My fiancé doesn't want a wedding and doesn't understand why they're so important, why are they? Every day feels like a wedding with my fiancé because we are a clingy couple and happily in love without a wedding, he's 19 and I'm 20, so we don't need a wedding to have the day special, I guess weddings are more for the girl though he still doesn't want one as much as he loves me for reasons... We secretly have family problems (he doesn't like his birth dad or my dad much) Any thing wrong with not having a wedding wedding? If so why? Curious. Any ideas on special things to do other than having the typical wedding? We both love lord of the rings and cats, food, art, etc. we want to save the money for the honeymoon in Japan.

when people get married, the groom steps down and put the bride s wedding ring on her finger, and then they kiss. But later on, where does the groom get the ring from since both the wife and the husband are supposed to have a ring on their finger?

My fiancé doesn't want a wedding and doesn't understand why they're so important, why are they? Every day feels like a wedding with my fiancé because we are a clingy couple and happily in love without a wedding, he's 19 and I'm 20, so we don't need a wedding to have the day special, I guess weddings are more for the girl though he still doesn't want one as much as he loves me for reasons... We secretly have family problems (he doesn't like his birth dad or my dad much) and we have financial struggles so feel it would be more affordable to have a potluck party after tying the knot in the court house. Any thing wrong with this? If so why? Curious. He's amazing to me and I know he's the one! We want a Lord Of The Rings wedding party because we both find middle earth beautiful and both like hobbits, I still want some things in the party that would be in a wedding though I don't know what, I'm so confused and would appreciate any advice of any kind... (80-150 people?)Like how can I make it feel like a wedding but more do a party and reunion at the same time without a wedding? Any ideas on the theme? Just need extra support before I ask people I know because I don't know what I'm doing lol! Thank you so so much!

Hi, I'm 23 and at my first relationship and I need advice. I've been with my boyfriend for a really short time (4 months) so I know that it's not that much but I do love him like crazy. Sometimes he's the most helpful, kind and sweet guy in the world, but the next day he turns grumpy, sarcastic and asocial and complains all the time. When it happens, he pushes me away when I try to kiss him, cuddle with him ans try to cheer him. I know he suffers from stress and health problems (he works 9 and sometimes 10 hours a day for 6 days). He has a bad backache and his limbs hurt (due to work). I'm aware of it and I try my best to cheer him up, cook for him (I bring him dinner so he won't have to cook or think about it). He complains cause he lives with 2 other guys to divide the rent and he hates it cause he wants to find a better home and to live with me. But he pushes me away! When I go close to him and try to kiss him, cuddle him or caress his face he avoids me, looks at his phone and tells me 'what do you want now? Leave me alone'. Once I broke down crying cause I cant stand it anymore, he felt at fault and comforted me and said he was sorry. But the next day he got me mad again (cause he scolded me for wanting to massage him, and he said 'it wont work, a massage wont fix me'). I love him so much and I admire him for everything he is, for how he works, he overcomes all his stakes and i want to hug him and make him feel my love and help him, but he is always bitter and pushes me away. I started to think he acts like this cause he's mad that we havent done it yet (I have never done it before, we dont even make out actually, I just want to hug him and kiss him but nothing more). Is it cause he regrets not having a real girlfriend (who has sex) but he doesnt say it cause he doesnt want to hurt me? Please tell me which is the reason cause Im going mad thinking about it