Okay so there's this kid who has been stalking me since 3rd grade. It's kind of getting out of hand now because he joined the sports team just to get closer to me because we share a bus. How do I tell him to back off? I have yelled at him like a thousand times yet he still thinks he's my friend and asks for stuff and talks about me to his friends. It's getting scary!!! How do I get rid of him?!?!

Dude literally cursed his friend out for not wanting to get up to go to the gym (I think someone was going to pick him up), while I was on the phone listening...I told him to stop cursing and the guy didn't get up so he just screamed at him and cursed him out! What the hell?

So I have 1 super close friend whom I tell EVERYTHING. Right now she is ignoring me and is annoyed when I confront her. She says she wants to spend time with my popular friend, and the thing is they are both hanging out with the popular people Wednesday. I want to be her friend, both of their friends because they're both ignoring me, and idk what to do. I really need someone right now. I am also in love with her and I can't live without her.

Hi, so I have absolutely no friends. I'm not exaggerating either. I'm a 17 almost 18 year old girl. I had a lot of friends when I was in 8th grade, but then I became ill and had to be home schooled. The people that I was friends with just forgot about me. I tried reaching out to them and tried hanging out with them again but they didn't want to anymore so I ended up just focusing on recovering and school work and having no friends hasn't really bothered me until now. I realize how alone I really am. The town I live in doesn't have much to do and I have no idea how to make friends or where to meet new people. Any advice? I'm miserable. Actually "Jim" I'm hardly ever on the computer but thanks for your input.

I honestly can't take it anymore. I don't know why but recently she's been acting like a big know it all. Today, we got our grades back for a really hard math test -- my friend got a 3.5 (we use number grades and is the highest grade is 5) and I told her that she did pretty good. My know it all friend looked at me like I was crazy and said that a 3.5 was the worst grade to get and kept on arguing with me even though our math teacher did say that 3.5 wasnt a bad grade. Whenever I make a joke or say something stupid she makes a face. Today, she was like 'your skin is really dry' and I know that, but I felt embarrassed so I said it was because I was sick and she said 'being sick and having dry skin has no correlation'. Couldn't she tell I was embarrassed?! I can't stand her anymore I might just blow up if she continues this. What should I do?

In the last academic year (I m an 18 year old college student) my social life has changed a lot. Between my 16th and 17th birthday I became part of a new and relatively large friendship group, who I saw on a regular basis. However, in the last 8 months I have become increasingly isolated. The once large friendship group has split into smaller cliques and groups and in some cases relationships (it was a boy/girl mixed group). Since this has happened I feel as though I have been left behind; I am not treated as part of any of the smaller cliques and I have not got a girlfriend or truly close friend to whom I can express my depressed and anxious feelings. To make things more complicated, I also began to love one of the female members of the group and since she has found out, which I imagine she was very disappointed to have discovered, things have been very awkward and different. I constantly feel trapped, left out and victimised, yet I have never truly done anything to hurt or upset anybody. I just want to be accepted by the people I thought were my friends...

I work with a guy who is 29 and engaged and I am 25 and single. We work at a law firm and during breaks, he will come by my office to chat about work stress or everyday life. He has told me several times that he gravitates towards me as a person and likes to vent to me. He is a very friendly and talkative guy with everyone. I've never worried about anything really until I noticed that he will get extremely close if we are working on something alone where I will have to move over because he is in my bubble. If I am working on my computer, he will sometimes try to lean over me and work on my computer. Last week, he jokingly asked me if I thought other people thought we had something romantic going on since everyone thinks we get along so well. I don't think he has bad intentions, as I do think he is a great person. I think maybe he just doesn't have a filter or personal boundaries at times. We were going to lunch last Monday as a group and the other two coworkers canceled due to a work meeting. I suggested getting another coworker to come along as I didn't want to go alone with him as that wouldn't be appropriate in my opinion and he said, "what? Would just you and I going make you uncomfortable?" Every once in a while he will text me or call me after work to share something funny that happened in regards to work or a news story he saw. I am always polite and professional when I interact with him. Do I need to back away or is our platonic work friendship okay?

It happened a few months ago and I was pretty upset. They know that I knew they were talking trash about me. I still talk to my best friend because she sincerely apologized, however it is awkward between my cousin and I. But it is impossible to ignore my cousin because she is part of the family. What should I do because my cousin hates me now!?!?

So people always say I look like I belong in the Cullen family from twilight but is that good or bad? Thanks xoxo

Is catfishing the same as identity theft and is against the law?? I'm the type of person who cannot lie, she is lying to a good friend of mine. we are both 15 by the way and freshmans. She has many profiles on Facebook, IG, ect. She's nice and funny I just feel it's unfair to the people she is pretending to be. I was angry one time that she pretended to be a childhood friend I had. She is out of control. What do I do?

So my friend whom I met online. Is deep in depression he lives in Tennessee and I'm in PA. He is adopted and says that his parents hate him a work him like a mule on the farm. He says that his prom date left him for another guy after she said yes to him. He said today he was bullied to the point of tears because he was adopted. He says I'm the best thing that has ever happened to him. And that he would have killed his self had he not met me. The thing is im trying so damn hard to make him happy but he constantly asked for pictures of me even after I tell him no. I felt like he was using me and talked to him abt it. He's in really deep depression and I'm trying but sending pictures was the cause of my depression and I told him that but he still asks. I don't know what do. SomStones he comes to me and says he might kill himself. And I always give him motivational talks but I'm some 400 miles away maybe. I can only do so much but he seems like he has no one. He thinks his parents thing he's a mistake. I tred to assure him otherwise and suggested he talk to them. As he says they didn't care. He needs help but I can't do it all. What am I su to do. I don't want his to end his life. Someone please help me

Little about me so you can help me, height 4'10, 30 yrs old, body type normal, blac hair,brown eyes, skin color brown. My problem is this everytime some1 sees me the first thing that comes out of that person mouth is this, why are you so short? Why are you so skinny do you starve your self? Why you hair is so thin? Please tell me how can I handle this kina of situation? I mean I know I'm short and not perfect but why would ppl keep say these negative things to me? I've never say anything back, couple of months ago I met my mom's friend and shes all like your ugly, my mom got mad and begged my mom not to say anything back but that made me lose my appetite and couldnt sleep for 2days?

I've been talking to this guy for almost a month and things were going well. We both live in the same city and we've snapchatted and everything so I know he's real, I just haven't met him in person. But, when we first started talking he was so sweet and different and he said he wanted a relationship with me but I kind of kept pushing it away by saying "I do want a relationship but let's just wait a little longer" and he agreed. But, now I just don't understand what happened. It's been like 3 weeks later and it's noticeable that he's distancing himself from me. Like last Thursday he texted me saying "hey stranger" because we didn't talk for like 2 days and I said hey and he said "you didn't text me -.-" and I said "oh I'm sorry I didn't know you wanted me to" and he was like " -.- -.- -.- ". And he used to reply fast at first but now he's replying literally like an hour or two hours later. Idk what I did and idk why he's acting like this all of a sudden. He's saying he doesn't want a relationship now but he wanted one literally 3 weeks ago. So what happened? Why is he distancing himself? He said he's going through problems but if he's going through problems then he wouldn't be on Instagram and snapchat all the time and he wouldn't be ignoring me.. What's going on? Please help..

At school the people there do NOT shut the freak up! They talk non-stop dude like in almost all my classes. They goof off and could care less about the grades that they get. This one boy that sits like across from me always gets sent out of class from arguing with the teacher and today I told him to shut the eff up because I was trying my hardest to ignore him but he wouldn't stop talking so I sorta snapped at him and then the teacher sent him outside and took my side. Also there's always some idiot asking dumb questions and always talking/asking about my hair and saying racist things about black ppl. This is an everyday thing and I've been having an attitude because of it and I can't keep cool no more. I try to answer nicely but when I snap or curse they say im being mean? My friend sometimes agree with the ignorant things they say or when I get mad she says im going over the top but she has no idea how annoying it is for some random person to ask me everyday if I have extensions or not. She doesn't see how annoying it is to get asked the same questions everyday and when I talk about how it gets me mad she just keeps quiet and tries to change the subject. How can I keep cool?

I'm 14 and a girl. Me and my two friends have been besties for a while. We would always go to the movies and to the mall. But my mom would always have to give rides. After a while, instead of being sneaky with it they would right-out say "can your mom give us a ride?". After that I said we would have to equally give out rides because I felt like they were starting to use me. After that my two friends started hanging out without me. Then they befriended some other girl whom I dislike and she pretty much took my place and now the three of them do stuff together. I have other friends to talk to so yeah it hurt, but no biggie. Then they started tagging me in social media pics of them hanging out. And would snapchat me rubbing it in. It hurt me bad. They still talk to me a little in school so idk why they think they can act like this. They did it today and I've had ENOUGH. I want to give em a piece of my mind. What should I say over text that makes them feel bad about doing this to me? I don't want to hang out with them anymore, I just want them to know that they lost me as a friend and they are going to regret being so cruel. HELP

So me and my friend are in a fight right now, but it is a more serious one as in I don't think I want to be friends again. This isn't some high school drama, we have been best friends for 9 years and both in college and the fight isn't over something stupid. Anyways, we have a class together and have all the same friends pretty much. I can deal with having the same friends, but what do I do about the class? I can't move and she sits right next to me at the table with our friends. We've done all the talking out we need to, I'm just the point that I don't want her in my life right now. Any tips or advice is appreciated. Thanks

I m 11 years old ( in year 7) and I am 5 foot 5 inches I hate being tall all my friends are around 5.3. Whenever I talk about being to tall people always say that j could be a model but I don t really want to be in the model industry. Does anyone have any advise to make me feel normal

I'm a guy and I'm 23 and my friend Tara is a girl and she's 23 too. On Easter yesterday I texted her happy Easter after church and she said you too darlin. Why did she call me that?

i am 15 in highschool and i have no close friends. i talk to some people at school but i have no social life. when i do interact with people, i never feel like i am being myself. all i think about is what their perception of me would be like and i am constantly uncomfortable (my mind always goes blank during conversations). but this is because i have a constant reminder that people are so much smarter and funnier and more interesting than i am and that i am so inadequate.. this bugs me so much and i feel like everyone who is around my age are moving along with life, they're hanging out with their amazing friends, having great conversations, and not spending their highschool years wasting away like i am. i just feel like i am too boring and unlikeable to have friends.

I was friends with someone in elementary school. We stopped being friends around middle school. I sent them a friend request on facebook; they didn't accept (I know they still used it.) We haven't seen each other since. They kinda ditched me. Its now senior year high school and we're gonna be at a reunion. How will this play out? :L

Yesterday me and my friend (let's call her Zoe) went to our other friends birthday party (let's call her Fran). Fran has a group of friends different to us so me and Zoe were determined to do well meeting them. The group are lovely, but I'm scared on how I acted When I'm scared I act very confident, which was what I did but then we went up this hill with even more people, and I got a panic attack and got really upset. Did I look like a weirdo? Please be honest x

This year, this girl who I used to be friends with ended up getting closer to me again and now she's my only girlfriend at school. But she just won't let me breathe! She's too clingy, and I can't blame her because her best friend moved out of town and her other friends are fakes, so she doesn't like being around them and she has no one else... but me! The other day she even mentioned that "it's sad we only see eachother at school" - but for me it's enough! I work everyday and I take weekends to go out with my other friend who I see once a week and do my papers and homeworks! This Saturday there is going to be a party and since my birthday is on Monday, I wanted to take advantage of the date and party hard - VIP and all that! I invited my best friends (who go to other school) to come with me, because even though we text everyday, I only get to see two of them like once a month at best (I see the other one more often because she's not really close with the other two and we usually go out partying on the weekend) and the girl from my school invited hers (the one who moved). Only, her friend is not going anyomore so she self-invited herself into my group and asked me to sleep over at her house! I already had plans with the other girls about sleeping over and stuff, but then she will be left alone and I don't want that! I'm scared she's going to feel left out... But I don't know what to do! This is getting out of hand, she's WAY too clingy! How do I tell her that?

Hi guys, So my friend's birthday is coming up (on the 16th) he's turning 21 and I'm 19 (i'm a girl btw) and i was wondering what can i do/say, he lives on the other side of the country so i can only talk to him over text or maybe call, so what should i say/do? Thanks in advance

Ok im going to start from the beginning. In the beginning of the year, I was extremely nice to everyone. I was super nice. However, people started taking advantage of me, and treated me badly. So, I decided to change. I wasn't so nice anymore. Then, people started saying "you have an attitude " "you're an a**whole" etc. & it's not my fault. people changed me. What do I do?

so me and my friends come from very different friend ''groups'' nobody would ever expect us to be friends.im an what they call ''emo anime freak'' and she is one of the what they call ''populars''.neither of us care about those things,we are/were friends.until she started dating this guy.she stopped hanging out with me,talking,and going to the library with me.everytime I talki to her about this she says it not true.BUT IT SO IS TRUST ME!when I talk to her and her boyfriend passes us shell just ignore me and walk or start talking with him.im so lost,i need help she was my only friends.im going throught rlly tough times and I need her.help

At the beginning of the year, we were pretty good friends. Now, she acts like talking to me is irrelevant. The only reason she comes to talk to me anymore is to talk behind someone else's back. I've had enough of that, and would rather not surround myself with people of that sort. Today, she told some people that she hates me and that I'm "fake", which I don't understand. I try my best to be genuine with everyone. Anyways, I'd really like to confront her about this, but in a polite manner. What should I say, or how should I go about in dealing with this? I'd rather not start a fight.

My friend is marrying a vietnamese man, and we need some ideas for a girls name that would sound best with nguyen it is pronouned "new-when" or some say "when" or "win"

Over the years I've lost many close friends all of which seems to be because of loss of interest (on their part). I can't seem to keep people interested in continue to be friends. It always begins with distance, but I can understand if they need their space. People that I used to text daily have since stopped and I can't figure out why. If they won't tell me I won't know. I am quiet and am scared if I annoy them all the time. But I just wish j could have one friend that wanted to be around me as much as I want to be around them it sucks. I'm nice, friendly and often ask how they are or how they're feeling? But...I don't know what's wrong with me. :(

Honestly, we don't talk very much, but we have known each other since elementary. I don't know how to become his friend let alone MORE than his friend.

When i walk on the street, i dont look at peoples faces. Out of the glimpse of my eye I thought I walked past someone i knew. I scared if it was really the person i knew, they will hate me. We are not friends so they wouldnt yell out my name when they see me, but it was a person who helped me a lot. I just think it was the person, but it could have been someone else. I didnt turn to look at the person because I dont like looking at people especially if they are some stranger.

We've known since around December that we are moving, but haven't been able to tell people. My dad is a preacher and didn't want to tell the church until the right time. Well, the church is going to know next Sunday, but most of my friends don't go to church. I need to find a way to tell all six of my friends without any of them feeling like I lied to them or making it too sad. Help me!

Hey guys I'm having a sleepover with my mates tommorow and need stuff to do

Here is my friend ,who used to live in India ,in my neighbourhood.He moved to Canada a few weeks ago and now he is in the US.Me and him are childhood friends ,we both grew up together from 14 years.He now says that" I will never return to India again ,I have wasted lot of my time ,being in that shitty place! I wish good luck to you for being there?" WTF!! is India really that bad?I remember we both had wonderful time in INDIA!!.What makes india so Shitty?I WANT TO KNOW.PLEASE ANSWER ME THIS PEOPLE!!!

My bestfriend started to ignore me instead of helping me through a hard time. I know she used to care but things had changed when a new friend came along. Tried to talk things out but she is in denial of this problem but I know she s aware of how much this situation is pushing me back even worse. I just miss the good old days... Is it worth it to continue hanging out trying to get her attention after the argument we just had?? I mean she was and still is like a sister to me :/

At school whenever I walk in the hallways Ive made eye contact with this one particular guy and he looks at me every time we walk past each other idk if Im just being paranoid lol and we have 2 classes together so I sometimes noticed him looking at me or at least someone near me and once we were put in a group together and 2 other people and we happened to sit beside each other and he asked me for paper and then later he asked me if I knew how to do the assignment and stuff

So this has me a bit surprised. My fwb started being insanely awkward today. We have been chatting all day which isn't uncommon and he is mentioning us getting together tonight. Well, he really shifted our conversation into quite the "lovey" one. He started off by making a comment about being the one to "pop my cherry" and I just made a brief comment back. Then he surprised me by straight up ASKING if he had been the one to do it. I said yeah and asked why he'd think otherwise (he really was my first). He said we hadn't really talked about it and said he was honored he was and sent a kiss face. I then noted that a lot of girls tend to rush things and end up regretting it and said that I was glad I chose him to be the first. He told me it meant a lot to him to hear me say that and that he wanted to know that it was right to me and I was ready. I said I had been ready awhile, but didn't want to be one of "those" girls who just gave it all away to the first guy to offer/want it. He asked how I felt about my choice and I said I had good judgment and had no regrets. He was he was happy too then. Then he said I had talent (sexually) and that it helped starting out with a well endowed and talented guy. I told him he was all the above and he thanked me, then we just kept talking. So does this mean he does or doesn't want something "official" (more than just fwb)? I'm a bit thrown off that our talk turned into something so mushy and that's why I wanted a little input from others. I wondered about the "helps to start out with a well endowed/talented guy" comment. Does that mean he doesn't plan to keep me around... or was he just fishing for compliments/an ego boost? We're been fwb over 2 years now. He also doesn't really like other guys being around me/messing with me. Also, yes we HAD mentioned the first time thing before. He knew up front I hadn't been with another guy sexually before him. So why would he randomly bring this up and need "validation"? There have been other things come up in talks and when we're together that makes me suspicious he has feelings that go deeper than just fwb too. I have been a bit mixed - sometimes I feel like he does, sometimes I second guess and feel like maybe he doesn't. Now I'm REALLY starting to think things... When I said my nice body was the one thing I had going for me attractiveness wise, he replied by saying I was just pretty all around.

so Ive been doing homeschooling for 2 years now but in September Im probably going to a new school cause I lost all my friends anyways how did you become friends with people? Whenever I go to a new school its so awkward since everyone has their group of friends and they all just stare at you and I had to eat alone at lunch once and Im going into gr 11

Lately it seems that everything I do something always happens. I have worked with a company for 6 years with no promotions or pay raise & all the praise goes towards people who dont do half of what I do. I have been promised things & its all lies. I have a hard time making friends & when I do they take advantage of me. I am just myself & yes at times I am sensitive but other times I just want to yell & cuss people out for doing what they do to me. It really hurts. I cant take much more & I just feel like being a ***** all together and saying screw everyone else. Especially this company who pretty much told me because Im not "celebrity" status I wasn't good enough when for 6 years I have brought the owner back from the dead. Trust me I have. I just don't know what ot do? I feel used. No one seems to care. I don't talk about people behind their backs. My boss once told me if Im going to be on tv I have to get my teeth fixed.

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so in gr 10 I had these 2 best friends and we would all hang out and text every single day so we were all pretty close anyways in gr 11 I left school to do homeschooling (which I regret doing) and I didnt even move houses or anything but after that their replies got shorter and I could feel them forgetting me.. now Im in gr 12 and to this day I still can't get over them after all the memories and yeah Ive lost alot of friends before them but its different for them because they were actually good friends which is hard to find and never talked **** about you behind your back like my other friends and I still cry almost everyday at how much I miss them and how lonely I feel, Ive tried talking to one of them 2 months ago and she did reply like a few times but ignored my last msg.. and Idk how can I get over them? There literally hasn't been a day where I dont think of them Its weird.

I don't get it, my best friend and I have been friends for a year and we were super close, inseparable, this year were still close, but she has changed drastically. She cares way more about boys, and to smoke and drink, I don't care because it's her life, but I don't do that. She found this new friend who is really big on drinking and smoking and she's changed because of her. We keep in touch kinda, but its awkward now. Like its almost as if she is forced to talk to me. Like she never ever texts me anymore, it always is me texting her but sometimes I don't want to text her waiting to see if she texts me and she doesn't. She says she will and doesn't. We say hi I'm school but like it doesn't seem meaningful. Like last year we would joke. Laugh, smile,hang out all the time. I get friends change and friendships and she says she loves me and cares about me but I don't know anymore. I've been trying to distance myself even though its very hard because I really care about her, but when I'm having fun laughing and joking with other people I always see her staring at me, or shell talk to someone and look at me too. Well say hi and text sometimes but it feels so different and I'm so hurt. We used to be super duper close like we kissed as a dare just a peck, were "wives" always hugging, kisses on the cheek, I still get them but when were hanging out alone. Around other people its so different and never used to be. What changed??

I wanted to talk to my ex boyfriend about some stuff, (we are still friends and help eachother out when needed) and i asked him if we could talk, and he said yes, and he asked me what was wrong and what I wanted to talk about. so then i explained what it was (some family issues back home), and he never replied...so do i assume he doesn't want to talk about it with me or he doesn't want to be friends anymore or is he mad at me?? I texted him again a few days later, asking why he didn't reply and he said "i just don't know what to say" Is this just code for he doesn't want to help me or be my friend anymore?

I was texting my best friend and she said I should hang out with her boyfriend since she's in England at the moment. I get along with him quite well and I like him. So I texted him and he said okay - but asked questions like where would we go and could he bring one of his friends who I am also friends with. The next day he cancelled and my best friend told me I should ask him again but I didn't. I was getting a weird feeling so I did something bad. I looked at their messages. I know its wrong but I fould out he found me annoying and only agreed cos my best friend told him to. He doesn't like me and my best friend didn't disagree with him in their texts and she often turns me down if I ask if she wants to do something. They're my only friends and I like them but I often feel ignored and finding out they dont like me is the worst thing ever as I've often struggled to make friends. What should I do? I'm also wondering do I confront my friend about it? And if so how do I do so without letting them know I've read their texts?

my friend on multiple subjects always says he is going to do something then does the complete opposite! he was preaching to me that he stopped smoking and has already been clean for 4 days then asks if he can smoke with me. then preaches how he wont have any more pipes in his room only in his garage and I see he brought his pipe out his garage into his room. I told him to stop telling me and wasting my time that he said he's going to do all this stuff then doesn't do it. he said the "situations changed" and "things change that's his excuse. it's so annoying it's like a lie and just stupid . what can I say to him so he realizes and stops?

So I was recently in an extremely toxic friendship, and I decided to PEACEFULLY end it. I guess it wasn't so peaceful because the friend took it to extreme measures and turned all my friends against me. The friend victimizing herself in this situation and nobody believes me. The sad thing is she's really popular and the teachers' favorite student, so she can practically do anything to ruin my life at school. She loves drama and is willing to ruin my relationship with my teachers. I've talked about this to my parents and they want me to stay friends with her because we're moving to her neighborhood next year. The last thing I want is for my parents to have any trouble with the people in the neighborhood or have a bad reputation because of me, but I also want to stay away from the friend at all costs. Honestly, I only have two friends now because of this. One of them is best friends with the toxic friend, and the other is suffering the same thing as me. I just want to focus on my studies and have a drama-free life. Unfortunately that's quite difficult with her around. What should I do? Edit: I would love to switch schools, but it would be difficult to get used to a new one. I am a very shy and quiet person so it is also hard to make new friends.

So my best friend went to a catholic school this year instead of continuing to be in the same school as me. She was never cocky, and we would agree on the same things. In the first few months it wasn't noticeable but now, 4-6 months later, I've noticed she has changed. She thinks she's gorgeous, which she's not ugly, but she acts like she is prettier than everyone. She thinks all boys like her, and when the boy she liked didn't really like her like that, and liked some other girl better (who didn't do anything to her, she is actually friends with her) she was like "but i don't understanddddd, why doesn't he like me, me and (this other girl which she is good friends with), are the prettiest girls in the school!" Then, we were in the car with her mom, and she's like "mom, omg do you know Jason thinks i'm pretty?". Those are just some examples. Why do you think she has changed so much? Do you think it's because she has to be friends with certain people at the new school and now acts like they do? Thank you! <3 Also, her instagram is filled with conceited comments, it's so annoying!! OMG, we did tennis together, and one day she tells me, I think we should stop it. I'm like "Ok, sure idc". Three weeks later it was time to tell the instructor that we were going to stop doing lessons, and I said to the instructor, I don't think we will be seeing you next week because we are going to stop it, and we might start it again in a few months" and I don't remember exactly but I told my friend "right? And she was like "ummm I guess, you wanted to stop it so..." I looked at her like WTF ARE YOU SAYING lmao, it's ridiculous. She blamed it on me so the instructor could think I was the reason we were stopping.

Seriously, it's only freshman year and everyone I know (excluding 3 close friends of mine) has become so insensitive and hurtful. Like wtf?

I'm 14 and a girl. Me and my two friends have been besties for a while. We would always go to the movies and to the mall. But my mom would always have to give rides. After a while, instead of being sneaky with it they would right-out say "can your mom give us a ride?". After that I said we would have to equally give out rides because I felt like they were starting to use me. After that my two friends started hanging out without me. Then they befriended some other girl whom I dislike and she pretty much took my place and now the three of them do stuff together. I have other friends to talk to so yeah it hurt, but no biggie. Then they started tagging me in social media pics of them hanging out. And would snapchat me rubbing it in. It hurt me bad. They still talk to me a little in school so idk why they think they can act like this. They did it today and I've had ENOUGH. I want to give em a piece of my mind. What should I say over text that makes them feel bad about doing this to me? I don't want to hang out with them anymore, I just want them to know that they lost me as a friend and they are going to regret being so cruel. HELP

This year I switched schools, and the people at my old school started blocking me on Instagram for no reason. They used to like all of my photos and we were friends at my old school. Out of nowhere in the middle of this year people started blocking me. Someone blocked me, but than they made a new account and followed me. I am confused nobody from my old school blocked me when I was there. I also asked some of my friends at my old school if people were talking about me, but nobody is! I tried to ask some of these people why they blocked me, but they ignored me. Maybe they are mad at me for deciding to switch schools at the end of summer?

I know people always say join a sports team, or club, or ask questions about people but when you re kids it s harder to make friends than it is with adults. How do you get people to like you or invite you over? I m going to be a freshman at a new school and I really want to have lots of friends

I wanted to be friends w/ this girl for months now and I was too scared to talk to talk to her. I finally did it about a month ago and ever since then I never talked to her. I want to be friends with her really bad though ( we only rid the bus together but we can't sit by each other) today she gave me this weird look. What should I do?

So today, I was with two of my friends working out at the gym and we decided to get rest for a while near some restaurant that was right next to it. While one of them was ordering something to eat, the second friend and I decided to get some chairs for us. I had chosen one side while he chose another. A simple argument made me comply with his wishes and just sit where he had chosen. My first friend, who had been ordering his food, then comes and sits where I had originally had chosen, and asked us to come and move. My second friend agrees in an instant, and I am left pretty upset. I decide to say I'll just sit where I am already sitting, since its right next to where they are. Its really not even a foot away. Now, before judging, what was going through my mind was that that wasn't fair. I had tried to make my argument for sitting at that same position, and my friend just went against any reason I gave him. But when my second friend sat there, my other friend just got up and sat with him no questions asked. I felt like out of the entire group I am always the one who is looked down upon and expected to follow blindly like if I was some puppy that needed them. I decided I shouldn't be. Well, both of them got pretty mad. Said I was being selfish and that I was just filled with pride, and that I had a twisted way of wanting to be a man. What do you think? Was it prideful? Cause I'm confused.

Im a teenager but I don't text a lot, I only ever text about two people because I don't have many friends and I really just don't like to. Recently my friend has been texting me a lot and sometimes I'm just not in the mood to text back, I feel as if I'm being really rude when I do this. She just texted me but I'm trying to study tonight and I really don't need any distractions. Idk why I'm making a big fuss out of this im just not used to it I suppose

So the age of consent in my state is 16. Does that mean this is ok or is that just for sex? He's like in his 40s and has 5 kids. I tried to tell her that no one that age should be interested in girls our age but she's being really dumb. They've been sleeping together A LOT. He says a lot of nice things to her but I think he's full of it. He also threatened me when i made a comment about it being inappropriate. He said that he'd "fail me in every way possible both in his class and in my life in general" whatever that means???? anyway thanks muches peeps Nevermind. thank you for your advice everyone! He made me an offer I can't refuse and I'm tagging along with them. We're joining the mormon faith so we can all be married and he's taking us to DIsneyland next week! Totes awsomesauce!

I'm a lesbian trying to be straight, I had one relationship with a girl when I was in high school, then we broke up. I met a really nice girl and we become friends (((she doesn't know that I'm lesbian because I kept that secret to myself and she's in a relationship with a really good guy)))) and we were so close like almost everyday hangout, telling our problems and secrets to each other. And after a while, I discover that I fall in love with her and I hated it that. I tried to not talk to her or see her but we speak almost everyday for hours. And I think she was know that I have some feelings for her but she didn't say anything to me. Anyway, something happened so I forced myself to go and see her and tell her that I love her and we have to stop talking to each other because it's hopeless case for me. Her reaction at first was a little bit shy and wants me to keep our friendship because I really mean to her a lot. But I think (not sure) inside her she was disappointed and disgusting but she didn't show me that maybe because she dosn't want to hurt me. and I told her we should keep distance from each other. Now we don't see each other and we have mutual friends so we act on social network like nothing happened. and we say hi from time to time. AND NOW I FEEL I DID THE WORST THING IN MY LIFE THAT I TOLD HER AND SO REGRET IT THAT SHE KNOWS. please I need to show her that I don't love her anymore even if I still do. What should I do?

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(Both girls) okay so two days ago i was at my best friends house and we were fooling around and she kissed me on the cheek so i kissed her on hers also. later on i kissed her on her cheek again but she moved her head up and we kissed (very quickly) it happened twice more and then she wouldnt stop staring at my lips so i crashed them together and we started making out, hard. it was getting really heated and we both ended up having an orgasm after some intense touching and what not. im just confused on what she wants. she really likes this guy but she also likes women. we have kissed in the past but this was different. it got really heated and i just want to know if it would be a good idea if i confess that i have feelings for her or if thats a stupid idea since we are best friends.

I wanted to talk to my ex boyfriend about some stuff, (we are still friends and help eachother out when needed) and i asked him if we could talk, and he said yes, and he asked me what was wrong and what I wanted to talk about. so then i explained what it was (some family issues back home), and he never replied...so do i assume he doesn't want to talk about it with me or he doesn't want to be friends anymore or is he mad at me?? I texted him again a few days later, asking why he didn't reply and he said "i just don't know what to say" Is this just code for he doesn't want to help me or be my friend anymore?

Hey. So my friend and I have been friends for years but of course she's in the "otaku" phase. Not that I don't like anime and Japan and stuff but I actually appreciate it's culture and I don't say kawaii in all my sentences and do the peace sign all the time. My friend constantly speaks in Japanese and writes in it and expects me to know what it means. SHE GOT IT OFF GOOGLE TRANSLATE AND WROTE IT DOWN ON A PIECE OF PAPER THAT SHE KEEPS IN HER FOLDER 0-0 I mean she's a great friend and stuff but this really gets on my nerves she listens to Japanese music and sings them a school. People think it's really funny and cute but I find it annoying. She even sent us Christmas cards in Japanese. SHES NOT EVEN ASAIN! Now please DONT call me a bad friend im Just tired of this.

It's probably not a depression, because I'm not thinking about suicide or self harm or anything like that. It's just...it's my first year of high school and I'll be very lucky if I'm gonna pass it, tho I always used to be an A+ student. I'm an open person, I enjoy meeting new people but recently I started to hate everyone...I mean, not hate. I just can't handle them. Especially everyone in my school. Except my best friend. I really love her but I don't feel like I can talk to her about my problems, even tho we're pretty close and know each other for about 12 years. And my family...I can't talk to them either. I didn't see my father since I was four, I love my mom but...she's not that kind of person I could talk to. I have three sisters but they're all 9+ years older then me and..Idk. We're talking and seeing each other a lot, but we're I'm still not close enough to any of them. And there's my half brother. I saw him like twice in my life. He's 29 (I'm 16) and..he seems like a really, really nice guy and I really want to meet him again, cause he was really trying to connect with me when I was younger. But I didn't really want to, cause I was kinda scared. Now I want to have an older brother sooo bad..but I don't know how to start talking to him again? However. Everything sucks. I mean, I suck. I'll probably fail school, everything I do is listening to music, playing guitar and..reading. Those Are the only things I still enjoy. What should I do?:(