Marriage & Divorce: Question: Is it illegle for my husband to keep from leaving my house with my kid? |
- Question: Is it illegle for my husband to keep from leaving my house with my kid?
- Question: Left me for another woman?
- Question: My husband wants to be my slave. ?
- Question: My Wife Laughed at Husbands Joke..?
- Question: Married but like another man?
- Question: Is it abusive for my mum to talk down to me and call me a dumb *****?
- Question: Is it weird that I refuse to ask girls out? Should I avoid relationships?
- Question: Marriage: have you ever forced yourself to like someone and got married and fell in love after please thanks?
- Question: Anyone want to be my wife?
- Question: Why do men always end the marriage through text message and then stop talking to their woman?
- Question: Why doesn't my wife make her children's father pay child support?
- Question: What qualities do successful females seek in a trophy husband?
- Question: Should I get a divorce?
- Question: Is it reasonable to want to go through your life without necessarily wanting to fall in love/ get married..if it happens it happens or lazy?
- Question: Why does my husband keep in contact w his former mistress?
- Question: ..oh god, is this wrong..?
- Question: I want a wife again where can I find me a woman for free?
- Question: Can i be responsible for a dept owed by my new husband for child support from a previous marriage?
- Question: What are the wife's benefits under a deceased husband's Social Security check?
- Question: Why should I bother finding the one if so many marriages fall apart?
- Question: How do you live with your spouse and he never touch you?
- Question: If you stopped asking or initiating sex with your wife, how long until she'd notice you haven't done it for awhile?
- Question: Can i be responsible for a dept owed by my new husband for child support from a previous marriage?
- Question: How do i tell my wife i want a divorce?
- Question: Who has an easier time finding a romantic relationship after a divorce, a man or a woman?
- Question: I am married for five years and my wedding band broke today. Is this a sign?
- Question: Can both spouses claim the spousal benefit? spouses within 2 mos age and almost identical income?
- Question: Married and in love with a friend?
- Question: Should i be embarrassed?
- Question: My husband works out of town, hes gone for 4 weeks at a time. our marriage hasnt been the easiest, theres been addiction, trust issues, you?
- Question: If you caught somebody flirting with your partner, would you get angry at this person?
- Question: My ex-husband left his job and moved all his money to a friend's account. Will I still get alimony?
- Question: Need information about getting divorce after 2 or 2 and half year after married ?
- Question: Talked my wife into not leaving me.?
- Question: Are we getting back together.:09-20-1967:08-18-1982?
- Question: Separated...?
- Question: How do i know if i'm ready to be married and be a father?
- Question: Why do women choose a man over the well being of her children?
- Question: Am I terrible for resenting my daughter for saying my husband's girlfriend is prettier than me?
- Question: I need help answering a question about my drug addicted husband?
- Question: Can my husband bring our kids from the Phils. to LA without securing certificate They are both minor .?
- Question: Am I evil for resenting my daughter for saying my husband's girlfriend was prettier than me?
- Question: Should I leave and any other suggestions.?
- Question: I want to get married to a virgin wife, i dont mind marrying non-virgin as long as she stays loyal?
- Question: 13 yrs of marriage and never had butterflies for him?
- Question: Allergic. Time to divorce?
- Question: Obtaining text's in divorce court?
- Question: What is this can someone explain to me please;He yelled at me yesterday for hrs. telling me what did you do,telling me all things I do?
- Question: Best marriage advice?
- Question: Best marriage advice?
- Question: Is telling a girl she's dry the equivalent of telling a guy that he is "small" or "soft" (sexually)?
- Question: Found out I m not legally married and I did a amendment changing status from joint to head of household? Will I get refund?
- Question: Why do people complain about cousin marriage?
- Question: In a relationship when should one reveal their financial status information to the other?
- Question: Is it a good idea to plan for saving yourself from divorce when entering a marriage?
- Question: Wife has left, again.?
- Question: Is it guaranteed that you'll find your lifelong mate?
- Question: My husband has been away for 6years in prison I think that he is gay but I don't want to offend him and ask him cause what if hes not?
- Question: Why would a man find it better to let his wife hear dirt about him from 3rd parties?
- Question: My husband wants to marry a second wife and the girl is my enimy what will I do now?
| Question: Is it illegle for my husband to keep from leaving my house with my kid? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 08:53 PM PDT My husband will not let me go anywhere alone..much with my kid even its for and hour or to go visit my friends..idk what to do |
| Question: Left me for another woman? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 08:42 PM PDT My husband left me over a month ago, his reasonings kept changing, but I found out tonight that he left me for a coworker of his that was married herself with two children. Her husband contacted me tonight and told me she left him the exact day my husband left me and both gave the same reasons. He went by her new place today and my husband was there with her. I'm so devistated and in shock that all this is even happened and not sure what to do. I want to move on so badly, because obviously I have to, but I don't even know where to begin or what to do. My whole life is upside down and it's crazy to think that this happened, it was so sudden and fast. Any advise on how to handle a situation like this? I don't want him back by any means, but it still hurts so bad. |
| Question: My husband wants to be my slave. ? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 08:39 PM PDT We are a married couple and recently he has lost his job and he tried a lot for last few days but did not get any job. I am a working Woman and I told him not to worry so much as whatever I earn we can live well without having problems but he is now having some inferiority complex. So he is doing all household works like cleaning, cooking , laundry etc Yesterday he told me that he is just good for nothing for outside work and requested me not to divorce him and keep him as my slave. I tried to convince him in many ways that I love him and do not want to divorce for such a small reason. But he is saying that he wants at least to do some work and working as my slave is no problem for him. Yesterday morning I found him polishing my boots and as I tried to stop him from doing it he became sentimental and told that I am thinking that he is so useless that he do not have capability to be my slave even. So I did not intervene him in any ways. Our married life is ok but all the time he behaves as if I am his Mistress and he is my slave. I saw him today scrubbing floors while I woke up and as I woke up he came rushing with morning bed tea. He kissed me but while I was having my breakfast he sat on floor and was massaging my feet. I am being treated as a queen which I was not used to. I told once to him to go to a psyacrist but he became furious hearing it. He is saying that he will feel better if I give more work to do for the day and inspect after coming back in evening suggestions? |
| Question: My Wife Laughed at Husbands Joke..? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 08:31 PM PDT The husband made a joke that made my wife laugh hard. Was this joke meant to be a flirt in disguise? he never met my wife before his wife was there. Joke was raunchy. Is this reaction from my wife just her character? She had always laughed at mend jokes in my presence. |
| Question: Married but like another man? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 08:19 PM PDT Hi, I have been married for 7 years and have a 5 year old. Currently, at my job I have fallen for a guy. He is more than my friend and u understands n supports me. My feelings for him are getting stronger. Please help |
| Question: Is it abusive for my mum to talk down to me and call me a dumb *****? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 08:19 PM PDT My mother has filed for a divorce from my father and took us away from home last week. I wasnt able to step out of the place she took me. From my own observations, it is difficult to live with either of my parents alone. I know that the divorce is for the best, but I am also missing my home. I was trying to open up about my conflicting feelings to my mum, and she blew it way out of proportion. She started talking down to me and yell at me and called me a dumb *****. Is she entitled to do that? |
| Question: Is it weird that I refuse to ask girls out? Should I avoid relationships? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 08:14 PM PDT I always wait for girls to come to me. I don't like the idea of pursuing girls. It makes me feel like I'm a slave to societal gender roles. I don't treat the girls I date like princesses. I treat them as equals. Because of that, my relationships usually end. Girls wanna be pampered and I refuse to do it. I don't even care about sex. I've had sex before and it wasn't as great as people made it out to be. It would be nice to have a partner in life but I've always been a bit of a loner anyways. Should I just avoid relationships? It seems like a wasted effort imo. |
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| Question: Anyone want to be my wife? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 07:51 PM PDT Must be beautiful! |
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| Question: Why doesn't my wife make her children's father pay child support? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 07:30 PM PDT We have been together for almost 4 years. The father of her children was ordered to pay child support for one of the kids but not the younger one. Why? I don't know. She doesn't like to talk about it. I asked her why she doesn't make him pay for his 4 year old boy, and she gets angry about it. I'm not very familiar with child support laws but I do know there are step she could take to make him have to pay child support. I don't care about the money, I just want him to help support his child. |
| Question: What qualities do successful females seek in a trophy husband? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 07:26 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I get a divorce? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 07:13 PM PDT My husband owes thousands in back Child Supports. This is the second time he hasn't been paying it and I'm so fed up with it. He went to court and they said he has to pay at least half or he goes to jail for 6ms with a felony. He is getting a Pell Grant and a Loan from college so it can help pay on it. But if he does get a Loan, that means he will just have another stupid payment he can't afford. It hurts me so bad because last year he told me he would start paying on it, but he never did. I don't know why I believed him. He gets mad at me when he thinks I'm not being supportive of him over it. I say I am, but honestly I'm not. How can I be? I don't see why he let this happen. We just argue when we talk about it. I don't think he gets how bad it hurts me because he can go to jail for 6ms. He got a thousand dollars from his dad to help him. I guess they felt sorry him or something. Last time my father had to give him some money to keep him out of jail. He never has been able to pay my dad back. I feel like he is screwing us up financially and kinda our relationship. It hurts me so bad. I've already been so depressed and this is the last thing I want right now. He acts like I should still be all happy and loving, but I can't be. Everything feels wrong and I'm not happy. He could go to jail and leave me for 6ms and it's his fault why he could. I don't want to be married to a felon! I don't want that! I feel so lost and confused about everything!! What should I do? |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 07:07 PM PDT or to better explain, to never act on feelings of attraction. |
| Question: Why does my husband keep in contact w his former mistress? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 06:44 PM PDT This started almost 10 months ago, when I was 4 months pregnant. He didn't come home one night, and someone told me they saw him w her. He had bite marks on his shoulder. He lied about it, of course. Then, in October he was gone almost every weekend. He even called her from the hospital after our son was born, wanted to see her, but she refused, bc I had just given birth! We got into a huge blowout and I left him. He wouldn't admit that he was seeing her, but my dad actually saw them early one morning after he didn't come home. Long story short, I found out her # and I called her. She hung up on me, but answered a few of my questions via text. She said they didn't sleep together until September, and that he loved her and wanted to be with her. She doesn't want a relationship and was using him. We reconciled a month later. He told me she was just a drug addict, he never had feelings for her, that she was a drunken thing, she was nasty, and had a stinky "vagina". I forced him to change his # and cut off contact with her. Fast forward a month and he's messaging her. Another month, he's been calling her, because her # is in his recent calls. Then this month, he's on the other line with someone, but when I asked him to screenshot his recent calls he wouldn't. When He got home, I looked at his phone there wasn't anything in there. Blank! Why is he still talking to her?! Is he going to leave me again? |
| Question: ..oh god, is this wrong..? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 06:18 PM PDT My married friend has two baby girls and a crazy, lazy, and controlling wife. They were high school sweethearts and he ended up marrying her. Now he doesn't want to be with her..but he's scared of losing his daughters. he doesn't love his wife anymore..but he has feelings for me..is it wrong? And people if you are going to say he just wants a side chick or he is an *** then don't bother to respond because he is nothing like the other guys. |
| Question: I want a wife again where can I find me a woman for free? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 06:17 PM PDT |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 06:16 PM PDT I have been married for almost 2 years I knew my husband was paying child support and medical insurance for his child. I didn't know it was for arrears of 62,000.00 from a period when he was living with his x wife but not working because he has valley fever. His ex wife applied for welfare without him knowin he says and with interest now he owes 62,000.00 he pays every month over 1000.00 dollars but is a lot older than I he is almost ready to retire and draw social security I am only 36 years old am I going to be held responsible for a dept he had from almost 20years before I even knew him |
| Question: What are the wife's benefits under a deceased husband's Social Security check? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 06:12 PM PDT |
| Question: Why should I bother finding the one if so many marriages fall apart? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 06:06 PM PDT My parents got divorced when I was 12, nothing seemed out of the ordinary they seemed like a couple that loved each other, then their marriage fell apart. If something so pure and that definitely started out with love could just fall apart. Why wouldn't my future marriage be the same? I'm 16 right now and I know I shouldn't even be thinking about the one I have so much on my plate right now but this has been really bugging me. |
| Question: How do you live with your spouse and he never touch you? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 04:49 PM PDT We are like room mates and it's burning me up that he never touch me. Sleep in the bed never want to have sex or even touch me. I once brought up this subject but I guess something is wrong with me for wanting sex or intimacy from my husband. Its like 5 years between us, now I'm at the point that I don't even want sex with him anymore the attraction for him is just gone. Do you get it back or is it just over for us. |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 04:20 PM PDT days? months? years? never? |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 04:20 PM PDT I have been married for almost 2 years I knew my husband was paying child support and medical insurance for his child. I didn't know it was for arrears of 62,000.00 from a period when he was living with his x wife but not working because he has valley fever. His ex wife applied for welfare without him knowin he says and with interest now he owes 62,000.00 he pays every month over 1000.00 dollars but is a lot older than I he is almost ready to retire and draw social security I am only 36 years old am I going to be held responsible for a dept he had from almost 20years before I even knew him |
| Question: How do i tell my wife i want a divorce? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 03:49 PM PDT |
| Question: Who has an easier time finding a romantic relationship after a divorce, a man or a woman? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 03:38 PM PDT |
| Question: I am married for five years and my wedding band broke today. Is this a sign? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 03:37 PM PDT |
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| Question: Married and in love with a friend? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 02:52 PM PDT I've been married 14 years with 5 wonderful Children and it's been a not so good marriage.My husband started treating me like crap 5 years into our marriage I've been a devoted, loving ,caring, and a monogamous wife for 12 years.Until I just couldn't take it no more. My husband would leave 9 am and return 1 am.He didn't call or check on the kids and I.He would stay gone for hours and not call or come home.When I ask him what's going on he look at me like he hates me and that hurts. The man I married change.So while he was neglecting me and hanging out with his brothers and friend.My best friend called to check on me and my family not knowing what was going on.To make the story short.My friend was there when I needed someone to talk too.Now our relationship has developed emotionally we has not been intimate physically.We both feel the same about each other.The love I once had for my husband has left and I find myself thinking of my friend more than my husband. What should I do? |
| Question: Should i be embarrassed? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 02:21 PM PDT My husband's stressed cuz i always want to go to a hotel so we can let ourselves go. He doesn't mind going, but feels i can do this at home too and i shouldn't feel ashamed to make sounds or whatever cuz it's natural. I on the other hand am uncomfortable to have people know I'm having sex. Like we have mom, and kids in the house all the time and I'm like i hate that we can't get wild when we want cuz people are here and we have to wait till they're asleep and even then have to be quiet cuz i don't want them knowing cuz it seems strange for them to know we're having sex lol. He's like umm we're married I'm sure they know we not in here holding hands. He says i have to get over it and just do what's natural. Everyone in the house are adults btw as all my children are grown now. His mom even said at one point that she would be doing her as well and she wouldn't let that stop her but she guess she understands lol. So please help me am i the only one who stays quiet for fear of others knowing or do you just do it with the idea it's natural. Or is this just a woman thing. I don't even want the bed to move.smh. |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 02:15 PM PDT Name it. The distance hasn't helped, we've drifted apart, and there's another girl in the picture. He says he still loves me, but he's not sure what he wants anymore, or if our past can be overcome. I am willing to do anything to fix us. I even suggested selling our house to move out with him. He says he just needs to figure out what he wants. So in the meantime. How do I make him miss me but not forget about me? |
| Question: If you caught somebody flirting with your partner, would you get angry at this person? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 02:10 PM PDT Why? Would you use violence? |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 02:07 PM PDT I'll admit, I'm the one who screwed up. I cheated on him. He knew for weeks before he confronted me with divorce papers. He had already left his job, sold our house (it was in his name) and moved ALL of his money to his best friend's account. He's staying at his friend's house now. The divorce hasn't been finalized yet. I do have a job but its very low paying. He made MUCH more money than I ever did. So what's going to happen now? I only make $40,000 a year. He's currently unemployed. Will I have to pay HIM alimony? He supported both of us during the marriage for the most part. |
| Question: Need information about getting divorce after 2 or 2 and half year after married ? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 02:02 PM PDT I m living with my partner start from 20 june 2012 and get married( nikah muslim married) in masjid Feb 2013 and we married in uk law in july 2013. my question is before getting married we stayed together almost 1 year and receiving the tax credit from HMRC as partner can i use this period if we get divorced after 2 or 2 1/2 year after getting married in UK law ? |
| Question: Talked my wife into not leaving me.? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 01:57 PM PDT My wife of 19 years told.me last June that she was going to move to Arizona with our youngest who will.be 17 in May. At first i kept thinking why then i just said you don't leave your husband for a fresh start I.mean neither of us has had an affair. I do have some medical issues that i NEV ER asked for that happened after knee surgery. This has slowed me down some as it affects my legs and feet. For the most part she's has always.been with me and I.actually said how devestating it is to know part of her leaving was based on something beyond my control. And it's been 7 or 8 months and I've never felt as disconnected from her as i do now and I'm wondering if she regrets staying together and i think it high time i simply ask her if she's happy cause i know 1 thing is I'm not happy. She seems so short with me sometimes and won't do something out of the norm with me.like go.play Bingo or a cooking class or just something where we go.and do it and become more close with each of us, but she wont anyways. Thanks 4 any advice on this in advamce. |
| Question: Are we getting back together.:09-20-1967:08-18-1982? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 01:46 PM PDT My husband . |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 01:42 PM PDT My husband and I separated and he took the kids and I'm actually ok with that. Is that weird/bad...? I had them young at 18 and 20 and stayed at home with them for 4 years. Now my husband and I are separated and he has them...and I feel bad about enjoying myself and being "single" for te first time and...I love it and people are telling me that's wrong... Husband loves the kids and they are all happy where they live now...and I visit whenever I can... |
| Question: How do i know if i'm ready to be married and be a father? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 01:19 PM PDT |
| Question: Why do women choose a man over the well being of her children? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 01:01 PM PDT I was seeing someone who was seperated. His wife would text me non-stop about her husband being a pedophile. Saying he molested his step daughter, among other accusations. I had assumed that she was just trying to get me away from him and I didn't believe her. Then someone else contacted me and said would raped his own sister when she was 10 and he 17. I completely believe her. I cut off contact w him, but his wife took him back. They have small children and there is an order from dept of children and families that she can't reconcile w him because it jeopardizes everyone's welfare that's involved. I feel like I should contact someone about this, but at the same time I don't want it to seem like I'm just being spiteful. |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 12:58 PM PDT I've been with my husband for 20 yrs. He has always zeroed in on my insecurities and was clear that he was embarrassed by me (but he needed me because I was a necessity). The old buzzard (my spouse) even admitted to me he only married me because I make a good living and after 10 years of being legally married to me he would qualify to get social security (because he has never worked a day in his life.) I'm sure people wonder why I would want someone like him anyway, but he knows how to be very charming and I guess I have a big heart with a doormat attitude, and was young and stupid at 19 years old. Anyway, I'm planning one day in the near future to finally just walk out without saying a word to him. Just get up and leave and let him talk to my lawyer from then on. Yes, after 20 years I've FINALLY seen the light. To be frank, I really don't think he loves anyone. If I'm going to be depressed I think I will feel better about it not being around him and his constant negativity and criticism and abuse. But aside from all that, what is bothering me is how my feelings toward my daughter changed since she said what she did (though it was only an innocent and honest observation on her part.) I still love her, but I feel resentful about the whole thing. She is 13 now. |
| Question: I need help answering a question about my drug addicted husband? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 12:44 PM PDT Last night he came home extremely late and we had sex, but little did I know that he had actually just snorted a lot of meth. Would I have some meth in my system since I came in contact with his semen? Sorry, yes, it's a gross question but I don't want to lose my family & job. and don't worry, I'm dealing with my husbands problem already. |
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| Question: Should I leave and any other suggestions.? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 12:24 PM PDT I have been with my boyfriend for 15 yrs now. We have 3 kids together (13,12 and 7) have battled cancer and he was never there for me. I had to take my 3 yr old at the time with me to chemo. I ended up cheating on him 5 yrs in because he sucked at sex. He wouldn't try anything new and I told him I would find it else where if he didn't give me the time of day. He never did so I cheated, I felt horrible and told him I would never do it again. Well now we are in year 15 and I told him I was done with him. I work 80-90 hrs a week and pay all the bills and have no clue where his money goes. I told him I wanted to be done and I couldn't take his bs anymore. Our kids ask why we aren't married and he just says because he doesn't want to . I have asked to do counseling he says no. I was recently diagnosed with cancer again and said I am not doing this again with him. But before and leading up to me cheating he went and took our 13 yr old daughter and bought me a promise ring. WTF really after all this time and I have one foot out the door now you want me because someone else does. He followed me and found that I was sleeping with a man that fell in love with me for me and willing to be there every step of them way. every time I go to work, tells me what I shouldn't be wearing and I cant hang out with my friends. Even checks my cell phone records and my panties. Is it really worth putting in the time and effort to WORK things out again?? |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 12:14 PM PDT hello, i might have something called 'Paranoid Personality Disorder' im not married and im below the age of 18, im a virgin, im looking into marrying another virgin, but i am afraid that the majority of the western females are not virgins, which is something i dont like, i feel all women are cheaters, i have worries of marrying a non-virgin wife that will cheat on me using excuses while i might not be a bad person, i do want to get married by love but i dont find western women that loyal, which makes me kinda sad, i feel if i get married, doubt will obesess me and i wont be able to sleep a moment, and this is getting harder each day and i want to get rid of it, im sure not all women are cheaters, after researching i have seen those quotes: "Women today have increasingly busy and stressful lives juggling study, jobs, friends, family, career and their relationships," she said. i just love how the article promotes how stressful the lives of women are - as if men don't have stressful lives - and how that's a good excuse for their entitlement to be sexually promiscuous. "Young women are also twice as likely to be unfaithful, with 50 per cent admitting they have cheated on a partner - half at least twice. " yet if their man was caught being unfaithful, they'd blame him and make his life miserable, by this im not saying ill cheat, but i found out how life can be miserable, even marriage can not be made by peace. please only write useful answers, im in a very bad mood right now |
| Question: 13 yrs of marriage and never had butterflies for him? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 11:59 AM PDT It worries me because I felt pressure to marry him because of the religion I belonged to. I even prayed to have that spark of a feeling for him. After leaving my religion, I question if I was really supposed to marry him. He is very horny for me and always has been but Im not towards him. I've never cheated. But something has never been right. He's a lawyer and lives like he's not worthy of a good life. He's negative, mopey, I've never felt like he's had my back. He's angry. Short tempered. Verbally abusive. Only nice to me when he wants sex. I just wonder what opportunities I missed out on by feeling forced by religion to marry him. Was I supposed to end up with someone else? |
| Question: Allergic. Time to divorce? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 11:18 AM PDT My wife is allergic to me. It started some time ago and has gotten worse. She breaks out in rashes and can't stand it anymore. IDK what it is about me. We've seen a doctor, but even they are stumped. Plus we tested everything around the house and I always end up being the diseased one infecting her. We've discussed it and besides wearing a hazmat suit for the rest of her life, my wife and I are thinking of getting a divorce to save her from her allergies to me. Good reason to split up? |
| Question: Obtaining text's in divorce court? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 10:59 AM PDT A good friend of mine is going through a divorce and asked me if she could pull text's from his phone between him and other people. His situation is he is in the armed forces and three years after being married and coming back from yet another tour, his soon to be ex wife became crazy causing him to fall out of love with her and even hating her. she would constant slap him, yell at him and control him making him feel emotionally abused along with the occasional slaps to his face. anyways, he told her after three years he wants a divorce and she agreed to comply. maybe a year later unable to file due to money losses (also her fault from draining his accounts and demanding money) he started to hangout with a woman whom he eventually wanted to start dating but hasnt just in case it would affect the divorce. He fell in love with this woman but without the title of boyfriend girlfriend. She treats him like a king so he says. My question is that now he is finally going to court, already filed and awaiting a trial date. Can his soon to be ex wife obtain any text messages between him and the woman that he cares for? even though the marriage was ending before he met her and she was also NOT the reason the marriage was doomed? or would that be irrelevant and unusable in court? |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 10:58 AM PDT wrong..told him leave me alone,we are divorced,now comes over brings me everything I like in detail,forgot not a thing I like cares about everything I do but we are divorced !! . I want not to be mean or argue,just...what is this should I go back with him ?am I bad person here what is this all ? |
| Question: Best marriage advice? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 10:46 AM PDT |
| Question: Best marriage advice? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 10:46 AM PDT |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 10:36 AM PDT So. I've always been told that you never tell a guy that he is small or soft (in a sexual sense). I imagine it wouldn't feel very good to have a girl tell you that. I have never said that to anyone, especially my husband. Well my husband was touching me (down there) and told me that I was "very dry" and automatically I felt super self-conscious. I feel like that would be the equivalent of me telling him that he's small. I felt super hurt and couldn't believe that he would say that. Maybe I'm just being too emotional, but I always assumed that those were things you just did not say. Ever. I really just couldn't believe that he would say that. Am I wrong to feel this way? Was I wrong in assuming that men would know that saying things like that could hurt? Some of you say that it's not the same thing at all, but also say that being "dry" is because I'm not aroused. I get that. Well if he's soft, that means he's not aroused. Same thing… so why is saying it not the same? Maybe small is different, yes. But soft, to me, seems like exactly the same thing. And I don't know a guy out there who would appreciate being told that he is "soft". |
| Posted: 14 Mar 2015 10:30 AM PDT What are the chances of getting a amendment refund even though they paid unemploymet past due obligations my whole refund? From my husband (not legally) debt. I found out I m not legally married, my husbands divorce was never final from wife 1 so I amended changing status of Married joint to Head of household. I have all the paper work to prove it and I was the only one working for 2014 so it my income only. Any feed back highly appreciated! |
| Question: Why do people complain about cousin marriage? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 09:34 AM PDT i mean ya they are related but they are not as close as siblings, beside i have seen many countries that have cousin marriage as a normal things. |
| Question: In a relationship when should one reveal their financial status information to the other? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 09:31 AM PDT Was just curious, in a relationship when should one reveal financial information to the other? |
| Question: Is it a good idea to plan for saving yourself from divorce when entering a marriage? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 09:14 AM PDT Like prenups for example, is it a good idea to plan for a failure of marriage? |
| Question: Wife has left, again.? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 09:13 AM PDT Not sure what to do, as of now I do not have mental health insurance so finding a type of counseling is hard. Me and my wife have been together for 8 years, married for over 5. She cheated on me towards the beginning, which I didn't find out about until later. We have 2 kids now, a toddler and one in elementary, and I have suspected for a couple years that she has been cheating again. When I was working I would come home randomly and find the house cleaned from top to bottom, photos of us off the walls in my bedroom, and the bed all made up. I would go away for work for 1-4 weeks at a time, so stopping in randomly could be 1 day in, or a week in. I didn't even start stopping in randomly to catch anything, I just wanted to suprise my kids and wife. Imagine my suprise when I find the house looking better then it ever has when I came home, with my pictures down and our bed made. Something not done in years. We got over that, never got the full truth, but it all snowballed, found out her ex boyfriend had been around, her mother was trying to hook them 2 back up because he made more money then me. Eventually she went back to work, at the same diner where she has cheated before. Started suspecting things a long time ago, but I let it go up until around Jan this year, I couldn't take anymore. Said she cheated with a cook at work and was sorry. Left us for a week before admitting it. Now she has left again. How do I help my kids cope? How do I cope? |
| Question: Is it guaranteed that you'll find your lifelong mate? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 09:11 AM PDT Personally from my personal experience I say that nothing is guaranteed. |
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| Question: Why would a man find it better to let his wife hear dirt about him from 3rd parties? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 09:10 AM PDT It has trickled to me that my husband has had an affair with his ex wife and that she is expecting. I learned of it because he informed a couple of his relatives in discretion. However, it got back to me. Since I learned of the affair, I had been documenting facts to use in the divorce. I couldn't hold back any longer so I asked my husband if it were true that his ex wife was carrying his child. He told me that I needed to stop listening to everything. My thing is, the baby will eventually be here and his relatives will be excited for the new arrival. Thus, I will officially know. I cant wrap my mind around what he is planning. He really thinks it is best for the baby to just arrive? Then what? I cant imagine him denying the child if he has informed a few. |
| Question: My husband wants to marry a second wife and the girl is my enimy what will I do now? Posted: 14 Mar 2015 08:56 AM PDT |
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