She's friends with him on instagram and facebook yet shes writing stuff like this "….He is the first person I would say this about…. And I cry as I write this…But every awful thing that has ever happened to me, all the pain I have had in my life….All the loneliness, isolation, the humiliation, the same, the horrible things that have been done to me to scar me----the things that in turn caused me o scar myself…. I would go through them all again in a moment if I knew I had him at the end. It would have all been worth it to spend the rest of my life with someone like that." "He's not just the 2 am thoughts when Im alone in bed, he's the 3pm laughs when I'm with my friends, the 6pm dinner when I'm in the kitchen, and the 10pm drinks when I'm getting drunk at the bar trying to forget his name. He's always on my mind and I'm afraid he'll never leave. What will it take for him to leave?" "if you love someone set them free, if they come back they're yours if they don't they never were" "If i had the chance to be with you again, even if it was just for a day, I'd take it in a heartbeat just to see your face and be by your side. You might not know this but it's true, I miss you" I just don't get it how can you let someone go or miss them and all that but be friends with them on every social media account and still hang out. These posts sound like someone who misses a person they don't see and seem irrelevant for 2 people who are in close contact and hang out..

I was walking at the park and some kid looked like 15 years old walked up to me and called me soft. I wanted to kick his *** but im 22 and i called him a coward and walked away. Did i do the right thing of letting it go?

I'm moving to a different school, away from all of my friends. I'm really nervous that I won't be able to get good trustworthy friends.

So i am best friends with this group of girls but i am the closest with one of them. We live in a dormitory so we spend every second of every day together. We sit next to each other in class, we stay together during brakes and we even sleep on the same bed together. We would always be together. But lately, for a month or so, my friend has been hanging out with these other group of girls. She just seems to enjoy their company more. She keeps telling me about how funny they are. Of course she can stay with whoever she wants, but i feel like she is replacing me. What about me? What about her friend that was beside her during all year? Now as soon as the bell rings she goes to hang out with them during each break time and leaves me alone. She doesn't eat lunch with us anymore, she doesn't eat dinner with us anymore. She never stays in our room anymore, she only comes there to sleep at night but before she would only stay in the room with me. Long story short, we no longer hang out as much as we used to. We do talk, but only during the lesson, but only because we are next to each other and her other friends are not in the same classroom with use. i hate how distant we have become, i really miss her. i want to talk to her about it, but i feel like she may say that i am just jealous and that i am just exaggerating. What should i do? This situation is really hurting me. Any advice?

hey im a 26 Y/o male with 2 kids (Single dad). I was staying with a friend but he doesent want us their. I understand that. We werent trouble but he just didnt feel comfortable. Anyway, Im trying to avoid having my kids live in a hotel while i figure it out. If it was just me it would be easier but hey a dads gotta do what a dads gotta do. Now i have $3000 in my savings and $4000 in my checking. I also have a good job making about $2100 a month and i run a ebay store profiting $3500 now as of today( This just began , AMEN!!!) My goal is to find an apartment ASAP. What are my challenges with bad credit? I would love and appreciate you guys experienced opinion. Please and thanks. God bless!

So I have a best friend who is like a brother to me. We're both in college and we live together, he's my roommate. This past fall was when we lived together, and throughout the year we became hella close. We'd spend lots of time together just like normal friends: eat out, cook for and with each other, talk on the phone & text (even though we will see each other when we're back home from class)... etc. I was casually telling my other friend and her roommates about our friendship, and they think our relationship is weird, and it's been getting me very paranoid thinking about it. She says it's weird that we spend so much time together, how we constantly call each other on the phone whether we ate food or not... She literally said it sounded like we were in a romantic relationship.... I mean my best friend is a best friend for a reason right??? If you can check my other question I posted, it can give you more context as well

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Alrighty... I've grown to become pretty shy and "awkward" when I'm around a group of people I don't know. It's kind of sad that I'm afraid to talk to girls and popular people, but I have no idea how to overcome that fear. I'm in high school, and I'm going to attempt to become more outgoing when the school year starts again. Can anyone give me some tips to become less shy?

Is it ok if best friends don't ever see each other anymore but they talk and text sometimes and they still live in the same town?

I messaged my ex after several months asking if she's at uni? She said she just got to uni. I then said she didn't much anyways cause there was no lecture but she didn't say anything. Why?

Why did my ex message me? We had a class after 3 months and he messaged me around midday to ask if I am going to be at uni, in these 3 months we didn't have single contact so why did he text out of blue

For the past 2 years I've met new teachers who were honestly the best teachers ever. It felt like every teacher was a friend to me. Maybe because I was a good student to them. We could laugh, hold a conversation, talk about personal (not too personal) stuff with each other and so on. As time moved on, it was time for me to graduate. And at first it was a good feeling, but as this feeling progressed, I realised that I will never see these teachers ever again in my life in a few weeks. And I cried honestly. Now, if I move on to my next school, I feel like I can never get this good of a friendship with a teacher as my previous ones. This goes the same as for my classmates. What can I do? Or how should I handle this situation?

My best friend and I have been friends for 10 years. She and I do not live in the same state and are getting older and more busy, so we do not see each other or talk to each other often. She visited recently and continuously made jokes about my father being dead and about my struggles with my self-esteem. This is not uncommon for her, she made jokes like those all of the time to me when we were younger. She also made judgmental comments about my body, my relationship with my boyfriend, and my family. I have never stood up for myself before, but this time I chewed her out and told her she is entirely disrespectful. At first, she openly doubted me and accused me of making everything up. Then, she blamed me not only for the bullying, but for also "not saying anything sooner". I told her I did not speak up until now because I am finally in a place where I am able to defend myself as my confidence is significantly better. She refused to take responsibility and gave me a flimsy "I'm sorry if I made you upset". She also told me she's irritated I brought this up now because she has a lot to do next month (she's leaving the country) and I should have said something another time. I feel a little remorse for telling her off, but at the same time, I really do not because I think she deserved it. What do you think? Should I have just bit my tongue?

For the past month she's been calling me everyday and sometimes she calls me up to 4 times a day. It started to become overwhelming and I stopped answering so she can get the hint that I want time for myself. Eventually she got the hint and backed off. At the moment I'm not working and have been going to school to keep busy and I like that it keeps me on my toes. I signed up for summer classes and it's alot more work and has been taking up my time, I've told Her I'll be at school majority of the week. The past few days she's been calling me at 7:30 in the morning and sometimes 8 in the morning, I don't like talking on the phone when I'm getting ready or when people r sleep. What bothers me the most is that yesterday she asked if I can send her my school schedule!. I felt that, that was going overboard and she's doing the absolute most. I've told her the days I have class but going to the point where you need my schedule?? All because so she can see the times she can call me. If I don't answer then I'm busy and I'm not obligated to stop what I'm doing just to talk. For a moment I stared getting anxious because I felt that I would get a call from her the moment I was on my phone. I would be on my phone listening to music and in comes a call from her....the 3rd call... She's been there for me through some really tough times and I feel kind of guilt for feeling this way but I just want my space and I feel like she's very clingy. How can I tell her to back off without being rude?

...lied about her plans to travel to another city on the same you said you were going so she could tag along and share expenses? And you felt obligated to invite them along? Her boyfriend didn't know anything about it even though they had supposedly planned the trip for that day and were taking the day off from work.

An old family friend asked me to sit for his pet. He asked me to come over to go over some stuff. I've sat for their pet before so I know what to do. The thing is, i don't want to go over his house because I have bad anxiety and I'm just really nervous about talking to them. I already told him I would come over. Should I ask him to just write out a note to make it easy? But if I do that I feel like it would be obvious that I don't want to meet with him. What can I do?

Persistent calls & texts, asking and nagging me about weather or not I'm okay rather than flipping the page, moving on to the next headline and topic of discussion. I get it, my ex threatened me and now they're worried, I appreciate that they care but I really don't care if I was threatened, I'm over it. What else can I say to my friends? I'm Ecstatic! In a state of ecstasy feeling brilliant beyond brilliant on cloud 9, come join?

They make fun of me and I tried stoopingvtontheir level and they are immune to insults and even personal attacks. I can't ignore them and it's bothering me and making me very angry at them where I could beat them up. Managers hold a double standard towards me because I'm not a libturd.

There's was this guy who works at the supermarket, I think he's new there, anyways I walked in and then turned back to see where my brother was and he was just standing there looking right at me, he turned his body and everything. I looked at him briefly but he didn't look away, And then when I am about to pay he looks at my face and eyes. Anyways all of a sudden he's stopped looking at me. I've been in there three times since then and he hasn't looked and he's not paying me any attention? Why is this?

My roommate borrowed my car. When I got it back and drove it the next day it ran rough/weird. I confronted him about it and he said " all we did was drive it up a hill.. it did overheat but we waited 30min to cool off.." I said he should fix it but he resisted and said "we didn t abuse it or anything. It prob just needed radiator fluid". So who should pay for this??🤔🤔🤔

A coworker of mine is trying to guilt me into swapping shifts with her and I don't know what I should do. My conscience is telling me to do the kind thing; but she's not very nice and I don't feel very inclined to help her out. I was sick earlier this week, not feeling great because of a sinus infection, so when she messaged me saying "let me know about Friday. You're literally the only person who can do it." I responded by saying that I had decided not to take it because I felt like I needed to rest (among many other reasons, but that's the reason I gave her). I work two jobs and swapping this shift with her means that I don't get an entire day off for over a week, and I already had plans with friends on the night in question. She's wanting to swap because her husband is playing a show she forgot to ask off for. She complains a lot and has turned down my requests to have a shift covered 3-4 times in the past. Now she's reacting passive-aggressively, by reacting to a Facebook post I made today about a little gardening I had done, obviously to say "hey look, you're not really sick, you're just being an ****** and not taking this shift for me." I'm usually the person who is nice enough to pick up shifts for everybody, and I feel really bad by not helping her out... But, I feel like I need to put my foot down. I would never and never have reacted this way when someone chose not to take a shift for me, regardless of the reason.

I noticed when I meet people new people in groups I get a bit shy even annoyed but one on one I do very well especially if we have some stuff in common. I have trouble interacting with people I don't have things in common with. How do I change this?

Im in college and have a class with a girl my age. She laughs at stuff I say, smiles a lot at me and to stuff I say. She said hi when she saw me ask what's up. We had to do peer reviews and she came to my table sat next to me at my table I talked to her she said something, smiled at me and looked deep into my eyes and didn't stop smiling and it felt awkward, if I didn't break the eye contact she probably would've continued. One day I sat down waiting for class and she came in for class walked over and started waiting very close to me, hovering over standing in my personal space, she walked right in front of me and started getting close to me and I could smell her but she had her back to me. This was the closest she's been to me. There was a whole room not a lot of other people. When I talked about another girl flirting with me and asking for advice from some one else on how to not lead her on. She joined the conversation gave advice. said that the other girl will continue pushing boundaries and persisting if I don't say I'm not interested and rip the band-aid right off. She started this stuff after I asked for advice, afraid she knows I have issues Wity this now why does she seem to be Flirting

I had a friend we only.knew each other for maybe a few months but recently started hanging out all the time going places. The problem was his GF was probably jealous and now we don't even talk and he doesn't return my calls/text messages. I know it would be awkward if I see him cause we work in the same town and he comes through my job often. What can I do don't want to me a complete asshole but at the same time I need to show I don't need him in my life if he's going to be like that as much of a loyal friend I was to him.

As a straight normal women i felt that ! Is that Normal??