Marriage & Divorce: Question: Why cant i remember waking up? |
- Question: Why cant i remember waking up?
- Question: Should I give my husband a third chance?
- Question: My girlfriend is always putting me hand on her throat while we have sex. She says she likes to be choked but is that dangerous?
- Question: I Can't See Myself Getting Old?
- Question: My Husband & I r married. We found out that his mom never legally changed his last name to his stepfathers last name. R we legally married?
- Question: Too embarrassed to be sexy for my husband?
- Question: I need advice on forgetting about another man.?
- Question: How do you know if your husband is cheating?
- Question: Can a man find marriage partner after the age of 50?
- Question: What am I entitled to from a divorce after 26 years?
- Question: Husband stays up all night on logged on to Facebook and on cocaine. Is he happy being back with me?
- Question: My fiance has never hit me but I've had my close friend tell me these are warning signs that an abusive relationship could develop?
- Question: Yup he's married!?
- Question: Was my ex-fiance emotionally abusive or just insecure? Did I do the right thing leaving him? Why do I feel so guilty?
- Question: How can I be comfortable being naked around my husband?
- Question: Will she talk when she's ready?
- Question: Marriage problems?
- Question: I feel like m husband is taking advantage of me?
- Question: Does it mean anything when your ex asks about you to family?
- Question: My little sister is getting married at 18 and I really disagree with it/don't want to go?
- Question: Is my husband mental ?
- Question: Will man have to give wife money when she left on her on?
- Question: Can you find letter from Georgia Board of Professiona Counselors, Social Workers and Marriage Counselors ?
- Question: Know someone who is wants to be in an unhappy marriage...a courageous act?
- Question: Child support?
- Question: What's your opinion on arranged marriages?
- Question: If filing for divorce in Washington state, does my husband have to come to Washington to sign the divorce?
- Question: What am I supposed to feel?
- Question: How can I verify my wife filed the divorce papers?
- Question: What properties do I have to list on legal separation?
- Question: Husband wants to make a porno of us having sex, oral, domination of me, whipping, choking ect should i do it?
- Question: My husband is not intrested in sex with me anymore why? Plz help ;(?
- Question: Is extra marital affair/illicit affair very common to where you lived?
- Question: Best position for my wife..?
- Question: Why Do We Change After Marriage? I have heard that people change after they get married. Why is that? Isnt that kind of like lying?
- Question: What Should I do? Your Love or Your Family?
- Question: Husband left me, his new girlfriend wants to pick up our children for his visit its only been a month since we parted ways?
- Question: Ladies: did you ever hit your husband with a frying pan?
- Question: WTF? Is wrong with me?
- Question: Am I a bastard?
- Question: What to do to spice up your married life?
- Question: Should I expect an earful? Just curious?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: If marriage contract say you have to get divorced same country where?
- Question: If marriage contract say you have to get divorced same country where you married than while living in USA?
- Question: HAVE YOUR MARRIED YEARS ACTUALLY BEEN THE BEST YEARS OF YOUR LIFE?
- Question: I'm officially divorced and would like to know if I can change my name back to my maiden name on my card.?
- Question: How do you decide your S.O. was the person you wanted?
- Question: My husband went to Jamaica for the next 2 weeks. what can i do to keep myself from missing him?
- Question: I feel atrocious thinking about this.... can anyone relate?
- Question: How does it feel to kiss a girl?
- Question: What is a good Easter present for my husband?
- Question: Is marriage pointless now?
- Question: I am so tempted to cheat?
- Question: My husband only view our marriage as a business partnership, love him to not want to leave and want to be what he needs sexually which is?
- Question: Is it impractical to not know the baby's gender until he/she is born?
- Question: Should I offer my wife a way to repair our broken marriage after she cheated before filing for divorce?
- Question: Men: Would you leave your wife if she slept with another man in order to save your life?
- Question: If your spouse threatened divorce, would you trust a marriage counselor to guide you two in the "right" direction? Why or why not?
| Question: Why cant i remember waking up? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:36 PM PDT Last Friday my gf told me she weent to my house to give her a ride to work and she said she had a conversation with me and that I blew her off and told her no and she left crying. The thing is that I can't remember any of this is as I was sleep walking or on automatic mode.Now she is pissed off and she won't believe me that I don't remember any of that .anyone know why this happens? |
| Question: Should I give my husband a third chance? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:29 PM PDT From the beginning my husband and I hAve had a lot of problems. The love is there but the fights are terrible. He has been emotionally abusive and controlling. He has kicked me out before in the middle of the night and ever since he has always threatened to do it again. Now all of the sudden that I've been gone for about two months he claims he has realized how he has been and what he has done to me and he has. Changed?? He also had a terrible childhood and just learned his brother and his mother were a piece of **** and he needed to be away from them. My biggest problem is I want to leave him so bad but I am guilty because he just lost everything and I don't know what to do. I know if I go back with him I will be miserable. Or at least I think help |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:24 PM PDT Honestly we were both virgins so I have no experience with this sort of thing. Even though she was a virgin too she seems to already have a lot of preferences during sex most involving some form of masochism. When she puts my hand on her throat I kind of just keep it there lightly but she always tries to put more pressure. I think she knows I am a little concerned about it because she says we can wait to build up to what she actually wants which is being choked until she passes out. Every ounce of my common sense is telling me that passing out from lack of air cant be good for anyone even if they are getting pleasure from it. Even if she doesnt pass out I still think this could be harming her. Is this something bad for her? If it is how do I convince her that we shouldnt do it? Or am I just panicking? |
| Question: I Can't See Myself Getting Old? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:20 PM PDT I am an 18 year old college student. I am a bright child with as people tell me a "bright future ahead of me", but I can't picture myself with a job, with kids, a husband, a home or even growing up on my own. I don't think I will get there. Does anyone else have this issue? Has anyone else previously had this issue? |
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| Question: Too embarrassed to be sexy for my husband? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:12 PM PDT I am a very plain person, to be honest. I never get dressed up. I don't even own makeup of any kind. Our 1st anniversary is coming up, and I wanted to look sexy for my husband that night. I bought sexy red lingerie, but am now regretting this. I feel embarrassed. Like, he is going to laugh at me. Can someone as plain as me be sexy even once? |
| Question: I need advice on forgetting about another man.? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:09 PM PDT I have been married for almost 30 years and he is a great man. Three years ago this man told me he was in love with me. We have had an emotional affair since then. I don't want this to continue. I have written him a letter telling him it has to stop. My problem is I cannot stop thinking about him. I cry myself to sleep every night. I know how wrong I have been. I just need advice on forgetting this other man. My heart is broken |
| Question: How do you know if your husband is cheating? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:01 PM PDT |
| Question: Can a man find marriage partner after the age of 50? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:01 PM PDT Let us suppose-he doesn't want to have enter into any relationships during his youth and wants to concentrate on building his business. Somehow he feels by the time he is 50+, he will be okay with marriage or even a relationship. Can men at that age still find someone? |
| Question: What am I entitled to from a divorce after 26 years? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:00 PM PDT |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:00 PM PDT Husband and I had a long break and just wondering will it last since we are back together because of his strange behavior. I work overnight 2 nights a week, but his behavior has turned in to a 7 day thing. |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:51 PM PDT I've always known this man had a short fuse and the worst temper in the world.I had seen this anger but never directed towards me until after we got engaged. It seems like I trip off his emotions instantly. It started by him throwing things whenever we argued. He would toss anything he could get his hands on and even threw a coffee mug right by my head though he claims he had no intention of hitting me with it. A lot of this anger I believe has to do with jealousy. Since getting engaged he doesnt want me speaking to any guys. I understood where he was coming from and knew I couldnt just go out drinking with my guy friends like I used to. But this is not enough for him. Recently he yelled at me in a crowded mall when he thought I was flirting with a cashier. When we left the mall and got in the car I could tell he was furious and was driving a bit recklessly. I told him to slow down and he just asked if it was scaring me. I said yes and he sped up even more. I kept telling him to stop being a lunatic and drive correctly but he said he would only slow down if I apologized. By this time we had cars honking at us and ran several red lights so I did what he said and he stopped. As soon as the car slowed down I hopped out and said I was walking home. He drove along side me apologizing saying he was acting stupid and he wouldnt do it again. Eventually we sort of talked it out but I am worried that this may lead to an abusive relationship. What do you think? |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:43 PM PDT so I've been dating this guy for quite some time he has had a lot of problems in his marriage do to me something I'm not happy about but there's not much I can do about it so he got her back about 10 days ago this past Saturday I went out with some friends and had some drinks and like the idiot IM I called him while drunk and talk to her and him!! Yeah I know very stupid anyways she kicked him out again now he wants to come over back in California to me he's up in Arizona right now yeah I know he's playing games and doesn't know who he wants so I figured I just come on here and ask a question and see where goes with your guises opinion on this crazy situation that I explained so far what would you do if you was in my shoes would you allow him to come back to California or just tell him to stay where he's at and lose contact i'm not going to lie it would be really hard getting over him but I'm pretty sure he could do it |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:42 PM PDT Before engagement he was my best friend. Charming. Calling me in the middle of the night to make sure I was okay when I mentioned I had a bad day kind of guy. It changed after. I come from a conservative family and he would constantly manipulate me to say things to him and say hes afraid of my religiousity. He used religion when he wanted tho. I started taking some religious classes which he despised and said I needed to promise not to take any classes and go to hooka bars with him otherwise he was going to break the engagement. Families were involved, I felt trapped, so I agreed. He hated my honesty. Once he showed me a pic of a dress his family picked out and asked my opinion. I said it was pretty to be nice, but he kept insisting if it was my taste and I said it wasn't what I was used to but id love to wear it and he got mad and said "Jeez. Well I don't like your taste." I told him that was rude and didn't talk to him until he called to yell at me for ignoring him, calling me immature, arrogant, stupid, crazy, and he's afraid to have kids with me, I can take my ego elsewhere he'd find someone else to love. And then "you can wipe your butt with the cloth I don't care!" And then called back and said "don't make me yell at you. I love you. Put water on the fire instead of defending yourself. Promise you won't leave me?" He controlled the finances too and what I wore. When I broke and told my mom he cried saying I broke his trust and I should've talked to him. I feel guilty. |
| Question: How can I be comfortable being naked around my husband? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:25 PM PDT Clearly when I marry him he has to see e naked. I am scared. I have stretch marks and cellulite even though I'm skinny because my legs are super long. My boobs aren't that big etc. I'm scared I'm going to be acting like I'm 12 on my wedding night not letting him see me |
| Question: Will she talk when she's ready? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:23 PM PDT My girlfriends parents are in the separated and in the process of a divorce. A few weeks ago her mom was caught in an affair and things got tense at her house so she has been staying with me. It's been good and I love living together and coming home to her, only she hasn't really opened up since the day she moved in. And even then she didn't really go into the details. I haven't asked her how things are going because it's not a pleasant topic and I haven't felt it was my place to bring it up. Her parents have been together for over 24 years and seemed perfectly happy with each other so I'm sure this is affecting her more than she's showing, should I bring this up and ask her or just let her do it if she wants to? |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:04 PM PDT As a Christian and a married wife. My marriage is falling apart slowly and there's a guy in my life who wants to be in it. Will I be punished for living my husband for him. Is it right or should I work things out with him. |
| Question: I feel like m husband is taking advantage of me? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 07:58 PM PDT My husband and I have been together 8 years, married for 4. I feel like he is taking advantage of me. For the last several years, he has gotten worse and worse. I do everything. I clean, cook, take care of the dogs, do the laundry, mow the lawn, ect. He works full time, and I work about 35 hours a week as a nurse. I am also a full time student, so I am very busy with homework on top of everything. I can not remember the last time my husband did a chore with out me nagging him. He is a horribly messy person. I clean up the house every night before bed. When I wake up, I found he has left the stove top a mess from his breakfast (literally food everywhere), leaves dishes and food out, leaves his clothes/shoes everywhere ect. I am very clean and organized, and this drives me nuts. The dishes are overflowing in the sink (thats the one thing I am done doing for him) and he literally could care less. When I have talked to him about it, he says he does not care. That I "only work 35 hours a week" and therefore it should be my job to cook and clean. Just last night, he straight up told me I do not work hard, and that I do not really do as much as I think I do. (continued in first comment) |
| Question: Does it mean anything when your ex asks about you to family? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 07:34 PM PDT He broke up with me almost 2 in a half months ago. After no contact for 6 wks he pitches the idea of being friends. I told him I'd consider it. Then I found out he was seeing another girl and that made me very unhappy. So I decided to not be his friend and just move on. The thing is that me and his mom talk on a regular basis for the most part and she told me that he asks how I am a lot. Also last week, his mom came by WITH him |
| Question: My little sister is getting married at 18 and I really disagree with it/don't want to go? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 07:14 PM PDT I'd really rather wring the groom's neckā¦ yes this is a shotgun wedding. But anyway onto my question, would it be so terrible of me not to go? There's no way in hell I can fake happy through that. My parents have adopted the attitude of "she's legally an adult and it's her mistake to make, if it is one" |
| Question: Is my husband mental ? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 06:08 PM PDT He's ALWAYS yelling at me. And I'm getting SICK AND TIRED of his **** ! I hate his guts. I hope he chokes on his food. |
| Question: Will man have to give wife money when she left on her on? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 05:32 PM PDT |
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| Question: Know someone who is wants to be in an unhappy marriage...a courageous act? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 04:07 PM PDT He is in the marriage since his wife doesn't have a job & used to be sick. He does not want to leave her. She is financially dependent on him as a provider & to take care of her at times. She is now much better health wise but depends on him. He now only loves her like a sister or a friend. Sounds admirable, would you agree? |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 03:12 PM PDT if my ex makes roughly about 4000 every month and he is already married to somebody else who makes 2000 a month does her income count too? if so how much child support would i get ? if not still around how much . he is telling me he only has to give me 200 |
| Question: What's your opinion on arranged marriages? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 03:04 PM PDT No dramatic hate, dislike is ok everyone has their own pov When I refer to arranged marriage im not reffering to anything against ones will. Do you think it's a good idea, ex, if you were in the position would you allow it? In my culture marriages are conducted like.. match.com lets say. Your parents look for someone for you to be married to and both parties can get to know each other for about a year or until the marriage date. Sorry bout the typos and stuff, I typed this way too fast haha The match.com thing was a joke. |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 02:49 PM PDT I'm military getting stationed in Washington. We are having a simple divorce neither wants anything from the other. Just want to know if he will have to come to Washington to sign or could I send him the papers by mail. |
| Question: What am I supposed to feel? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 02:39 PM PDT Married 6 yrs, no kids, 2 miscarriages & she springs on me that shes 8 weeks. I do want kids but its been hard losing the two so how am I supposed to feel. I want to be happy & excited that turns into fear & sadness at the thought of losing a child once again. Advice is appreciated from those whose gone through this.... |
| Question: How can I verify my wife filed the divorce papers? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 02:28 PM PDT My wife and I are no longer on speaking terms. A few months back she mailed me divorce papers to sign, which I signed and sent back to her. But I never got any kind of confirmation that she filed the papers. Should I go to the court and ask if they have a divorce for us on file? Thanks for any pointers. |
| Question: What properties do I have to list on legal separation? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 02:15 PM PDT My husband and I have a lot of stuff and I was just wondering if I have to list EVERYTHING we have on the forms? Stuff like furniture and appliances is easy, but do they want all the details like towels, hampers, home accessories, dvds/cds, dishes etc etc? If so, all this stuff would not fit on the form, can I use a separate piece of paper to do that? Not looking to get a consultation with lawyer just to ask that so please don't tell me to get one... |
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| Question: My husband is not intrested in sex with me anymore why? Plz help ;(? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 01:47 PM PDT I got married in 2005 and I have a daughter she is 8 yrs old now. I got divorce 5 yrs ago and I remarried with an other man who is already married and have children as well but he is separated now. Recently doctors told me that iam having PCO so iam taking medicine and losing my weight my doctor told me my ovulation period she said to have sex in these days but my husband is no more intrested in having sex with me anymore he always say we will do it tomorrow or Iam not feeling well bla bla bla I dnt know what's the reason but Iam hurt ;( I want kids but I dnt know why he is not co operating with me? He loves kids too but dnt know what is my fault we love each other but I dnt know what is in his mind Plz guys help me. |
| Question: Is extra marital affair/illicit affair very common to where you lived? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 01:27 PM PDT ......I'm asking out of curiosity and not for someone else's experience |
| Question: Best position for my wife..? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 01:20 PM PDT FYI: This is not meant to be a "perverted" question it's for me to have better understanding. My wife always want to be on top. I requested that I be on top and she agreed. After a few min she asked me to stop because "it wasn't hitting the spot." She got on top, within an inch of entering her she started making noise. My question, is this common? |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 01:10 PM PDT Would you ever marry a virgin? Would you ever marry a male virgin? I know people change, but what I was meaning by the question is people change after they get married I guess because they have someone no longer need to be on their best behavior and do nice things for their spouse. |
| Question: What Should I do? Your Love or Your Family? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 01:09 PM PDT I am officially engaged with a person I loved for two years; however, I am also engaged with taking care of my mom whom is a post-kidney transplant patient (taking 32 medicines drugs per day). Moreover, I felt obligated as a "good son" to take care of her and plus first, I owed her (my mom) "$500,000" which I borrowed over the last 10 years not yet able to pay back. Second, my father whom passed away last month asked me to take good care of my mom and I promised him. My mom and my future fiancee just have this "ir-reconcilable differences" and can not in no way "live together in my mother's home" happily thereafter after marriage. What Should I do? I am going crazy...I am dragged right hand by my mom and left by my love, whom can help me in many ways and her love transcends my love for her (yes I am truly blessed)...What am I to do? Lord pls give me answer... |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 01:05 PM PDT he told me he would get her to get the kids this friday as he would be working i dont like her she stole my husband and ruined my family i dont want my sons going with her but because i used to be a drug addict i feel i have to comply or i could lose them to him and her for good if they get mad and take me to court for the boys/? what should i do i know she spends time with them and there is nothing i can do to stop her from seeing them since they live together but i dont like her and dont want her picking them up from me shes a home wrecker and now my kids like her i tell them shes awful but they always talk about her |
| Question: Ladies: did you ever hit your husband with a frying pan? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 01:00 PM PDT |
| Question: WTF? Is wrong with me? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 12:48 PM PDT WTF? Is wrong with me I like to buy my wife flowers even if its not her birthday or Valentines Days I will skip watching the football game to spend time with my wife even though I like to watch football I go to things or partys with my wife even though I am a introvert and more of a homebody. I respect my wife treat her like a princess and do my best to make her happy. If I want to buy something for myself or do something for myself I would rather do something nice for my wife. I write romantic letters or leave message around the house saying how much she means to me and that I love her. I get up early every morning to make coffee not because I like to drink it but because she drinks it. I always remember her birthday, the first day we meet even though she doesn't remember me that was the day that changed my life forever, even our anniversary and even how many years we were married. I will go see all the chick flicks with her if she asked me to. I would be heartbroken if anything were to happen to her and would not want to go on I would die for her. These and so many other things, so I gotta ask WTF is wrong with me? |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 12:48 PM PDT My parents were married under wedlock. But when my mom was pregnant, they had divorced and separated. My mom has never seen my dad after that. I haven't seen my dad throughout my life. I'm 17. (My mom married another man a few years ago, but I haven't even seen my legal dad till now) |
| Question: What to do to spice up your married life? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 12:26 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I expect an earful? Just curious? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 12:05 PM PDT Would you be annoyed if your spouse told you just three weeks ahead of time, that they cannot accompany you to an out-of-state wedding for a mutual friend of yours, because of a sudden scheduling conflict with work? My wife is a saint but I have a feeling this news will not be received well. Bonus: On the topic of why I cannot attend, is it safe to assume my boss hates me if he is sending me to an upcoming conference in Orlando the week of school vacation? Think plane full of Disney-bound children And no, I cannot say no to going to this conference Thank you to the good samaritan question-mover, but I said Orlando not Miami sooo wrong section |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 11:41 AM PDT I have been stay at home mom for 9 years and have 4 kids. Husband moved out about 6 months ago and I have let him still be a huge part of kids life but he scares me and the kids. He has anger problems, punching doors, throwing his laptop at me and breaking it, mentally abusive, and constantly telling me to go jump off a bridge and die. This has been going on for awhile with all his cheating and lying for past several years and even forging my name on taxes and extensions for years. He has been threatening me with the kids and now saying he will take the house away from me if I take the kids away for couple days. What is likelihood of him getting primary custody of the kids , will I get any spousal support for a while until you got a job and place to live, etc. |
| Question: If marriage contract say you have to get divorced same country where? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 11:26 AM PDT |
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| Question: HAVE YOUR MARRIED YEARS ACTUALLY BEEN THE BEST YEARS OF YOUR LIFE? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 11:14 AM PDT A FRIEND OF MINE JUST CELEBRATED HIS 3 YEAR ANNIVERSARY AND PROUDLY SAID THIS HAS BEEN THE BEST 3 YEARS OF HIS LIFE. I SAID MORE SO THAN COLLEGE? HE SAID YES. SORRY ABT THE CAPS, MY KEYBOARD IS BROKEN :( |
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| Question: How do you decide your S.O. was the person you wanted? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 11:08 AM PDT Out of everyone in the world (generally speaking ), how did you decide they were the one you wanted to spend the indefinite rest of your life with? With all the possible factors, how did you decide? |
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| Question: I feel atrocious thinking about this.... can anyone relate? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 10:18 AM PDT Do you ever wake up in the morning, look over to the other side of the bed and think "oh my word I cannot stand that person?" I wake up annoyed every day just realizing I am married to my husband. He stopped trying years ago (weight gain, dresses poorly, is not affectionate), but we are Mormon, and our faith insists we make the union work. But I really wake up miserable every day. I still sleep with him, but I just do it as fast as I can to get him off of me. Ugh. Any advice? |
| Question: How does it feel to kiss a girl? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 10:08 AM PDT I'm a afraid of kissing a girl and I want to know how it feels like |
| Question: What is a good Easter present for my husband? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:59 AM PDT Tacky or not, I like to give gifts on holidays to those I love. Thanks SO much for any and all ideas! |
| Question: Is marriage pointless now? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 09:15 AM PDT when i think about it. the falling rates of marriage, there is just not many benefits to marriage for one or for the other the man will lose all of his money if he were to get divorced the woman umm i don't really know... well they still have more benefits other than some rarer unfortunate situations like abuse (but they can throw him jail ..) I think mgtow's have a point in how marriage isn't very advantageous anymore and i am a female maybe marriage will be better if the legal laws are revised and changed? what do you think |
| Question: I am so tempted to cheat? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:57 AM PDT I have been married for 3 years now. I love my husband so much but I always feel rejected by him. I can never initiate sex and I have very high sex drive. He has low sex drive. But it is not all that, he never ever hugs or kiss me. Whenever I try to hug him, he tells me he needs space. He hates being touched. I feel so hurt. Last night I was just wishing i would die. I have never been a person to even look at another guy when I was in a relationship. After getting married, I feel more lonely than ever. I cannot believe I am tempted to betray him. But what can I do? I guess if I do it and keep myself happy and he does not find out then it is for the best of both worlds. It feels so wrong but am tired of wanting to die because he hurts me by rejecting me all the time. I know he loves me but he is just not intimate and everything is his call. like when to have sex. FYI we have sex like every 2 or so and that is when he wants.Even I wear lingerie and ask him to go to bed together, he would not come to bed. Please, No he does not cheat. I am 100% sure of that. I talk to him all the time and he says that is him and he is not willing to change and does not even like to talk about doing things differently. sorry, we have sex like every 2 weeks or so. |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:45 AM PDT My husband married me in an arranged marriage by our families and whilst I have grown to love him, he only sees our union as a partnership between the business his family owned and the money my dad gives as their investor.He has always been a workaholic and even gave me permission to see other men on the grounds I don't interfere his work life and personal life. I have seen photos in his laptop where he has this weird sex thing where guys are tied or strapped to the wall in where some women is whipping him or riding them while he is blindfolded and tied. Although my husband isn't my first and I have certain knowledge of sex, I am not familiar to these types of acts till I read about it online. So, after that I thought if I emulate what he liked, he would like it but he just got mad at me for knowing what he liked and shouted at me to stay away, he told me just because I am his wife it doesn't mean he wants to monogamous to me. After that he realized what he did to where he apologized and it led to a moment where we felt real intimacy for once.He told me he likes not being in control sometimes and its tiring for him to run the company. I asked him if I could be the one to control him, would he not go t someone else and although he was unsure, he agreed to give it a try, thing is tho' I have read it and lately seen 50 shades, I still don't know how to give him what he want without knowing how to be like those women in the photos.What is it and what should I do?I love him. |
| Question: Is it impractical to not know the baby's gender until he/she is born? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:41 AM PDT It might not be the most practical, but I like the idea of waiting to find out the baby's gender and not find out until they're born. It makes things a bit difficult for pre-baby preparations such as decorating the nursery and buying clothes. But it's an old fashioned tradition and I like it. And the baby is a blessing regardless of its gender. My husband would rather know the baby's gender but he's getting on board with the idea of waiting for a surprise. My mom and mother-in-law think I'm being ridiculous. They want to be involved and feel like it makes sense to know whether a boy or girl is on the way. What do you think? Could you wait the whole nine months or would you/did you want to know the baby's gender? Thanks for your thoughts! |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:22 AM PDT |
| Question: Men: Would you leave your wife if she slept with another man in order to save your life? Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:21 AM PDT Lets say you were dying , you had no money for medical treatment and you knew you couldn't afford a loan. Somebody tells your wife to sleep with him in exchange for money and she agrees in order to save your life. Would you consider it a betrayal and leave your wife afterwards? |
| Posted: 30 Mar 2015 08:12 AM PDT Also, do you have a bias towards marriage counselors (old vs young)? Or do you feel anyone with a 6-8 year degree would suffice? P.S. -- This question has nothing to do with me. I"m just asking the community so I can have insight into the accepted norms of M&D. |
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