..and even have/maybe children as well at that age. If a man wants to dedicate his 20's and 30's for his career and travelling around, but will only marry someone after 40, how would that be in any way bad? I mean him at 40 marrying a woman who's above 35

My ex-husband and I are divorced. While we were married we bought a car. The loan is in his name but I paid the down payment, registration fees and I continue to make all the payments. I've made all the payments on time. In the divorce decree it states that the car is to remain in my possession and I am to make payments in a timely manner. Not able to be more than 30 days late on a payment or he is allowed to take it. My question is now he wants to take it back? Can he do that?

My ex-husband and I have a four year old daughter. He and I separated three years ago and our divorce finalized six months ago. The problem started when he got arrested for drinking and driving. He refused to get help for drinking so I left him. I filed for full custody of our daughter, he didn't show up for court so I was awarded it. We agreed on him seeing her every second Sunday at his mother's house for four hours. (His mother sees her more often then that) This was what went on for a year until he went to jail for a second DUI. He got out nine months ago, and has been to rehab. The previous visitation agreement stood. He has recently asked me if he could have more time and possibly having unsupervised visitation. I was thinking of letting him have his first afternoon alone. Maybe take her to the park for a few hours. Would this be too soon?

Does this likely mean I'm doing something that attracts women who have daddy issues or some other divorce/separation-induced tendencies? Of the two who did not have divorced parents or an absent father, one of them had a dad with a recent terminal cancer diagnosis, and the other grew up with a bunch of rowdy brothers and her dad owed a lot of money and didn't have a regular job. What is likely to be attracting them to me? (Interestingly, the one with the rowdy brothers' parents later did start living in separate houses). The 50% divorce rate statistic is a myth, is even less true of college-educated people (who these were), and even if it was a fact, my experience involves almost 100%, so mere probability wouldn't explain it.

I was married a few weeks ago and as a present to me my husband revealed that years ago after he lost his job he had a lot of free time on his hands and he wanted to write to his future spouse. Basically like what marriage meant to him and how much he knew he would love me some day. Some days he included movies he wanted to watch with me, articles on marriage, love poems etc. He said he made the crazy promise that he would always send something once a day until he found me and he always did. he sais he hoped it would represent his undying love for me and that he never gave up looking for me. He also had friends that had been married and divorced and he realized that in writing to me how important I was and that if he ever were to forget or if we ever hit a rough patch this would remind me what its really all about. I was very shocked and happy that he did this. I was just curious if any other husbands had done this for their wife and even if not how would you feel?

We live in Az. My husband had to ask for a CS modification because he was let go from his 70k/yr job. He also lost his medical. We let his ex know as soon as it happened and she was fine with it since she had medical through her work. He served her with the required papers INCLUDING a parent worksheet and documents showing how much he recieved each week($213) and that they took $105 for support each week and they have been since January since it started so he was meeting his monthly obligation. On her response she filled out he was making $3k a month from unemployment and was asking for MORE child support. We can easily prove he doesnt make that much. Can she get in trouble for lying on court papers? ALSO, his unemployment will be ending in the next couple weeks. We decided it would be better for him instead of working a low paying job to go back to school and get his AS with Paramedic Emphasis since thats what he's always has wanted to do. He will be in EMT classes this fall and can go to work as one after he gets his certification in December/January. It eliminates our childcare bill temporarily and it will give him more time with our kids and his daughter when she visits. Can the court take his financial aid for child support each month and because he isnt working now and was ordered to do 100% of driving (2 hrs each way friday and sunday) to get his daughter for visits, can they stop visitation? Or can they order my income be included since im the only person working?

is a official last name change needed in california if it was listed on a marriage license because I really decided not to change my name and keep my maiden name, real answers please!

I'm so heartbroken that he would leave me and everything that we built over a woman. He's been out most of the time these past few weeks. We still share a home and a bed. I have been looking for places to live because he insist that I leave our home instead of him. He told me that he isn't leaving and that I would be miserable living with him because he will bring her to the home. Mind you, he was NEVER and I repeat NEVER this heartless. When we married, I thought that we'd live together forever and have 3 kids together. Now,I'm realizing that that dream is out of the window. I really feel like crap, because he still wants to sleep with me and at night and tell me that he loves me but I know by the next day, he will tell me that our marriage is over and he loves this woman. On Friday, I had an accident and went to the hospital. He didn't show and I had to take a taxi home that night and he wasn't home, he was out with friends came home and tried to have sex with me knowing that I was on antibiotics and in pain. Yesterday, he texts me to come home and I(like a fool) came home. I still treat him well. Tomorrow is my birthday and he doesn't even care, he's out with friends and ignored my texts today. This other woman knows he is married and is a friend but she acts like she doesn't care because she'll call him at weird hours and he'll go into the bathroom to masturbate. It really hurts me. I have family that lives states away and my job is here. I feel stuck. What should I do?

My husband and his ex wife filed for divorce due to the fact she was in a relation ship with a man cheated with on him with . She filed while he was in combat in Iraq and could not make it to court to fight for the child they have together ,who she has custody of . She told court she did not want her ex husband to pay child support but the court orders made him pay any way .

My last remaining parent died a month ago. I was very busy for a while after the death. Now things have slowed down and the grief is hitting me to the point where I don't feel like talking to anyone. I am married with a couple of toddlers. Obviously, I am speaking to them. But beyond that. I really don't want to talk to anyone. I will email, but I won't initiate the email.I just don't want to talk to anyone. What should I do?

What made you apologize?

What should I do? I have been married for 18 years with 3 kids, I travel a lot, I'm an airline pilot. About 5 months ago I met a girl (15 years younger) I'm 45. She is finalizing her divorce and has 2 small children. We felt in love,I really love this girl. At the beginning I lied because I didn't want to lose her but I had to tell her that I'm living in my house with my wife and children. with my wife we have nothing left , we are together because the house kids ,etc. We haven't had sex in a long while. A few days ago I felt terrible when I noticed her strange ( over the phone since she lives in another city) She told me that she couldn't go on with this situation, that she is lonely and want a future with me , needs a man that can help her in life, somebody to count on. A husband not a married man living with his wife. I did cero contact but in less than a day she sent me texts telling me she was destroyed that she love me but end our relationship. We talked and made a deal than in 6 months I will definitely move out so we can have a future together otherwise she can't stay with me. I promised what we pact but I feel pressured and confused. I must be impartial and think both side. She wants to reorganize her life, at the beginning she was fine but now she wants get serious with me. I feel that I have to make a great decision in such a short time, I .still love my family but I adore this girl I wonder why so much pressure , I don't know what I'm gonna do in 6 months.

We had a HUGE fight. I told him we are through get out. He is now staying at our neighbors house (his friends, the reason why we had the argument - he has not been spending quality time with me but is always "hanging out" in the garage with his friends. I did tell him I want nothing to do with him and get out and change phone plans (he is still on mine). People say things they don;t mean in the heat of an argument. I am calmed down now, however, I will not accept him back if he does the same old behavior again. I am ready to let him go. I texted him that I wanted to talk and let me know when he is ready (after other attempts to contact him). No response. Finally, I asked for a key to the garage he has. He said he would leave it outside. When I went over to get it, he came out of the garage and said "What do you want?" I said I want to talk. how are you?" He said "I am fine. I am busy working, leave me alone". OS I said "fine, I will leave you alone" and left. So, why did he respond like that and what can I do to patch things up, or, do you think he doesn't care?

I'm 27 I have a stable good paying career profession as a physician and I own a house unmortgaged so if I wanted to get married have a kid raise a family it would be no problem for me Financially I'm ready but mentally I'm not so sure My girlfriend says she wants to marry me but she's only 18 just entering college and she's serious but says she'll wait until after she finishes her bachelor my family and friends all think it's time I settle down and start a family and their all married my best friend just got engaged I'm the last one to get married of the group so lots of pressure Its not like I don't want to get married and have kids I do one day but I'm kinda nervous and scared which is why I've been making up excuses and putting it off

So three years ago I was having issues with my husband and still is. I felt neglected and I've never really received any attention from him only when he wants sex. And we are both religious (even tho Im not so into this belief). He was considering having another wife but this was something we did not agree to. This was something I've found out after we got married.But after hearing this I was so stressed out and hurt and my esteem fell because you know how they instill fear in you so I felt like I had to choice but to stay with him if he dicides to get another woman.To continue, Ive met this girl three years ago and we start off as friends. IVe told her about the issue(you know girl talk) and eventually I found out shes a lesbian. But after going through so much she was always there for me. When I needed a shoulder to cry on she was there, when I needed money she was there, when I needed someone to talk to she was there and till this day she is still here. IVe never had someone to make me feel so good about myself the way she does. My self esteem is so low and the attention and love and support that she has given me just makes me feel so good about myself and im finally happy for once in my life. She makes me feel safe and protected and no other man ive been with has done this. Shes very hard working and although shes a woman, the way she carries herself is like a man. Ive never thought about being with a woman. I always wanted to be with a man but the way she makes me feel im madly in love with her and idk what to do.I wish I can fall out of love with her but I cant. Its not so easy. But heres whats bothering me. Before I met her I was somewhat religious now im not so religious anymore because it has caused me so much stressed and I think im suffering from religious trauma syndrome & I was forced into this religion. But you know the bible is against gays and being that im inlove with her it so hard for me to be happy because god is upset with me. when i was religious I was miserable because all the church Ive attend taught us hate. When being free from this I can finally breathe but I cant breathe completely because Im in love with a woman. Can someone give me advice on what to do? Like I dont want to go to hell for being in love with a woman. I just want to be happy and she makes me happy I just need a peace of mind. Im just tired of stressing and being depressed about this. Its not like I wanted to fall inlove with her. I've spoken to her about the issue and shes been very understanding but shes also a bit upset that she fell inlove with me too and im taking so long to make a decision. Like shes been waiting for some time now so I can understand her annoyance

Why do men treat tall women differently than short ones? I have noticed this. Tall women don't get protected as much or treated girly as much. Yet a short girl could have 200 pounds on the tall one but just because she's short men will treat her better. Why? I mean even if she's tall and YOU are taller you still don't treat her the same as someone whose like very short.

Tuve un novio por.hace.4años y 4 meses.hasta ayer resulta el.se ha portado mal me.a.sido infiel.y lo e.perdonado mas de una, estuvo d cumpleaños hace un pqr.de dias ya teníamos planes pero el mero dia el los cambio sin previo aviso no podia localizarlo no contestaba su movil solo por mensaje m dijo q estaba en sesión d trabajo no le crei pues hace unos años paso.asi y estaba con otra. Pero aun asi m cambie para ir y festejarlo sali de mi casa y cuando le llame 4 horas después andaba bebiendo con sus amigos y se olvido de lo q habiamos planeado. No hiba a recontrarme con el pues estaba molesta pero finalmente lo hize, al llegar estaba yo molesta un amigo.de el del cual mi novio pasa celoso me dijo.q mi novio se habia ido a un parque temprano a celebrar con una mujer osea otro engaño el amigo m dijo q no dijera nada en ese momento. No dije nada y a mi novio que era el cumpleañero q m a engañado muchísimo lo ignore toda la noche se puso celoso y m tiro un bazo.a la cara fue horrible luego se fue molesto, yo creó q el penso yo lo seguiria para rogarle se quedara pero no lo hize... sr fue y m quede platicando con el amigo de el del cual el se siente celoso y de repente mi novio regreso y lo empujo y se agarraron a trompadas...eso fue el viernes el sabado m escribio mi novio como si nada y yo

My husband is having sex with his female running friend. I caught them in the woods behind our house where there is a jogger's trail that leads to some boulders.That woman he was screwing saw me frozen just unable to do anything before she whispered to him.My husband just looked at me and merely smiled while still just doing her. Instead of anger, I felt aroused and I ended up touching myself. As I went back home, I waited for him, just wanting to yell or just trash everything but he merely told me this is how it is going to be and if I want a divorce, he would be sad to let me go because although he love me,he said I can't satisfy him sexually anymore.He told me that woman is going to be part of our life now and I have permission to see other men if I want. All my anger just vanished when he held me and I don't know why the sex was more better than usual, its like he made me crave it once more. That woman and he has done it on our bed and I don't know why there is something about her that is so dominant, it makes me aroused when I see them together. He only touches me if I that woman asks him too and I feel both angry and aroused that we are taking orders from that woman. We both have four kids together and I am not sure I want them to know what about my husband and me. Sometimes I wish I can just have my husband back but the moment I see them both together, I get aroused, I am afraid I won't be able to get out from this new arrangement in our marriage, what do I do To those who thinks I am making this up, I am willing to chat with you on Yahoo so that you can know the real story. To those who thinks I am making this up, I am willing to chat with you on Yahoo so that you can know the real full story.

Is it a banker? I just want to find love once and have fun forever with her. I wouldnt even mind us not being legally married. I just wondering how long THAT would last. Of course, she would be flirting with other guys and maybe i would be doing the opposite....but we would come back to each other....right?

we work together, he gives me a ride sometimes. he has a crush on me, he wants me to be one of his ''conquests', and he constantly flirts with me, it's been like that for 4 years, he is still pursuing me and not giving up even if I told him I am not interested and I only talk to him as a friend. He is quite attractive, all the women at work fawn over him, even married ones, and he's had sex with most of them. But I find him irritating and obnoxious. I simply pretend to be tolerant because I have to. His family is very influential and they can pull strings and fire me if I openly attack him and tell him off. Anyway, he gives me rides home or to a metro station sometimes, as he does with other co-workers too. We car pool. He had never done anything sexual to me in the car with the others present. He only says things, like ''funny'' jokes about women and sex and looks at me to see my reaction. Last time, we had a night shift and I had to leave around 3-4 am, so he offered to take me home instead of calling a taxi. I was very hesitant but I accepted after I informed my other co-worker. So he took me to a mountain!!! I live near a mountain though but he passed my turn and kept on going towards the top. Then he said, ''I know a good bar here, do you want to go?" I said ''No, I am tired, please take me home''. He stopped talking for like 5 minutes and he was just staring at the stars and sighing, I was trying to keep calm but it was creepy.Then he said ''Alright, but you owe me" and he drove me home really fast. He was really mad that I rejected him again and he refused to talk to me until we arrived outside my house. He was also speeding very fast and making me scared. Then he said in a rude manner ''Get out'', and he didn't even say ''goodnight''. I felt like I wanted to punch him and castrate him but I managed to resist the temptation. I think I heard him whisper as he was leaving ''f u ck you whore'' but not to my face. The funny thing is, I didn't really feel a big danger when we were alone in the car on the mountain, I didn't get the vibe that he was planning to rape me or that he had the balls to do it, but it was a frustrating and upsetting experience. Am I reading him right or Should I be concerned?

To start, let's all assume I'm wrong (because I am) for putting up with a married man for 2 years. I'm at the age where if it works, cool... If it doesn't, cool. So he is married & separated, but hid the marriage for a year. I fell for the man I THOUGHT he was. I've now dealt with the marriage for a year. Yesterday, he caught me in a lie- I went to lunch with a long time friend (NO contact/feelings) and denied it. Now I'm a horrible person. Says he refuses to divorce until I'm truthful. I know dumping him is #1, but what steps would you take to make it work?

I could really use some sage insight. My husband has an enormous issue with disclosure. It's generational. Apparently (and unbeknownst to me), the men in his family have qualms about answering to women, so he often feels justified in lying, omitting, and concealing things from me, especially where it concerns other women, his ex and her family, and at tmes, even money. Regarding any of it, he explodes when I become inquisitive, demanding that I have no right to ask about his life and that he owes me no explanation. If asked how he knows a female friend I haven't met, he becomes defensive, chiding that I mind my own damned business. I'm a pretty relaxed person, I just dislike lies, especially if I have to later suffer the consequences. Perhaps I wouldn't ask questions had his past actions and behavior not bitten me in the *** several times (for example, repeatedly text flirting and exchanging photos with a girl whom he promised was just an old friend. When things got out of hand and I asked him to stop communicating with her, he'd later messaged her to tell her how beautiful she was via social media purportedly because I "made him angry.") I've recently noticed the deceit beginning again with new pages I thought were closed. Each time I approach him, an argument erupts. What would you suggest I should do to encourage him to stop doing hurtful things behind my back and be more open and honest with me without making him feel like I'm encroaching on his privacy. Thanks!

I've been scrolling on questions that people keep asking why do single woman sleeping with a married man. Not one question about why single man sleeping with a married woman! Because I've seen it happened. Is it all with friends with benefits!? Because it's not fair to the Spouse! Why we get hurt while our husband's out cheating on their wives! If they're aren't happy being married, why don't they get divorced without hurting their Soouse!? It's awkward! WHY!?

I was wondering if there are any couples from the show "We just got married" that became couples or even married in real life. :)

I seperated from my ex husband a while ago and would like to get my young childrens surnames changed to my maiden name before they start school. Will i still be entitled to child support if they dont possess his last name ?

Is my husband controlling? I had plans with a gf to go out to dinner. He seemed mad about it so I said he could come along. He then changed the plans and the three of us met up with a few of his friends at a bowling alley instead. Then on the way there I was eating a piece of jerky and my friend asked for a bite so I ripped her off a chunk ....he got pissed bc I didn't offer him any. Then when I handed him my piece ...he smacked it out of my hands. So I yhrew it out the window. Then after the bowling alley we decided to go to a casino. At the casino her and I went to dance... (he doesn't dance) we asked him to watch ojr drinks and he got so pissed he left and went and sat in the vehicle. So we didn't even finish dancing and left too. Is this normal husband behavior? Bc I was extremely embarressed on how he treated me. Or am I in the wrong? Or over reacting?

I threw myself into this,calling dr.'s,changing eating habits,went go to husband to work(he's self employed)to help him & learn it in the event he isn't able to.Go to dr;s appt., take care of the house We have 9 kids between us and 2 still at home,so taking care of them also post on my husbands facebook acct.to keep family and friends updated on what is going onNot one person from his family has came to help us.Instead, his brother actually called my husband shortly after the diagnosis and asked him if he knew I was on his facebook,and that it was my husbands facebook & I shouldn't be on it implying that I was sneaking behind my husbands back & writing on HIS facebook without his knowledge,and his brother felt the need to tell my husband that!Well this caused some conflict,and we wrote him off.Of course my husband knew I was on it, he asked me to,and he told his brother this. It ended with his brother hangin up on him.I told my husband that in no way would I ever tell his brother he couldn't call or visit,and hoped they would reconcile.this last week his brother did call, and they got back on track.I asked my husband if he had mentioned the incident that started it all.and his reply was that his brother was only looking out for ME, and thought maybe I should join a support group as it seemed I was taking the diagnosis pretty hard that I was the wrong that took the situation wrong..Come on now.. if I took it wrong, then why didn't his brother try to make it right immediately?

After stating that one of his friends were more mature than me, with his follow up reasoning of this, this was a conversation that came up between my friend and I where both our opinions completely differed, so much feedback will be appreciated.

He told me he feels nervous around me, because when we talk it's only briefly. When we talk he always has a huge smile on his face for no reason. Later on that week we went for a walk during lunch and he hardly spoke and wouldn't look at me. Am I just being paranoid that he has feelings for me?

Ok.. I am told I made a big mistake. I don't feel I did though. Please tell me your thoughts or help me figure out what to do or should I just keep all this in confirm & continue on. I am a female 45. I am married to a wonderful man we have 5 kids. My best friend of many years is a gay unattractive man that's 38. he has never once made any advances on me. We have joked about sex & other girl things. Just as friends. I care deeply for him as a friend. He has prostate cancer & has scheduled to have it removed. this said yesterday he was helping me paint a rental unit & we had a few drinks. Not drunk. I was taking a break enjoying a cigarette & he said off the wall, do you know how hot you look sitting there. I thought that to be weird. He said I need your help baby. I said sure, he said you know I am gay & losing my prostate next week. He asked if he could masterbate in front of me. Said he wanted to share this last veiw times to *** with me. I go wow... I finally sure, no big deal right. Well a few min into this he says I want to sex with a real women for the last time. Any ways you get the idea. I did have sex with him & it was great. It took awhile becouse I am not attracted to him. I was just trying to help a dear friend out. Is this bad ?, I told my husband & he said no worries. I knew you been screwing him for years. But that simply not the case I said. He said I love you & your body is yours . You need to be your own person outside of our marriage what should I do ?

This is not about me but about a friend. Dick was a great guy that everyone liked to be friends with. He was sociable, sincere and forthright. He also came from a well to do family and they led very decent lives. His father was a CEO of a coporation and his mom was a university lecturer and all his siblings wrer also doing well. He was the youngest. After graduating from his uni, he went to work in a large corporation with a lot of powerful executives. His company also sent him regularly to meet other executives and directors of other companies to discuss business matters with them. Because of this, in his life, he tend to meet high associates very regularly. One day, he met an old university mate and they hit it off together. She told him she was working as business partner in a company with her friends. She seemed to be doing well. Before long, he fell head over heels for her and soon they got married. One day, staff of his company were invited to a coporation party or gathering and he and his director was selected to go there. It was a sort of high society gathering. He thus decided to attend it with his wife. When he there, everthing had initially seemed normal. However, it was not long before he noticed everyone seemed to know his wife and was intereted in her. Some people also seemed to talk about her. This was odd as he thought she was just an average person in the street. Later, he so happened to meet someone he knew. When the chance was right, he causually asked that person what was all the interest on his wife about. After feeling surprised for a while, his friend told him his wife was actually a high society hooker who would make tonnes after offering room services to her clients. She was not a hooker that plied the streets but one that offer services to executives and directors charging very high rates. In fact, a lot of those executives in the party were her clients and they knew her. My friend was naturally devastated. He also felt cheated. What could he do now? It was also becoming very embarassing to meet the other executives now as they knew about his wife's dark past. From henceforth, every subsequent meeting he had with these executives have become a bane as he was staring at people who had slept with his wife. What can he do now? File for divorce?

Sorry my English is not very good . Got in arranged marriage for 19 yrs . Have 2 kids . My husband never liked sex with me even though I m good looking & attractive . We have 11 yrs age difference . He makes good money . He mistreated me all life . He doesn't ebb touch me . He calls escorts , escortic massage places . He denies that he never had sex with escorts . I found him 5 th time surfing sites for escorts , escortic massage , calling & texting them .i have no one to help me in this country . Kids r seeing our fight everyday .,he abused me with all kinds of names .told him to get therapy but he doesn't think that's required coz he's not doing anythinn . He stayed out of home for 12 days coz I didn't allow him to enter . My son can't live without him .so he camw back but he's sending me emails that I home crazy . Coz I fight with him . Yes I lost my temper . I want to tell him that I m not his slave .,he's so egoistic & have lot of attitude., please help me what to do

My husband was my boyfriend and when he was my bf, we had sex we had a great relationship:) but then we got engaged and the romance started running fade then the sex .. Then we got married and everything got worse .. I beg and do everything to get him to want sex even dress smokin hot in my lingria. I'm 24 and he 25. Hubby belive it could be stress , fear how he gonna perform and the fact I beg.. Once he says no to me I cry so then he suad if it doesn't work he will let me have an affair but i don't want one unless we divorce but I don't want to divorce even though I need sex so bad with th hubby . We got a good emotional connection and friendship .. Should I wait another year in misery just for hubby to be ready for sex ?:( he wants it but he doesn't know why he not in the mood .

On our honeymoon I brought up the topic of fantasies to my husband. I have been fantasizing alot about having a wmw threesome with my husband. He said it was also a fantasy of his. We talked vaguely about it that night. Months later we had gone out and out of the blue he asks me what i thought about having a threesome with this young blonde he had been playing pool with all night. Keep in mind she was probably half our age! I was totally unprepared for this! I was so hurt! He didn't understand why i was so hurt because i was the one to bring it up months ago and he feels like I set him up?! Yes... I brought up fantasies and shared some intimate thoughts with him one time months ago and that gives him the go? I just feel this is something we would have to talk and plan for a long time and set boundaries. I am still deeply hurt by this and it has been over 2 years! It has affected our marraige and our sex life negatively. My self esteem wasn't great before but now it has really plummeted. I just thought there was a difference in fantasy and reality and sharing our fantasies would bring us closer and if we were going to actually try to act them out we would talk and plan it out (which to me is a turn on even if we didn't act on it) but now unfortunately its all out the window!

Men: Would you love your wife if she was a stuck-up, short-tempered, self-centered, selfish princess and brat? But she also has a cute beautiful face and thin beautiful legs. 

Hi there.So it's been a week since NC(no contact)with my ex,and about 3 weeks since the initial breakup.I no it may seem early to even be concerned but I am.My ex almost proposed to me for our 5 year anniversary, but things went south in less than a month.He even asked my dad to marry me and took me ring shopping twice...All his idea. We attend the same church so he knows all my family and friends and so do I so eventually I'm likely to run into him. He broke things off with me because he said he "needed time to get himself together",which was so sudden.Ill admit our relationship has changed and I have changed.I mean I'm not the same college girl I've evolved into a women over the course of 5 years. I would love for us to get back together learn from this and keep moving but I'm not sure he'll give us another try.When we first broke up i recently called and texted him practically begging him to give us another try but he blew me off said he didn't have time for me and that he would let me know when he could see me.(that broke my heart causing me not to be able to function and resulted in me missing work)I took it hard. I'm not perfect and neither was our relationship.He even told me he planned on proposing to me for our 5 year anniversary but used the money he saved to buy a ring to get himself his first apartment(hes 27 and I'm 25)Then he went on to say he's been Un happy for 2 years and just felt marriage was only right since we've been dating so long,although he Wasn't ready.

I want my wife to be a prostitute i want my wife should have sex with different men.She should be in open relation shttps://www.facebook.com/449959965178113/photos/a.449966275177482.1073741828.449959965178113/450951251745651/?type=1hip.Is this correct???

That`s how I ended up getting pregnant with a baby girl!

So, I am about to be legally divorced. We didn't have kids. I fully supported her financially while we were married. I paid everything to include supporting her son from previous marriage. Like an idiot when I refinanced my house I allowed her to put her name in the title. She basically blackmailed me because she said she would make me sell my house if I didn't continue to pay off the car that is only in my name and then give it to her. I was stuck and agreed. She filled out the divorce papers and we went and filed together. She put in there that she will give up all interest to the house in return I would pay off the car and then transfer the title to her. She asked me to print the docs and we took them to the court. Before doing so I deleted the part where it says I will give her the car. I just left it saying I would pay it off. My question is does anyone know if once the divorce is finalized and I go take my car back if there is anything she can do? She signed the documents and shoukd have payed attention so it's her mistake. Also, this week she asked me to go and trade the car in to get her a brand new car before the divorce is final. Real nice right. Any info would be appreciated. Thanks.

My fiance and I have had a date set to get married since last year. We were turned in for child abuse for spanking and are currently being investigated by dcfs. We were wondering if we'd be approved for the marriage age license since there's an investigation. We're in Illinois if the state matters.

It does not make any sense to me at all. That a married man would make friends with a single female, who had or never will never marry nor have any children. Maybe, I am slow *** **** because I have chosen to put my education, career, and salary first. Do I have put my monkey first before everything else? Meaning, my pussy. I have not having sex nor making love to a married man. **** that ****. he can find someone else who I naïve. no more of this yahoo questions and answers because no answer makes any sense. peace out.

I am a 25 year old good looking guy. I feel the need already for a companion. I have ever dated anyone due to my shyness. I would love to get married to a sweet good looking girl. I don't get to meet girls at work and all my colleagues are already married. I don't know anybody else and I don't trust online dating

I have a friend (seriously, it is a friend) who is separated. She and her husband have at least one vehicle titled in both of their names, however, he has left her vehicleless and has 3 other operating vehicles at his disposal. She is forced to ride the bus or hitch rides from friends. According to her, since it is marital property, he doesn't have to give it to her or allow her to use it. However, I remember something in MY divorce papers stating that anything I or my ex-wife did to cause any type of distress from between the separation till the divorce was not allowed. Does anyone know if she has a claim to the vehicle that is in BOTH their names, that she needs to get back and forth? Or does he just get to be an ***?

My wife claims that I'm an abusive husband any time I don't do things her way. For about 8 years though she used this "abusive" as a way to control me so I can "do as I'm told" and give her "the win" in a fight (tactics her Mom used on her Dad); and I was stupid enough to let it work out of "love". But within the last month or so, I've finally gained the courage to stand up to her and tell her "Yes, I am your version of an abusive husband, now what?". In real life, I did nothing wrong; she just wanted to win a fight. With me getting stronger (emotionally) she needed new tactics. She got so desperate, she asked a question on here to get suggestions on how to control me again (link below). To make sure people were cooperative, she wrote a victim story to go along with it; but no one gave her the answers she wanted (new forms of control), so instead I am locked out of my bedroom and FORCED to sleep on the couch. Yes, I know this is an old wives' way of making men think of the way they behaved BUT it isn't working. If I had emotions that could be abused, this would suck. But honestly, there's no emotions to jerk on over here. I love her as a person, but having to deal with her crazy need for control/perfection on a daily basis has readied me for her emotional abuse tactics. She took it TOO FAR and now I don't care. So yeah, any credible sources that spell out wives abusing men through emotional abuse? Link: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20150502153846AAS78Oy

My hysband and I stayed wiyh my brother and his pretty wife. Shes friendly and outgoing. We were going to live there until we got our own place since we moved out of state. The first night he was acting all sweet sensitive and charming while he talked to her the whole night. Those qualities are not his personality at all. He stared at her all the time and always found reasins to talk to her Even following her around the house in different rooms. Once I walked inside and she was standing there with him not even a ft away...his eyes got big in suprise when I walked in. They would talk constantly...often leaving me and my brother out of the conversation...I would alway catch them staring at each other sometimes for prolonged periods or sitting close on the couch in deep discussion.she would be in another room and we would be watching a game and he would be staring at her.when he talked or made jokes...he would look at her to see her reaction first. My brother is very laid back.My husband didnt know her before this and is not outgoing or social. ..hes all guy and doesn't find females that interesting...she dont hunt or fish so I think the behavior was odd Esp since he never has been attentive towards me...or sit and talk to me like that. It was so out of character for him...when we went out to eat...he sat across from both of us and made some sexual jokes about the food and stared at her to see her response.he said she is social thats why he liked talking to her..what do u think