I'm married. My wife caught me talking to another woman at night and she recorded the conversation. I was venting to the lady about my wife not working..... Waa I wrong?

I am thinking about buying piggy bank for our vacation funds. I am thinking about the rule as If me or my husband say something to hurt each other's feeling put in $5 each time. Use it towards vacation. I can not think of better idea. What do you think?

I first noticed it a few years back and confronted him and he said he was only curious but started leaving his phone locked. Now a few years later he has a brand new phone that he hasn't set up the lock and fingerprint recognition on yet and yep, he has downloaded the app again on his new phone. Also once when he was on his phone browsing online I walked up behind him on the couch and looked over his shoulder and there was a pic of a nude man laying on the bed. He hurried up and put his phone down when he realized I was behind him. I'm not sure what to do. When I ask him if he is gay he swears he isn't. But in addition to the app I have also found messages that he has sent to other men. NOW I love my husband and if I didn't I would walk away. But I truly want us to stay together and don't want to go down without a fight. He swears he is not gay and only curious. Can we save this? I want to confront him again but he has been depressed before (over something non related) and I'm not trying to push him to the edge. I just need answers that I haven't been able to get because he is in denial. I have honestly always felt something was off. Months without sex are no concern to him and lack of affection unless we are in public. He also lacks interest in what's going on with me but always expects me to be interested in what's going on with him.

It can be risky to get involved and marry a divorcee female. She might have collected alimony from her previous marriage(s) and might do the same to the next man. Would you ever risk marrying a divorcee?

Hooking of course refers to the use of sexual activity for the acquisition of material things, mostly $$$$, though it can also be status. I mean to imply, in my questianne, that wives, in the process of becoming such, have practiced hooking, and continue to hook as the marriage goes along.

We were exposed for having an affair at work. Her husband called us out in front of everyone then eventually left her. We decided to still see each other because we are perfectly sexually compatible. One of our coworker was so disgusted that be threw trash at us. He got suspended. She is divorced now. Why would this still be a problem? We love sex. Her ex husband neglected her sexual needs which is why their marriage failed. Every now and then we keep getting others ar work trying to cause trouble.

I've been staying with my parents for the last two days because my a/c went out at my house and I have two little ones, while I've been here I've noticed that my parents haven't been speaking to each other and when they do it's only an argument or just a yes or no question. It seems to me like my dad isn't interested any more with my mom and it bothers me because I'd hate to see them separate. Any little thing she does is a problem and the main reason they're not speaking to each other is because he says my mom snores too loud and he can't sleep at night, he says she should get it checked out or sleep in another room. He's ended sleeping in another room. He told me that he's gathered his things to make the other room he's been sleeping in his (which I thought was a little too far being that they're married). Anyways I'm 26 years old and I'm not sure if I should say something or not about their marriage or at least ask them what's going on between them or just give them tough love and tell them what's really on my mind and remind them why they got married to begin with. Or should I just mind my business?

This guy I've been seeing is about 10 years older than me. I'm 23. He has two very young daughters he's been divorce for almost two years. He was married for 6 years. He married his wife because 6 months into their relationship she was pregnant. He said he's went on many many dates after his divorce but he's looking for a good woman that can eventually be a role model to his young daughters. Now whenever I bring up the fact that he's divorce to friendships... everyone's like "omg no no, he's not ready for commitment" or "he's fooling you, he's not going to commit" I'm not looking to be married to the guy or anything like that but I'm also not going to spend my time with someone if it's actually true he'll just eventually leave me. Why is it in today's society when a woman's recently divorce most ppl are convincing her to start dating again but when it's a man.. it's like he has to be a "player" for many years.. Also I'm aware he has young kids. Doesn't bother nor scare me. I've matured faster than most ppl my age due to lots of good old fashion "life trauma". Helped raised my younger siblings etc..

My family doesnt understand. Dont want a marriage contract.

What do you do if you are sooo beyond bitter you married someone..you are stuck, they will NOT go to a marriage counselor..I asked this ? before, answer was, cheat...at least you can get some kind of enjoyment....I don't want to resort to that..but...now thinking of it..sad to get to this age/time in your life to get to this..What would you do, no job, no family...I set up to see a counselor for just myself...I am not putting to much into this, guess its because I am so tired of all that is involved...Thank you for any help...

I'm 23 he is 24. Known each other 6 years been dating for 2 years. I'm close with his family and friends. He loves me I love him. He is Ready to be a father. He is not rushing it. I'm not either. Its just that he always told me since young teenagers want to marry me. He proposed without a ring 4 months ago. Now he isn't ready for marriage. He said right now is not a good time. We both are currently struggling financially. We still have things to work on so I don't understand why he would want a baby. I do have a 4 year old from a previous relationship please don't judge. And he has been here for my baby since he was 1. Me and child father separated when I was pregnant due to some really dangerous causes. Sometimes I feel my bf gets jealous because he always Wanted a kid with me. Sorry guys I know we are young. We are just really in love. Please don't judge

I love my boyfriend. There are a lot of aspects that I admire and enjoy about being with him. I know he loves or he's been really showing me how much since he's decided to either stay in the country or leave and it's based on my decision. He wants us to 'grow' financially together and means us saving our money while we live in a really horrible apartment. It could be for 6 months ( if I really can't tolerate it) or however long. The rent is so cheap but it's disgusting and he's looking to me to clean it up although he's been there for 20 years. My point is I know I love him but I don't like the idea of pulling our money together and saving. He claims he wants 'to be with me forever and take care of me.' He would 'marry' me in his eyes but that does not include a church or the state. With the money he says he would help me pay off my debt. Like he seems so genuine right but we have been together so many bad experiences where he will say things 'we're over or I'm never contacting you again.' We've been dating for almost 6 years and I have to do decide to live in his apartment or not. Getting another apartment is not an option as he wants to save. Is this wrong I'm so negative about merging incomes together? He makes me seem like I'm so stupid for not taking this opportunity. I'm 30 years old.

My wife of 4 years wants to leave me we have 2 kids a 10 year old boy that I'm a step dad to and a 4 year old daughter that is biologically mine. I work and pay for everything. She wants to look for a job and move to another state within a month but I would like to have my daughter. What should I do? Thanks

We have 2 kids. She says that I dont show her or the kids enough attention. She doesnt work and I'm always working. Question is can I save this marriage or is it over once a woman says that. Thanks

2 weeks ago I had our second child by c-section. My husband is being absolutely ridiculous. He gives me dirty looks and a attitude if I ask him to watch her while I go to the store or clean the house (if I'll be in a different room). I don't mind taking my baby to the store, however with her being so young I'd rather wait for her vaccines before really getting her around crowds. He hasn't helped around the house since the baby. Yes, I'm a stay at home mom and I usually do it all inside and outside our home except for mowing bc hes works Mon-Fri for us. I'm sore from my csection and can't get him to help. He did help the first day or two when I came home from the hospital but then he stopped. I asked if he would take 1 day on the weekend and get up with the baby through the night just so I could get refreshed and get a good nights rest. He laughs and doesn't respond. I lost my father Thursday very unexpectedly and we have to help with funeral expenses and he's been very short with me instead of being there for me. I feel like I can't grieve because I can't get that chance with constantly taking care of our baby, other child, home, cooking, etc. I just need a night to think things through and get a good nights rest. Am I being unrealistic?

I'm fine with getting an in-an out burger or a sub from subway. she finds it offensive that i dont want her to cook for me everyday. I told her when we go to the grocery store to pick out about 3-4 meats not a meal for everyday of the week.

My husband and I were arguing in the morning and he was asking me to give him my phone so he can take my SIM card away from me. I didn't want to give it to him so I went to the rest room and locked myself there and hide then he opened it and said, I was hiding something and talking to another guy. When I went near our bed, he pulled my hair tight twice and my head started aching. Is this consider abuse? He only hurt me twice physically but he said it wasn't serious and he was joking but I didn't think so. The first one was a long time ago. He choked me because I was trying to leave the house at midnight coz I wanted to go home to my parents house coz we Fight a lot and I needed some space. It was too stressful and frustrating. He is also a bully. We live in his parents house and he doesn't want to move out. I feel like i'm Alone there and I feel like his priority is his parents. I feel like i'm Not important.