She isn't going to be old enough to plan any of the parties or showers that come along with a wedding. I would like to keep her first in line in my wedding but I want to appoint my best friend as my maid of honor because she is old enough to do all of those things. Is it ok to do that?

Recently my fiance and I got in a huge fight. That day when he stopped by on his lunch break, he got a call. He got a weird look and hung up saying it was tge wrong number. I asked him what the person said and he said it sounded like a child they said 'what r u doing' he said it was kinda creepy and he hung up. So I thought ok thats weird and was gonna redial but he had to go. So later when he gets home I am about to redial the number from his call log and I notice 4 numbers that called that I didnt know so im about to call those too thinking it might be other creepy people when he takes the phone then after a minute gives it back. I look at it and now theres just 3 numbers. The one from lunch was deleted. So I say why did u delete it why r u hiding and he says "fine judith called me okay?" Judith is a woman at his work who he is constantly telling me hits on him. So I say why the **** are you not only giving your phone number to other women, but a woman who hits on u at work?!? And then tried to lie about and hide it. Well then I go on his facebook and come to find out he searched one of his exes just a month ago and he tried to deny that too! Well now I tell him to leave the phone with me while hes at work until I can trusthim again and hes mad saying hes pissed cause Iim trying to control him. But I feel its justifiedand fair after what he did cause what I wanted to do at first was smash the damn thing.

Alright firstly i'm not saying this because i'm trying to be cheap. My girlfriend and I have just never really seen the use of a diamond ring, they're overly expensive and relatively worthless (sentimental stuff aside). Not to get too much into the economics of if but after some research i heard that diamond rings are a scam and they're not even that much of a tradition. So has anyone ever proposed with something else? Maybe just 2 regular gold rings or something like that?

I've been married and widowed twice. I'm getting married for the 3rd and final time in my life. My first spouse died in 1991 (while deployed). And my second spouse died in 1999 (killed by drunk driver on our honeymoon). My fiance and I are 42 years old, and we've been together since May of 2005. I can say that he is my last and best love. We have 3 children together (18 month old triplets) I've been hearing from various family members that think I am low class for having kids out of wedlock, and for getting married for the 3rd time. Frankly, I think I'm doing the right thing for my family. He's been wanting to get married for years, but I didn't want to. Now that I am, I'm rather excited to be honest.

I've never met my dad, he left my mom when she got pregnant and went to jail. Then it turns out he died when I was 15 from kidney failure due to drug overdose. Anyway, will it look weird for my mom to walk me down the aisle? Or should it be an uncle? Because my mom is pretty much my dad too.

she's only 21 months and went ballistic , screaming bloody murder once everyone got there so I just know the wedding day tomorrow will be a disaster , I think she might have sensory issues. So I am having so much anxiety and I even cried there today, everyone says it's fine , I don't thinki it will be. How can I prepare

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Ok so me and this girl are best friends. I was a single mother of two boys and she knew what my life was like-I had a daughter pass away, my ex treated me horrible and would hit me. I lived with my parents and was attending school and I wasn't dating anyone. I was Getting my bachelors in social work. ) once I graduated that month everything came together. I was friends with a guy who we began to really like each other (we were already hanging out for 7 months) he asked me to be official and took me and my kids in. The relationship we hold till this day is unbelievable and amazing. I graduated in June. Left to Mexico on a vacation to see my family. Then came back moved into a nice home. It all started here. She all of a sudden never wanted to come over. Too busy. Then my bf who is now my fiancé asked me to marry him and wedding planning has begun. She tells me first that she can't make it to the first meeting which was to introduce them all to each other. Groomsmen and bridemaid. Now she text me saying sorry but if my bf is not my partner I can't be in it. I told her it wasn't a big deal there would be much contact and that the other guy has a gf. She said in exact words "it is what it is" . She said I'm being dramatic. What do you think ? And why is she acting like this. She always use to be here for me when horrible things would happen . Now she's gone ?

She is a stereotypical overbearing mother who wants to be involved in everything and seems to think that her way is the best and only way to do things. She has her own view of how our wedding will look and continues to try to push things towards her end view. She also seems to think it's her big day as much as ours, my mother recommended a few people to talk to regarding hairstyling for the day of and my future MIL said oh, when to talk to them see if they can do my hair too and then said you've got a bridal room that we can get ready in, right? I appreciate that she wants to be involved but I'm getting really frustrated with her trying to butt in all the time and making it as much about her as it is supposed to be about us. How can I gently ask her to step back a bit? Examples of things she's done : We were a year out from the wedding and hadn't begun looking at rings yet. We were visiting and while we were out doing something else, she insisted that we go and look at rings with the jeweler that she liked (5 hours away from our home mind you) who, after a quick look, had nothing that looked interesting to me. Despite the fact that I told her I didn't like any, she insisted that I try on a bunch that she liked and wasted a solid hour of time. She reserved a block of rooms and sent out the information to people over a year in advance of the wedding without telling us. We had planned on booking a block in a hotel that offers free shuttles to and from the vineyard that our wedding is at but they have a minimum number of rooms that need to be booked to qualify for the shuttle and we are now scrounging to hit that because our guests are scattered between two hotels, not condensed at one. Both me and my fiance have food issues making finding a cake that we can both eat very difficult. Our idea-Buy a normal wedding cake for everyone else and for the cake cutting pictures and then a small one for just the two of us that we can use for the feeding pictures and actually eat ourselves. Her idea, buy just the small cake and then feed everyone else costco sheet cake which she brings up every single time we mention cakes and insists is the better way to do it. Before we had even booked a venue she had her friend who does invitations come over with samples for us to look at and kept pressuring us to pick an invitation style. Our venue has a location in which we can hold a rehearsal dinner and she seems to want to have pizza brought in instead of using the on-site catering that is offered which I feel is wildly inappropriate for a rehearsal dinner but then keeps trying to get us to host an out-of-towners dinner for anyone coming in a day early.

When I go dress shopping, do my bridesmaids have to be in attendance? Do they get sized with me? What happens if I want to buy a dress online? How do I get sized? Do I pick the dress for the flower girl? I also have an Asian name and an American name... Do I put whichever name I prefer on the invitations? Do I have the same option for when the minister marries us and announces the marriage? If anyone can help me with these wedding questions, it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much! Thank you for your answer! I was also wondering since I plan on having my wedding and reception at the same location... What do I wear for the reception? What is the proper outfit? Does my maid of honor get a different dress?

I prefer gemstones over diamonds. My engagement ring is a 4 carat citrine set in 10 kt gold. Personally, I think diamonds are over priced and boring. I prefer rings with color and fire. The picture of the ring is my engagement ring. @ Calypso, I meant to give you 5 stars. @ Calypso, I meant to give you 5 stars.

my boyfriends brother is getting married. And yes I know the family and friends. But I don't wanna go because I feel like I will be alone, the family will be busy and so will the wedding party. I am no a bridesmaid so I have no "role" but my boyfriend is the best man. I wanna be there but I just feel weird about it. I don't know a lot of there friends but the ones I do know are in the wedding party. Also my boyfriends ex will be there.. What are your thoughts on this?

Just trying to get ideas! I have a lot of friends getting married now and hopefully mine too! Lol and I'm just really curious to see what all other people do for there weddings! Thanks!! :)

I have been planning a bachelorette party for my best friend for about three months.. The party is April 10th.. She wanted to have it in a big city an hour from where we live and her parents offered to pay for the hotel rooms and I took care of everything else.. I have bought everything you need for a bachelorette party.. Also there would be a lingerie shower.. I have put in $700 including this and the bridal shower and I have all ready sent very detailed invitations. There are 13 people going to the party so there would have to be 4 hotel rooms to accommodate this crowd.. And it's hotel policy. Her parents are no longer able to pay for the hotel rooms and although I could pay for this I don't feel it's right for me too (it would be around $800 for rooms only) She told me yesterday they can't pay for it bit she still wants to have the party out of town and still have all 13 guests but I just don't see how it's possible.. These people live in our town and I would have to figure out transportation for them because they don't want to drive. She told me to ask her friend who lives in another big city if we could have it at her house but I feel like that's rude.. Like I said I've already sent invitations and I am so embarrassed to chance plans on these people. I am so stressed out and have no idea what I'm going to do... Anyone have any ideas on how I can still have this party and keep the bride happy without humiliating myself or spending a small fortune?!!!

I would like to do uplighting at my wedding. The price I was quoted was $899 to rent and my fiancé said absolutely not. Well I was looking for other options and I came across a good deal, 10 lights for $300 with free shipping. And if I do that I can resell them after the wedding. My only concern is that it will be difficult to put up and take down. Does anyone have any experience? They come with a 3ft cord and as far as I know I think it just needs to be plugged in, right?

My Fiancé and I been having a long debate about if we or if we shouldn't count our photographer(s) as a plate for our reception. My Fiancé doesn't think we should because we are already paying $5,000 just for their service and we are paying $60 per plate at the reception. Also, she added two more photographers for our wedding. Which is great for coverage but, if we are supposed to feed them then it would cost us another $240 because there are four of them. Our photographer(s) will be with us for 10 hours and I know if we don't include them and we're suppose too; they'll be hungry. What do you think?

Ok so me and my girlfriend who Iove a lot and I will do anything for her. Have been thinking of getting engaged. However she told me she wanted for her ring to be with red diamonds. So I went a good research, and I stumble to this ring that looks amazing for me. However is my first time I actually see a black diamond on a ring. tell me what you guys think about this ring?? http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/18k-White-Gold-2-1-2ct-Black-Diamond-Ruby-Engagement-Ring/9536685/product.html?refccid=OALPQ2OMKI5Y5BKHNCPKNYM64Q&searchidx=0 I think it looks good, but I want to know what you guys think about this ring. Please be honest or can you guys give me an opinion of a good ring. Thank you!!!!

Ok so me and my girlfriend who Iove a lot and I will do anything for her. Have been thinking of getting engaged. However she told me she wanted for her ring to be with red diamonds. So I went a good research, and I stumble to this ring that looks amazing for me. However is my first time I actually see a black diamond on a ring. tell me what you guys think about this ring?? http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/18k-White-Gold-2-1-2ct-Black-Diamond-Ruby-Engagement-Ring/9536685/product.html?refccid=OALPQ2OMKI5Y5BKHNCPKNYM64Q&searchidx=0 I think it looks good, but I want to know what you guys think about this ring. Please be honest or can you guys give me an opinion of a good ring. Thank you!!!!

Ok so me and my girlfriend who Iove a lot and I will do anything for her. Have been thinking of getting engaged. However she told me she wanted for her ring to be with red diamonds. So I went a good research, and I stumble to this ring that looks amazing for me. However is my first time I actually see a black diamond on a ring. tell me what you guys think about this ring?? http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/18k-White-Gold-2-1-2ct-Black-Diamond-Ruby-Engagement-Ring/9536685/product.html?refccid=OALPQ2OMKI5Y5BKHNCPKNYM64Q&searchidx=0 I think it looks good, but I want to know what you guys think about this ring. Please be honest or can you guys give me an opinion of a good ring. Thank you!!!!

My maternal family have a tradition where the mother gives her daughter a piece of jewelry (normally a locket) and a bouquet of flowers during her wedding reception. It's something that was started by my great grandmother and my grandmother, her sisters and my mom and her sisters have done. Even my cousins who've gotten married have done it. But I'm a little more reluctant to do it because my mom died when I was 14. If the situation was a little different, I would just have my grandmother do it (since she offered) but my stepmother would be unimpressed and would probably throw a fit. She has jealousy issues and she struggles with the fact I have a mom who isn't her. Always has. She also offered to do it, but I'm not close to her at all (I don't like or love her) so I wouldn't feel comfortable with that. And I don't want a huge issue to come out of letting my grandmother do it. Plus my stepmother is already complaining because I'm getting more help from my grandmother and aunts than her. So I feel like that would just make her explode (which she is known for doing). So what do you guys think? My dad is still in the picture but he doesn't want me to do it (yet he loved it when my mom was still alive). And we are paying for the wedding. Thank you. I think I will do it anyway. I love that we have that tradition. And it would be a way of including my moms family, who are the family I grew up with since my dad has none.

Please, tell me if you have ever experienced this, and help me get through it! I love him, but ever since January, I have been very angry at him. I do not know why. Once I see him my blood boils. I try to hide it because the poor guy didn't do anything wrong, but it shows unwiunwillingly from time to time. Have you ever felt this way towards a future husband or a life-partner. This is not me. I have never been a person with a short temper. I'm only this way with him, and he's getting sick of it.

I need help with a color scheme for my wedding. I am getting married in the fall and I know that I want to use lavender as my wedding flower. So one of my colors is lavender. I am so bad with design and colors that I need help with the others. Suggestions? I was thinking either a maroon or burgundy and a cream color. What do you think?