Mi novia el otro dia me dijo que le gusto un amigo mio. Eso me enojo, pero solo me lmite a oirla. Luego aclare el asunto y le dije que no me sentia bien con una mujer que estando conmigo se haya enamorado de otro hombre. Ella dijo, yo no te dije que me enamore de el, solo que me gusto. Asi que decidi terminar con ella. Lo hare este fin de semana. Pero hoy la llame para un asunto y al final me dijo que me extrañaba y que me queria mucho. Y se despidio con un beso. Eso me hizo sentir, como con el deseo dd perdonar y luchar por que de verdas la quiero, pero se que me hare deño si no lr hago caso a la realidad y deseo proseguir con mi deseo de terminar con ella pero como un caballero. Explicandole que la quiero pero que no veo en ella la madutes de la lealtad a la pareja y eso nos va a traer dificultades en el futuro. Como le digo que la quiero aun pero que no puedo continuar con alguien asi? Tiene depresieon y no quiero agrabarla. Eso no. Nl quiero hacerla sufrir.

When I begin to strip her, she would most likely cover her face because she gets really embarrass, especially when I start to spread her legs. She told me to turn the lights off, but I refuse because I wanted to be able to see her face. What can I do to soothe her AND be able to keep the lights on?

I'm 18, a girl, and with all my heart I want to leave. I believe I'm fully capable. I've had a full time job for the past two years while in school and I take AP classes which I do well in. There are a few issues. Background:My dad's an alcoholic. I've only started to build up this anger recently but now whenever I'm around him I want to cry or scream. My mom's been in the middle of deciding for a divorce for 6 years w/ a bluff 8 years ago and a separation while she was pregnant with me. From around 7th grade until the end of 11th grade she basically told me that I was and treated me like ****. That's why I wanted to move out but these past 6 months've been perfect. She's kind, filed for the divorce, my dad is going to AA (which got in the way of the divorce), but I was still determined to leave. But, my sisters. I was supposed to take care of them when I was 11 I failed them. Making up for it, I now give them my time and help and listen and just love them very much. My mom said if I were to move I'd only be allowed to talk with them when she's home. That means through summer they'd be rotting on technology. If I were here I could prevent that and I'd love to. The other issue I'll be doing a tough double major in the fall, and I wanna do really good in school. Also first year you're supposed to live on campus or with your parents. My heart and soul feel trapped and caged here. I want so badly to leave. But I want to leave with their blessing and my sisters still there.

I got married 8 months ago and haven't gone through the grueling process of going to the Social Security office, the DMV, the bank, etc.. I have very limited free time and was wondering about using a name change site. Anyone have any recommendations? Thanks!

Ok so it wasn't a full out man cave. Just a computer desk in the basement. Its a place I like to chill once our 1 and 3 year olds finally fall asleep. Typiically do a 30 min workout, then cool off after by playing a video game or Just browsing the news or YouTube. I like to have alone time. Yes, I give my kids and wife attention but after kids are asleep and it's 9 or 10, I want some alone time. It was a good setup until wife build a corner desk right behind my computer desk. The corner desk isn't in the corner, but sticks out in the middle of the room. She will sew And watch reruns of Grey's anatomy every night. I can't stand her behind me while at my desk. I'm not looking up dirty things but it's just a pet peeve of mine, having someone sitting behind me. I feel like I'm being watched. And worse, I can't do my workout in front of her for fears of her judging or telling me I'm doing it wrong. Which she has done before. And I hate it. Tired talking to her. But how do you tell someone that their dream hobby craft shop that gives them a needed break from an all day at home with the kids bothers you? Once kids are in bed she goes down there And watches her reruns and works on her sewing machine. I've nothing to give me my break anymore. I'm at a loss and feel guilty for needed a space like I had to chill.

Hi, My wife is 28 years old and for nearly her entire adult life her parents have been divorced. She's been used to being pulled in both directions by her parents. For example if she see's her dad for Christmas her mom gives her a guilt trip about not seeing her instead and vice versa. This goes on nearly every holiday. To make matters worse her mom lives two hours away and her dad almost the same in the opposite direction. We do a lot of driving to accommodate both of her parents and on top of that there's my side of the family to see. It's a lot... My wife has hit a breaking point and she said she can't take the stress any longer. She wants to make both parents happy but I told her then she will never be happy. She said she cannot have a life of her own and that no one understands her situation...even me because my parents are not divorced. She also said I need to step up for her and talk to both of her parents about how she's feeling. Any advice? Thank you

What's the point in that? I mean, maybe some people want an open "relationship." But why open "marriage"? Isn't the whole point of marriage is commitment?

Hi I'm Muslim 26 years old from Iran I been Here for about 7 years married my far cousin we have two little kids 5&2... I have no family here in the U.S. ... I have no help other then him .... He makes me happy he take a good care of me and my kids and I love him very much..... Things were great until 2 years ago before I had my second child .. When I was pregnant 2yrs ago..one day I called my husband at 11pm after he finished from work He picked up and did say anything .. I said HELLo HELLO but no one talked I Heard a voice of couple MANs having sex it was his voice and anther man I was shocked my heart was broken that night ... He came back home 30 min after and I was crying and asked him what the hell was that?? Are you gay????? Are you cheating on me? He didn't know anything about the call he was shocked too and said I swear there's nothing going on I was watching a vedio sex with my old high school friend/: I know he was lying but what can I do I have no where to live no one to pay my bills .... i just checked his phone a year after and he still doing it today he's having sex with all types of human beings and he just tested hiv+ .... I tasted negative ... I dont know what to do plzzzz advice

Serious answers only please. I am a very creative artistic woman. Clearly that isn't a skill I can get money with. So I'm going to rely on marriage and a husband to live my life in the future. I am always open to love and marriage. I do know what I want in a man, what I can settle with, and what I can't. I would probably stay at home and rear children if he wanted me to. Now what kind of man should I look out for? I know that not all men these days want a woman like me.

She remains in blissful ignorance. I know he sounds horrible and i do too but he contacted me at a time I was very lonely and vulnerable, I always thought he was a great catch but never suspected he would do this to me or her. this was hurtful because we had met years a go in college and I always thought he was a great catch, I have been single for a bit and was vulnerable when me met up. He has a lot of qualities other than cheating I like. So as I suspected he lives with his GF in Orgeon, I live in NY. After out night of passion he blocked me on FB, I ended up threatening to tell just to get him to give some answers. He made a lot of excuses, apologized and said he was attracted to me for years as well and has not been happy in his current situation.. I cant help to feel used and ugly, as he claims he is not happy but still lives his nice little life with her. I am sad after all these years he ended up using me as a piece of a$$. Update: A part of me still wants to be in touch with him but I do not know what to say at this point.

I'm very confused. My husband wants to leave our marriage, i discovered he had an emotional affair and since then we been having arguments about it. He says the girl is no longer in the picture, but its still hard for me to move on. I still love him and want to make it work but he thinks our marriage can't be saved. It's been three months and he hasn't filed for divorce. He no longer lives with me and my two children. When he comes over to pick up or drop off the kids , he helps me around the house and tells me how nice I look. We still do have sex and he does kiss me when I ask him too. I don't know what he wants and when I do bring up our relationship he still thinks it won't work out. He refuses counseling or even trying to talk to me about what we can do to rebuild our marriage. I'm at a lost .

My wife is a works at a vet, I get it she's passionate about animals. Problem is I'm not and she collects them without any regard for me. She has a horse,dog and some kind of rodent in a cage and tries to bring home more every week. I didn't want the responsibility or financial constraints of children or animals and I have continually sacrificed and given her both. I can't handle any more and she calls me selfish and brings them home anyways. To top it off she shows no passion for me, our son or the animals she has, only for the ones she "has to save". Then she volunteers to work all the time and I have to leave work early and get stuck with the whole mess. I feel like I sacrifice everything for our family and I have nothing to show for my hard work other than a chaotic and stressful household.

Please forgive my English I do speak Spanish, so here is the deal my current G.F and I were going to get married but some how I found out she was talking to a couple of guys back in march. The text are nothing like cheating but she was using an app to talk to them what I think its extremely suspicious to me, our phones are in one family plan so she know I will be able to see who is she talking to if I look at the bill. Any ways I don't know if I need to confront her about it or just break up the engagement deal because she is devising. Any ideas I need some on what to do.

I am 28 my husbands 59 and he makes $300k a year and I don't work. He has 3 kids with his past wife and they are grown.We have a live in housekeeper and a gardener. I feel like maybe I don't do enough. I know my husband mostly only likes me for my looks because he told me so I asked him why do you want to be with me he said because your very hot then I said do you like my personality and he said kind of all with a straight face no joke! I love him very much but it's mostly because of his $money and place in society.I am NOT a bad persone or at least i don't think I am.Is my relationship normal?

I have been split up from my ex for about 4 months now. He broke up with me. We have a 4 yr old and had a horrible relationship! It was mostly up and down and quite unstable. The problem is that my ex's mother wants to be friends. I am finding it VERY VERY hard to want to be nice with her. She says that she enjoys my company, but being friends with her is making it hard for me to get over my ex who is 32. Another thing that is making it hard is that my 4 yr old comes home and talks about "marriage" I am trying to move on from my ex but it's super hard considering we've only been broken up 4 months and he's already talking about marrying another woman. The relationship was 4 yrs long. So my question is how do I get past this. She is PUSHING me hard to be friends and messaging me on social media. Yes, I realize she is the grandmother of my son, but I do not want a relationship with her. I feel that she's upheld my ex in a lot of his bull. we have never been married but i just need to know how to handle this

My husband is great guy and I love him very much. He is very responsible as a father and he is also very kind, caring, and loving, as a husband. We have been married for 10 years. We have 3 kids- all boys. He is a lawyer so he is very smart. I am a housewife. My husband sucks at doing anything domestic. So I don't ever expect him to help me with anything around the house. He gets offended when he is trying to do something domestic and I tell him: "Just leave it, I will do it".

I recently got marry to lovely husband but my husband don't like me see my mother everyday. My mom is can't do thing for self so i got to be the one to help her out. I'm the oldest and my youngest brothers don't have themselves together. I always the one my mother depends on. I don't know what to do???I don't wants to mess up my marriage up.

My husband wants a divorce, he is noticing only the bad in me an now thinks l am a bad mom for not spending more time with my son and his education. I been there so much for my son over the years. My husband really hates me and said l need to change even for this marriage to work. He kicked me out of the house. I am now living with my mom which l am making her depressed. Help?

I've been in a relationship for 4 years, my partner and I are expecting a baby, at this point in life it felt as if things couldn't be better, I felt happy. But I have now been hit with a brick, my partner has a child from a previous relationship his child lives in another country with her mom, to make it short this the baby mama' left with the child 4 years ago, even though she is in another country she has never respected our relationship it was not till a year ago that I had to step in and demand respect I had to ask her not to call my partner to tell him that she loves and misses him I had to demand that what ever communication they have to be strictly about the kid. Anyway I say that I've been hit with a brick because he just told me that he is going to financially help her come to this country. I understand his financial responsibility towards his child I would be ok with him bringing his child to live with us while the mom comes and gets back on her feet, but am I wrong for not agreeing on him financially helping the mom. I feel disrespected because he wont even consider my feelings, he says that he is doing it for his kid and that I have no say since it is his money meanwhile Im stressing on how I will cover my half of rent and bill while I have our baby. I need advice.

My mother and brother don't have a car. Whenever I want to see my family my fiance has to take me as I cannot drive. My family visits me on the bus. For the past few months my brother out of state gf had been visiting and leaving whenever she comes or goes my brother asks my fiance for a ride to the airport and back. He gives him gas's money, anymore from 10 to 20 dollars. Gas here is 2.80 and the my fiance drives in total 40 miles from home and back when he does him this favor. So my fiance hates doing this. Idk why he even agrees to do it because as soon as the day comes he argues how he doesn't get anything in return and that my brother gets evetything he wants. They often agree on a pick up time and my fiance will later choose to go earlier so when my brother can't make it at the time, my fiance gets very angry that he is not a his disposal cause he's doing him this huge favor. Am I wrong for thinking my fiance is over reacting? I mean he wants more money for gas but expects me to ask for it. Even though ten dollars more then covers the milage. Its like he expects a full tank of gas for doing a favor. I also help with gas and pay monthly insurance. Yet he continues to make a big deal of it. It ruins our whole day. He just sleeps whenever he get this angry and later says thaybi ruined his day for taking my brothers side. Should I have asked for Kore gas money? Isn't this silly? To be fighting over rides and favors? I feel like he takes things to the extreme.

When a relationship is struggling or you're going through a divorce or break up, why do people encourage the end? If you miss someone you broke up with maybe it's because you took them for granted and now realize you made a huge mistake. You should go back to them and apologize and work it out. I hate when people miss the person they love and get told that " you broke up for a reason" "be strong" or my favorite "you just havent found the right person yet". It's almost as if we think you're a failure if you go back and try & work it out or you're weak. Love is the most powerful thing on earth. My boyfriend of seven consecutive years just left me. I pray every day that he comes back and I do that knowing that even if he wanted to hes being advised not to. He's being told that even though its hard hes doing the right thing by staying away. Well he's not and I cannot understand how this world seems to be so obsessed with love but no one encourages it. No one fights for it! It's an endless stupid cycle of new person after new person because when a couple needs support to stay together, it's not there.

So my husband recently told me that he felt comfortable enough to tell me some of his sexual fantasies. He said that his friend told him that he would like to watch us have sex and that my husband likes the idea of being watched. He asked if I was okay with it and I told him I wasn't very comfortable with it. He said that he has catered to my sexual fanatsies several times and that he would appreciate if I just did this one thing for him. Though I am really reluctant I knew he had a point. He said that I don't have to sleep with or touch his friend and that he is only going to watch. But I'm just wondering if I do this will it eventually escalate to sex? I'm not familiar with this sort of fetish so I don't know what will happen. I don't want to do this at all let alone if it will lead to my husband asking me to have sex with another guy. Does anyone have any advice or knowledge on the topic? Thanks

When a married man tells you he is going through some real personal things at home and he says its something he done what the hell is going on? I don't know what to think it's got me worried he want tell me whats going on. He says not to call or text him. Does anyone have any idea whats going on?

He talks to his ex alot, they were together for a long time at one point. Was engaged. We've had this talk a million times how it makes me uncomfortable. We've only been together going on 3 years. We have a baby and one on the way. Super stoked by the way! But he hasn't hung out with her yet but recently wanted to start. I do appreciate him telling me at least.. But I have a real nauseating feeling that something isn't right. They wanna hang out on the 13th with a couple added friends. It's bugging me that he doesn't speak much of it... Doesn't say what anyone is doing... Or where they are going. Is it my right to ask? Was thinking about asking at least. I guess what bugs me the most is, I wasn't invited! I feel resentful and wondering why. I want to ask.he hates me asking something like it is so bad I'm prying about his life. My brother certainly thinks it's shady...said that where ever he goes, he takes his wife and vise versa. I'm just scared for real. What if it isn't even a group setting? Its a little hard to trust by the way his actions are and has so many female friends. I am surprised I've coped this long lol. We are in our late 20s. I feel odd I wasn't raised like that. I feel it's a respect issue. At least invite me and stuff. I'm gonna be at home watching 2 kids. We could even get a babysitter but apparently I'm not welcome. I told him to go that I wasn't putting up a fuss. It took me everything to say that. Most women I talk to said they wouldn't have it. I'm lost

I do, and I'm the HOH.

about 6 months ago my mother in law found out that she would need to have open heart surgery. Some how I got stuck taking her to ALL of her appointments. I did volunteer to help so my husband wasn't doing it all. After surgery, we planned that I would stay with her during the day while her other son (my brother in law) was at work. she had me spending the night for over a week, only leaving to go 10 minutes away and grab some clean clothes, or go to school. If I was 10 minutes later than she thought that I should be she would be calling. After getting no sleep for a week my husband told his mom that I was leaving, after a huge fit on her end about the brother in law not getting any sleep, (he was in bed by 9 every night) I finally went home. My husband stayed with her the following week, only to have the same argument about his brother again with his mom. She still expects me to go over every week and give her a shower (which she can do herself) , take her to doctors appointment, walk her dog and what ever else she wants done. This has caused both my husband and I to miss a lot of work while his brothers sit by and do nothing. I feel like she is taking advantage of both my husband and I and giving her other 2 sons an out. I have told my husband that if I hear how its not their responsibility to help anymore than I am done, if its not anyone's responsibility its mine. How can I tell her that I am done helping and if she needs anything she needs to talk to her kids not me

I have an uncle who acts like a toddler on a regular basis. His wife/my aunt will complain and I've seen for myself all of the various things he does; he'll start screming matches with her, will have temper tantrums (mostly yelling curse words), and will seriously act worse than a 5 year old. And he drinks occasionally, and acts even worse than that, and for much longer. But, he says he's changed because after he got married, he stopped partying and started working every day to help support their kids/my cousins. That sounds nice, but now my cousins have to put up with a father that starts screaming at them/their mom half of the time that he comes home! My aunt had to threaten to call the police a few times, because he was acting that insane. So do you think he chnaged, or that he's just pretended to? But if he's only pretending...then why? I don't get what he would get out of that, except that he might like having people to lash out on a regular basis.

This question has sparked from another question. Say you and your spouse have both had affiars. You have been married 10+ years, and you are very unhappy. You want to leave your spouse because you no longer want the marriage, but you know that he/she loves you very much (despite the affairs) and it would crush them. Do you stay to keep them happy? Or, is it appropriate to put your own feelings and happiness first?

My husband and I have been separated and living apart for 6 months. Married for 5 years. We have a daughter together. He started talking to a girl he works with. He says they haven't had sex. They almost did but he couldn't do it. He doesn't think they will become serious. He doesn't know if he wants a divorce or not. He is okay with me contacting him, regardless what it is about, although sometimes he doesn't reply since he works at night. He says he wants us to reconnect like good friends again. I don't know what to do. How do I reconnect with him? How do I deal with the fact of a girlfriend? He won't kiss me on my lips bc he doesn't want to disrespect the girlfriend. But he will kiss my forehead and cheek. He still tells me he loves me. When he spends time with our daughter, he wants me there too. Do I go all full force with trying to be with him or stand back and let him figure things out on his own to see if he will come back to me?

I am a 40 yrs old lady, no children. My husband of 10 years died from a severe heart attack in April. Should I get a roommate and stay where I am or move to a different city for a fresh start? Please help! what would most people do- my family and friends just say, "Its totally up to you." Gee, havn't I done enough for now??

If your husband has high blood pressure and you know about would you report him if he yells at you and even hurt you like by hitting your hand once during argument? Or you wouldn't report him due to his health?

We have been married 15 years and no kids, have both had affairs (his much shorter than mine), and I feel like I am ready to move on and pursue a different direction in my life. He is very much in love with me and attracted to me but I don't think I feel the same about him. When I tell him this, he doesn't want to hear it and just wants me to stay in the marriage. I am so depressed every day not knowing what to do with my life and not wanting to hurt him. People say that the grass isn't greener, but what if it is? Have been in therapy which doesn't help - therapist just asks me "so what do you want to do?" Well if I knew, I wouldn't be in therapy! How do I get out of this rut?

We got married overseas. I came back to US and registered marriage. He never came to US. I want a divorce and cannot find him. How do I divorce him?

Me and my wife are now about 26 years old, and we have two little girls, ages 1 and 4. I have never really had my own group of friends for the first 4 years we have been married, just mutual friends of hers that I learned to get along with. Really, I spent all of my waking hours with either my wife or my kids, and I'm not complaining, just kind of put me in a depression of sorts because I wasn't going out and really doing much after work, and weekends were "visit the in-laws" days Well about a little less than a year ago, I started becoming good friends with her best friend's husband, and he introduced me to his group of friends, and we all really clicked. They're all very nice, and they all know my wife because they went to the same High School, and she knows they're nice too. None of us drink, smoke or do any drugs, and we all go to the same church even, so we even keep the "guy talk" to a minimum except in passing jokes, etc. Point is, originally my wife said that I could only hang out with them once a week, on a Tuesday, after work (5:00pm), and I had to be back by 9:00pm, no exceptions. She says it's because I'm supposed to spend time with her and the kids. Basically we just joke around and play games (we're all nerdy gamers), but it has done a lot for my depression I was going through when I didn't have any friends. (continued...) Well now I can only see them once every other week because I had a hard time keeping my 9:00 curfew. Now we have a rule where I can double up on weeks to go hang out (Tuesday is really the only good day we can all hang out because of our tight adult schedules), but I have to take two weeks off from seeing my friends if I do that. Keep in mind, I am not exaggerating when I tell you that I let her go hang out with her friends or her sisters at the drop of a hat, guilt free too. Anyway, I had to argue with her so that I could hang out with a friend that was moving away, even though it fell on one of the "off-weeks", and I didn't want to take two weeks off afterwards to do that, just 1 week. She begrudgingly agreed. But then two weeks later, I was sick and missed that day, and so I met the week after that, and now she is telling me that I will need to take 2 weeks off again, because of my vacation, and I can't double up again. So now she is in tears because she thinks I care more about hanging out with them than I do with my family. I don't even drink alcohol, I'm a little goody two-shoes, and I absolutely love my wife and kids. I just want some friends too, and I would love to hang out every week, instead of every other week, but bringing that up at all causes a screaming match, where I'm trying to be reasonable, but she is an immovable wall of excuses why I cannot change our "agreement". I somewhat blame myself for setting the expectations high for the first 4 years, that I would just always be available every day, and I would always sacrifice my hobbies for the good of the family. I have a theory that she simply doesn't understand that this is an already unreasonable situation, and I am not even asking her to back off, only to stop imposing more rules, and to be more lenient because it is healthy for me to hang out with my friends once in a while. My assertiveness leads to arguments. It's no use. She becomes an unreasonable person when she raises her voice, and if I raise my voice at her, she just shuts down and ignores me, or just ends the conversation saying I just don't understand her. @Selena She is DEFINITELY invited to come along with us. That was actually the original plan (forgot to mention that), but it just wasn't fun to have the kids around where we went, so she offered to stay back and watch the kids, just as I do for her and her friends. It's just a shame our oldest one is so rowdy and needy at her age, so we would need a baby sitter. Also, I get the feeling she wasn't totally into the games we were playing anyway. @Christina Not that it matters too much, but the main game we all play is Dungeons and Dragons, as well as other dice games where we just joke around and do whatever. The problem is that it is a game in which there is a lot of stuff I bring over to their houses, and takes some time to set up and put away, like a solid 30 minutes or more each if I want to stay organized. I would often stay an extra 30 minutes to an hour after 9:00. It's not like I was staying out until past midnight or anything. And BTW, forgot to mention that I never told her about my depression. I just kind of hid that. Just saying that because I see a lot of comments about how she should be for it if it helps my depression. It's not clinically diagnosed depression or anything, I just mean that I was feeling really down and in a slump before.

For the past several years, my husband has been speaking badly of his two sister-in-laws. His brothers and their wives never, ever write to me, no matter how much I tried keeping in touch with them. My husband wishes one of the sister-in-laws a happy birthday by email, and attached my email. I didn't like it. They never wish me happy birthday or happy Mother's Day. (They live in a different country). I told him it's hypocrite to speak terrible of someone and then send them a sweet message. It doesn't make any sense to me. Another example: My husband criticizes one of our neighbors but when he sees him, he greets him with a warm hello. Me on the other hand tend to be honest. If I don't like someone, I show it and I don't go around smiling and talking to that individual. I realize the sister in law is family, but then he needs to stop talking badly about them because I have such an unbalance image of them and with them never writing to me or acknowledging me as part of their family, makes me wonder. My husband doesn't think it's a big deal.

I suppose all of us even believed in Happy Ending! Right? Is there such thing as "Happy Ending"?! Now, How can I believe that happy ending still happen? If one day the person you love and the one promised you to render you happy in life and happy family, is now with somebody else? How to face a new life without having someone you will ask for a help to raise two wonderful kids and will be at your side to take care of you and will love you unconditionally! I know in that respect is the reality I need to face nowadays, I need to be strong, I know GOD has better plans for me and my kids. I know the person who left us, is the one who doesn't deserve our love. How will I be able to raise my kids with all the respect and the love the world can be offer? Any inspirational message to give us strength with all the trials were facing at this chapter of our life. Your messages are very much appreciated! Thank you!

Why would it be wrong for a female doctor to see your husband undressed and/or touch him, however a man is supposed to be perfectly okay with a male doctor delivering his wife's baby? Birth is not fast, that means that man will be staring at your wife's body for hours on end. Same thing with it being okay if a wife gets hit on by some random man, but all hell breaks loose if a husband flirts with a pretty young lady?

I was into an invalid marriage and had an miscarriage. After that the guy also left me and ran away(I do not know where). Then after 6 month my parents told me to marry and I got married to some other guy and lived with him for four months but then he got to know about my previous marriage and sent me to my live with my parents. I was pregnant at that time. I have a beautiful baby girl who is about to be 2 now. For last 2 or more years we are not staying together and now he wants to nullify this marriage while I do not want that. what are my and my daughter options. I am only concerned about her future because I do not work and my husband is not willing to support her also. His family is from upper middle class and I am from Lower Middle class(my parents are still paying for the loan they took at the time of my marriage). Some times I think of giving my daughter to him for better life but then I realise what if he kills her after null and void the marriage. What about my child future after nullifying the marriage?

My wife is currently unemployed. Her 19 year old son recently failed out of his first year of college and they're both sitting at home all day. My 18 year old daughter is there also but she's graduating high school this year so she's home for a few days because of exams. I cooked yesterday and I guess I didn't finish loading the dishwasher nor did I start it when I left for work. My wife and the rest of the house were still in the bed but it was my fault the kitchen was not cleaned up before I left. Granted, my daughter and step-son will most likely stay in the bed until 10 AM or later but I'm the one who was suppose to clean the kitchen since I was the one who cooked sunday dinner yesterday. How do I approach this with my wife to say, "you're home all day but I'm the one responsible for cleaning the house" without it turning into an argument? My wife feels that if one cooks they should also clean up. She says that I make too much of a mess. My thing is this. If you sat on the sofa and did nothing I don't see a problem with you cleaning up behind me. I've had the talk with her several times but she still thinks it's not her responsibility to clean up after the person who cooks. My wife has only been unemployed for a few weeks now but when I was out of work I cooked and cleaned as part of my daily duties. I can give anyone time after being unemployed to get their footing but being unemployed hasn't stopped her from getting her hair and nails done so cleaning the kitchen and running a dishwasher is not an issue. Nobody's asking her to take them down to the river and clean them in a stream.

So I've been arrested for domestic violence. I'm very sorry for what I did. But she mess up my bed with her period blood stains. So in retaliation I punched her in the face a couple times. She also punched me back but since she was hurt more I got arrested instead. Now I'm going to court for a divorce. I'm afraid I will have everything taking from me since the courts favor the women more. Any thoughts?

My husband 71and im 68 should i try to work through this with him since it has ended with the prostitute.on try to start over.help

Personally, I think there should be two separate accounts and a joint account from which the bills are paid, and both spouses should be able to look and monitor what the other is doing in their individual account.

hi. me n my husband have been married since 3 years. v have a 1.5 yeqr old baby boy and i am pregnant again. v both dated each other 7 years and then got married. after getting married i came to know that my husband is cheating on me for another woman. i caught his messages many times. i even talked to dat girl. now after 3 years of continued cheating i finally contacted her family n told them everything. she was engaged and they were shocked to hear this all. now their story is over. i am at my parents i dont know how to forgive him and move on. should i go back to him? how i will ever trust him again? my feelings for him are dead. please help me. i cant get divorced coz of my kids. plz tell me a way out! help!!!

I'm a 34-year-old married woman. I have a beautiful 16-year-old niece who is visiting us. My husband is seriously lusting after my niece. My niece, sister, and nephew came to visit us and will be staying for 2 weeks. Three days ago, my niece (16 years old) was playing a dancing game on the Wii machine. She was in the living room, dressed in a low cut shirt and short shorts, dancing to music. My husband and nephew were sitting on the couch right near her. I saw my husband seemed to be looking at my niece's boobs (they are big) and butt. I wasn't pleased, but that's not the worst of it. After some time, he stood up and quickly made his way to the back of the house. He was wearing grey sweatpants and it was very obvious that he had a full erection, and there was a definite small wet spot. I know my husband starts "leaking" after being hard for some time, so clearly he had this erection for a long time while he was watching my niece dance. I became curious about what he was doing, and I went to the back of the house. I thought I heard moaning through our bedroom door, so I opened it a crack and looked in. There I saw my husband on OUR BED, masturbating like he was having the time of his life. He was moaning and moaning. I was shocked and disgusted. I am positive he was masturbating to thoughts of my niece. I'm so disgusted with him. I'm also heartbroken. I take good care of my body, so it's not like I've let myself go. Should I confront him about this?

We've been married almost 20yrs and I found out around the 1st week of May he was conversing with another women last year! Telling her he wasn't happy in his marriage with me, now granted he never today me that but I did realize we stopped talking for a while and the sex was none! Pittyful to say the least! I can understand him being tired of my son 24yrs old not holding down a job and he's a man now but that still doesn't give him the right as a minister to go outside our marriage and talk about hooking up with her AND he told our Bishop about women were trying to get with him! Not whole truth of course! I found out because after you've been with someone for so long you know their pattern so when I confronted him about it oh he was shocked! He was busted! One of the worst days of my life to read messages he sent to another women my heart was broken/trust so I got my bishop involved after finding out he already knew something but just not exactly what was really going on until I reviled it. He bagged me not to leave him cried like a big baby to say the least,we have a two sessions of counseling with our pastor and at first the sex was like 15yrs ago (good ) but he's not consistent and seems selfish when it comes to sex he wants to be pleasured but like I don't, I'm not sure what's to come but I've been praying for our marriage. I left out some bits and pieces but I think you get the gist of what I'm talking about.

So, recently my husband and I moved into a new town. He got a new job, and he is gone 5 days a week. But, when he comes home on Friday, he always complains that the house isn't clean enough and that I don't look cleaned up (no makeup or my hair isn't fixed).. That gets so aggervating! I've talked to him about it but it seems like the more I talk about it, the worse it gets. But that's not even the worse part. When I don't call him for a couple hours, he accuses me of cheating on him with our neighbor. And one day, he came home and our son was playing with our neighbors son, I was standing outside with him to watch him and my husband pulls up and says. "Are you getting ready to go **** Andrew?" (Andrew is our neighbor). I have no idea where he is getting this from! My mom says he is just getting insecure with his self because he is gone 5 days a week. But that doesn't mean he has to accuse me of cheating! I have a husband and Andrew has a wife. It's every day I'm dealing with his childish comments about this. I don't know what to do, guys. I'm being drove crazy.. Please, does anyone have ANY advise?

Lets say they both are getting married in a weeks time and the wife is due for an inheritance from her grandfathers side in the next 6-14 months. Can the husband get half of this if he decides to divorce her? Also, is there any minimum cut off time to remain married just so the court doesn't allow the man to get half of this asset? No, there's no "pre-nup" in the picture. No, there's no "pre-nup" in the picture.