To keep it short. My husband, his brother,sister in law and I tried something sexual this past weekend(Friday). Me and my sister in law were experiementing with being lesbian for the night and our husbands watched. At some point my husband fondled my sister law as she was on me & My brother in law came 2 minutes in then we all split. Before she could say she didnt want to do any of it again, my husband, her husband and me did our own thing the next night(Saturday) as she slept( she has no idea)... Basically my bro in law masterbated to me and my husband doing it. My bro in law, at the most, touched me for 20 seconds... Down there and some boob. Thats it. We all plan on keeping it a secret since she said (on sunday) that she didn't want to do that stuff again. Did my brother in law cheat ? & if I came clean to my sister in law about Saturday could it ruin their marriage?

She is a 65 year old divorced woman with adult children. Her ex husband passed already, 7 years ago.Left all his money to his second wive and young child. His adult children got nothing. Her adult son committed suicide three years back. Her adult children do not live with her. She broke off her friendship of thirty years. While she was looking at last years christmas card from this friend, she got mad and threw done the card. Why is she mad?

I've had this friend for 2 years, known him for 3 years. He's happily married with a family, I'm happily engaged. I've been in love with my friend for 2 years. I've known him a lot longer than I've known my fiance and quite frankly, my fiance isn't my friend's biggest fan because he suspects I have feelings for him. Every time I bring up my fiance to my friend, he doesn't seem to want to talk about him either lol. My friend has become very distant in the past several months. I haven't even seen him in a month. I've tried to sort of imply that I miss him, but he doesn't acknowledge it. I know I need to let him go or at least get over him, but how do I do it? I don't want to lose him as a friend. It'd break my heart to lose him as a friend. I just know I need to get rid of my romantic feelings for him. I recently had a dream that he cheated on his wife, which of course hurt me as well. The reason is because he recently made a big deal on Facebook about helping his "single mother" neighbor with some yardwork and I guess I got jealous and it got into my subconscious. How do I get over this? I'm 28, friend is 39. P.S. I'm aware the whole situation sounds bad, but you can love two people at the same time as it turns out.

I enjoy acting tough and focusing on a lot on myself but my husband thinks it's unfeminine of me because he believes that a woman should be weak and focus on the emotional needs of her husband and if she cares too much about herself, she is nothing but a b*tch which makes him turn hostile and violent. Is being more empowered than your husband unfeminine like my husband thinks? My husband thinks it's unfeminine for women to be psychopaths and sociopaths, which I enjoy being, because they end up being abused and murdered in return because of their behavior. My husband is ultra-conservative and believes in strict, distinct gender roles for men and women so that way there won't be any homosexuality and confusion. To him, anyone who follows strict gender roles gets rewarded in marriages while anyone who does not gets punished because they are acting like gays and lesbians.

I've tried making stuff up, but he presses me on whether it's true and when I admit that it isn't he gets really upset. It's also a big turn off to talk about, especially every time. It's like we only have a sexual relationship if it involves this or focusing on something else involving other people. I've told him I'm not into it and I only want to be with him, but it's still the only way he wants to get sexual with me. I found this online, and the description is exactly like what's going on in my relationship. https://thestir.cafemom.com/love/153524/sex_confession_wife_says_husband I don't know what to do, and I'm worried our relationship is doomed.

Its terrible

She is a good kid but a bit troubled, fights with him a lot and lags in school. Her mother is depressed and abuses alcohol.

For 12 years I was in what is considered a common-law married in 2017 it suddenly ended it with me finding out that he not only did he have a sidekick but a married her. Though it is not as hard and heavy on my mind and heart as it was at the time I still have times every now and then when I think about it and cry. My question is if you have ever been through a major heart break how did you pick up the pieces and move on and do you still hurt from it is what I'm going through normal and will this pain ever go away.

I hope you go easy on me with the answers. I know Yahoo answers can get harsh sometimes, but I hope I get sympathetic answers .. I'll start by saying I'm a newly wed. I met my husband at work a year ago. I was in a relationship that I needed to end because my family would never accept that person. I loved him for years and fought with my family but it would never happen. I won't get into too much details about my ex's situation, but it killed me when I broke up with him. I know something inside me had died.. I can't enjoy anything anymore, I hate work, I hate getting up in the morning, I'm not motivated, I don't enjoy food, music or being with family. All I feel now is how great it would be if I just die.. I got married pretty fast. I met him, broke up with my ex, got engaged 4 months after the breakup, and now I'm married. Every time me and my husband fight (and it's a lot). I always think about my ex. Let me make this clear, I don't want to be with my ex, other than my family, there were lots of reasons why it wouldn't workout. But.. he was my best friend. My husband isn't. This fact probably wouldn't hurt me as much if I hadn't met my ex because I won't have anything to compare it to. But I do, and I miss that friend so much.. My husband isn't a bad guy, he's trustworthy, generous and kind. but he's not romantic, he doesn't comfort me when I'm upset unless I ask for it, we fight a lot .. I feel that part of me is gone and I am suffocated, hopeless and numb..

A question in need of an answer please... A wife and husband get into an argument, he tells her to get out of his face. She leaves the house, goes to a departmentstore and buys a nice/expensive dress. She finds a place to put on the dress and goes to a nice restaurant, sits at the bar, and orders a glass of wine... what are her intentions..? what is she wanting to happen...?

is he a man your hubby also knows ? was it fun ?