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- Question: Can i leave my toxic parents is it wrong to want to protect myself so i can be happ?
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- Question: Can I cancel child support PLEASE HELP?
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- Question: Should I forgive my father for abusing me as a child?
- Question: Should I forgive my father for abusing me as a child?
- Question: Childline has contacted my school?!?
- Question: HOW DO I GET MY BROTHER IN LAW OUT OF THE HOUSE. HE S STEALING GETTING HIGH AND MAKING MY INLAWS LIFE A LIVING HELL?
- Question: I'm about to make the biggest decision of my life tomorrow and Idk what is going on.?
- Question: My mom is going insane?!?
- Question: Going to CALIFORNIA with $100.00 what to do?
- Question: Please help me...?
- Question: I hate my life at home?
- Question: Why does she constantly treat me like this?
- Question: Am I a horrible daughter because I don't feel the need to text my mom on a daily basis since we live together?
- Question: Did my dad just spank me? Serious question, honestly.?
- Question: What relation is my dad's cousin to me?
- Question: How to deal with narcisstic mother?
- Question: Can my dad take me away?
- Question: How to make my aunt get rid of her loser boyfriend?
- Question: Do I arrange to meet up with my ex's ex so half siblings can meet?
- Question: I'm just so fed up with life?
- Question: I don't like my birthday present?
- Question: I caught my brother having sex with his teacher in our house, should i tell my parents?
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- Question: Can I hire someone to beat up my obese older sister?
- Question: What is it like having a sister. I have two brothers and really wanted a sister.?
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- Question: I'm 18, how do I tell my strict parents I'm moving out ?
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| Question: Can i leave my toxic parents is it wrong to want to protect myself so i can be happ? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 02:13 PM PDT |
| Posted: 02 Jun 2015 01:58 PM PDT So my mom was screaming at my little sister for not looking pretty for church. Like, she didn't wash her face. And then she started screaming at me because "I'm a horrible sister, I don't help my siblings." And basically I was like... She's 11, what do you want me to do? Wash her face for her? And then my mom starts ranting on and on. "All you are is a slut. You're always on that stupid ******* phone! You think that's going to help you in the future? You ******* think you're going to be successful just sitting there? You think you're going to get a ******* job from posting pictures online? You ******* whore! That's all you do, all you do is post those stupid pictures! You whore! ******* slut! I hate you. I wish you were never born! I hate you the most, out of all my children I will always hate you!" But this is pretty normal. She always does that, and later she pretends it didn't happen, and she's nice and regular. Then it happens again. I don't know what's wrong with her, but I know she needs help and she would never admit it. What am I supposed to do with an insane mother? |
| Question: Can I cancel child support PLEASE HELP? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 01:42 PM PDT Ok so I was getting assistance from the state when I was pregnant and didn't have a steady place to stay moving from home to home now baby is born and state has helped me with money and foodstamp but I just recently moved back in with the father I basically begged him for the sake of our child and he let me move in he doesn't help with nothing good or baby supplies but I have to now go to the DSS to let them know I have a change of address also to drop the child support because he is providing a roof over my head. Will they drop my foodstamp and my cash because I am unemployed will they drop it because they see we live together even though he's not helping and were not married I love with him and his dope head gf. |
| Posted: 02 Jun 2015 01:34 PM PDT How about when I was a boy, my uncle and my brother would come in and shove cigarettes down my throat and say "Smoke up Jimmy. It's real good for you." Then they'd beat me, with goddamn dildos. My sister would then push them up my ***... And when sh*t, out would come doodoo birthday cake. That's why I smoke, sir. |
| Question: How to get daughter to wipe after peeing ? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 01:16 PM PDT She's just turned 3 and we started to potty train her 2 weeks ago and she's taking to it really well but she can't wipe if I go into the toliet with her she just jumps off and pulls her pants up with cleaning herself. my girlfriend just puts the toilet paper in her hand and "guides her" with her hand on top of hers,but I don't want to do that. How can I teach her to do it? |
| Posted: 02 Jun 2015 01:13 PM PDT My Father and my Mother divorced a year ago. My Father has custody of my sister, my mother has custody of my brother. Sister is 17, Brother is 10. My Father wants to take custody of my Brother away from my Mother. My Mother moved back in with my Father right after the divorce, so all four live in the same house, just different rooms. She is NEVER home. She works part time at home, and in the evenings, she is gone. Usually at bars, and then at weekends she goes out of town. She spends the night with friends, and gets drunk. My Father says that he has reason to believe she is involved with more serious drugs, but has no proof. He is very worried about my brother's safety, as am I. He let my Mother move back in to the house because he felt it was the safest option for my Brother. He could keep a closer eye on him. My Mother even told my Father a couple weeks ago that she was considering leaving my Brother with him, and taking off. Is there any chance my Father could go back to court and try to get custody of my little brother? What are the laws? He is a good man, no criminal record, and a war veteran. My Mother's mother (my grandmother) says she would testify in his behalf, and of course I would be right beside him as well. Also, my sister is his step child, but he adopted her 10 years ago. She chose him in the divorce. I feel like that would speak for something too. Thank you for reading, I will answer any questions if anyone needs more information. |
| Question: Should I forgive my father for abusing me as a child? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 01:13 PM PDT Ever since I was little, my father abused me physically and emotionally. He would hit me with wooden sticks, belt buckles, smash my head and gave me a concussion then lied to the police saying that he didn't. I haven't spoken to him in two years... All of a sudden my mom tells me that she wants me to come to a wedding party with them and that my father wants to make mends.. I want to, but at the same time I can't let go of the pain he has caused me. Should I go to the wedding party? |
| Question: Should I forgive my father for abusing me as a child? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 01:11 PM PDT |
| Question: Childline has contacted my school?!? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 01:10 PM PDT So childline said with my permission could they contact my school about the verbal abuse happening at home... What are they gonna do about it?? Will they talk to me? Will it be akward now?? Will they phone my parents?! What's gonna happen????!!!! |
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| Question: I'm about to make the biggest decision of my life tomorrow and Idk what is going on.? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 01:06 PM PDT I'm almost 18(in 2 months). And I'm getting kicked out. My dad hates me because of how I did in school and he says that if I stay here I'm going to the army and that's something I don't want to do. My mom is very neutral about the situation and is just sad that this is all going down. I am allowed to move to a friends for a couple months but will this give me enough time to get a job and make money? Is there anyone who had a similar problem and can give me some tips? Instead of the army I want to go to my community college and actually get a decent education to start a business but that's the future. |
| Question: My mom is going insane?!? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 12:52 PM PDT My grandma has alzimers and she yells "mama" and "papa" which mean mom and dad in Spanish. She doesn't let us sleep and keeps yelling the same thing over and over. We take her to the restroom, ask what she needs, and she keeps yelling. We keep telling the doctor that, but he doesn't do much. My mom is getting fed up with the screaming..it's affecting our health. My mom wakes up from her screams. They sound so horrific, as if they were about to kill her, no joke! We treat her well, and make sure she has everything she needs. My mom is always in a bad mood, we all are. My grandma never stops yelling and screaming! My mom even said, "I'm going to go to jail. I'm going to kill her." |
| Question: Going to CALIFORNIA with $100.00 what to do? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 12:46 PM PDT 23 (female)... I just got out of a very toxic and dysfunctional household... I've held on for so long, I tried getting a job, I begged my parents to help pay for college like they did all of my other siblings... but they don't take me serious and dehumanized me... all they wanted was for me to be everything and everywhere they wanted. And I couldn't do it anymore. They are all going to Hawaii for a family vacation... and was going to leave me behind babysitting my twin nephews for my sister. I love my nephews and they are the greatest kids ever... but I watch them while my sister works and I hate it... because I'm already depressed and stressed. So my dad told me that I can't go and have no reason to want to get out of the house and that I'm going to baby sit my nephews. I couldn't take it... I'm not fat, no hideous, not slow or anything... they just scapegoat me for some reason cause I'm the youngest. Anyhow, I left yesterday and is still on the greyhound heading to LA. I lived in a small secluded town and there's no jobs or opportunities. Anyhow, I only have my drivers license, ss card, 10 resumes, notebook, laptop, $100 bucks, and 580 credit score. What should be my approach when I land? Shelter? |
| Posted: 02 Jun 2015 12:43 PM PDT So my older sister is graduating college and my mom asked me today if it would be okay for her to give this necklace to her... This necklace isn't just a necklace... It's my mom's favorite and has always been wearing it everyday for over 20 years... I always talked about wanting to have it when my mom passed away. So when my mom asked me today I wanted to cry so badly but I said that's okay... I was holding my tears... But I'm so upset. I feel like my older sister gets everything that meant something to my mom... Please help me... I'm so upset. |
| Question: I hate my life at home? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 12:41 PM PDT I am a 16 year old girl, and I know it sounds dramatic but I really hate my life at home. I have an angry abusive father whose already practically disowned my older sister (who is now in college). My second oldest sister is basically my father's clone. She is extremely bi-polar. She goes around punching walls. If you chew too loud she'll start screaming at everyone. Earlier today she couldn't find her hair straightener, and I found it for her and when I gave it to her she just started to walk away and I said "you could say thank-you", and she smacked my hand really hard with the straightener. My younger sister has extreme ocd and freaks out all of the time. and my other younger siblings swear and misbehave. And now it seems like all my mother does is yell at me and complain. She calls me a ***** all of the time and says I'm so ungrateful. I keep trying to see the good in them, but it's so hard. The only time I'm happy is when I'm away from them. How can I change this? I hate being sad all of the time at home, and counting down the minutes until I can go somewhere else. Please help. |
| Question: Why does she constantly treat me like this? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 12:22 PM PDT My cousin and I are the same age, both college students, she always acts like she is better than me. We have always been close since we were little. We are only a month apart. I have called her out a couple times and she has cooled it but it just got worse. I started talking to this guy and she knew his aunt really well and she told her and him a bunch of stuff like how I wasn't in school anymore, how I didn't like him anymore etc., when he asked me why I wasn't in school and what happened I was dumbfounded. I'm currently studying Criminal justice and I'm pre law. She is in school for funeral planning and now all of a sudden wants to do criminal justice. She is always lying all the time. She never wants to hang out with me anymore,she lied about having MRSA and I sorta called her out in front of her mom and she was mad. Last year during thr holidays she lied to me about having pneumonia because I had bronchitis really bad and couldn't make the family Christmas party becuase I was so sick. She called me the next day yelling at me that she was more sick.it wasn't a completion and I hate being sick and hated missing family. She was all mad. She does anything for attention. Now she is hardly talking to me because I have officially decided to apply to law school so now she won't answer my text or calls at all. What can I do? I hate it that she won't talk to me. Why is she treating me this way? |
| Posted: 02 Jun 2015 12:18 PM PDT I am 31 years old and my mom complains that I don't check in with her throughout the day. I live with my parents (not by choice but because it is a custom for the child to live with parents until they are married in my culture). At times i feel like I have no space. We live in a very small house and my mom is always home as she doesn't work... I let her know I feel smothered. I see her daily but she is upset that I get up in the morning and am gone till night... she would prefer I stop home in the middle of the day. I have work and am taking full time classes in a masters program. a big reason I don't text her is because she'll expect me to tell her where I am and I don't want to lie. I spend my free time with my boyfriend who I have been hiding because he is a different religion than my parents and I don't think they will approve. I did tell my mom about him and she was very upset so I told her I broke it off. She also told me to do whatever I want but she doesn't want to know about it... so I ran with that. I figured she doesn't want to know. our relationship is rocky mostly because we have different beliefs. She is a practicing Muslim and I am not but I have to pretend. She also feels like I'm not a part of the family and told me I haven't been for the last 10 years... which is interesting since I go to every family function, and places like the mosque. When I remind her of this she tells me I don't go because I want to, it's because of obligation. |
| Question: Did my dad just spank me? Serious question, honestly.? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 12:17 PM PDT He was yelling at me and he moved behind me and started slapping my butt. But it was more like he was trying to brush something off. As in, it didn't hurt at all & I was just stood there thinking "what is he doing?". Then he stopped and walked off without saying anything. I checked my pants and there's nothing on the back of them. I was baking before but I am pretty sure I didn't get flour on my @ss. I should also add that my dad has NEVER EVER EVER EVER spanked me or my brother or sister in our entire lives. It would be weird for him to start now, over a very minor thing I did. This is confusing man. |
| Question: What relation is my dad's cousin to me? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 12:10 PM PDT |
| Question: How to deal with narcisstic mother? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 12:03 PM PDT She's always been odd, I had a bad gut feeling about her, that something wasn't right. She always protected me from outside people, never allowed me to have friends, to visit other people's homes or go to school trips. In fact she pretended we were poor our whole childhood, so when I begged her to pay for my school trip she would say she can't afford it, but she went to a spa treatment for a weekend. Me and my older brother were constantly bullied for wearing 3 outfits to school for years, until we were around 15 and could make some money for ourselves, to buy clothes. I was never aware of all that she's done until now that I can reflect on my childhood. She never packed me food for school, even the first day at school, my teacher would give me an apple so that I wasn't starving. She broke my father's spirit to the point when he just exploded and yelled at her furiously. She called the police and claimed he went on her with a knife. Of course this happened after she was cheating on him with a man for nearly 2 yrs, she even slept with him in our home. Now I'm 20, I finished highschool and she absolutely occupies my life. I have no friends, no boyfriend, no life. When I put on make up she always yells at me that I have time for make up but not for work, and that I'm a slut. She wakes me up at 6 am by yelling and hitting me until I don't wake up, then I work around our huge house and huge land until 10 pm. |
| Question: Can my dad take me away? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 12:02 PM PDT Here it goes. Lived with my mom, as a young girl I was taken away at 11. Lived with my father until I turned 14 and went back to my mother. my dad did not take good care of me, I had lice for like 8 months and the house was always dirty, he pulled me out of school, never ate anything healthy. Always fast food. I gained over 60 pounds when I lived with him. I went back to my mother, and everything was great. Got rid of my lice, put me back in school, lost 54 pounds so far, I am now 16. She is great. BUT.. She has a major drinking problem. She drinks when she's happy, sad, stressed, anything. Then she'll not drink for weeks on end then go back to drinking again. She had gotten many DUI's and my father never misses a chance to remind her. Anyway, they had a huge fight on the phone last night after not talking for months, and I remember him saying "I can and will take her away. You did this to yourself." And other threats. My father does not care about what's best for me, but what can ruin my mom and cause problems. It's ****** up and nobody would understand but take my word for it, my dad is crazy. Anyway.. my apologies for making this so long. Back to the question, can he do this even though I don't want to live anywhere else? |
| Question: How to make my aunt get rid of her loser boyfriend? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 11:59 AM PDT Hi, Sorry this so long... My aunt, who is 30 just had her sixth baby two days ago and her boyfriend never showed up to the hospital. He has 2 other daughters with my aunt including the new baby. He is never home and doesn't spend time with his kids or my aunts other 3. He never shows up to family events and isn't a father figure. He lives in an apartment with the kids. Everyone in our family is furious about the way he is. He is such a jerk to not show up to see his new daughter. My aunt's friend took my aunt to the hospital the morning she went in labor while her stupid boyfriend slept all day. He didn't even get out of bed to watch my cousins. He acts like a child. It seems like my mom, dad and I are the only ones who are really angry about the situation. My aunt doesn't seem to be worried about how he treats her. He is manipulative and selfish. I feel like he is using her. He is not a good dad at all. My aunt needs to let him go asap. My aunt's asked him if he wanted to see a pic of the baby and said he would later. He doesn't care about my cousins or my aunt. My aunt won't believe that he's as bad as he really is. I think she is worried about how she will take care of her family if he leaves because he is the only one working. This is so embarrassing to have this situation in our family. I wish my aunt would wake up and realize that he is garbage and she needs kick him out. Please help with advice. Thanks. :'( |
| Question: Do I arrange to meet up with my ex's ex so half siblings can meet? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 11:47 AM PDT So a year ago me and my husband divorced, we had three young children together, I was pregnant with a girl at the time, and we had twin boys. I also have another girl from a previous relationship. Almost as soon as we divorced he found himself a new girlfriend, and they have a baby girl. She is seven months old and now they have split up. So my three boys are half brothers to the little girl, and they used to visit them every weekend. My ex doesn't co-parent very well and so his ex was great at arranging times for the boys to visit, but since then, he hasn't seen them. Do I arrange to meet up with my ex's ex and her baby? |
| Question: I'm just so fed up with life? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 11:45 AM PDT I'm only 20 years old and I feel so unhappy. I don't have any close friends anymore. I hardly see my family and I'm at the point that I just hate my boyfriend. I just hate my life. I feel suffocated and I don't know what to do but take off and never come back. Or end my life. I did not go to college after high school and I regret not going. For over a year and a half, I've been working overnights at the most dysfunctional place ever. I can't afford to quit it and a new job. My boyfriend gets upset with the mention of me wanting to quit because I pay all the big bills like rent, car payments, cable, etc. I'm just not myself anymore and I can't do this anymore. I can't handle it. I also got a new ******* car that I hardly ******* drive and if I do I get called a grandma by my own boyfriend. Sucks that I can't take it out by myself when its under my name and everything because "I might wreak it" I'm so ******* tired of everyone's **** and treated like a ******* child that I'm just so gone and so pissed that I'm afraid that I will hurt myself or somebody. What should I do because, at this point, I am far from fed up. |
| Question: I don't like my birthday present? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 11:40 AM PDT Ok let me just start it by saying I feel really bad.... My mom got me a phone case from France for my birthday with the petit Prince on it. We are reading it in French and it is ok but it isn't something I really enjoy so I don't know why she went to all this trouble!!! I feel completely awful. I am crying because I don't know what to do (I know that sounds lame but I just care about my mom so much). I know that I will never wear the case (I don't like it in general) but I don't want to hurt her feelings. I don't know what's to tell her? Should I let her know and try to return it? Please help I feel absolutely awful!!! :'( |
| Question: I caught my brother having sex with his teacher in our house, should i tell my parents? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 11:39 AM PDT They are only 6 years apart. |
| Question: Child acting like a brat from doctors office, what can I do? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 11:27 AM PDT She is 10 and kept saying her ear hurt. I took her to the doctor and he flushed it with water and 2 rocks seriously came out. Small rocks. She does not go swimming in the pond or lakes. Well, since everyone was fascinated with this, she started flipping out and I used to work at this doctors office and she went nuts. I took a photo of one rock and she told me (screaming) to stop it and when my friend, who is a doctor, wanted to see it she flipped. She stomped to the car, slammed the house door, and is now pouting in her room. I told her earlier she could have video games for being good but she is being such a brat she doesn't deserve them right? PS the rocks could have been in there since she was 5 yrs old. |
| Question: Im poor, what do I do? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 11:13 AM PDT I'm 14 years old and my family is poor, I don't ask for much but my house is falling apart and it's scary... I'm embarrassed! When my friends ask to come over I always have to make an excuse! We never have food in the kitchen and I have a fast metabolism/:( I don't have enough clothes to last through 5 days... I try my best to ignore the worst but I can't live inn this environment anymore, anyone have anything to help me with? Any advice? |
| Question: Can I hire someone to beat up my obese older sister? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:52 AM PDT She's a child abuser. We've done so many CPS reports on her yet they do nothing. My nephew is in special education, she has literally beat the adhd into him, he's been hurting other kids at school ever since he started for the past 7 years. I've tried so hard to get her in trouble. So far all I've done is ruined her opportunity of becoming a police officer. I filed a police report accusing her of attacking me and she got kicked out of the ride-along program she was in. The last time I was around her and her kids, almost a year ago, I yelled my lungs out to her calling her so many names, telling her her kids aren't her slaves, and all these horrible things because I hate that the rest of my family just sits there and tolerates the abuse she commits. She has a 12 year old son and a 6 year old daughter. She has always been abusing the tax system, not working and living off of welfar and wic and now she's living off of section 8 and my nephew's social security. It's sucks that society does NOTHING when a woman hurts a child, but dare a man lift his finger on a woman, hell breaks loose! |
| Question: What is it like having a sister. I have two brothers and really wanted a sister.? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:50 AM PDT |
| Question: My Son's Dad Marital Issues? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:45 AM PDT Oh and she doesnt work at all. She actually quit right before my court date. |
| Question: IS THIS LOVE? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:45 AM PDT I was married recently and as a present to me my husband revealed that years ago after he lost his job he had a lot of free time on his hands and he wanted to write to his future spouse. Basically like what marriage meant to him and how much he knew he would love me some day. Some days he included movies he wanted to watch with me, articles on marriage, love poems etc. He said he made the crazy promise that he would always send something once a day until he found me and he always did. he sais he hoped it would represent his undying love for me and that he never gave up looking for me. He also had friends that had been married and divorced and he realized that in writing to me how important I was and that if he ever were to forget or if we ever hit a rough patch this would remind me what its really all about. I was very shocked and happy that he did this. I was just curious if any other husbands had done this for their wife and even if not how would you feel? |
| Question: What is it like to have a sister? I always wanted one but I got two brothers instead.? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:43 AM PDT |
| Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:42 AM PDT What I have to do tell me please! Sorry for my bad English |
| Question: I'm 18, how do I tell my strict parents I'm moving out ? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:41 AM PDT I'm 18 years old, my parents are so strict. I have such an early curfew. I have to let my mom know where I'm at every time I go out. I have no freedom to do anything. I just wanna move out. I've mentioned it before to my parents and my mom said I couldn't leave the house and if I did she doesn't want me to come crying to her when something bad happens to me. I'm moving out with 2 friends in about 2 months. How do I tell my parents again ?? I feel like they didn't belive me when I mentioned it. What should I say? I don't want them to hate me. I just want to go out and experience new things. |
| Question: Are brothers usually being a j*rk with sister's boyfriend? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:38 AM PDT Mine do, and we're adults. It's true I was the baby of the family but now I'm 24 (my brothers are in their early 30s). This is my first serious BF, whom I've dated since our last year in university, so we've been together for a few years. Every time I bring him to our family gatherings, my brothers would make him uncomfortable by making obscene gay jokes, often at his expense. My eldest even likes to tickle him and he doesn't stop although my bf seriously said he doesn't like it. In fact, once my bf was really angry when one of them slapped his behind and left, but my brothers only laughed it off. My parents don't think it's funny either but my brothers just exasperate them. Last weekend we celebrated my parents' anniversary and one of my brothers tried to make my bf sit at the kids' table! My bf said that from now on I'd better go alone to family gatherings since he starts to resent my brothers. They simply don't want to listen to us. And this is not the first time. They're generally always being a jerk with my boyfriends since high school. And yet it seems silly to sever ties or to see my parents less often just because of them! They're actually nice with me but they're so insupportable with my male friends. Do brothers generally want their sisters to become spinsters or what? Am I alone in this? Or how to stop this? |
| Question: Is it kinda "Gay" to love your brother in law? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:32 AM PDT I'm 22 and he is 38 but i like him alot i mean everytime i see him i get excited and we enjoy our time playing video games and watching movies and we chat alot never says no to everything i tell him he is a calm person and kinda Reticent, but i started our good relationship with him, and i've done alot of immature bad reactions pastly but NOT NOW.. I'm a straight guy and i think the reason i'm doing this..because my big brother treats me very badly and insult me, could my brother in law thinks that im gay from the way i stick to him every time i see him by spending a whole time together? He dosent say anything to and and he always treats me with respect and love.. does he considers me as his small brother? Or does ge thinks im gay??? |
| Question: My mom didn't congratulate me? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:28 AM PDT Today was the last day of school and when I can home and checked my grades, I saw that I had 4.0 GPA. I was proud. I went to tell my mom my grade and as soon as I said 4.0 she frowned. I explained that I had gotten all A's except for AP World (I got a B...which for a weighted course is a 4.0). She scoffed and told me how my friend took five honors classes and she got all A's in them. Then she went on to say, "It's funny how you only take two and you can't get A's." I said "ok' and I walked away. I was hurt. I thought she was going to congratulate me. Instead she basically called me stupid. How can I deal with this (and no, talking to her about it isn't a good answer). |
| Question: How do We tell mydad we HATE him? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:24 AM PDT Me and my 8 siblings have been raised by my mom primarily a certain way. My dad has always been there for us, but only for money and advice. (Sometimes) all of a sudden, he hit his mid-lofe crisis and he wants to be a family man. All he wants is for us to put our phones/laptops away, sot around him, and be a loving family. We are just NOT used to this! He asks too much of us and sometimes, we are nothing but afraid of him. We love him and feel bad to refuse him this love, but its not fair to ask us to change like this so suddenly! How do we tell him that we just can't stand to see him in the house?!!? |
| Question: Need advice on why this happens? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:11 AM PDT I have an older sibling that bought a home but refused to show me it until it was actually hers. In our culture, they think someones jealousy can actually bring bad luck (i.e, not getting the home). I'm a few years younger and applying for a master's that will bring more income than her job and its less stressful than her job. Why would I be jealous in their eyes? It's hurtful that they don't think this is great and then encourage me. It's like they refuse to believe it. It seems like nonsense and I feel hurt and find it depressing. We grew up low income and I feel like doing ok financially should be celebrated - not full of competition or being scared others will do better. |
| Question: Why are parents negative? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 10:09 AM PDT They criticise and expect perfection? |
| Question: Dreamt my grandpa was dead and my cousin mad at me for it? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 09:55 AM PDT I dreamt last night that my (living) grandpa was dead. I don't remember how, I think it was like a gang hit..he was in a big hole in the ground. And I was like, well we gotta get him out of there. And I went to ask my cousin to get him out because he's strong. But my cousin was mad at me for some reason, as if he was "shooting the messenger" since I told him grandpa was dead. So I decides not to ask him. I'm not close to my grandpa. In fact, I never talk to him. He's very stiff and sorta mean and I've never been close to him. My cousin however I'm closer to. He's not actually my cousin, he was my cousin's best friend their whole lives so he's practically part of the family. He says he always adored me when I was a baby (he's like 16 yrs older than me) and still loves me, but I haven't gotten to speak with him in a few weeks. I'm thinking the part about my cousin being angry at me is representative of my fear of rejection, bcuz I'm going to invite him to visit on my birthday and idk I have anxiety and am scared to ask anything from anyone. Am I right? And why did I dream of my grandpa dying if I'm not close to him? I wouldn't even say I love him? Thanks for reading and answering :) |
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| Question: I don't want to visit my cousins? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 09:53 AM PDT So almost every summer my family and I go visit our relatives in Massachusetts and we live in Georgia. My aunt just out of the blue texted me asking if I wanted to go visit them by myself and come back here in August. But the thing is I'm not so fond of them. My cousins are a pain, they're young but they're so immature it annoys me. Plus I barely know them on an actual level so it'd be awkward if I went by myself. And there's also the fact that I wanted this summer to be focused on guitar since during the school year I hardly have time to practice and I also have to refresh myself on Latin every day. So what do I do? |
| Question: What to get for my dad on Father's Day? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 09:51 AM PDT okay so my step mom had an idea to get my dad a pocket knife but he got one out of no where so what are some things we can get him ? he's the country type and biker (Harley) type |
| Posted: 02 Jun 2015 09:45 AM PDT So to start off I'm 19 years old. I am leaving for Marine Corps Boot Camp on Monday July 20th. I am currently visiting my mom's side of the family in Chicago. One of my uncles is married to his childhood sweetheart that has sexy *** looking grandchildren. She has a grandson & 2 granddaughters. 1 of the granddaughters is super hot to me. I actually met her for the first time last summer in 2014. We had a lot in common after talking to each other nonstop on the 4th of July. We even started dating on that same day however I only got to hold her hand since her sister & brother were around us smoking weed. I'm very close to her brother since we grew up together. We are even leaving to the Marine Corps together although I'm leaving a week before him. Besides that point I dated his youngest sister for 9 months. Mind you she is only 15 right now since I'm 19 so I know I am crossing a boundary with the law by dating a minor. But honestly I really don't care because I love her more than a family way so I wanna take care of her since she is still young now becoming a sophomore in high school. Anyways after 7 months we started fighting nonstop because I was getting mad at her for becoming distant with me. I was living in Florida the whole time I was dating her when she started school so the relationship was long distance. All we did was talk most of the time 24/7. But that changed after she started realizing that she was failing her Freshman Year which was not my fault. We were constantly fighting nonstop for 2 months while she was failing Freshman Year of high school. She broke up with me a 2nd time on Sunday April 26th 2015 (The 1st time was in middle July of 2014 because my uncle found out but didn't do anything & her brother found out too on social media so he told us to stop). Ever since then I've been heartbroken dealing with the pain she gave me. I honestly don't know what to do anymore. She even lost her virginity getting raped by a random guy. Help Me? |
| Question: My mom is always so negative, Idk what to do anymore? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 09:38 AM PDT She is always negative, ALL THE TIME. Everytime I go to talk to her she will have the same ******* look on her face its like the most horrible face like she hates everything. And if I ask her something she wont even answer she will just stare. IT PISSES ME OFF SO MUCH. And she makes comments about everything I do. Like my makeup or my clothes, It makes me feel like ****. And everytime I'm around her, the negativity is so strong it just puts me in a bad mood. My 15th birthday is coming up and I was telling her that I wanted this harry potter swimsuit that I saw online and she was like "Thats stupid" but she will get my other siblings whatever the **** they want. Like my brother wants an oculus rift for his birthday they are like 300$ and she said yes. It just sets me off so bad. What should I do? I cannot stand living with this family anymore. |
| Question: How to tell your dad you wanna go live with your mom? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 09:21 AM PDT So i have lived with my dad since i was 5, i'm now 15 and i barely see my mom they were divorced when i was 4 and i only see her like twice a year i have wanted to live with her i just don't know how to tell my dad because he really doesn't like her She lives in florida And i live in NY so its really hard |
| Question: What to do about fighting with my mom? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 09:18 AM PDT I am 23, still living with my mom for mainly financial reasons. This past week she got really mad that I stayed out all night and didn t tell her I was coming home that late. The next day she told me I was a disappointment, acting like a slut and needed some more structure in my life. She told me I was throwing my life away, and that I had no morals, because I told her about a new guy I had been seeing. I let her cool down for a day, while I did the things she wanted me to do. Then she said that she wanted to talk to me, I obliged. I asked her what was wrong, because she was crying, and she said I don t know. I feel like a failure. I feel really sad. I asked her if I could do anything to make her feel better, and she said I don t know. Then a second later she told me I was selfish, and the whole world didn t revolve around me, and that she felt like I treated her like an object, or someone who had to be there for me when everything fell apart. Then she said I m allowed to feel bad too, not everything about you. I m disappointed. My sister thinks it may be her depression and the fact that she doesn t know what to do with her anger. However I don t know what to do, I can t live here like this anymore. I m being treated like a 12 year old child, but expected to have the responsibilities of an adult at the same time. |
| Question: Am I a victim of child abuse? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 09:08 AM PDT When I was a kid, in public, I shouted to everyone in a store that my dad was going to hell because he got an abortion, which he did, and he slapped me. He also slapped me when I called him a ********** and told him to shut up. When I sent a girl a message, telling her to kill herself because of her bodyweight, I was afraid to tell my father for what he would do to me. My dad also once punched me when I told my sister that I thought she must have been raped as a child, due to what a ***** she was. I was also afraid to tell him about how I made fun of a girl with cp, just because I was worried he was going to hurt me. Thankfully he didn't, but when I got suspended for writing a story about a teachers apartment being a brothel, I was afraid of getting beaten. When I was a kid, they had a pc program where they brought in poor kids from another city, and I was afraid to admit I teased them. You all also know from my previous posts that he slapped me after making death threats and racial slurs to my nanny. I also once chased my sister around the house with a belt, and he chased me to my room. When I was out stealing mailboxes as a kid, I was afraid to tell the truth, since I was afraid of a beating I might recurve. Psychologists always say that parents are never supposed to hit their kids or yell at them, so now I am worried that I must have been horribly abused. I know cps would've defined this as abuse, so I wonder if I shoulbe attempted to try to get out of the home as a child. |
| Question: How to talk to parents? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 09:01 AM PDT Hello I want a bit of help with my parents. I have poor balance and a specific learning disability and according to the law, I qualify for a service dog. My parents, however have other ideas and don't really understand (or listen to) me. I know what the three main tasks are going to be – 1. Brace 2. Get help 3. Find things for me. These things I cannot do for myself ( honestly I have to have the entire family looking for something with me) and because of my condition my life as a teen/human has completely gone to pot. If I say I'm a teen but can't get dressed in the morning, or make friends, or find my way around , or rember things, or go outside the home without someone. I forgot about my GCSE exam!!! (yes I do sticky note and diary but that does not work). I want desperately to be a vet but that's unlikely now, as I no longer have the grades or the physical strength. I tell you, if I cant be a vet it will completely destroy me. My parents claim ' you are not disabled enough' although the law does and my medical professionals do! Mum gets harsh about it too…. Like the other day when I was walking with my head down ( like I do every day) and mum snapped at me and said I was to get over it at once. I mean I've tried!!!! She thinks if I go to sleep and wake up thinking I don't have what I have then it will be cured (tried and failed x 100) What should I do?? |
| Posted: 02 Jun 2015 09:00 AM PDT I am 21 and currently 7 months pregnant; my now ex boyfriend Denies the baby is his after we decided together to try for a baby. I do love him even though everyone says he doesn't deserve it. He drinks and after we found out I was pregnant he seemed to get worse. He began accusing me of cheating and lying..we lived together and I wasn't allowed to have a Facebook or a phone. I had no way to talk to anyone else. He would start fights over nothing then kick me out. He left me homeless while pregnant with his child. He has done some horrible things to me acts like ive done the unforgivable, and I still care about him. I know things probably wouldn't change if we got back together, but part of me wishes it would so we could try again. I have been staying with his mom. He texts me daily (remind you were not together) tells me to do w.e i want, that we wont ever be together again, he doesnt want to sleep with me, accusing me of sleeping with other guys. Then telling me to come over . hell ask me to stay the night tell me he loves me and misses me then sends me off in the am and starts all over again. I want to move on? But he has my heart, and I know hell make my life hell if I ever found someone in the future. Can anyone give me advise?? Thank you. |
| Question: Is this the cleverest way of describing Hillary Rotten Clinton? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 08:36 AM PDT http://thefederalistpapers.integratedmarket.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/Old_Lady_Telling_Lie_a.jpg |
| Question: Do normal Boys Play Video Games? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 08:35 AM PDT I'm a 15 year old boy and I play on my Xbox Like all the Time and I have since I was like 7! My parents told me that normal boys go out and play and not spend all their time playin' video games! But most boys in my School do! Is this normal? |
| Question: What should I do to avoid this kind of situation? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 08:10 AM PDT My brother woke up this morning to have breakfast. But I noticed that he was nude. I don't have bad thoughts about nudity but to see my little brother naked made me feel strange. |
| Question: How Do I sneak clothes into my house without my parents finding out? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 08:06 AM PDT Hi, I'm secretly learning martial arts behind my parents back and now I need to bring my martial arts uniform back home without getting spotted? Any Suggestions would be greatly appreciated.. Thanks Jay |
| Question: Really really saddddd about something?? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 07:57 AM PDT SOOOO, i found this really good deal online, and its been something ive been wanting to buy for agesssss. I told my parents that ill pay for it myself and blahblah, all i need is their permission to get it and they wont allow me to?? they say that it will make me more "distracted" from work which i totes dont get bc i alr have a phone now??so getting a better phone wont even affect it LMAO. help!! how to persuade them?? |
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| Question: How to get my mom to stop being overprotective.? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 07:56 AM PDT So I'm a kid whose 12 yrs old and has severe food allergies. My mom is incredibly overprotective because of that. She won't let me stay home for an hour, or even half an hour. So she forces me to go to this stupid daycamp in the summer and I hate it. But my dad could care less if I stay home alone. I understand my moms paranoia, but it's way over the top, I'm old enough to check the food I eat. How can I talk to her about this |
| Question: Why won't my family tell me what they are doing with my ex husband? Posted: 02 Jun 2015 07:45 AM PDT My family, my mom and dad and brother and sister, always enjoyed family meetings with me and my husband Sam. They even invited him to these meetings after our divorce and that was fine with me. We had a friendly divorce and he went out of his way to be nice to me and everyone else at these meetings. I have now remarried and they want to invite Sam to future family meeting but Sam will not come. When I ask him why, he told me that he does not want to cause my new husband and me any problems and his presence at these meetings might make my new husband uncomfortable. I don't think it would but I guess it is better to be safe than sorry. I did not know it until recently but my mom and dad and sometimes my brother and sister meet Sam for lunch a few times each year. I only found out when my sister told me what had been happening. I ask my mom about this and she refuses to discuss it with me. Can anyone think of a reason why my mother will not discuss what she and other family members are doing with my ex husband? Is she trying to protect me or something else. |
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