To give the whole story my mother is very sick and mostly disabled. In 2016 our emotionally abusive father left home and thus the sole running of the house fell on her. My younger sisters are 13 and 16 and despite my mother trying her absolute best, at this difficult age she can find it hard to get the help from them that she needs. Our house is relatively clean and well kept but from time to time due to my moms health it can get messy. I try to help as much as possible with both housekeeping and bills but at 20 and in the process of going back to college, my means are limited. My older brother resents my mother for everything that has gone wrong in his life and constantly puts her down. Telling her that she's a **** mother, calling her a b*tch/c*nt/idiot so on and so forth. He does nothing around the house and yet complains when its messy, calling it a pig sty. He gives out when I pitch in with bills and demands first pick of hot water/towels because he's "the only one that does any god damn work". I'm at my wits end, I feel trapped in a situation where I can't help. Every night there's a screaming match that leaves my mother in tears. Short of kicking him out (Which on his first year apprentice salary is impossible), I don't see many options, Thoughts?

Im 55, my sister is 53 and we have an issue that is far too involved to list everything that happened between us in this forum. But I would like some opinions as to how to resolve an issue. A misunderstanding happened between my 24 year old nephew and myself where he believed I was going to give him someone that belonged to his father (his father passed away in 1996). I tried explaining to him what was said several times and tried explaining this to his his mother (my sister) as well but she has decided to side with her son. Now the two of them are refusing to speak to me. Ive never been treated like this before by family in my life. Im sorry he misunderstood, I even have the original message in a text as well to prove it to clear this up but theyre refusing to open up. Would you continue to try and resolve this or at this point just let it go?

My sister is obsessed with her favorite actor she's madly in love she was heart broken when she found out he was married with 2 kids. She said she'll do anything to keep him away from his family especially his wife because she hates her. She said his wife is even more beautiful than she is. He's an English actor I don't know who he is I never heard of him but she watches his show all the time. She said it's not fair that British guys have to be so cute she wishes that England wasn't too far away or she would kidnap him. She's been crying about him all weekend all she does is sit in her room and cry. She can't even look at pictures of him without crying. She said she even dreams of him. It's making her really depressed. She doesn't have very many friends boys don't really like her. She said she just wants to love someone. He's bringing back another season of his show she hopes to be in it but she just wants to try to have an affair with him. She's only 12 he's 42. She said it hurts knowing that he's married seeing pictures of him with his family makes her hurt even more. I'm surprised she can even get through his show without crying. She said hearing about his marriage and his kids she said it feels like she lost her best friend even though she doesn't even know him. Why do girls cry over guys ?

My wife's mother Joyce (my mother in law) is young, in her early 40s. She has a great sense of humor. She is also an avid golfer. I was at a party at her house recently and people were talking to her about her love of golf. Someone ask her who her favorite golf partner was. She said "Bob (me) because I get to play with his balls". Everyone had a good laugh. Someone said "Is it OK with Bob that you play with his balls". She said he doesn't care if he is not using them and I really get a thrill when his balls go in the hole. Everyone got an even bigger laugh at her comment. Should I clue her in that people are taking what she is saying the wrong way or does she know what she is saying and just being funny?

Okay so let's get things straight before I submit this post, my parents aren't abusive and I'm not pulling a card like that over things like shouting. My parents however are very loud and confronting about every little thing, they are very controlling in what my brother and I can do or not. For example they threaten to take things away we love as a form of discipline, this includes time with significant other when such disciplines aren't needed in such high volume. They don't always follow through a threat and are just purely trying to get us to do something logical like studying which makes since. This isn't the main issue is what I am trying to say. Now the main issue for me personally is the constant shouting and demanding, whenever my mom enters the room she demands a thousand things from my brother and I and we can't get anything done and she gets very impatient and hostile when we don't do things in a split second. She just shouts louder and louder over time. This shouting has gotten so out of hand that more than half of my family agrees it's a major problem, my grandmother, dad, my old step dad and my other grandmother all support this, and so do I. Additionally my mom whenever she's ordering something or is on the line for costumer service is never patient and is always cussing people out over the line, personally I find this to be a very irritating lifestyle, all I want to know ow is how I can help my mom calm down a little bit and reframe from all the loud shouting.

If a man has a child with a woman who has an adult daughter from a previous marriage, and then goes on to have a child with that adult daughter, how are the two babies related? are they siblings, cousins, uncle/aunt, ?? To clarify: A man has a baby with a woman (woman A). Later on, he has a child with another woman (woman B) Woman A is Woman B's mother. How are the two babies related? I know they are half-siblings, but would one also be the aunt/uncle?

In april 2004 I was 10 when my brother, a Marine,was KIA. For years I wanted to see the last places he saw but my parents would say to me that I was too young,that Iraq was dangerous. Hell,it still is. I know that. But I really would like to see the places he saw. I have money, I can travel alone. My brother never lived to be 24 and sometimes I feel guilty being older than he will ever be,but I want to see the last places he saw. Smell the same air he smelled. Maybe this will give me closure. In april it will be 15 years without him and I would like to honor him somehow.Advice? So technically speaking,is it possible/safe?

Ever since I was very young my mother has always lied, about literally everything. Even if it's not worth a lie. Sometimes she'll lie to cover up something that could be for my benefit- she bought me a car and when I asked why she'd do that (I was only 15 and couldn't drive) she said it was a BOGO deal which makes no sense. She lied to me about my act scores, she lied to me about me nothing being able to get into a college I wanted to go to, and she lied and said my aunt she doesn't like is "dead". She also tries to remake memories for me telling me she was very patient and caring for me when I was young even though I distinctly remember her being very callous. So what should I do? I can't stand it but she's literally the most unresponsive person I've ever spoken too, if you'll call it that. Our conversations are basically just her talking at me like I'm a blow up doll and I can't call her out because she literally ignores me as if I didn't say anything

His bio-father is my Mom's ex-husband. My brother was a teen before he reconnected with the man. My mother does not hate the man anymore but did. However, he is surely not a friend of hers. I am giving him info for the trip. I wanted to tell my Dad to say "want me to give him Aunt Linda's number" as he is travelling near a relative on my Dad's side of the family. However, I don't know if this is my brother's news to share since their has been contention here. Am I best not to say anything and let my brother? Or do I say something? My brother is 29 and I am 20. My brother mentioned it to me in an email the other day asking if I'd been to Alaska. This is where he is going. It is with his father and the father's new wife and her family. The father is nice enough the two times I have met him but one of those part-time father's on his 4th marriage.

I did hear from him last night but Christmas is over and that was only cause I reached out via email. Have not spoken to him in a year and a half. I am seeing him in June at a wedding. So is he still my brother, not counting the DNA connection? Or is he simply a biological brother I don't know?

My fiance is from Australia.His family lives there. I had never met any of them before the holidays. But my Fiance decided that since we got engaged in Sept it was time I met them. He got a really good bonus so he helped pay for his parents and his sister and 2 brothers to come to Texas to meet my family and me. It was going good. But Christmas eve came around and we had a get together at my moms house. Liquior was involved and I went outside to get some fresh air and my fiances dad came out to smoke a cig. We started talking and he started telling me how pretty I was and I thought it was nice and the next thing I knew he was like rubbing his hands on my boobs. I said stop and moved away and he said "Sorry just drunk" I kind of just let that go. A few days later that weekend we had another get together and they were all drinking again but we were at my house. I was up in my room to use the bathroom and I walk out and his brother was in my room laying on my bed almost passed out and I just let him stay there and was quietly walking out when he said my name. I turned around and he had his penis out and was like you know you got the wrong brother. I got a bigger one for you.I told him to put in back in his pants before I cut in off. But I still didn't say anything to my fiance. They are back in Australia but it is still bothering me, was this some kind of test or were they being that nasty? Should I tell my fiance? Also, they are taking about coming back for the parents 30 year wedding anniversary in June. If this is the way they act I do not want them here. I have to tell my fiance that as well.

They say I am a gossip when my mother is the one who has disclosed everything from who has had sex with who in the family to one one occasion sharing when she and my Dad are going to have sex to details of my uncle's alcoholism and blaming his family for it to telling me about a relatives infidelity to sharing a lie accusing someone of being a pedophile when they were not to lying about a close loved one to telling me financial details about everyone and having me show her how to cyberstalk on Facebook when I joined 4 years ago. My Dad meanwhile is not as bad as my Mom but enables her in this and does lots of small talk like telling his uncle about a neighbor of my parents' who has cancer when the neighbor did not want others to know. Or on another occasion telling his family my Mom's parents were moving when they did not want that shared. The real malicious and cowardly gossip my Dad has only done once (shared a story of a homosexual couple). So how do I get my parents to stop lying about me and point out that they are the gossips and not me? I am a young adult out on my own, aged 24, but it still hurts.

My daughter just turned 3 in September. Her biological father hasnt seen her since she was 1. He always said he didn t want to get attached to her cuz he was t sure she was his or not. I told him a DNA test cost $80 but I m not wasting my money on it cuz I know your her father. I just recently filed for child support cuz I was tired of his excuses. When I filed for it. He told me he was going to go for full custody cuz he didn t know I had a job. I told him he could try. But they aren t going to throw her in a home with someone they don t know. We have known since October that he is the father but hes still making excuses. And now I think hes pissed cuz he has to pay child support. But I told him o could ve been a b**** and went for back child support lol. But should I just go on without speaking to him again. I told him the hrs i work and we are both off the weekends so there s really no reason Why he can t see her. Side note: I got into a relationship when she was 8 months old and she calls my fiance dad. I told her bio dad that I m not going to confuse her at such a young age and will probably wait til 7/8 to tell her.

I've had a rough relationship w/my mom for yrs. 5 yrs ago she moved away & has since been trying to figure out ways to make me move back in w/her, for reference I'm 30 yrs old. Recently I told her I couldn't find my boyfriend who went to visit a friend, got sick, didn't send word & didn't come home as promised. She thought this meant things were not well w/ him & I'd move back in w/ her. When he came home &we worked things out, mom would barely talk to me. Days later, my step father accused me via text of bashing my family online that night&going on a vacation, spending tons of $. That night I was too distraught about finding my boyfriend to bash ppl online & what he claims was a vacation was a mandatory business trip 1hr away to go over Bylaws, insurance &census reports. He has no access to my social media, mom does, so all he knows is from her. I tried correcting the error, sent a pic of the meeting schedule & was told not to bother unless I called to fight it. I was in public crying at the time. I decided it best to disown & walk away to get some peace of mind & block them from all communications so as not to be egged into a fight. Next evening, my step father made contact w/my boyfriend telling him to make me call. My BF asked if things are ok & got "her behavior is not but I will handle it". Basically, he wants me to call so he can threaten to drag me from my current residency & make me cry. I decided not to call. Is this normal? Am I wrong to walk away?

So I faked my grades to my parents because I didn't do well this semester and they believed it and then last night they received a letter saying that I couldn't take one of the classes I signed up for and they instantly knew I had been lying. The huge problem is I can't come to fruition with myself to tell them the truth and they know I'm lying but I'm in WAY too deep and I have no idea what to do. I dont want them to see my current grades either because they are extremely bad. What do I do to calm myself or make this all go away??

When I moved to Philadelphia my neighbor s daughter which was 14 at the time gravitated to me to the point she call me mom. Her own mother wasn t in her life much and I even though she lived with her mom her mom would never be home. Eventually her mother let her come live with me and my kids I finished raising her. She s 21 years old had a baby and one day she texts me ma can you watch the baby for me for a few days im like sure. What was supposed to be 4 days turned into months. The baby now is 6 months and she hardly spends time with the child comes stays for 2 days and leaves. Tells me ma im going to the store and comes back a week later. Stays for a day or two and shes gone again. I have special needs children and im literally exhausted ive already spoken to her and she doesnt seem to care much. I just dont know what to do😣 I dont want the child to end up on foster care I would love for her to take care of her child. Everyone keeps telling to call children services but I dont have the heart to do so... ugh😣😣

They're 7 since this last August and they've been sharing a room since they were born, they seem to really enjoy it, are they getting too old for this though?

My wife's aunty will visit from China with 3 friends in tow. We live in a 2 bedroom apartment. She wants my son and I to stay 2 hours away with my parents for 2 weeks so her family don't need to pay for accommodation. She is trying to arrange for her aunty to sleep in the same bed as her, the two female friends in the spare room and the male friend on the sofa bed... They will come to visit for the day to see our son and my parents. I am extremely p*** about this. Because I took 4 weeks annual leave to spend time with my son. I had planned for special day trips away and to clean out the storage in my home. Instead half of the leave is wasted on her bs once again. She won't listen to me when I said her family can stay in the hotel! She considers this rude and not how Chinese behave. I don't get it. Because in Western culture we are afraid of imposing on others and I would never have the hide to kick out the spouse and children to stay with my family. I would do the right thing and rent a hotel room for my stay. I feel like her and her family don't give a s*** about me or my son. They have no concept of disruption. I'm wondering if next time I go back to China they will vacate one of their homes to allow me to stay there? I highly doubt it. I will be shoved in a tiny room and have to put up with it. What can I do? Upset her and her family by refusing to leave? Or just give in? My parents are so angry as well. It means they will need to drive my son and I around. I cannot postpone the holidays. I like the idea of a hotel room but my son is only 8 months old. He needs a cot. Also I never explained myself well. Her parents have been staying with us to look after our son whilst we are working. Now they have gone back to China. I'm working approx 1 week of night shift before my leave commences. My parents have been looking after our son in their home for almost 7 days now. They are getting fed up with it. They will not let me drive their car. They have appointments and my dad is a shift worker. So I will have nowhere to take my son for 2 weeks. Hotel is sounding good! I did some searching online and I cannot afford the $2000 for 2 weeks of hotel fees! Airbnb is not much cheaper. Both options are off the table because they don't have a cot and I do not have the money. My parent's home town is very small and far from the city. It has no public transport and it is 2hrs walk away from the nearest train station. I will be stuck in the house with nothing more than a park nearby. I had planned to stay in my home in the city close to transport, shops, cafes, harbour ferry, beaches etc. We have one car and I cannot afford a rental. My wife will need the car. My parents will not drive me around in their car and will not let me drive their car. So I basically have 2 weeks in a house and walking some lonely deserted streets with a park next door. Very boring!

And said that because we are having trouble finding an apartment we should either move to New Jersey or go find a place in the projects. We both have full time jobs and part time jobs... isnt thst kind of messed up? We live in Staten Island NY at the moment...

Known my fiancé's sister for 1 year now me and my fiancé will get married in March and I will live with his family for a couple of years and his sister is getting married in June so she will move out to live with her in laws too. I've noticed she's very cold with me when ever she texts me I text her back and she always takes 2 hours up to 24 hours to text back this always happens but I always see she's on her phone on social media and always online on what's app, she tries to tell me she falls asleep but I know she's awake and just didn't reply. Why text me in the first place if you text back again after 24 hours and it's not like she's busy she's just sat at home. She forgot my birthday last month, it was in her phone calendar as a reminder and her mum was on about my birthday for a week and all she can say the next day is sorry thought I text you. She never wants to hang out with me or go for food she just doesn't seem to want to when I've dropped hints previously. She's always asking me about my wedding day and which makeup and hair artist im having but doesn't tell me who she's having unless I ask her. She always goes on about how white my skin is because she's Asian and I'm half white half Mediterranean so of course my skins whiter than hers. She asked me why I have a fringe and asked me to show my forhead because she said do you have a big forhead is that why you have a fringe. This made me feel insecure. I don't know why she doesn't make an effort it's upsetting

I want him to get it. Even my mother who was the most immature mother in the world when I was growing up and did this CONSTANTLY, finally gets it and has mostly stopped. As a result I like her again. My Dad still plays this. Most their spats is with my Mom's family cause they are Italian and so share everything. My Dad's family everyone gets along with and there is seldom if ever any conflict. Mom's side you are all good or all bad. If you are all good you are like a God to us if you are all bad we seek character assassination. I even participated nonstop as a kid by going around school sharing any secrets I could, many wildly animated. For example, one uncle would yell at his kids too much and my parents hated him, so I told people he was a violent child abuser who we had to be protected from. So now at age 32 how can I refuse to participate in my Dad's childish ways where he gets it? I don't want to refuse to talk to him cause then I will become as immature as he is.

Now that Christmas is over I wondered if I should thank her for behaving like a civil person and not a cruel bully like usual or like last Christmas. She also was not an animal on Thanksgiving when I saw her. She is a 24 year old adult bully and narcissist who was made this way by our mother's fear of disciplining her.

My sister was crying she wanted me to hug her she cried on me for a while. She's going through a rough time she hasn't been feeling well lately. Why do girls love hugs so much ?

My sister is really hurt that a guy who she has a crush on is married and has kids. She said she loves him so much she's tried so hard to get over him but she said it really hurts. She's been crying about him for the past two days. She called me last night crying I didn't know what to say to her I just told her it will be ok she said it won't be. She's staying with us tonight she's been in her room all day crying. How can I comfort her ? What should I say to her ?

So I'm 16 and my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. My dad is an alcoholic and when he's drunk he says stuff like he's going to kick his *** and more things like that. Honestly if it wasn't for me I think my dad would've actually don't that by now. I always have to hold him back which is really hard because he's 6"2 and 456 pounds. Its just really scary and i have nightmares about it all the time. Any advice??

When i was young, i had good grades and excelled in studies.Even when i got full marks in all subjects,she would not even praise me.She always scolds me and even hits me.She scolds me more when i cry. She then acts just normally as if nothing happened.i know it is to make herself feel guilt free. Now i am in high school,she as well as my dad have been pressuring me for good grades. it was all bcoz of their uncaring attitude first that i didn t feel like studying at all causing my grades to drop. Now, she scolds me even more and makes me feel depressed always blaming me.She does not allow me to hang out with anyone. I feel insecure with her.She can just erupt anytime. whenever,i am doing something in the phone or laptop, she would occasionally snatch it from me to see what i am doing.i like japanese manga,kpop,kdrama,anime so ,i have to be extra careful coz I know she will scold and hit me if she knows i like them. She never wants me to experience romance, love and have a boyfriend. we are indian. so she wants me to have a arranged marriage according to her choice after i grow up and the boy should be of our country, religion and caste.I don t believe in all these and i know i will definitely only marry the one i love after i grow up even if that means fighting with her.but, thanks to all these,lately i have been feeling very much depressed and feel like dying and can t focus on studies.I love studying but, i can t even focus.My dad also supports her silently What should I do?

My sister wants to sleep with me she hasn't been doing well lately. She was crying earlier I asked her what's wrong she just hugged me and asked if she could sleep with me. She really needs someone right now. Is it OK to sleep with her ?

My husband is pushing middle age. His mother has not worked a day in her life and his father is a narcissistic CFO who thinks he is the boss of everyone. His mother thinks she is intelligent and a career coach. I mentioned that work is slow at his trucking job and we have some financial hardships(they of course would never know about this since they are wealthy). Years ago, they met a man who bought a truck and claimed that the candidates "cant even pass a drug test and he cant find good candidates" we have been hearing this sob story for years and how my husband "just has to go work for this guy" despite them admitting they have not spoken to him in years and dont even know if he still has an 18 wheeler. My husband respectfully declined and said that since he owned his own business in the past, he is happy finding his own job if that is what he wants. His parents wont back down and have been harassing him to "send his resume and apply with this guy" (the guy they hardly know and dont even talk to). His father is always claiming someone "owes him a favor" and he can get anyone to do what he wants. How can we get them to back off? He is a grown man and wants them to leave him alone and admitted this is "annoying". I have tried to politely tell his mother to butt out. She once bragged that his father "is at such an advanced salary level, he cant accept less than $200,000 a year for a salary and walks into an interview and gets what he wants" (he has been fired from 3 jobs since he has lived here and claims he has political pull in a major city, he is from up north, we are in the south- he cant even drive in this city) Oh, and fake answers using incoherent typing will be reported and blocked! he actually got tired of it and asked me to send his resume, since I have resume making experience. He just wants to shut them up. Why is his mother such an expert on careers when she has never worked, has no education, and has rode the gravy train his dad has for her whole life?

Like my middle class parents, I too am generous with my money but I realize at thirty, as a woman who's been basically unemployed for the past 10 years that I used to overspend on people, with the best intentions, beyond my means, as a working class woman. Now I'm starting a rewarding but low paying job in aged care and realising this. I recently bought my mum a beautiful crescent moon sun catcher with a crystal sun and an Irish linen tablecloth for her birthday. I ordered her a painting of the Cliffs of Moher for ,Mother's Day, in case I'm renting out a place and I can't afford to do it by these dates. Are these adequate gifts from someone who is poor? Just buying them now means that I'll have to really watch my money for the next few weeks.

I'm going on vacation this summer. But I still have school. And summer vacation is almost 6 months away.

My son has been asking me where his mom is. He said all his friends have a mom even his favorite cartoon characters have a mom. What should I tell him that his mom gave him away or that he's never gonna see her again. I could tell him that me and my husband adopted him because we couldn't have kids since both of us are guys. He maybe 4 but he's smart for his age and very mature. I don't want him to be upset if he finds out the truth about it. How can I talk to him ?

My mom wasn't home so I responded to my urge. I took my clothes off and sat on the sofa. I felt very horny so I masburbated really fast. My mom opened the door and caught me by the time I was having an orgasm. My mom yelled at me. She won't talk to me. What to do?

My sister is obsessed with the tv show Sherlock she has a huge crush on him she cries about him a lot. She was broken hearted when she found out he was married with 2 kids soon to be 3 she hope's that's not true. She cried about him all weekend. She's been going gothic or emo or what it is she's been really depressed she says depressing stuff she said she feels sad and lonely. She just sits in her room crying her heart out. She cried on Friday after we watched it she didn't sleep well at all. She said all she wants is him. She's tried so hard to get over him but she said it really hurts she wish I could take her pain away my husband is a doctor he could probably give her medicine or something for it but it's nothing worth getting upset over or killing herself over she's even threatened suicide. She tries hard not to watch the show without crying but she can't cry because he's so funny. She said he's the only thing she wants she said it's not fair he has to be so adorable she said his wife is so lucky she's so beautiful a lot more beautiful than her. She's gone into reality deep depression she's never done this before. She must really want him if she loves him this hard she said she even dreams about him. Why do girls cry over guys ? How can I comfort her ?

I'm in high school but my mom makes my bedtime at 8:00. I can't have my phone unless she is watching me(I'm sneaking). I wear a size 0 she claims my pants are to tight. I bought gorgeous casual dresses for school that stop just above the knee, but she says they are to short and are gonna have grown men looking at me. I can't text nor call friends. I can't hang out unless she's there. I can't have social media, can't wear shorts, nor makeup. She's always telling my how skinny I am, and how I need to eat. She's always telling my how bad my skin is, but doesn't let me do anything to change it. I am I. She made me quit a sport because she claimed it's for gay girls. The honor roll and have honors classes so it's not like I'm a bad kid. Why is she still treating me like this? ( sorry if my grammar isn't right im rushing)

Addict but the other parent works full time to support everyone. The drug addict isn't abusive but doesn't function as a parent or work.

My parents got divorced when i was 13, ever since then I've been living with my mom. I am now 19 and things have changed quite a bit with my mom, my mom has been taking to partying with her friends at our house quite often. Her friends would turn the karaoke machine volume to ungodly volumes and the worst part of it is that they sing in the living room which is on the other side of my wall. I took a break from college and am now planning to go back to school and taking my studies seriously, I decided that these conditions aren't the best for studying and I talked to my mom about moving in with my dad. Obviously, there were tears and I told her countless times that it wasn't because I didn't love her anymore, it was for my studies. Eventually she understood but lately she seems saddened and I'm overcome with this crushing guilt. In my house hold, my two aunts, my uncle, my cousin and her boyfriend, and my two younger cousins live in our house, with my uncle's family living up stairs and my cousin and her boyfriend along with my second aunt living in the attic, yet despite all this; I can't help but feel like she will feel lonely. I promised her that if she needed help with anything; I would help her in a heartbeat. But this guilt is eating me up inside and I don't want my mom's loneliness to do the same to her. I'm just looking for some advice from an outside perspective...

Ever since I got pregnant and had a baby my mother in law compwñgelt changed with me and Idk why. We were great with eshotber before but i think she may be jealous now that I married her son... perhaps she thought he'd never marry me... Anyway, yesterday I Came home with the baby, said hello to her and she barely looked up so I went up to her and said hi and gave her a kiss on the cheek. She barely said hi and continued to just talk to my daughter so I told her I needed to go change the baby, I turned around and left into my room and left the door wide open thinking she'd follow. When I was about to walk out I noticed she was screaming st my husband and I basically heard her saying that I was a fake ***** and that he needed to see who I truly was. Now this is very awkward for me... I had no idea she felt this way about me. I just thought she had a lot of work and didn't come over to see me while I was on maternity leave but apparently she thinks I'm a fake *****? Now my husband is on a witch hunt to see what I did to see in the past months cuz he says she's never been this way with anyone. Thoughts? Advice?

We made plans about 6 months ago to move back, found a place to live told our family and they were all happy. Within the last couple of months things really have started to gel with us in Grand Forks, we started finding some friends, found a church that we have been involved with and are second guessing our decision to move back. What should we do?

I'm 30 years old and I can't stand my family but I don't takes it for grantes

My dad has never shown emotion towards me, he's never told me he loves me or hugged me or told me he's missed me, whenever we talk it seems more like a business meeting. He never asks how my day was or engages in my interests. My mom doesn't live with us, it's just my dad and I. My dad and I say less than 20 words a day to each other. He offers no emotional support just financially. And it has come to the point where it's been like this forever that it'd be to awkward and weird to talk about this problem we have. I used to think it was me, but I see his relationship with my brothers and it's the same. I'm a girl btw. And advice? Reasons why he's like this?

My cousin the other day she told me ok we are going out. With you I will even goo to the end of the world with. What normally does that mean? I'm a guy by the way lol

One time I let one of the babies to go over there to spend time and when I went to pick him up because my husband was at work and couldn't, she didn't open the door she let me wait outside until he was ready to come out. The reason I'm not allowed over there : because my husband went over there with the kids one day and got so drunk he threw up all over his mothers bed, and when I reached there to get the kids he was still laying in his vomit no one intended to clean after him being so intoxicated, so I threw water on him not a full bucket but a cup full. ( me throwing the water shooter I didn't respwxr her home) lol

I was shopping at the mall and I was asked by a young boy if the Santa is real. I started pondering about the existence of Santa. I'm planning to catch him on Christmas 2019 to see if Santa is real. Any advices that can help me catch him? Thanks.