Marriage & Divorce: Question: How do u have a secret love affair? Just curious? |
- Question: How do u have a secret love affair? Just curious?
- Question: Financially burdened?
- Question: Unhappy in my marriage?
- Question: Could my son invite his former teacher and her husband to family dinner after Graduation?
- Question: Father is wanting full custody.?
- Question: I rejected a girl and she got really upset. Is she overreacting?
- Question: When u never settle is that a recipe for loneliest?
- Question: I broke up with my GF because of school. Did I make the right choice?
- Question: Tell me==?
- Question: Awkward situation, need advice?
- Question: What is the best way to motivate my fiancee to stay sober?
- Question: Husband thinking of someone else.?
- Question: My husband is in progress of buying a house for his parents but i don't want to be involved?
- Question: I feel like my husband is distracting me from my goals? Am I overreacting?
- Question: Pregnant wife locked herself in our bathroom and wont come out?
- Question: What do I have to do change my married name back to my maiden name?
- Question: Do you think a blind marriage is a good idea?
- Question: Is it worth it to stay for financial reasons?
- Question: Is there a way to fix this or should I leave her?
- Question: Is being in love not adequate foundation for building a successful marriage?
- Question: How can you tell if someone came from parents who stayed married and did not get divorced?
- Question: Is marriage mainly about survival?
- Question: Should I stay or should I go?
- Question: Is it possible to file for divorce if spouse is overseas? Is so, then how? What is to be expected?
- Question: My husband recently admitted to cheating on me twice before we were married but claims he hasn't since. What do I do?
- Question: Why this guy looks at me but when I talk to him he does't pay attention?
- Question: My husband beat me for the first time. What should I do?
- Question: Can a 17 yr old go to school out of state with just one parents signature - divorced?
- Question: Can a marriage survive if the man is 24 yrs. older than his wife?
- Question: If men don't answer their text messages, does that mean they're cheating?
- Question: Can file for divorce without spouse finding out?
- Question: I live in the state of Kentucky and have been married 2.5 years. How much, if any of my 401k is my ex entitled to?
- Question: Who should be responsible for defining marriage in the United States: Religious institutions or private citizens?
- Question: My fiance's behavior is beginning to make me question my future with him. Help?
- Question: I wear a gold chain and charm my late wife gave me 39 years ago. My current wife of 13 years now said for the first time I shouldn't wear it?
- Question: I Am At a Crossroads?
- Question: U.S Marriage Question?
- Question: Ladies, what was the most memorable moment with your husband during your pregnancy that made you smile?
- Question: Have you met the person your wife/husband cheated with?
- Question: How wonderful your leader? www.classicalite.com/articles/15587/20150124/ellen-degeneres-marriage-portia-de-rossi-cheating-divorce-b-mel.htm?
- Question: Why are some young men blamed for not taking responsibilities of marriage?
- Question: Heroin addict husband !! Should I leave or stay?
- Question: Why does my fiance act this way?
- Question: Is it wrong to use sis in law like porn?
- Question: I am married for 11 yrs now. I have a 9 yrs old son. my husband has a very bad drinking habit. he used to hurt me physically and mentally.?
- Question: Sad day because it's my 10thyear anniversary and no celebration?
- Question: My husbands best friend since grade school told me my husband is gay...should I believe him?
- Question: Does anyone know how to do a family tree? We have extended family due to divorce, and adoption?
- Question: Should men get married? what can he gain and loose?
- Question: Did your wife try to convince you that your doing housework for her would put her in the mood?
- Question: Should I just ignore my half-sister?
- Question: Should I give my husband a second chance if he offers to do whatever I say o want?
- Question: How do I communicate with my wife?
- Question: Problems with my teenage stepdaughter?
- Question: Unhappy in marriage and feeling taken asvantage of?
- Question: My soon to ex-husband has physical possession of the vehicle titles that we ve agreed to split, can ask to for the titles,?
- Question: What are the chances my wife had sex with her ex boyfriend?
- Question: Going crazy about my Sister-In-Law......Please help.?
- Question: My Husband do intercourse with me for around half an hour and he satisfies me everytime,is this means he is good in bed?
- Question: When guest ruin your household item, what should your do as a host?
| Question: How do u have a secret love affair? Just curious? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 09:07 PM PDT |
| Question: Financially burdened? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 09:05 PM PDT I am a mother of a two year old and I am married, unfortunately I have a husband who is as mean and selfish as they come. I am attending university and I have basically had to use my credit cards for all things because I can hardly ask my husband for money. I have no way to ay them back and I feel so lost and alone. I am not even able to drive myself anywhere because my parents didn't bother to teach me when I was younger and I had no other family so that was a dud. My husband tries to teach me when he has the time but its just not often enough and in the small town we live in, you hardly find anyone who is willing to help in such a way. I literally have one single friend in this town from high school and nowadays it seems she is dodging me too so I don't really talk to her much. I feel as though my life has turned out differently from what I had imagined. I am sad all the time and cry myself to sleep most nights, I need help but I am not a beggar and really feel like others have things to deal with too, I guess I am merely writing this hoping for a miracle and just to vent. I am a good wife so I know it's not me, I do my best by my husband and even when I am sad try to show love as much as I can I just feel like the amount of love I give is not returned. |
| Question: Unhappy in my marriage? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:59 PM PDT I am a very loving person and really I treat you how you treat me so if my husband is treating me well I will always show him respect and love but sometimes he is so grumpy and uninvolved when it comes to our daughter and myself. He hardly has to bathe her, feed her, change her diapers because I work from home so I take care of her but he doesn't even take her for walks. Its just not the marriage I thought we would have. He can be very loving and he used to be constantly but now he gets upset at everything I say or do for example the other night we went to the store and I forgot to do something at the cash register so he came over to do it but his tone of voice and body language was a bit off and he kind of just pushed passed me so when he was done I said why did you have to push pass me like that? immediately he got pissed and we argued. He said he didn't push pass me or mean to push pass me and he's been cross with me for the past week saying I should know he wouldn't do that, so I am just like well im not a mind reader. There are just a lot of little things like that which we argue over and it annoys me and is really making me fall out of love with him. Every time we fight and he decides to give me the silent treatment I just hate him more. |
| Question: Could my son invite his former teacher and her husband to family dinner after Graduation? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:37 PM PDT I say not becasue she's MARRIED and my son is a male.My son said that he wants to do something special to say thank her for teaching him and It's just so inappropriate.This is disgusting and inappropriate and not mention she cheated on her husband for her son and I surprised that she is still married and I say she cheated on her husband becasue she would fist bump him,hi five,talk about non school stuff,joke around with each other,and very rarely,they even hug.All of this stuff especially hugging,talking about non school stuff, and joking around is called emotional cheating and I can't believe she is still married despite of all of this.My son is 18 and she's 24 and extremely close to 25 and I feel sick to my stomach that my son even consider this.What is wrong with my son? How can I end the suffering? |
| Question: Father is wanting full custody.? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:36 PM PDT My commen law husband left me for his ex wife. He went to work one day and left his load in Dallas and his ex wife picked him up there and quit his job to be with his ex wife and now he's 400 miles away, we have a court date next month for custody and child sulport. And he's wanting to get full custody of our son, does he even have a chance cause he quit his job to be with his ex wife and left us here, and at the moment he is jobless and they are living with her dad. And I've been a stay at home mom and now I'm out looking for work And what is going to happen when we go? Like what is the judge going to ask? I was told we are not going to be there long at all. I dont want my son around his ex wife of her dad, I don't even know them, and if my son has to go there for visitation he will be staying at her dads house which is a complete stranger to my son. Am I going to have to bring a witness? The day he left and after her picking him up he sent me a text saying he's done and I can have everything. I just want to be prepared. |
| Question: I rejected a girl and she got really upset. Is she overreacting? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:36 PM PDT I was lab partners with this girl for bit. She's super shy but also really cute and funny once she gets comfortable around you. We talked alot in class. Eventually, she mustered up the courage to ask me out. I was shocked, she was so shy just a few months ago. I told her I just didn't have time for relationships. I was too busy with school, work and volunteering. She got super upset, she actually started crying and ran out of the class. Before she left, she accused me of leading her on. I mean seriously? All I did was talk to her... |
| Question: When u never settle is that a recipe for loneliest? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:29 PM PDT I am a single mom divorced twice. Two beautiful children one from each. I love my children more than life. I am feeling I don't want to die alone. I am successful yet humble. I am in my thirties. Is it time to settle? Just curious. Is it cougar time? |
| Question: I broke up with my GF because of school. Did I make the right choice? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:26 PM PDT We're both in university but I'm alot more serious about school than she is. On top of studying, I also work and volunteer. I have plans to get into Medical School after my 2nd year of university so I'm busy 24/7. My GF has been upset that I haven't been spending as much time with her lately. I figured it would be best if I simply broke up with her instead of constantly telling her that I'm too busy to hang out. She was heartbroken. We've been dating for 4 years. She started crying and begging me to reconsider. Her friends hate me now. Even some of my own friends are criticizing me for dumping her. We were a very happy couple. Do you think I made the right choice? I have to choose between my future and my relationship with her... |
| Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:24 PM PDT Let me tell you a story.. OK.. My husband of 11yrs is a dam good mechanic. His ex calls him to have him fix her friends car. He agrees, now this is a trans problem in which he takes it out, waits for another, puts it in with a lot of difficulty. His specialty is not trans. Right before this we are thinking about separating, there were a lot of bad words said between both - mainly myself. He is gone for 20days out of town to do this. Now keep in mind we have a seven yr old daughter. During the 20 days m car breaks down and I know he gets the messages that we need him, we called and texted everyday--- no respond-- it got to the point of me getting very upset and wanting to throw out his stuff, leaving bad words on messages, he called twice during those 20 days and texted maybe 5. He comes home and stays or two days-- saying that he wasn't finished with the job and that there is no signal up in the mountain area where he was. Also, during those two days we had sex, if that is what you call it. Bam bam thank you mam once. Now knowing my husband is a sexual type of person sometimes. But, I kept telling him that I wanted more and never received it. So he returned to the mountains to finish this job. -- I feel like I became second to him because I needed him and he wasn't there nor did he care, I feel like he should take care of his family first before anyone else. Wheather I say bad things or not am I wrong.. Please respond. |
| Question: Awkward situation, need advice? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:23 PM PDT I got a little drunk recently. My cousin and her husband decided that, her husband should drive my car while we follow my cousin to get some food. While in the car with him, he told me that he wanted to make out with me and told me not to tell her anything about him mentioning that. I don't know what to do, it's bugging me, what should I do?? They are a newly wed couple of a year. .. |
| Question: What is the best way to motivate my fiancee to stay sober? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:21 PM PDT My fiancee just finished 17 months in prison for a DWI. He has struggled with addiction for many many years, but he was "determined" to be sober after he got out. He has been out for two months and has relapsed several times. He is certainly not at the point that he was and I know he wants to be sober, but I don't think it's his highest priority. I don't want him to get back to where he was. Should I remind him of the things he missed while away? Our youngest daughter was only 3 months when he went away, so he missed all of her milestones. But I don't want to make him sad and send him to a bad place. I try to reward him for sobriety and show him all the awesome things that you can do when sober. I'm giving up and am starting to feel hopeless. |
| Question: Husband thinking of someone else.? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:10 PM PDT How to tell if my husband is thinking of someone else while having sex. Also how to not feel crushed by it. |
| Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:56 PM PDT my husband started the progress of getting a house for his parents before we got married(to be exact, a week before). His parent called me today saying they need my social and iD to confirm that i won't be involve in getting the house. do they really need it since I'm now married to their son or are they trying to do something else with it? I don't have that good of a relationship with my husbands family because they always try to get things their way and always try to manipulate people so I'm not sure if they're trying to get something out of me or if they're being truthful. anyone please help my husband understand where I'm coming from and doesn't force me to do anything i don't want to. I'm just curious |
| Question: I feel like my husband is distracting me from my goals? Am I overreacting? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:54 PM PDT I am working full-time. I also am a graduate student student. Getting my degree (and the promotion that is contingent upon my Masters) is really important to me. In high school, I had a 3.4 GPA. I had a rough home life and didn't push myself enough so I was limited to applying to a lot of the prestigious colleges. I pushed myself really hard in college. I worked part time, graduated in 3 years with dual majors, paid off my debt four years after graduation, and graduated with a 3.8. I was accepted to Columbia, an Ivy League school. Given this, it is extremely important to me that I finish my Masters within the expected time of 2 years. He says how much he misses me all the time and how he wants to spend more time with me. If I'm up at 1:00 A.M doing class work, he'll tell me I should go to bed and get some rest. Sometimes he'll ask me to go out when he sees I'm busy. I appreciate that he's voicing his concerns and I know he loves me very much and he says how proud of me he is. When I am not busy, he will drop whatever plans he has to spend time with me. He got his work schedule changed so we'd have more free time together. I don't know what else to do besides drop a class and I don't want to fall behind. I know my marriage is important but so is this. I feel like he doesn't grasp how rigorous this program is. |
| Question: Pregnant wife locked herself in our bathroom and wont come out? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:45 PM PDT I was talking on the phone, with a complete stranger mind you, and it was some stupid sales lady at that. My wife comes into the room starts freaking the hell out over me cheating on her and runs into the bathroom and starts crying saying i don't love her anymore. Yeah i get shes pregnant but come on, does she actually believe I'm cheating on her? |
| Question: What do I have to do change my married name back to my maiden name? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:41 PM PDT |
| Question: Do you think a blind marriage is a good idea? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:33 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it worth it to stay for financial reasons? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:29 PM PDT I know I can't support our daughter on my own salary. My husband also works long hours but doesn't have a good enough salary so We live with my husbands parents who help us out. and they are actually nice compared to my husband. So he is verbally abusive, alchoholic, has a bad temper. So I am really thinking I should leave. I'm tired of all his drama. But his parents are so nice and I know if I left my husband wouldn't have that much to give via child support. So I don't know what to do. Should I just put up with him so our daughter can have a comfortable life. His parents are very wealthy. |
| Question: Is there a way to fix this or should I leave her? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:28 PM PDT Sex is a relatively new part of our relationship. My girlfriend is a terrible communicator. I'm still learning her likes/dislikes. I did something she didn't like, she didn't tell me. And then afterwards, she just laid down and wouldn't talk to me. I asked her what was wrong and she told me. I felt bad for hurting her but at the same time, I didnt know. Next time, for whatever reason, she was not relaxed at all, very tense. She was so tight because of this that sex was almost impossible. But she kept saying she wanted it and then she wound up crying! It'd be so simple for her to just say something rather than just admit it after the fact. When I asked her why she didn't, she said she was afraid and it seemed like I was enjoying myself so she didn't want to ruin it. She actually does this with other things too. Example, she never told me I load the dishwasher wrong. Instead she just rearranged it every single time until I caught on. I love her and I don't want to stop seeing her but I can't stand the passivity and I've asked her to just be more outspoken and she's not. I try to be observant so she doesn't have to say anything but I'm not a mind reader. What could be the cause of it? |
| Question: Is being in love not adequate foundation for building a successful marriage? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:23 PM PDT This is Madonna Cassandra Cabuay Gorospe's letter to her ex-husband Alain Angelo Canlas |
| Question: How can you tell if someone came from parents who stayed married and did not get divorced? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:18 PM PDT How can you tell if someone came from parents who stayed married and did not get divorced? |
| Question: Is marriage mainly about survival? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:18 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I stay or should I go? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:13 PM PDT My husband is a cross dresser. He may even be transsexual. He has cheated on me right after we had our first baby. He is verbally abusive. He tried to commit suicide before. He is violent. Not to me but to things. He doesn't take care of himself in the sense that he drinks too much and has been known to vomit in bed. I told him he had to sleep in a different room cause he kept vomiting. I couldn't take it any more. |
| Posted: 15 Mar 2015 06:49 PM PDT I live in North Dakota and I have been separated from my spouse (not legally) for almost a year now. There are several reasons for the separation but I guess the big reason would be that he is overly controlling to the point of strangulation... I live in an apartment with my son who is 3 years old. My still husband is in the air force and just got deployed to Korea. He will be stationed there for a year. Would it be possible to file for divorce while he is in Korea? Please no harassment. I've gone through enough already. |
| Posted: 15 Mar 2015 06:44 PM PDT We've dated for 8 years and been married for 2. I'd always made it clear that the one thing that I would not tolerate was cheating. I said the moment I found out it would be over no matter what. Well recently my husband says that he can't handle the guilt and didn't want there to be secrets between us. He confessed that he cheated on me once when we were in school and once when we were already engaged. Of course I was hurt and have really just been not feeling well. I don't want to eat or go out I just want to sleep all the time. I didn't leave right away and my husband has been trying to talk to me. He says that it was three years ago and that he has been faithful since we actually got married. I still can't really even look at him without crying. I also found out from one of his brother that the only reason he told me was because one of the girls he cheated on me with was threatening to tell me anyway. I don't know what to do. It's been years since it actually happened but the point is that it DID happen and I fear he would do it again. What are your opinions? |
| Question: Why this guy looks at me but when I talk to him he does't pay attention? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 06:33 PM PDT This guy is my |
| Question: My husband beat me for the first time. What should I do? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 06:30 PM PDT Earlier today we got into an argument about him not being home enough. He often goes out with his friends, comes home drunk after, and doesn't spend enough time with our 4 year old son, we also have another child on the way. When I confronted him about this, he told me that I was pissing him off and that he could do whatever he wanted. I then kept pressing him about the issue and he turned around and kicked me in the stomach and kicked me repeatedly when I was laying on the floor. Afterwards I threw up all over myself and the kitchen floor and cried while my son tried to comfort me. I have never been afraid of my husband till now and I'm too scared to confront him about what happen. He gets off work early in the morning and I have thought about taking my son and going to my sister's house before he comes back home. If you have any advice please tell me. |
| Question: Can a 17 yr old go to school out of state with just one parents signature - divorced? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 06:18 PM PDT |
| Question: Can a marriage survive if the man is 24 yrs. older than his wife? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 05:43 PM PDT if she's in her middle 30's. |
| Question: If men don't answer their text messages, does that mean they're cheating? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 05:20 PM PDT and why do they always hang on to their ex's phone numbers? |
| Question: Can file for divorce without spouse finding out? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 05:13 PM PDT I got a general sense how it works; 1. find attorney 2. get uncontested divorce filed 3. then have wife summoned? But I want to file now and then drop the bomb shell months for now when I tell my wife. However what I am asking, other than the paperwork being sent to her house. Will there be any other notifications, from IRS, goverment, taxes, work,etc...that I filed for divorce? I want to be in the database for filing but I dont want my wife to know I filed until I am ready to tell her. |
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| Posted: 15 Mar 2015 01:50 PM PDT Over the last eleven years, the issue of same-sex marriage has been one of--if not, THE MOST debated social issue in this country. That being said, there have been two very respectable and well though-out possible ways of settling the marriage debate once and for all: 1) Leaving the definition of marriage up to the religious institutions (churches, synagogues, mosques, etc.)--also known as marriage privatization, or: 2) Allow private citizens in the states to define marriage however they want. Which is the better approach to defining marriage and why? |
| Question: My fiance's behavior is beginning to make me question my future with him. Help? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 01:36 PM PDT I used to see my fiance as a motivated, driven, hardworking person with unmatched passion for the sports industry. Although I have no interest in sports whatsoever, one of the things I loved most about him is his passion and work ethic. After he graduated college (two years ago) I moved across the country with him after he landed an opportunity in the NBA that he was ecstatic about. Literally 5 weeks after he started the job, he quit. I was shocked. A week later he took a job down south, also in the sports industry. It was a very sad, entry-level position that paid minimum wage. Naturally, I did not follow him down south, as I was hurt that he left the first time and his job down south was only a 1 year contract. So his 1 year contract ended two months ago. Three months before it was supposed to end, I started encouraging him to begin applying for jobs, as it can be a long process. He said he wanted to go to grad school for sports marketing and he applied to only one school that didn't require any tests. He did not get in. Now, two months later, he still doesn't have a job. He's at home with mom & dad, not contributing anything to their household. Last night he tells me that he wants to get into the medical industry, though he's done no research at all. He hasn't taken a science/health related course since Freshmen year and it was one gen-ed class that he was required to take and he hated it. Honestly, he doesn't think anything through and I don't know if I want to be with someone like that. I plan everything and I am smart about the decisions I make which is why I am 24 years old and already have thousands and thousands of dollars saved, a retirement fund started, excellent credit, and a high paying corporate job. He just isn't the person I thought he was. |
| Posted: 15 Mar 2015 01:16 PM PDT I only have 4 pieces of jewerly. Two rings my current wife gave me and the gold necklace and charm from my late wife gave me 39 years ago. The reason I wear the neckless/charm is cause it's very nice and one of a kind. My wife after 13 years is now angry I wear it. |
| Question: I Am At a Crossroads? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 01:15 PM PDT Hi. I'm 25 years old. I'm married to my 42 year old husband who is an associate minister at a church. We've been together for 4 years and we've been married for a little over 2months. I am 4months pregnant and our marriage is on the verge of ending. Being that he's a minister, he told me, if asked to alter our marriage date a month less than the date w actually got married which would mean we've been married for 3months. He also told me to alter, if asked, how far along in my pregnancy so it would seem like out child was conceived inside the bond of marriage. It makes me sick to my stomach to lie about that. We've been having sex since we started dating. Last night, we got in an argument and I Punched him as hard as I could in his face. He grabbed me with force and pushed me against the car window and attempted to choke me with my scarf that I was wearing. The thing is, I've never been constantly happy with him but now we have a child on the way. I grew up without a dad and I don't want that for my child. My mom hates him so much and she has reason to. It just hurts that I may be a single mother and that's my worst fear. It hurts me to my heart to jus think of it.I dont know what to do. I'll be a divorced single mother. Who knows, He may not even be apart of the baby's life if we did divorce. I've prayed and I don't know what to do. Advice? Words of Wisdom? Somebody help me. |
| Question: U.S Marriage Question? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 01:12 PM PDT My uncle married a woman with a son. Would it be illegal to marry her son, if he's my cousin by marriage? |
| Posted: 15 Mar 2015 01:05 PM PDT so my wife has been having a hard time since we found out she was pregnant, her parents literally disowned her because of it, that we're too young to was our lives already, even though were 26 and been together for eight years, the pregnancy wasn't planned but we're both excited about it anyway, but she's been struggling with this because of her parents, and i kinda wanna know possible some of the best things your husband did for you that made you smile during your pregnancy, because even though i've come home so many times with a small gift for her, she likes it, but it doesn't really last all to long before she's sad over her parents again, and she keeps it all inside her for the most part, (we've sat down and i've let her cry on my shoulder a few times) and it really hurts watching this tear her up, i'm looking for ideas to hopefully keep her mind off of her parents, which she's really heartbroken over. so maybe you could lend me some knowledge of what made you smile to help me make her a little happier, if you wouldn't mind me doing something similar? |
| Question: Have you met the person your wife/husband cheated with? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 12:47 PM PDT If your wife cheated, or your husband. Did you have to meet the home wrecking person after-the-fact? My wife cheated and is now with the man for quite some time. I have full (unofficial) custody of our 2 kids. I worry I will one day have to meet him if ex wife ever asks for time with the kids. I'd want to beat the crap out of him. She brought him to our house while I was at work, kids at school. There were family photos in the house. Big wedding photo in the bedroom. He 100% knew she was married and had 2 kids |
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| Question: Why are some young men blamed for not taking responsibilities of marriage? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 12:41 PM PDT This article and quote caught my attention: "Far too many young men have failed to make a normal progression into adult roles of responsibility and self-sufficiency, roles generally associated with marriage and fatherhood," Crouse, the former executive director of the Beverly LaHaye Institute, wrote in a recent Washington Times oped. The high percentage of bachelors means bleak prospects for millions of young women who dream about a wedding day that may never come. "It's very, very depressing," Crouse told CNSNews.com. "They're not understanding how important it is for the culture, for society, for the strength of the nation to have strong families." Rationally, some of these young men are avoiding marriage due to divorce laws favoring women (men lose a lot in divorce). Why are young men often blamed for not taking responsibilities of marriage? Here is the article: http://cnsnews.com/news/article/barbara-hollingsworth/bachelor-nation-70-men-aged-20-34-are-not-married |
| Question: Heroin addict husband !! Should I leave or stay? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 11:58 AM PDT Edit Question Preview Your Question Heroin addict husband what to do ?? I been married for 4 years only 1 good year in the whole marrige my husband had a history of drug addiction I didn't know about so it started when we got married I used to smoke weed sometimes and my husband was clean at that point .. We had argue about me stoping weed so I did .. And I been clean since then .. My husband start smoking weird and taking pills and doing coke and everything out there and just recently I find out he been using heroin for the past year .. I didn't know much about it so I I tried to help him by outing him out patient detox program and he stil uses his getting worse we have have 3 kids togather and yonges is 4 months old he have never been a good husband or a good father I do everything for my kids and hold a full time job I have suffered abuse from him he have put his hands on me many times I have left the house and came back many times my biggest fear is him drying from OD I TRIED MY BEST BUT IDK WHAT ELS TO DO. He blames everyone around him for his **** ups .. H e spend money like crazy and not on me or the bills .. His sinking and I don't wonna sink with him. Help |
| Question: Why does my fiance act this way? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 11:09 AM PDT Me and my fiance have been together for a year now and engaged for 6mths we are both still goin through divorce well everything seems fine than last night we were drinking and she gets royally pissed off and tells me that her friend died because of me and that I'm nothing and will never be nothing and no one will ever want me she says that I'm just a ***** and a babysitter I'm starting a new job and she says im lying about it I'm waiting on the drug test so during the fight she gets physical and tears into me the only way to stop was call the cops she uses her one call to call her dad she didn't call me to check on our kids I love her so much and the kids as if they were by own my question is why does she say she loves me so much and so deeply but than turn around and have a look of pure hatred and evilness' towards me |
| Question: Is it wrong to use sis in law like porn? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 10:53 AM PDT Sister in law is staying with us. She does not attend church.which that's fine with us. We leave for church and get home around noon. This is second week we came home to our house guest going to town with her rabbit. My wife who was in heels and as usual straight to couch to unload her shoes but I could tell hearing my brothers wife go very hard with vibrator was getting her aroused she headed to bed room lifted skirt and went at it she was soaking. I joined in. The hole house hold was involved. |
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| Question: Sad day because it's my 10thyear anniversary and no celebration? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 10:40 AM PDT Today is our 10th year anniversary. He remembers but he doesn't care about celebrating it. A week ago I asked if he will be taking the day off from work to celebrate it but he said no. he wants to work instead. It's 10:25am on a Sunday and I am already up but he's still sleeping. No flowers no balloons no breakfast no gifts and no dinner because he gets out of work at 10pm, nothing at all. Last years thanksgiving day he went to work and went straight to his friends house and didn't come home til the next day. Even christmas, he went to a party on Christmas Eve and didn't come home til the 26th. So I didn't see him at all on christmas. Not only that on his birthday which lands on New Years eve, he went to work and went straight to his friends house to celebrate. He said, he want to be able to celebrate his birthday the way he wants it and that's being with the people that matters to him. So there, I didn't get to be with him on his birthday, New Years eve and he didn't come home til the next day which is new year. I remember crying a lot last year. This year's Valentine, if you guess there was nothing special than you are right. Again, it was just another day. My birthday was last month, turned 30th. But it was no big deal to him. Again he didn't want to take the day off, there was no gifts no flowers no balloons no party no dinner it was just another day to him. He doesn't care. I am considering leaving, it seem like he doesn't want to be with me. Being with someone for 10 years and feeling like I am not wanted. I don't even know what my question is. I just felt like I need to say it out. Maybe advices would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for reading. |
| Posted: 15 Mar 2015 10:32 AM PDT MY HUSBANDS BEST FRIEND SINCE GRADE SCHOOL TOLD ME MY HUSBAND IS GAY...MY HUSBAND SAYS HE WAS KIDDING...THEY ARE VERY CLOSE |
| Posted: 15 Mar 2015 10:27 AM PDT ...Please respond with a template or sample how to do this? |
| Question: Should men get married? what can he gain and loose? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 10:16 AM PDT a main reason to get married is to reproduce but what if the man is not looking towards having children? |
| Posted: 15 Mar 2015 09:53 AM PDT did you fall for it? sucker! |
| Question: Should I just ignore my half-sister? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 09:47 AM PDT Let's suppose you learned you have a younger half-sister -19 whereas you were 24 (from an illegitimate affair your father had); and you were an only child till then. How would you react? I mean she shouldn't inherit anything... That's unfair. And yeah she's not family right? She's just a poor intruder. She doesn't even look like family as she is only 5'7 short whereas I'm 6'9 tall. Plus we are blonds whereas she is not. What the hell? |
| Question: Should I give my husband a second chance if he offers to do whatever I say o want? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 09:30 AM PDT He cheated on me and told me if I give him a second chance, he'll offer to sign a marriage contract. He will do whatever I want him to if he fail to keep his promise. My question is, is a marriage contract valid after marriage? |
| Question: How do I communicate with my wife? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 09:16 AM PDT In my opinion, my wife and I have major issues. We are really two different people. I'm usually running too early and she is very late. She doesn't get in credit card trouble, but she won't save a dime and I'm a saver. She made promises that she hasn't kept with these two issues. I've come to realize she says alot but doesn't back it up with action. I've even tried to bet her. They're fun bets, but if she loses, she doesn't follow through. Anyway, she very much wants to have a baby. We used to have sex regularly, but when we got married it came to a screeching halt. She wanted to have a kid and thought we could have sex once a month and was telling everything we've been trying for years. I've tried to tell her you gotta have it a few times around that time of the month, but to no avail. I find her ridiculous to talk to sometimes. I just say yes to anything she says, even if I don't want to do it, because she doesn't follow through most of the time. Does anyone know of a way I can get through to her? I don't want to have a kid with her, because I feel like I have to watch her (doesn't pay bills on time, always late, etc...). |
| Question: Problems with my teenage stepdaughter? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 09:14 AM PDT She's 17 and will be 18 in a couple of months. Her dad and I married when she was 11, back when he didn't see her much because her mom was keeping her from him. There was a very long, very expensive, very time consuming court battle and he finally won custody of her a little over two years ago. I knew when I married my husband that once we got her things would be difficult, but neither of us had any idea how hard it would be. We had to use our savings on counseling for her because she was struggling with everything that had happened with her mom. There was a big distance between her and her dad, which hurt my husband immensely. She never really bonded with me, but I understood and was there for her and always did my best not to smother her or come on too strong. For the last few months she's been very different. She curses, screams, shouts and gets very angry. She's spit in my face several times when I told her not to curse. A few times I thought she was actually going to hit me. And she's said quite a few things to my husband that have hurt him. Like how much she hates him for not letting her stay with her mom and that she wishes he'd died during the custody battle because he's ruined her life. I had a few things said to me, too, but it didn't hurt me like it hurt him. We're both worried about her but feel there isn't a lot we can do because she's almost an adult. Any advice? |
| Question: Unhappy in marriage and feeling taken asvantage of? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:44 AM PDT My wife spends most of her time getting around with friends and working. She is hardly ever at home and refuses to go anywhere with me. She even doesn't know my work schedule or what I'm doing. I'm working full time and attending uni full time in a nursing undergrad course. I'm pushing hard so I can get hd marks and a scholarship. Lately I have zero feelings for my wife. We don't do anything together and I'm tired/stressed from uni. Even sex deels like a waste of time. She doesn't muck around and goes out to movies or to explore new places with her girlfriends and posts about it online. She has her life setup perfectly and seems content to keep me around paying the rent. But of an evening she will hug me and think things are normal. But they aren't because I spend all my time alone so that I am feeling like we are strangers. I talk to other women these days. I have even contemplated going out with them just for company. I haven't done that! I would rather try to get my wife to understand me. She says that my salary is low and that when I am earning enough to fund a property, then she will spend time with me! Last week she was telling me about how she visited the home of her driving instructor to get him to buy property... there have been so many problems like her chatting to other guys. I feel like I am just a fool sometimes. I live with her because I hope for more out of pur marriage! How can I get her to change? She went for a drive with me after work two nights ago to see our property that's being built. I am just unsatisfied with my job, salary and our lack of time together! Adults...of course. She is Chinese. I'm Aussie. We live in Australia. So that gives you insight into our cultural differences. Zero feelings is an exaggeration. I just find myself unable to get in the mood because I'm tired, stressed and not feeling connected since we don't spend time together outside the bedroom. |
| Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:42 AM PDT |
| Question: What are the chances my wife had sex with her ex boyfriend? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:17 AM PDT My wife and I have been married for nearly 15 years now. Back when we were dating she went to live out of state with a relative due to conflicts with her parents. I didn't realize it until after she left that her ex boyfriend was also residing there also. The was one incident when I was talking to her on the phone and he was clearly in the same room and the seemed to be bickering. Her ex then took the phone and hung up on me. She called back right away to apologized and informed me that she kicked him out of her room. I also thought about it that she also packed with her some sexy sleepwear the day she left. After a few months she reconciled with he parents and moved back but would get calls from her ex and would ask me to step outside to give her some privacy. Well fast forward 17 years later and she no longer has contact with him but I am left to wonder if anything ever happened. |
| Question: Going crazy about my Sister-In-Law......Please help.? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 08:14 AM PDT I have been married for 7 years now & have 2 daughters. I love both my daughters a lot and wife as well. Our sex life has dwindled over years. About a month back, my wife & kids went to visit her parents and it is going to be another 15 days when they will be back. My wife has a cousin sister, who is of same age as my wife and is good looking. She is married too and has a child. But about 15 days back, when I was all alone at home and suddenly I had this huge lust and desire to have sex with my wife's cousin sister. At some point when I was having phone sex with my wife, I expressed my fantasy to have sex with her cousin sister. My wife got taken aback by this but soon dropped the topic. I keep expressing it sometimes to my wife over the phone / text and we change the topic when that happens. Or wife does not want to talk about it at that point. I have been asking my wife to spend some time on grooming herself so that I could fall in love with her all over again, she doesn't pay attention to this. This could be a reason why I find her cousin sister attractive. I always dream of having sex with my wife's cousin sister and my wife knows about this as well whenever I chat / text with my wife over phone. I am becoming more dominant while expressing such desires to my wife. There is nothing whatsoever from my wife's cousin sister. We have never met much often nor much interactions between us. It is a mere lust on my side or rather a fantasy. How do I come out of this? |
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| Question: When guest ruin your household item, what should your do as a host? Posted: 15 Mar 2015 07:12 AM PDT My husband's friend brings his wife and child to visit and stay with us for a month. They like to cook their own food. Lately, I saw literary "many scratches" all over my ceramic stove top. I point it out to them. They refuse any responsibility. I have been used that stove for years, may have unnoticeable scratch. They are here for about a month, many scratches are all over the stove. My husband even said that it was ruined, he is not happy, but doesn't say a word to his friend. They are still here one more week, but I have bad feeling toward them. Any suggestion, please? |
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