A nice house?!

I have been married for almost 13 years and my husband will say I am choosing my dad and friends over him. He will then go on to day my dad doesn't mean anything, he has never done anything, he is not apart of our family and he doesn't mean **** to him. It's hurtful and makes me want to stay away from my dad, even though I love him and he is always there for me and my family. I have two kids. My kids live and respect their grandpa. He is a good dad, husband and grandfather. He is a stand up man and respected in the community. My husband is not very social and says hurtful things about my dad, my siblings, their families and my mom. It's hurtful and makes me feel bad for them. It also makes me feel bad and guilty for wanting to have a relationship with them. Sometimes I feel a tinge if guilt when my mom or dad calls and my husband is the room. I may not answer the phone and call them back when I am Ali e. He even says my friends could die and they don't mean anything. I put to much value in my friendships and they mean nothing. All of this is replaying in my mind.

I recently found out that my husband of 4 years cheated on me. He swears it was a one time thing and he will never do it again. I don't want to give up on our marriage but I don't know if I can ever trust him again. We just had our first child 7 months ago and he claims I don't give him enough attention. Can people change or will he always be a cheater?

I'm in love with the lady of my dreams and we both want to get married but my parents are very unsupportive and unfair. Could it be because my parents have had an unhappy marriage themselves for most of their life and can't respect my need to have the women I want ?

If my husband's ex wife likes a picture of him with their kids and he likes one of her with their kids, should I be upset? She's married and we all get along. I know it probably doesn't mean anything.

Do you like to just do it for physical reasons or is it emotional? And do you fantasise about doing it with people other than your spouse?

Looking for long relationship answers. 5+ years married

I wonder how the majority react to cheaters. Thanks 😊

He has done some questionable things. And honestly I don't feel like forgiving. He needs to pay for what he's done. But also I feel so bad.

Personally I think it's disgusting that people invite complete strangers into their bedrooms to participate in having sex with their husbands/wives. People clearly don't have respect for their marriage or any morals. with that being said I was wondering if anyone was married where they participated in cuckoldary which resulted in divorce?

My middle name is the only feminine thing about my name, and I do not want a hyphenated last name. I want to take my spouse's last name, but, as I have begun a career and life with my maiden name, I am struggling to part with it. I've considered having two middle names (current middle and maiden), but am not sure if I will have issues with that in the future, considering I did not plan on keeping my maiden name at all before creating emails, usernames, etc. Anyone else struggle with this?

Female opinions appreciated - wife won't listen to males on this. I have a very high libido, and this never used to be a problem, because my wife and I had a great sex life when we we first got married. Nowadays, we just don't have a sex life at all. It started around when we were married for about 3 years, and as lots of marriages go through, our sexual activities started happening less and less. So it had been a problem for a while. fast-forward to when my wife had our second baby. while giving birth, her pelvis became misaligned, causing her pain with most things. I never approached her for anything sexual from her until I thought she was well on her way to recovery. I started initiating sexual advances on her about 3 months after birth, but she had no interest at all in anything sexual, even any outercourse. I wait longer, try again, and try again, to here we are now. It has been over 7 months since anything happened except 2 sessions of "helping each other." I tried to initiate, again, to try and get our sex life back on track, and she became VERY angry with me, and said that "she doesn't owe me anything, especially sexually." I agree with her, and I don't feel like she owes me anything, but a sex life in my marriage is the biggest important factor to me, and I feel like she just gave up on it. So, am I out of line/expecting too much? What should I do? I feel like I can't talk about it or initiate because she will get very angry.

Can a wife be clued in if her husbands caregiver did show for a shift leaving her husband alone and unmedicated and unfed for more than 20 hours. I feel she should be clued in by the next caregiver ,and also the next company.. asap am I wrong/

My ex husband and I have 3 kids together. He's always been a very selfish person. We had a custody hearing. The judge ruled that during the week the kids stay with me and Friday - Sunday the kids go with their dad. He's furious because he feels like it's not fair that I get the weekends to myself and has been complaining nonstop about me getting and I quote "a vacation every weekend to relax from the kids." He wants to mediation and change custody. He lives 2 hours from the kids school which is why he gets them on weekends. Any suggestions?

Do husbands/wives actually love/ treat with love? Hugs, kisses, kind words? Is it just something we expect? Do you have this in your marriage? If not, are you upset this part is missing and should a woman/man expect their SO to treat them in such a loving way expressing their love physically (hugs/kisses/do smth nice for their SO) and verbally (kind words etc.)? Is it normal to lack this in marriage or does it come down to "in reality, there is no such a thing"?

her husband is banging all the white girls at physics tutor classes , all with her hard earned money ?

My husband and I are going through an awful divorce. We have a 3 yr old son, but now I feel like I'm not as attached to him as I use to be. My husband and I both planned on having a child and he began absuing me after we had been married 2 years and I was pregnant 8 months and he started flipping out his mind. I feel somewhat cheated like we were supposed to be a family and raise him together. Now I'm doing it all on my own and he sees my husband every other weekend. I love my little one so much, but I feel like I have the world on my shoulders and can't enjoy him like I did when I was still married w/ help from my husband. I did suffer from chronic post partum anxiety that started after an argument we had 3 days after we brought our son home that lasted 3 1/2 months, but that ended 3 years ago and I've had a tight connection and bond w/ our son since my PPA ended and had one the whole 1st wk he was born until the ppa started.