My college graduation is on Monday and a group of my batch are planning to throw an after graduation party at a fancy restaurant, so they ve created a whats app group and added a bunch of girls and I was one of them. I would love to go, but the thing is i don t know most of them and the one I know I m not really close to, I mean the kind people where we only say "morning" to each other and have a basic conversation. I m not a very social person so having to go to a social event is a big deal for me, and at the same time i feel if I didn t go I d be missing on a lot since it s graduation night... Do you guys think i should go? Or just stay home? Please give me some advice. 😟

This guy and I had sex once and I told this guy that I like how he touched me and that he was really gentle. And he said he's usually not but that he only did it because it was my first time. I also asked him if he liked it and he said he enjoyed it very much.

I feel bad but I don't have a lot of money either but whenever we go I feel like at least 3 of them are asking me to spot them. I understand if it's every now and then but it's every time. Any advice? I don't want to be a jerk but it's typically their idea to go out in the first place.

I had sex with a guy once he and I are friends. I told him that I was going to give him sexy pictures of me. But that I didn't think he wanted them. He said he does want them though. Does that mean he would have sex with me again?

I had sex with a guy once he and I are friends. I told him that I was going to give him sexy pictures of me. But that I didn't think he wanted them. He said he does want them though. Does that mean he would have sex with me again?

After sex my lover was laying on top of me, cuddled up, with her face between my arm pits. I then felt her tongue gently licking it, as though she was hoping that I didnt notice. Should I assume that this is something she does? We aren't in a relationship as I'm not really the type of person to rush into a relationship and like to take my time to ensure I'm making the right decision. So this arm licking is something that I have on my mind.

So this girl I work with, we've known each other for 3 years. And both of us are supervisors at our jobs so don't think we don't take work professional. But after a couple years I moved to another department, and now I work mornings, and she works afternoons to night. She knows I suffer from massive panic attacks cause of my OCD, but is always so nice to me and says I can come to her any time for talking it through. She has told me we're friends, and yesterday I had a panic attack so bad I almost fainted. I texted her and I told her they were caused by afraid to lose her and other friends I've made there since her or I might be leaving in the future. I was afraid to lose contact with them. She told me we will still be friends no matter what. She always asks how I'm doing as well. Is this legit?

So in Sweden we celebrate this thing called midsummer and I have planned with my relatives to spend it at their place. Thing is, we bascially don't have contact anymore and I get the feeling that they don't really want me there anyway. I've already accepted their invitation but my friends are gonna celebrate too and I'm tempted to cancel and have fun and get wasted with them instead. I know this could potentially be the last chance to reconnect with my relatives but I really just wanna have fun on midsummer. What do you think, should I cancel and spend it with friends instead? That would mean that my brother cant come either

I have a childish, carefree personality (I'm slow). I make people laugh a lot but it would get to me when my friends started to underestimate me, treat me like a kid, or just not take me seriously. I am 18 now and I still have friends I am myself around but I'm very awkward around most people because I try so hard not to be childish that I'm just a cardboard box. I don't know why I'm so childish but that's just me. My dad is 50 now and he is also very childish. I'm very insecure and I tend to underestimate myself and I feel dumb. I'm very pretty and I feel like people have high expectations of me which I hope doesn't sound bad lol. So I'm always trying to play the mature "perfect" girl but in reality I'm a mess. For example I was myself today by simply mocking YouTubers while grocery shopping with my cousin at Target, we actually had a lot of fun but I wouldn't do that with my friends because it's childish. My family would always say I "do too much" when I was younger. So now I don't do too much at all, I actually bore myself. I simply want to be able to be myself, but I need advice. Do I need to mature or is it normal for some people to be childish?

"They say true friends go long periods of time without speaking, and never question the friendship."

I've liked one of my guy friends for almost three years now. I used to want to date him, but as time went by and I got to know him better I realised that he's not the type of guy I would want to date, plus I also don't want to be in a relationship right now because of work, wanting to focus on myself, etc. As for him, he got out of a long term relationship last year and he's said that he wants to stay single for a while. So I feel like a hookup would be the best option for both of us. However, there are two issues. Firstly, I don't know if he's attracted to me or not. He's quite flirty with me, especially when we drink, and he's complimented my appearance a few times, but he's a flirty guy in general, so I have no idea whether it means anything or not. And he's also an extremely good-looking guy, literally model level attractive, whereas although I'm not unattractive my appearance is nothing special, so for that reason I don't see why he would want to get involved with me. And secondly, I'm very inexperienced sexually, which although most guys don't seem to mind when it comes to relationships, they seem to be put off by it when it comes to hookups. So yeah, my question is, what can I do to have the highest possible chances of getting him to want to hook up with me?

I'm in my late 30's and haven't been close to anyone in 3 years. When I was younger I had friends. I still like to go out and do things. I go to the gym a few times a week. I will even go out to bars and meet people. I like to see a game on tv or a band. I like to go out and talk with women. I find it easier when I'm alone. Then with a group of friends. I just like to date and I will be friends with her friends. My past friends all we did was got drunk. I got tired of it. Some I had to cut ties with. I find it better being a loner sometimes.

I do... I have no friends and family just acts like i dont matter at all.

Three months ago my daughters friend prank called our neighbor while she was at our house. He then figured out that it was my daughters friend and started laughing. They were talking and joking around but I never said anything throughout the phone call. Then he asked my friend what she looks like my friend said "I'm a step worse than Jessica(aka my daughter)", then he said "well you can't be that bad cause Jessica's pretty cute". Then my friend said "what do you think of Jessica's dad"? He said "well he seems like an alright dude but i don't think he'd like my if I told him his daughters smoking hot". My friend said "do you really think that"? He said " no I'm just saying if his old neighbor told him his daughters smoking hot he wouldn't like me at all". The call with them lasted almost an hour. This was three months ago and I'm just wondering if it's a big deal or just a hoke. What would yaul recommend for me and my husband to do as concerned parents? This man is 42 years oldie that a family and my daughter is only 15.

So I'm in college (21) and I've had the same group of friends since high school but recently I've been feeling like they are just using me and being selfish. Outside of school they used to ask me if I wanted to hangout but recently they haven't asked me at all. I understand that people are busy but they make plans with me outside of school and only ask me if I want to hangout so we can have some drinks at my house and invite some people over. We would have small get togethers here and there but recently they only text me when they want to do something at my house. They hangout with each other outside of school and don't invite me and whenever they do invite me they always ask if we can do something at my place and if I say I'm not able to they noticeably act more bored and complain about what to do. I've even invited a couple of my closer friends from the group over to my house separately just to hangout and go to lunch and they still hint that I should invite more people. I feel like if I can't text a friend to just go to lunch and have a conversation then they aren't really my friend. There's so much more to worry about in college that it doesn't even seem worth my time to even message them but I know they will all say somethings up with me. Should I just stop talking to them?

I'm a 21 year old guy. I drive a newer muscle car, I work very hard and always advance in my career, I'm funny, sweet, smart, and tough. My looks are good too. I'm a little different compared to most guys my age. I'm a working man instead of a "college boy". I snowboard, play guitar, etc. And I have my whole life planned out and on track. Any ideas why girls don't dig me? I've got gas in the tank and money in the bank! They go with guys who are going nowhere and don't have any of the qualities I have. I'm honestly pretty content by myself. I'm kicking *** everyday. But I would like a good girlfriend. The one girl told me "come on over there's nobody home" I went over there was nobody home!