I just want opinions because I'm not at the stage with him where I can ask him. We dated for about 2 months after he broke up with this girl and she was obsessed with him the entire time. She would text him and tell him that she would drop everything in her life to be with him. She volunteered to drop out of college, move anywhere he wanted and basically leave her family behind and even her friends if he would give her another chance. This girl religiously posted public facebook status's about being heartbroken to get his attention. One day she'd post that she hated him and that he was a narcissist. The next day she would post that she was happy they were together and that he was a part of her life and she wished the best for him. Then the next day she hated him again and made a post about wishing he would "burn to the ground" for breaking her heart. She did this daily for like 4 months. She would show up at the gym he works at in a skimpy bikini and hang by the pool. She tried to get information on him from his co-workers. She called him in the middle of the night and hung up. Then I noticed the other day that he added her on instagram. He only follows his friends and family and the people closest to him. Like 15 people or so and he's very private. I'm on there because we were dating. I don't understand why he'd add her back unless he wanted to get back together. Because he knows full and well that she is absolutely obsessed with getting him back and cant handle a friendship

I graduated late with my ged at 19. I will be 22 next month. Currently I have no real friends I'm close to except for one guy friend of mine. I used to have many friends as a pre teen. I don't have girlfriends bc they betrayed me at 13 and I've been isolated, having trust issues ever since. I'm about to go to college and I'm going to get involved in all sorts of activities to meet people with hopes of having some friends to social network with when I get back on Instagram. I've been on and off for instagram for some years now after I got my heartbroken at 16 and I want my social life back. I just want to have plans for the summer and to enjoy my life. I haven't partied in so long or really enjoyed my life since I was a kid. I also push away any guy I'm even interested in cause I worry what if he thinks im a loser for not having friends? My family says that pretty girls usually never have true friends and I bear witness to that based on my experience. I did have a best friend that I cut off at 18 cause she was really toxic and loved to embarrass me/ put me down in front of others. When I confronted her about it she admitted she was jealous of me and that she's sorry. I gave her a chance and benefit of the doubt but she continued on being negative and making me feel insecure. She was extremely bi polar showing me kindness one moment then being rude as hell. So I have 2 questions. Does life really get better after college and do guys care if a girl has no friends/social life?

I've known this girl for years(we're seniors in high school now) and we're part of a close friend group. She's always been quite mysterious and never tells us anything that's happening in her life. This has always bothered me. She never tells us how she's feeling, who she likes, exciting things happening in her life, etc.-even though the rest of us share this information with each other all the time. Most recently, she went on vacation to a different state for over a week and didn't tell any of us that she was even leaving. These may seem like small, insignificant details but it's frustrating that she keeps everything to herself all the time when everyone else shares these types of things. I don't think she does this to be shady or rude-she is one of the sweetest people I know-but I was just looking for advice as to how to deal with this situation, or theories as to why she is so closed off to her best friends. Thanks!

I'm so hurt. I've been friends with this girl since middle school and she the only close friend I had left. I'm 28 years old now and I feel like I don't have nobody. My child father took me for granted. He hurt me now my friend turn out to be fake and don't want to be friends with me all because I went to CNA class. She talking about she wants to hang out with friends who wants to better for themselves and she think CNA is not bettering myself. She going to school for dental assistant. I never plan on being a CNA for long I'm trying to create business. I'm trying to be a ceo but she don't understand that.

so, I was gonna go to Billie Eilish concert with a girl I met but suddenly she cant go anymore however I do I have an extra ticket but her parents said no either way. I'm a minor and idk if it's a good idea if I go alone? my parents wouldn't want to go either way. but at the same time, I would love to see her! again, would it be a good idea if I still go alone?? plus, I don't have any friends to go with...?

I know this seems petty but it actually makes me feel like something must be wrong with me. I was traveling and I met this cool guy. We're around the same age and we were on a bus together for 5 hours. We were talking, laughing etc. He asked me a lot of questions and seemed interested in my career and we had traveled to a lot of the same places. It didn't seem like he was just trying to be polite because whenever there was a lul of no talking he started asking me questions. He complimented me a few times too. I'd say I'm an attractive woman and it was easy for us to talk. Anyway he told me where he'd be working for the summer and suggested that I stop by and check the place out. He's a surf instructor and he said it would be fun if I took a lesson. We parted ways at our desitnation. I realized that I'd be continuing my travels in the opposite direction of his surf spot. So I searched the surf company on instagram and saw his name/account on the posts. I messaged him and said sorry I'd be traveling the other way but I'd like to keep in touch because I really enjoyed talking to him. This was just a friendly platonic message. I'm not trying to date the guy, he's really interesting and seemed like a cool person to chat with because he travels all over the world. He ignored my message and didnt add me. Yet this guy literally added about 20 people to his account the day I messaged him that all commented it was nice to meet him. Why add all those new people but ignore me??

I originally wanted to live in a dormitory but my friends want me to get an apartment with them for cheaper, I am unsure of which I was, on one hand the apartment is cheaper but i'd have to live there for 12 months along with someone im not sure I want to be around that much, and the dorm is more expensive but it seems nicer being in that community any advice? :)

I need them for the stories I'm writing. I've never been good at coming up with good roasts.

Every since I was 10 I've had problems communicating with other people, I was always very quiet, never knew what to say, felt awkward 24/7. Now I am in like early 20's and I am better I would say, but, let me give you an example. let's say there's a conversation with 4 people and I am 1. Everyone's chatting amongst each other but for some reason I can not jump in the conversation. I just can NOT figure out what to say or how to get involved in the convo so i just sit by quietly and nod or laugh. Now if I'm having a one on one, or a convo with a friend I am able to talk freely and Express myself. But if its 2 or more people OR someone I don't know very well I just have problems figuring out what to say. Thoughts?

Hi, I am friends with this guy. My issue is with him is he keeps lying about stupid stuff. He says things like "i was out busking today an old women gave me $20. I caught him out by saying "but your guitar is broken so how did you do that? he said "awh i met my mate today too and he gave me his" lol he has no mates. He was on a date with a girl the other day also, I said awh brilliant whats her name? "he went silent and was like "errmmmm ammmm ahhh" I met her on Instagram I cant remember" lol I said show me a picture then, He showed me a random pic of a girl in a low cut top with her top half showing with no face :/ like what the hell. Why pretend about stuff like that. It might sound like i am just being a needy friend or something but It just annoys me how he lies straight out and doesn't get bothered by it. I known him for 5 years so I know him well when he is lying. He has lied about being in fights with people that I found out didn't actually happen due to the dates he told me, he was in a fight he was with his brother them dates lol. He also lied about his house been broken into lol He said "someones broken into my house, but they don't take anything" He has a cat and expensive PC music stuff, I'm sure they would have taken something. It goes on and on.There is so many stupid things he's lied about. Should I cut ties with him? if he cant be honest with himself there is no point in holding a friendship. We're growing apart anyways but still dunno what to do.

I am a senior in college. I expected so much more out of my college experience. I do blame myself, because of my social anxiety and shyness. However, people aren't really accepting of me. I keep to myself unless i feel comfortable around you. I have trouble getting along with some girls because I get weird vibes from them. People say it's because they might be intimidated/jealous, but I don't think I have anything that they could be jealous of. I beat up on myself every day because i don't have a friends. I feel ugly 24/7 and I don't like who I am because I stutter. How can I improve myself and make new friends? I'm tired of feeling lonely 24/7.

This man that I would like to have an exclusive relationship with only wants to be friends with me but he also has an interest in having sex with me too...so he would like to be FWB with me ..but he is still searching for a woman to have an exclusive relationship with. I have known him for 3 years...we get along well enough..so men, please help me understand why he only wants sex with me? but would prefer an exclusive relationship with someone else? what would be a reason that a man would only want sex with one girl but date another? I am a nice girl. I dont act trashy and I dont do anything bad and I have a job. I dont get it? please help me understand? will give a best answer to someone that can help me understand..thanks

They always say live life to the fullest but i cant. Im 33 and still single, nobody talks to me in public, at my job or bars or anything, i have no friends except 1 or 2 ppl that use me for my car. At my job they had a huge cookout for a coworker and i was the only one not invited. All my dating apps are 0 messages. My facebook is empty while most ppl are hanging with friends or living a great life...it makes me wanna go on disability and not try anymore in life if nothings gonna happen!

So the friend of my friend's sis has a really toxic friend. all the guys who liked my friend's sis were driven away by her. she flirted with all of them (even the ones who reactes heart to my friend's sis' pictures on facebook) and told them that my friend's sis doesnt really like them thats why they stopped approaching my friend's sis. she's close with my friend's sis' MOM and even had rhe guts to call her second mom when she wrote a long *** birthday message for her mom like wtf?! then she CONSTANTLY tried to add my friend's facebook account with her three accounts. she then falsely claimed that my friend told her that she was pretty and that my friend constantly kept on sending her friend request on fb. not only that, but she also sent facebook friend requests to the people related from my friend's sis hometown. at first i thought she felt envious of my friend's sis because it's what my friend thinks, but it seems to me that she is obsessed with her. an unhealthy adoration. What do you think? how can she be stopped?

I know I should let this go, but my ex friend is slandering my name and I would like other people's opinions on this issue. Long story short, my friend and I decided to be roommates and it didn't work out due to different schedules and cleaning habits. One day, we got into a heated argument, and I went back home to my mom for a few hours to cool down. I got back to our apartment around 10pm that night, and my friend and I decided to talk about what was said earlier. The police come to our door a few moments later, asking if my roommate is ok. When the cops left, I asked my friend why were they here, and she said she didn't know. So I thought she called the cops on me. Anyway, I asked her that question again within the following days, and she gave me different answers, "I may have exaggerated what happened, so my friends called the cops" "I wasn't answering my phone, so my friends called the cops". When we talked about it, I told her that she can't do what she did because I'm black, and she apologized by giving me a muffin..... she's slandering my name by telling people that I played the race card, however, I don't think I did.

So, my friend always takes pride in pissing people off. He s always bragging to me about how he can make my other friend mad so easily. And since it s summer and the only way we have to communicate is through text, for some reason he s been more insulting to me lately, (Because normally he ll joke around like, call me gay for being nice to him), like, he s been making personal insults, talking about how "I dont have a life", and how he s "done with my sh*t", and he even once said he s going to find someone else to talk to, and the same goes with my other friend. Besides leaving him, how should I try to change him? And by "same goes with my other friend", I mean he's been acting like that to him, too.

I didn't like my former coworker and I hadn't seen or heard from her in 20 years. She approached me and asked me, "Did you used to work for me?" I didn't respond because I was in a hurry to go somewhere. What would've happened if I had said, "Yep! Been there, done that!"?

I have known my friend Jess since January and imitially we got along really well. We moved overseas to study Law together and had to leave behind our family and friends, which for her included her husband. A group of seven of us went together and we barely knew each other beforehand but developed a close friendship. Jess has told me a lot of personal things about her family that she does not share with anyone else and I have told her things which the others don't know either and out of all my friends I am closest to her. Just like woth my other friends I always try to be there for her, which is just the way I tend to be. However I have noticed on occasions that she acts distamt. We had a break back in March and when I went back she stayed in touch with everyone except for me. Q week before the break she had been acting distant but once the break was over she went back to normal. Fast forwatf to last month she started acting distant again and would avoid having conversations with me and keep them short if we talked. She also seems to get upset around me quite easily and always seems in a bad mood even if I don't say anything to her. Whenever we are with our friends she is back to normal and treats me the same way she used to but when we are not its the complete opposite. We will have to see each other for the next three years so I would like to sort this out and figure out why she is acting this way. Someone told me it might be because I do nice things for her So she thinks I like her which I know is not true since she knows who I like and I just see her as a friend

me and my friend were texting and she said something about someone she knows (and has said she doesn't like much) she said my "friend" Instead of just my friend. Why did she put the quotations around the word friend? She said " my "friend" " What do the " around the word friend mean? Does it mean she considers her a friend or not

Why do I have these problems... all the problems in my life are because of men!!! I just want to live my life and be peaceful and do me. I'm not a rude or disrespectful person, I'm actually very nice. Men start hurtful rumors about me because I won't sleep with them. Then men that rejected me years ago....try to come back by getting in contact with my friends and when I tell my friends no I don't want them I lose my female friends because they feel bad for him. It's annoying... 🙄

"They act up more" tht act up the same amount even less "There weird and weird is bad and annoying" yeah 😡😡 "They did something to cause it" no the bullies know exactly what there doing and find any justification and know there higher social standing makes it easier

Every time I am with my friend she ends up getting started at all the time mostly by women not really guys which is very surprising. My friend tends to only care about making herself look good like dressing up and doing make up. But she's also thin too. Every time we are in line ordering something she will start talking and I'll notice that a person is completely starring at her weirdly. Even when we are walking around people willl look at her all the time. Why are people looking at my friend all the time and it's kinda making me uncomfortable that random strangers are doing that. I don't think my friend notices on what people are doing.