also..bonus points for what to write on my sister's college graduation card.

I hate my older sister. She's so annoying. Today she came home from Starbucks after school and she came into my room and I told her that it was mean of her to go to all these places with my brother and I. BTW she goes everywhere. She got all mad at me and took away my phone for no reason. She put it on silent so I can't find it. I told her that it was my only form of communication and she was being such a witch. She told me that she could do it because she was older. I hate her. She does nothing. She uses the older excuse like she earned it. She didn't. She isn't taking any ap courses this year or any advanced courses while I am taking the most advanced things I could take. I still get better grades than her, I have to make lunch for my older sister and younger brother too. In the morning today when we had to go to school. She was late and I wasn't. BTW she and I have separate alarms. When I had to leave I realized she wasn't there so I went to her room and found her sleeping! She said that she couldn't go or something because she didn't wake up. So I left. I realized that she was late so she could get Starbucks. Also my friend and I want to go to Starbucks in the weekend and my dad says to take her along but I hate her and I don't want to. I can't go anywhere without her. My friend and I wanted to go to the movies and my dad told me my sister had to go. She's so annoying. I don't know what to do. She's just so spoiled!

I'm with my baby cousin today and she's like 4 years old. I don't know what do to or what to say. Especially what to say. She only knows Spanish and my Spanish isn't that great so I wouldn't be able to keep a conversation if I tried. I don't want to ignore her cus that's mean and I don't want her to hate me. Is there anything I can try?

It was the day of prom ticket sales and my prom date is a junior. I decided, hey he doesn't have his money with him at the time and I could get him a ticket (kind of as a gift). Note: he and i work the same job making the same amount. If i wanted it paid back i would have asked. He offered to pay me back and i said no, its okay. I tell my mom everything especially finances and stuff. She thinks he should pay me back the $50 like he owes me. She even wants to set a due date to when he should have the money in my hands. I said ugh, I'll talk to him. I won't. I believe it was my gift to him, please give me your input. Thank you.

So...my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time last night (virginity lost). It was awesome. Really-freaking-fuc*ing awesome :) Now I just want to tell everyone I know how great the sex were, I told my father and even my brother. My brother was really disgusted and I can understand that but I just couldn't help it! Now I want to tell my friends, my dad's friends, my sister's friends HOW GREAT AND EUPHORIC IT WAS! I just can't stop think about it...it felt so good when he fuc*ed me. Seriously, I thought it was going to be painful and bad but HELL NAH! Ok...seriously now...is this normal?

I always coasted by in school, but my bullshit has finally caught up to me after 12+ years of schooling. I really, really, ****** up, I am going to fail one class, and I think I got dropped from another class without my knowledge due to my poor attendance. These two factors are going to lead me to having a terrible GPA and definitely losing my scholarship, which I really, really need since my parents and I can barely able to afford college as it is. I can't bear to tell my parents I ****** up and just wasted $20,000 of their hard-earned money. They've made a lot of sacrifices so I can go to college, and I ****** up. We've always had a strained relationship and I'm terrified they're going to disown me and kick me out of the house, which has been threatened in the past. I failed, I partied too much, skipped class too much, and didn't take school seriously. I'm totally wrong and definitely live up to the name "failure." How do I somehow tell my parents in a way they understand so they don't kick my broke *** out into the streets when I get home in a week or so?

Ive been raised by my mom and grandmother all my life and my father has never spent a dime on me.im 18 I m not in school and i wanted to know if it was still possible to get him for all the child support he should of payed?btw I ve live in tx and he s lived in california my whole life.thanks!

So I'm graduating in about 2 weeks, ever since my sophomore year I planned on joining the Air Force. I haven't been to MEPS yet but I'm scared because my knees are terrible from football. If I get disqualified I will have nothing, I will be a disappointment to my parents. I have everything done for the Air Force except MEPS. I'm looking for advise on what I should do if that fails. I really wanted to be a Police Officer since I was 6. Can someone please give me advise....!

My daughter cries every night and says what's the point in life. She feels she's in love with a popular boy at school. She has to see him paying attention to a pretty girl in their class everyday and watch their relationship developing online and at school. She is extremely upset and thinks she's not worthy of anyone. Nearly everyone calls her weird. She's quite shy. She won't join any clubs, we're on low income. Her father is disrespectful about women and her few friends criticise her. One of the boys at school who has been scrounging off her for years spread false rumours that they had sex. So now things have escalated because she feels she now has even less chance with the boy she is obsessed with and she heard him say to someone that's she's weird.

As the title says, I'm 14 going on 15 and I need help "changing" or "switching" parents.. I currently live with my mom, and she has full custody over me. She's mentally abusive and so is the rest of my family up here. My dad is 1500 miles away from me in New Mexico. He really wishes it was easier for me to move down there. It sounds like heaven to me versus where I currently live in Wisconsin. My mom is a ***** and never respects me and my needs. My dad tries so hard to stay behind the scenes because he has a job that my mom and my family can't know about otherwise my mom would charge more child support. All she wants is money, and she just spends it on things that aren't even supporting the "child". Me being 14, I know nothing about parental/child laws concerning my situation. This is serious and to me is a life or death situation. My mom has pushed me over the limits so many times that I have almost killed myself. Please help me :(

My dealer is out of town, and since he's the cheapest around him, I'll wait for him to come back to buy some ****. But, till then, I want something that can really **** me up, and that can be found around the house. I'm currently on painkillers and sleeping pills, they don't do much to me though. Any tips? And if your a drug hating f*g and if you wanna say something like don't do drugs or something, fu*k off.

Please help me I just seen something traumatizing I just seen a nude pic of my step father on my mom's phone I don't think I can look at him the same PLEASE HELP ME

allthey do is push me to become a famous millionare and get them rangerovers and **** and in return all they ever did was give me food shelter and misery i could use an oppinion

I'm a teenager and my mom says I'm always mean. But I really am not. Like a recent example she was talking about my friend and I was just like "eh that's his business though." Not in a mean way but my mom was is like "you better be nice" she always is saying I'm mean whenever I am right and she is wrong. She is just unreasonable. I try to rationally convey my ideas or concerns to her if I don't agree with something she says, but she can't think of any logic behind her reasoning so she just gives up and tells me to be nice. That or she just says I'm always mean. I am not mean, I am often told I am a nice person. I mean I will smart off maybe, but it's never anything mean. Is she being unreasonable?

I am supposed to be graduating May 9 and I just found out I may have a "D" in physics and chemistry so I won't get my Biology degree. I had 4 job offers based on my lab work experience and other training and skills I possessed but I won't have a degree to show for it. I can't go back to school and retake the classes because I don't have the money. On top of which, my parents and family are pressuring me to get a job ASAP because they want me to move out and I don't have any friends to stay with until I can get a place of my own. My family is going to hate me they were invited to the ceremony and if I tell them now, they will be disappointed and won't love me anymore. I'm scared I am only 22 and I don't have a car only a bike and hardly any expenses to cover living. If I don't get my degree I can't get the job and I won't be able to recover from this depression state I am in. I need some advice. How can I avoid becoming homeless if I don't get my degree?

So today I was at school with my brother, and the kids were calling my brother rude names. The problem is, these kids were roudy middle school boys and I'm a girl, and my brother hates it when I stand up for him or help because I guess it ruins his guy pride (lol idk). I didnt have time to say something because our ride came but at home I told him if they said anything else to tell me. His reaction was "It's done of your business." I don't think he gets how serious bullying is no matter what form, and I don't know how to help him without making him feel bad when he needs help or someone to talk to.

Well, it all started when she bought an used car that was previously own by my dad and gave it back to our shop to sell it. The car ended up having problems. My hubby (mechanic) tried to fix it, but she was being impatient and was complaining about how long was taking to get the car fix. We propose her to sell the car and give her money back, but she said she liked it a lot and was going to wait. Well, hubby fix what he could and gave her the car. Then I get a text from her saying that there was no oil in the engine, and sends me a video with a leakage. Well, I told her that I couldn't do much because we over spend on fixing the car. She stop talking to me. She pay under KBB and we put more than half of the value of the car back in parts and labor. Well, today she tells mom to tell me that she doesn't want nothing to do with me, because she is still having problems with the car. I long texted her saying that i got hurt, that she is proud and arrogant, and hopefully one day will talk again, and for God to bless her. Then I get a call from her calling me a dumb, pretend to be clueless, and that I took advantage of her. Anger and pain got the best of me and I said, "well, who is the stupid now, today you are dead to me!" Before this I tried to get her to talk to me but she was rude. I regret saying that to her. Then she texted me saying she will take my word, and to never talk to her or her kids. I text her back asking for her to forgive me and that i did no wrong to her.

I don't get along at all with my boyfriends family. They absolutely hate me, god know why! Lol But they are mean, and always have something bad to say about me is seems like. I'm a totally different person, I don't care for them but I also don't go around destroying others. Anuway, my boyfriend said they wanted to know if I can watch their daughter. That means they have to come over to my house... Ummm I don't want to do that! I have completely kept them away from me because they always make me feel bad. I don't like being around people who are toxic for me. But I want to say no, but I'm afraid my boyfriend will be mad at me. I really feel uncomfortable with it.

I was suppose to get my dog trained for the Schutzhund dog trials(protection, obedience, tracking) and compete with her in working dog competitions. I have asked her for such a long time, but she finally said yes. I was so happy, and went to bed every night smiling because I would watch videos and I couldn't wait to see my working line GSD do that. It was my dream. I want to train dogs for law enforcement and sporting when I'm older- but today when I went to ask her when we'll call the trainer, she said "no, I'm busy. I don't want to drive there." and I'm so sad now :( We already know the trainer cause that's where we bought my dog too. Money isn't an issue either, but I was going to pick blue berries to help pay anyways. She just crushed everything I ever wanted. Or she does this ALL THE TIME. She'll say I'm grounded for two days but keeps me grounded for one week. She says I can go out to friends houses, and when the day comes, she cancels last minute. And before you say I'm 'spoiled,' I'm not. What makes everything worse is the fact my little sister gets way more than I do. I'm 14 btw. What do I do? :( I'm so tired of this, but it's the Schutzhund training that made me really sad. She ruined everything... I tried asking my 20 year old sister or her boyfriend but they said no and my other sister said no. My aunt doesn't like animals in her van, especially hairy ones, all my friends are scared of my dog... My dad works... :( I don't got anyone to give a ride but her. She says she has 'no time' but she has lots of time. Did I mention that the training sessions are once a week or once every two weeks? And are one hour to one hour and a half? ._. and if you're wondering what schutzhund is, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-oHJkF3E8bs

I feel so horrible. I hate myself so much. I can't stand myself. As a child I was so selfish and bratty but my mom kind of made me that way. I was used to being treated like that, but as I grew older (I'm eighteen) I began feeling guilty for being such a selfish brat. I can't leave this behind. I carry this guilt and shame since age 7-ish, and I just can't let it go. I feel like I developed a soft side. I can empathize more, I care about people. With my sister and mother and father it's hard because I'm used to being the black sheep around them. Even when I try being kind, I feel so out of place. My dad is mean, my mom is depressed and uptight, and my sister... well I just feel guilty and disgusted at myself whenever I'm around her because they used to hit her when we were little because of my fault. I can't let these emotions go! I want to start clean. Be kind, be a good person. Not hate my soul... not hate myself. I just can't stop thinking of myself as a monster. And I'm scared that my sister will never fully believe this nice me is the true me. I don't know... it's complicated. I just feel like my family doesn't allow me to let go off certain demons and guilts and painful feelings. I want to believe I can be kind and good. But I... :(

My dad is a psychopath, I have a sister that is a psychopath, and I have a brother that is a psychopath. I once met my step brother and he acts so much like my dad. Almost exactly my dad in so many ways. The foods he eats, the way he tries to start trouble, the way he thinks he looks better than everyone else, the way he tries to pretend he's a nice person, the way he acts towards girls, and this list could go on forever. My dad disowned him when he was a baby, so there was no way of raising him up.

My parents are being unfair and going to ground me for a week for backtalking I'm thinking about stealing some of their nude pictures they have of each other and threating to go to internet sites and posting them and post them to Facebook to embarrass them. Would they change their mind then?

A while ago i moved out.My mom&brother have always been strict.When i moved out my brother hacked into my Facebook&yahoo&printed messages that proves I'm w/someone who is 17 (I'm 19). It wasnt anything like sexual talking, but my boyfriend just was telling me how the first time we did it, he felt like we got closer&he felt like he really loved me. My boyfriend is a rare guy, never cusses or gets mad, goes to church often. So i feel like i really need someone like him in my life since I've made bad choices. Well my brother (26) is always threatening to call the police&show the messages if i don't answer him. He still has my account.i can't get it back, he's studying computers&hacking which maKes it Worse.for the past 3months I've been walking to work which is about an hour walk. i decided to get a car ($1,500) since I would show up sweaty at work. But the money i used was a student loan. But this is what i was going to do, buy the car≥t two jobs in the summer to save up because my rent is really low and i rarely buy groceries because my boyfriend's parents always let me eat at they're house when i don't work. When i told my mom I bought a car she was really mad&keeps saying the car smells like marijuana (i used to smoke it).but i have NOT done it in so long, it smells like cigarette smoke. She told my brother&now he is threatening to call the police if i don't show him my bank account. I know he's going to take away the car and I'm tired of walking cause my knees hurt alot.

NOT A TROLL hes been doing worse and worse things lately stealing money doing molly ******* girls beating my mom. then he left and started not seeing us for a while. sometimes he comes over knocking on the door for a long time he gets methadone off my mom. he wants to take me out but i dont wanna go with him. my mom isnt calling the cops on him even though theres a couple warrants out for him including when he beat her. i dont see him much but i know he started crack molly and god knows what else. i really hope he didnt start crack but im pretty sure he did. my aunt told my mom he came over and got high off pot and molly and crack and she was terrified. i dont know what to do. should we see him? how can we help him? also last night we got into an arguement on the phone because he wanted me to go with him to the shelter to help him find a house but i didnt and he basically said never call me again. i just said fine because my real dad would never say that.

I overheard a conversation with my brother and mother about death and she told him that the next funeral might be hers. He started getting angry and telling her she didn't know that and it might be for another few years. She replied that it was only a matter of months. She is litterally the only thing that truly matters to me and losing her would mean I have nothing left. Just thinking about her dead makes me cry. I don't know if she has a sickness or not but i'm seriously terrified. She's been depressed for several years now. I don't know what to do. Ask her why she will die, be depressed until she does or just stay in curiosity and wait for the day to come?

My dad has never been in my life he has always been on the streets. He came back and now that I am 21. He tries to tell me who I should date and lectures me on what to do. I am in college and I work and buy my own stuff. I really dont think its right how he is coming out the blue trying to tell me what to do. Am I wrong for not wanting a relationship with him?

My brother thinks i played in a lacrosse game but i dident i stayed on the sidelines and he is coming to my practice tomorrow to talk to the coach and players and ask them how i did. what do i do to get out of this? please help

My sister peed her pants yesterday I want to punish her so badlyy, she agreed so I won't tell our parents,olease give me an embarrassing punishment she agreed to do anything for me even to be my slave for a whole week but if this eould be the answer what should I do for her while she is my slave?

My parents got divorced over the summer and I am living with my mom together with my sister. Sadly my dad hasn't been able to keep his opinions to himself and has voiced he thinks it's unfair that my sister get's treated differently from me. Let me sketch the situation for you: - I am a 19 year old girl, living with a host family in the UK as au-pair. I'll be returning home in 3 months. I've been living here for half a year already. - My sister is a 15 year old with psychological problems which origin from the divorce but also from her genetics. - My dad has autistic tendencies (just like my sister) When I return home I expect to be treated as an adult and have talked about this with my mom. She agrees. This means less involvement from my mom in my personal life, but also that I will take up more tasks as home like cooking, laundry and other stuff (seems normal to me). I am 19 and do not need to be raised or treated as a child anymore. Sure I need guidance but that is different. My dad is convinced that my sis and I should be treated the same at home. I think this is insane. My sister is 15 years old, obviously still a child... How can he expect my mom to treat us in the same way?? He has always treated my sister and I as if we both are adults. Which annoys me to death. He even told my sister that my dad got a divorce because one of the reasons was my parents 'non existing sex life' how can you say that to a 15 year old?!

She insinuated herself into my family got between me and them and took on my role. Family members act like I'm jealous that I should walk away from my own family or not care or something. How do I get revenge on an interloper.

Yesterday my dad took my keys which are attached to my wallet with my license & debit card in it & he threw it in my car then locked it from the inside that honestly PISSED me off before you say anything *I PAY MY OWN CAR NOTE* he thought the other romote key that he had worked but it hadn't for a long time I even told him that but he obviously didn't listen, now he's calling a lock smith to get my keys out but he said I can't have my keys back for a long time & that makes me feel real low because I am 20 going on 21 I work hard to pay for my car expenses but I do stay with him, I would have moved out a long time ago but can't afford to until my notes paid off which will be next year but what should I do? No sarcastic answers please

I got in an accident in 2010 and won a $14k settlement for myself. Why is it possible that my family doesn't trust me with the car? I had moved with my family and had a job 80 Miles away from my family's house... and had to quit because I didn't have a car when it was only a bus ride away while living with a roommate. ... I quit the job because it would have been hectic to use public transportation especially since I was usually on call... The settlement money was spent on food, shelter, and business equipment for about 2 years.... Why is it that they think I am a bad driver. And my mom is always nagging about getting a job. Im getting ******* tired of it. I just found a fulll time job driving a company vehicle. Ironic. Now I will be paid for driving someone elses car.... I told my mom that i might move back to the city.... Then she began being depressed and saying stupid things like she is thinking of selling the house and moving out of state. . . I need someone to tell me it'll be okay to not care about them aa much as I do because clearly they don't care about me....

I'm a 19 year old college nursing major I have the money to move out but parents don't know that. They emphasize how I am just a little girl & not ready. I want to tell them I'm leaving, I love them and I'm moving only 5 minutes away. They deserve an explanation but I know they WILL do EVERYTHING possible to stop me. They will be heartbroken but they don't let me be my own person. Ive been a cam girl for a month. In a month i saved $1000 working about 8 hours a week. I've been planning on moving since I was 16, figured my budget. Might tell my parents I'm bartending but they won't even like that. FOR THOSE WHO WANNA PUT THEIR MORALS ON ME: Let me save your breath- "get a real honest job/ you're going to regret it/ only trash do that/ future employers will see you/what will you put on your resume/wh0re/gateway to prositution/arent you ashamed/what will others think of you" A waitress at a diner would make in one 8 hr shift what I could make in 3 hrs. If i were a waitress...working too much to pay bills->not enough time to study -> the money used to pay the class was for NOTHING. It can be done but I'm not gonna make it harder for myself to please the morals of some yahoo answers people. I also like working when I want and no mean managers. Men jacking off to me doesn't interfere with my studying so it doesn't bother me. I'm also applying as a part time clerk in a hospital just to have it on my resume. PLEASE answer my actual question, don't leave a lecture.

Im 19, my teenage years have been the worst of my life, my father is so abusive to me, every day i cry myself to leep all i have done is obsessed over money and moving out, i lost all my friends and girlfriend because of this, i wish i could have been a normal teeager i feel like my child hood was taken from me how can i get over it and move on i wish i could have gone to partys and gotten drunk made out with girls and gone on holiday with the guys but i missed out on all of this

I was raised by mentors since age 10, and I wonder how could someone else act a lot more like a good parents than my own parents? My mentors taught me everything. They guide me, protect me, listen to me, why my parents can't do it? Although my parents are still alive and yes, I do live with them, but someone else is the ones who raised me. My parents just running around and put me down. One day my mom told me that she wished that she never have children. My mentors never say anything that hurt me, they are always so thoughtful. What should I do?

My parents left early in the morning to go to work, they re usually gone until like 5 pm, they drive a really big box truck and i always hear it when they come home. So I was doing the laundry, and had my face in the dryer just singing "crossroads" by avenged sevenfold. I left the laundry room I walk around to the step up and my dog is acting all excited, and I just say "what s with you angel?" (name of my dog) and I just look up and my mom and my dad are standing there staring at me. My dad says "what do you mean whats with her". I just tried to act as casually as possible and turn off my music as fast as I could. Because they are extremely religious, and my mom hates that type of music. My dad used to listen to it, but now just listen to gospel. I feel so awkward and embarrassed right now. To make it all worse my mom looked kind of disappointed of me and sad. I know this was a lot to read but thank you if you read all of it. Please give me some words of advice as how to deal with this.

Ok so I'm a lesbian n I recently started dating this girl but there's a problem my family ever since I was little they always said that they hated ppl attracted to the same sex my dad also said that if one of us (meaning me n my siblings) ever turn out gay he doesn't want us to come home he wants us out the house n my cousins always say that they don't wanna come near me if I ever turn out lez wtf it's not like I'm automatically gonna like them that's disgusting but its the way they think they said its gross to be attracted to the same sex n my aunt says the same thing basically my family's against it idk wt to do I mean I've been through alot growing up from being bullied to raped self harm I have alot going on n she's been there to help I've known her for a while but we recently started dating I've grown up thinking that wt I was was wrong that it's wrong to be this way that I'm a disgrace to my family I feel like I let them down for being this way I've dated guys to try n c if it was just a faze I was going through but no its not idk what to do anymore I really like her but I don't want to make my family hate me for this so any advice I dnt want to lose my family but I dnt want to lose her either so please can someone help me n is this wrong she said that she doesn't want me to feel this way that if it has to be then we could just stay friends she said she loves me n doesn't want me to be hurt n I can't keep this a secret anymore I can't lose her n she feels the same way but idk what to do help plz

so, I have 4 cousins, let's call them cousin 1, 2, 3 and 4. Cousin 4 once did something silly but wrong for a good reason. Cousin 1, 2, and 3 got angry (they're very close to each other) and they refused to ask cousin 4 why cousin 4 did what they did. I found out why, and when cousins 1, 2, and 3 found out I knew why, they asked me. I said I won't tell them and they should ask cousin 4 themselves. This is so freaking silly and I'm not gonna lie, I think they're being childish. When I told them so, they got angry and started ignoring me too. I hate the situation I'm in but I don't want to apologize for what I did because I think it's right. What should I do?

She's a single mom with two kids looking for a way to give her kids a better life please help her any little bit helps.

Well, basically she is 18 today. I am always a happy person, and i always suck up all the things she says to me, because i probably know she doesn't mean like that. But today she woke up and as always nervous, saying nasty things to me. What happened is that we are going tonight to a really expensive place, and she has 80$, and she is planning to pay for us 5. I told her why did she tell to pay for others,because we are not rich and i don't want to go there with her 3 friends, be a victim of a silent (because i don't know them and i am only 16), and being really a victim of everything!! She expects me to eat something really small and cheap and she expects me to drink water as a drink. Well, i told her that will not happen, as we have money to pay for for us 5, but she said that she doesn;t want her friends to see me eating something normal, because they will see from me and order expensive things.. I thin kshe is being immature. We have money to pay for them all, but she expect me after all the words she said to me like "why do you give a ****", and "**** you" and "you are a retard" , to go there, to not talk to anyone and to ONLY DRINK WATER AND EAT SOMETHING FOR 1e. Shoud i still act nice and go, or just quit, because she is hurting my feelings!!

I'm 23 (female) I been the scapegoat of my family my whole entire life.. I am the youngest of my family and I just always been the target. We have our good times and good days. However, for the most part they view me terribly. I'm 23 and they treat me like a child... They have installed so much fear in me and has ran my self esteem down. I'm always blamed, I'm constantly put down. I'm scared of them... they know how to make me look stupid and bad even when I'm not. My siblings always had the nice things.. my parents gave them everything. I had hammidowns and was at the bottom of the barrels, they don't want anyone to love me or like me.. they feel I don't deserve it. I've always been told that no one will ever love me. I can never look nice or dress up without them insulting and getting mad. I'm pretty everyone tell me and my siblings dnt like it. Anyhow, I moved to Cali 3 months ago... I have one friend, and she's into ACTING like me. Cool person. I want to open my facebook account back but I'm afraid of the insults... what if they tell my friends lies? I will block them, but they are going to harass me with fake accounts and spread rumors. I've told them how I feel and they don't care... they don't deny it.. my brother got angry and threaten to make my life a living hell If I don't shut up when i told them how bad they make me feel. Why are my family so powerful? They are so hateful and controlling.. My parents has no control. Im scared that they will come ruin me.

I live with my aunt for a little while. whenever something is not working she blames me. I know when i break things and i can confess with no problem.But i know for a fact that i never did this one. Last night, when i came home from work.my aunt called and asked me if i broke the chair. so this incident must of happened while i was at work because she was still home. I told her no and she doesn t believe me. The living room set is at least 20 years old.that s how old she hass been living in the household. COuld it be because of its time that the chair s leg was getting weak and just randomly ffell? because i never go by nor touch it. now nobody believes me and she expects me to pay for something that i never broke. PLease help me figure out this situation?

A little background: - I'm on a 6 month holiday right now - I'm 16 years old - I have social anxiety and that leads to - I HATE going out and I like to just sit down where no one can see me and do whatever I want. - My dad is the type of person that can never accept he's wrong even when provided with absolute proof, and he also likes to assert dominance wherever he goes. So a while ago my dad was like: "You need to start going out more, like get a life" I really feel guilty if my parents ask me to do something and I don't do it, so I started trying to find something to do in my free time. I found a Japanese institute that teaches Japanese (Which I totally adore) And a cheap gym (Not that financial issues matter at all) and some voluntary work in a zoo. I told my dad about it and he didn't like it, so he's like no you're not learning Japanese cause it's useless. I was not really surprised since he never (And no I'm not an ungrateful ***) but he seriously never got me anything that I "wanted"; Meaning I never got a phone (except from my sisters and brothers) never got a birthday gift, never got a new video game.. you get the point. And again I can confidently say that my dad is rich and could have afforded whatever I asked. He just does not believe in stuff that "Waste your time". But out of nowhere when he told me that I'm not allowed to take Japanese I just burst. I started screaming from the top of my lungs about how he never got me **** and about how it's none of ---> His business what I wanna learn and all that. He got extremely shocked and started threatening me and all that. He called me an idiot/animal/ungrateful kid/spoiled/stupid etc etc etc... Usually when I get into a fight I leave crying but this time I felt extremely confident. But then he left the house and seemed pretty... down... So now I don't know, was that a right way to deal with things? His business what I wanna learn and all that. He got extremely shocked and started threatening me and all that. He called me an idiot/animal/ungrateful kid/spoiled/stupid etc etc etc... Usually when I get into a fight I leave crying but this time I felt extremely confident. But then he left the house and seemed pretty... down... So now I don't know, was that a right way to deal with things?

My daughter is 4 and half years old. She nags much for everything. She is so picky. If someone touches her stuff. she cries and nags, if she woke up on the middle of the night and see her bed, (that she is sleeping at), not well organized, she starts crying so I come and fix it. I'm being very stressed of her acts, and I was trying to talk to her about that, and even sometimes I promise her with gifts and bring them, and sometimes i lock her at her room so she calms down. But all these does not help. She keeps the nagging. Although I'm against hitting her, but I did, so she would stop the nagging. I told her that when she nags il hit her again. She is acting better since then. But her father sees that what i did is wrong. And I don't like to hit her, i feel sad when I do. But what shall i do? How can I make her understand that with nagging she won't get what she want? I have told her that if she stops the nagging and ask directly what she wants, I may do it for her. But I'm really afraid that she will return to the nagging. She knows that when she nags for something she will have it. I have being trying to make this formula not work anymore. But I really feel too stressed when she nags!

my parents saw me touching my breasts and they think it is "evil' now they are forcing me to get a double mastectomy please help

basically I was going on a school geography trip to a shopping centre/place (don't ask) and I put a hoodie on underneath my blazer but forgot to take my coat then it starts raining quite heavily and my mum phones up and yells at me for not having my coat and then grounds me?!? I know it was stupid not to take one but surely this is ridiculous, I borrowed an umbrella when I get there and ensured I didn't get wet or catch a cold or anything she then refuses to speak to me at all when I get home bearing in mind the fact the night before I had had my parents evening and report and it was really good and I never get into trouble and I get really good grades because I try hard and it's just upsetting that it doesn't really seem to matter to her it's so frustrating!

my mom and dad divorced when i was 4.im 12 now. My mom have been taking me out to eat for a SEVERAL TIME every year. Im living with my grandmother , mother , my half blooded brother and my grandmother daughther and son. During this year, she has take us all to eat for a lot time because of GST. If there was gst , all the thing will charge 6% more. After a few month, she stop taking us out and she has been treating my half blooded brother very bad. Everytime she take him to her room and make him cry. Before 2015 , she was very good to my half blooded brother. Then my grand mother is asking her to take me to tuisyen so she did.(but just for a few times). One day , after tuisyen i have waited there for an hour. It was night and i was all alone outisde so i called my grandmother. She said my mother went out to take her friend. I was really mad because she care about her friend more than me. I would rather live with my father than living with HER. My father is 100% better than her. My mother even told me some bad word. My father wont do anything like that to me even i dont talk much with him.

My sister is really horrible to me all the time. She's 19 and i am 16. I understand that she is being an older sister to me but everything she does seems be based on jealousy and bad intentions. I am quite mature for my age as i am very independent and i work full time. She is jealous of any attention i seem to get from anyone and falls out with me if i do something that makes me happy that she doesn't agree with. She threatens to never talk to me again or beat me up and she tells me that she hates me. She thinks she's my mother and even argues with my mom about the attention our mom gives me. She is horrible and its really getting me down to the point that i don't know what to do, I've had to see a counsellor because of the ways she mentally brings me down and treats me and my counsellor has told me that i need to stop her dictating my life. Anyone in my situation will know that its not that easy to sort this out when its family- can anyone offer me any advice?

yes i still sleep with my baby blanket folded and hidden under my pillow and i have my original Ty Beanie Buddy Rainbow the Tye Dyed Chameleon beside me at all times i don't know why but i feel safe when i have my blanket and my stuffy with me . i don't take them every where i go there just at home.i asked my girlfriend if she thought it was weird and she said no because she has a stuffed tiger she slept with since she was 6.my big sister thinks its a little strange that i still have them. but my dad thinks its ok as long as grow out of it eventually. my mom says its cute i still sleep with my blanket and my beanie buddy. the back story on my blanket is when my mom was in grade 12 she took a class that did sewing and stuff like that and she made a blanket with stars and moons on it but when she was around 26 she had me and she gave me that blanket she made when she was 18 and i kept it ever since and she thinks its adorable i still have it under my pillow and i got my rainbow beanie buddy when i was 5 years old my mom and dad bought it for me when i was hospitalized for 2 weeks because of asthma attacks and because they bought me him when i was in the hospital i can never part with him. im a 17.5 year old boy and im wondering if its ok i sleep with my baby blanket and a stuffy and also if there are other teens like me that do this to?

Growing up every since I was a young kid ive always had to always help my mother all the time I always had to play the mother at a young age, I pretty much had to be the mother and raise myself. And this has been going on all my life , where i had to do everything ..and support her. For the last eight years she and my sister have not had a stable place to live .they lived with me on three separate occasions all for about a Year at a time or i ve had to give ever money to help her pay her rent or to get food while she went to school or drive her around because she doesn't drive or have a car its ridiculous Anyhow, she moved with me AGAIN, after relocating from Calfiornia to Oklahoma to stay with her sister,Her sister put them out on the streets, so then they had to live in a Homeless shelter, and so they both stayed in the homeless shelter for about four months, but then my mother kept calling me crying comlaining about the conditions, and asked to come stay with me, so I rented a car drove to oklahoma city, which is about a six hour drive, payed to have all their belonings shipped through UPS and drove back to Houston ,so during that time,they both stayed with me for over six months, only giving me 100 dollars, I let them have my bedroom, while I slept on the couch, and I had to drive her to work, help her run errands ,take her to the store and all that because again she refuses to drive, so my lease expired in June 2014 so her and my sister lost the apartment in November I co signed for because, they were having fighting so much,so the apartement management evicted them out,so she moved away to stay with my grandmother in mississippi , she stayed there for five months, couldnt find a job in mississippi,ran out of money so I had to rent a car drive 600 miles 7 hours and go pick her up and,and have her stay with me again And again she had no money saved and she couldnt get an apartment because she has and eviction so I had to get an apartment for the both of them, i had to pay for her to move, And plus now they are living with me I have to pay for their tolitries, they have both eaten up my food, , so that helps a little..,,and they owe me over 5000.00 dollars, and she is taking her time finding a stable job..Im broke now from trying to help them. shes missing interviews, and I give her money to catch the bus to interviews,or I will agree to take her at least to the bustop or all the way to the actual job, but it seems like every time its time for her to start a job, she will wait until the last minute to ask me to take her to the job/interview or she will wait until I actually leave for work and then text me and say"Oh I thought you were going to give me a ride to the job /interview" when we actually hadnt confirmed if I was taking her : Plus I recently had found out my mother went in my purse and took money change out of my purse to buy cigarettes without my permission, then I have my sister who takes my things without asking anything she can take and will flat out lie in my face and to top it off I actually went out my way to find her a job working at Sonics as a server , and nows she's fired because she couldnt get to work so now they are both asking me to buy them food, and borrow money I have two people with no jobs :

I'm 19 years old and my mom is very very overprotective. I still have to ask for permission to go outside and when I do ask her I'll say "Mom, can I go outside?" she will literally look at me roll her eyes, look at me again with this attitude on her face! As if I said something wrong. I only got 2 friends that's about it, sometimes their busy... In order for me to go outside I have to be with a friend just to go out. I can't make my friends hang with me they busy with their lives... I just wanna go out to clear my head by myself! According to my mom I can't do that she will think I'm being "funny". Btw, if it's not my friends I have to go out with my sister.. Once in a while she let me do things by myself but I have to be on the phone with her and she will say " Hurry up and go there and come back" she says it with an attitude. If I don't answer my phone calls from her on time she will say "Stop playing with the phone" or "I called you why you didn't answer?", " This is why I don't let you go nowhere". My mom is so aggressive for no reasons. Plus, I don't go nowhere anyway I'm always in the house. The thing is I can go outside with her I can't go by myself? The other day is nice beautiful day out I ask can I go to Sephora she look at me with an attitude and roll her eyes at me. At first she said yeah go ahead, I'm getting ready and she said to me why you don't go someplace around here to go get make-up. I didn't even say nothing I just kept quiet. The next day she tells me "

ok . my mom keeps bringing a topic up on purpose and she knows that it really bothers me like bringing it up makes me sad all day . I usually ignore with some "yeah" and "fine" or something like that. but today I told her that I don t like her talking about it so she got really mad and then I got mad and then we had this huge fight and then she left the house just like that! i mean who does that ? I know I ve said some things that hurt her during the fight but she did too . and I feel guilty and my siblings are blaming me . and I don t know what to do .I ve tried to call her but she always hangs up on me . and it s really not a good time for her to leave now because we have things going on . I ve tried telling her that but no success . what do I do ? she won t talk to me nor any of my siblings.

After my mother passed away in cancer.My older brother and sister put allegations on me and my another brother that we took all her money and jewelery and never gave their share.Only income my mom has was her SSI money.She was giving away her money to my troubled brother and sister all the time and occasionaly to me too.Many times she used to tell me she didn't have much money left.Which I was able to understand but my older brother and sister don't.My sister always used to visit my mom on every week and demand some money jewelry that my mom gave her so many times.Now she still thinks mom left lot of money where she was living with my another brother.In reality she didn't had so much money.My sister and brother spreading rumor every where including my friend circles relatives that we too all money and never gave any thing.Can I sue them to spoil my reputation? I had to update this question due to stupid design.Didn't realize I was giving answer to my own question.

maybe someone could help me... we did not talk to each other for a long time

I have 3 older sisters that live at home. All 3 of them are beautiful and the greatest sisters a guy could have. They have helped me some many ways, I can't count them. They never consider me to be a guy. I am just a part of their family. We only have one shower upstairs so someone is always waiting on me to take a shower or I am waiting on them. I see one of them nude some days and it does not excite me in any way. I told some guy friends about this and they claim there must be something wrong with me. They say NO guy can see nude beautiful women every day and NOT get a b0ner unless he is gay. There is NO WAY I would every think about my sisters in a sexual way and I am not gay. Is what I am doing normal for a guy?

My friend and i are both 15. We've known each other for around five years now, he's my best friend. he used to live with his step-mother when i first met him, then after about a year he moved back in with his father. His father is a heavy drug abuser, he takes them every day. he gets too high to even acknowledge his own son. Whenever my friend goes to speak to him, he either gives the same answer repeatedly like "no, no, no, i told you no" Before he even gets a chance to ask or speak to him. he ignores him the vast majority of the time. During last summer break, he stayed with me and my mother for over 7 months, his dad didn't even care. he had social services involved, even put on a child protection register, then taken off. He's also lost a lot of weight, he was always fairly skinny, but he's even more skinnier, he complains of a sore stomach after eating food he'd otherwise have no problem eating, i think this is because of the lack of food in his house, his father has an eating disorder, and has some vitamin drink for it, so as you can imagine, there's next to none food at his house. He's even contemplated running away from home, i told him he should try and speak to social services to see if he could go back with his step-mother (His own mother abandoned him when he was a baby, he recently spoke to her, i was with him, she still doesn't seem to care about him) I remember one night his father was at a pub, some sh*t happened and he asked his son to go and get machete and take it to him. I really have no clue what to do. not to mention, he had ADHD. and isn't doing too good in school. his father has a bad influence on him. he even MADE HIM DELIVER DRUGS. he made him deliver and collect drug money. he was crying to my mother telling her about what he's doing. I'm trying my best to keep him on the right path, he got in with the wrong crowd about a year a go, ( We didn't speak much ) then we found our way back to each other, he was telling me he was out to 4AM, causing trouble, drinking. his own father still didn't care, though he isn't hanging around with them now, he only has one friend (Me). he avoids the people he used to hang around with now. His father doesn't support him at all. his father is more worried about getting in trouble if his son doens't go to school one day, because social services will come back he says, i think it's BS. i think its because his welfare/benefits will be STOPPED if his son was taken away from him. I really, really want to help him, but i have no idea what to do. i've spoke to my mother about going to social services. I feel extremely bad for him. not to mention there is hardly ANYTHING in his room. Bar a bed, some clothes. no kid deserves to live in a house with a drug-addict and hardly anything to eat. Even though he's off the child protection, the social services comes out once in a blue moon ( A Thursday ) I was thinking about slipping his social worker my phone number/email so he can contact me and i can tell him whats been happening. Also; when he had his son out selling drugs, he told him not to worry because he was helping the police ( Which is utter bs. my friend would believe anything you'd tell him. ) The police was at his house a few month ago, and his dad swallowed some drugs in the bath room. My friend isn't the sharpest tool in the box, so anything anyone would say, he'd believe. he's really thinking about running away. i know he wouldn't run away without telling me prior. Please give me some advice on what to do