Marriage & Divorce: Question: Am I supposed to love my wife more than my mom? How is that right? |
- Question: Am I supposed to love my wife more than my mom? How is that right?
- Question: I am 21 years old,i have a married boyfriend we've been lover's for 7months .I know from the start that his married because he admit it..?
- Question: I have Kafala (transfer) problem Can ANY one help me out Am giving details Below!!?
- Question: I m starting to fall out of love for my husband?
- Question: Husband wants to seperate but still wants citizenship?
- Question: Will this arrangement work?
- Question: What is the real major cause for divorce?
- Question: I m 38. Should I have a baby. I m not married.?
- Question: What are the odds of marrying a wife who will remain faithful?
- Question: Adult movies?
- Question: What do you think of men who always want to protect (and even provide for) a woman all the time when she wants to handle things herself?
- Question: My brother is gay and wears women's cloths after ten years in prison and won't admit it why what to do?
- Question: Would you rather die before or after your spouse?
- Question: Is my husband cheating?
- Question: I've been secretly in love with a married librarian who I've never talked to for the last 7 years?
- Question: Can i get support from wife sense she move and address left..?
- Question: Am I a whore if I grab a random man by the butt or genitals while I'm still married but separated from my husband?
- Question: Is 19 too young to get married?
- Question: How to stop my parents from getting a divorce??? HELP?
- Question: Women - what advice would you give your sons or brothers on choosing a wife?
- Question: How do i deal with a lazy wife?
- Question: Soooo, what would you do if your husband cheated on you?
- Question: I cheated on my husband 22 years ago while we were separated, I just told him?
- Question: My sisters relationship with my husband?
- Question: What to do with intrusive "in-laws"?
- Question: Am I being sensitive, or is he inconsiderate?
- Question: Any Filipinas interested in marriage possibly?
- Question: Am I being childish?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Is he being a coward or feelings sorry for me?
- Question: My husband been cheathing on me should I leave him?
- Question: My husband is cheathing on mme and i don t know what to do. help?
- Question: My fiance has not talked to me in 3 weeks. What should I do?
- Question: What do straight male Ivey-league graduates, who are passionate in the program they studied on, look for a relationship and a wife?
- Question: Was it rude to tell this man that he should have children?
- Question: My fiancé travelled with my 3 year old.and then told me she's done with our relationship . What can I do ? I'm confused don't want to make a mistake.?
- Question: Husband is sleeping in untill 11 am....is this normal?
- Question: Can a 36 year old man marry a 49 year old woman?
- Question: Should I have told my fiancee about this?
- Question: Not sure if I should get involved, opinions needed please!?
- Question: My Dad Is Cheating on my Mom?
- Question: How to find a beautiful wife in a month？?
- Question: Should I leave a man who does not want to commit with me?
- Question: Can a 18 year old marry a 49 yr old woman?
- Question: International marriage; my husband hates my country. What should I do?
- Question: Are threesomes a common fantasy amongst married women?
- Question: Should I divorse her?
- Question: How much money should the wife put away?
- Question: Can anyone recommend a affordable divorce lawyer in dallas? have no kids or assets but a IRS debt.?
- Question: Do I have to tell my sister about this?
- Question: Have other guys gotten curious and tried on their girlfriends lacy Bras & Undies ? And is it kind of normal to look and feel a bit silly?
- Question: How do my wife and i go about a divorce (ca)?
- Question: Husband sharing our personal marriage problems with friend?
- Question: Is it wrong of me to want another man to make love to me, I have only ever been with my husband?
- Question: My husband accidently took an iron supplement what will happen?
- Question: I ve filed case of divorce. ...?
- Question: When you met your husband for the first time did you fall in love with him gradually or instantly?
- Question: Partner texting another girl, should I ask to see the messages? is he cheating? He clearly dosnt want me to find out as he hides his phone.?
- Question: If your partner was masturbating in bed beside you wud it turn you on and make you want to have sex with them or wud you just go to sleep?
- Question: I don't know if I'll ever be able to be around my stepkids again?
| Question: Am I supposed to love my wife more than my mom? How is that right? Posted: 09 May 2015 08:59 PM PDT I love my mom, I would take a bullet for her. She has been there for me every step of the way and I owe it to her that I have everything I have today. I love my wife too, but this is a woman I met when I've already figured out most things in life, i.e puberty, education, job, loneliness, bullying in school, all of which my mom has been there for me. There's nothing my wife can do that will make me love her more than I love my mom. Don't get me wrong, I love my wife very deeply, but our bond will never be stronger than the bond I share with my mother. Whenever I go home (i.e my parents' home), I feel completely free. I'm not sure if anyone feels that, because I feel like a child again whenever I'm home. I would take off my shirt, lay on the couch and just talk to my mom as we watch TV together. There's no boundaries, no qualms. She can make fun of me and I don't even mind. I make fun of her and she doesn't mind. I feel so free whenever I'm around her. (please don't think this is some weird Oedipus **** because it's not what I mean). I can speak my mind with my wife, but the feeling is never the same. There are things that I cannot say because we need to keep a "healthy relationship". Why do people say that you should love your wife more than you love your parents? I've been married 10 years, and even if someone asks me the question of whether I will save my mom or my wife when they are both drowning in a river, I will hesitate but I will save my mom. Who should you love more? |
| Posted: 09 May 2015 08:53 PM PDT I love him so much!..I am happy to be with him 'cause i just feel been loved from other people..He said he will leave his wife but i don't know when they have 1 child and the kid said that "Dad,i don't like to have another mommy"..so i feel so down when my boyfriend told me that.I dont have any words to say to him cause i know its too hard for himbecause he love his child too much and me to him...So many times i told to myself he will leave her and find ways that we will be together but Other side of me say's "Don't ruin others marriage". The reason why he want to leave his wife is, he said his wife been always talk and talk and shout to him and he don't like that thing,his wife almost kill him before everytime they have arguements," .I know he just want to have a wife that even if they have kids she still have time to him... I love him so much...What should i do?... |
| Question: I have Kafala (transfer) problem Can ANY one help me out Am giving details Below!!? Posted: 09 May 2015 08:52 PM PDT I Recently got Divorced And my family brothers Father finished all relationship with Me :( My Father refuse To take my Transfer (kafala) What should I do Or Any one Can help me out? OR any one have Reference In mehkuma (Court) so I can Do nikkah And and give me kafala to my husband I live in Jeddah!! And now how can I do Nikah :( without "Walii" (Guardian) |
| Question: I m starting to fall out of love for my husband? Posted: 09 May 2015 08:34 PM PDT Things we're perfect in the beginning, we loved each other from the moment. Our relationship went well for the past 5 years. Started dated by 2005, got engaged in 2007, had a baby our baby in 2012 and now he's 3 years old. After my son was born we had our struggles and ups and down. Unfortunately my husband change drastically and starting to feel more stessed out. He's completely complaining about every thing, and sweating off the small stuff. Which it gets on my nerves. I never had a steady job, my job history SUCKS! Every time I work and every where else I always get the bloody a lay off. It's been going on 8 years and I'm also getting tired getting the lay off. So in my husband's eye's he thinks I'm doing something wrong. Because I always work at a Manufacturing plant, no matter where I work at. Our Bills are up our asses. He complaining about spending money when he can't stop buying vehicles. I'm just tired of it. At times I wanted to call it quits. He's always up my ***, never gives me my free space when I wanted To be left alone. He never leaves me alone. The more he does it, the more he pushes me away. And I'm feeling less love with him. He gives me migraine and headaches. I was pregnant with my 2nd child and lost my baby boy in 2015. I had a miscarriage due to stress and the terrible flu I had against my husband. I have to pay amount of ridiculous money. And he's freaking out over it. I just want to move further away from him |
| Question: Husband wants to seperate but still wants citizenship? Posted: 09 May 2015 08:32 PM PDT We've only been married for three years and he hasn't gotten much done regarding immigration. I found out that he's been cheating on me and seeing other woman and told me that other day that he doesn't want me, that he isn't in love with me anymore and wants to move on. He wants to separate but doesn't want to divorce because HE needs citizenship and to finalize the paper work. He has kicked me out of our home in hopes that his new pregnant girlfriend will move in with him. He is a compete dirty peice of garbage. I had to stay at a shelter and he didn't give a crap. I got NOTHING out of being married to him. He has done illegal things to get money and he is lucky I shut my mouth. I told him I'm not obligated to stay married to him if he can't treat me like his WIFE and show some respect. What did he expect? He called me the b word and has threatened me. I still love him actually, even after everything and we don't have a child together. I have a college degree and a good credit score. Why would he do this to me? Why does he expect me to want to stay married to him? |
| Question: Will this arrangement work? Posted: 09 May 2015 08:23 PM PDT So my husband is leaving me. We moved here from NYC to Florida and he is going back to NYC. He hasn't worked in about two years and when he leaves, he won't provide me with child support. Now, I have a 7yr old 8 yr old and a 6month old. I was thinking of having someone like move in and provide childcare for my kids. Like a live in nanny. How much should I pay them? Obviously I won't charge them for living with me. I don't want to get any type of government assistance unless i really really need it. I don't have family here so I just really need everyone opinion please. Oh and I work Monday - friday from 9-6 |
| Question: What is the real major cause for divorce? Posted: 09 May 2015 08:16 PM PDT Is it mostly men cheating on their wives? |
| Question: I m 38. Should I have a baby. I m not married.? Posted: 09 May 2015 07:51 PM PDT |
| Question: What are the odds of marrying a wife who will remain faithful? Posted: 09 May 2015 07:48 PM PDT |
| Posted: 09 May 2015 07:47 PM PDT The wife and I do not watch them together . what adult movie would be a great ice breaker? Keep in mind I know she does not watch them and I like to when she is not around . |
| Posted: 09 May 2015 04:36 PM PDT I have a husband like this and he would never give me space nor time to let me handle things myself. He always wanted to do everything for me 100 percent of the time as well as protect me so much. My parents, who married me off to him, were very blind to this and it was difficult to tell them even though my husband complained to them about me not wanting his protection along with not letting him do everything for me all the time. Would this be benevolent sexism or something? I sensed that he assumed that I could't do well without a man like him by my side and that I should have his protection 100 percent, which I don't need all the time. What would you think of this situation? |
| Posted: 09 May 2015 03:57 PM PDT He did ten years in prison and now he's on drugs wears women's clothing and is gay. Plus just married a female with two kids and basically using her and the marriage to cover all his dark secrets. I love my brother no matter what he chooses I'm just worried he's going to hurt himself if anyone in our family finds out |
| Question: Would you rather die before or after your spouse? Posted: 09 May 2015 03:36 PM PDT Honestly, I would rather die after. I wouldn't want my future husband to have to go through the grieving of losing me... |
| Question: Is my husband cheating? Posted: 09 May 2015 03:20 PM PDT my husband is 77 years old,he is very active, works full time as a cabinet installer, more than full time, more like 70hrs a week, his health is great, people think he's around 50 years old, my question is this, why cant he get an erection with me? is it his age or is he cheating? I really dont need all these cruel remarks about how it's my fault, my parts are too loose for him etc. we have been together for 26 years, things have changed in just the last month, he's working for a woman and I'm worried, shesh you people can be so rude! |
| Posted: 09 May 2015 03:04 PM PDT Im 22 btw and dont know what to do? |
| Question: Can i get support from wife sense she move and address left..? Posted: 09 May 2015 02:28 PM PDT |
| Posted: 09 May 2015 02:26 PM PDT I mean, am I a cheating whore for that? Women groping random men is whorish behavior. They can get harsher sentences for it. |
| Question: Is 19 too young to get married? Posted: 09 May 2015 02:24 PM PDT My best friend is getting married , she got engaged when she was 18 and is getting married at 19 but a lot of ppl think she is way to young and is still a kid , do you guys agree or disagree |
| Question: How to stop my parents from getting a divorce??? HELP? Posted: 09 May 2015 01:57 PM PDT I was looking through the orders on Amazon to see if something I ordered had shipped yet, and I saw that a book titled "Things women wish they would have known before dating after 40, 50, and yes... 60!" and I cant think of any reason my mom would buy this book other than because the wants to divorce my dad. please help me figure out how to stop this from happening. and PLEASE don't just tell me that I can't prevent it. I KNOW that I can. |
| Question: Women - what advice would you give your sons or brothers on choosing a wife? Posted: 09 May 2015 01:07 PM PDT While women may not understand men well, they do understand other women. So what advice would they give to their unmarried men folk when it comes to choosing a spouse? |
| Question: How do i deal with a lazy wife? Posted: 09 May 2015 12:58 PM PDT Ok, so im married, and have been for 3 years. My wife is incredibly lazy, she does absolutely nothing. I work, cook, clean, pay all the bills and everything, including taking the dog for walks and etc. She has only had a job for 1.3yrs. She works as a waitress at waffle house. She makes almost zero money, and the money she doesn make goes directly to her, for whatever she wants, whilst i pay for everything! She doesnt do anything around the house besides make a mess. I am glad she finally has a job, and she even went to school for a period of time, but instead of pursuing a job, she got one at waffle house. She told me that i need to stop worrying about her life and where its headed. That threw a red flag up for me. So i work 80hrs a week most weeks, then have to come home and clean, laundry, etc while she sits and bitcches about how we dont spend any time together. This is very upsetting to me. I dont know what to do, she has been letting herself go, and everything to do with that. She gets mad at me for stupid stuff. She started recording our argument today, and this is very amusing to me. I want to love her, but she makes it so hard to. i dont see myself with her if she doesnt figure it out. |
| Question: Soooo, what would you do if your husband cheated on you? Posted: 09 May 2015 12:56 PM PDT Been together since 2010. Married 2013. Just found out he was cheating on me this week. So many feelings going on right now. Told him not to leave but i still have the feelings hurting me inside. He and her says it was just a game. But that's no game when you are married and wanting her like he texted/talked to her. What would you have done? Any advice? |
| Question: I cheated on my husband 22 years ago while we were separated, I just told him? Posted: 09 May 2015 12:43 PM PDT Needless to say he is mad hurt upset and won't look at me. I told him two weeks ago at out therapy session at the same time I find out he's been chatting inappropriately with women online. Is our 24 year marriage save able ? |
| Question: My sisters relationship with my husband? Posted: 09 May 2015 12:32 PM PDT My sister has been meddling in my business for years. I actually broke off with her because of it when I met my husband our relationship resumed. However, I didn't know that my husband was running to her with all my misdemeanours. She believed everything negative about me. Like nearly all abusers he made sure he had blackened my name. Eventually I gathered the strength to leave him for good. Sadly he got my sister to help him overturn a nonmolestation order. Since then he has taken his new girlfriend to stay in my mothers holiday home and lied about it. He regularly socializes with my sister and her husband and stays over. He organises family holidays with her and my children telling them first so I can't say no. I have not stopped them going on holiday together as the children love seeing their cousins. But what takes the biscuit for me is he regularly takes his g friend to stay at the family holiday home. Am i being over sensitive. I never realised just how much or how thorough he has been re character assassination. I could be awkward and not be so accommodating but I don't think it's good for my children. I feel so betrayed my sister has chosen him over me. My mother believes him too. They know nothing about the fraud he has committed and his numerous affairs one of which was with the baby sitter. The only reason he keeps in with my Mum is because she has money. Meanwhile her beloved son in law won't pay maintenance. Sorry for going on but I feel very isolated. I'm very confused by all of this. |
| Question: What to do with intrusive "in-laws"? Posted: 09 May 2015 12:31 PM PDT My boyfriend spends most of his time in my place, but hasn't officially moved in yet. I moved to this apartment a month ago, from another town, because I got a job here. My apt complex has many amenities, such as pools, tennis courts, etc. His mom started inviting herself to my pool, and she brings her daughter (my bf's sister) and 4 yr old granddaughter. His sister never makes an effort to get close to me. The only time she talked to me was about a month ago when I just moved here and she asked me to use my pool. The thing is, every resident here holds a pool key. So they keep hounding me to let them use my pool, and I said yes once because I was put against the wall. My bf said its not ok for them to do that, yet he doesnt tell them to stop asking. Tomorrow is mother's day and his mom said she was coming over with the family (daughter, granddaughter, husband, etc) to the pool and barbecue on one of the grills. But I really dont want them to come. They have a grill in their backyard, and I prefer they do it there. How should I handle this? |
| Question: Am I being sensitive, or is he inconsiderate? Posted: 09 May 2015 12:11 PM PDT Mothers Day Tomorrow. I have a 14 month old, a 10 year old and a 15 year old. Before last pregnancy, we used to regularly bike ride together, but stopped while I was late term / 1st year of youngest, as I didn't have a bike carrier for baby. (Kids and I have been walking instead while husband plays computer games) I finally got a bike trailer 2 moths ago, but my bike tires have punctures. I have asked husband to help me or our son to fix them for a few months (around 6) because I want to be able to ride with the kids again. My son had tried, but didn't know how to, and had asked for help. He always says 'not now', because when he get's home from work he needs to 'relax'. Which for him means shutting himself away and playing computer games and sometimes coming to eat with us at dinner. My husband came to me today asking if his boss, who has a 2 year old, can borrow my bike trailer because he wanted to take his daughter and wife for a bike ride for mothers day. It made me angry, and I didn't really answer, because I am upset that he wants to make mothers day special for his boss's wife, and be the great guy who helps them out, but doesn't even want to speak to me, let alone think maybe he could help our son fix the bike so that we could spend some time together. n I'm not sure it's entirely fair to feel this way, as I hadn't specifically planned to go for a ride tomorrow, I'm just upset that he's so generous to others but won't help his own family. Am I just mean spirited? |
| Question: Any Filipinas interested in marriage possibly? Posted: 09 May 2015 12:06 PM PDT |
| Question: Am I being childish? Posted: 09 May 2015 12:00 PM PDT My friends & I had plans today. I really wanted to go this morning to go shopping as I really needed to catch up on my work. (I work from home) Anyway, they had said 2PM. It's now 3PM & neither of them is ready to go and I haven't heard as of yet what time they plan to go shopping. I realize it's only 3PM & they say they have all night but I was really hoping to get some work done this afternoon & to me 3PM seems kinda late on a Saturday to go shopping not to mention its 3PM & neither one of them are even remotely close to ready! Would it be childish if I asked them to reschedule for another day?! I'm worried it may cause unnecessary drama but I can't stand people who aren't time considerare. You say 2:00 I expect you to be ready by 2:00 |
| Posted: 09 May 2015 11:38 AM PDT We're separated we've been together for 6yrs she's with someone else and I know she still loves me but the guy is feeding her **** so she lashes out on me. We have a child when she stupid her off she won't even look at me. I know I should move on but I feel If I try to be with someone else I'll be doing wrong. But I know Shea out there with him having a great time not even thinking about me. Idk what to do. I'm 23 she's 21 we got together when I was 15 she was 14 we got married at 18. She's the love of my life. |
| Question: Is he being a coward or feelings sorry for me? Posted: 09 May 2015 11:36 AM PDT Loving sum1 who shows me indirectly he doesn't love me he seems trapped but I think using the kids to stick with me ,I've lost the love I felt and feel I should set him free and wait for true love ,if only this man could just be honest to me and set me free as well or maybe he will be open when we're separated we could be friends maybe but I don't think id want to have a friend like him but 4 our kids id have to pretend Cant keep on being with this ice block Time to let go silently |
| Question: My husband been cheathing on me should I leave him? Posted: 09 May 2015 11:32 AM PDT |
| Question: My husband is cheathing on mme and i don t know what to do. help? Posted: 09 May 2015 11:28 AM PDT Well we have been married over 20 years he's been doing this for long time and I don't want to leave him |
| Question: My fiance has not talked to me in 3 weeks. What should I do? Posted: 09 May 2015 11:05 AM PDT We had a HUGE fight. We own a house together. ALL his stuff is here, his mail, his van, clothes, tax paperwork, everything! He moved in next door with his drinking buddies (why we had the argument, he has been drinking too much and came home drunk and shoved me - I told him to leave). All I want to know is, what should I expct next? He has not responded to my texts. I did go there once, he said he was busy and didn't talk to me. We have to talk eventually (even if we are done, all his stuff is here, however, I would like to pursue counseling). What should I do? (If I go next door, I am afraid it may seem like I am stalking or trespassing.) When did go there to speak with him, he looked awful, like he aged 10 years and his voice was all horse. |
| Posted: 09 May 2015 10:56 AM PDT Ivy league university graduates* They need to be passionate at what they do (career) or else, they won't be successful. |
| Question: Was it rude to tell this man that he should have children? Posted: 09 May 2015 10:44 AM PDT A man came by my house today to pick up a gift for his wife (I have my own business at home). I mentioned that the gift he bought was fragile and to keep it away from young children. He said that he and his wife don't have kids nor do they want any. I became very stern and serious and told him that they should and that everyone should have children. He looked at me oddly, said thanks and left. I smiled and told him to have a nice day. My mom said it was rude to tell him this. Was it? |
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| Question: Husband is sleeping in untill 11 am....is this normal? Posted: 09 May 2015 10:25 AM PDT it's saturday and my husband is sleeping in so late....is this normal behavior...he went to sleep around midnight last night.. |
| Question: Can a 36 year old man marry a 49 year old woman? Posted: 09 May 2015 10:18 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I have told my fiancee about this? Posted: 09 May 2015 10:04 AM PDT Growing up, I was what you called a juvenile delinquent--constantly stole things, and there was no line I wouldn't cross--breaking into houses or cars, stealing money out of my dad's wallet, using my mom's credit card to order things and have them shipped to buddy's house, stealing from people that had my family and I as guests in their house,I didn't care. My criminal behavior landed me in detention hall numerous times, but the message never got through to me. Finally they'd had enough and rightfully kicked me out of the house at age 16 and refused to speak to me from then on Well, today at the age of 33, I can say that I've matured and gained morals and respect for other people and no longer live by the mantra of "If I can't have it, then I'll take it from someone else." Anyway, I've since been in a steady relationship with a woman, and we announced our engagement and wedding date in the local paper. Shortly after the announcement, my fiancee received a letter from my parents that detailed of my criminal youth history, and made other comments such as "He's nothing but trouble and we can guarantee you that you'll constantly be visiting him in jail, and that the cops will know your address by heart"...imaginably my fiancee is now upset Isn't almost 20 years long enough to say you are a changed person? Should I have told her about my past? I really didn't think I owed it to her since it was so long ago. This is just so messed up.... @i + i That has got to be the DUMBEST comparison I've heard. I think someone should be entitled to know if they are dating a MAN. It is who you are, and something that doesn't change. Juvenile behavior is something of the PAST and DOES change. It's like saying, "What if someone molested a child 20 years ago? It was so long ago, he doesn't owe it to anyone to let them know he's a pedophile!" That was seriously a stupid response, it really was |
| Question: Not sure if I should get involved, opinions needed please!? Posted: 09 May 2015 10:01 AM PDT When my husband and I were separated, he got someone pregnant. Long story short, and years later, he wants absolutely nothing to do with this child. I am fine with his child meeting our children (his siblings), but he openly admits he will not be a part of this child's life. Every time I even mention the child, he gets psychotic and we end up arguing. I am perfectly fine with the children having a relationship with each other, but he hates this child and the child's mother. Should I just not mention this subject anymore? |
| Question: My Dad Is Cheating on my Mom? Posted: 09 May 2015 09:55 AM PDT Hi. I'm a teen and really angry. This whole thing has been happening since around February. When my family was in Florida my dad didn't come up when we did. We came on Sunday, he came on Wednesday due to "work". One night he was letting me use his phone to share a picture to my phone and I saw Kik. I opened it and saw two different conversations. Both were very dirty and disgusting and I felt awful. I thought it was a misunderstanding, so I let it go and didn't say anything. I haven't tried to snoop on his phone since. Today, I came home from practice and he wasn't home (this was about 20 minutes ago). He still isn't, by the way. I tried to call him and heard his phone upstairs. I ran to see if he was there but he wasn't, his phone was wide out in the open with 3 texts. I looked at one of them and felt horrible and disgusted. It was the woman, on iMessage. He didn't have her name, just her number, and had deleted her previous texts. The text read "I'm so conflicted. I can't believe u lied but it felt really good when we f***ed." I know for sure he is cheating and have been sitting here a total wreck for 30 minutes now. I do not know what to do considering I am so young. I need advice, please. This is cheating. No misunderstanding here. |
| Question: How to find a beautiful wife in a month？? Posted: 09 May 2015 09:49 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I leave a man who does not want to commit with me? Posted: 09 May 2015 09:47 AM PDT I feel so down. My boyfriend is 32 years old and I'm 5 years older. After 3 years of happy time together, he told me he would not commit in a long term relationship with me due to his fears: 1. his fear of divorce( his father and mother both married twice, his mother divorced twice and his eldest brother married thrice); 2. his fear that he will always have to spend his own money to buy meals for both of us if I can't find a job. 3. his fear that I will leave him for another more good-looking and richer man 4. his fear that I will leave him once I get a green card (I'm an Asian) 5. his fear that he will end up supporting my teenage son (I'm a single mom) 6. his fear that I might turn out to be a lesbian and he might turn out to be a gay 7. his fear of having a baby that he needs to support. His financial fear is awful, especially, we both spend our own money on dates and holidays; and I had been supporting my son by myself without asking any help from anyone for 10 years even before I met him, and his money has never been involved in my family needs. However, he said he loves me and we should be together as long as we are still both working as teachers in this foreign land. Then, bid each other a goodbye forever whoever finishes our contracts first. However, I don't know how to handle it without affecting our jobs, we share school office and both live in the school apartment. If you were me, what would you do? |
| Question: Can a 18 year old marry a 49 yr old woman? Posted: 09 May 2015 09:27 AM PDT |
| Question: International marriage; my husband hates my country. What should I do? Posted: 09 May 2015 09:18 AM PDT I am 34 year-old Japanese with an English husband. We met in England and married in there 5 years ago, but we live in Japan for last 3 years due to my career. My husband absolutely hates Japan and this is burdening our marriage. My husband hates Japanese because many of them are racists. They stare at him as if he is subhuman, and often behave rudely in general. He doesn't learn the language and avoids communications, so he is depending on me to do almost anything outside the house. He also hasn't worked for almost three years so I am supporting him financially. He often tells me how terrible it is to live here. He sometimes shows hostile attitudes towards rude people (saying something to them in angry tone) so some of our neighbours have complained. I also have to translate whatever he wants to say to them when I'm with him. Whenever he complains we argue because I can't be supportive enough for him. He complains without making any effort to solve the problems himself. So the argument often lead me to yield at him "Go back to England!" We have been arguing about this same thing over and over again since we arrived here. Every time we discuss we agree to move out if he finds a job abroad, but he never seems to be looking for one. Then similar arguments repeat. Despite this he says he wants to stay with me. It's better for my career if I stay here for few more years but I'm not sure if I can stand this situation for any longer. Any advice? |
| Question: Are threesomes a common fantasy amongst married women? Posted: 09 May 2015 09:04 AM PDT I meant those MFM threesomes, where they have sex with 2 (straight)men. |
| Question: Should I divorse her? Posted: 09 May 2015 08:39 AM PDT My wife and I do nothing but constantly fight. She constantly critisizes everything I do and nothing is ever good enough for her she has a short fuse and every little tiny mistake I make sets it off we have a 2 year old daughter together and her yelling is always scaring her and making her cry iv told her she can't yell like that in front of her but she ignores me. Iv tried to get her to go to counseling but she refuses and it starts another fight iv tried completely doing absolutely everything perfect for her and its still never enough. I love her but I don't know if I can keep it up any longer and I'm at the point now were I just want to leave her I'm just worried about my daughter. Should I divorce her? |
| Question: How much money should the wife put away? Posted: 09 May 2015 08:06 AM PDT My husband and I have been married for about a year. It's kind of new for me that I have access to his money. I stay at home and do cooking and cleaning. He says I can buy things but I feel guilty when I spend it. It would be easier for me to have like a budget - some money to spend on food, some to put away and some to buy clothes. |
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| Question: Do I have to tell my sister about this? Posted: 09 May 2015 07:55 AM PDT I was laid off from my job and could not find another one. My unemployment was about to run out. I had 1 last interview. While I was waiting outside the office of the person that was to interview me, I saw his name on his office door. Oh My God. I just knew this was going to be a disaster because the person that was to interview me was my sister's ex husband Bill. I was scared to death. I almost got up and walked out but I didn't. My only hope was that he did not remember me. I walked into his office and he said "Hello Kim. You are just as beautiful as I remember you". He read my resume and said "When would you like to start to work?" I was totally surprised. I said "as soon as possible". He said "how about tomorrow". Wow what a nice guy. I have worked here 6 months now and Bill is the BEST BOSS and the nicest guy EVER. He has taken the time to train me to do my job and is always available for help when I need it. I have already got a promotion and a pay raise. My problem is I have not told my sister that I am working for her ex husband. I don't want to start a family fight. Bill knows I am his ex wife's sister and he has NEVER said a bad thing about her. In fact he has never said anything about her. I am thinking of not telling my sister who I work for unless I am forced to. I don't want to cause her any problems. Do you think that is a wise thing to do? |
| Posted: 09 May 2015 07:38 AM PDT and weak because of the silkyness and all the bows and ruffles ? |
| Question: How do my wife and i go about a divorce (ca)? Posted: 09 May 2015 07:33 AM PDT We rushed into marriage and now we dont see eye to eye with things and see ourselves happier going our seprrate ways. We're both mutual and civilized about this decision. We DONT have any thing under our names (house, car, loans, etc) just our bank account. We dont want to hire a divorce lawyer because first of all its too much amd second we're not battling for anything. So what do we have to do, where do we get the paperwork and what has to happen after that? Please, your answers are very much appreciated. |
| Question: Husband sharing our personal marriage problems with friend? Posted: 09 May 2015 07:23 AM PDT My husband has a long time friend that im not fond of. That friend was jealous when he started a relationship with me because he felt like my husband "replaced him", husband always laughed at how immature that friend was for making comments like that.(they live in different states and the friend was mad bc husband didnt call him all the time). their friendship had suffered but he worked it out with my encouragement. That friend though is never possitive! hardly even replies to my husband when we says good things about our relationship. now huband and i have been going through quiet a bit of rough patches and hes confiding in that friend. Giving the friend serious details of our personal lives and problems, even sharing MY insecurities. I found out about it bc i read texts on his phone. Thats an issue of its own, he says i shouldnt look through his phone that hes just venting. I agree. However, he has the freedom and does look thru my phone. So although hes fully entitled to his privacy, if he left those texts there, im free to read them if i see them.(just like he reads mine sometimes!). I read them and i told him right away about it, i felt violated that my personal issues were discussed, but the crappiest of all, is hes spilling our relationship problems out to someone whos not supportive. Very negative advise. I feel that its ok to tell ur friends in general bout relationship but to go into gory details to a friend like that, no! Our problems are ours. Am i crazy? |
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| Question: My husband accidently took an iron supplement what will happen? Posted: 09 May 2015 06:52 AM PDT What happens when accidentally take an iron supplement pill |
| Question: I ve filed case of divorce. ...? Posted: 09 May 2015 06:40 AM PDT I was married 2002... we r separated from year 2008. .and never met again....and I filled case of divorce Feb 2014....there had been 9 hearings....bt she didnt came not only in one hearing. ...so I want to knw hw long will be for x party ...so I want to marry again...kindly suggest me |
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| Posted: 09 May 2015 06:06 AM PDT The other day my partner was acting weird with his phone, and hiding it alot. He started to have loads of new numbers I never seen before. He was in the shower and he got a text. I picked it up to bring it down to him but I noticed a weird name. It was 'ness' I never heard of her. I went in and there was millions of messages between them and giving each other loads of ' kisses' at the end. I'm pretty sure one said ' will u bring me to that place :) xxx' I stomach felt . I put the phone down and just sat there in a daze. What will I say or do ? He always swore to me he never takes girls numbers and dosnt text anyone but me and his family etc. I no she works in his company. I found out by my friend who works on the floor above them. If I mention a girl from work or anything he gets mad and defensive and angry. I'm so annoyed and upset . I just don't no what to do . I wish I read more to see what they said for sure. Should I confront him? He was complaining about my friend ( she's texting this guy and she just had a baby with someone eles) and my partner was like ' such a b*tch texting another man' why is he saying that WHEN HE'S TEXTING ANOTHER GIRL??? I found another girls number in his phone also. Down as a really weird name ..It chat seemed so I wouldn't no who it was. I rang it and it was a girl. He just tells me he dosnt have girls numbers ans texts people :( will I ask him can I see the messages? What will I do. I can bearly speak to him im so disgusted. Is he cheating |
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| Question: I don't know if I'll ever be able to be around my stepkids again? Posted: 09 May 2015 05:54 AM PDT My husband and his ex-girlfriend have two kids ages 14 and 13. I've been in their life for two and a half years. Things were great in the beginning. We had no problems with either of them apart from the normal pre-teen stuff. Then, about thirteen months ago, things started to change. Both of them because very hateful, rude and disobedient. Everyone said it was just their ages and as long as their parents stayed on top of it, they would grow out of it. I found out I was pregnant and my husband and I were thrilled. The kids didn't respond much at all, but we both thought it was better than them reacting negatively. I went into premature labor and had my twin girls very early. When my husband brought his kids to the hospital to see them both said they hoped the twins would die. My oldest stepchild even said she was praying every night that they would die. And when one of the babies died at seven weeks, she sent me a text taunting me. Both kicked up a fuss when my husband wanted them to attend the funeral, so I told him not to bring them. I said I didn't want them saying anything hateful to us. But honestly, I just couldn't stand to see their faces. I haven't seen them since. And I don't know if I will ever be able to be around them again. My husband has seen them twice. But they don't want to see him. And they said the last time they saw him that they're happy one twin is dead and hope the other dies, too. Does this make me a horrible person? I feel like one. |
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