So basically I broke up with my Ex last May and didn't allow him to come back. He called me last September and I didn't answer & he hasn't contacted me since. Long story short. I sense an attitude from him. I noticed that now he's trying to act hard and it's like why is he mad? He's the one who disrespected me so I don't understand and I'm trying to move on with my life. I'd admit sometimes I thought about reach out but then I'm like nah. Forget that. He did way too many things.

Am not overweight and i try to take good care of myself, so why can't i get a date? It's not like am going after the most attractive girl in the room, so why? Any ideas? I've never been on a date or kissed a girl ever in my life. Any ideas why am always turned down?

A lot of them are willing to say hi, but I want more then just a hi and I know I'll never get it, you always sort of know they won't allow you to get personal with them

I saw him starring at me from across the room and I even caught him looking at me. It was uncomfortable from his side. I once smiled and he got confused and uncomfortable. But then other times he smiled and joked. I don't understand why he feels awkward. We do chat around and talk about deep issues but I don't know he feels awkward sometimes. At time he would just stare at me for a minute and now I just let him stare at me instead catching him. I tried my best to break the awkwardness but I guess it's up to him now. I thought he really liked me but it's been a while now. Do you guys think he likes me?

Is she secretly trying to find ways to kill herself or some **** like that

What would you do and say to a partner that won't stop accusing you no matter how many times you proved your innocence? What if they called you names and said horrible things to you and said it's because they believe you're a cheater but also apologises and says they won't say those things again, yet the cycle continues. If they get angry at you for saying you're going to the store and bombard you with angry messages accusing you, no matter how many times you explain you're just at the store? If you post things online they have a problem with it and get mad at you because they think you post things to make them look bad? If all of your pictures/videos posted to social media they're trying to find someone in the background to accuse you of being with? If they suddenly hangup on you because they think they heard sexual sounds in the background when there weren't any? If they show up unannounced at your house and begin to search your home looking for someone they think might be hiding? If every time you try to express your feelings they twist it so that they're the one hurting and you're the bad person and block you on social media, don't pickup their phone, ignore all your calls/messages then ask why you didn't reach out to them during their silence? What if when you say you can't be in the relationship anymore they say they will kill themself or die alone and cant be without you because they love you and can change? Because this is what I'm currently dealing with

My friend at work has a girlfriend who started last week and I've been assigned to train her. Me and her talk, and playful tease each other. I have got her looking at me at times then turning away quickly. She is the talkative with other people so she just might be friendly At lunch she mentioned to my friend that she was talking with a guy at work. My boy got jealous then asked about the guy.She said she was bored and the dudes ugly. He said yeah but that's ok because I'm his boy. She then made a joke that that's how he got her. Today before leaving we were talking and she was for her boyfriend and she wrote on a paper "hey you're great, okay bye" with a heart emoji before leaving. I'm asking as a friend.

Sooo I've been thinking about this for a good minute. The reason I want to break up with my boyfriend is because while in the process of moving. He hasn't done a darn thing. Hasn't found/looked for a job in the city we are moving too. Not looked for apartments or houses. He keeps saying I'm picky but I feel like thats just an excuse. We are due to move soon. We can live in a shed at this point. Its frustrating. At home, it kinda just feels like we are roommates and hes the roommate that never picks up after himself but yet points out my flaws. What sucks is that I have always offered to help pay bills around the house but he always injects that he doesn't want me to be left broke. I pay a really high monthly bill for my car as I was a first time buyer. I plan to soon refinance and have extra money. However, he's always left broke and complains horridly about it. I can help him with bills but he refuses. Now his job has cut his hours, but he just spends those days playing video games instead of helping me with his move. I wanted to speak to him about breaking up but what sucks is that my birthday is around the corner and hes commented about buying my gift. Now I just feel guilty. How can I break up with him when hes being all nice to me?

I've been talking to this guy for about 3 months now I'm going on 21 and he just turned 36 . He does make me happy and I do enjoy our conversations. We don't live in the same state so we only text , but he often bring up questions towards marriage & kids . But he never directs the questions towards me . I just feel like he's tryna figure me out to see if he wants to make the next move . My worse fear is if we do eventually get serious he's gonna start bugging me about babies & marriage . Because he's getting old and he doesn't have much time to reproduce and I could tell that's something that he's very passionate about from our conversations but however I'm not ready for kids I've always said I wanted to have kids around 27 or 28 because I want to enjoy life and I don't wanna have to change my life plans and what I want around for somebody rush and have kids and we don't work out in the end . But the other part of me truly cares for him and want to give it a shot , I just don't want to disappoint him or myself . I'm confused I need answers.

I have been trying to reach my bf for two days and today i texted him that i was coming over to see if he was alright and he got mad and said "I'm not at home" then started saying a bunch of other stuff am i wrong ? I'm we hung out last week and everything's was fine

A guy said how come you compliment others and never on me. Is this a way of flirting ?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. He is 29 and I am 23. When we first started dating, I overlooked all of the obvious signs of alcoholism. The constant word slurring, the alcoholic scent, passing out right when he gets home...... Making excuses in my head for all of them. He was always SO incredibly kind & amazing to me that I fell in love... Love definitely makes you blind. As we started getting more serious and spending more & more time together, around 7 months in, I started finally really understanding the signs, but I felt uncomfortable to confront him. I just couldn't believe that he actually could be, given his career & how put together he is. He is a medical school graduate and currently in residency becoming a surgeon. Wouldn't he know better!? (No) I finally confronted him very seriously 1 year in when I was finally able to comfirm that he is a highly functioning alcoholic. He totally brushed it off & assured me that he was not. He said life has been so hard and that it was just a phase. He said residency absolutely drains him and he has so many bad things happen to him the past few years that is damaged, his sister is also sick.... etc. He convince me that he is just trying to get over these things so the drinks are just to unwind. And that he will get it under control. I believed him. I gave him time. After further investigation, I found out that its not recent. It had been going on at least a year before me too. That means at least 3 years of almost daily drinking. Now, over the past 6 months I have been as active as I can. I constantly tell him either stop/get help or im gone. Each time he swears to me he is trying. He is getting better, he, promises he will stop... But he doesn't. He just becomes even better at hiding it. Just when I believe he has stopped, I find it hidden in his trunk, After 2 years with this man in my life. Today, I am finally done. It pains me to say this, but I have reached my last straw. He treats me like an absolute princess... Flowers, sweet cards, gives me affection.... I love him & it sucks, but I am tried of being lied to & manipulated. I do not deserve to be in a relationship with an alcoholic. I have been his angel this whole time, but I can not keep being a babysitter. I am deeply concerned for his mental health. He puts on a fake front for me that everything is fine, but it is not. He does not have a relationship with his parents and while he has some good friends they are all so busy in their lives- they are not there for him. The only person he REALLY has is me. I am so scared if I leave him that he will seriously die. I do not know what to do. I have hope that we can get past this, but maybe I am in denial. Because of his profession it is SO hard for him to get help. He could 100% lose his medical license. Due to this, I really do not think he will get help. What do i do?! Please help!

I m a 20 year old woman from California and I m a virgin. I'm not exactly bad looking, I just usually needed to be home and my friends are not the partying type. I am also a bit shy, but I wanna get out there and experience new things and most importantly lose my V-card! Tips on how to make guys interested and stay safe are appreciated.

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I know some people werent meant to be but I was so sure that she was the one for a while. It was my first relationship and im 22 and my friends have better skills at dating then me. Most people i know have been dating their partners for a year or more and I can only do 6 months and they always seem so happy. Me and my ex always talked about marriage and kids so idk why she broke up with me 3 months ago which im kind of over it but im left with guesses as to the real reason to why she might have.

I was sexting with another girl i don't know why i did it i feel so bad what should i do?

So I have been talking to this girl for about a month and a half non stop. After a few days of talking, we hooked up. We had been doing that for about 2 weeks. We made our relationship exclusive after that and have been dating since. We see each other pretty much everyday because we live in the same apartment complex. I haven't had the feelings I have for her in a very very long time (if ever this strongly). I know that I love her, but I am worried that I would look like an idiot if I told her. (I am also a female btw if that means anything at all). I know that she has really strong feelings for me as well, and I also know that she isn't the first to do anything, so she could easily be waiting on me to say it first. I've been in love twice before, so I know that I am.

I post things like music, cute pets, motivational quotes, funny memes, and sometimes my own thoughts about topics. The problem is my boyfriend almost always thinks what I post is about him and I'm being mean and bashing him when it's not true. Today I shared a post talking about how women are judged and criticized for everything they do or how they look so just do what you want and be happy. Seconds later my boyfriend started posting on his own Facebook about disloyalty and how he can't trust hoes. This confused me and when I asked him about it he accused me of cheating on him because the post said "do whatever you want" so in his mind it meant cheating on him. When I explained to him what the post actually meant he said he was hurt and I was mean to him and to leave him alone.This confused me because he thought I was somehow saying do what you want with other guys through this Facebook post. This wasn't the first time he's been mad at me over a post like that either. Every time I share a post he thinks it means I'm cheating on him with another guy. I tried to talk to him about it but he just calls me a lying cheating hoe and tells me to leave him alone and stop hurting him and to go back to the guy I'm with, there isn't another guy but my boyfriend is convinced there is. He is the same with Instagram too, anything I post he says I was with a guy when taking that picture/video and lying about being alone. I don't know what to do about his reactions to things I post.

I have been dating this guy for almost four months but I make it a habit to go in for std test before I get in a relationship and after , I went in when we first started dating and I was clean, but when I went in last week they told me I had chlamydia, before him I hadn't been sexually active for months and he's the only guy I've been with this year. Is he cheating on me ? How do I let him know to take the medication I was given for him without him assuming I cheated ?

A girl I've been talking to for a bit said this to me today. Not sure what to say to this

My imaginary boyfriend appears on my bed and kisses my hips after I orgasm. Then he holds me on his chest tightly. I named him Damien. He has long eyelashes and fair skin. He has full lips which he uses to kiss me. He has chestnut colored hair. We wear rings because we belong to each other. A lot of times, he also whispers in my ear things like I'm his and he would not do anything unless I am ready.

When you're 60 widowed and live alone you are trying to develop a relationship before time runs out.. I've forgotten how relationships form. How? I think sex, helped form my first. But I am 60 now! male

We have seen each other a lot during that time. We've said we love each other and that this relationship is forever. We are both over 40 and both have teenage daughters. We've told them that this is serious. Now, he's acting weird and I'm getting a bad vibe. I'm a really open person and don't like loose ends. I asked him if we're ok and he said yes. He's just acting weird saying he wants to "walk before he runs". Dude came in running! I'm confused and upset. What do you guys think?

i'll tell her "hey girl i know youre an obama loving anti-gun america hating queer, but id still slide it in your rear". how about that?

I have been living with my of seince Feb. We got back togeather in Jan, but we have dated in the past for 4-5 years,the problem is I live in the middle of no where in Texas and no matter how I try im just not happy here I miss Klamath falls OR, I want to go back, I want to find a way to get on housing, he s told me to just go back but the way he says it makes me feel like it s a bad idea maybe that s just him, I don t plan on ending things with him but I dought he d believe me and I don t blame him but I miss my home, I want to go back I m just confused and don t know what to do because I love him, but I know deep down I m just sad and am pretending to be happy even though I m not, I have no clue what to do.

Im 39 year old male and still a virgin by choice (waiting for someone that I care about and love) will be 40 in a year. I have never been married and obviously have no kids. Id like to get married someday most women my age I know personally have kids and divorced. Im also young looking for my age told I look like im 24. Im going back to school so I dont see myself getting married till im 45 or 46. I meet alot of girls and since I look so young I usually talk to alot that are 20 on and and that I go to school with. I dont want to lie to them about my age but dont want to reveal my age right off the bat because that get all these misconceptions me being so much older. I guess my questions are how do I get to know someone without having to reveal my age right off the bat what to give me a chance Im more at a 20 year age meaning im starting over lost my job and financially set where that I can go to school.

Just wondering on the average. We're in our late 20s and this is my second relationship after a marriage split. Been dating for 6 months. Also, I have 2 kids already.

A girl opens the door for her female friend, and says "Ladies first, broads second". What does that mean?

There's a guy that started liking my Instagram pics. I post a lot of drawings and things and he always likes them. A few days ago he added me on Facebook and liked a bunch of my posts. I realized it the next morning and went to his Instagram and liked a few of his, then not long after he goes to mine and likes a bunch on there lol. Never has tried to talk to me tho, and I'd like to. We live in the same town , both single, and he's really good looking. I'm a shy person

We are sort of friends. We both respect each other. We discuss many things, dreams, lifestyle and what kind of life partners we will end up marrying. He said he was at the dinner and someone said something and it reminded him of me. He mentioned that to me, I was surprised that he mentioned, he could had just kept to himself. It shows he listens and remember to what I say. I'm not sure if he take me as a friend or something more?

I met a guy on line. We went out twice. At the end of second date, he kissed me on the cheek and asking for another date. We agreed to meet on Next Friday. On Tuesday I texted him on plans. No response for two days. I am almost certain he ghosted and decided to move on. I got a text from him last night after my bed time. He said he had to go to a work function Friday night and he apologized for not getting back to me. I do not know what to think about this? He cancelled the date at last minute without rescheduling. Why not he simply say he is no longer interested? Or just disappeared so I move on? The next day, I sent him a text to thank him for letting me know. Of course he is not going to reply to it for a couple days. Can you please help me figure this out? There is strong mutual attraction. But it is going to die if do not meet each other soon.

One of my best friend has moved in with her bf. they have been together for 3 yrs. she tells me her bf has no plans on marrying her. But then why will he move with her if no plans on marrying? Then she also planning to buy a house with him in 2 years. Is this a red flag? I am friends with her bf, so I asked him. He said I have no plans proposing her anytime near future but I will be able to spend more time with her and he was excited that he will be saving money. I sense red flag, maybe he isn't sure about her. My thing is why will you agree to buy a house in the future but no plans on marriage.

I friended someone on Facebook never met in real life but we have alot in common we have the same favorite tv show, both love animals, everything I dont like in other girls she has none of those qualities she doesnt smoke drink do drugs have any tattoos cares about others she has like all the qualities that I look for in someone that I would like to get to know. I realize she may be different when we met but is it weird that I really like her?

I have been trying to reach my bf for two days and today i texted him that i was coming over to see if he was alright and he got mad and said "I'm not at home" then started saying a bunch of other stuff am i wrong ?

I've only ever seen paperwork that says married or single...

What do you think a good curfew should be on weekdays and weekends? And should I let her go out with friends who I don't know?

That's what my boyfriend did to me. When we started talking he stopped it to talk to someone else. After a while we ended up in a relationship a month in he broke up with me again to go back and talk to the same girl. After a month or 2 we got back together but I found out he cheated on me three times with the same girl and is still saying he misses her and loves her. How can someone do that? He told me that I complete him and that I was his best friend. He shows me off on social media. Said we were a perfect match. Why would he stop talking to her twice to get back into a relationship with me just to cheat on me with her.

I am a sophomore in college and for the last 2 weeks a guy who goes to my university has been texting me back and fourth. He is currently out of state at home for the summer and I am still on campus taking summer classes. When this guy first started texting me, I thought maybe he just wanted to be friends, but has made it obvious he wants a relationship with me. First of all, I really don t feel the same about him as he feels about me. I don t feel that he is my type and I don t want to go out with him. Second, I really am just not in a place in my life right now where I want to be dating anyone. As I mentioned before, I am a college student and have always seen school as a priority and would prefer to wait til after I graduate and have a career going before I commit to a relationship. Yeah many people date while they re in college and make it work, however everyone s different. For some dating in college works, while others are better off waiting. For me personally I know I will have a lot going on this coming school year (classes, officer in a club, internship searching, among many things I will be doing) I would just rather be able to pour my energy into school and building a successful future for myself and to me, its easier to do that when I m not tied down to a guy. Anyways, what should I say to him to let him know I am not interested? I obviously do not want to upset him as much as possible, but know he will be disappointed if he really wanted a relationship.

My partner and I split up. We were great friends and we clicked like we had known each other all our lives, but when we got married he started getting suspicious, controlling and had trust issues. We split up quite bad through text however I have treated him with respect and honor. I left it on a good note even though he did the worse. However we text everyday and talk like nothing has happened. He did say this place isnt the same without me. I know it s not healthy to talk everyday but he wants to do it and I secretly like it. Do you think that there could ever be a reconsilation? Or am I reading too much into it

i've been dating her son for so many years more than 10 years already. we've been dating since we've been in middle school. she used to be nice to me but then one day she just changed her whole mood towards me. people would ask her if i'm her daughter in law and she'll say "no she is not, she's just his girlfriend" but for her other sons girlfriend she'll consider her a daughter in law. mind you we are engaged. and the other one is mean to me as well

I have been with my gf for one month before she went on a trip for 2 months. We are doing the long distance thing. She brought up going to the bars. How she was ok with having guys buy her drinks, dancing, etc. I felt extremely uncomfortable with this. When Im in a relationship I dont go to bars cause those places only cause headaches in a relationship. I dont know how to talk with her about this stuff and set boundaries since we are still new. This is constantly in the back of my mind.

An old friend of mine talked sh*t about her boyfriend at the time, when they broke up she started threatening him, she talked sh*t behind my back mostly how she picked on me (she told me), when I saw the guy I like at a restaurant we were both at, she threatened to slap him with an object talked sh*t about him telling me I can do better. She never met him and never gave him a chance. She said she has her reasons to talk sh*t about him and claimed she loves me and cares about me. I'm not convinced she loves or cares about me. If a friend did this to you would you trust them? Would you be convinced they love and care about you?

My friend at work has a girlfriend who started last week and I've been assigned to train her. Me and her talk, and playful tease each other. She is the talkative with other people so she just might be friendly At lunch she mentioned to my friend that she was talking with a guy at work. My boy got jealous then asked about the guy.She said she was bored and the dudes ugly. He said yeah but that's ok because I'm his boy. She then made a joke that that's how he got her. Today before leaving we were talking and she was for her boyfriend and she wrote on a paper "hey you're great, okay bye" with a heart emoji before leaving. I'm asking as a friend.

Im 19 female, i masturbate at times but i find it not to be enough. I just want a sex partner, what should i do?

My friend (Let's call him M.) has feelings for me and wants to be in a committed relationship. I told him that I'm not ready. I care about him a lot and enjoy being around him, but I don't want to commit to a relationship right now. I just finished college, I lost most of my hearing and my dad passed away a few years ago. I want time to straighten my life out and be a single adult. He wants to hang out a lot and go on dates, and I agreed. He is extremely clingy and in love, for a while he tried to move in. I feel constant guilt that I can't reciprocate, but I've been completely up front about it. He is angry that I still talk to someone as a friend that I used to casually date. M went through my phone and messages, sent this guy a nasty message from me and demanded that I block him and never speak to him again, if I wanted to keep M in my life. I did it because I felt guilty, scared and weak. I agreed to it. Now I feel stuck and confused. I want to be friends with both but I don't have the courage to speak up. What do I do? People in my family and friends are really upset that he did this and that I allowed it to happen. Was he right to do it?

This girl and I both started working together and I can't tell if she's flirting or being friendly. She asks me alot of random questions and we get into really tangent topics (she randomly asked what I usually eat for breakfast and always asks what my plans are after work/weekends). Sometimes we randomly hold eye contact for a few seconds, sometimes smiling and sometimes not. When we touch hands by accident she sometimes holds it there and doesn't move away right away/say excuse me. She does the same thing with her feet if we're sitting close. She teases me about my age (i'm 4 years older than her but she calls me old). She mentioned having a boyfriend once, which is why i'm unsure. She's 18 and i'm 22. Thanks for the input/advice! The complex we work at has multiple parking lots and today she randomly decided to park in the parking lot I usually park at. I forgot to mention that.