Family: Question: Okay so this whole thing is a pretty big mess, and I'm trying to figure it out, please help? |
- Question: Okay so this whole thing is a pretty big mess, and I'm trying to figure it out, please help?
- Question: Did you ever laugh in a Funeral?
- Question: My mother has a weird habit. I Don't know if I should keep ignoring it.?
- Question: How to add my father and mother s name on the house tiltle?
- Question: My brother wants to marry me...?
- Question: A married man kissed me?
- Question: I miss my little cousins so much?
- Question: Help! Caught masturbating!?
- Question: My cousin is piping pills what should I do?
- Question: How can I respectfully cut ties with my parents?
- Question: Father daughter dance song for dad who wasn't really around?
- Question: I just cursed in front of my dad.?
- Question: Welfare for single teen mom?
- Question: Why are all the questions in the "family section" really crazy?
- Question: I want to move my room to the basement but my parents said not yet?
- Question: MY DAD CHEATED ON MY MUM!? Do I forgive him..?
- Question: Should I tell my Mom I watch porn?
- Question: Is this normal?
- Question: How to deal with urinary incontinence?
- Question: Why does my sister do this?
- Question: I hate my hispanic mom becoming a lesbian to an armenian woman what should I do to convince her to go back with my hispanic dad?
- Question: I want to stand up to my aunt HELP?
- Question: I have a child with a mama's boy and idk what to do?
- Question: Woman looking at your husband flaunting booty?!?
- Question: How can I not miss my mum this week?
- Question: How can I deal with my mother?
- Question: I want to live with my dad what can I do to make that happen I'm 15 and nothing's wrong at my moms I just want to live with my dad!?
- Question: If two cousins have a bay will that baby parents ( the cousins ) be his or her half parent/cousin or full blooded parents?
- Question: How to make a year and 7 months go faster ?
- Question: What to do about my lazy *** cousin?
- Question: This is the year my Dad turns 70. He is a young 70, works out 3 days a week and is in good shape. What r some party/gift ideas my siblings and I can do for him?
- Question: Parents problem?
- Question: WHAT SHOULD I DO?
- Question: Is it wrong to be dating a 3rd cousin who is not blood related?
- Question: I feel like I am adopted in my family?
- Question: I hate driving with my parents. Does anyone else think this way?
- Question: I'm really scared, I think I'm in huge trouble! I need some good advice to help me get out this horrible mess!?
- Question: I want to tell my dad I want to move to my moms tonight how should I do it? I don't want him to fell upset?
- Question: Family dysfunction; spread to niece & nephew?
- Question: I need cusses fir my brother and sister?
- Question: What to do if your parents won't you left the house?
- Question: Who should I see in this type of case?
- Question: AAAAARGH! I HATE MY FAMILY?
- Question: My parents are separated but live together?
- Question: What do other women think of this?
- Question: My mum acts like a bitchy teenager around my dad😞?
- Question: My brother has a bad temper and he has been taking it out on me and 7 year old Hunter. What do I do. Should I just leave him and go home?
- Question: Brother,52, living with Mom, 78. Mom owns house. Brother is abusive. Must go. Police no help. How do I get him out?
- Question: Where should I start the process to - sons dad is difficult!?
- Question: My brother is a meth addict please help.?
- Question: Why did my mother act like this?
- Question: Ok so my cousin has this signed Rihanna poster. I "accidentally" spilt something on it. Wont come off. Help.?
- Question: How to prevent my parent's divorce?
- Question: What to buy for my family I'm in India now?
- Question: Is work more important than family?
- Question: Why do i argue with woman more then men?
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- Question: Am i being so sensitive?
- Question: How can a relationship with my mom ever be restored?
- Question: How do you handle this type of person?
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 01:02 PM PDT 8th grade, our teacher adored both of us and we are on top of the class. My boyfriend went to a juvenile hall on February 20. Nobody knows why except his dad, his brothers and my teacher. I've talked to my teacher, and she feels really bad for him.. but she's obviously not allowed to tell me what happened. One of his brothers lives in Texas and he's 17. He doesn't live with them anymore. Their dad is known to be "scary" but my boyfriend(let's call him Daniel) Daniel's bestfriends always talk to me and they say his dad isn't abusive. Daniel hurt his neck the week he went to juvie, could he go because his dad is abusive ? if so when would he be coming out ? or would he still live with his dad ? could he move far away ? his mom is out of the picture, he hasn't talked to her in 6 years.. and doesn't really know where she is anymore. would his foster family keep him at the same school or transfer him ..? how long would it take for a foster family to take him in ? |
| Question: Did you ever laugh in a Funeral? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:59 PM PDT i was in my dad best friend funeral and my dad saw me i was laughing when i was talking to someone on my mobile and he was really angry and says shame on you, i was like what happened, my dad says you should have be not here if you not even care which me make angry and then i just leave and go back home because i dont even know my dad best friend |
| Question: My mother has a weird habit. I Don't know if I should keep ignoring it.? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:56 PM PDT I noticed a few weeks ago that early in the morning when we're all sleeping that she goes out to the backyard and takes off her bath robe and slippers and walks around her garden naked. I would like to pretend not to know but our yard is far from private. It is really early in the morning though . |
| Question: How to add my father and mother s name on the house tiltle? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:53 PM PDT |
| Question: My brother wants to marry me...? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:52 PM PDT So,I'm a 14 year old girl with a 16 year old brother. My brother is really clingy and protective of me,he's been this way since he was 10. Hes always telling me we are going to get married and that no one is going to get in the way. In fact,no guy in my school talks to me because they're terrfied of my brother! I don't want to hurt his feelings,but he's getting annoying and won't take my hints.... Please answer this,this is serious! |
| Question: A married man kissed me? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:35 PM PDT I know it's so wrong and I shouldn't of let it get this far but I know this guy and he's a lot older then me he's my dads friend and for a year or so now we have a been getting quite close but I diddnt want it to be in that way. But the other week we were at our local pub we meaning my mam, dad and friends. We both had a bit to drink but we weren't that drunk I can remember everything. It was getting late and I wanted to go home it was around half one ish. My mam went home and it was just me my dad this guy and a few friends left, he said he would walk me home as my dad wanted to stay, my dad was really drunk! As we walked back he was getting quite close to me, we got to the front of his house and i was saying bye and he said your dad would kill me if he knew what I was thinking and then it just happened he kissed me, but stupid me kissed him back. A few days later I wanted to confront him it should never of happed but he's now saying he can't remember anything, I know he can remember it whys he saying he can't. If this doesn't make any sense I apologise just want to know why he's being such a dick |
| Question: I miss my little cousins so much? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:31 PM PDT I just got back from a huge family holiday, with all my cousins and aunts and uncles, and this time another distantly related family stayed with us too. They had two little boys, about ten years younger than me, and they were so cute and really good fun. I've always loved little kids, and now that my youngest cousins are nearing the teenage years, I started to play with the little boys. I really felt like they liked me, we played a lot and they said hi to me when I walked past, which is more than some of the other cousins got, and they were always looking at me when we were eating, and when I smiled at them they smiled back. And just before we left the younger one was looking at me like he wanted to say something, but then the taxi came so I got up and said goodbye and we took our luggage outside and I kept looking back because I thought a mere goodbye was inadequate and I looked back and he was there, so I smiled but couldn't do much else because my family was waiting. And now I'm home I miss them (him especially) so much, and we are booked in for another holiday with them, but in two years time and I just don't think I can wait that long. I guess what I'm asking is what can I do, because it'd be slightly creepy to ask my parents if we can meet up, and he's too young to have a mobile number and stuff like that, and I don't even know if he's missing me because little kids are confusing like that. If you read all of that, thanks so much. Any input is appreciated! |
| Question: Help! Caught masturbating!? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:20 PM PDT I was laying down with my legs up. I was simply pleasuring myself and i was COMPLETELY NAKED. My brother walks right into my room and sees EVERYTHING. Hes seen my boobs before which bothers me enough. Hes 16 now and I'm 13 still. Anyhow he saw my WHOLE VAGINA. LIKE ALL MY PARTS. And so I of course stopped and closed my legs while sitting up. I covered my breasts and just sort of stared at him before he finally left. This happened on Thursday and he's been laughing about it since. And he told his friends. He keeps commenting on my boobs and vagina. He used to call me things like "small t**" but now he makes fun of my nipples. He calls me "puffy nipple", "hairy pu**y" and he makes comments on my clit being "large' and he comments on my breast being large now. And I just want it to stop because now his friends call me "puffy nips" and its so annoying |
| Question: My cousin is piping pills what should I do? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:20 PM PDT Plz don't say tell her parents because then she will tell my mom what I do. She is taking painkillers I'm not sure what kind. Plz help me what should I do to stop her. |
| Question: How can I respectfully cut ties with my parents? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:18 PM PDT I'm 27 and moving out of my parents house in about a month and I've never been happier. I cannot stand my mother and father. Nothing I do ever good enough. I'm either out in public "too much" or "too little." Or I "don't talk enough" or "I'm too rude" or I'm "too" SOMETHING. They are always looking for something to complain about! I want to completely cut ties with them when I move out but would that be too rude?? |
| Question: Father daughter dance song for dad who wasn't really around? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:15 PM PDT My mom and dad are divorced and mom my has been remarried for quite some time now. My parents got divorced when I was 5 and up until I was 10 or 12 we would visit my dad who lived 4 hours away every other weekend but since then it's usually once or twice a year and I don't tak to him much so I need help with father daughter first dance wedding songs. I don't want them to be super common sentimental daddy songs because he wasn't really around. |
| Question: I just cursed in front of my dad.? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:13 PM PDT I didn't even mean to I was talking to him and I used the word @ss. It was an accident and I rarely curse. He sort of brushed it off but I don't want him thinking it is normal for me now |
| Question: Welfare for single teen mom? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:11 PM PDT I'm 18 years old and I have a 16 month old daughter and we live at her father's dad's house. It's not the greatest situation there. There's way too much fighting and arguing and I don't want my daughter around any of it. I have no idea how to even to begin to get on welfare I really need help and no one will help me. It would just be me and her leaving her dad wouldn't come with. I live in buffalo ny. If anyone could list some numbers I can call that would be great. I just want a happy life for me and my daughter. |
| Question: Why are all the questions in the "family section" really crazy? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:03 PM PDT |
| Question: I want to move my room to the basement but my parents said not yet? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:02 PM PDT I am 14 years old and my room is so small. I hate it. I have a basement that is finished and is nice and big with a escape door in case of fire or something like that. My parents said no because I need to get better grades. They said if I make a 90 or higher on my report card I can move my room to the basement but I made a 91 last marking period and they said no. What do I do to convince them? |
| Question: MY DAD CHEATED ON MY MUM!? Do I forgive him..? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:56 AM PDT Please just give me some advice.. I found out that my dad had cheated on my mum... it was about 30 years ago. My mum knows! And I guess she must have forgiven him since they're still together.. but they DON'T know that I know because My brother told me.. I just don't know how to feel about my dad now.. I have/had so much respect for him and now that I know this I just don't know how to feel.. my brother told me he done it several times(Different women)!! I know it was ages ago and maybe he has changed but I just want some advice because I don't know how to feel about him.. Thankyou! |
| Question: Should I tell my Mom I watch porn? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:54 AM PDT My Mom thinks I don't watch porn which I do. My Dad knows(they're divorced) but he doesn't care that I watch porn. My Mom on the other hand, is the total opposite. When we occasionally have discussions of sex, she sometimes say "It's good that you don't watch porn." My Aunt too thinks I don't but I do. Only my Dad and my oldest cousin know I watch porn(mainly because they watch it too). Should I tell my Mom because my mom is getting a false sense that I'm "A good kid who doesn't watch porn" but I do? |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:52 AM PDT I always hear people talk about family this and family that, but I don't get it. A lot of people I talk to believe you should always stick by someone just because you're family and you should try to help them no matter what. They also feel like your parents are entitled to it because they raised you. I don't feel any of that at all. I love my family, but I love them because they are good people and not because they're family. I wouldn't hesitate to cut it off with a family member that's negative in my life or not do something for a family member because it's too much. Also, I don't feel like I owe my parents anything. I didn't ask to be born or for them to raise me. That's their fault. Is this the majority or the minority? |
| Question: How to deal with urinary incontinence? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:52 AM PDT My boyfriends father lives with us. He is in his late 70s. He had a stroke a few yeas ago. He has alot of problems now, one including urinary incontinence. He wears adult diapers. He changes his diaper when he wakes up and before bed. He is so lazy and REFUSES to get up and change his diaper during the rest of the day or even shower. My boyfriend trys to sponge bathe him but his father over reacts and fights it. I cant communicate with his father because he only speaks Spanish and i don't. Our house REAKS of pee. Its driving me crazy.There is plastic on his bed but he pees so much that it leaks and gets on the mattress. We wash his mattress and clothes with vinegar but it doesnt get rid of the overwhelming stench. The only time our house DOESNT smell like piss, is when we bleach it, but that only last for about an hour then its back to being a piss stained house. He has peed all over his room, our couch, the second bathroom, on all the blankets and his clothes are stained with the smell no matter how much we wash them. We dont have a dryer, and arnt aloud to air dry things outside. We can only go to the laundry mat to dry things on the weekend because my boyfriend works all day during the week. His brother lives with us to take care of their father during the day, because i cant communicate with him, but he just plays league of legends ALL day. I understand hes old but I'm so embarrassed and sick of smelling pee all day and night. LOL we dont wana get rid of him! We love and take care of him. I just need ideas on how to deal with a stubborn old man, and getting rid of odors! |
| Question: Why does my sister do this? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:38 AM PDT My sister always like to hint at things she wants and makes people feel bad for her, such as, when she s around me "I wish someone would watch the kids while I go out." or when she s around my mom or dad, "I wish I could have some money to go shopping with." They do give her money. I do watch her kids. She does this in all types of ways ALL THE TIME. Can someone explain why? |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:24 AM PDT I hate this. On Thursday there was a party at my house and my dad was on a trip. He works in construction. He left to LA to finish building a house. My mom threw a small party and she invited her friends and one of her friends brought an armenian woman. They all started to drink wine. I was in the living room watching my favorite show. They just kept on drinking and drinking until they were all drunk as hell. That's when my mom started to talk with the armenian woman. They were talking about how useless the armenian woman's boyfriend was. My mom said to leave him and the armenian woman said that she needed a woman and she started to use seductive words on my mom. My mom liked it so they went to my mom's room and they just started *******. The next day my dad arrived and my mom explained to my dad that she has slept with another woman and that she liked it so my mom told him to leave. My dad got crazy he started crying and screaming. My dad broke the door out of anger. My mom called the cops and my dad was arrested. My mom explained to me and my 11 year old brother that the armenian woman is now her girlfriend. I was in shock. My mom asked me and my brother if we wanted to go to the movies and I said no. I hate my mom becoming a lesbian. How can I convince her to go back with my dad. I know my mom is not a lesbian. Please help me convince her to go back with my dad. I do not like having my mom having sex with a woman. By the way I'm talking about armenians not americans. |
| Question: I want to stand up to my aunt HELP? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:23 AM PDT My aunt has always gave me a hard time because I'm not like the other kids in my family . I've a disability she act like I'm not around it hurt . When I talk to her she doesn't listen to me . My uncle was murder 10years ago a lot of people said I remind them of him . He also had a disability he was disable . I love my uncle I look up to him . My family & I don't get a long but I want to tell my aunt how I feel about this . Because I want to work things out with her . I don't to end anything I want her to get to know me and I want to get to know her . I get nervous just talking to her how can I not ? |
| Question: I have a child with a mama's boy and idk what to do? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:23 AM PDT About 2 years ago I began a relationship with a great guy.. he had an awesome relationship with his mom and always treats me right. I got pregnant a year ago and we decided we would start looking for a place before my daughter was born.. turns out his mothers lease was ending soon so he decided to let her live with us. They found a condo about an hour and a half away from my family and where my whole life was . I did not want to move here but his mother and him did so he left me no choice and he promised me we'd move when my maternity leave ended so my family can help with the baby. It's been 2 Months since my maternity leave ended and here we are still here because"he has to wait for his mother to find a place to live " . In december he was diagnosed w schizophrenia but it's very controlled with his medication . he's 26 and his mother still takes him to his appointments and makes all his phone calls for him. When we are out she calls 5 times just to know what we're dOing. He supports all her habits such as cigarettes and alcohol. I just don't know if I can do this anymore. I am tired of him running all our conversations by his mother and if she doesn't like the decision he cancels them out. She controls him. It's sickening. I don't think he will ever be the man that I want. He loves me to death and is very sweet and helps me when I need him. I feel horrible leaving him but my happiness comes first .. and it seems like his mother's happiness comes before mine to him. Help? |
| Question: Woman looking at your husband flaunting booty?!? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:18 AM PDT Ok what kind of women sees a woman out with family then from a distance close enough positions herself towards husband so he can view her butt and and makes sure her butt is still in his direction even while she is with her children at park and pushing them on swing..them even does some stretches Making her butt stick out,raised her leg and grabs it like she's going running neither family have ever met..she doesn't talk.no one is talking...so what do you think she wants...a married man?? The husband was wearing sunglasses sitting down and not approaching her he is with family so she just likes to show off her big butt? |
| Question: How can I not miss my mum this week? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:14 AM PDT This week my mum is going with my dad for a business trip. Don't get me wrong, I'm independent and do things on my own but I like knowing my mom is there. I talk to her about my problems, and she kisses me goodnight every night. You know, mum stuff. She goes with my dad a couple times a year but this time when I saw them leave it broke my heart. Usually I'm okay when my dad goes because I'm used to it, and I have one parent at home. But now, Im pretty upset. I have anxiety and I have panic attacks when I'm stressed, ESPECIALLY during homework. I wont call my parents because they are busy with clients and I don't want to stress them out. So how do I cope with my mum not being here and the stress and anxiety of school. Im in eighth grade, no tests or anything this week that I know of but homework, etc. Thank you very much for taking time for reading/answering my question! :)) |
| Question: How can I deal with my mother? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:12 AM PDT I'm 17 years old. I genuinely feel so attacked by her half of the time, and the other half of the time she acts very sweet and caring toward me. For example, this morning, at the doctor's, she became extremely irritated when the doctor wanted to irrigate my ear to clear bacteria out. She insisted that my ears were too sensitive, and when I tried to argue, she started talking about how I never listen to her and how disobedient I am. I am a straight A student and never in trouble, except with her. Every time I do or say anything that disagrees with what she wants, she blows up, accuses me of being ungrateful, and threatens to disown me. I'm so tired of her mood swings, but I feel that I have no choice because I still need her help with college financially in the future. However, I'm starting to go crazy from the way she treats me. She is literally the biggest stress factor in my life, and it's affecting other people and parts in my life. I just want to cry and scream, but if I dare speak out, she'll just respond with more severe threats. |
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| Question: How to make a year and 7 months go faster ? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 10:45 AM PDT What can I do to make it go a bit faster ? I will be Turning 18 and I really wanna movie out of my house. I go to school,I make my own money , I don't have transportation yet but I honestly wanna know what I can do to make the time go faster . |
| Question: What to do about my lazy *** cousin? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 10:43 AM PDT Hey thanks for reading. anyways my cousins and some friends seem like theyre going nowhere. They have no licence, no job or are not in college or planning to go to college or any form of tertiary education. My cousin in particular was in college but dropped out of 2 different coleges after a few months. Hes the type to say 'if I studied I would do well' and has for the past few yeasrs. He cares about gaming and rapping and smoking pot. What should I do about him and some friends that may go down this road btw im 17 and planning to go to uni |
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| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 10:31 AM PDT About a week ago my mom became upset that I didn't make coffee (I was doing my homework and I told her id do it in a minute and I did get up to go) she became so angry and almost smashed a coffee mug onto my head but I blocked her and she thought blocking her was me hitting her. I didn't hit her, I was only blocking. So she started to cry and told my dad and he got mad and hit me. Ever since they keep insulting me and my dad keeps saying that its his goal to get rid of me and that I would die soon. He canceled my orthodontist appointment, and told me rip out my braces cus he was never going to take me there (its 4 hrs from here because we moved), now hes about to cancel my tuition and I really need tutoring. He wants me to depend on him for everything cus hes the only one in the family that can drive.. he won't let me get my license or my mother. I was sick a lot, many times I couldn't get out of bed and I didn't go to school and my parents never called in sick for me. I have a runny nose and a horrible cough, once I start coughing I cant stop. I took medicine but I guess its taking time to kick in. Since ive been absent my grades are down and I talked to my teachers about it and they told me to take my time turning things in and Im almost caught up with everything. My dad keeps looking at my grades and since they are down, he keeps saying ill get nowhere in life, I tried explaining to them why its like that but they think everything I say is bs. what should I do? He curses at me a lot but in my language. Im a very emotional person and im depressed, I have no one to talk to. Since we just moved to a new city I haven't been able to make many friends, its been hard. They verbally abuse me, id rather be hit then blamed on for things ive never done. For example, they blamed me for the death of my grandmother.. I was 5 yrs old now im 16. Apparently the time I was born wasn't right and that I was born to kill everyone. |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 10:29 AM PDT SO one night I was asleep and I am a very light sleeper. I felt someone touching my side and I didn't wake up. Then I felt someone grab my dick and started to stroke and suck it. I woke up and it is my 18 year old sister I am 20 year old male. When she left my room she handed me a note that said she wants to **** me. What should I do because I actually liked her doing that. |
| Question: Is it wrong to be dating a 3rd cousin who is not blood related? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 10:27 AM PDT Hi.. I was just wondering what everyone thought is on this. My grandma on my mothers side of the family had a older sister. Which would be my 2nd Aunt.. She had 1 child of her own and adopted 2 kids. 1 boy and 1 girl. The girl which would be my 2nd or 3rd cousin by law but no blood relation moved to another state and had a family of her own. I knew of her as a child but never really seen her. When my 2nd aunt and uncle passed away. The adopted daughter moved back to the state and she had a daughter of her own which i had never met. She is now 27 and I am 31.. Well we met and began to hang out and started dating but my mother and blood related 1st cousins do not agree with it and have been giving us a hard time. What are your thoughts? |
| Question: I feel like I am adopted in my family? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 10:26 AM PDT I am the one who sticks out the most in my family. My mom has brown hair and brown eyes, her nose is kinda big, she has OCD and kinda has a cleaning problem and she likes to clean all of the time and she is very good at math. My dad has black hair and dark blue eyes, he is very smart but he can be quite mean at times and he is also athletic. My older brother has black hair, brown eyes and red cheeks, he is very smart but is very mean to me sometimes and he bullies me sometimes, he is also athletic. My younger brother has black hair, brown eyes, and freckles, he is smart and athletic. Me, I have dirty blonde hair, light blue eyes with a golden speck in the middle and my eyes change color sometimes, I can be kinda smart sometimes, I am not athletic, I am not skinny like the rest did my family, I have a small nose, my face is full of acne, I am shy, I got hurt alot in the past and my heart is shattered. I am not like anyone in my family, I feel adopted sometimes. |
| Question: I hate driving with my parents. Does anyone else think this way? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 10:25 AM PDT I am not close to my parents and I just don't like being in a car with them, especially when both are in the car. When they are really helping me, they disagree to everything they want to say to me and they can be annoying. And it is so hard for me to please them. My dad is a know-it-all, which is why I like driving with my mom better (with her alone). My mom actually helps and she is a safer driver. My dad is still a know-it-all even outside of driving. He talks about the same stuff every day and I can't do anything. I hate going anywhere throughout my teen days because he tells to do this and than and unnecessary things. Being a kid sucks. By the way, I'm only 16 and I have a permit and I did 6 months so far, but I don't get my license until I'm 17 in June. At least it's April. Now I only have two more months of this **** to do. I won't ever have to drive in a car with them again and I will regret my teen days. My parents always act like a bunch of party animals when I drive. |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 10:11 AM PDT I was in a relationship. Nobody was aware of the relationship, we thought it was best to keep it between us. Before we broke up, he'd always threaten me saying he's got contacts in my area and he's going to talk to ask about me and my family (throughout the relationship he'd always ask about my family) or do something. I was so scared and I didn't know what to do so I would just laugh it off. And then there was these fake accounts of different people trying to talk to me on Facebook but I wouldn't reply. The face accounts also tried talking to my friends and get information about me like personal information. All the fake accounts that I was aware of, I blocked them all and also told my friends too block them. Then I deactivated thinking it would all stop. At this point, me and him broke up and stopped talking to each other so I did have a huge gut feeling that it was him. Just as I thought everything had finished, there was a knock on my door from a random guy. He was asking for charity so my dad thought it was normal. But a day later, my aunty who lives a few doors away, called my mum and told her that the guy came to her house asking where my dad lives and how my dad was asking for room painting when my dad hadn't contacted anyone about that. Also when he was taking money off my dad, he asked my dad his name and my dad told him. I'm really scared that it's him again and he wants to do something really terrible. I'm really close to my parents and he knew I was. |
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| Question: Family dysfunction; spread to niece & nephew? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 10:01 AM PDT I've had some disagreements with my sister, over the past year and a half. She's horrendous with money. I've twice denied her insistence for financial support (taking her kids to get footwear; loaning her $800). She already has not repaid our other brother over $1,800 in expenses. I texted my nephew about what he wanted for his birthday a month beforehand. He never responded to my text, nor acknowledged it. I gave him a gift and a card on his birthday. Granted he had friends with him on his birthday, but he did not acknowledge it over the coming days, nor has he at all. I texted my niece a few weeks ago, about gifts for her birthday. Again - she never acknowledged the text, nor returned it. I was talking with my brother on Easter, and he said that my niece told him that she would send him some gift suggestions later this week. At this point, I will likely buy her gift certificates, which is what I did for my nephew. But, at the end of the get-together with my family, I am considering telling my sister I will no longer get gifts for her children. They are rude and don't return texts They don't acknowledge gifts received. It appears they are adopting their mother's attitude / anger with me, for not financially supporting her (and them). Am I wrong in considering not buying gifts for my niece and nephew any longer? I feel like I'm an outcast, that is being taken for granted - I'm only in their lives when I provide gifts that aren't acknowledged. |
| Question: I need cusses fir my brother and sister? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:55 AM PDT |
| Question: What to do if your parents won't you left the house? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:54 AM PDT Okay , here's my boring lifetime story I'm 23 & we moved far from the city In other words .... McDonough , Georgia and it's far from Morrow , Georgia . I live with my mother , 2 siblings & a baby My better half lives somewhere in Georgia We've been together for 5 yrs straight Which is long distance What should I do ? |
| Question: Who should I see in this type of case? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:38 AM PDT It's a long story. Long story short: My cousins were taken away to an adoptive family when I was 7, I barely had any friends when I was little ( I do now though), my parents separated last year, my grandpa went to Mexico two years ago, my dad is also in Mexico, my mom does take care of me and my sis but I barely get to see her and she drinks a lot, my grandma gives all her damn attention to my cousin, my aunt blames everything on me, and I think I'm going insane. My first killing fantasy was with my cousin Jesse since she was really mean and I was only 6, but it went away.. Now I'm 15 and I have a lot of them. I think it has to do a lot with media but also with my past. Those small traumas affect how I feel now.I wasn't always like this. My mom and I were really close when I was little but now I don't like her. I love her but don't like her. I miss my dad and grandpa, A LOT. Same with my cousins. I told my mom about my killing fantasies and she said she would take me to see a counselor. I don't think I would ever kill anyone. I sometimes think I'm a sociopath. I do have feelings like a normal human, such as sadness, happiness, excitement, love, etc. But I'm not sure. I have done illegal things in the past, but not BAD enough to get me in jail. I'm also very good at fake crying and acting. Should I see a psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, or counselor? If I tell, will I be sent to a mental hospital or get arrested? Please help me, thanks |
| Question: AAAAARGH! I HATE MY FAMILY? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:31 AM PDT I'm sick of my family! I am always last to get things My YOUNGER brother has a COMPUTER and I have a sh***y little netbook! I just found out that I'm getting a computer, but it's a HAND - ME - DOWN from my brother, and I've seen some things he looks at!!!! (He emailed it to me by accident) HOW DO I DEAL WITH MY ANNOYING FAMILY????? THEY'RE BUYING MY BROTHER A NEW ONE AND GIVING ME HIS (BROKEN) ONE Why don't I EVER get anything that's mine???? |
| Question: My parents are separated but live together? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:13 AM PDT My parents have been separated for years now but they still live together and my dad has been trying to put the family back together but my mom doesn't want to. The only reason she hasn't kicked him out is because she wants his money to buy luxury items. I really want my parents to just end this because it's so stressful and draining but I don't know what to do its affecting all of us emotionally! Pls help what do I do so this can just end or if anyone has tips from past experiences that works too. |
| Question: What do other women think of this? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:12 AM PDT Police in Tanzania (Africa) have reported that a man with multiple convictions for raping numerous young girls (was free due to corruption/bribery) was recently stripped naked and staked out spread eagle near his home village. Goats blood was applied to his genitals, and he was then eaten alive (starting between his legs) by a lioness. Aside from persistant rumors that a group of women (many of whom had daughters who were victims of the man) were responsible, police have no leads, and they are not receiving any help from the villagers. Moral aspects aside, how do you feel about what was done to him? Fitting? Personally, I am pleased with what happened to him, and think it was very fitting. Good riddance! |
| Question: My mum acts like a bitchy teenager around my dad😞? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:09 AM PDT I have already posted a question similar to this but seriously my mum is like a bitchy two faced teenager. Whenever my dad tries to talk to her she acts all mouthy and sarcastic but that is only with my dad, never me or my brother! If me and my mum are sat on the couch talking and my dad walks in, she looks as miserable as f*ck but as soon as he walks out of the room she looks fine again. You can literally sit next to her and watch her face turn from happy to miserable within 2 seconds. But sometimes she will be perfectly fine! My mum and dad can actually sometimes have a proper conversation with no sarcastic or rude remarks. I feel so relieved when I can listen to them talk to each other nicely but that is very very rare so I usually stay in my room because it upsets me listening to my mum being so mean and I feel sorry for my dad a lot. My brother practically lives in his room and only comes down for food and he turns 18 next Tuesday so I don't think he's all that bothered about it and doesn't really know how my mum talks to my dad because he's always in his room. I turn 14 in a few weeks so I am trying to be as mature as possible. What do I do?😔 |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:05 AM PDT Dantalion has been under a lot of pressure lately with his music and band. He comes home drunk most of the time and takes it out on me and Hunter the youngest. i am worried that one day he will seriously hurt Hunter. Hunter is only 7. Should I take Hunter and go move back to North Yorkshire. I have a house back there so should I just leave him. I am worried that he may get into trouble if I leave him though? |
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| Question: Where should I start the process to - sons dad is difficult!? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 08:39 AM PDT My son is 19 months. His dad and I don't get along, at all! Our relationship was very toxic because he has an anger problem and even has gotten violent with me. After our son was born, the violence stopped, but the verbal abuse continued. I HAD to end that relationship. I've allowed him to see his son and to visit to spend time with him, I am not those women who keep children away from their fathers, especially since my son is very fond of his father. Lately, he's been giving me attitude again an barking demands on when he can see his son. He doesn't give me room to talk. He comes in my house and starts packing his diaper bag, I try to pack stuff for him and he pushes my hand away and tells me he doesn't need me to pack anything. When he does take my son for the day, I'll ask him, "where are you going with him?" He doesn't answer me and tells me it's non of my business. The more I explain to him that YES, it IS my business because this is my child too and I have the right to know where my child is going for the day, he gets in this rage and starts yelling in front of my son. At this point, I feel I NEED to go to the courts and file for custody or something. I DON'T need his money i.e., child support, I can support myself and my son. I feel I need some bigger authority (the courts) to communicate with him FOR me. I cannot communicate with him at all without him getting upset for everything. Where do I even start? Do I fill out a form at the courts? |
| Question: My brother is a meth addict please help.? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 08:38 AM PDT My brother is a meth addict. And that's all he thinks about he has 4 kids and doesn't take care of them there very little. The wife knows a about his addiction and she don't care. When she goes to work which is 24/7 he mistreats the kids by not feeding them not bathing them and changing there diapers. Me and my mum have to take the kids a lot. Also he threatens to hurt me and he tried once, he stole my new iPhone and my sisters boyfriend. I told my therapists they reported it but they denied it. I don't know what to do. I don't want him to go to jail I want him to get help. Every time I talk about it to him he tries to hit me I don't talk to him anymore. But he needs help for the kids and for a better life. Also he tried to stop once but one month later he's at it again. What can i do? Someone please help. |
| Question: Why did my mother act like this? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 08:36 AM PDT Throughout my childhood, every time I got sick, my mother would get really upset at me and treat me like I did something very bad on purpose. She would yell at me and be in a bad mood generally. Even to this day, when I have big issues that I'm very worried about, she is very unemotional and barely says anything. Once, in middle school, I had some problems at school, I had a really bad and harsh teacher who was not going to give me a passing grade because I hadn't studied enough. It was partly my fault, but at home it escalated into a huge argument including both of my parents who were upset. I did something stupid, I took a knife and went to the bathroom. My dad quickly realized this and took me aside and hugged me while I cried and said that we're going to find a solution and everything's going to be okay.. my mom mocked me and then continued to yell about school.. Why?.. |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 08:10 AM PDT I can't really say whats on it. All would judge. But she can't see it if it doesn't come off. Would have to throw it away. |
| Question: How to prevent my parent's divorce? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 08:05 AM PDT My mom and dad fight constantly. My dad believes there's hope in the relationship, while my mom is stubborn and refuses to cooperate. She rejects marriage council. Obviously, I like my dad better than my mom. Tonight, he sat me and my siblings down to tell us about how unhappy he is, and that he wants to move out. He says he's willing to do anything to save the relationship. Imagine how I felt when I couldn't come up with anything.. My mom is hardly a mom to me. My dad does everything for me, anyhow. He sacrifices so much for my family yet no one acknowledges it. Except for me. How do I prevent him from moving out? And if he decides to move out, how do I convince him to take me with him? |
| Question: What to buy for my family I'm in India now? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 08:01 AM PDT I winder you guys tell me what is good as a gift to my female family .thanks I'm in Delhi |
| Question: Is work more important than family? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 07:21 AM PDT Is getting fired more important than seeing my dad for the first time in 7 years??? I'm aware that if I ask for a week off after working only for a month is automatic termination or a "no" from my manager but this trip is very important to me and a very rare opportunity for me and i just want to know if it's really worth losing my part time job over...honestly i would go ahead and take the consequences but i really need to know what you guys think. will my managet be okay with this? Is it worth it? Thank you so much |
| Question: Why do i argue with woman more then men? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 07:12 AM PDT Okay so I never can hold a serious relationship because I hate fighting as soon as they start im oit. I like to talk about things as an adult. So my last girfriend would come home and scream and she had nothing to scream about I paid all the bills and the house was always clean I kicked her out. two years ago my cousin moved in because her parents kicked her out when I didn't wanna fight with her she put a hole in my wall. Now my brother moved in a year ago he's going to college we haven't had one single fight my mom even fights with me and my dad too me and my dad neve never had a fight in yeare why is this? |
| Question: Please help me with your advice? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 06:49 AM PDT I am 31 years old and my wife is 6 months younger to me. We are married for the past 6 years. my wife is related to me thru my mother's family. I am a guy who made myself conservative from my childhood just to satisfy my parents and keep them happy as my elder sister was so out of their control and I grew up seeing my parents literally weeping and arguing with her every single day trying to change her. I was and I am the only happiness in my parents life. When I got married, I truly believed that I am entering the peaceful part of my life. But the worst thing is that I really saw the same character of my sister in my wife. Argument for every single suggestion and things I do. She will almost burst out before I could fully explain anything. And the worst part happened yesterday when I had a misunderstanding with my mother-in-law (I just cut short her conversation as she always keeps complaining about me and my house) and as usual she exaggerated and reported that to my wife and finally my wife took 8 sleeping tablets for threatening me. But God saved her. Now I am really shivering inside on how to take this further. I have no honest and trust worthy friends to share this and I cannot share this with my parents that will make them very much worried. Please help me with your advice...I am lest happy that I had shared this with someone at least. |
| Question: Am i being so sensitive? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 06:39 AM PDT at our house there's a construction that is being done, ofcourse it's kinda messy meanwhile, i don't have anything to do in the morning so i play LoL / League of the Legends to kill my time, and then i suddenly want to take a bath because it felt hot but it seems that my father had occupied the bathroom too so i prefer to wait an just play co-op in LoL(shorter game version so that i can leave when it's my turn to take a bath) and then i was shocked because my father said to me "Hey! why don't you help your mum to clean the mess because she's felt dizzy, but then, there you are you felt dizzy on playing and playing nonsense" i was like "why do he need to say it so harsh , when he can say it calmly, i mean i didn't do bad at all, and also i help cleaning the house everyday it's just that i wanted to play THAT day" after that i went to my room locked up and cried, and then i can hear them outside my room talking about bad things to me that i'm lazy (even though i help a lot) and this and that, and that made me cry even more, i think that my dad thought that im mad at him when i don't have the right to be mad, but the real thing is that i locked myself here in my room because i can't stop crying for the harsh words he just said to me and i don't want them to see me crying. |
| Question: How can a relationship with my mom ever be restored? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 06:37 AM PDT so my parents are divorced and my mom moved by the water and a few months after she moved there, i moved in with her. me and my little sister actually. alright well my mom is a drinker... she drinks wine, but she never drank until after my brother passed away. she would go out for hours on end with the dog and coming back saying she went for a 4-5 mile walk with the dog... when she was really at the bar, i knew it wasnt adding up.. if you walk 4-5 miles a day you shouldnt be gaining weight (alcohol makes her very puffy and bloated) why i let this go on, i still dont know. she went to rehab fora few days or a detox and when she came back she was okay for a few weeks. then one day out of no where she said your leaving for your dads for the weekend and kicked my 8 year old sister and i out the door and locked it. we left and that following friday she texted my dad and said something along the lines of "Having a good time without those fu***d up kids... you want them? have them" she threw us away. she wasnt having fun with those people they had her doing drugs and drinking herself to near death until the day she called herself an ambulance. and got some help. now i havent seen her for nearly 2 months but she called me 2 days ago trying to tell me she cant wait to see me... meanwhile im only aloud to see her while under supervision of someone else as well.. idk if i want to see her.. she abandoned us...she left my little sister and i outside in the middle of february for hours shes heartless... how do i forget all that and try to let her be my mother again? im turning 15 by the way in a few months. this isnt anything different ive had to take roll of a parent figure to my little sister many times... 10 points to the best answer please thank you!!! |
| Question: How do you handle this type of person? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 06:33 AM PDT There is a family member that I have only recently found. I am adopted and found a biological siblings. This person has already asked for money. They try to make me feel bad for then with their medical issues. I just don't want to deal with it anymore because it makes me uncomfortable. Is it ok to just walk away, what would you do. Thanks, Joey |
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