Friends: Question: No friend anymore thanks to my brother? |
- Question: No friend anymore thanks to my brother?
- Question: Guys, should I hangout, or rest after office work?
- Question: How can I get my mom to let me have a sleepover?
- Question: Do they want to be friends still?
- Question: My friends dont consider me their friends?
- Question: Emo: Phase or not?
- Question: How to get back a close friend?
- Question: How would you feel about a guy who spends money on girls to get sexual favors and is depressed he cant get with a pop star?
- Question: Should I fight them?
- Question: Should I talk to her, or ignore her?
- Question: Can my dad stop me from seeing my friend?
- Question: Friends birthday present!!?!?
- Question: I have no true friends...?
- Question: I farted in class today and denied it was me and one of my friends took the blame.?
- Question: Can you suggest the best ways to destroy someone?
- Question: Why do people always try to talk to me and my friend and sit by us?
- Question: Girl trouble?
- Question: Is this a good friend?
- Question: People think I'm pretty once I got my eyebrows done?
- Question: My best friend is depressed...?
- Question: Trouble forming close relationships?
- Question: I have a good friendship with my son's former therapist that is turning intimate. It has been 2 yrs...what is WI law for dating?
- Question: Why do people always want to be friends with me?
- Question: My friends dont really give a **** about me?!Please read all..?
- Question: How do i get my friend to stop picking on me??
- Question: Why does the teacher always move me by the distraction?
- Question: How to become better friends with a boy?
- Question: What do we do now? Im so scared...?
- Question: Why no body want to accept me as friend on facebook? when i add someone as friend no one accept no one want to talk?
- Question: Should i quit being her friend?
- Question: Friendship help?
- Question: Don't you think we could all do a little better?
- Question: Is it wrong to be gay and have sex with your boyfriend at a very young age?
- Question: How to stop her from making these comments?
- Question: Are we close enough?
- Question: Good gift for a guy friend?
- Question: Minha vida ta uma merda...oq eu faço?(texto grande)me ajudem pf?
- Question: I am shy and more self-conscious around my CLOSE friends. Why is this, and how do I fix it?
- Question: Does my best friend think im disgusting?
- Question: How can I make myself less nervous?
- Question: Best friend might be pregnant?
- Question: I just got discharged from the hospital and im hella sad (just venting)?
- Question: How come people are mean to shy/quiet people?
- Question: Friend Advice?
- Question: I have no close friends?
- Question: How do you apologize to a friend or family member?
- Question: Should I continue to be friends with this person that admitted that they're racist?
- Question: I feel like giving up everything but I don't want to kill myself?
- Question: My wife tells me that she loves me but she goes out with her nurse friends at night and sometimes all day on girls day and I am never invited.?
- Question: So, me and my best friend had more than one arguments before. We had a big argument a few days ago and now we aren't talking to each other. What can I do?
- Question: How to deal with this Boss?
- Question: Finding friends with common interests?
- Question: My friend is loved for everything.?
- Question: Didn't make it...?
- Question: Why can't I like people?
- Question: What to ask my best friend's boyfriend?
- Question: How to handle a bully?
- Question: How often do you meet your best friend and how often do you hug your best friend?
- Question: Help, I can't take anymore?
- Question: A close friend found out that i was in love with her but she only sees me friendly. she still wants us to be friends.?
| Question: No friend anymore thanks to my brother? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:16 PM PDT I used to be good friends with this girl. But then she started dating my brother which I had no problem with it. They made a cute pair but sadly relationship did not work out. They broken up. She's not the same with me anymore. I feel like I lost a friend. It's so uncomfortable talking to her now. But I wanted to talk to her about a job I recently applied for. She used to work there and I wanted to know how are the coworkers personality there. I haven't talk to her in awhile. And then my brother getting married to another girl so awkward |
| Question: Guys, should I hangout, or rest after office work? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:13 PM PDT What is the wisest decision? |
| Question: How can I get my mom to let me have a sleepover? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:09 PM PDT I have been askung my mom for a couple weeks i f I can have some friends come over and we go fourwheeling and have a sleepover. She just yells at me and says Im not responsible Im 13 and need help. I get good grades and its only 3 friends |
| Question: Do they want to be friends still? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:07 PM PDT my best friend stopped being friends with someone else, but they still text all the time just arguing. so is their arguing meaning they want to keep talking? |
| Question: My friends dont consider me their friends? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:06 PM PDT Last year, I was in a lot of the same classes with ten kids, whom I got close to. Although the group had drama, I was never involved in it. I was the funny, nice one that laughed at everything. This year, I'm in the same class with about five of them. We're VERY close, but four of them are going to separate schools next year. When I talk to the other kids in the group, mostly guys, I'm usually happy and perky. Recently though, I was called annoying by a kid at school, which made me truly feel obnoxious. I asked my 5 good friends if I was obnoxiously loud, but I feel like they're lying to make me feel better. I asked the remaining five, and they said that I could be rather annoying. About a week later, I was having doubts about my friendships, so I asked them if I was their friend. They mostly replied with "sure why not," when I wouldn't have hesitated to praise them. I'm tired of being treated like I'm some stupid monkey performing for laughs. Although I'm involved in the lives of my friends, only one or two truly care about me instead of focusing on their own drama What should I do? |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:03 PM PDT Recently my friend just told me he's emo, i dont have a problem with it, but he's insisting it isn't a phase. Im trying to tell him that it is a phase (because let's be honest, no one over 22 considers themselves emo) but he won't listen. He even tried to back up his point by listing all these people in emo bands who are 'emo' and i told him that the only reason theyre like that is because they make money off of it and plus they target their music towards emo kids like him. So basically, can anyone give an argument for or against emo being a phase and why? Choose whichever side you want, i just want to see what everyone else thinks. |
| Question: How to get back a close friend? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:02 PM PDT Around 10 days ago, I had a large fight with my best friend (completely my fault and I took all the blame) and he didn't talk to me until two days ago. My other best friend, who was a witness to this fight, followed suit, although he resumed talking to me sooner. Today, my friend told me that while he still views me as a friend, he doesn't view me as a close friend anymore and he doesn't think we can ever be that close again. It seems based on what he was saying that it will be very hard for me to regain his trust and even earn a chance to change his mind. How do I prove to him that I can still be close friends with him and that I have learned from my past anger-related issues and will not make the same mistakes again? I don't want to force myself down his throat and be too clingy but I also don't want to just resign myself to being on this lesser level of friendship. |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:59 PM PDT I know a guy that is like this -he constantly talks about hot girls and wanting to bang hot girls nonstop -posts pictures of girls he is supposedly banging on messages to his friends on Facebook -spends hundreds of dollars on strippers in order to get sexual favors -is obsessed with South Korean pop music (KPOP) and is genuinely depressed he will never get with a Korean pop star and says no other girl is good enough -is considering getting plastic surgery so "more girls will like him" |
| Question: Should I fight them? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:56 PM PDT so there's this girl that keeps talking **** about me and it's really starting to piss me off. Do I know her? nope . This nice person is starting to leave and I don't like the fact that this ***** wants to disrespect to like really? Her iphone fell before an iphone 6 and I, the kind person that I am told her that her phone fell. I could of been flaw and been like man **** dat ***** but I didn't. I should've just left it there.But they talk **** about me because I cus alot she had the nerve to Tell me to stop cussing yet cus right after. I got mad I should've dragged her little *** across the room man I need to get my stuff together before I snap on these petty girls. If you don't let me cool but don't. Talk **** about me and expect me not to want to fight. these girls don't know they honestly don't. And they had the nerve to call me wierd. I let it slide today I won't tomorrow. Growing up everyone used to think I am wierd. I'm not sure if to let this slide or put them in their place. Why? because i'm sure they do it to other people and other people may think suicide. I'm at a better state of mind where I don't want to commit suicide because of the opinion of a sheep. But now I'm left with should I or should I not? But deep down I don't like people messing with me so i'd rather put them in their place. Just some people don't learn by words. |
| Question: Should I talk to her, or ignore her? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:49 PM PDT Me and this girl were good friends and close all of highschool, and hung out a lot. We are now freshman in college, the year almost over. We will talk on the phone every once in a while and we'll make plans to hang out like the next day at 4 when she gets off work. The next day comes and I'll call her and she won't answer and then I won't here from her for a couple months. This has happened about 3 times. She sounds so excited to hang out and then blows me off. Well today she texted me and simply said "hey how are you" and I didn't respond. I want to know if I should (a) text her back normally. (B) ask her about what's going on, or (c) just ignore her and stop trying. |
| Question: Can my dad stop me from seeing my friend? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:36 PM PDT I'm 17, gonna be 18 in 8 months. My dad has custody of me but I moved in with another family member about 2-3 weeks ago. My friend is 19. My dad threatened to call the cops of he came to see me, but were only friends. |
| Question: Friends birthday present!!?!? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:35 PM PDT So my friends bday is next Saturday and I was planning on decorating her initials "j" and "b" with pictures and the letters would be wooden so she could hang them or whatever is this a good present or should I get her something else along with it!? Thanks |
| Question: I have no true friends...? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:28 PM PDT I have some friends to hang out with but I have nobody to talk to and show my true feelings for. I had a bunch of friends before I moved and I was very popular. It's not like I expect to be popular I just would love to have a true friend that's like a sibling to me. All my true friends have left me for other people. I had the besets friend ever at the beginning of the year but ever since she got a boyfriend she's been mean. Her boyfriend is rude to me and I try to tell her but all she does is agree with him. HELP i feel so alone I just need somebody. |
| Question: I farted in class today and denied it was me and one of my friends took the blame.? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:27 PM PDT Today I farted in class because my friend was tickling me (and that's just what you do) but anyway, when I farted, my friend (who's a boy) shouted quite clearly to the class "(MY NAME) 'S FARTED!" I was so embarrassed. I went over to my other friend who was across the room. I pretended to help her with her work as I heard everybody talking about how I'd farted. When I went back to my seat, my friend said something like: You farted, so what, everyone does it (this is the boy that had told the whole class about me farting) I replied with: It wasn't even me! So stop blaming me for something I didn't do! My 3 friends who were sitting near me believed me but the boy still knew. (Clever little ****) My crush was in that room too! What do I do to overcome this embarrssment??? |
| Question: Can you suggest the best ways to destroy someone? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:25 PM PDT I've made countless people feel horrible about themselves by getting close to them, finding their weaknesses and using them against the person. It fulfils me in a way. I'm never attached to my targets, or anyone else for that matter, so this isn't driven by hate. I usually manipulate people into suicidal thoughts and make them aware of their insecurities without them knowing it. So, I found another victim, but the problem is, he's more messed up in the head than I am. He used to be a crush of mine (and as a girl, I get tons of those) but now I feel like I know him and wish to spare him because of his abnormal mind. Yet I still wish to destroy him. Could you please offer some techniques I could use? His main weaknesses are his appearance, anger issues (that he does not express), and he feels like he's a bad friend for forcing his beliefs onto other people. I can work with this, but he's more stable than the rest and is also capable of manipulation. Please help. Thank you. |
| Question: Why do people always try to talk to me and my friend and sit by us? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:18 PM PDT Is it because they want sum black friends? Or they think we're funny? |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:16 PM PDT So I have a friend that I have never been Out to before she goes to my school and then she has a friend who used to go to school with her and she moved country and she is comings to visit for a few days and I have talked to the other friend a few times and she texted me asking to come out when's she's here and my 'friend' that is my school said I'm going to knock on your door for you with her. I don't want to go out to either of them how do I tell them or stop them knocking for me? |
| Question: Is this a good friend? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:15 PM PDT So me and this girl were really good friends last school year. This year at least during the first semester seemed to like me okay. We didn't have much time to talk cause we had assigned seats and were not anywhere near each other, etc. So for the first semester it was like that. Then in second semester we barely talked at all (because we couldnt). I would sometimes say hi to her, and she would say hi back, and then I would say something like, "so what's new?" She would reply with something like, "oh nothing really." And that was all. When I said this I clearly wanted to actual have a real conversation and since she didn't even like ask me how I was, then I felt that she just didn't want to talk. Now I like Miley Cyrus music, she totally doesn't like her though, so because of this she is now rude to me when something even slightly related to music comes up in a conversation. Well today while we were at science class, she walked over to where we and my science partner was (I didn't choose the partner). He was being annoying acting so she said to my science partner, "your so stupid. I hate you, I'm not gonna tell you why though. I hate you too." She said to me. "One of the reasons that i hate you (talking to the other kid) is that your freakishly smart. And I hate you (talking to me) because you like Miley Cyrus." The other kid didn't care that she said that she hated him, but it bothered me. So should I try to stay friends with her, or should I just move on? Thanks a lot! |
| Question: People think I'm pretty once I got my eyebrows done? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:15 PM PDT Everything feels weird and abnormal now. Guys in class who would be d 1 c k s to me are actually being nice to me and I prefer that we don't get along. Only because the person I am and they are don't get along. I got my eyebrows done for me, but it feels unusual. I think I look somewhat better, but I hate how I'm getting treated differently based on how I look. I never got looked at by a guy in public and I didn't care, but now I get some looks. I'm used to being on the invisible side with friends who love me for me. Some what popular girls want me to sit with them. I know who my real friends are. If I start hanging out with people who suddenly want to hang out with me because I look different, then what would that say about me? What does that say about those people? I'm not good enough until I look a certain way? What the hell is wrong with the world and why can't I just be happy with those jerks finally treating me nicely? It doesn't feel fair to get treated better just because of the way I look. Please help. |
| Question: My best friend is depressed...? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:15 PM PDT I have a friend (let's call her ☀️) and ☀️ just came to school one day and she looked really sad and I asked what's wrong and she said she was depressed. She tried to cut herself yesterday and she was considering suicide. She used to be so fcking happy and then people started making fun of her and now she's sad. She started crying and I told her that cutting would only make it worse and that I was always here for her if she needed me. I've had friends who've dealt with depression before but I'm really worried about ☀️ since she's never been like this before. I'm helping as much as I can but I don't feel like I'm doing enough to help. I can't text her because she's grounded atm. How do I help her because I could never live with myself if ☀️ killed herself. :( |
| Question: Trouble forming close relationships? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:07 PM PDT I'm pretty much a loner. I have a bunch of friends, but they don't really mean anything to me. I'm putting it bluntly, I hate talking to people outside of class. I've got meaningless friendships with a lot of people, but only in the classroom. If we get moved to different seats, I forget all about that person, but they don't try to talk to me either so idk. I literally don't have any friends that I can talk to in depth. Well, I sorta do, but she's a bïtch and when I try to talk to her about my problems she just automatically assumes I'm joking so I don't think that counts. I don't really have a desire for friends, but I know that in the real world you have to interact with people, and I worry that it'll prevent me from later romances. So yeah, why am I like this? I had a complicated childhood, not necessarily bad, but my parents didn't want us so we basically lived with our grandparents until one day my parents decided to move us to a different state. I love my family, don't get me wrong, but I feel completely indifferent to their struggles and I honestly don't care. Why? |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:06 PM PDT Our lives are closely linked. We have been practicing Tia Chi Chuan for 5 years, we know a lot about each other, our children know each other, we play music together...this is maddening! My son sees him more as his friend's Dad, than a therapist. Help! |
| Question: Why do people always want to be friends with me? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 04:01 PM PDT Is it because they way I look or what? I'm pretty I think btw |
| Question: My friends dont really give a **** about me?!Please read all..? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:59 PM PDT It all started when:I ordered a book from amazon.Im 16 so i dont have a paypal.But 2 of my friends do.So we order the book with(lets say)JOHN'S paypal.But sth happened and it was not ordered.So we order it with SAMANTHA'S paypal.After i receive the book JOHN calls me and say the book is here.and im like i thought we didnt order it and he said well idc you owe me 20 bucks.Im like i dont have it(i live alone and im not well financially).Then i say to SAMANTHA that hey lets return the book.So we agree to let samantha pay for the shipping(cause she owed me some cash).And she didnt.and i pushed her to, cause you car return sth DUE 30 days after.And she was like later..and nothing.So now,JOHN is pushing me for the money and i dont have them..Ill give it to him in a week.AND NOW THE WHOLE 'CREW' WONT DRIVE ME HOME ( EVERYDAY THEY DRIVE HOME EVERY ONE. EXCEPT ME BECAUSE OF 20 BUCKS.i dont care going home alone. but they dont respect me. They say, hey john, you will go home the girls? Not Maria though(me) .I mean seriously?So i call one of them(my closest friend of them) and i was like hey ill have you on the phone so if sth happens u will listen..AND I HEAR:IF U WANTED TO BE SAFE GIVE ME THE MONEY SO SOMEONE WILL DRIVE YOU HOME.and im like ok u know what ill go home alone from now on..and its fine!THEY DONT KNOW HOW IT IS TO LIVE WITH 60 BUCKS.A MONTH.they know i dont have them.and they're like john needs it.WELL WHO NEEDS IT MORE?HE HAS A JOB AND FOOD EVERY DAY. so?.opinions? |
| Question: How do i get my friend to stop picking on me?? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:55 PM PDT |
| Question: Why does the teacher always move me by the distraction? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:51 PM PDT My teacher made new assigned seats and she moved me by the most annoying azz kids! They always speak Spanish the whole class period, they always copy me, and this girl through something at me like 3 times because she was trying to through something at the boy that was next to me. I was going to through it back or so something rude but instead I was being a bigger person and I gave her a dirty look and continued doing my work. And when I try to explain to her how annoying they are, she doesn't even bother to listen. What can I do? |
| Question: How to become better friends with a boy? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:48 PM PDT *please read whole thing* so there is this boy at my school. He is in 3 of my classes and we are kind of friends. I have a crush on him. So we used to talk a lot but since we changed seats in humanities now he doesn't Really talk to me. I want to be better friends with him. Basically my goal is to be such close friends with him that we hang out outside of school and he comes to my birthday party and its not awkward and he invites me places and stuff. So basically I want to be like besties with him. A few weeks ago my friend asked him if he liked me without my permission!! He said no but I like her as a friend. I was really mad. I think he suspects I like him. Anyways his best friend is a boy that I hate and is super mean to me. On instagram I dmed him and asked for his number a couple weeks ago. He didn't say anything. He just opened it. After that happened he still acted the same. I guess that's good. So any way that I could be better friends with him that doesn't take many years? Thanks |
| Question: What do we do now? Im so scared...? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:47 PM PDT So last year, or even before that me and my friend made funny videos of acting. And a few of them were of us mooning each other. Not to be mean, but as a joke. And we uploaded them to our school computers. Its been about a year now and my friend got their computer taken because they dropped it on the floor. And they went into it and saw those videos we think, all they said is ''We saw inappropriate movies''. Why would they even be looking in the computer anyway? They have a ton of other computers their supposed to be fixing. The smart thing of my friend to do was to delete the videos. But they didnt think anything would happen. Now we know we have to meet with the principle (a teacher told my friend that) and were scared as hell. We dont do it to be gross, mooning is just something that we did in the past. And we have matured a whole ton, you wouldnt even think I was the same person as I was a year ago. I wouldnt ever moon anyone or even a camera ever. We were immature, we know that. But were totally different people and know not to do that. Thats why the videos were deleted off MY computer. My friend just still had the videos on there computer and they found them. But we dont know what to do? Weve matured and know thats not appropriate. So if we tell them that truth, what will happen?Agian, the videos were originally taken over a year ago. We can take the school laptops home and use them. So its not like we uploaded them at school. . Please help, were freaking out! |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:47 PM PDT I am 22 old i am a boy,i am a shy so i have not any friends in my real life,so i try to find someone boy/girl anyone,but no one accept,they do not know me so why they refuse,you will say because they do not know you ok i know but there are many people accept other who do not know them.i am not bad as they see me, all refused! and when someone accept i talk to him/her one day and next day he/she deletes me, i do not need anything from them i need one friend only one help him/her and want him to be my friend, i try to find someone has not any friend like me to be my friend but no one accept! Is this mean Allah (God) wants me to be alone? so I should stop look for friend, or this is mean i am ghost so i must die now? I see die is the solution but i could not do it, i tried before but i failed but i will again no one care , so why i am alive? and when i say to someone "my dear" when i wrote to him he asked why i called him "Dear" is this wrong? I do not know anything...this world is very strange! Now my question isnot how or why they refuse? but the question is "Am I wrong, Am I bad" ?? I want to be good before die i want to know what the wrong i did to call Allah and people to forgive me before leaving this world? Thank you very much...And I sorry. |
| Question: Should i quit being her friend? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:41 PM PDT Everyday I get bored of my life, i feel like life is too short. Usually, i just go to school to not feel bored. But most of the time i wish i could be with her because i literally have nothing to do. The problem is she lives far away and i saw her Facebook page and saw her calling a dude "i love you baby." Then she starts texting me saying that we don't talk much. This made me feel uncomfortable, im not in the mood because i feel like we will never be together. Btw school is not what's bothering me. What should i do? |
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| Question: Don't you think we could all do a little better? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:38 PM PDT I mean, nobody's perfect, but do we really try hard enough? Do you? I don't think I do. |
| Question: Is it wrong to be gay and have sex with your boyfriend at a very young age? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:32 PM PDT When I was bout 12 I would always have sex with my boyfriend in school and no one knew about it at all but then I found out he was straight is that wrong to havesex with a straight guy that used you didn't Love you didn't care for you and lied to you each time he said I love you that really broke my heart to pieces literally just shattered when I found out |
| Question: How to stop her from making these comments? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:32 PM PDT This girl at my school won't stop making comments in class everytime I speak about how much she hates me I can't recall it exactly why she hates me now but she thought I was being mean to her so she started to hate me lol anyways the thing is she a bit immature and messes alot in school even the teachers can't tame her i don't want to stop at her level because no offense but she acts dumb. She makes comments in a low voice but that everyone can still hear everytime I talk saying "I hate her" it's getting annoying now how to make her stop? |
| Question: Are we close enough? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:31 PM PDT Ok I sound like an idiot here, but I honestly wonder exactly what it means to be close. You hear it all the time. The context of this situation is that a guy I work with has a fiancé that seems controlling and not very nice. This comes from things he's told me and some texts I've seen from her. He's a nice guy and I've been worried about it for awhile because I don't know that he's happy. I kind of just want to blurt out "why are you with her", but obviously with a bit more tact. Someone said to me "if you feel like y'all are close enough then you should say something about it". The thing is I don't know if we are close enough. For starters, I met him after he was already dating this girl and for the record, nothing is going on between us. We just talk a lot when we work together. I've only been outside of work once with him and that was when we were with a group. He doesn't like to go out after work because he says he's always tired. But one morning (we work nights) I was like you are so going and I kept after him til he did. And then at the restaurant he asked what was good and he got exactly what I suggested. He tells me a lot of things about his life and what he's doing and asks a lot about mine. I tell him stuff I tell very few people. Also, we don't text or talk really outside of work. But I think that would be normal given the fact that he's engaged. But anyway my question is how do I judge whether we're close and should I say something about his relationship? |
| Question: Good gift for a guy friend? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:30 PM PDT Hey, so my friends birthday is coming up and I was wondering what I should get him for his birthday that's not really expensive. He's in 8th grade so I dont want to get him kiddish stuff and hes not into games either so I was thinking maybe a lava lamp? If so what colors should I get him and if no what are some other things he might like? |
| Question: Minha vida ta uma merda...oq eu faço?(texto grande)me ajudem pf? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:26 PM PDT Td começou qnd eu me mudei pra essa escola q eu to,em 2012,eu tinha varios amigos na outra escola pq conhecia eles desde bebê,mas quando mudei de escola,me tornei uma pessoa MT tímida e complexada,pois eu sofri bullying no 1º e no 2º ano q estudei la.Ano passado as coisas melhoraram um pouco,fiz 3 amigas e as pessoas pararam de mexer comigo,só alguns mexem as vezes,mas 2 amigas minhas sairam do colegio e agora só sobrou 1,eu queria ter mais amigas pois me sinto mt sozinha,mas as pessoas da minha sala me desprezam,não sou mt feia mas tbm não sou mt bonita,nenhum menino nunca gostou de mim e eu não tenho amigos meninos,não sei fazer amizades e não aguento mais me desprezarem,acho q td mundo é melhor do q eu,minha auto estima ta lá embaixo,ja pensei até em mudar de escola mas seria pior.Será q é só uma crise existencial de adolescente e daqui uns anos passa,se n for,oq eu devo fzr? |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:20 PM PDT I've noticed this a lot lately. I'm usually very outgoing & funny at work and school & w/ strangers that I meet. I'm easy to talk to, pretty popular & well-liked overall. But sometimes I'm around close friends & i can be very quiet & not know what to say. It's not like I don't want to talk, I do. I just don't know what to talk about. Does that ever happen to you guys? Like sometimes I listen to what things are brought up in conversation. They are the most random irrelevant things, but those things don t ever pop into my head. Why is that?! How do I get past that. I feel like it's ruining relationships with my close friends because I come off as boring. Ex: - I recently saw my best friend for the first time in a while, after we had caught up on each others lives, I just had nothing else to say to steer conversation besides about what we were doing. I feel like some other people would randomly start talking about bagels, or why some people put hot sauce on everything they eat. I would never think of something like that. In fact I don't really think of anything to say. And then i start thinking about how I have nothing to say, and then REALLY can't think of anything to say. It almost sounds like social anxiety but why am I totally my self around others? I think it's because these sort of interactions & conversations are left to be very informal and have no sort of guide to conversation. What I mean by that is at school or work, you talk about your weekend, homework, a professor you both have, annoying customers etc etc. But then when it comes to my friends who I spend my weekends with, or who I live with, I just have nothing to say. |
| Question: Does my best friend think im disgusting? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:16 PM PDT My best friend never hugged me. Today I asked her who would she hug in the whole school if she had to hug someone (we're in the same school) and she picked some other girl. Also I asked her what if I hugged her and she said "idk that'd be weird" and she said she hugged 3 of her other friends when I asked her which friends of hers she hugged. Btw she's not those kind of people who hug a lot of people. Does she feel I'm disgusting or what???? |
| Question: How can I make myself less nervous? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:13 PM PDT I have a chance to go on a school trip and most of it is paid for. Its in another state and I won't be able to bunk with my friends cause its last minute if i join the trip. I think it would be a great opportunity, but I'm really nervous about how i will be when I get there because I've never been away from home. Not even for a sleep over or anything. So i would be bunking with people i don't really feel comfortable around and would be really uncomfortable since I've never been away from home. Any Advice? |
| Question: Best friend might be pregnant? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:12 PM PDT I've known my best friend for almost 11 years, we're both 14, recently she met this guy over the internet and met up with him without anyone knowing, she slept with him (he's nearly 20) he thinks that she's 18 (she looks older than she is) she told me that she could be pregnant because they 'forgot' to use protection. this was really surprising for me because my best friend was never like that, but she has changed so much and is actually acting like a slut all the time. I'm not really talking to her at the moment, i don't miss her, i just miss the friendship we had. Now i'm not sure what i should do? should i tell her how i feel or just move on? |
| Question: I just got discharged from the hospital and im hella sad (just venting)? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:05 PM PDT i think its because ill miss the other ppl there because its kinda lonely in my apartment even though i have chill roommates |
| Question: How come people are mean to shy/quiet people? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:05 PM PDT I ve noticed that if you re shy and quiet, people tend to pick on you more. Like, they ll bother you and make fun of you, but then wonder why you dont talk to anyone. I m 17 and it happens to me sometimes. I ve always been shy, but people pushing me around and being mean to me in school over the years(calling me weird, ugly, asking why I dont speak, etc) doesn't make me comfortable enough to speak with a lot of people at school, and im always worried someone is judging me for who I am and how I look. A part of me doesn't want to talk to the people who have been mean to me because I dont want jerks as friends, but it also makes it hard for me to speak to perfectly nice people because I feel soooo insecure inside. It's even harder for me to come out of my shell(and I really want to) because I've been going to school with the same people since middle school(only one middle school and highschool where I live), so it's like thats my permanent reputation... :/ Are we easy targets or something? And how can I not let people get me down? And honestly, im super nice to people, never mess with or talk about anyone...yet, somehow, people still find it within themselves to be mean...I dont understand it |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 03:03 PM PDT Me and my friend (both aged 13) have been friends for about 2 years and we are really good friends. Whenever I go round his house he always like kisses me and like tickles me, also he sometimes humps me. I'm not sure how to react really?! |
| Question: I have no close friends? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:57 PM PDT I am 13 and last year I had no friends. This year I have a good amount of friends( nearly all of which I made this year). I however, have no CLOSE friends. Sure, I am closer to some friends than to others but I have practically none of my friends numbers, I hang out after school with no one, and just in general, I am not very close to anyone. I am not saying I have to have a lot of close friends but I have none. Is this normal? Is this ok? Thank you for your answers. |
| Question: How do you apologize to a friend or family member? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:55 PM PDT I got into a fight with a friend and still can't apologize, because I feel that they won't let me off too easily. What do I do, and how are some ways I can apologize? (By the way, the fight was actually my fault so I'm the one who needs to apologize.) |
| Question: Should I continue to be friends with this person that admitted that they're racist? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:40 PM PDT Hey y'all! I'm a 16 year old African male from Ethiopia and one of my closest friends is from Mexico. He's actually white (looks white too) because his family line is pure Spanish. He has always done really cool things with me since 6th grade. I know he likes being one of my closest friends because he's ALWAYS asking to hang out. Well, ever since last summer, we started doing these (almost) daily runs in the evening. Recently, on one of the runs, he admitted that he's racist. He told me that he wants to throw up when he sees a black guy and a white girl dating. He told me that he thinks that black people are barely human and that he likes to think of them as inferior monkeys. He told me that he finds black people disgustingly hideous. He told me that the stereotypes about us were true. As he was telling me this, I became uncomfortable and assumed he was joking. He told me that he was dead serious and I began to realize why I was the only black friend he's ever had. I then asked why he hung out with me... Apparently, I'm different and have proven that I have the same intellect as a white person due to my grades, speech, and personality so I'm an exception. Also, he pointed out that Ethiopians are "different" from other blacks. I don't know if I should cut this person out of my life. I never expected this and he's always been a great (maybe even best) friend for me. He's always been there for the good and the bad... I, I just don't know what to do... |
| Question: I feel like giving up everything but I don't want to kill myself? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:38 PM PDT I am a 16 year old girl and I have only two friends. There is a clique at school and I am totally excluded from it. I never hang out with anyone outside school and recently my two friends got boyfriends and started ignoring me. I am just really tired of everything (apart from my hobbies) and I don't know what to do with my life anymore. I am convinced I will be alone forever and whenever I bring it up people just say "but you are very pretty, no way you will always be alone" and now it sounds like they are lying to me. I am friends with my crush on facebook but I am scared of talking to him and I don't even feel like trying anymore. I want to stay here and fight even though it seems very hopeless to me. What should I do? Will it always be that way? |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:36 PM PDT I am left with the children (twins 5 years old) at home or trying to figure out what to do with them. She says that she needs time with her friends. I feel very sad, and if I complain she tells me that I should move out if I don't like it and that I won't control her life and keep her from her friends - and that her friend doesn't like me so she can't bring me along. What to do? |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:33 PM PDT She was like a sister to me and I could tell her anything. We did a lot of personal things together that no one could imagine. She moved away and I really miss her. |
| Question: How to deal with this Boss? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:32 PM PDT when I conflict with someone who is near to senior managers my boss always take their side without listening to me at all and he apologizes to them behind my back which put me always in a weak situation as he never supports me and in the same time he never tell me I shouldn't do this or that ,he give zero feedback on my actions. Shall I confront him that I know that he apologizes to them and if he doesn't agree on my actions with them why he didn't tell me that face 2 face ? |
| Question: Finding friends with common interests? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:30 PM PDT I'm the kind of person who likes video games and anime, I'm also a 16 year old girl. I have acquaintances and I get along just fine, but I don't know anyone else besides my boyfriend whom I can actually relate to through common interests. I'm looking to find people I could talk to through the internet, so where would I start in making some? Could anyone point me in the right direction? Steam, forums maybe? |
| Question: My friend is loved for everything.? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:28 PM PDT I showed her Tumblr, she becomes famous on tumblr, is just one example of something that happens. Everything that I do, everyone loves her for it. I had one last asset I loves about myself, how thin I am. I am skinnier than her and my friend watched her walk at lunch and said: "she's so skinny OMF not fair she is so unhealthy" and she actually isn't unhealthly, she eats like everyone else does. Now I just hate myself, she takes everything and doesn't even notice. I love her as a friend, and she loves me, but I can't take it anymore. |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:26 PM PDT A few weeks ago, I tried out for a class that I really wanted to get in. (I'm a highschool student.) Only a certain few people were chosen to try out for it, and I was one of them. My friends and family all encouraged me and rooted for me, but I just found out that I didn't make the cut. Honestly....I just feel like I failed all of them. My friends were rooting for me so much, and now I just went and ****** everything up. I really did try hard though....I just wasn't good enough. Now I feel like I've failed everyone, and I feel like crap. I don't know how to break the news to them, and I feel like this is all just a dream. Please help?!? I'm breaking down right now :'( |
| Question: Why can't I like people? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:24 PM PDT I genuinely don't like people, even in school (I'm a sophomore in high school) I have to try really hard to be friendly when all I want to do is be alone... But that's socially "unacceptable" and which I also don't want to be. |
| Question: What to ask my best friend's boyfriend? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:21 PM PDT So basically I live in a different country to my best friend and she has a boyfriend and they've been together for a months or two now and I stiiilll haven't met him and all I know is that he looks like a fish and supports arsenal. Basically I want to know stuff about him and they he's not a weird secretly 45 year old rapist or something cos that would be bad. I know there's gonna be people like "Don't interrogate him cos you should give them space and not interfere with their relationship blah blah blah" buutttt I kind of feel the need to interrogate him because he''s my best friend's boyfriend :) So can people please help? Thaannkksss xx |
| Question: How to handle a bully? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:18 PM PDT I'm not even quite sure if bully is the correct term. But I'm in my third year of high school and a girl who is apart of my friend circle constantly harrasses me especially since I started dating this guy. It's gotten to the point of me feeling it would be easier to commit suicide because I can't deal with it on top of stresses I already have at home and I want people's opinions on how to deal with this girl. I'm not very out there I'm more shy and reserved but would it be sufficient to hit her because I've already tried telling her to leave me alone but she won't. Thank in advance! |
| Question: How often do you meet your best friend and how often do you hug your best friend? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:17 PM PDT |
| Question: Help, I can't take anymore? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:16 PM PDT What most of you will think is that I'm asking for attention and I'm not. That's not me. I desperate enough to go Yahoo answers, I look pretty pathetic. I've always struggled to make friends, never been able to keep a friend for more than 8 months. I spent my whole life changing and trying to find ways to make myself better so people will like me. None of my efforts had any value to anyone. My own family doesn't even accept me. I made a mistake 10 months ago and my mom decided to make it public. People look at me like I'm some type of s-l-u-t now. I have no one to talk things about. My school couslers arn't an option since I know how they think of me (stupid, selfish, ect) and the fact I heard it from their mouths is proof. I'm constantly told I'm always at fault. I'm never good enough. My whole life I've basically struggled to do basic things. I keep telling myself I'm not going to be that pregnant 16 stripper they say I'll be. But after years and years of hearing it. I'm starting to believe that's true. I've never done drugs, sent any explicit messages/picture, still a virgin, and I don't even date. I'm at the edge and it hurts to see no one notices my pain but they all notice my mistakes. |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 02:16 PM PDT it feels terrible.. i told her i never realy saw her just like a friend and want to lose touch with her for some time until i let go but i still haven' t. any advice?? |
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