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Well for one, he works a lot. He has a job during the day for this service called Birite, and he does it 5 days of the week. He used to do Security in hospitals but quit because it didn't pay nicely. So now he has 2 jobs. One as Birite, and one as Uber. Uber pays good money, so he does it often at night. Sometimes he comes home at 3. Lately, he has been very impatient, rude, & yells at my mother often for no apparent reason, and gets mad easily. We had an incident about 4 yrs. back about cheating with him. I've seen messages a couple months ago, with him and my mom talking about dating websites just to talk with others, but I think he does more than that. It irritates the sh** out of me! I love him, I don't want to confront him either, because I'm young. Please help! It scares me to know he could tear this family apart, along with my mother. ( I think she might be aware of it too though) Anyway, please, any advice would be great. Thx

When i was about 6-8 I used to live with my grandmother back in my home country, my parents lived in the united states. My uncle and I sometimes would sleep on the same bed, he would touch me under the blankets, he would go in my panties, and would make me touch him. I didnt know what to do, i did not think about it as much, My uncle is this person who had polio, causing him to use specialized shoes. He is a christian fundamentalist, who did not let me watch dragon ball z or pokemon when i was a kid. This never affected me, it was stored in my memory but it never bother me. I moved to the united states when i was 10, i am 18 now, i barely have any contact with my grandmother and my family in my homecountry. But when i look at pictures of me as a kid, and when i think about going back to see my grandparents, i cannot imagine how im gonna feel about my uncle, since i grew up and became aware of how wrong was what he did. I have told no one absolutely no one about this. I dont want to tell anyone cause i feel that is the past. But just feel that this occurence is linked to my present emotions, i have no self esteem, and im just so quiet and insecure about everything. Maybe is not relevant to anything. but i feel that i need to make peace within myself. as i was typing this i started crying uncontrollably. I dont want to tell my parents. it would ruin the whole family, and my dad would just do something crazy, he never liked my uncle. I feel trapped. I dont know.

We want to have sex so bad but when we are at his house his parents are over top of us the whole time.. & when he is at my house my cousins and siblings are running around.. So we never get any privacy. When we are at my house and we finally get privacy I get nervous to do anything with him because my mamaw or mom could walk in on us. Oh yeah my door doesnt have a lock so that makes it even harder to get privacy with him. What should we do??

*telling me get good grades (I'm trying to get my grades good and she thinks I'm not even trying) *tells me my dad left her because I was born (I cry every night trying to forget those hurtful words) *she tells me I'm spoiled (I'm saving money,I helped her when she is sick, and I buy her happy mothers day and giving birthday presents) Please help me what do I do every day and night I always get hurt being pushes around and named none good words

I am in grade 12 and graduating soon! I am currently living with my dad and stepmom. I would like to invite my biological mother to attend my graduation but my dad absolutely hates her from the bottom of his heart. He said if she comes then he WILL NOT attend my graduation. I was thinking of telling my biomom to pretend that I didn't invite her and that she would show up on her own means, but I feel like things would get a little violent... also I wouldn't know if my biomom would have a good time. I want my biomom and dad and stepmom to attend and for them to all be happy. Please help me. I am very desperate and I don't know what to do!!! :'(

So long story short this guy (john) used to be my bestfriend in October till he randomly stoppe talking to me, we were so close to dating but idk what happened.. he just ignored me for no reason, although I let it go & moved on. Anyway today I saw him a the gym again, I isually see him but I sometimes go in the bathroom & cry cause seeing him made me upset knowing he ignores me now when we use to be best friends. but this time I said hi (it's been like 5 months since we talked) and asked how he was doing, he said "good! Doing good how are you?" I said "good!" He then said "your birthday is in 5 days right? Let see.. On the 15th!" (I was so shocked) I said "yes! Yes it is!" He said "are you exited that it ur birthday??" I said "yes! I'm very excited!" It's crazy how he remembers my birthday when I thought he didnt't care anymore. How do he remember??

I'm getting really upset over my sister... She's 24, dropped out of high school (I think in 11th grade), had a kid at 20, and works at a nail salon. She lived in her husband's house for a few years but suddenly she, her son, and her husband moved back into my house. She's so cranky and has such a horrible attitude and constantly tells me I have a bad attitude when it's really just her. For a while now she's been yelling at my nephew, her son. He's 3 year old and refuses to eat a lot of times. She gets so easily mad at the littlest things and makes him cry by yelling at him. The crying annoys her even further, so she just yells at the top of her lungs (literally, I hear her from upstairs) and tells him to shut up. Obviously, this makes him cry even more! She even sometimes hits him!!! I cringe just thinking about it. She and her husband think of it as discipline, which they apparently can't teach without yelling/hitting. And they're at work most of the day. I babysit my nephew with my mother and he never cries and always eats. I'm freaking 13 years old and I know how to take better care of a child than her! But I really don't know what to do about it... She explodes the moment you say something seemingly offensive. I can't just go out there and tell her how to raise her child. But I do know she's not doing it correctly. I tried telling her husband to stop and how the yelling is really counterintuitive, but he hasn't said anything to her. What the heck do I do?!

I have been looking for a saddle for 4-H for quite some time now and I was supposed to go on tuesday to see what a tack shop had in inventory. I planned on going with my grandparents and my dad blew up and pretty much said that he had $212.00 and that had to get me through the 4-H year because he was sick of hearing it. I didn t do this to be a brat. I just get super impatient with some things which is the complete opposite of my father, who tends to put things off until the last minute. My mom wants me to borrow a saddle from her boss but I don t want to do that. She thinks it s because I want her to buy me one, but it s actually because I m afraid of ruining the saddle (and being responsible for paying back $1,500+) but my mom still doesn t believe me. I d be much more comfortable with a $200 saddle of my own. I have no idea how to apologize to him for being so impatient and pestering him constantly, and obviously just leaving it isn t getting me anywhere.

My fiancé & I are about to be married here in less than 3 mos, & we share a beautiful 2 year old son together Problem is that part of his family have never liked me from the beginning, im not even sure what I ever did to upset them in the first place Point is it has gotten worse over the years with the members of his family (sister, dad, dads girlfriend, brother & brothers girlfriend) his other family members have no problem with me & are very welcoming. Well his sister has recently gotten a job with cps & his family are basically "abusing her power" by threatening me with cps, in attempt to get rid of me/get me where they no it will hurt me the most. Now don't get me wrong in normal circumstances this really wouldnt bother me because I believe I am a fine mom & take excellent care of my son. But since she works for CPS be able to influence the situation, it scares me to the point I havent slept properly in weeks. My son is my entire life & I would probably die if he were to be taken away from me because my fiancés family has a problem with me & I have tried to get along with them but they just plain out dont like me, I dont know what else to do.I have even thought about calling off my wedding just to please them so they will leave me alone but its just not fair to us to have to spilt up my family, I love my fiancé to but will always put my son 1st bcuz of this im torn :( My question is what should I do about this? Would her "influence" cause me not to have a fair case?

im 14 and an only child. my parents separated years ago and my mom doesn't want anymore kids. like what do you mean you dont want anymore kids when you've only had one. 14 YEARS AGO! all my life i've told my mom i want a brother or sister. I only have a few 1st cousins on my dads side. And none of my moms siblings has had any children so i didnt grow up with any kids except friends of course. It is EXTREMELY lonely. Like words cant even describe how lonely and sad I am. Im going through a very hard time right now and im so alone. Ive lost a lot of friends and this is a time where i wish i had close family MY AGE I could mf talk too!!! Im so upset i cant find any friends to relate to. I have a little cousin i see once in a while and it makes me so happy to be around her because she looks up to me and i wish i could be someones big sister i want a sibling more than anything in the world. id do anything to be a sister. theres not a day that goes by where i dont think about having siblings. i know all a lot of siblings do is fight (my moms told me all about that) but now all they talk about is all those funny and great memories .. i wont have any childhood memories like that.

So last week, my mom and I were talking about the house we used to live in before her and my dad split up. Well my dad has a girlfriend who is the meanest person I have ever met and everyone hates her. She abuses my little sister and my dad lets her get away with it. Her daughter, who is the same age as my little sister, does the same thing. I have nothing to do with my father because of that woman. Anyways the only reason she's with my dad is because he has money and her ex husband doesn't. My mom figured that the girlfriend wants the house that my sister and I grew up in. My dad doesn't have a will and the girlfriend is waiting for the right time to get him to marry her. My dad doesn't want to be alone so he would do it. I want to know if I can do something where she doesn't get anything from my dad, including the house, if something ever happens to him whether they are married or not. When my mom was talking about this, it got me so mad. When he dies, the house and everything else belongs to my sister and I is how I view it even if they got married. They have no kids together.

My Grandparents are rude, and disrespectful. As a little kid I never realized how awful they are, but now that I'm 18.. I see a completely different story. My grandmother likes to make everything about her. last year at my birthday party, for example, she showed up late and was talking to anyone about how drunk and mean my grandpa is. She tends to lie and 'poor me!' everyone. She's not wrong, my grandpa is a heavy drinker and is very full of himself. He also gets very touchy when he's drunk... He likes to put his hands around the waists of females. especially me. I've told my mother that it makes me feel very uncomfortable when he does. My grandparents are kind of dirty. They've got a few bugs, and don't shower often. When they touch me, I feel as though I need to shower asap. They also step on my dad. He owns a house and let them move into it, on the condition that they must pay rent every month, ect. Like a normal landlord. Well... They don't pay rent all the time, and WE pay their bills. It's ridiculous.

Okay so I am going to get expelled from school, and I was in the principals office with the principal and my teacher, and my teacher called me a "bad boy" I'm a 15 year old boy, I'm getting expelled because when I was playing basketball I threw it at the principals head. What did she mean by this it kinda of made me mad...

I find them too annoying to be around. They incredibly emotional and overreact to everything. If anything doesn't sound right, they'll have a heart attack and scream at me for an hour. They would say so much condescending nasty things as if I was too stupid or worthless and that they didn't want me anymore. They have given me much grief throughout childhood. I don't know how much longer I can tolerate it. When they get on my good side and show they care about me, I am happy and love them. But when I annoy me, I really can't stand another day living with them. I don't even care if I loved them when they get on my good side. Really, I can leave in a heartbeat and never seen them again. I won't even care or miss them at all. Does it sound like I still love them? I don't even know if i still love them.

I've been look for websites like it but they just want you to make your own family tree. But the thing is i only know my parents and my grandparents but I don't know their information like birth or death. I don't have that much contacts with my family and I want to know who's in my family. Also I don't want to be on a trial because I will forget. Anyways is there a 100% free website very much like ancestry or give me an account I can use. Thank you

So, I'm in a difficult situation with my parents. About a week ago, my mom and dad got into an argument over money, which happens every now and then. Only this time, my dad overreacted, cursed at my mom, and literally got a suitcase ready and was about to leave. I got between him and the door, and had a long argument with them over how stupid this was, and he tried to explain to me that he though leaving was best. I told them they should work it out, and basically told them that leaving would f*** up our family. The next day, he said that I was right, and they would work it out. At first this made me feel good, but after a while I began to wonder what would've happened if I hadn't been there...and also, it makes me feel like my parents are as perfect as I thought they were. I just feel...uneasy...I should feel happy though, right? I'm just not sure how my relationship with my parents will be now. Long story short, I prevented my dad from leaving my family, but I feel as though I had no place in doing that, even though it worked. Is this a normal feeling? Sorry, meant to say I feel like they aren't as perfect as I thought they were. Also, I'm 20, by the way.

Ok I am 18, I would move out but cheapest rent i can find is 700 in my area. I have a part time job. That is where the problem starts. He is mad that I am working 12-16 hours a week calling it "too much" and "no one your age works that much". He is trying to force me to quit or, kick me out because I want to become independent. He is also trying to force me into a business major by criticizing my science grade (B+) as bad while praising my (B-) math grade. How should I try talking to him and explain my side and my choices? Don't be a grammar nazi, ignore the question mark.

okay I have always been a good kid but my older brother is not so for some reason my parents dont trust me with anything. they take away my phone each night even though I have swore that I woudnt use it because honestly I value sleep much more than stupid phone. and im always late in the morning because i have no alarm and my parents wake up later than me, plus they wont buy me an alarm clock. i have been late to school for a week now and tardy three times and my mom still does not care. im 14 and my brother is 16 but he stays on his phone and his laptop each night in his bed up until like 2 am. and they dont care about him!!!!!!!!! honestly even though im getting punished for things i didnt do i dont care about that as much as the fact that IM LATE EVERYDAY and im messing up my attendance for this year. what do i do? I need my phone!

You see, he s not really my uncle, but close enough of a family friend to be considered one. I rarely visited him, even though he is downstairs from me, mostly because he was busy working on something in the garage, or the place downstairs smelled like cigarette smoke (my "uncle" and "aunt" are regular smokers. Now he has a brain five brain tumors, and he can t even remember his own name. I want to be there to see if I can make him feel better, but I don t like things that include death, or dying (I didn t even go to my 2 year old cousins funeral because... well I couldn t bring myself to it). So, I visit him next week if he s alive, what do I do?