Our son does work. He just started his new job but it's at a burger restaurant. I have discussed the situation with him already about how she should aim for higher than a job than at in and out burger and I told him he should have stayed at the phone job that was paying seven hundred every two weeks but I'm not going to kick him out because of it. My wife is basically forcing him to get a trade or go back to college ( he dropped out of college his first year because he said it wasn't for him. He was attending a community college. I knew college wasn't for him because he never wanted to study and I feel as though he still isn't going to want to study this time around. He admitted to only going the first time around to please my wife. I just feel as though it's a waste of money if he's not passionate about it but my wife places a huge emphasis on everyone having a degree. so far our twenty year old daughter is the only one to have completed college. My wife is now telling me he cannot stay here working at that job and she is even trying to get his paperwork together to go back to school. Any advice? I'm at a loss. I'm trying not to upset my wife too much more as she is still upset about being punched by her niece two weeks ago.. apparently the girl was controlling to my wife and assaulted her..

Last night my fiancé told me he has been cheating on me with my cousin for the past 2 months! We are supposed to be getting married tomorrow and I feel I should leave him. But he would make really cute kids and has enough money to support me so I don't have to work.

We loved hard, we fought hard. 4 years we were together. We broke up numerous times and always worked it out. We ended in a huge fight, that he caused. However, my reaction was boarding a plane and flying home while he was a sleep and we weren't on vacation. It had become toxic. I loved him, but we hated each other. I ended it. After several months apart, I reached out. We went back and forth and exchanged I love you's and I miss you's. Then one day, I messaged him back and never heard from him again. A month later messaged him again, then waited another month and again. After 6 months of thinking death would have been better then how I felt, I decided to try to move on. It's been a year. I still think of him and miss him everyday. We had so many good times. I finally reached out again. Not expecting anything, just said because I wanted him to know that I still cared and I didn't hate him and that I doing good and I hope he is too. He responded, he said he was doing well, that he no longer hated me for what happened. He said there were so many good times actually and then told me to tell my family hello and do good things. I didn't respond. I can't figure out if his response was just a nice one? Or him responding finally was opening a door?

I'm a housewife been married for a year now it was an arranged marriage. I was happy at first but now I regret my husband keep on talking to girls I wanted to leave him but my parents did not let me cause I'm pregnant. He take care of me very much but I feel I like I'm been cheated I'm sincere with him. we already had fight over this like 2 to 3 time even both parents set together figure things out and my husband father promised me that he'll never do that again. Even he himself make a promise of his nearly born baby. Just because I was leaving him . For 3 4 month he did not talk to girls but again he is doing it again I'm getting depressed day by day . I just cant leave him even if I love him or not. Just because I'm pregnant and I cant just give up my baby . I dont what should I do

That's what my parents have told me. Anyone who makes a mistake and has different beliefs, age group, background, etc. is a bad person while anyone who completely obeys orders and has the same beliefs, especially those of my parents, is a good person, along with age group and background, as to why they chose my husband for me. How does one define the perfect person for a marriage?

My parents wanted me to marry my husband in my twenties because of that and he is very controlling, overprotective, and insecure. We're both 36 and a person's age is always important for marriage and I can't leave him because most of the perfect quality people available are always going to be in their twenties since there are plenty of them compared to their thirties. Why is that? Is marrying in your twenties overall a good idea just because by the time you reach your thirties there will not be much perfect quality people left?

My husband and I are both 36 and I cannot leave him and my sons because of that. He and my parents, who married me off to him, along with his, think all people in our age group are either married with children or divorced with or without children and that it will be harder for us to find available good people within our age group. The only available ones in our age group are the bad and picky, good people who will hate us and want us to be perfect, which my husband and I have to stay together. None of us can date and marry anyone who is too old or too young even though they are more available than people in our age group. Is a person's age always more important for a relationship just to avoid shame? @Bertsta-It's no wonder I can't get a divorce from my husband because of that. Plus, we married in our twenties. And if anyone does not want what me and my husband want, they're also bad. @Janet-And most of those that have never married and/or have had children are in their twenties as to why I have to stay with my husband. @Janet-Divorced people are not allowed in our families. Even me and my husband can't get a divorce which means I'm stuck with him for the rest of my life because we're worried that there are not enough perfect quality people in our age group. That means no talking to or working with anyone too old or too young because peole in our age group won't like it.

It seems my husband wants sex way more than me. I ve been giving it to him at least twice a week (at the least) and most of the time I do it just to make him happy.

My husband was being secretive, and i found out he was looking at porn. I know looking at it from time to time may be normal but he hides it from me. We have not been intimate and i realize this may be why is looking at it? He is bipolar. So i dont want to set off an argument. How can i approach it without it leading to an argument. Is looking at it normal?

My husband and my ex are always fighting. My exes cousin touched me inappropriately in front of my son while he was sleeping. I told my husband and he doesn't want my exes cousin around me or our son. My ex needed help to get some of his things from our place and brought his cousin after my husband told him not to bring him and he did anyway cause that is the only person he has. My ex takes care of our son although he isn't his. We have a daughter together, my ex and I and he is a great father. When my ex tries to hit on me or try to make moves on me I tell my husband and he gets angry. He doesn't want our son around him when he does things like that. My husband wanted to call the cops on him because my ex had our son taking him to park. my husband is just overall upset because he brought his cousin to our house to help my ex move things out while he was at work. He has never met or spoken to my exes cousin and yet he hates him so much. Is my husband overreacting. Also my ex took care of his son since he was born because my husband was not around at that time. He didn't talk to me at all while I was ending my pregnancy.

So my husband has 2 kids with his ex wife and we are all civil and get along. We were thinking about carrying the kids to swim. All 4 of us including her husband. I am fine with this. Does this sound weird?

My BF says she is taking it hard. What would be the good / appropriate words of encouragement to her.

I find the idea of an open marriage to be a lot more Freeing and liberating. Unfortunately now that I'm married I realized that I'm just not meant to be with one man my entire life. I have always been open to new things sexually with my husband so I don't understand why he is turned off by the idea of opening our marriage. An open marriage will benefit both of us in my Opinion. I don't understand why any man wouldn't agree to an open marriage?...

My husb. lost a job a few months ago and have been working a part time job until he can find something else. He has been actively looking for something and have had offers that I want to say we are just waiting for a answer. Although we really can't afford it and we are struggling right now and could possibly lose everything my husband doesn't want me to work because he wants me home with our children because of his fear of daycares. I don't agree with it and honestly I'm so use to working and taking care of whatever I know needs to be taken care of. Since being home it seems like my mind is just off lately. I will see when we have bills due and I'll either stash them away and forget to mention it or I won't mention it because I know my husband is already stressed about not having money to take care of everything and i really hate to see him like that so I'll just wait to say something and eventually forget. This has become such a horrible issue of mines and after it happening today and seeing something being disconnected I have finally stepped back and realized that I'm a burden on my husband by not telling him these things. I'm really thinking maybe I should leave him because I don't feel like a life partner right now. I feel like I'm just standing back and watching us fail.

He does not want me to leave him because of that and we're both 36 as to why my parents wanted me to marry him. Are all the good people in our age group going to be like this as to what my husband thinks? @Gypsyfish-He wanted to have children but I didn't even though I have two twin boys with him already. @Gypsyfish-He forced me into having children because he was worried about the biological clock. @choko_canyon-He always thinks they are because he does not want me to leave him and my kids. He also accuses me of adultery if I ever talk to another person like that as well. My husband thinks I will never meet anyone as good as he is. @Consider-It's because all these good people are insecure and I always have to make them feel secure while all confident people are bad because they don't ask for permission.

I don't want womenz diseases or them aborting my babies and I hate condoms and only like sleeping with womenz i m married to and womenz hate me so yeah.

I am 29 years old single guy in India.

I am married however I do not want to be with her but she always threatens to take my kids away from me if I leave. HELP! MIAMI, FLORIDA. What can I do? Can she do that? PLEASE HELP ME!

Okay so I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. I have issues with anxiety and it's at an all time high when I drink. Every time I drink I constantly worry that I have cheated on my girlfriend. So this past weekend I went to my cousins birthday party with my girlfriend. We went to the party and everyone was drinking. Everything was great, and we were hanging out with this one other guy name Sam. So Sam was very cool and I even told my girlfriend that I really like him. Anyways at the end of the night I went to say bye to Sam. I now keep thinking what if I kissed Sam and can't remember. I'm so worried and I don't even know what to do. I don't know if he's gay and idk if I should even ask him. I found him on fb and thought about messaging him and asking but not sure if that's weird. Any advice would be helpful.

valuable spouse and husband later?Even if she is not so young?

Okay so my besfriend and her son is oit of city for summer. And his cheating *** husband who is also my brother in law is livinf with his mistress whom i hate, because she knows aboit his family, she was working woth us and then because of she is golddigger she starying having affair with this bastard. Im very involved in this situation so dont advice me to stay awah or donf do anything because ive made my mind already. So i have the keys for the house they live together, and most of the evening they are out of house. I need some pranks or somw evol schemes for them so give any ideas 😂

My EX contacted me. We have a child together I never meet him. I had a DNA done and pay my child support every month. My wife doesn't want me to have anything to do with the child because I did have the child with my mistress who turned our lives into a living hell when she found out she was pregnant. Now the child is 2 she wrote me a letter. She wants help getting a vehicle. I pay 220 a month in support yes I can give her car but what for she should be better at managing her money then to thinking I am going to help just because I got her pregnant by a mistake! I am thinking I should help so the child don't think so bad of me as he gets older. I know this will cause problems with my wife. What do you people think? She reached out to me and my wife and my wife basically said no way! That she is waiting for the lawyer to draw up papers for me to sign over my parental rights to her. Hopefully this will be the last I hear from her or about the child after we do the court Proceedings.

A lot females will put on a front on being childless and in some cases single. Sometimes when the truth comes out, some will even try to convince the man that they'll give up their kids just to be with him.

I went to the bank my husband told me to get money from the savings I remember telling the teller that I want money from the savings me thinking she did her job she got it out of the checking? Has it happened to anyone ? My husband verbal abuses me when he drinks so he yelled at me for this saying they don't make a mistake you do I said yes because I didn't check the receipt

And especially ones they're romantically involved with or wedded to? It kind of makes me more cautious about who I will consider marrying. I don't want to end up with a man who changes his tune and starts being a tyrant, scaring me and terrorizing me whether mentally, emotionally, physically or all the above. I've been around a man like that before and I was in constant fear and stuff.