I'm 22 and in a masters program. I worked with 4 other people in a group. He was rude to me, but would always volunteer to explain concepts to me. Even if other people are trying to explain he will always say let me explain. And if I needed help during presentations would want to help me. He also tried to help me print papers. He's 25. So, a little older than me. Other times he would say "I will take care of it" during projects I think bc he didn't want me to mess up..thoughts.

Hello, I would like to start off by giving you a little background Info on my relationship. My Fiancé and I have been together for 7 years. I'm 28 and she is also. We met in college where she was studying to be a physicians assistant and I was in law school. I am now a corporate attorney for Proctor and Gamble and she is working as a PA at a very well respected facility here in our city. I always like her being a PA because she had a great career however I was still the obvious bread winner. She came home the other day to tell me that she wanted to quit her job and go back to school to be an anesthesiologist. Now the fact she wanted to quit her job wasn't the part that upset me. I make well over 6 figures and the part of the country we reside in isnt very expensive. It was the fact she wants to become an anesthesiologist that angered me. She will now be the bread winner (earning roughly 300k annually) and I can't accept that. I've since taken my things and moved out of our beautiful home we just purchased last year on a golf course I'm a member at and play frequently. I'm even thinking about calling off our wedding if she doesn't give this foolish idea up. What should I do? I feel I'm being insane however I can't be with someone who earns more than me.

We have had a rocky relationship the last four years. He has been in some legal trouble more than once and that has put a strain on things. for the last couple years he would sleep on the couch a night or two a week if I was up late reading but then about two months ago he just stopped sleeping in our bed. I've asked him to return but he refuses. He refuses to hug me back or kiss me. Yet, he says he does not want a divorce. I feel so lonely and confused.

So my husband is meeting his kid's mother and son at this nice park on Saturday. He is just going along with her "supervised" visits (dictated by her not the court) in order to see his son until he gets through with the custody/visitation battle pending in court so that he doesn't miss time with his son. My husband and I have two kids together and I always wanted to go to that park, since it's a Saturday and we're both of is it reasonable for me to go with him and bring :our" kids during this visit with his other kid? Here are the choices 1. Go and bring the kids and try to either get along or just keep a distance from her. 2. Go but let him and the child's mother and child bond and I walk a different trail or different area with the kids. 3. Don't go at all and do something totally different and let him go alone Sorry many typos I'm sleepy lol but Since it's a Saturday and we're both off

if you send your wife to college and now she is financially independent who can support herself and her kids. And she wakes up one day that she doesn't need you anymore. Would you kill her for using you and dumping you after.

My wife and I got married 2 months ago. We don't own nothing together. She won't have problems just walking away for what she has and I wouldn't either. So my question is how cheap can a divorce be? And do it without a lawyer? What are my best steps for a divorce?

In no way am I being racist or judging. Just curious. And if this is true. How does she cope being far from family? Esp if family isn't Muslim.

Me and him been talking and in a relationship for seven month now we are planing on getting married soon. Please don't judge me for age gap

So he cheated on me 3 years ago and I didnt find out until I was 7 months pregnant with our daughter. I never regained feelings but I stayed because of our baby, resenting him more every day. First mistake. I was (am) very young (and stupid) and at the time figured no one else would want me. We don't have much of a relationship but when he gets urges I [used to] lay there and let him do what he had to just so he'd leave me alone. Then I met a guy who actually WOULD want me but because I'm in a relationship no matter how empty, it couldn't really go anywhere other than an emotional affair. (Judge me if you want, my daughter's dad slept with his manager, tried to invite her to our HOUSE so he could sleep with her again, then tried to get me to be friends with her. I don't give a crap about him anymore, not romantically anyways. :) that felt good to admit.) Anyways, my daughter's dad found out. Still didn't want to leave but he got so jealous that the next time I "laid there" he neglected to do certain things a guy can do to ensure that a woman won't get pregnant-on purpose. It worked. I don't blame him, it's all my fault. But I'm so miserable. Lately I've been thinking. Once I get my degree why not just leave? We stay together for financial reasons as well as my daughter but I could move out once I graduate and get a good job. I guess my question is, do I deserve to be happy or because of my stupidity should I sacrifice my happiness so my kids can love with their dad?

We have 11-year old twins and been married for almost six years. During the six years, he's fathered another child during our first separation of almost two years. Even though we were separated, we still had sex. I did not find out about the other woman until I wanted to give it another try. I called off the divorce. We became one again in November 2014, then another woman said she slept with my husband after we moved away. He denied her, spoke about her badly. Months down the line, we move back to that city. The same woman claimed she had been having unprotected sex with him, that he loved her, and he had been stalking her. She also stated I was a paymaster because I work and he receives SSI. She claimed he was using me to make her jealous because he is make-believing to be a family man. This time, he did not say anything negative about this woman. She contacted me 3 months ago, we are separated as of this past Friday. He changed his married status, which he finally put 'married' in Nov. 2014, to separated and has deleted me off his Facebook and his page is private. How would you take this? Should I try again for the sake of my kids one more time or should I start proceedings and can he receive alimony. We live in Florida.

I'm 27 and my husband is 30. We have 4 young kids and I'm 7 months pregnant with my 5th. I'm biracial and my husband is a typical white man. He always annoys me with his stupid jokes and leaving the house a mess. Even if I clean as soon as he comes home it's dirty. The kids are cleaner than him! He can never do anything right. He gives the kids candy several times a week even if they can only have it ones a week. My husband has a very high libido. The baby is bigger than the other ones, I have a huge baby bump and my back hurts. It doesn't matter to him whether I'm pregnant or not he wants sex every day. We haven't had sex in 2 weeks now and he's very frustrated. He wants to touch me but I reject him. I don't care if he's sexually frustrated and it's not my problem. Maybe we would be intimate more often if he didn't always annoy me. What do I do?

e cheated with the same woman before being engaged. He continued the affair for a year and a half. He says he has to stop now that the wedding date is set, but he has said before that he would stop. He and the other woman are good friends and work together and he plans to continue working with her and remaining friends. What are the chances that he will stop cheating once he is married? I think he feels that he has to stop cheating for religious reasons, however I'm not sure why after the wedding and not before since He lives with the fiancee now. This would be the second marriage for both.

The mother of my husband's child says she wants him to have a relationship with his son. However her actions speak differently. Their son is 4. She only allows supervised visits until their son is "comfortable" around him. Over the span of one year they've only mastered about three supervised visits. My husband is ready to pick his son up and take him to see his family and keep him for a few hours. She is not and keeps saying she prefers to meet with him making him drive an hour to only get a 20-30 minute visit with his son and her. One day she wants him to bring his family (me and our kids) but most days she doesn't want us around. Each time he asks questions like what daycare are you taking him to? Where are his swimming lessons? What does he like to eat? She doesn't respond. She only responds to things like ... I don't want to bring my wife and kids around people like you who one day wants nothing to do with them and the next wants them around... or Happy Mother's Day - then it's same to you and your wife! She always has to mention me somehow. Can never answer a question about their son or if he asks to see him, takes days or weeks to respond and then the visits are maybe 2 hours tops... meaning the last time they were able to spend two hours at Monkey Joes since he brought my son too to play...which still doesn't give him much bonding time because he is mostly running around in bounce houses while he and their kid's mother sit together awkwardly as they play. To update to some answers there is no court order he's been trying to resolve this without going to court and yes he has been paying child support.

I'm 13 years old and my mom wants a divorce because she said dad was secretly a type of priate called a butt pirate. She said he went on cruises with other butt pirates and apparently they were sailing to deliver candy and sweets and dad had to job of packing the fudge for the customers. Is it really so bad that he had a second job?

Would it be wrong if I sold her TV

my husband planned a surprise party for his mothers birthday and wants me to help him. says he will be pissed if I don t. why should I? the bat doesn t like me. her attitude is the worse ive seen from someone in my whole life. your mother calls me a betch and you think im gonna help you plan her party? hell I wouldn t even help you plan her funeral. that s how bad of a person she is and at 59 theres no changing her. so do I help him and act like im having a good time or say fck the both of them and go out for drinks with friends? hasn't completely planned yet but is in the process is what I should have said you sound like his ignoramus mother and if he wants to leave me he can. I believe she wants him sexually anyway being as though hes the closest thing to a man shes been around in over 20 years.

I divorced her after 10 years of marriage but our relationship in total has been on for 15 years. We met in college. Found out she been cheating on me with some rich fat man and she doesn't work no more. Recently in yoga class I met some 18 year old and I'm 36! We have a good thing going and we ran into my ex at a club and she looked like death. She was alone with no fat rich man and not even a young dude wants her. My date and I danced and she drove us home since I was drinking just a little.

My question is he came home and asked if I would forgive him. What do I do?

reason,) then you should too! Right?

I lost my virginity a week ago with my husband,I was very turned on and wet, so it didnt hurt a lot. But, the question is when its going to start to feel better? It just a weird feeling, it doesnt hurt a lot, but its just idk, not that much pleasureable. I wonder when its gonna start to be good?🤔 We had sex 2 times since he took my virginity. Now his not here,Im waiting for him to come to America so we can have sex again, just to see is it good or bad?! I really have a problem, Im scared that this is going to be bad all my life, and he is such a good fu**er, that omg😜

When they feel like the guy isn't a good provider they leave? The guy isn't supposed to be the provider men and women are equal now. More women are graduating college than men so I think women are actually making more than men in many instances especially in the younger crowd. I am engineer I can afford to play the game but guess what I can also afford high end escorts and the escorts are always going to be 20 something and hot no matter how old I get while women my age get old and fat.

My husband isn't into sex with me. I've tried for years and he is never interested. We we do have sex, I don't excite him. I try and try...lost weight...tried to spice it up etc....nothing and he won't do anything about it. I cheated....feel sick about. Not actual intercourse but the guy just wanting to "please me". He didn't get aroused either....so not only do I feel sick about cheating but 2 men who don't get hard with me? I didn't really enjoy it much I felt so guilty and insecure. I just really myself. Now the guy I cheated with said it wasn't really cheating because we didn't have sex (that's crazy) and we won't do it again "it never happened".....he knew I was insecure and he said "don't worry, I didn't notice anything bad"....that doesn't make me feel any better. What is wrong with me? I've only been with 4 guys in my life....I'm always told how pretty I am...and I feel so ugly....my friends who are 100 lbs overweight get men left and right.

We have been together for 2yrs. Should I leave everything as is, or ask when he would like to get married? He says 39 is young, I think he is just scared of commitment..what should I do?

We've been married for 2 months and she just decided she never loved me and never wanted to marry me. She let me know this through a text. Now she called and asked when am I moving out and if I'll help pay for the divorce. I'm not rich so she had nothing to gain from marrying me. She gave the cat we adopted away without discussing it with me. I loved that cat. Can she legally kick me out of our home even though we're married. Ans should I help pay for the divorce

My wife and I just recently found out that our newborn child is not mine .soneone put drugs in her drink and she was taking advantage of her without her knowledge. I already have a family with her and this happens it's very hard for both us especially me I don't know what to do I do love my wife and I do want to stay with her just this child not being mine ido what to do if I can get too love him or would I reject him how would I feel . Anybody in the same situation any advice ?

I feel stupid asking for advice on here, but how do I get my husband to give me more attention? He is out of town for the military and his classes end around 4 p.m. I never text him first because he is always busy doing stuff and I don't want to bug him. He texts me every day however not as much as I would like. I understand he is busy, but he is ALWAYS on xbox playing video games. And I understand he wants time to relax and enjoy his free time however I feel like he chooses his videogames over me all the time. Everytime we skype, he is always playing videogames and when I call him he doesn't really pay attention to what I say because he is playing videogames. And it just bugs me that he doesn't really want to talk to me as much as I'd like to talk to him. I'm not asking for a 3 hour conversation over skype or on the phone, but maybe 30 min from his time to talk to his wife is all I ask and he doesn't seem to care. What would you do?

I've been married for 3 years now and dont know if I should stay. I have tried to leave but my wife threatens to kill herself and I fear she might harm herself. My issue is that I dont trust her. I recently found out that she has been flirting with guys online, masterbating on webcam for them, and sending nude photos to several men. Now she did chose to stop this right before I found out on my own by feeling suspious and going threw her email. This same sort of thing happen 3 times before we got married. As far as I know she hasn't actually had sex with anyone but my gut instint tells me its a matter of time for two reasons. First off is even now she still blushes at just about any man who notices her and then gets deffencive if I bring it up. I will be looking right at her and she still denies it even though I plannly see it. A good example of this is one day as we were leaving our apartment I was walking down the stairs behind her, at the bottom floor there was a group of guys talking. I could see one of them clearly, the one who was talking at the time in fact, is looking directly at my wife as she walks down the stairs. He was already looking at her then suddenly his face lights up, he stops talking in mid conversation, and fallows us to our car and just stands behind the car looking and she wasnt bothered by it all. It made her mad for me to even ask why she wasn't bothered by it. There is even a neibhior who is always tring to look at her and into our house. He never comes around when Im not here but will find any reason to when Im not home. I've caught her looking at him and I dont like it. secondly, her past history before me and with me. Before me she has admitted to going to extremes to get attention from men. She admitts to having had sex with two men at the same time, having sex with out even knowing a guys name, and even having been raped once. Yes I still love this woman, I married more for the fact that she had a child by me. I dont know what to do. I thought we would never have this problem again after marriage but its back now and seems worse than before.

My wife and I have a 2 year old and have been married for 4 years. Since, our son was born, she has been paying less ans less attention to me. We had 2 great years of marriage and these last 2 have been hell on earth. I am not one of those guys who doesn't help out but complains. I cook dinner and do the dishes EVERY night. I am the first one up in the morning so I make breakfast for my wife so that when I leave and she is just waking up, she has a ready for her. I work 45 (lately closer to 50) hours per week to make sure that we have enough money to live and take care of our son. I tell her all the time that she is beautiful and I lover her but she acts like I am a nuisance and an inconvenience. I have tried spending more time with our son. My though process was since she spends all her time with him, that if I spend time with him I will get to spend time with her too but she wants no part of it. If I put him in the stroller to take him for a walk she is "too tired" or "its too cold" If we are sitting in bed watching TV and I put my arm around her (in a non-sexual way) she will tell me she is not in the mood. We have not had sex in the last 2 months. If I try talking to her about how I am feeling she will say "Of course I love you, you need to stop being so sensitive". Why is she acting like this? What can I do to get her to open up to me? I miss my wife and I want her back.

Some people don't believe in marriage and some don't . I don't only because I mean you don't have to marry someone you love, you can be with them forever and never get married. What are your reasons about, "Why Get Married?"

Firstly a lot of woman would like to marry a rich man mostly because of his money. Even if someone loves you doesn't mean they never gonna give you a divorce, people change. If someone loves you can't they stay in just living relationship with you. Why marry and risk losing a lot when you can stay happy forever and Noone losses anything

Now I'm not talking like 17 or younger marriages but once a couple is 18 is that an acceptable age to be married or would 19, 20, or 21 be better?

Ok, first time posting here and I would just like some input. My husband is a (hot) personal trainer at a gym. I encouraged him to pursue this career because of his love of fitness and at first I was fine with it and supported him. Then his schedule turned crazy and started consuming his life and our marriage. He opted to teach bootcamp classes at the gym which put him at getting up at 4am every morning. He comes home anywhere from 11-1pm for a break and goes back to the gym anywhere from 3-5pm for a few hours. I do not see him for breakfast or dinner which kinda sucks because we are newlyweds. I used to make him big dinners where we sat down and had conversations about our day. It really helped us connect and it was awesome to have him during that time. Now he comes home around 8, eats, plans workouts and meal plans for clients, watches an hour of TV and passes out. He works 7 days a week and refuses to take a day off, even though we do not need the money. Let me just say, I love the fact that he is a hard worker and wants to provide for his family…but seeing him and hour-3 hours in the middle of the day is stressful and his lack of sleep is turning him into a 12 year old brat who throws angry tantrums (Haha, I'm not kidding!). He also does not see his friends anymore, which I am trying hard to encourage his bromances. I suggested he take a full day off to catch up on sleep and be together. I am 4 months pregnant with an unplanned pregnancy and could definitely use time with him before the baby comes!! He says that it's not up to him, that the clients dictate schedules that work for them. What I hear is "My clients are more important then you are." I wish this was the only problem with him being a PT. Unfortunately, I am starting to get paranoid about his client relationships. I am not low self esteem, and I do have confidence in myself and my body. However, I am pregnant (hormonal) and my body is changing in scary ways. I was told to withhold sex because of placenta previa. So we were unable to "do it" for a while. Before this and after getting married (when his work schedule changed) we would get it on 1-2x a week. Seems strange that a newlywed 23 year old would not want to get it "in" more often. Now my sex-ban has been lifted and I totally want to have sex with my very attractive, fit husband. Only he's not feeling it so much. Huh…There's the first red light. The second is the CONSTANT CALLS AND TEXTs he receives all day from his clients. Okay, so I get they have to reschedule/cancel etc….but he doesn't even have as many clients as he gets phone calls and texts. When I ask who called or texted him he says "client". He never answers phone calls in front of me. He says he'd rather talk in private. All the calls as far as I can see are from numbers not saved in his phone. His phone does have a password and does not leave him (bathroom included, but I think this is a guy thing). I've asked to see his phone once (nothing too bad) and noticed that he does have very personal relationships with his clients. IE: "how's my favorite doctor doing?" "how are you feeling today, sore?". Maybe I'm overreacting to those texts, as personal trainers are supposed to make you feel good about yourself…they pay him to do it. Unknown to him, I do know his password but haven't been around his phone to snoop. I should add that all of his clients are females. With all of his clients being women of various ages, I can't help but remember how many articles I see where women will cheat on their husbands with their PTs….Either their husbands are never home, or they feel insecure about themselves, and the PT offers encouragement and is around while they are releasing endorphins. I do understand that just because this seems to be an issue with married woman, my husband would have to give in as well. My husband is a super sweet, positive guy which is easy for someone to misinterpret or to fall for. Everyone who meets him loves him, from thugs to babies and I am not kidding! He makes friends very easily and good for him! I'm just struggling to see the need for such close relationships with these women? I'm not sure where my mistrust sprouted from….Maybe hormones? In his defense, he has never really given me a reason not to trust him…although he is a smart man and would probably cover his tracks. He has told white lies here and there, but I never caught him doing anything major ALTHOUGH I've never suspected foul play before. Does anyone else have a husband who is a PT? What are your experiences? Be nice, I am pregnant and have already outed myself for possibly being over emotional here. Oh, one more red flag….the hours he works (ALL DAY HE'S GONE!) does not match his paycheck that is deposited into our bank account VIA direct deposit. I confronted him about this but he started to knit pick hours saying he worked out here or there or had to file paper work etc. It's exhausting to argue about but it doesn't look good.

What are we going to do? Where are you? Are you still staying at the house? If she doesn't want to be married, and said she needed space, and on top of that stayed at her parents for 3 days why would she txt me asking that

I have to come to terms with being silent. I need life without many words and without many conversations. My spouse will feel, even after everything she knows about me, that this is directly aimed towards her, even if I tell her I must cease with speaking. and, I do want to speak with her and live comfortably with her, but I must find silence and come to speaking very little in my life. Is there a way without just shutting up with no further explanation?

My husband (25) became fiends with this female co worker (25) a month ago. During the first week they would chat from literally 8a.m to 4a.m the next day till I asked him to tone it down. Now from what I observed, the female co worker initiates the chats most of the times. She sends a good morning text every day and doesn't like to stop chatting with my husband till midnight. I expressed how their relationship makes me feel and instead my husband told me that I am jealous, controlling and a psycho for pointing for not letting him go and hang out with this girl ( apparently he wants to go out and have drinks with this girl alone). I asked if I could meet this girl and she refused, I saw the text. Now they text daily which is really annoying me. I feel that this girl has become attached to him and sooner or later they will start having an emotional affair. He deletes their conversations. Last night she sent him a text saying she hates going for hours without talking to him....I thought that was really odd considering that they hadn't spoken for an hour. She calls him if he does not reply instantly or she continues to text if he does not reply. Husband informed her that I felt uncomfortable with the rate at which they chat and her response was , " your wife can go **** herself". Husband says he will not ignore her chats since he enjoys their conversations. I am thinking of leaving him, I feel that I deserve someone who respects and I believe that marriages are meant to be transparent. Am I being jealous, controlling and psychotic like what he says?