Marriage & Divorce: Question: Am I crazy for show up at his fiancé ‘job ? |
- Question: Am I crazy for show up at his fiancé ‘job ?
- Question: I was dating someone who was in the process of a divorce. I had seen the filing dated before we met. Now his story changed. What should I do?
- Question: Do women enjoy the thrill of being caught cheating with another man by their husband or boyfriend?
- Question: Why do husbands always call and say they re going to be late, and as they re hanging up, women can be heard in the background?
- Question: My wife says I flirted with the waitress at a deli. She says that I “smiled” when she rang the order up. What gives?!?
- Question: Am I a bad parent? Be brutally honest?
- Question: My Mom Is Sleeping With a Married Man. Please Help.?
- Question: Is it right for a husband to be hypermasculine and a wife to be hyperfeminine in a marriage?
- Question: My husband keeps getting female fb friend suggestions and I don’t get any. Could that mean something?
- Question: Husband can, but won't give me a daughter, and it s breaking my heart. What so I do?
- Question: How to not let partner’s negative mood and self loathing affect me?
- Question: Why do married couples always have unprotected sex?
- Question: My husband just cheated?
- Question: Should I leave my fiance and work on myself? We don t communicate well.?
- Question: My bf thinks I am hanging out too much with my friends husband?
- Question: In a marriage, to what extent do you think a partner should understand and/or appreciate their spouse’s field of expertise? Why?
- Question: QUESTION! CAN I SUE?
Question: Am I crazy for show up at his fiancé ‘job ? Posted: 12 Jun 2019 06:25 PM PDT I'm seeing my former boss . About 2 weeks ago I found out that the mother of his child works in the same company but in a different store. I was devastated knowing that he kept it a secret and didn't tell me she works in the company as well. I had enough of the job , hated it already after finding out about his fiancé I resigned. Last week I was intoxicated and ended up ******* the guy' cousin in front of him. |
Posted: 12 Jun 2019 06:09 PM PDT Now he tells me he and his wife decided not to divorce for the sake oF their two teenage kids. They will just lead separate lives but remain married. He tells me if I love him it shouldn't matter to me whether he's married or not. I think if he wanted to be with me he'd have finalized the divorce. Currently he can spend little time with me because he moved back in to his home and claims he and his wife live as friends and co-parent. I don't have children myself. I ended things with him recently but miss gim a lot. What should I do? |
Posted: 12 Jun 2019 06:02 PM PDT I certainly enjoy cheating on my husband and getting caught by him which I cannot hide because of his sixth sense. It's good for women to cheat on their man all the time and make him feel rejected and desire her even more since women are to be objects of desire with no desires at all. And also the husband and boyfriend can get into fights with the side dude over women which I enjoy. @summer-It's okay for women to cheat all they want but not men. I'd rather cheat on men I'm with just to be in control. |
Posted: 12 Jun 2019 03:29 PM PDT |
Posted: 12 Jun 2019 02:32 PM PDT She admits that I didn't say anything bad. I didn't stare. I didn't do anything except apparently me "smiling" meant that I was flirting and wanted to bone her, apparently. Did I do something wrong or is my wife overreacting? I try to be polite to people but my wife acts like I'm doing some super secret thing where I'm trying to bang every woman we interact with in our daily life anytime I smile or whatever else. |
Question: Am I a bad parent? Be brutally honest? Posted: 12 Jun 2019 02:11 PM PDT So I have three kids, I don't make a lot of money but I do my best in giving the kids everything I can. My husband is a problem and someone pointed out to me that I'm allowing my kids to be put in a bad situation because I refuse to leave him. He's emotionally abusive and manipulative, he works at Herbalife and won't get a different job because it's "not his dream," he steals money from my three kids, especially my oldest son. My oldest doesn't get that much money from his job and my husband will take it sometimes without asking. Then my husband will go to movies with this money even though we don't have enough food or water at home. Every time I've separated from him, he's started to get his act together, I'll get back together with him and he'll go back to being lazy and relying on everyone else. He owes countless people money and has at times, put our family in danger because he's owed loan sharks money and hasn't paid it back. My kids go without food and water and basic hygiene necessaries. I know how abusive he is, when we've separated before, he tried to turn my youngest son against me and yet, I've gotten back with him and I just want brutally honest answers on what you think about this. Yes, this may seem unrealistic but it is in fact, real. |
Question: My Mom Is Sleeping With a Married Man. Please Help.? Posted: 12 Jun 2019 01:26 PM PDT After snooping through my mom s Facebook messages, (which I know is wrong but I have my reasons) I saw that she s been hooking up with a married man for the past few days. I know it s my moms life and her business but I am in complete shock and don t know what to do or how to act around her. My mom is single and she s also fully aware that this man is married. Please give me any form of advice on how to handle this... |
Posted: 12 Jun 2019 11:50 AM PDT My husband, family, and in-laws believe in rigid, conservative gender roles in which my in-laws raised my husband to be in charge and in control of everything while my parents raised me to be subservient, silent, and ambivalent around my husband, meaning indecisive while my husband is decisive. And anything that I do that is unfeminine, like being multilingual, which makes my family, in-laws, and husband call me a whore, and watching sports, especially women's sports, gets me labeled a lesbian, etc. This is being projected onto my sons, considering my husband is raising them to be hypermasculine like he wants. Should spouses and partners adhere to strict gender norms in marriages and relationships for everything to be better? @Jake-The Notebook movie. Women are ambivalent, which is a feminine trait men love. BTW, my husband's name is Jake. My husband and I have had strict gender roles enforced upon us. @Kelly-My husband, in-laws, and parents are extremely conservative anti-feminists. They don't support pro-choice, equality, and LGBTQ rights because they are considered the devil since they are so scrupulous and religious. @Foofa-You're sounding like a liberal feminist. Men are actually better at languages than women are because they are encouraged to talk and communicate more as well as be academic and educated while women are encouraged to be silent unless they are spoken to and be less educated and academic. It's no wonder men can speak more languages than women. @Foofa-In response to what I posted before. Most multilinguals are men and not women. @Foofa-Infant boys acquire languages faster than girls do so stop being a crazy, politically correct libtard. |
Posted: 12 Jun 2019 11:09 AM PDT My husbands fb keeps popping up with female friend suggestions which is weird because I don't get any. Could it mean he's using another site? Or is it simply a friend suggestion and just coincidently all women.? |
Question: Husband can, but won't give me a daughter, and it s breaking my heart. What so I do? Posted: 12 Jun 2019 09:42 AM PDT I love my husband. Been married for 5 years, have two beautiful boys ( 3 and 10 mos). Who I am so blessed to have. I had IVF for both. I have 3 embryos left. Hubby is DONE. He has his sons. He has little men to vicariously live through, as a male will always relate to. With IVF I have the opportunity to have the same. A little girl- He doesn t care. It s breaking my heart. I am having the eggs tested to see. At first he was compromising. He agreed to let me have a girl ( keeps saying we are wasting time and money because he only has men). Yeah, he s that guy. He is EXTREMELY difficult person to be with. I sacrifice so much for him. Anything he wants to do I support. Play hockey every other day? Sure. Go out? Sure....anything. He has good points on not having another; Finances, he s exhausted, house isn t big enough ect. I would have no problem waiting until we have more money/bigger home/enegry, but I am 39 and have no choice. It s now or never. I can t accept never. I keep telling him in the long run, 20 years from now, he WON T regret having a daughter. However, I WILL regret not pursuing my dream to do so. Am I wrong? It s to the point that it will possibly end up destroying our marriage. I am the easiest going person, easy to compromise with. I refuse to let go with this. I am becoming so resentful. Nor do I think I can remain married to someone with no empathy or support. He keeps saying I am "selfish, ******* over our family". Am I? Advice would be greatly appreciated. |
Question: How to not let partner’s negative mood and self loathing affect me? Posted: 12 Jun 2019 09:30 AM PDT My partner of a little over two years is a wonderful man in many ways and I know he loves me. But we have a big issue. He's a chronic overthinker and he over worries. I know that's who he is and he cannot change it. But how do I guard myself? I used to be just like him but broke the habit. Now I'm scared his overthinking and constant worry if going to rub off on me, and I absolutely do not want to be that way again. I worked too hard to fight it off. I figure I could just tune him out when he gets that way. Also, if we get into an argument he'll hate on himself and mope around being self loathing for days. So much that I am hesitant to bring anything up he's doing I don't like. He can't just apologize and be done with it, he curses himself out, hates on himself. Even for small mistakes. I'm just trying to keep a level head, and a calm positive mind. How can I continue my "zen" when he's the polar opposite? |
Question: Why do married couples always have unprotected sex? Posted: 12 Jun 2019 09:18 AM PDT Many married women who have awful STDs, including HIV, got it because their husbands cheated on them behind their back. They had NO idea that they were going to cheat. And just because you marry a man that is good to you doesn't mean he won't cheat. He could be a devil in disguise. And having your husband getting tested regularly doesn't guarantee anything. Just because he was negative today doesn't mean he will be tomorrow. What if I married a devil and contract HIV/Hepatitis/HPV after having unprotected sex? Not happening. |
Question: My husband just cheated? Posted: 12 Jun 2019 08:36 AM PDT He told me he was going on a business trip, when in reality he had paid for a flight for his ex g/f to come visit him from outer state. They went to key west for 4 days!! All the while I was home with the kids. I caught him and found out he had been having a fb messenger relationship for 3 months and he had even proposed to her with a ring and were facebook official. He Finally admitted it to it and says the only way we can save our marriage is I agree to a threesome with another girl. I said no, but he won't drop it. Feel so gross about the whole thing. |
Question: Should I leave my fiance and work on myself? We don t communicate well.? Posted: 12 Jun 2019 08:22 AM PDT I have been with my fiance for 6 years. We have a 2 year old together. I feel like we have horrible communication and we just don t see eye to eye on a lot of important things in life. I feel like I am living with a friend. When I tell him something, he doesnt even acknowledge that I am saying anything half the time. I feel alone. Family has done stuff for us at times when we were struggling and he never even said thank you. He has a 6 year old from his previous marriage. He expects me to treat him just like my own. I have done so much for the 6 year old but if I miss one thing, I must not love him. We have four dogs and he would be ok getting rid of all of them even tho he said he wants each one. For example on the lack of communication; I asked him when he does the dishes if he can rinse the baby bottles out before putting in the dishwasher. I have caught him a number of times not doing that and then they need rewashed. He said he purposely does stuff to say f you and piss me off. He said if I don t like how he does the dishes then I should do them. Please help... |
Question: My bf thinks I am hanging out too much with my friends husband? Posted: 12 Jun 2019 06:59 AM PDT My best friend and her husband have been very close friends of mine for many years. I consider him to be a very close friend and someone I can talk to, have intellectual conversations, confide in and just hang out with. Some 6 months ago he got terminal cancer. My friend has been devastated. Her husband is going to die. I can not even imagine what she is going through. Let alone him. After I found out I had to travel for a few months and I didn't see them in that time. When I got back the reality of his situation struck me. When I left he was a big, muscular man, still standing strong. When I came back he had lost 40-50 lbs, he was slouching, pale and lost all his hair. It was difficult to see. After that I wanted to spend as much time as possible with them. And my friend needs the support. She has to work and do everything and for him just visiting for an hour now and then makes the difference. He loves to play chess and when I am not working I go and play chess with him. We have deep talks and discuss life, death and love. My bf however thinks I am neglecting him and ignoring my responsibilities to our relationship. I however think he could do more to help me with my friend and her husband. And her husband is his friend to. Have any of you been in this situation? How did you balance everything? |
Posted: 12 Jun 2019 04:23 AM PDT |
Question: QUESTION! CAN I SUE? Posted: 12 Jun 2019 12:06 AM PDT Let's say you got married and the girl you married has a twin. What if your wife's twin tricks you into sleeping with her. If you later find out can you sue your wife's sister? I had a dream about this yesterday and had this question all day |
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