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- Question: My in-laws are doing nothing to create a future for my mentally disabled sister-in-law. What to do?
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| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 01:36 PM PDT My husband and I spoke a lot before we got engaged about expectations for his mentally disabled sister in the future when we will be her guardians. I said I do not want her to live with us, and I will not be her caretaker when we plan to have our own family. He agreed. My in-laws however are doing nothing to prepare their daughter for a future of any sort. I am struggling to like them or build a relationship because I am already anticipating how difficult our future will be because they haven't done anything productive for their daughter. What can I do? So frustrated. They seem out of touch with reality! |
| Question: How do I convince my friends to stop worrying for me? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 01:27 PM PDT Hello I'm 23, it's my mates I love them like they were my siblings. The dear chaps try to convince me to stop drinking heavily, I appreciate their concern but I feel more like a burden, when I'm sober I attempt to tell them to "stop worrying so much I'm dandy really", I don't want to be a burden on their shoulders, they want me stop drinking, How can I convince them to stop fretting so much over me? |
| Question: Bank called my decease brother? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 01:24 PM PDT The bank just called my decease brother. He doesn't owe the bank anything, but we wiped out his account to give him a nice funeral.. They called and asked to speak to my brother, but I said sorry you have the wrong number.. They told me that the call might be recorded and that they will erase the phone number. I said OK goodbye. I'm not sure what they want, but should I be worried? |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 01:23 PM PDT It seems like parents and aunts get pissed or insulted if you think for yourself. For example....... The mayor of the town is eating breakfast in a restaurant that your aunt owns. You go up to the mayor and say "Can I ask you a question?" Mayor says "Sure , what is it?" You say " why have you continued to ruin this town, and make decisions that have caused the crime rate to go up?" Your aunt then gets furious, even though the mayor thought you were just some random person asking a question. |
| Question: Cousin in law? please answer!? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 01:22 PM PDT my sunts husband has a sister which makes her a sister in law. she has 3 boys would that make them cousin in laws and if so would i be okay to date one of them because they are not blood. and wouldnt it be like a guy setting you up with his brother when he is gettting married to ur sister type of thing- so it wouldnt be weird exactly right? he is 9 months older than me but right now we are both 16. we both like eachother but i have no clue as to if its okay to date him or not. any answer will help thanks ahead of time! :) |
| Question: How do you say to your mom that they bully you? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 01:17 PM PDT |
| Question: Am I selfish for not wanting children? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 01:15 PM PDT My mom and I never got along. I can honestly say I do not have a good mother. And I think to be a good mother, you need that foundation of having a good parent. I don't. I also know I won't have the patience it takes to be a good parent. So I'm choosing to live my life without having kids. Is that understandable? |
| Question: How to move on from the things my mother said to me? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 01:13 PM PDT My mother told me things like she would rather listen to someone else but me for information and that I am the reason why her career can't progress |
| Question: Question about child custody? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 01:07 PM PDT If you are currently in a custody dispute, and your court date is two months away, but your parent tells you to go live with the parent, what do you do? I cant legally just get up and go to my moms so if my dad starts screaming and yelling an tells me to pack my **** and go to my moms, how would i go about doing that. Could i write a contract and he sign it that says hes giveing custody over to my mother? He said he doesnt want me anymore. And to go to my moms and said some other non kid appropriate things. Thank you. |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 01:05 PM PDT Today is my brothers birthday he told my dad he didn't want a cake for his birthday .my family is in the process of moving countries so my mom isn't here my brother is very close to my mom so he is sad and depressed mostly today normally my mom cooks and we get him a cake but I am not sure if getting him a cake will just make him even more sad |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 12:49 PM PDT My brother was texting me tonight telling me that he's gonna run away from home. He's really depressed because our mum always tells him he's useless,he'll never amount to anything etc. She did the exact same thing to me. Its so upsetting he truly believes he's better off dead and no one would miss him. I tried to tell him that's not true. I've managed to talk him into staying at home tonight. I'm at university so I can't help. I have no idea what to do. If I tell my mum she'll get more angry with him and I'm really scared it will push him over the edge. But if I don't say anything im scared he'll run away. I don't know what to do. When she made me feel this depressed she blamed everyone but herself. She's just so mean and it hurts coming from someone who's supposed to care. He feels like she doesn't trust him as she always asks who he's texting, reading his letters after he's opened them and very invasive when asking who he's hanging out with. I don't know whether I should come home. If I should tell my mum. Or just hope he won't run away. Or if he must that he'll be okay. I said he could stay with me for a few days so he and my mum could work it out but he doesn't want to. I'm so scared and so worried. And if he does run away im not sure what to do. My dad works abroad and he beats himself up about not being around for us it would make him feel terrible to know this. We are not close to the rest of family. He can't leave now he has important exams to sit for his future. |
| Question: My fiancé wants to live with his parents forever and raise kids there? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 12:32 PM PDT My fiancé and I are recently engaged after dating for close to 4 years. He has a good construction job that has made him good money over the last few years. He recently told me he wants to take over the farming and for us to live with his parents forever and we can raise our kids in their home. His parents home and farm land has been in the family for over 150 years. I'm fine with him taking over the family farm, but not cool with living with his parents. He says it's good because his parents can take care of our kids so we can both work. I feel our children are our own responsibility and not his parent's. I've lived with his parents before and it was unbearable because his mom has bipolar and anger problems. His sisters didn't like me being there and made my time there terrible until I was so uncomfortable that I moved out. I know there would be a power struggle. I want our own home where we can make our own choices regarding the land, children, and home. I don't want to live under someone else's rules. If I want to do some gardening or updating I shouldn't have to ask like a child. I also am not keen on the layout of the land.. His dad is a metal scrap collector and there is no yard for kids because it's all covered in scrap metal junk. It's just not my ideal. I like clean and organization. I love his family but don't want to live with them. When I express how I feel he thinks I'm being selfish and should buy my own place by myself if I don't like it. What should I do?? |
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| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 12:18 PM PDT I can't stop crying over it :'( I miss my aunt. I used to live over there and I was really happy but then I moved with my mom about two years ago and I wanna move back :( I see her a lot she only lives a state away but she is like my mom she really understands my feelings and when I'm sad she cheers me up. I talked to my mom that I'm sad here and she just got mad at me and told me to shut up And she told me how in appreciative I am and how I should be thanking her for giving birth to me. All I wanted was to have a conversation with her that would make me feel better but she just yelled at me while I was bawling my eyes out. My aunt would never treat me like that :( I told my mom I just don't want to be sad anymore and she said deal with it your a kid. Please help and give me advice :( |
| Question: Jehovah's Witneses: I need a Bible verse to help ecourage a brother? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 12:17 PM PDT There's a brother in my congregation who doesn't go to meetings and is inactive. He made a promise to Jehovah a long time ago when he had cancer that if he survives he wil serve him all his life. But he became weak spiritually and I need a verse that can encourage him to start attending meetings and make him remember the promise that he once made. It would really mean a lot :) I wish only Jehovah's Witnesses would reply |
| Question: Should my daughter visit her mother in prison? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 12:15 PM PDT my wife will be going to prison for one year for being involved in a financial crime at the company she is at. I willing to stay with her because I feel She made some stupid mistakes but it was out of character so I think she just got herself into a bad situation and make some poor decisions. And I am not defending her or saying she should not serve her punishment. I told my daughter she is rightfully serving her punishment which is the right thing for her mistakes. I am wondering what is the best way to prepare for this situation and how to handle it. I have a daughter who is 16 and she seems to be handling it fine. I told her right away about it and she reacted pretty calmly. She later joked about how "now her mother is the one being ordered around". I have no problem with that really as it is probably better to joke a bit instead of being hysterical. I am wondering if she should visit. I went and visited my wife it was one giant room with several tables and several guards around, I saw my wife at one table. She was dressed in her jail clothes. We talked for about 30 minutes then in the end the officers line the inmates up and walked them through one of the sealed doors. I wonder if I should let my daughter visit. Would it be wise to take her when she will see the prison environment, other inmates and even guards could be intimidating |
| Question: Is ok to cuddle with my daughter who is 13? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 11:59 AM PDT I cuddle with my daughter until falls asleep . she actually gets scared very easliy so she needs some besides her until she falls asleep . her mom died when she was 3 ( i don't want to about it ) . I'm a single father . I have two questions 1. is it ok ? 2. how to stop this ? if it's wrong I have to no one to ask plz help . |
| Question: Really need help/advice about my dad. 10 points easy? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 11:59 AM PDT I'm 19 and feel like I'm at a point where I just can't stand to be around my father anymore. I feel like doesn't respect me or care how I feel at all. He has done many things in the past to disrespect me and it feels like he doesn't care much about me at all. Like he says he cares and looks out for me, but really he always put himself first no matter how it affects me. I know he does care on some level about me, I care very much for him, and I honestly feel they don't realize the way they can upset me. However they have taken advantage of my nature of trying to always look for the good in people, so I'm not entirely sure. I can't stand going to town just me and him anymore, and he asks about once a week if I want to join him. Part of it is because of the anger I feel toward them, another part of me fears being in an awkward inescapable situation with girls I know, as he'd bother me about them, I told him I was in love with this one girl three years ago and he STILL brings her up. You can't confront this person about problems, so I can't really talk to them about any of this. First off you tell them something personal like with that girl he'll always throw it back at you, and if you tell them about something they did to upset you they deny everything and act like they did no wrong. I really think he's a narcissist. I just don't know what to do anymore, and it's been a weight on my shoulders for awhile now. What should I do? |
| Question: How do I handle this situation? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 11:38 AM PDT I agreed to let my preteen daughter have a Facebook page but only her page was only to be to be used for game playing only. I also have her password to it. I told my daughter that when she made the page, not to accept any friends for now since she was just going to be on it for games. My fathers wife , who is younger then I am decided to spy on my daughters page and told my father that his granddaughter had a fb page but wouldn't accept her as a friend. I decided to block my dads wife on my daughters account. A few days ago my daughter and I flew in to visit our family and my dad and his wife picked us up from the airport. My daughter spent the night with my dad and his wide one night and when I went to pick my daughter up from his house the next day, he told me to find another way back to the airport because his wife got mad because I blocked her on my daughters page. I didn't just block his wife, I made my daughters page private . My fathers wife got upset over this and told my dad he couldn't bring us back to the airport like he had promised to do becaue his wife wouldn't let him He didn't even bother telling me he couldn't bring us to the airport until a few hours before I had to leave. So needless to say, I flew back home and decided to just quit talking to my dad because of his wife. Do you think I did the right thing by doing this? |
| Question: Autism, service dog.? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 11:27 AM PDT My son is 3 and has autism. He wonders away into traffic has manic episodes just total chaos. I wanted to get him a service dog. I know that one must raise 15,000$ just to get one. Could anyone help me with where to go to get support with raising the money? I have NO clue how to do any of this. Please help. It would be VERY beneficial for my boy. Please and thank you. |
| Question: MY BROTHER WAS CAUGHT SELLING DRUGS AT SCHOOL? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 11:12 AM PDT What a ******* idiot he is.. First off, I'm not sure what he was selling, but the school called my parents and the police. My dad left work early and my mother was flipping out. How much trouble is going to be in? He's 15 years old in in the 8th grade and I'm pretty sure he was just selling weed. |
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| Question: How do I deal with the family comments?? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 11:05 AM PDT I'm 19 and going to move in with my boyfriend soon. I have not yet told my family. I want to move out NOW rather than in a few months because I do not feel at HOME with my mom. Her and my stepdad always give me mean looks and are always assuming I lie about everything. I can hardly even leave my room. They will not let me see or visit my little brothers in their room or let them come into mine. I'm really tired of being treated the way I am here. I am more than happy that I'm moving soon. But I don't know how to tell my mom or my grandma that I'm moving out they are very judgmental. I am also scared on what to tell my dad who lives in a different state but is very supportive of me. Please help with any suggestions on how to break the news to them. |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 11:05 AM PDT So I want to ask my parents to let me do something, and whenever I try to to talk to them about it, we end up arguing. I'm thinking I should write a letter to them and have them read it, but not sure if that's a good idea, it might seem to planned out. Is this a good idea? |
| Question: Parents wont let me do anything after i got caught with weed? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 10:55 AM PDT I'm turning 18 very soon, and have been smoking weed since I was 14. I got into heavy this year, my senior year. For about 3 months I smoked everyday. You're probably thinking oh no just another pothead, but that's not the case. I played basketball a couple years in high school, ran track, and even played football my senior year despite the weed. I maintained a high GPA and got a better sat score than nearly all of my graduating class. A month ago, my parents found some paranafelia and flipped. They thought it was the worst thing on the planet. I've basically been on house arrest and my life's been pitiful the last month. I'll be 18 this summer and I really want to have a good summer with my friends before I go to college, which I've gotten into eeverywhere I've applied so far (UC decisions come march 15). But I can't have a good summer if my parents won't let me go out. I tried to get them to see that I have my life in order and how harmless weed is depending on the individual, but of course, my parents think weed is poison. I understand they only want the best for me but this situation is just very misunderstood and unnecessary. What would you do in my position? My family are immigrants btw. |
| Question: My boyfriend has nothing & I don't know what to do!? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 10:54 AM PDT So my boyfriend is adopted. He's 18 almost 19. Recently his adoption mom left the family and it's only been him and his dad. They have no money and have no insurance or anything. My boyfriend doesn't have any other family members and his dad recently told him he almost passed away twice in his sleep in the past month. If his dad passes then all he has left is me and he knows if his dad never wrote a will, his brothers(not biologically related) will inherit everything and my boyfriend will be left with nothing. I don't know what to do or what he can do. Helpppppp!! |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 10:36 AM PDT My sister & I have actually kinda good friends when I think about it. Actually were really good friends. Its a little embarrassing tho. Anyways, our mom just got sent to jail for 2 years :( Yeah, its hard. So my sis & I are now staying with our uncle, whom we both never met. We've been her for a week, but literally every single night, she will come to my room & ask,"Can I sleep with you?" I obviously cant say, no, cuz that just seems mean. So she just crawls in bed with me. I just feel kinda awkward cuz I never had anyone sleep with me, let alone a girl. She even hugs me in bed O_O Is that normal? Is this normal? should i tell her to stop? Im a boy, & shes a girl. im 13, shes 12 |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 10:27 AM PDT we live with our aunt in an old house she says she is realy scared and don't want to sleep alone so I sleep in her room,she talks in her sleep always asking me who is that guy in her room!she sat in her bed and point to somewhere last night she said there is a girl in the room and I said "ask her name" and she said "I can't, she is gone! " she also walk in her sleep and try to cross the wall, I feel creepy right now and she is not a liar she always try to be honest with me ,I also asked to one of my friend to visit our house she said she saw "something weird" in our house she refused to explain, it is realy stupid! I feel like live in a scary movie ,people around us treat my sister like she is acting to get attention and I hate them because even so she still needs help what should I do for her? I thought about that but if we try to know about that creature (or creatures)won't my sister's situation become even worse?maybe it will try to possess her? and i think I was wrong that i asked her about that creature's name Jennifer, that friend I'm talking about didn't know about My sister's problem and we didn't meet since two years ago ,she wasn't scared she just didn't want to scare me. I got your point and thanks |
| Question: Can i chose my legal guardian? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 10:26 AM PDT I'm 16 years old and my mom died about two weeks ago. As of now no one has custody of me. My family is honestly crazy and it stresses me out so much. I have anxiety and depression and being with them makes it worse. I want to live with my friend and her family. They are honestly like family I've known them forever they are good people, it's the only place I feel safe living. Will I get the choice to chose? Cuz all of my family say I can't. And they're family said of course I can stay with them. |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 10:19 AM PDT basically i hav enemies @ school and my mom knos how much they insult me bt all she does is compliments them & blames me for everything they do. she stalks them on whatsapp and saves all their photos. i deleted them as a contact on her phone & she yelled at me and hitting me. 2 days later i check her phone & she got their numbers back and continues 2 save their pics.& she says they are pretty & Im not and they have manners etc and i dont. when she doesnt even know them 2 say this she knows all the terrible things they've done to me and i told her to stop stalking them and its worrying how she just got their number again…i feel like she talks to them behind my back |
| Question: Do you think it's fair that my parents are mad at me? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 10:13 AM PDT I work as an actress, and yesterday I worked a 18hour day from 9:30am to 3:30am, and I at the moment I'm saving up for a car, so my parents had to take me, and pick me up. Well my dad, my mom, and my little sister were all upset that I had to work so late, and working late was beyond me. I sometimes have to pay for groceries in my family, because my parents get short of money, or give my mom money for gas. I'm trying to save up for myself, and so I can help them if they need it. But they all are upset with me. I explained to them I couldn't do anything, and that I'm trying but they just don't get it. I feel like my mom is only talking to me because I have her gas money. I just don't understand what I did wrong. I love them, and they never get mad, but this time around they are just being rude. |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 10:13 AM PDT My sister was homeless for a few days and now she's living with me and my parents. She has a 5 year old daughter who is disabled and she gets medical assistance, WIC, social security, etc. The father (her ex boyfriend) left ger for 6 months and didnt pay rent, which led her to being poor and homeless for a few days before calling us. Mind you we haven't spoken to her in 3 years. She has Paranoid Personality Disorder. She constantly says that she's "aware of her surroundings." She's argumentative, defensive, confrontational, verbally aggressive, demanding, Narcissistic etc. She has no friends and acts as if her family did something to her when we've done nothing. My other sister paid off her car for her, while juggling school, work and a mortgage, yet she blamed her for all her problems when she didn't even do anything. Rather than taking her to a shelter after years of drama, my parents did what most parents would do: they let her stay with us "temporarily." It's been almost 6 months since she's moved in with us and she has yet to apply for housing, she won't go after her ex for child support, she won't apply for transportation assistance for her daughter, so I've been driving her to and from appointments since day one. She has this sense of entitlement, like we owe her something. She's driving everyone insane and we don't know what to do. We want to kick her out, but she has a child and we don't know if we can legally. We live in Fridley, MN What should/can we do? Also, she doesn't work. She takes care of her daughter like a Mother should, but she latches HER responsibilities for HER child onto others. She wants people to do things for her and she throws a fit like a child when she doesn't get her way. Honestly I don't think she's planning on leaving. Not when there's cable, internet, etc. She's getting too comfortable. |
| Question: Do you agree that my moms a freak? wish i wasnt born? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 10:12 AM PDT basically i hav enemies @ school and my mom knos how much they insult me bt all she does is compliments them & blames me for everything they do. she stalks them on whatsapp and saves all their photos. i deleted them as a contact on her phone & she yelled at me and hitting me. 2 days later i check her phone & she got their numbers back and continues 2 save their pics.& she says they are pretty & Im not and they have manners etc and i dont. when she doesnt even know them 2 say this |
| Question: How would you feel if none of your kids like you? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 10:04 AM PDT Would you feel like a failure? Upset? My mom has 4 kids and none of them including myself have ever had a relationship with her, nor do we talk to her. She isnt a horrible mother, she's just clueless on what being a mother means. Instead of looking at herself to figure out why none of her 4 kids have ever liked her, she blames me.......... How would you feel if your kids didn't like you? |
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| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 09:27 AM PDT Okay so I am 21 currently jobless since December and have been looking. Its been hard as it is to find a job and iv had no luck. My sister currently lives in another state because her husband got deployed and lives with her mother in law. They bought me a plane ticket so I'd be able to fly over and help out with her babies while her mother in law is out of town. Im supposed to go home by Sunday but turns out her mother in law is staying out of town longer and want me to stay here longer. I wanna go home to get **** done. Iv been here long enough but I know that if I wanna go home my parents will see me as a *****. And my boyfriend is furious at me cause I'm not getting a job yet.. I'm basically a puppet with no options. What should I do? Please help. |
| Question: My moms been sleeping with a married man!? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 09:19 AM PDT Im 14 years and i live with my normal family in a nice home. I hv a small sis and my mom n dad. My dad has to travel a lot because he has a travel agency. So theres this guy who is like 45 years and i know that my mom is hving an affair with him. On Many nights when my dad is travellinghe comes to my house very late and my mom thinks that im asleep but i would be wide awake. I just dont know how to express it. I was just going through my moms phn today and i saw some very bad messages frm that bastard to my mom and i think now this is enough and my dad is a very nice man and i love him very much so i cant let this happen to him. Pls tell me what to do guyz |
| Question: Is it okay to think some family members are pretty/handsome? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 08:53 AM PDT I think my older brother looks cute and a cousin of mine has grown to be quite handsome. Is it okay to think such about family members? I love my family, of course, but I would never feel any lust or anything. |
| Question: Should I let my brother out of this bet? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 08:48 AM PDT I bet my brother 50 bucks I could beat him in leg wrestling and I beat him easily. He wanted to go double or nothing and I beat him again. So now he owes me a hundred bucks but he's refusing to pay. Not sure if I should just let it go cuz he's my brother and won't pay anyway. My only other option is maybe try and beat him up for it since I did prove I'm stronger. I'm 19 and in college and he's 23 so I could use the money, and he'll live without it. What do you all think? |
| Question: How do good parents make good decisions? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 08:44 AM PDT This question is a spin off of my other question. The elements being my 12 year old daughter, BEAUTIFUL but barely passing the 7th grade and breaks house rules. She has money that she wants to put in an account so my husband took her to his bank and opened an account for her. while they were there a banker commented on her looks and suggested that she see someone and they made a tentative appointment for this weekend. The child is already on a two week restriction for the violation of the house rules and she is to complete all of her late assignments even if it is too late to turn them in. We will not be paying for a performing arts summer program but we are considering sending her to Georgia for an iDTech all girls summer camp(she says she doesn't want to go). My husband wants to take her. I say no. I tell him that when Dad makes favorable changes in her punishment that she learns that Dad is easily compromised. That the punishment is not concrete. That the lesson learned is to introduce distractions to change the punishment(disciplinary actions taken). I know that he feels bad because they don't really have any father daughter time. They haven't done anything since her birthday in July. Now he wants to take her to an actual food truck war and now this modeling agent. It sends the message that Dad pays attention to me when I break the rules then Dad feels guilty and will work harder to make things up to me. |
| Question: Sister Needs To Get A Job? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 08:44 AM PDT My sister is 20 and doesn't have a job yet. She plays video games all day long and she also has a brand new 2014 Mazda 3 that our mom pays for. She says she doesn't want to get a job because she has no time. She goes to school on Tuesdays and Thursdays and is free for the rest of the week. I asked her what your going to do when you move out. She said she is going to be roommates with her friend. Her friend is a dropout that doesn't want to get a job as well. I asked her where are you going to get your income from? She said welfare. I am 17 and she is 20. I have my own businesses! Helen, I am asking this and looking for help because I care about my sister. Not to judge her. Ok I asked her to try and apply because I told her what would happen in the future. She is applying to GameStop and Books A Million! I am relieved and happy now. |
| Question: My wife hates my family what should I do? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 08:39 AM PDT Let me first say my wife liked my family in the beginning. My parents are pastors of there own church and my sister sings for it as well, so very very religious. It's a Christian church and I do not attend I do not go but only holidays and birthdays. Now the hard part is my parents talk about my wife all the time around my older niece and she tells my oldest daughter and in turn tells my wife what they are saying. My wife has gone out of her way to be nice to them but because we are different in how we live our life and raise our children my parents choose to talk about her in a negative way. I have been dealing with this for over a year now and it's gotten to the point where she hates my whole family and cuz she doesn't have anyone to take it out on I get the blunt part of it and it has put such a strain on our marriage she is thinking about leaving me. She still loves me a lot and just doesn't know what to do. Let me also say we are pregnant with our first child together. She is about 21 weeks so she feels like she is stuck. Here is where is takes a turn my youngest neice of 5 years old just got leukemia two days ago and my family is all hurting bad. Now she feels like she is stuck even further I don't know what to do I've talked to my parents before about other issues we have had and they deny anything that I bring to them or blame it on other people. I will do anything to save my marriage she is the love of my life and I would do anything for her. Help! |
| Question: Should I get a moped or continue with the car? Read situation below? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 08:35 AM PDT I bought a car from my dad but I have to have insurance and pay for gas and everything right now. I got kicked out and live with my gf now, I'm 18, a guy and have no credit. The cheapest quote I got was $700 monthly and I only make about $800 monthly but I have $250 for rent and about $100 for gas so I end up with about $450 a month. I can't afford insurance. But, if I get a street legal moped, I don't have to pay insurance around here, it's real good on gas and I don't really go far anyway. If I have to go across the interstate for an emergency, I have buddies who can give me a ride for gas money. I can give my dad the car back but he said he's only give me $700 for it which is enough to get a legal moped. The problem is, my dad would be really disappointed. He HIGHLY recommends I don't do it. I can just get a poncho if it rains. The weather's good around here and I plan on getting another car soon. I don't want to disappoint my dad though. Need advice please |
| Question: My grandpa stopped hugging me? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 08:14 AM PDT my parents never hugged me . every here and there my grandpa use to hug me and I secretly use to like it . but now he doesn't like it been 3 months he hadn't hugged I miss it , whats worse is that he gave hug to cousin but not me and I live with him now I'm 16 and my parents never really liked all they have care about is my younger brother and sister . why he doesn't hug me anymore , I didn't do anything wrong . I am too embarrassed to ask him |
| Question: My autistic sister is ignoring me what to do? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 08:11 AM PDT She has high functioning autism or aspergers she's verbal and can express herself better than most low functioning anyway she wanted to play a game on my PC but she doesn't really know how to do it I let her figure it out while I go to the store with my mom when I came back she accidentally screwed up my game I blew up cause I invest a lot of time into it(immature I know) and I told her things non related to the game and made fun of her aspergers I told her she'll never have a boyfriend and she's a weirdo and that she's embarrassing basically took my anger out she didn't say anything just went to her room 1 hour later she started having a "meltdown" and started screaming and crying really high pitched and loud she wouldn't tell my mom what was wrong though I assume it's my fault its been 3 days since then and I apologized but she just ignores me she's usually quiet but this is totally different she won't tell me what's wrong nor my parents I feel really bad I have a few questions what should I do? What is she feeling? And please don't assume I'm a troll this is serious to me... Just some basic info I'm 14 younger brother she's 17 while I go to regular high school she does home study due to anxiety disorder she's also pretty antisocial but has a hand full of friends she looks like your average teenage girl really you wouldn't suspect something was wrong now she's ignoring me I love her I really do .. |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 08:10 AM PDT I feel if I don't stand up for myself and my decisions I am going against everything I believe in and will be unhappy but if I do stand up for myself I am coming between my husband and his family. I should tell you my husband feels the same way I do, he just has a hard time expressing it to his mother. Any advice? should I stand up for my myself or just go with the flow and do what the mother in law wants? |
| Question: What does this mean ? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 08:04 AM PDT plz read till the end my daughter who is 13 just randomly hugged me . her mom died when she was 3 , so I'm her only parent . she usually give me hugs but like , when I come home from office or sometimes when I havw to leave to travel to other state I give her a hug and kiss her , say good bye . but it was sunday noon she came uo from her bedroom and I was watching tv and she come to me and hugs me , i didn't asked her anything she hugged and went to grab some food and then went back to her room . I have no other woman to ask to . why did she did that is she goung through something I'm just worried a little plz tell me ? btw I'm 42 , single father |
| Question: How to tell my parents I got a bad grade? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 08:03 AM PDT Well 2 weeks agai my parents found out I'm having bad grade in almost all my classes and that they will sell my all my electronic things phone,computer, etc and kick me out of football if they don't see improvement well I'm improved in all my classes except for math which I had a 40 and now I have a 53 and I'm scared that there gonna sell all my stuff so how should I tell them or wait tulle report card so I can get my fun before I'm grounded till next report card?( report card comes out next week) |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 07:43 AM PDT So here's the thing. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. My parents have always been very overprotective, which is understandable. I told them I was pregnant about a month ago and they completely took full control of everything. They told me I'm not allowed to be with the father of my child while I'm living in their home. I understood that completely so I told them that I'll move out. My parents told me they'll be beyond disappointed if I do that. I broke up with my boyfriend because of that because I just wanted the best for my baby but then I thought it wasn't fair that I'll be taking my baby's father away just because my parents don't approve. So we got back together and behind my parents back, we got an apartment. Im a college student and I work full time. I make around $2800 a month. My boyfriend makes around $2600. We can afford moving out. I just don't want to mess up my relationship with my parents. I'm stuck. I don't know how to tell them that I'll be moving out in a month. My sister told me that my mom said she won't care for my child if I move out. It really hurt my feelings. I just want to have my little family in one place. Any advice? |
| Question: Can you tell me your opinion about having a dysfunctional family? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 07:41 AM PDT I am studying social sciences, and I'm really interested in the way dysfunctional families affect especially the children and their lives as they grow up. Most children I know that didn't grow up with a mother and a father in a healthy family environment, are either using different some kinds of drugs and alcohol, or have some kind of psychological problem-even the slightest. (By healthy family, I mean having a good role model of a father and a mother as they grow up) I am NOT intending to be mean or disrespectful towards anyone, so If you don't want to answer please don't comment anything rude or random. Thanks. |
| Question: I Need $40 By 3-19-15? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 07:33 AM PDT My Phone Bill Is $40 I wanna pay it I'm a girl winter is clearing up out there so I can't shovel snow or anything because it's kinda gone. I live in Detroit. I don't do Chores but my Mother have me wash dishes sometimes I keep my room clean with out her asking but I don't get Paid cause I'm suppose to have it cleaned anyways. So what's some ideas? Goooood Greeat Answers Only |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 07:21 AM PDT He also needs to learn to be responsible |
| Question: Am I wrong to be upset? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 07:16 AM PDT Am I wrong to be upset? Please read description below. |
| Question: Beating up your sibling? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 07:10 AM PDT I got into a huge fight with my sibling. I'm the youngest sibling and she is the oldest. for as long as i could remember, she always felt like she was better then me and when i was younger i was very overweight.. she would talk about me and try to use my weight to hurt my feelings. Even my mother would call me fat , and basically do the sane thing when she'd get angry.. my dad never did that to me. I grew up and lost so much weight , now my weight is no topic. my sister triea to compete with me in terms of school and work.. im 20 and she is 23. I am in beauty school and she is in a college about to graduate. Yesterday, she was trying to belittle me and tell me " you dont have what i have , i look better then you, you have nothing, you have no job".. when i am in school everyday of the week .. busting my *** to get my hair license! The hair profession is 10 times more work. I graduate in 3 months but i have a lot of problems with my health that might hinder me from finishing right now , i might have to come back. My parents dont understand how much she thinks shes better then me, tries to use my weaknesses to hurt me and i basically beat her up.. I blacked out and messed her up. Hurt my hand, but that was it. I turned into a monster and wouldnt stop. All the anger i felt towards her just poured out... years of verbal abuse. My parents are so upset but dont realize i am the one who did not start this.. i was triggered. Where do i go from here? |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 07:07 AM PDT He also needs to learn to be responsible |
| Question: My parents have split up but i dont care? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 07:04 AM PDT Hi im 17 years old and in college. A few months ago my dad moved out and my parents told me they were separating however when they told me i didn't really care. And my parents and friends keep asking me if im okay but the thing is i dont really care. I dont no why, i just dont haha. Is this normal or am a just heartless or something? My friends dont understand that i dont really care because when their parents got separated they were upset and angry etc. |
| Posted: 12 Mar 2015 07:00 AM PDT Hi, im a mother of 2 young children with no income, my children father beats me whenever he gets mad, and i want to get an injunction but i don't have any money to get me there, he does not give me money and does not want me to work. I would like to move without him knowing that I moved, but i dont have anyway to transport my furniture, or no anyone to help. is there an organization in jacksonville fl that can help me with funds, injunction, and relocating? I look but i could not find anything that is helpful. |
| Question: How to deal with future mother in law? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 06:56 AM PDT My fiancé and I have been together for three years. We have a 7 month old daughter. My fiance's mother is so mean all the time. She is always negative and making comments like she hopes her other sons ex girlfriend gets hit by a bus. And she says these things in front of her other grandchildren! I have never heard her say anything nice. I don't want her influencing my daughter or saying mean things about me in front of her. How do I deal with her without making my fiancé choose between us??? Everytime I am around her i am so nervous anxious and never say a word because all she says is mean comments. Even making fun of her own daughters weight! |
| Question: Why are the grandparents the ones who are raising black children? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 06:20 AM PDT |
| Question: How can i go live w my dad? Posted: 12 Mar 2015 06:01 AM PDT I'm 15 and live w my mom and see my dad on weekends. I want to live w him full time, but my mom says no because he's not a Christian. What can I do ? |
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