I'm 35/M. Although I work a good deal of hours, I'm single, I don't have any kids, and I don't have a ton of bills, either. So I still have a good deal of time on my hands. I will likely be single for a while. What are some things I can do with my time? I'm not really interested in career advancement because I don't really have any incentive (mortgage, children, etc.).

More importantly how does someone start to accept love when for 21 years they have pushed people away?

I sure think it is and I want her to get fired from her job for having a inappropriate relationship with my son.They would fist bump each other,hi five,talk about non school stuff with each other,joke around with each other,say peace out to each other and it's just so inappropriate and disrespectful.I go even far as saying that my son's former teacher is a scumbag for emotionally cheating on her husband and my son is a homewrecker. My son and his former teacher is disrespecting God and my son is disrespecting the marriage. My son and his former teacher are examples of extreme betrayal because not only they betrayed God ,her husband,but they betrayed me as well.I no longer love my son and I have lost all respect for his former teacher for this so called "friendly relationship"I take it as a "friendly emotionally cheating" relationship.I now despise his former teacher for this and I can't really respect my son anymore.I feel extremely sorry for her husband and I hope he can find a new wife that will not talk to 18 year OLD BOYS unless it's about school work.I don't care if she is encouraging him to stay school or that he has a adult that he can trust in school,I still don't respect her for this inappropriate relationship.They have betrayed the Lord and I can't take it anymore.They don't see each other outside of school but I still feel cheated by my son and his former teacher.As it stands now,I no longer love my son and I despise his former teacher.

I'm so insecure about my lips because they are huge. Are they proportionate to my other facial feautures?

Tengo dudas sobre eso la verdad, aunque se que sera probable que los profesores avisen a mis padres, pero suponiendo que me pueda escapar antes de que me pillen alli...¿debo ir al insti? no quiero dejar de estudiar solo porque deje mi casa...tambien he pensado en la posibilidad de estudiar a distancia, es decir, les digo que me envien los examenes y todo por correo y lo hago todo a distancia.

So I've been king of mean and on a bitchy mode with my boyfriend of almost 5 years till we broke up 4 days ago I haven't herd from him nor I have called him but I am sooo truly sorry seems like he wants to move on , but I feel like I should really demostrate him that im sorry and that im a better person than he think ,,, what should I dooo someone help please?

Ok so, I am not a bad roommate at all. I clean the house spotless every week, take out the trash, wash all the dishes, mop the floor, etc. he doesn't do any of that except maybe put away the dishes from the dishwasher. maybe. First met him he was ok, his family was nice to me took me to eat dinner, etc. I invited him to hangout with me once and play some games (Pool, etc). then one day he had the balls to ask me to move out so his friend could move in (lives literary two doors down, not kidding). I told him no because I cannot be moving all the time because I have to work and go to school. So what did I do to him? I guess he just doesn't like me? It sucks its like I live alone but I'm fine with it. I just don't like it when I feel like I am being judged. Like when his friends come over they are all real nice say hi to me, ask me if I want to hang out etc. but he never does. So I obviously say yes to his friends because he isn't asking me directly, ever. So what is the deal? Makes me kind of sad because I've never done anything bad to the dude. Its been like this for 8 months. Thoughts? I can't ask him either because all I know about him is his name and where he is from. (we are both from the same country, too! Speak same languages etc.) Only difference is I am 3 years older than him and graduating in a month. I meant to say that I say NO to his friends not yes. For futher details: I never have loud noise never loud sex rarely have people over, and when I do they are respectful. No pets. I cannot emphasize enough at how I do not meet any of the "bad roommate stereotypes." I have also tried to get him to open up by offering to play video games with him in the living room on my tv (which he uses every day for hours which I do not mind). And he just says no...Offer to show him something new I bought he says no. Only time he talks is when he needs help Also, the only time he talks to me is when he needs help with something. IE: cleaning, taxes, insurance, cooking, etc. Never receive a thank you either but I don't care.. I'd be happy if he attempted talking to the dude he lives with. He was also a random roommate.

I got into some trouble this week, i moved my brothers car up about two inches and my parents saw it on the security cameras, i didnt lie to them about it but they were enraged with me and took everything away from me, including my junior prom (ITS IN TWO WEEKS) i also got denied credit in gym last week for exceeding my 10 absences so they were originally taking junior prom away for that but then planned on giving it back but after seeing the video of me they told me I CANT GO AT ALL what would you do if you were me? do you think taking my prom away is too far?

My family hasn't met my secret bf Yet and I'm very scared but very Disappointed . We've been together For 5 yrs now . What to do

Real men get combat jobs. No if, ands, or buts. This is how it is. If youre not combat arms you have a vagina.

My boyfriend bugs me about it. He almost never gives oral. He acts like he's doing me a favor by wanting a threesome. Like he'll hint "why don't you invite a friend over and that way she can go down on you...?" Are ALL guys like this? 1st boyfriend so I don't know any better...

I received denied credit because i exceeded the absent limit for gym class (10 days missed). I was originally not allowed to prom because of that, but i knew my mom would lighten up (which she did) but yesteday my brother left the windows open in his car so i went outside with my friend to roll them up, then i just decided to pull up (Stupid, i had no real reason for doing it, i just wanted to) my brother told my parents and i admitted to it, now they are set on not letting me go.

I met a guy and he is super sweet/treats me well but he texts me all...day...long. From teh moment he wakes til he sleeps. He tells me every part of his day, that he woke up, what he's watching on tv, tells me what to watch, that he's going to exercise, that he just finishe exercising, that he's taking a shower, etc. I feel bad about not responding but even when I don't he keeps texting me... 3, 4, 5, 6 texts after I don't respond. He can't seem to go no more than two hours of my silence w/o texting me. For instance last night It old him I was going to bed an goodnight and he said good night. And then later texted me how he was watching tv... then that he couldn't go to sleep. and then this morning he texts me he is awak super early and etc. It's smothering me and killing my attraction to him. Doesn't seem to have a social life eitherand lives with his parentes. I work/go to school and have family/friends. Idk what to do/ Is this normal?

Hi. Can anyone tell me, for a fact, the answer to this: when I have to complete my food stamps recertification every six months (report changes, etc.), does DSS actually go into a system and verify the information I may put on the form? For example, if I obtain a job and list it, can I put on there a lower amount of pay and a lower of amount of hours so as to appear that I'm not making too much? The only reason I need to do this is because I really am taking care of 4 people, but I can't tell them that...long story. They believe it's just myself and my son. Although I will now be making income, it will exceed their poverty threshold and they will discontinue rather than just reduce my food stamps if they know my true pay, hours, etc. I hate not telling the truth...not only do I feel paranoid of getting caught, I just HATE lying! I need to retain some food stamps because even with a decent paying job, I still basically have to get food for 4 people. Anyway, I also need to know if DSS would require documentation about my job? Please, if anyone has any ideas as to how I can accomplish this without issues arising, please advise me. Thanks a lot for the advice and for helping a poor person, lol!

Dating six months. He can be a lil uncommunicative at time as he's busy wit work and so am I. Before I used to try to initiate conversation but slowly I stopped if he wasn't as reciprocal. We spend most weekends together & did last weekend. This week we texted Mon and Tues and he said he wished we could go out to dinner outside that day. I told him I was already on my way home, and he was working late but to let me know which day this week, he said ok. Well he hasn't messaged me at all since Tuesday. And I haven't reached out either. is this normal? Goign days without speaking to person you've been dating six months? Before I dated a guy who could go a week without talking so eventually I just stopped initiating at all. WOuld this bother you or not. I guess it bothers me a little I've told him before I wished we communicated more and how when he doesn't it doesn't make me feel close and he said ti's cause he's busy. But he'll routinely say he's gonna call me back and does not. I may hear from him the next day. I am not a person who needs 24/7 smothering as I'm busy too but I wonder is this normal for most guys? We have fun when we're together but maybe i wonder ...

I broke it off with a guy I was seeing for 3-4 months about 3 weeks ago. I split with him because he wasn't ready for another committed relationship .after his divorce. We both very much liked each other, enjoyed each other's company etc. He even thought we were highly compatible, but he just wasn't ready , he said i deserve more than he can give me right now. . We remain friends but I haven't seen him in more than 3 weeks and we only briefly texted last week when he told me Happy Bday. He's always on my mind even when I try to start busy. I miss him like crazy. Not a lot of time has passed, but I want to see him talk to him. Do I see if he'll contact me or should I him?

No se que le pasa a mi novio, casi no me escribí esta muy distanciado y lo peor es que cuando le pregunto que le pasa no me dice, le pregunte si quería seguir conmigo y me dijo esto: " Para que me preguntas eso te quieres ir con otro" yo le dije que no había masa nadie, y me ignora que hago ya estoy cansada, ??

I'm attracted to this man, I think he might be interested in me, but he's to shy to speak to me. I catch him starring at me through the corner of my eye, I lock eyes with him for a few seconds, he blushes and looks away quickly. This has been going on for a month, others guys have been approaching me and starring at me. I was thinking about sitting closer to him, but I'm afraid to. I'm not sure if he's truly integrated in me, I don't want to embarrass myself. It would look odd if all of a sudden I have been sitting near my friends for months, in the same desk, and just decide to change desk. I know men usually, start the first initiation, but some men can be shy as well.

One of the VIPs at work and a admin assistant are always chatting (and it's never work related) she always stands in his door way and asks him personal questions and he will then ask her questions too. When she leaves she goes bye in a cutesy voice and he does the same.

No matter what I do or put on I just don't feel sexy anymore. I get comments that I look nice but the feeling of sexy is just not there I wonder why? Why do we need a man to tell us we look good or sexy I want to know it and feel it for myself as a woman.

They say and do stuff that is childish? They do rude pranks?

My boyfriend wants to have sex with me and have young adult girls watching us. I simply just don't want to do that; but my boyfriend wants too. I don't want to suppress his sexual desires, but I also don't want to put myself in a potentially uncomfortable situation. Is it sinful for us to perform this act? Honest and serious answers please.

My boyfriend and I decided that we take a break from each other for a while since we've been fighting too much lately. I recently found out that in the middle of our break, he was seeing someone else already. I just can't believe it happened that fast. I begged that he stayed and that he choose me and he told me he would. But it seems that he isn't doing what he promised and he continues to see the other girl. Should I keep fighting for this to work or should I just let it go? Really thought he was the guy for me. Friends keep telling me that there are others out there that are way better than him, but right now, in my eyes, he's the best.

I have posted this question on another site. Why is it that when a man finds out their gf/wife was somehow raped they want to know every sexual detail? I know they want to know the ENTIRE story like who, when, where and how... Which is FINE. But why are most men so interested in the details, isn't rape, rape? So why does it matter what all the rapist did to her sexually??? Is it insecurity or something else??? It baffles me.

actually I've had a long time friend or ex boyfriend both actually who says he likes me he loves me admires me and would do anything for me. And he does. But I have to track him down. He always like just know is that I know he would do that and he does. Now I've met a lot of other people guys block me and I get a sense that they like me a lot but are afraid or upset. So its like instead of being honest they're trying to push me away are they just I don't know exactly I think it's more fear. I guess question is why do they come off so in apt I'm so calm patient I try to be respectful and when I get angry it just causes me more problems. How can these people like me so much and make it out like they don't want anything to do with me? And then everybody I asked says they don't like you or I don't know. It is seemingly such a big mystery. What's going on here?

Im a 16 year old guy. Theres a girl at school who bullies the weaker nerdier shyer girls. She sometimes pulls their hair, steals their money and hits them. The teachers know about it but wont do anything. I take the same bus as one of the girls and i often have to walk her home because the bully sometimes follows her home. So the 2 weeks ago i saw the bully pull angirls hair and id had enough so i walked over and gave her a black eye. Shes left the weaker girls alone since, but everyone else (apart from the girls who got bullied) are calling me a monster and a coward. How so? Im just sick of her picking on other girls who cant defend themselves. Why arentnthey all looking at the big picture? Why didnt the teachers do something? Theyve been told about it enough! I know that guys shouldntnhit girls, or anyone for that matter, but this girl had it coming and i was the only one who cared enough to do something about it...

I love my boyfriend, we have been together for a year and a half. I naively thought he didn't watch porn for about a year. When using his tablet, a few links came up of porn and surprised me. I felt so silly to think he wasn't watching porn, since according to the internet EVERYONE does. I know it is normal in today's society and I wish it wasn't. I'll mention that he works at a mine site for two weeks and he only watches it while at work. I understand that he needs release and I'm not there to provide the means for that. I asked him to think of me and use the sexy photos I send him yet he says he usually only watches porn. From a previous abusive relationship, I've developed insecurities and porn was used as a way to hurt me. My current bf knows of this and I'm trying to work through these insecurities. I send him sexy pictures and I've asked him for a sexy face timing session but I was turned down. I asked him if he would use said photos while relieving himself. He thinks I'm crazy for suggesting it and he tells me he probably won't stop watching. I've offered to watch with him or perform a certain move, but he said no. How can I come to terms of this? How do I just accept it? Am I crazy for only wanting him to think of me? What can I say to myself to help me feel better about the situation? Should I stop brining it up? Should I try watching it myself? I'm so confused and embarrassed to ask friends for advice. I hope you fellow yahooers can help me with this. Thank you!

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Hi everyone, i am a 26 year old mum with a 19 month old little girl. I have a fiance who has now been engaged to me for 5 years, i have reached the point where we do not get on, he is always correcting me,play fights rough,stays on the computer all the time when hes not working, never goes out with me and lives in a mess, no intrest in sex and defo not romantic. Here comes my problem ive recently gone back to work and i have met someone else who is like me and we click and i think i love him. Im stuck in a rut because i cant cheat and i have tried to fix things between my bf and i but hes not willing to change and isnt a very good father.. im really depressed. I love my daughter she is my world im just with the wrong man.