yelling in your face like a drill sergeant, roll their head and wave their hands up in the air what do you do? Every one is looking at you as the person is making a scene in front of everybody?

One of my two closest friends in the whole world I have known for almost 6 years. When I was going through a really tough time in my life and all my other friends left she was one of the only ones to stick around. In most aspects of life she is generally received as kind and incredibly nice. I truly do love her but she consistently hurts me and makes me feel like garbage. I consistently make time for her and am always wanting to do things with and for her but she does not reciprocate. If anything is even the slightest inconvenience she will not do it for me, meanwhile I would quite literally walk over burning coals for her. I am always making changes to be a better friend for her but she rarely if ever does the same for me. She's also completely and totally oblivious to my emotions. I've trued explaining to her multiple times that she has hurt me and what she could possibly do to change it but she seems either unable or unwilling to change. Am I being too much or just imagining things? Any advice on what to do would be very appreciated.

I have a friend who broke up with his girlfriend and now my girlfriend wants us both to quit talking to him. I've known him for a few years and he was the one that introduced me to my gf. I'm not even sure what happened between them and I don't really want to know. My girlfriend has been friends with her for a lot longer and I get why she may feel like standing by her friend, but is it really necessary? I mean this guy has been really cool with the both of us and we only know one side of the story and don't want to pick a side.

so i'm a sophomore transitioning into a junior in high school. i'm the student manager for my school's varsity baseball team and i met some really cool people this year, especially the seniors on the team. however, i wish i would've gotten closer & became better friends with the seniors before they graduated. this school year went by really fast so before i knew it, the year came to an end so i never really got the chance to do that. they now have obviously graduated and on to bigger & better things and i know this sounds conceited but i don't want them to forget about that "sophomore acquaintance they had back in high school" or their "old baseball manager" because that's basically all i was to them and i really hope that the last time i saw them wasn't the last time i'll ever see them. i also never had the chance to have proper goodbye with any of them! but with it being, do y'all think i still have a chance to fix that? before they start college at least... since i wasn't extremely close to them, i can't just be like "hey, do you wanna hang out?"...or can i? i've also have never really "hung out" with anyone before as i've never really had any close friends, which is probably another reason i'm having trouble handling this situation (yes, i do have most of them on snapchat, instagram, twitter, etc. so fortunately, i can still communicate with them to a certain extent) (yes, i'm also a guy)

To me, i think this world is a total piece of trash so i dont blame people for committing suicide. Who would want to be born into this piece of trash world, everyone is in their own hell here, one way or another. Whats on the news everyday ? this person killed that person, this man killed his entire family, this girl was raped n murdered etc etc Yah FK this world. Nothing special about this life n world. You basically suffer until you die.

Sometimes when I'm talking to a friend, I'll mention another friend and talk about how sweet they are etc. At an appropriate time of course. But apparently this makes my friends feel like I don't like them, and like I don't want to hang out with them?! I don't understand why I can't give another person recognition without seeming like I don't like the friend I'm talking to them about. And yes, I compliment all my friends and make sure they know how amazing they are! I'm not leaving anyone out. But right when I talk about a nice encounter I had with another person, they suddenly think I like that person better. I want to try and understand why this is happening? I don't want to make my friends upset. But I also don't understand why they are getting upset over this. Especially when I also compliment them too.

I just want opinions because I'm not at the stage with him where I can ask him. We dated for about 2 months after he broke up with this girl and she was obsessed with him the entire time. She would text him and tell him that she would drop everything in her life to be with him. She volunteered to drop out of college, move anywhere he wanted and basically leave her family behind and even her friends if he would give her another chance. This girl religiously posted public facebook status's about being heartbroken to get his attention. One day she'd post that she hated him and that he was a narcissist. The next day she would post that she was happy they were together and that he was a part of her life and she wished the best for him. Then the next day she hated him again and made a post about wishing he would "burn to the ground" for breaking her heart. She did this daily for like 4 months. She would show up at the gym he works at in a skimpy bikini and hang by the pool. She tried to get information on him from his co-workers. She called him in the middle of the night and hung up. Then I noticed the other day that he added her on instagram. He only follows his friends and family and the people closest to him. Like 15 people or so and he's very private. I'm on there because we were dating. I don't understand why he'd add her back unless he wanted to get back together. Because he knows full and well that she is absolutely obsessed with getting him back and cant handle a friendship

I'm a 21 year old guy. There's a girl my age that works at the grocery store I shop at. She seems to like me pretty well, but I'm still kind of a stranger. She's really cute, and my age. She's a cashier. Sometimes she bags groceries and helps customers to their car. Should I buy enough stuff to warrant help to my car then ask her? How should I do it? In addition, I work for the same grocery chain just a different location. She doesn't know this. I never mentioned it. Also, she's new to the area. She might like me, I think it's a worth a shot.

all my friends and i swear all, have these amazing friend groups and they all have boyfriends and fun lives and do all this fun stuff. meanwhile i have like two friends ,no boyfriend and barely do anything exciting. what's wrong with me, its pretty upsetting

There is someone who likes me but the problem is the feeling is not mutual. I do not feel the same about this person. Is that a bad thing? Thanks

So whenever I'm with my friends once I leave I end up getting upset for no reason I go on Snapchat see them and I feel like I wasn't even there or if I don't ge tingit d to something I get sad for a while to I don't know if I'm depressed though I doubt it I'm happy most of the time is this normal are there way to cope

a friend of mine has a very bad habit of shunning me when we get into a fight. ..and it devastates me whenever he does this to me. ..I am sometimes even afraid to speak up for myself to him out of fear that he will shun me again for good. Why does this devastate me? Does this mean I care about him too much? It bothers me that it bothers me this much. How do I stop living in fear that he will shun me again? I dont want to care this much ..how do I stop it? will give best answer

I recently moved to a nice neighborhood. My next-door neighbor is a very nice lady. We clicked right from the beginning as I am also a woman, we are the same age, etc. We have been talking frequently, and invited each other home. The other day I wanted to see her. I noticed her backyard door was closed but not locked, so I went in and knocked on the kitchen window thinking she was there. It was then that she came into view, she was in another section of the backyard gardening. She had a hat, gloves and sandals, but otherwise she was naked. It was quite awkward for me, and I was flustered. She laughed it off and said "well, now you know I am a nudist" and explained she likes gardening, sunbathing and swimming in her backyard pool in the nude. I really appreciate her friendship, and would like to keep it. I also feel I would be imposing on her if I asked her to cover up while she is in her own home. Has anyone been in a situation like this? Any advice?

I am going through a lot lately. I had to leave my job. My life is turning upside down. My friend is worried and she feels bad. I was telling her what my brother and I talked about regarding the situation. Then she asked me what do my parents think??? I said that I did not tell them yet. Why did she ask me about my parents???

and your friend can see it with angle 45 degree .the height of the house is 11.3. How far apart is your friend standing from your spot?

If you're eating at a table at a restaurant/bar, and a person, who you met once before, taps your table as he comes by and smiles quickly, is that a good sign? I was at a restaurant/bar and a bartended I had a convo with day before did that to me. He obv enjoyed the convo right, I didn't tip him that much or anything lol.

How does it feel being old & middle aged?? I'm 17, and I don't want to grow up yet! Do you miss your youth?