Marriage & Divorce: Question: As a stay at home mom, should I work constantly? |
- Question: As a stay at home mom, should I work constantly?
- Question: I think the girl i like has a boyfriend?
- Question: If I ever want to get married, will these fantasies or desires of mine creep ladies out?
- Question: I'm scared my parents will get a divorce once I leave for college?
- Question: Why does wife order me to do things that she could do herself?
- Question: Can marriage solve my divorce?
- Question: Is this as bad as it sounds?
- Question: I think my husband may have a big problem?
- Question: How did you know you wanted to spend the rest of your life with someone?
- Question: Are most women high maintence like my fiancé?
- Question: Having sex or remaining abstinent with fiancée?
- Question: Don't know where my husband is. How do I get my son's passport?
- Question: Is the"Uniformed Services Former Spouse's Protection Act" Military retirement considered alimony for the ex spouse- for income tax purposes?
- Question: Why can't he be cool with my family?
- Question: In ca how long do I have to file for alimony after the divorce is final?
- Question: Can my husband get my inheritance when my mom dies if my mom rewrites the will putting my share into a siblings account?
- Question: How do I change my last name now that I am married?
- Question: Not sure what this means?
- Question: Why do people see marriage as something that's for life or permanent?
- Question: Do you smoke weed in the house when your kids are home and awake?
- Question: Have you had big fights w/your spouse..how do you feel about it?
- Question: If you married a man for who he was only to discover he was amoral and refused to take on your Christian values, would you divorce?
- Question: Would you be mad?
- Question: What use is a husband to his wife if she earns a substantially higher salary than he?
- Question: Am I overreacting about husband looking at pictures of other girls?
- Question: I need help and understanding concerning my wife?
- Question: Why are men always happen that the divorce that they filed is finalized?
- Question: Divorce or give another chance?
- Question: Husband talking during sex about helping his sister?
- Question: What do you do when your husband passes gas all night in his sleep?
- Question: Does anyone stay close to their ex's family?
- Question: Should I change my name when I get married?
- Question: Q: FOR MARRIED WOMEN. would you divorce your husband if he got laid off his job and there was no telling when he got a new one?
- Question: Can my husband divorce me?
- Question: Is it bad when your mate tells you that you are a loser and not a real man when you get in a fight?
- Question: Is there a way to find the questions # 1 moves out of the Marriage & Divorce category as soon as the post or are they lost forever?
- Question: I am no longer attracted to my husband after 5 years. I love his personality but am just not attracted physically anymore. Is this normal?
- Question: Do women who get married have more pain to live with then the free ones? I can't imagine living with that to deal with?
- Question: Dating/marriage/kids for poor people?
- Question: How do I make my wife feel bad for always making me feel bad?
- Question: Do you encourage?
- Question: Why get married? It seems like a nightmare all around. Also why have kids? with a world being over populated?
- Question: I cant get in 'the mood'?
- Question: My husband never call nor nor text because I promised to meet him but did not make it?
- Question: How can I quit stressing over my husband NEVER stressing?? He says he is gonna live longer.?
- Question: How do I get my husband interested in hanging out with me?
- Question: My husband impregnant another girl so what can i do?
- Question: I need to get out of this relationship!!!!!!!?
- Question: Wife got really upset because I scolded my 8 year old daughter for having her tablet really loud at 11pm?
- Question: Likely hood of getting married in this generation?
- Question: Should I go ahead or move away from him? He keeps hurting me with my past but I am completely honest with him and love only him.?
- Question: I caught my husband Kissing another woman what do I do?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Isn't marriage all about sex?
| Question: As a stay at home mom, should I work constantly? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 09:14 PM PDT I have a 6 year old in kindergarten, a 5 year old, a 14 month old and I'm 29 weeks pregnant. I also babysit a 7 month old for 9 hours a day 4-5 days a week. I also work 4-5 nights a week as a delivery driver. With all that said, I admit that I can be lazy at times. I'm laying here typing this even though I need to put away the laundry I just folded. My husband and I keep arguing about how I'm not taking care of all my responsibilities. I know that im not constantly up all day working around the house, but should I be? His point is that he works 3 part time jobs so I should keep up with laundry, dishes, cleaning, cooking, and all that. The ONLY household responsibilities he has are taking out the trash and mowing the lawn. I really don't ask much from him because he does work hard, but sometimes I feel like his expectations for me are too high. I'm just wondering if I'm missing something here - SHOULD I be constantly working all hours of the day so that all chores are complete? My husband seems to think so. He says that I can relax and watch tv / play video games / call friends after my work has been complete. But as a mom, is my work ever really complete? I kinda just needed to vent, but if anyone wants to answer my question or give advice please do, it's getting very frustrating and I don't like fighting with my husband but I also can't see myself doing things the way he expects. |
| Question: I think the girl i like has a boyfriend? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 09:09 PM PDT I'm so depressed I'm 20 years old and never had a girlfriend. Finally I met a girl I feel really confident and fun to be around and she's so beautiful. She's all i thought about last week and could not eat because of the anxiety of building up the courage to talk with her. I know she rents a room and k saw her twitter account and she's following a guy on it so I'm assuming that must be her boyfriend. What should I do i still want to ask her out or tell her I'm not surprised she's so beautiful. This hurts so much tell me an encouraging story please! !! |
| Question: If I ever want to get married, will these fantasies or desires of mine creep ladies out? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 08:41 PM PDT ok so I LOOOVE cute ladies' bodies in general but in my fantasies i most think about tickling them on their belly or back. i especially love it if their belly is skinny but not rail thin, and i really love it when their belly button is like a little round black hole in the middle of their belly. and i constantly imagine myself rubbing and tickling cute ladies on their bare back and neck and shoulders and sides before moving on to their other parts. heck I have pics of hot ladies in those types of poses on my computer that's how turned on I get over that. I really don't want to be a perv! now obviously I'm not gonna go around trying to feel cute ladies up all the time since they're people too and my mom said to always treat ladies well. I don't mean tickling as in tickling to make them laugh but tickling like as in just a light feeling up of them to make both of us feel good or whatnot |
| Question: I'm scared my parents will get a divorce once I leave for college? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 08:36 PM PDT My Mom and Dad have good days and bad. Lately, my mom has been depressed and she sounds like she basically hates her life. She has been sick for like 10 years now, so she has to be in bed all day. This causes my Dad to have to bring in the money. He is always stressed and I know that sometimes he even has to ask people for money. With all of this on his plate, I feel like her forgets to show that he loves my mom and i think she really does notice that. Sometimes my moms hints on that she may want a divorce in the future but I hate the idea that they have stopped loving eachother. I love them together. I'm scared and sad and I just want my family to be healthy and less stressed... What should I do? |
| Question: Why does wife order me to do things that she could do herself? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 08:32 PM PDT I have already told her that I won't do anything unless she asks politely, but I wonder why she wastes her energy barking orders when she could do half of the stuff herself. |
| Question: Can marriage solve my divorce? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 08:30 PM PDT My wife said that divce may save are marriage but I know that divorce means no more marry so what do to fixz? Can it b? |
| Question: Is this as bad as it sounds? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 08:30 PM PDT So I've been married for almost 2 years now & my relationship is pretty rocky. Before I got married I was single for nearly 2 years. Before that I had been in a relationship with my first love, we were together for about 5 years on and off. I thought things were really bad between us and I moved state to try to forget him. Now that I'm married I feel my marriage is worst than that relationship. When I moved here I was single like I said, I still had feelings for my ex, he got a new girlfriend & within time I started dating other people. Shortly after I married my husband. While I was single my ex and I would still talk, even if he had a girlfriend he came to see me and stayed for Christmas week and I got pregnant,(I'm trying to prove a point of why he's special to me) I had a miscarriage and I decided I didn't want to be with him, even if a part of me will always care for him deeply. Anyway it's been 2 years since we last spoke to eachother. About 3 months ago I found out he was inprisoned, and I feel really bad about it. I know he must feel lonely, he's young and I feel he's made a lot of stupid choices, I feel like sending him a self help book, I of-course can't write him letters, my husband would kill me. Literally. Is it wrong to do so? It may sound reasonable to why it's wrong, it's hard for me since he was my first everything. |
| Question: I think my husband may have a big problem? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 06:55 PM PDT My husband and I have been married a little over a year. Before we were married, he told me that he and a cousin had 'played doctor' when they were little, out of young curiosity (they are 8 years apart). He didn't think it was that big of a deal and didn't want to tell me but did because the cousin insisted. I have recently found out that he lied about the situation. The cousin called and spoke to me and told me that he sexually abused this cousin for 3 or 4 years. I'm so at a loss of what to do... Im hurt because he lied and I'm also concerned that he's a child abuser. I don't know if we should work things out or cut my losses and leave |
| Question: How did you know you wanted to spend the rest of your life with someone? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 06:21 PM PDT |
| Question: Are most women high maintence like my fiancé? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 06:00 PM PDT My fiancé and I have been dating for years but just recently started living together. I had no idea how high maintenance she was until now. She goes to the gym for about an hour and a half five days a week. She does this weekly hair regimen that takes an hour. It takes her about 20 minutes to get dressed and do her makeup in the morning. I also recently found out when she was in college, she used to get Botox for an asymmetrical eyebrow and has since gotten surgery to even it out. Her mom and sister are the same way. I guess it pays off, her mom's attractive and her and her sister are gorgeous and her sister just had a baby. Thing is both these women have had nose jobs too. My wife says she would but she's too scared and her mother said to me, "I wish she would change her mind and fix that awful thing." I admit my wife's nose is wider than I guess what is the "ideal" but I don't think it's ugly. I don't want them passing down these strict regimens to our future daughter. And I certainly would never want her to have plastic surgery. I think her family is nice but for a mother to publicly call her own daughter's face ugly...I can't even. Are most women this caught up in looks? My family has 5 kids, parents are traditional Christian. My sisters wore hand me downs. My mom and my sisters don't really wear makeup, they kind of like simpler things. We're more concerned about what's on the inside so perhaps I'm a little out of the loop. |
| Question: Having sex or remaining abstinent with fiancée? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 05:47 PM PDT My fiancée and I agreed to be abstinent for personal reasons until our wedding, which is not for another year and a half. We're waiting until after she finishes grad school. My fiancée is going through a lot. She works full time and goes to school part time. Plus, her parents have a really bad relationship in which one of them recently attempted suicide and the other was insensitive about it. Now my fiancée tries to mediate between them as professional counseling hasn't helped. I've told her I'm here for whatever she needs or wants from me. A few days ago my fiancée came over my apt. and she started making out with me on the bed. She started unbuttoning her clothes and when I asked her to stop, she reminded me how I said I'd do anything for her and said "I really want you." She has seemed so sad about everything going on the past few weeks, I wanted to stop her from doing something she'd regret. I told her I love her and am unbelievably attracted to her, but I was trying to keep us accountable to the promise we made. It has been a few days and she has barely told me what's been going on in her life. She is usually so rational and kind despite her troubling family life. I'm not sure how to help her or what such an immense level of stress means for the future of our relationship. |
| Question: Don't know where my husband is. How do I get my son's passport? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 04:50 PM PDT |
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| Question: Why can't he be cool with my family? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 04:31 PM PDT I got married a 2 years ago. I always imagined the husband I married would be so close to my family cause they are so unbelievably nice and helpful and caring. When I was pregnant they would come over help me clean cook and through me a baby shower and got saved us so much money on a crib swing chair. And my husband is so rude to them and every time they come over he makes them feel uncomfortable. I don't know y. What pisses me off the most is wen his family comes over he treats them like royalty pays for there food doesn't judge them so nice and doesn't do the same for my family y is that |
| Question: In ca how long do I have to file for alimony after the divorce is final? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 02:33 PM PDT |
| Posted: 08 Apr 2015 02:31 PM PDT i ll have 25k aprox. and i m getting a divorce in july, my mom is still alive, i m trying to get some kind of alimony in the mean while to support myself and whenever my mom goes, hopefully later than sooner, but when she does go i d like to think that i can keep what s rightfully mine. my husband talks like he wants some of my inheritance what can i do do keep it? |
| Question: How do I change my last name now that I am married? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 01:43 PM PDT |
| Question: Not sure what this means? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 01:36 PM PDT My husband and I have been married over two years. Before I married my husband, I was a widow so I know the pain of losing a spouse. My husband was married 17 years ago but 10 years ago his ex wife and him broke up and he dated a few women before he met me and we got married. Three times in the past year, my husband has called me by his ex wife ( she passed away after they got a divorce). The first time he did it, it was OK but he's did it a few other times. I have lost a spouse too but never called my husband by his name. How should I handle it? Its been over 10 years since they were divorced and he's dated many women since they spilt up but she's also deceased now. She passed away after they got a divorce. Should I just keep over looking it? |
| Question: Why do people see marriage as something that's for life or permanent? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 12:38 PM PDT Marriage was, and will never be permanent. If one goes tired of his/her partner, then they are free to divorced. Why do people get into marriage with the thought that it's something that they have to live with forever? One doesn't get employed with the thought of working for them for life..nor does one buy clothes with the thought of using them till the end. Marriage is so replaceable and there is no restrictions to how many times a person wants to keep changing their partner. |
| Question: Do you smoke weed in the house when your kids are home and awake? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 11:40 AM PDT So my husband and I can't come to an agreement because apparently it's imppssible.....I tell him idc of he smokes his occasional weed but I'd rather him do it when the kids asleep so he can go outside and do it. I've caught him plenty of times doing it "secretly" so I don't find out upstairs in the extra room we have while the kids are still awake and asking for him. I find it annoying & hurtful that he can't respect the ONE thing I ask of him to do. |
| Question: Have you had big fights w/your spouse..how do you feel about it? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 10:54 AM PDT In first 2 years of my marraige, my husband and I fought so much. I would say my husband ususally did the wrong thing and I was the one that was louder. Now we both are getting along but there are times I feel like I wish we never broke each other's respect. I have let go but once in a while I remember things & it bothers me. Do all marriages have these moments like you don't want to think about? It bothers you a lot when it comes to your mind? |
| Posted: 08 Apr 2015 10:50 AM PDT Mind you, I said amoral not immoral. Immoral is doing something that you know is wrong. Amoral is doing something and not caring if it is right or wrong. Moral is doing only the things you know are the "right thing to do" because you have a moral duty so you can earn your righteous path in Heaven so you can be granted "eternal life". If you found out that your husband could care less if he was right or wrong, and instead that he only cares about what makes objective sense (regardless of what the Bible, Scripture, or your church has to say), then would this lead to divorce since you can't respect a man who doesn't value/believe the things you do? (Even though you married him because you get along on many other fronts, and this just happens to be the ONE way you two differ, and it only matters because you want him to "atone" for his mistake and he refuses to acknowledge it was a mistake) |
| Posted: 08 Apr 2015 10:42 AM PDT Recently found out husband has been forging my name on taxes and tax extensions for last several years. Every time I would ask he would say I have it under control and got a extension. Luckily I was home at the right time when the tax packet came in mail and I opened it and saw he has forged my signature, so of course I called accountant and had her fax several years over and yep he forged every one of them. When I talk to his family about it they say husbands with buisness do that all the time and I would be ridiculous if I would stay mad at him. What???!!!! So they see nothing wrong with it~ would you??? |
| Question: What use is a husband to his wife if she earns a substantially higher salary than he? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 09:25 AM PDT considering financial security is the only reason any wife has a husband in the first place? if he earns far less than she does, he contributes far less to the household finances, and she is effectively supporting him. doesn't she view him as a drag on her career holding her back? won't she kick his dead weight to the curb at her first opportunity? |
| Question: Am I overreacting about husband looking at pictures of other girls? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 08:54 AM PDT A year into marriage I found out my husband regularly watches porn videos. I explained to him that I was heartbroken and was hurt he would want to look at other girls in that way. He assured me he did not need or want to, it was something done out of habit from his bachelor days. He promised to "never look at other girls again". A couple months later I found out he had an app on his phone that contained slideshows of half naked girls in seductive poses amongst news articles. I felt betrayed that he lied to me and again heartbroken about his need to look at other girls. He insists I am overreacting and that this situation is completly different. To me, its the same issue, he just switched from video to pictures. Am I overreacting or am I justified in feeling like he lied and will not stop? |
| Question: I need help and understanding concerning my wife? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 08:06 AM PDT Im in the process of trying to reconcile with my wife after almost 2 years of separation. For the past couple of months, we been in close contact.when im not working or shes not working. We spend time with the kids and sometimes we have sex 3 or 4 times throughout the day. But sometimes thing's become confusing to me, so im the type of person that ask questions when im not understanding. I asked her if she feels we're making progress. She said she can't answer that, because it won't help me. That its won't be the same if she has to tell me. A friend of mines told me that she only holding on to me while she's exploring her options. That he heard she's still dating and talking to other men, only this time she's not making it obvious to me like she use too. So I asked her do she have any intentions on getting back together. She said yes, she do have intentions, but not right now. That we have alot to work on. Now today she tells me that we're talking and texting to much. She dont want to grow annoyed with me. But im feeling she just want less contact so she can see other men, or it bothers them that we are becoming so close again. I asked my friend again, she tells me she's doing a push and pull to keep me hanging on. When a counselor tells me im reading to deep into it. Do y'all think im reading to deep into it. That's she's sincere about reconciliation. I do love her and pay child support faithfully. And cover bills when shes short. Could she just be using me for that. |
| Question: Why are men always happen that the divorce that they filed is finalized? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 07:47 AM PDT |
| Question: Divorce or give another chance? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 07:41 AM PDT Husband and I have been married for almost 9 years with 4 kids, he moved out 6 months ago cause things have been really bad here. I have been stay at home mom for 9 years.He has lied about absolutely everything in our marriage from financially to talking to exes( have messages from them talking about hooking up when I was 8 months pregnant), forging my name on taxes and extensions for several years, and gambeling and winning lots money and never telling me, and so much more. We have had many talks recently, and he would tell me I know everything now, well i confronted him couple days ago cause I found out more stuff and all he said is I'm telling you now. So later that night he sent me email explaining more stuff he has hidden from me. I told him it hurts me so bad cause I feel like he has absolutely no respect for me and hasn't for our whole marriage and I feel like I am worth nothing now. All he sayes is he is sorry~ no hug no kiss, no remorse what so ever, he will just leave or sneak out when I am busy with kids. And now his family hates me because he has told his mom everything in our marriage but not his own wife his mom thinks this is all my fault even after he told them the things he has done. I havebeen yelled at by his mom saying everything is my fault. He has threatened me so many times with taking kids away and house, and saying I had nothing before and will have nothing again. I just don't know what to do? |
| Question: Husband talking during sex about helping his sister? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 07:38 AM PDT |
| Question: What do you do when your husband passes gas all night in his sleep? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 07:33 AM PDT I have been married 6 months and just over a month ago my husband started passing gas in his sleep. Sometimes I wake him and others I leave the room for the night. His response is that we are married I should love him enough to move pass the smell in other words accept it. The smell is awful-- like someone went to the bathroom on themselves. I'm disgusted by it and furthermore I feel he should be more considerate of my feelings about this. If he feels like his stomach is upset sleep in another room for the night don't expect me to sleep there as if nothing is wrong out of love and loyalty. Am I wrong?? What do I do? |
| Question: Does anyone stay close to their ex's family? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 07:26 AM PDT Have you ever remained very close with your ex's family after a break up or divorce? What about your ex themself? I'm divorced and I still talk to his mom daily. I talk to his sister on a regular basis as well. I see my ex often b/c he visits our daughter at my place. It seems like this is odd for most... |
| Question: Should I change my name when I get married? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 07:03 AM PDT |
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| Question: Can my husband divorce me? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 06:56 AM PDT What if i dont want to sign the divorce papers can he still get the divorce even without my signature |
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| Posted: 08 Apr 2015 05:58 AM PDT Is that why married women look so evil half the time? well said Deino, marriage is alot of work and not everyone's cup of tea. |
| Question: Dating/marriage/kids for poor people? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 04:43 AM PDT The truth is people with more money have less kids thats a fact. I dont know about marriage, but it would seem to me if you have money and dont need support why get married?? I mean there could be poor people who dont want/need support, but that tends to be a big factor in marriages and sometimes having kids too. Also would say gender plays a part more women get married regardless of income than men. So why do it unless you are poor? I guess its true a lot of poor ghetto people popout a lot of kids without getting married ever so maybe I am wrong, but it seems to me those are the people who should be getting married and stop poping out kids with 10 different fathers cause it doesnt help them much, so maybe I shouldnt include dumb people like that in my reasoning. |
| Question: How do I make my wife feel bad for always making me feel bad? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 03:49 AM PDT Im not a tit for tat person, but I've been married for two years to an emotional bully. My wife's mood swings have turned me into a very unhappy soul. She only is happy when we have money, but as soon as our budget tightens or its that time of the month, she treats me like trash! She can talk to me any type of way in front of the kids, but if I ever stand up to her or give her the silent treatment, it's world war Z and some! She's also physically assaulted me once all because I told her I was tired of how she treats me! So if I say something, it's a problem and if I don't say something, she ignores me worse which drives me nuts! She has two kids from a previous situation and we have a soon to be one year old of our own. If I threaten divorce, she'll just go over board in the moment and start packing my stuff and telling me to get out in an expletive laced tirade. She now was not wearing her wedding band or engagement ring. Do you think she's cheating on me? She works from home and I can't find anything in phone calls, but her mom has cheated on her dad and stepdad, and her two sisters have cheated on their husbands. I really thought she was different! We went to 3 different counsellors before we got married because I wanted to really make sure this was right. There's gotta be a way I can really make her feel like how I've felt these past few years because I'm miserable and stressed. I only care about my son right now & fear leaving because she'll bolt back to her home state. |
| Posted: 08 Apr 2015 03:37 AM PDT If couple get marry and the husband decide to have baby directly after marriage but the wife refuses because she wants to live a nice quiet moments after marriage and after a year have a baby . So do you encourage to have baby directly or wait ? |
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| Question: I cant get in 'the mood'? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 02:33 AM PDT I love my wife, she is my best friend but I cannot at all get in the mood with her in anyway because she has gained a shlT load of weight and I am just not attracted to it. She has given me 2 beautiful children and the last was born 6 months ago, However. she gained 20 kgs during the pregnancy and than another 20 kgs on top of that due to many things. Now she says shes gaining more weight because I don't have sex with her because the truth is I am not sexually attracted to her now that she is obese. What to do? I have been supportive to her on again off again diets, buying and paying for many things that end up collecting dust. I NEVER say anything negative and always encourage her. I love her and want to see her happy. she is a very emotional person and will be upset if I told her that she really needs to lose the weight. it will just drive her to food. |
| Question: My husband never call nor nor text because I promised to meet him but did not make it? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 02:15 AM PDT |
| Posted: 08 Apr 2015 01:41 AM PDT We are newly weds and in the time I have known him, I have literally witnessed him stress over NOTHING. I'm a worry wart. He says he just stresses differently than I do. In silence?? "It will work out" "It all comes out clean in the wash." " I guess we will just wait and see how and fix it later." It's driving me crazy. Woman/Men is it wrong that I want him to stress out with me.....at least once??? |
| Question: How do I get my husband interested in hanging out with me? Posted: 08 Apr 2015 01:15 AM PDT My husband and I have been together for 13 yrs, married 6. We met when I was 19 and him, 22. We have one bio kid and my child from a previous relationship when I was 15. My husband has raised him as his own and they love eachother. He's a pretty good dad. He works hard, makes good money and provides for us very well. I work full time as a clinician at a very busy trauma hospital full time and I make good money as well. So I pull my own weight. Our kids are teens now. He chooses to hangout and watch tv or play games with the kids instead of interacting with me. On my days off from work I am very productive; e.g. errands, grocery shopping, cooking, laundry, lawn work, landscaping, cleaning, Dr and vet appts...on his days off he zones in front of a tv. We spend no quality time together. He's even began isolating himself from his good friendships. He started an antidepressant, but it just makes him more lazy and now non existent sex. When we did have sex it was boring anyways. I don't want to give up. It could be a bump in the road we need to over come, however, I feel alone, isolated, not desired. I'm a very educated, self sufficient, good looking woman. I just don't know what to do?!? |
| Question: My husband impregnant another girl so what can i do? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 11:43 PM PDT |
| Question: I need to get out of this relationship!!!!!!!? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 11:07 PM PDT So I've been married to my husband Chris for a year now and things are in complete shambles!!! After I told him i was pregnant he was very upset because I was on the pill but then I stopped taking them. He yelled and broke our expensive glass table and threw a glass vase at me. I Ran out of the house and had to drive from Raliegh N.C to Baltimore to get away from him. I told my mother about what happened and she said maybe I deserved it and it wouldn't have happened if I just obeyed him. Eventually my sister spilled the beans on where I was because I didn't tell her about what happened earlier. As soon as we were alone he beat me up so bad that I had to stay in the hospital!!!! Help!!! Im really scared and My intentions weren't bad. Im so scared !!!! |
| Posted: 07 Apr 2015 10:59 PM PDT We live in condo and have neighbors to the sides and on top and think it's u reasonable since they might work. Kids are on vacation so they're staying up late, mom's idea. I feel she is out of line by reinforcing bad habits by telling me I should not tell her anything, then she attacks me for staying up late myself. |
| Question: Likely hood of getting married in this generation? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 10:39 PM PDT Some say that couples are marrying less and less these years. I'm just wondering what you guys think. Do you think the majority of couples will eventually get married? Or that its a tradition being phased out? do guys ever get inspired to marry the woman they love, or do they have to be prompted - just do it to make her happy? |
| Posted: 07 Apr 2015 10:31 PM PDT I come from a very orthodox society very indian and respecting traditional values. I was in a relationship with a guy a year ago who cheated me and abused me both mentally and physically all throughout saying he loved me and would do anything for me despite being married with two kids. I got to know this only after I demanded we get married. I cut ties with this evil person To cut the story short, my parents and family asked me to move on and proposed another guy for marriage. The new guy was very loving and i eventually settled down and the marriage was to be held this year. He anyway wanted my passwords to fb and my mails. I had deleted my past completely and am living a pure life now. He found a hint of this it caused a big fight and I told him everything that happened. He cliams that he cannot believe me hereafter and that i do not love him because I loved another man. He also says that if thatguy is murdered he will accept me. I love my fiancee and i there is no other man in my life other than him. He simply doesnt trust me and believe that I love him. Worst since he is miles away i am unable to prove my love and honesty to him. I love him alot and so does he. He just seems to be getting mood swings and keeps fighting saying if I didnt have such a terrible past and that no respectable girl will do such a thing. Its my mistake of sleeping with a guy before my marriage. What can I do to make him trust me. I want him as my husband till I die.Please help |
| Question: I caught my husband Kissing another woman what do I do? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 10:06 PM PDT |
| Posted: 07 Apr 2015 09:39 PM PDT My parents left me abandoned after I gave birth to my son. They insulted my husband and told everyone that I threw them out of my house. Truth is they themselves rebooked their flights and left me next day. Now, my sister messages me saying that I don't have guys to speak up against my husband. Truth is im scared of my husband, he is short tempered but loves me a lot and our baby. If I want to convey anything to him, I see his mood and convey if he is right or wrong. But ever since my sister messaged me, I feel like I really don't have guts to speak up against him as he will shout loudly if I speak that doesn't convince him. I'm a quite person and doesn't like arguments. I always convey him but looking at the environment. But after reading her message, I feel so hurt that everybody thinks my being abused by my husband. What should I do? I feel distant from my husband. I feel like yeah he is abusing me and I don't have guts to speak up against him. |
| Question: Isn't marriage all about sex? Posted: 07 Apr 2015 09:24 PM PDT I mean what exactly is the purpose of it? If it wasn't for getting regular sex and maybe raising a family, marriage wouldn't mean a thing. |
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