Marriage & Divorce: Question: Stage 4 stomach cancer and severe high blood pressure.? |
- Question: Stage 4 stomach cancer and severe high blood pressure.?
- Question: He keeps introducing me to his friends and family?
- Question: Does my wife need to go for Stamping?
- Question: My husband wants to wipe me after shitting. should i let him?
- Question: Why doesn't wife wake up early to cook me breakfast?
- Question: Spouse forgets wife 62nd birthday and 31 anniversary, no acknowxgement on retiring.?
- Question: Why would my M.I.L bring ex by the house to pick up son?
- Question: I caught my husband Kissing another woman what do I do?
- Question: Why do I feel stingy about my money toward my wife when I don t mind spending a lot of it on her?
- Question: I am married and he is married. We flirt and I really want to give him oral sex. What do I do?
- Question: He told me that if I leave him he would kill me?
- Question: Husband wanting multiple wives? What to do?
- Question: Any ideas for married couple with little one date night?
- Question: My wife has cheated on me.....?
- Question: Is it Possible for a cheating husband to still love his wife?
- Question: Why do people say marriage is something that cant be avoided like taxes. work. school. etc?
- Question: Life without them? Is it possible?
- Question: If my wife and I would rather avoid each other and not spend any time together, what kind of relationship would you call this?
- Question: How to rebuild attraction for my wife when I'm not much of a alpha male and more of a nice guy?
- Question: Should I look at ending this marriage?
- Question: I have been married for 35 faithfully years. I do not drink, and have never struck my wife. Yet she is leaving me for divorce.?
- Question: Can I get my husband to come back?
- Question: How do you avoid 'emotional' cheating if it's impossible to confide or open up *completely* with your spouse?
- Question: What is the difference with a women marrying for money and a hooker?
- Question: Should I confront my husband? I snooped bc he acts suspicious sometimes and found these find sex sites?
- Question: Widow for the second time? In pain.?
- Question: Was my wife cheating? Found she was off work 2-3 hrs before coming home. Said she was giving new girl a ride home and visiting, for 2-3 mos.?
- Question: What are your views on divorce?
- Question: How important is money in marriage?
- Question: Why didi he do that so weird?
- Question: How do I tell my husband we need to move away from his family?
- Question: What communities are you and your spouse a part of? Do you do community events together? Do you ever argue over differing communities?
- Question: What should I do to make my husband happy?
- Question: My wife has become too fat for my liking and she pretends she does not care?
- Question: What you think about the suprise?
- Question: My husband is in contempt witheveryone of the judges decrees what happens now in oklahoma?
- Question: My Husband - Why Is He Like this? What can I say to him?
- Question: Army divorce?
- Question: Should I tell my husband about my about past sexual abuse?
- Question: Divorce/separated?
- Question: Do you have to have evidence on the marriage if a person committed adultery like a pictures in the video?
- Question: When your marry and if you want to be separated do you have to sign legal separator papers?
- Question: My wife is trying to get me the fault of committing adultery do she has to have evidence with a pic New York state marriage laws .?
- Question: I cheated on my husband and I dont feel guilty....Am I wrong??
- Question: And New York State marriage laws are you allowed to get a divorce when you want to for no reason?
- Question: How to address a couple in wedding invites who both hold positions in public office?
- Question: My husband is leaving me..?
- Question: Okay I have a dna test with my wife baby if don't come out of mines will that be a ground divorce?
- Question: The divorce is final. I got the home in the decree. How do I get the title changed to my name? It still has a mortgage that I am paying.?
- Question: Who's right?
- Question: If a husband is paying for child support but doesn't have much money for his own survival, what can he do?
- Question: Who would get the house?
- Question: My wife made falsely report of a domestic violence and she s going to use that against me at the divorce court what would I do in that position?
- Question: Do Americans think that obeying their husband is a bad thing? do they think that is ok for husbands to watch porn?
- Question: Is what im thinking right?
- Question: Is what im thinking right?
- Question: My wife says im weird because i dont want her to look at a sheet that says what to do to surprise her?
- Question: Why are women forgetting about the vow of obedience in marriage?
- Question: I'm never in the mood for sex is there something I can do?
- Question: Why am i always accused of acting weird by my wife?
| Question: Stage 4 stomach cancer and severe high blood pressure.? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 09:30 PM PDT About a month ago my husband found out through a Facebook message that his father had stomach cancer. No phone call just Facebook messages, that's do messed up in my book, my family is very, very different but needless to say my husband is devastated. A week later we are told in another message that it is stage 4 has moved into his liver and pancreas. My father in law is 67 and is not having any surgery, chemo or radiation, no treatment. A few days ago again in a Facebook message we were told his blood pressure was 200/120, know that's severe high blood pressure, father in law has always had high blood pressure. Can anyone tell me what kind of time line we are looking at. I know unfortunately it usually is not diagnosed until it is pretty far gone.? No one is telling my husband anything, we live in Kansas and he is California. I want to be there for my husband during this horrible time, my biggest fear is he will get another message his dad has passed away. Any information would be great. I know you can never be totally prepared for something like this, I don't and never have understood how my husband's family works, |
| Question: He keeps introducing me to his friends and family? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 09:23 PM PDT However he doesn't want to meet any of my family or my friends he says. We met last year in April while I was still married and going through a divorce. He promised once my divorce was final he and I would get into a relationship. In December I was contacted via social media (albeit stalked for a week) by a woman claiming to be his baby mama telling me she had no idea how serious he was about me and since he no longer wants to come home to her she felt I needed to know the truth about him. After that blew over he and I spent Christmas and New Years together (they don't even have kids together) his grandma died in January so he moved back in with this woman who he says is his ex girlfriend. My confusion comes from him constantly introducing me to all his family and friends. I even met the woman who raised him last weekend. He and I still aren't together and my divorce was finalized the end of December. Who am I to this guy? I'm 27 and he's 21. |
| Question: Does my wife need to go for Stamping? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 09:19 PM PDT I am in USA on H1B sponsored by my employer X. I got married and brought my wife to USA on B2 (Visitor Visa) thinking she would leave in 3 months. I got Offer from company Y and they were ready to convert my wife's B2 visa to H4. Now her H4 process is completed by Y but I am not joining the company. I am told her H4 is valid even if I don't join Y. She got her new I94 too as part of the H4 conversion Approval notice. But her Passport still shows B2 only. Is new stamping needed before B2 expiry? |
| Question: My husband wants to wipe me after shitting. should i let him? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 09:18 PM PDT anyone with experience with type of act? |
| Question: Why doesn't wife wake up early to cook me breakfast? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 09:10 PM PDT |
| Question: Spouse forgets wife 62nd birthday and 31 anniversary, no acknowxgement on retiring.? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 09:09 PM PDT |
| Question: Why would my M.I.L bring ex by the house to pick up son? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 09:09 PM PDT My ex and I have been on and off and now on one of the OFF times I have decided that I don't want to deal with him anymore and am trying to move on with my life as this has been going on for a while. We have a mutual child together and sometimes his grandma (which is my mother in law) will babysit. I get my son for a wk and then the ex gets him. So while my mother in law came by to drop my son off she brought my ex by my house. The last time her and I spoke she was saying how one of us is going to have to talk to the other, but i am FINISHED. He was the one who initiated the break up and then came back a few wks later after dissapearing saying he wanted to be friends. You have to understand my ex has done so many horrible things to me that it is impossible to befriend him. What is my mother in law up to in your opinon just to give u a hint on some of the things he's done. Tried to get me in trouble with cps by lying, punches holes in the walls and destroys my property, threatened my life if I left him, has gotten frustrated and left me at a store for hours while I had to beg him to pick me up. |
| Question: I caught my husband Kissing another woman what do I do? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 09:02 PM PDT |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 08:59 PM PDT I love her to death and I spoil her more than she desires whenever I can but when she wants access to my accounts I feel threatened. What can I do to deter her or fix the uneasiness in myself? It's not that I don't trust her, I just don't feel secure with the decision. |
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| Question: He told me that if I leave him he would kill me? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 08:22 PM PDT I told my exes mom and she said it means that he really loves me. What?! |
| Question: Husband wanting multiple wives? What to do? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 08:18 PM PDT When I met my husband we did not believe in a polygamous relationship until after we got married(We're Muslims). I still do not agree with it but he does. He told me hes not planning to have another wife but a week ago he told me that if he had lots of money he would. One minute hes telling me he doesnt but the next hes saying he always wanted to take care of more than one woman. Right now we don't have money like that but the thought of him having other women after we becomes financially successful is really draining me. What to do? Should I just leave because I already have low self esteem and hearing this is making my esteem even low. I feel like Im not good enough and Im just unhappy. |
| Question: Any ideas for married couple with little one date night? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 08:04 PM PDT My wife and I went out exactly ONE YEAR to the day of our last going out. Our son is 18 months, and our schedules keep us from going out a lot without the little one. Any unique or out of the box ideas for a "date night" in after our son has gone to bed? Also, I am not asking because there is a sense of us drifting apart or anything of that nature. Just more or less seeking ideas of fun things my wife and I can do that would create the same feeling and experience as going out on a date without actually having to leave the house. |
| Question: My wife has cheated on me.....? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 07:50 PM PDT My wife cheated on me and I found a letter in her glove box that was for std screening and it was positive. I got checked recently and I'm clean . Also my younger seems as if she's not sure he's mine. I've caught her on our joint facebook looking up guys that she liked or still likes ....like on a regular basis our whole marriage. She believes that she is religious and I don't want to effect that....I guess I'm asking what's the quietest way to be about this , considering I don't hate her and I'd always help her out if she needed me. |
| Question: Is it Possible for a cheating husband to still love his wife? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 07:47 PM PDT I'm going through a lot right now. I'm pretty sure my husband is cheating on me and I know for a fact that he is lying to me. I won't go into the hairy details but there is a hidden cellphone that I found. At first I immediately thought that he could not care at all about me to do this. But he treats me so well. When we are together he would do anything for me. He always opens car doors for me, spends every moment I have off work with me, brings me presents, randomly cleans the house, he tells me I am beautiful every day, If I forget my lunch he brings it to work, he randomly brings me coffee, makes me breakfast in bed, and so much more. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't think someone can fake that, can they?!?!?!? I don't think I could act that way towards someone if I didn't care about them. If you cheated did you love the person you were cheating on? |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 07:35 PM PDT im a 23 year old guy I've never been in a relationship. never had kids . never dated. had a girlfriend. had sex etc. and I hope I never get married or have kids because I simply don't want the responsibility of supporting a family. but I've always been told just like taxes. school. and work marriage cant be avoided its part of life I've never understood that |
| Question: Life without them? Is it possible? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 07:29 PM PDT Sad to say but I still care and trying hard not to. It's easy to say don't care because their actions show they never did. Prime example left hanging while this person proposes to another who is still married. Will karma happen who knows but it's sad when you give a person love but they go and attempt to be with someone who is unavailable by law it makes you wonder what was missing that they strayed that way. |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 07:21 PM PDT My wife is a busy woman. She works 40 hours in an office with me, then she comes home and she runs a girl scout troup and she has an online contract job. When she's not doing those two things, she spends most of her time on the computer socializing and playing games to pass the time along. She is a very quiet and introverted type and prefers to not talk to anyone out loud and would rather do all her talking through text. She doesn't have much interest in me and prefers to spend time alone. She is very asexual and has no desire for sex (never has). And our kids are old enough that they don't need a Mom & Dad hounding them all day. I am not a busy man by any stretch of that phrase. I work 40 hours in an office with my wife, but when I come home I have nothing to do. Nothing. I will work on chores and I will also occasionally play video games, but I don't have any hobbies or any friends. I had a few friends a few years ago, but due to my wife needing my help picking up the house chores while she was doing girl scouts, I gave up my friends and focused on doing my share of the household chores. But now there's a lot of time to fill up and I don't know what to do with this time. I too have become asexual and I have no desire for sex (I used to be a hornball but being told "no" enough times changes that). I will occasionally play with my kids, but they have their own lives... What do you call this kind of relationship? Or is this just called "coexisting" at this point? |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 05:17 PM PDT Hey my marriage is falling apart and she don't desire me or isn't as attractive to me. She said she wants out of the marriage and I tried everything to get her back. But i do know if I can get her to being attractive to me again I may be able to pull us out of the issues we are having. Plz help me learn how to attract my wife again and to fall over heels wit me. Thanks for your time |
| Question: Should I look at ending this marriage? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 04:14 PM PDT I need help! I just turned 34 Wednesday and I'm extremely unhappy. My wife's mood swings are killing me! My wife has two kids from a previous relationship that I accept as my own. We currently have an 11 month old. We've been married for two years. I can't win with this lady! She'll get mad when she wants to and uses her anger to control me. She knows I won't fight back or disrespect her in front of the kids, but it doesn't stop her from cussing or talking to me any kind of way. The only time she's happy is payday and when she gets something. Today she's mad because she can't figure out why we don't have more money than what we have, but she's always eating out and paying on bills of hers I've never really seen. When I man up and ask where our money is going, it's a fight and silent treatment. Then I end up apologizing when I wasn't even wrong!!!! She's never apologized to me! Never! She's been physically abusive to me once and she didn't apologize for that. I put my son to sleep every night and I take care of him from 2pm after I get off from work until bedtime everyday and have him all day on the weekends basically. She said I do the least amount of work in the house and complain! She's crazy! I almost lost my cool that day! How do I get out of this? I don't want to lose my son though. She'll move back to where she's from just so I couldn't see him. I know she would because she always tries to destroy and win. Please someone give me some sound advice.... |
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| Question: Can I get my husband to come back? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 03:25 PM PDT My husband walked out on me & my 2-month old daughter & lied about where he was going and ignored me for 3 days & now he is refusing to come home, since this is considered abandonment is there anyway I can force him to come home? With athorities or anything? (I have found out where he is staying because of his friends) |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 03:22 PM PDT I'm gonna preface that I would NEVER, and I mean ever ever sleep or kiss anyone other than my husband. I believe God means for marriage to be until death and not to end save for adultery. Anyway, my husband can be a very hard person to talk to. He is one of the types who is contrary allllll the time when you talk to him about something. He'll always pick the other person's side if I'm in an argument with someone, or other times will put how I feel down. Besides that, he and I have nothing in common to talk about besides our kids and hows work, how was your time with your friend etc. Very basic conversations. I have several female and few male friends, but I do share and go to them with advice about things. I have opened up to a couple of male friends about my marriage, but I don't see them nor speak to them about this issue on a consistent basis. Anyhow, is that wrong? Is that 'emotional cheating' -And just fyi....we have talked and been to counseling 3 different times. He will be different once in awhile (empathetic, on my team, support me etc) but it always goes back to him being devil's advocate. Thanks! |
| Question: What is the difference with a women marrying for money and a hooker? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 03:10 PM PDT arent both giving it up for sex? marriage needs to rooted in true love, not money,sex,looks. thats why so many marriages fail. |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 02:50 PM PDT Pornhub some other site called freef**kfind AND this site called mobile.snapsext.com So I didn t check the first right away...but when I entered the free find one, you have to answer a series of q s like are you std free and stuff. Then it takes you to the mobile snapsext one! I wanted to make sure I m not crazy and perhaps it was an accident so I checked pornhub and don t see any popups/obvious ads for either one. I am disturbed though. Should I say something? Or investigate more and have proof of cheating (such as him sending photos or meeting up with people)? Please help :( I don t know why he would bother going on sites like that. Porn is enough as it is, but a sex finding site? I am heartbroken I'm 5'5 brunette, 113lbs. I try to keep myself up, it's NOT easy since we have 2 needy toddlers (I have to rush just to take a shower while they are confined watching tv for a few minutes lol). That being said, I do try to put on yoga pants vs sweats before he gets home, let my hair down etc. I don't wear much makeup anymore, but I have been told by many people I don't need it (bless the Lord!). So yah, I don't look as great right as when he met me, but for a mom I look really good :-P |
| Question: Widow for the second time? In pain.? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 02:49 PM PDT I married my high school sweetheart back in 2007. I loved him very much and I was so happy with him. He unfortunately died the next year from an overdose. I was in so much pain when he died. I didn't think I could keep going without him. I did fortunately from help from my family and friends. Particularly one of my friends. He was a family friend who I hadn't talked to in a while. After my husband died he spent a lot of time with me. Just trying to help me get through this. He later told me he was in love with me. And after a year we started a relationship. I fell deeply in love with him and he loved me back. I had never loved someone as much as I loved him. We married and had a son. I was the happiest woman in the world with an amazing husband who loved me. He passed away in October of 2013 on a car crash. I died a bit that day. I have not been the same since. It's like who took part of me with him. I'm always crying. Even after over a year I'm still as bad as the moment I found out he passed. I found out I was pregnant months after. Not even the baby helped me be stronger. I have seeked help but nothing works. My husband was my other half and I love him more than anything. I don't feel alive anymore. I can't find happiness in anything. It's like I died that day with him. I can't find purpose in living.The only thing that could help is to be with him again. I feel a hole in my heart and soul since I lost him. I've lost all hope I can't live without him. Please help me |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 02:10 PM PDT She'd call at 9 pm and say she was working overtime, then leave work, and show up at home about 12. When I went by work to eat about 10:30 pm one night, the place was closed. Then, she calls at 11 pm and says she just got off. I told her I'd been there and the place was closed, and said that she'd been getting home really late for about 3 months and asked for an explanation. She said that a new girl at work and her were best friends, and that she was giving her a ride home and they were talking. |
| Question: What are your views on divorce? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 02:01 PM PDT Best answer goes to most detailed. |
| Question: How important is money in marriage? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 01:50 PM PDT The number one reason listed for couples arguments is the management of money. Why does money effect marriages based on love so much? |
| Question: Why didi he do that so weird? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 01:40 PM PDT My husband is strange I was with my sister and cousin we were hanging out I never go out I'm always home and the day I decided to go he calls his girl cousin and ask her if she wants to hang out with us then he calls me all of a sudden. He has his cousin on three way and says can u pick her up and hang out. I was so pissed and confused. First of all he acts like he brought me a car parked outside and he wants me to go pick her up it was my sister car. I go out with my sis he gets jealous and wants me home when he isn't with me he get nervous so he wanted his cousin with me so he can ask her question of what we did to check up on me. It was so awkward but I told her sorry I can't pick u up we can make other plans but now I'm busy and it's not my car. he's so dumb he tries to take control of people even when his not around.tried to make plans can't just let me hangout. Force people to chill I feel bad for his cousin cause I know she didn't wanna chill that bad it was all him. I just don't know what to make of this. What do You guys think. And the thing that pisses me off my older sister is married to and whenever we go out her husband never calls her and says stupid **** like that. I wish he was normal he is so unusual but u know what I think people like this u have to ignore and just laugh and treat them like the retard they betray. I'm just so weirded out I don't get y he acts like a weirdo and y sister can't stand him so I don't know y he expected her to pick his cousin up |
| Question: How do I tell my husband we need to move away from his family? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 01:25 PM PDT We've been married 4 years now and have been living in the same house with my in laws (2 separate flats). My mother in law and I don't have a bad relationship, but I'm feeling that slowly change. We have 2 little boys, 2 and almost 1. My mother in law is my worst critic. Nothing I do for my boys seems enough. Nothing I do for her son seems enough. She can make comments about things left and right. About my poor decision to go back to school and put the kids in daycare, my lack of efforts in the house, financial issues... The list can go on. Not to mention, my major lack of privacy here! My husband is always working, so he doesn't see half of this. This is a sensitive topic because whenever something comes up regarding the in laws, my husband is AUTOMATICALLY on the defense! He turns me into a "sick, selfish person"- yes, said by him many times. Things do get heated and it always starts over something so minor, so imagine what it's like when the subject is a big deal for me. I need to tackle this once and for all. I cannot live this life! We were looking into town homes recently and I thought, finally, my little family and I will have our own place! The next day, my mother in law is talking about these lovely town homes that "we all" are going to move to! That was my last straw. I don't know what to do or where to start! Please help! I don't want to destroy any relationship, or for my mother in law to even know my motives of creating a distance. Thank you in advance! |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 01:01 PM PDT Examples of communities: Neighborhood resident group, church groups or church mass, ethnic groups, tourist groups, music groups, sports clubs, Eagles club, political group, hobby related community, online community, etc. I'm not a part of any groups and I just wanted to get an insight on how having a sense of community helps or hurts a relationship. Since Ryde,0n didn't like the word community, just focus on the groups you are a part of. I'm a part of none, should I be? I have no affinity to anyone or any thing in this world. My wife has some groups she's a part of, but for the most part she's unaffiliated too. But I see a lot of people on Facebook are part of groups. And these groups gives them and their family members a set of friends and a sense of belonging. Is it worth it? |
| Question: What should I do to make my husband happy? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 12:39 PM PDT |
| Question: My wife has become too fat for my liking and she pretends she does not care? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 12:34 PM PDT I am not physically attracted to my wife. Her physical appearance has always been an issue and it only gets worse. She has put on a considerable amount of weight. This is very unattractive to me. I've tried to hint to her — tactfully; I'm not insensitive — that it bothers me, but she only gets offended. It seems like it's not my place to say so anymore. She is defiantly aware of her overweight . One the other hand I am a smart attractive man . I am 8 year older than her but actually look 10 year younger Instead, there's this gnawing silence and growing indifference to sex. I'd like to say that she is so beautiful inside that the outside doesn't matter. But that's not true. In many ways — children, finances, practical things — we communicate well. I respect her and she's a good mom. But this is a wall between us and an increasing source of emotional distress, anguish, loss of intimacy and hormonal hell. What do you suggest? Yes she had my kids but she gain more weight by eating unhealthy food . I have gone to almost extreme lengths to provide her with the time and facilities to exercise. There is a treadmill in my basement that doubles as a clothes rack and I have told her to join a gym. I have offered to watch the kids every evening and on weekends to giver time to work out. Does she capitalize on any of these opportunities, NO she doesn't. She just lies on the couch and complains about how tired she is. |
| Question: What you think about the suprise? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 12:26 PM PDT So my husband is turning 40 in 2 weeks, he is a little upset for "getting old" so he doesn t want to do nothing for his birthday. My husband like many men out there fantasize about 3somes, but never made a big deal in our years of marriage because I never gave him the opportunity to even think that could possibly happen, even though I m Brazilian. He is a very attractive fit man, and I was thinking about getting a pretty woman to join our night for his birthday surprise. I never went that direction before so I don t know if I should pick up a woman at a strip club or a hooker, so I would love to get some advices. Friends of mine is not an option, have to be someone I never met before, and never will see them again :-). Any suggestions? |
| Question: My husband is in contempt witheveryone of the judges decrees what happens now in oklahoma? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 12:20 PM PDT |
| Question: My Husband - Why Is He Like this? What can I say to him? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 12:19 PM PDT My husband will rarely let me do anything nice for him. If its Christmas he wont let me buy him anything for Christmas, the same thing for his birthday instead of me buying him something he wants me to buy something for myself instead. He says the best xmas/birthday and the only thing he ever wanted was a great wife like me. He waits on me hand and foot he will massage me, talk to me how my day went, always listening to me. If he needs clothes he tells me to go to the goodwill or thrift shop to but clothes he says so that we have more money to buy her nice clothes Yet he rarely asks me to do anything for him or lets me do anything for him. What gives? Anyone have a clue as to why he acts this way always so selfless and giving and not asking or wanting anything in return Someone asked me what do you mean he wont let me buy him a xmas or birthday gift. What I mean is if I ask him what he wants he always tells me you know that they only thing he ever asked for was a wife like me and that he always tells me to buy something nice for myself. |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 12:18 PM PDT Friend of mine got married. In the year they were married, she probably only live on base with him for a month off and on. The rest of the time she was back at home with her parents. 4 months ago she up and left and went back to her parents. She now has a steady job is back at home living with parents and he has filed for divorce. the Army says half of his check should go two her a month. Is there any way to get around this because she never really committed to the marriage and her life is actually better now back home then it would have been living on the base? |
| Question: Should I tell my husband about my about past sexual abuse? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 12:16 PM PDT Last year, my husband told me of his years of sexual abuse from his step-father. I have never told him my own story for a few reasons. I worry that it will be triggering for him as it is for me when hearing someone else s story; I worry that our story will start being compared over who s experience was worse. And, I m afraid that he will be upset with me for not telling him after what he told me. Should I tell him the trust? or is it better not to? |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 12:15 PM PDT So I been married to this guy since 2003, and I want a divorce. We have been separated since I was pregnant with my last child who is now 2 ¹/² years old. He has been in Colorado since and been in and out of jail all our relationship. We have children but none of which are his biological children. Is there any way to get a divorce without him having custody, I don't want to share custody cause knowing him he would get in a bad mood and take my children forever. He's not exactly what you would consider nice person Though he can be when he wants but he is very manipulative. Is the a such thing as a common law divorce? Or anything I can do, I don't exactly have a lot of money. |
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| Question: I cheated on my husband and I dont feel guilty....Am I wrong?? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 11:47 AM PDT I come from a traditional Pakistani muslim family....I was married at the age of 19 to my husband....He works abroad....His mother just had a surgery,so just after a month of being with me,he returned back... His mother is a traditional Pakistani mother in law...She always finds fault in me..She always tell wrong stories about me to his son and he then scolds me...I am now depressed and literally a house prisoner to her..Its been 8 months since he left....He wants to be there as he wants to earn more to pay the debt and doesnt want me to come as he cant allow his mother to a nurse... 3 days ago,his uncle came to stay with us as he had some business in town...That night,we were talking and i still dont know how it happened but we ended up having sex... He became so guilty and remorseful that he made up an excuse and left our house and stayed in a hotel for rest of the days and we came to agreement never to tell anyone... But I dont feel guilty at all...i know its foolish to think that this cheating is equal to his and his mother's illtreatment towards me... But I've been broight with traditional values and I never had a boyfriend and was virgin on my wedding night...But still I dont know why i dont feel guilty...Am I a sadist or psychopath??? |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 11:33 AM PDT |
| Question: How to address a couple in wedding invites who both hold positions in public office? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 11:29 AM PDT I'm in the process of writing out invitations for my wedding and I have husband and wife guests who both hold positions in the government. I know "The Honorable" is used but I've been searching the internet on how to apply this title in the case of both husband and wife being in the same situation? The Honorables? Please help! |
| Question: My husband is leaving me..? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 11:18 AM PDT Two weeks ago, me & My husband had an argument about him coming home 6+ hours late almost every single day then the next day he tells me he is going to install Our two month old daughters car seat base into his car, then 1 hour later he still didn't come in, so I went outside to look for him & he was gone, his brother & his gf kept lying to me about where he was & would just ignore me, so I got upset and went off on them then My husband messaged me and told me that he's done & coming to get his stuff. So he did, I begged him to stay & he continued to leave. He's been staying at his bros house ever since I messaged a guy I used to talk to (not even my ex boyfriend) but I went to him for advice because he use to be friends with my husband there was no flirting at all, sure I talked to the guy on me & my husbands anniversary but my husband kept telling me that it was over that he was done with me funny thing is My husband would come over to have sex with me & then before he would leave for work he would tell me that after he leaves we aren't together anymore. So what's wrong with talking to the guy (who I didnt even date) in a NON-flirty way? My husband has done way worse to me in the past but I have stayed right by his side, now he is leaving me and our daughter just because I got upset at his brother & his girlfriend. At this point is there anything I can do to save our marriage, PLEASE HELP! I am such a mess right now he won't come home, & barley talks to me.. |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 11:14 AM PDT |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 11:03 AM PDT |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 11:01 AM PDT My ex wife and I share custody of our 7 year old daughter. We have both moved on and married other people, yet we remain on friendly terms (for the most part). Recently, my daughter had a birthday, and my current wife and I threw her a big party. My ex wife and her husband were invite as well. Everything went smoothly until my wife went into labor. I then had to send all the guest home and terminate the party. My daughter was understandably very upset. The next day, my ex brought our daughter to the hospital to meet her new baby brother. She looked at him and said "thanks for ruining my birthday party." I couldn't believe my ears. I did not raise her to be that shallow and selfish. I then gently spanked her and grounded her for three weeks. She will be with my ex for part of those three weeks, so I told my ex to follow through with the punishment while she is at her house. My ex refused. She said she makes the rules at her house, and I make the rules at mine. Fair point, but then she had the audacity to add that she wasn't offended by what my daughter said because it was not her kid that she insulted. That set me off. I told her that she was shallow and selfish and that is where our daughter gets it from. I don't know what to do. My ex is raising our daughter to be a selfish brat. I can't teach her any better if my ex allows it and doesn't follow through with my punishments. That is the reason my daughter always sees me as "the mean parent." Who is right? |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 10:58 AM PDT Husband is paying his child support but he is struggling to keep up with his personal expenses, savings etc. He has 2 jobs and is very exhausted, he has no family support of his own. What can he do? The husband has 2 jobs, he is literally working more than having time for himself. I am not against paying for my child. Read the question. We have divorced 2 years ago and I cannot afford the payments. I have high outflow of money with less inflow for my survival. I can no longer afford housing for myself. My ex wife refuses to help me in any way, I have no financial support from family either. The cash job from Ryde,0n sounds like a great idea. Please help, any advice is recommended! Why can't people read the fact that I have 2 jobs? |
| Question: Who would get the house? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 10:56 AM PDT If a man (who is married) buys a house while he is married but the wife's name is not on the deed or anywhere on the title and the husband became deceased would the house go to the spouse (wife) or to the husbands next of kin? |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 10:43 AM PDT |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 10:30 AM PDT i was reading some questions and it is disappointing what i read.. some people think that a woman obeying her husband is a bad thing. other people think that is cool if a husband watches porn.. why? what happened to pure, unconditional love? |
| Question: Is what im thinking right? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 10:25 AM PDT i've left my ex-wife after 7 years of marriage. she told me she slept with someone accidently after drinking, so i left her long-story short she wants me back and i dont i also think there will be no love and no commitment. imagine if i marry her again and after some days, weeks, months or years i get in a car crash and become quad (spinal cord injury) crippled for wife etc she'd leave me instantly, files for divorce again and take all my money to waste it on random men. im i right to think like this? crippled for life* |
| Question: Is what im thinking right? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 10:25 AM PDT i've left my ex-wife after 7 years of marriage. she told me she slept with someone accidently after drinking, so i left her long-story short she wants me back and i dont i also think there will be no love and no commitment. imagine if i marry her again and after some days, weeks, months or years i get in a car crash and become quad (spinal cord injury) crippled for wife etc she'd leave me instantly, files for divorce again and take all my money to waste it on random men. im i right to think like this? |
| Posted: 03 Apr 2015 10:08 AM PDT |
| Question: Why are women forgetting about the vow of obedience in marriage? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 10:01 AM PDT |
| Question: I'm never in the mood for sex is there something I can do? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 10:00 AM PDT i m 22 and i m never really in the mood for sex. I feel bad because my husband wants it every night and I make him go months without it, is there something I can do to make me in the mood more. and the sex isn t bad he doesn't want to have sex unless I'm in the mood. we have two small children and I use an iud for birth control the 5 year one |
| Question: Why am i always accused of acting weird by my wife? Posted: 03 Apr 2015 09:52 AM PDT |
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