Question Family

It's so much that I can't even explain but she is very nasty and rude and talks crap about me (even makes up lies, I walked in on her doing it once and someone else even told me the things she says) to whoever will listen while her favorite can do no wrong! I'm always the bad guy and if I don't kiss her favorites *** 24/7 or make her feel like she's so special, my grandmother makes people think I'm jealous or something. Her favorite likes to act smug about the fact that she is the 'chosen' one (lol) and it kinda pisses me off. It has been this way all my life and she even treats my mom like crap. How do I deal with this lady? I really think she's a narcissist.

I received $1,448 and right when she found out I had the money, she was complaining that she needs a brand-new cold and that I need to help with the rent but I don't work and that's the only money I have for me so I can buy books maybe some clothes that I'm needing and shoes and save for later. Every time I have money she always wants say that she needs money that I need to help but I don't work so she doesn't understand that. It's really annoying that she comes up running to me every time I have money for myself. What do I do?

My step dad and mother got divorced but had a son before they did. He is 8 years old now. Recently my step dad suddenly passed away and all the funeral costs were left to my mother. My step dad always wanted to be cremated but the cost to have a funeral and then cremate the body afterwards is way too expensive so she has to cremate him before the funeral. My brother wants to say good bye to his dad one last time so my mom calls the funeral home and asks and they start talking about additional costs. Apparently my mother has to pay $50 for her son to see his dead father. So my mom gets the money and takes it to them and they say that they said $150, not $50. And then goes on to say that it's actually $200 but they found $60 in his pocket that they are putting towards the cost. (Without asking). But even if they did put $60 towards the $200 wouldn't that bring the cost down to $140, not $150? None of this seems right to me and I find it very wrong and don't know much about funerals so I just thought id get some other opinions.

He's 17 very insecure, very negative, and argues with my mom and I a lot. He has no respect for anybody. And when we try to ask for respect, he gets angry and starts arguing. For example, one time he asked me to look up something simple for him on my tablet. I used my phone instead because it was quicker, but my phone didn't work, so right when I was about to use my iPad to look it up, he called me useless, nagged me (as always), then went to do something else. When, he comes back, he hits me. I tell him to stop and he does it again while telling me to shut up. He gets my iPad to look up what he wanted me to. I tell him to give it back multiple times and he doesn't, so I get my mom. She makes him give it back. When she asks what happens, my brother says he's tired of me disrespecting him. I tell him it's vice versa because I want respect from him, and he never gives it to me. He has a short temper. I worry about his future a lot. I've even had horrible visions of him in prison. I'm a preteen girl, btw. I meant to say argues with me and my mom a lot

Okay so yesterday my mom told me to go clean up my room but I ran to have fun, I ran from her and when she was chasing me she hit her toe on the bottom of the sofa, the leg. And now her toe is dislocated and she wants to dis own me. Do you think this is really my fault? She's in her room crying.

I'm 15/girl (just got vision back, had 4 surgeries, big setback). my family & I met Dona last year, she works out in dance class with my mom & I everyday, were more like close family.. 3 years ago doña's daughter died in her sleep.. Anyway She's honestly like my 2nd mother. I really love her & have been wanting to get really close with her but I've been getting this weird feeling of guilt when I'm around her. All I think about is her losing her daughter at my age, then there is me alive with my mom. She's very reserved & is quiet, although super open with my mom. In ways I always thought she hated me, she was kinda distant. I sent her a long loving text saying how much she met to me & mom, how much I loved her & how we wouldn't have made it this far thanks to her, just sweet words. Daughter to mother words, words of encouragement.. She sent back this long text saying how much it touched her heart, how much she loved me, & blessful words to help me get through my set back. Just such sweet loving words I'd never expect from her.. Now every day I see her she's so loving & caring & sweet, hugs me a lot & smiles at me. When she's dancing on stage she turns to me and smiles & try's to make me laugh.. She's ver loving and caring to me now. I don't know what I'm trying to say but am I like her daughter?.. What do you think about all this?