Family: Question: Why have I stopped talking? |
- Question: Why have I stopped talking?
- Question: I am an A level student with too much coursework?
- Question: Brother going to tell on me?
- Question: Family issues?
- Question: Need some suggestions?
- Question: He's 17 and uncontrollable?
- Question: What can I do to move out?
- Question: I'm sad that my family is moving out of the shelter and i know a bunch of people there?
- Question: How do I tell my mum to go to her own room without hurting her feelings?
- Question: What do I do about my controlling mom?
- Question: I really want to have a new start and my Dad lives in Canada. How can I tell my mom--here in Colorado--that I want to live with him instead?
- Question: My grandma is always here!?
- Question: Parents won't let me stay home?
- Question: Coming out?
- Question: I think my mom is cheating on my dad?
- Question: How do i help my insecure dad?
- Question: My mom is too clingy?
- Question: I had sex with my cousin when i was eleven (we are both girls)?
- Question: Should I be mad?
- Question: Why do i feel like i need to leave the house?
- Question: What are a few suggestions to ask an open-ended question about why someone wants you to spend the holidays with them?
- Question: Bad cons of a daughter not having a father in her life?
- Question: Is it right to sue my parents?
- Question: Looking back I sort of dislike my dad?
- Question: Is it normal that I'm scared of my cousin?
- Question: My mom is drunk right now and it's 10 in the morning?
- Question: I WANT TO GO TO PIZZA RANCH!!!?
- Question: I hate my dad?
- Question: Need help!!!?
- Question: Is it weird to have a crush on your cousin's cousin?
- Question: Bored at dad's?
- Question: I'm 19 years old and my parents won't teach me how to drive?
- Question: Why am i favored with my mother but my brother isnt? but hes more favored with his dad. different dads, mine i dont even know.?
- Question: Should I be more supportive about my sister's pregnancy?
- Question: Am I selfish or should I put my aspirations on hold for my family?
- Question: How to not feel sad about me making more money than my parents?
- Question: My daughter brought it to my attention that her mother is doing cocaine. What should I do?
- Question: Tell my boyfriend that Im sick of his familys extended visits??
- Question: Is it weird that my brother & I smoke together?
- Question: Should I tell my siblings and family that I'm giving mom 4k?
- Question: My dad dont let me go outside ?
- Question: My mother is crazy! Help :(?
- Question: If there's a woman workmate that is wooing you to cheat with her how to tell wife?
- Question: I feel sick but my mom is still making me go to school?
- Question: I have a great fear of my parents dying and I really need support.?
- Question: Should I tell my cousin?
- Question: Someone help me. Family issue.?
- Question: What to do when husband doesn't pray?
- Question: Does this make me a bad person?
- Question: I got toilet paper for my birthday?
- Question: My mom is being a *****!?
- Question: How old do you have to be to move out in Ohio?
- Question: My mom quit buying my dad crack and now my dad is beating the **** out of my mom?
- Question: So, my dad and I hardly talk.. But when we do, we argue. Every time I ask him for something he always lies, and goes back to smoking meth?
- Question: Did my daughter do something wrong? What should she have done?
- Question: Frustrated at my dad's house.?
- Question: How to tell my parents that I don't want to join the family business?
- Question: I'm at a turning point please help!!?
- Question: Another question for grown males?
- Question: My dad want to buy a cellphone, which one?
Question: Why have I stopped talking? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 01:02 PM PDT My family and I moved closer to some of our realitives. At first I was very talkative around them, but then I suddenly became quiet. I'm not sure why, but whenever I want to have a conversation with my realtives, I can't think of anything to say. They do all these things for me, but I can't even say thank you. I love them very much, and all I want to do is talk to them. They are starting to think I don't like them, but I don't know how to tell them I love when they are around. Any suggestions on what I should do? Why have I stopped talking? Has my family changed me? |
Question: I am an A level student with too much coursework? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:53 PM PDT i m in school monday-friday usually from 8.45- 6pm. then I come home and do coursework from 6- 4.30 in the morning with minmimum time to sleep. im only doing A levels for my mum because i want to get a job and help her out with the expenses. but my family is never happy with me. i dont get time to help out at home which is why they are always insulting me and swearing at me. for example, we got one week holidays off from school and I was sleeping till 1pm and my mum was standing next to me. when I opened my eyes she said to me that she wanted to kick me in the face. I am really fed up of all their commentary and I wish they would try to understand how much stress I am in. |
Question: Brother going to tell on me? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:48 PM PDT me and my brother had an argument in school and i took something small of his and he was embarrassed in front of all of his friends. hes now saying hes going to tell a teacher. my mum knows as well. hes 17 im 13. how can i get him not to tell? |
Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:46 PM PDT My daughters sleep in the same room. One is 9 and the other is 11. My eleven year old daughter constantly keeps up my nine year old daughter. In the middle of the night, my youngest daughter goes to my room to sleep. We do not have any extra bedrooms. What do I do? |
Question: Need some suggestions? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:42 PM PDT So I'm a college student. No money. Getting a job is out of the question. I make barely enough money from self employment to afford my own food. I do not like my family and have been thrown in a very uncomfortable position where my mom lives in a hotel and my dad lives with my stepmom. I do not like my dad and have told him exactly why (practical reasons) and he hasn't changed. I will be living on the couch and they have no food in the house. I can't do this for the whole summer and I DONT want to go back to college now suggestions? Im 20 years old. |
Question: He's 17 and uncontrollable? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:40 PM PDT I'm sure you've gotten his question a lot 'take away phone' 'leave house'? Honestly is this all my parents can do? My brother named "X" is uncontrollable. No offence and I mean No OfEnCe he is a typical guitar player. He wants to mimic Billie joe. My parents all their lives had put effort in teaching "X" to do the right things and honestly this was just my mom. My dad doesn't have the balls to teach him. We are a family of three children. My momM, My dadD, My step oldest brotherXY, Middle brotherX, and me the youngest XA. You know my brother called the cops today and i am disappointed what happened. X threw a punch at XY causing a huge cut on his face. This is a long story and so is this other one too, It's mostly because of my dad because he doesn't like to be the pit bull and raise the puppies, see what I mean? He is more like a turtle and lays her eggs and abandons them. My parents in general do not know what to do. And it's true! How is XY going to go to his job after X flew a shot at his face with a big slit cut now? And does X deserve to go to jail or be backed up by his mother as usual. I'm crying because I'm actully afraid of X Nobody even likes him at highschool. Now RIGHT now my brother is out of the house so the cops don't arrest X. My M kicked X out of the house what should I do? If X comes back should D beat him up? And what do you call a father who is a father but doesn't put his children in their place especialy X because I have never done anything like this. |
Question: What can I do to move out? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:35 PM PDT Im having problems with my mom and step dad that one reason I wanna move out to my real dad house im 18 and I dont know what to do I could take care of myself but what do I do to move and plus am special needs so what do I do to move out I cant with any longer any help? |
Question: I'm sad that my family is moving out of the shelter and i know a bunch of people there? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:32 PM PDT And it's hard for me to say good bye 😭 plz help |
Question: How do I tell my mum to go to her own room without hurting her feelings? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:26 PM PDT My mum and I have been sharing a bed since I was a toddler but I'm a teenage girl now (13) and I need my privacy. She has her own room but chooses to sleep in my room and I don't want to hurt her feelings. How do I tell her? |
Question: What do I do about my controlling mom? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:24 PM PDT My mom, excuse my language, has slept around her whole life. She was having sex with my dad at 14 when she was 18. My dad told me that himself. I for one, don't sleep around. And she says I'm not aloud to have sex or get on birth control. And I'll be 18 in months. I know its her house. And its her rules. She recently found out I was sexually active, and she says I'm a whore, and that I gave it up easy, and that she's so dissapointed in me. That whatever trust she had in me is completely gone. I knew telling her I was sexually active would be a war and that shed explode. Then she tells me I should've told her and that I should tell her everything. I Dont know what to do anymore. She's saying I'm not aloud to see my boyfriend anymore. |
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Question: My grandma is always here!? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:22 PM PDT My grandma spends the night at my house. This started in January. It was snowing so my mom let her stay that night. But then as time passed she acts like this is her house! I was fine when she said she was staying the first night. That was until she slept in MY BED. What do I do , she takes up my room a lot with herself and her stuff. How do I get her out of my room. Btw she rearanges my stuff!! |
Question: Parents won't let me stay home? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:22 PM PDT Okay so I am allowed to stay home alone but gor some reason today she is making me go to this resturant that I hate and It takes like 1 hour to get a seat almost every time we go. I'm so mad and today has been the worst day of my life and I just really need time alone sooo badly! I just wanna be in my room and cry and let everything out because today was bad. What do I do? |
Posted: 20 Mar 2015 12:08 PM PDT First things first, I'm a gay 15 year old boy. No one knows I'm gay. Like, no idea. And I'm so scared of my families reaction in particular. I grew up with a religious home with Christian parents. I really want them to 100% accept me. I know they will NEVER disown me. What I'm worried about is if they say, "I don't understand it, or support the things you do, but I'll always love you no matter what." If they say that, I wouldn't know how to feel. |
Question: I think my mom is cheating on my dad? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 11:56 AM PDT So let's start from the beginning. A few months ago, when my dad started working 3rd shift, my mom started calling every day, someone I don't know. She calls every day and when I ask she gets angry. Here's the deal braker though. I was awake one night and I heard my mom was awake in her room one night. She was talking to this guy again and she was masturbating, and I could hear her with someone who I didn't even know over the phone. I felt like vomiting. I check the phones history but she clears it after every call. I feel like crying. There are so few ways I can confirm that she's cheating so I really need help. :,( |
Question: How do i help my insecure dad? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 11:54 AM PDT I'm ten years old and am already very successful and lucky. I was born a genius i guess and I'm already a Freshmen in high school. Because of school related funds and connections i have won a lot of contests and gotten a lot of money from them. I currently make more money on a regular bases then my dad and i noticed he's been very angry and insecure about it -- lashing out at me and my mom when he comes home from work. I don't know what to say or do to help him. He punishes me for my luck and success and i don't know what to do. Please help me! :( |
Question: My mom is too clingy? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 11:30 AM PDT I'm 21, live on my own and have my own car that I pay for without any help. I maintain a good lifestyle with the money I make. My dad recently passed away (they weren't together) and I inherited money from him. I really want to live in Seattle for a few months during the summer because it's a great city and I just felt like myself there. I also met someone I would like to spend time with. Thing is, I asked my mom how she would feel if I went away for the summer. She said that I'm still her baby and I'm moving Too fast for her. when I went to Seattle for spring break she said that was hard enough to let me go. She posted all on facebook that im growing up and how I'm still her baby. It's so annoying because I'm not a baby. I'm a responsible young adult who needs to adventure and be more on my own. I know she has to let me go regardless but I want her to understand it's not all about her. It makes me feel bad because me and my sister is all she has but I really want to explore and have this experience since I love to travel and I'm finally in a position to do so. How should I break it to her that I'm definitely doing this without being disrespectful? |
Question: I had sex with my cousin when i was eleven (we are both girls)? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 11:12 AM PDT (I'm 16 now). When we were both eleven we had lesbian sex in a closet at her house. It started with something we called the kissing game and one of us would close our eyes and the other would kiss you. And then we would take turns humping each other and eventually we would take off our clothes and grind our privates together. I remember getting this feeling down there that I now know is an orgasm but I didn't know then. I really didn't even know what sex was I just knew when we did that it felt good. Neither of us really knew what we were doing. After I had sex ed in 7th grade I realized what had happened between us and I felt really gross and ashamed. There has never been any sexual abuse in the family. We are a very normal Catholic family. Is this okay? Has anybody else done this? I feel gross. We are still best friends and we have never talked about what happened back then. Would it be too weird for me to bring it up? I am straight by the way. Does this mean I've lost my virginity? |
Posted: 20 Mar 2015 11:04 AM PDT So My dude keep following certain family members on Instagram hers I don't want him to follow. One of them is a relative that treated me horrible which is an aunt of mines and he keep saying how good she looks and all. The other is another relative who spread a rumor about him that could have broke us up. She always been jealous of me since we were kids. Should I be mad especially after he left a comment on one of them picture. Should I just bluntly tell him hey erase your comment and unfollow them. I know he going to try to give a sermon. Or should I just takeover his Instagram lol. What I be by that is change is password and all. What should I do please give me some good advice. |
Question: Why do i feel like i need to leave the house? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 10:58 AM PDT im 14 yrs old and not feeling well and have a sore throat but i feel like i need to leave the house its like the walls are closing up on me what can i do to stop this feeling as my parents wont let me leave the house alone, i feel sarcastic and basically crappy im being rude to my family and everything is just pissing me off. also for the past month my mom has been busy as **** cuz of her job and ive been in charge of my sisters and meals, cleaning as shes a perfectionist she want everything absolutely perfect and i cant do that now that shes finally done with the work she acts like non of that happened and im a irresponsible kid who does nothing sorry i think im rambling but i have no one to talk to so i thought asking a bunch of random ppl would be a good idea |
Posted: 20 Mar 2015 10:47 AM PDT A little back story, I'm in my forties, the relationship between my father & myself has been fraught with estrangement & hurt feelings (dad was MIA during my childhood & we have on and off during my adult years). We've only spent 4 holidays in total with him & step-mom & her family. The holidays we spent together were ok, but it is very uncomfortable for me to be around him & them, listening to their stories, & not being asked many, if any, questions about me, my life or childhood. I know it's weird for everyone, especially because they want to be nice to me & not hurt my dad either, add into this the fact that I don't have any other involvement with step-mom's family, but a few occasions beyond those holidays. The end result of those holidays, I've felt like a spectator, not a real participant. I've asked for us to create a tradition for ourselves (my dad, step-mom, my fam, bro & half-sis), but it hasn't come to fruition (7 years ago - they said, when her parents are gone). I wanted us to build memories & a firmer foundation. I've visited them four or five times since I have moved out of state (3 years), while they have yet to visit me. I get that this could be as good as it gets - us at their holidays, me feeling uncomfortable with people who are strangers & have no interest in personally knowing me beyond this. Like I said, it's ok, but I am not sure if it's worth the effort on my end. I want to start a conversation to understand why he really wants me there When we lived in the same hometown, we used to ask them to join us for birthday celebrations, come over to spend time with us. They did it a few times, but not many, unless it involved my daughter, or I went to visit them at their house, the answer was usually no (no money, tired, got other stuff to do). |
Question: Bad cons of a daughter not having a father in her life? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 10:29 AM PDT People say most likely the daughter would have a terrible relationship with her boyfriend/husband. Is that true? |
Question: Is it right to sue my parents? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 10:28 AM PDT I was sexual abused, raped, neglected, emotionally and mentally abused and beat as a child, from the ages of 4 to 15 years, by my mother's now ex-husband. I was sexually abused and raped over 700 times during that time. Finally, when I was 20, he was sentenced to prison. At the age of 9, he told my mother what he had been doing to me, and she did nothing. At the age of 13, she personally walked in and witnessed him having sex with me, she just turned around, slammed the door, and walked away... And still did nothing. I left home at 15. I am now 34 and have had tons of therapy and medications over the last 17 years, to the amount over $62,000.00. While I know and understand my mother was weak and did not do anything to stop what was happening, I feel I have been left holding this big bag of crap to fix all on my own. Her advice is always "it's in the past... Let it go and move on with your life". While I have in a lot of ways, I find it super hard to be okay with that every time I am finished with my therapy session and have to pay $200 each time. I still deal with issues of trust, self-esteem, and PTSD on a daily basis because of my upbringing and I don't want her in jail or wish her harm. I just need help recovering costs I've incurred having to " fix" myself from things that were not my fault. I have 3 sons to care for and it's not fair to them, as well. Is it wrong for me to sue my parents in order to help cover these costs? What do you think? |
Question: Looking back I sort of dislike my dad? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 10:20 AM PDT I always considered my family normal when growing up. However upon being grown, moving out, having my own place, looking back now I kind of realize I don't like my dad. Now don't get me wrong, I do love him, I just don't like him. Yes he did pay for my basic needs, food, water, clothes. However I can't think of him ever being nice or loving. I remember him being critical, opinionated, thinking he's always right, quick to anger usually over something really small, incapable of apologizing even when he really hurt someone. (Basically if you know the ESTJ personality type, he's the "bad" example of one of them.) Part of me feels a tad guilty for thinking this, but a lot of me feels sort of liberated at how free I finally feel without being put down, and criticized so often. Has anyone felt this? If you have did you keep quiet, or say something to the other person? |
Question: Is it normal that I'm scared of my cousin? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 10:11 AM PDT Yesterday at my house he asked me casually whether I'd like to do some sexual experiment with him (we're both guys, he's 18 and I'm 17). I said hell no, why would I want to do that, and he said because that could be fun. I said no way, and then pretending that I had to walk my dog so that he had to leave. Not wanting to be homophobic, I'm scared to be around him now. We're first cousins and if he's crazy enough to propose such a thing, I'm afraid he'd be capable of doing other mad things (he's indeed rather crazy and actually we're not really friends. I let him hang around in my room just because we've grown up together). We live nearby and he often hangs around in our home because he doesn't like his own place (verbally abusive mom). I admit I'll feel awkward being in my bedroom only with him now but I'm not sure how to suddenly stop him to do so. My mom would notice and if she asks I won't be able to lie and that'll only cause a lot of complications in the family. Am I overreacted? What would you do in my position? Thanks a lot! |
Question: My mom is drunk right now and it's 10 in the morning? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 10:06 AM PDT I knew she was drinking a alcoholic beverage but I didn't want to bring it up out of the blue because I knew she would get mad at Me. So I brought it up at a good time and she said that it was just water, them I told her it didn't smell like water because it smelt fruity so II asked if she put crystal light in it. She says no. She then tries to prove that it's just water by giving my dog a big sip and dumping some on the bed. She then asks me to taste it. I say no. I'm upset that she'd even be drinking this early. She was drunk last night too. I don't know where she is getting it because I have searched the house and found nothing. I really need help and I'm sick of this. She said she would rather me be mad then happy. Please help😪 |
Question: I WANT TO GO TO PIZZA RANCH!!!? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 10:03 AM PDT i want to go to pizza ranch, but my mom wont let me. its to far for me to pedal there. i dont own a car(even if i did, i couldnt drive it). i dont even have the money. mom doesnt give me an allowance. any advice on how i can convince her? T H X ! |
Posted: 20 Mar 2015 09:50 AM PDT My mom and dad started fighting two weeks ago because all my mom wanted was his sisters to help around the house. I live with my mom and dad, and his sisters lives with me and my parents. They barely help around the house. 1 day my mom got fed up because His sisters have been here the whole day and they didn't even cook for supper. I've been crying every single night and I talked to my mom and dad about it but my dad won't listen to me. He is constantly checking on his sisters while I'm in my room crying every night. His sisters are 25+ and I'm 14. My dad doesn't talk to my mom. My mom always put food for my dad and my dad doesn't even touch it. Two days ago my dad picked me up from school and got mad at me because his sisters told him something about me. That I'm ignoring them but in reality they're the one ignorin me. All I'm trying to say is that my dad is choosing his sisters over my mom and I. and also my dad is doing hemo dialysis. I'm starting to hate my dad, my mom always tells me not to hate but it's hard when he is choosing, listening and treats his sisters like a princess. His sisters are acting like a victim, but in reality it's me and my mom that are the victim. My dad freaks out if my mom is asking him to ask his sisters around the house. Please I just need advice. |
Posted: 20 Mar 2015 09:45 AM PDT i didn't go to s band concert because I didn't get my thing signed. It ends at 5pm and my school ends at 2pm so if I go home then my mom knows I didn't go and I will get in trouble. So should I tell her what happened or hide in the shed till its 5pm and pretend I went? |
Question: Is it weird to have a crush on your cousin's cousin? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 09:45 AM PDT We are not blood related at all, we just have the same cousin. Would it be so wrong to go for your cousin's cousin??? |
Posted: 20 Mar 2015 09:27 AM PDT Hey what's up. So here's the deal. I'm visiting my dad's house. It's been a while since I've been here, and there is a reason to it. Here is nothing to do, I get frustrated about it. Just sitting in the computer all day. Not my type of thing. Any tips on how am I gonna get home today? What to say to my dad etc. |
Question: I'm 19 years old and my parents won't teach me how to drive? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 09:13 AM PDT I'm a 19 year old teenager who is currently in community college and working in McDonalds. I have yet to obtain my license due to my dad who won't let me drive in the intersections. I can only drive in my neighborhood that's pretty much it. He won't teach me the things I need to practice for the driving proportion of the test. We have been fighting this battle for four years. I HAVE BEEN DRIVING IN MY DAMN NEIGBHOOD FOR FOUR ******* YEARS. I CANN'T TAKE THEIR **** ******* ANYMORE. I strive for independence but my overprotective parents won't teach how to properly drive. The reason? I have Attention Deficit Disorder. They let my 17 year old brother get his license when he turned 16. I cry sometimes because of it. I strive for my independence. But they are holding me back from growing up. It's so fustrasting. All of my younger cousins have already obtained their license and they are allowed to do as they please. It's so embarrassing that everyone got their license before me. It makes me want to cry because there's so many places I want to go with my friends and my boyfriend in the summer. But I can't because my parents won't drive me either. So I just stay at home unless if I hang out with a friend who drives. I have been fighting with my parents and their asses are being stubborn. Please help me! I'm about to turn 20 in two months without a license. |
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Question: Should I be more supportive about my sister's pregnancy? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 08:58 AM PDT I am not sure how to feel about my sisters pregnancy. She is pregnant by a married man with 2 children and they have been having an affair for 3+ years. Several months ago, the man's wife found out they were sleeping together and he told his wife he would no longer be seeing my sister, which he sorta did (at first). So for months my sister cried that she felt used and that he "threw her away" and I was extremely supportive to her during this time. (The baby's father doesn't know about the pregnancy yet.) Now, fast forward a few months ago. I was at that time staying with my sister because me and my husband were having some and I decided we needed space from each other to work on our marriage. I am now back with my husband, but during that time my sister was very supportive of me. And also my husband said many terrible things about my family during that time out of anger. So I have been back with my husband for a little over a month and every time I talk to my sister she says some snide remark about how my husband isn't part of our family and how he is so this or that and I have told her many times to stop but she continually does it. And I told her last night that she needs to stop because I don't deserve that and I am working on my marriage. SO then she says she is so disappointed with me for not being more supportive during her pregnancy and hung up on me. Am I wrong for not being more supportive? |
Question: Am I selfish or should I put my aspirations on hold for my family? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 08:50 AM PDT Well, I'm 24 years old, single, and have no children. I have an aspiration to become a Veterinarian and some day go into my own private practice. I already have a Bachelor's Degree in Behavioral Science and I have a job as a social worker and I love it but I there isn't much I can do with it for private practice. So I decided that I wanted to move to Florida and go to college for Vet Studies online and work down there and make a life because where I am now, I don't feel at home and I know that it's not where I want to settle because I know I won't be happy. Plus, if I wanted private practice, then it would at least be a possibility with this degree. I am smart, self motivated, and determined to make it on my own. My family, I love them. I haven't told them about my plan to move yet until I have my plan set and stone. I just know how they will react. They will do the "WHAT ABOUT US?" and my father will probably call me selfish for doing it because he called my sister selfish for dating someone and then moving 22 minutes away and saying that she forgot about her family. Most of the time he acts like he is owed everything in world and he can be verbally abusive and discouraging his children from success. He always says that I have to take care of him now because he's getting old when he is actually still capable of doing things. My family has health problems and I know that when I tell them, they will have this "what about us? You're supposed to take care of us." They have done this to me before when I wanted to go to college out of state. But now I'm 24 and I need to figure out myself and my life. It seems as though they are trying to keep me here to do the things they don't want to do. They say I need to take care of them and it's not my job. I've done a lot for them and I know that they won't understand because they'll only see from their point of view and what they want. They have said some selfish things in regards to my life. I have been told by my older sister once that basically she wished I didn't have a job so I could drive her around, which I was doing for 9 months and trying to finish my degree while my father never even offered to take some stress off of me while I was doing homework and attending classes. I try to help my mother out with money and whatever I can. I help every one and as soon as I try to do anything for myself, I'ma bad daughter or sister. I just want to know that I'm not being selfish or a bad person if I wanted to do something for myself. For doing something that I always wanted to do. I'm a youngest child so I feel like I have the hardest time showing them that I need to live. |
Question: How to not feel sad about me making more money than my parents? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 08:47 AM PDT Hey all, i currently got an internship and I make more than both my parents. My dad came up to me and said that he is proud and he also said that I make more for him and jokingly said for me to help pay bills, but I know that deep inside I feel like he's sad. Sad that his son makes more than him. I am also only 20 so its a huge difference |
Question: My daughter brought it to my attention that her mother is doing cocaine. What should I do? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 08:41 AM PDT |
Question: Tell my boyfriend that Im sick of his familys extended visits?? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 08:22 AM PDT OK, he is 33 years old, im 29. He's from rural Pennsylvania and moved to Orlando FL in 2006, he moved back to PA in 2010 but came back when his parents retired in 2013, his parents live near the gulf and south of Tampa. His dad is a nice guy, hes a Vietnam vet and lifelong steel worker from PA, his mom Is very nice both in late 60s. The problem is his 54 year old uncle who comes down with his wife during the winter and their 15 year old daughter(rest of their kids are adults in 20s), my bfs uncle is a short 5'7 stocky(but solid muscular) hairy and balding guy, Hes a huge steelers fans wears the throwback jerseys and a gold chain. He smokes cigars and weed, he stays in the basement when hes here and this year he stayed for MONTHS, from November until just a few weeks ago. He would scream and shout during the football season and curse, our neighbor is 90 and he nearly had a heartattack. I also think he does blow, as I seen him and my bf walking near an alligator infested lake and both snorting things out of a something for a good 20 minutes. He also is a former pro boxer (late 70s/early 80s) so he thinks hes the toughest guy in the world. My bf is 6'1 1/2" with broad shoulders and a lean build, seeing them walk round snorting things they stuck out like a sore thumb. He just said his uncle is coming to stay for 3 weeks in May. How do I say no? He loves his uncle and having them down here, but Im sick of it. My bf had issues with drugs and the law before he came here.0 My boyfriend also despises cops, his uncle shares the same view, id say both are libertarians by far and both like guns, drugs and not being told what to do. I understand the uncle likes warm weather, so maybe he should move? Hes retired on social security, I really don't understand whats going on. His wife isn't too friendly, but she likes to discuss her former modeling career in the 80s...Great...I think hes a bad influence on my bf. |
Question: Is it weird that my brother & I smoke together? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 08:20 AM PDT 420.. And not really together but we know we both smoke and we live in the same apt... He's the younger one and he got friends who buy it and he's the one who gets it for me.. Is that weird or bad of me ? People think I'm being a bad role model but in reality this has made us closer and we stick for each other.. Not every siblings do that.. |
Question: Should I tell my siblings and family that I'm giving mom 4k? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 08:16 AM PDT Sometimes I feel like I have to tell my entire family everything. My family are very jealous creatures when It comes to money. Although, I will be giving my siblings some cash before I move to NYC. I wont be staying here long with them. @Shih Tzu I want them to be grateful :) |
Question: My dad dont let me go outside ? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 08:13 AM PDT hi all im 19 years old boy my father always dont let me go outside because he think i will do bad things i just got into the Uni. in my city and he bought me a car i can actually go outside with my friends but he will be mad even if he dont look like he is mad and i hate making him mad because i love him and he will be angry and screaming for a long time help please .. i forgot to mention that he had a tough life and he met a lot of bad people and that's why he act like that |
Question: My mother is crazy! Help :(? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 08:12 AM PDT My mother and I have always had arguments a lot, i'm 17 but lately she's been so angry and mad all the time, over silly things and over nothing at all! She wakes me up in the morning and shouts at me, she tries to get my dad angry at me and laughs when he does, she storms out of the house saying she's going to kill herself and that she'd be better off dead, it so upsetting, and i can't concentrate on my study or school. I don't know what to do, we called the guards the other night because she went crazy and broke the door and wouldn't let me out of the house and hit me, I can't handle all of this sadness and anger, it makes me so depressed and i don't understand why she hates me so much, she has been angry for the last month every single day and i can't take much more! what can I do?? |
Question: If there's a woman workmate that is wooing you to cheat with her how to tell wife? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 08:07 AM PDT if there's a female workmate that is wooing you to have sex with her instead of your wife, what to do? how to tell my wife? should i? how to tell her i dont want to cheat? how to stop that woman if she keeps wooing? and how to tell wife? thank you and is it considered normal to work in the same place where your wife works? |
Question: I feel sick but my mom is still making me go to school? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:51 AM PDT My mom thinks that I'm faking being sick because I used to do it a lot when I was younger and thinks I'm going to stay home on my laptop and phone all day. I really couldn't sleep last night, my sore throat is really making it difficult for me to talk and I know she would be really mad at me if she came home to find me instead of me being at school. |
Question: I have a great fear of my parents dying and I really need support.? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:51 AM PDT I am 23 years old, my mother is almost 60 with Parkinson's in the early stages and my dad is a bit younger but drinks all the time. Being from an asian background it is so hard to show my love... But every night before I sleep I think of losing them.. Especially my mum from a slow deteriorating death and it saddens me so much I don't know what to do. |
Question: Should I tell my cousin? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:48 AM PDT My cousin (Let s call him K) had his car paid for by his brother in law. He recently had his car repaired, but he s been posting twitter updates (that only I follow him on) about how he has to get $1.2k by next week and "I don t know what made me think I could afford those repairments. Now I m ******." I saw that if you can t afford, they give you a certain amount of time to pay or it just becomes their property. Knowing that he didn t even pay for his car, should I just tell my cousin (the wife of his brother in law?) |
Question: Someone help me. Family issue.? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:45 AM PDT Um my parents think I'm useless and they treat me like trash. I got 2 younger siblings and they don't treat em like trash. Today I got my elbow injured and they told I'm an idiot for letting myself get injured. My mom thinks I'm a slut, but I am not dating or seeing anyone. I just have a circle of friends full of guys and she doesn't understand why I have a lot of guy friends. Well, I believe thay there's less drama with boys lol. Does that make me a slut? Sometimes I'm deciding if I should kill myself for letting them call me a slut, trash and a useless person. They tell me I'm a noob. And I know I'm not. I study hard for them and get the highest scores in school, why can't they appreciate all my efforts in studying those goddamn lessons? I really don't know how to keep up with this life anymore. Help? |
Question: What to do when husband doesn't pray? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:41 AM PDT MY husband doesn't pray he doesn't listen when I tell him he says don't tell me what to do and my parents says leave him and I have 4 kids |
Question: Does this make me a bad person? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:34 AM PDT Almost every time I see my sister and her family is when she's babysitting my son and I drop him off, or she comes over with her kids and I end up cleaning, because my son is playing with his cousins and I can actually get stuff done. I mean, I don't just leave my sister to sit alone, she has our mom here when she comes over, and even when I do sit in on the conversation, I never have much to say, so im just sitting idle and wanting to get up and get things done. Sometimes I ask my sister to bring the kids specifically so I can clean or do school work. I still take care of my son, but I know he won't be hollering for me every 2 minutes with his cousins here. Is that wrong of me? I feel like such a bad sister :( |
Question: I got toilet paper for my birthday? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:32 AM PDT YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY TOILET PAPERRR I LOVE TOILET PAPER |
Question: My mom is being a *****!? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:21 AM PDT Today i wanted to be late to school so i could have a break of bullshit in my school. Its now 10:30 and i called my mom and told her im not in school and i dont feel well. Now she is making excuses that its my computer that ive been playing thats making me not feel well. She said shes gona take it to my dads house permanently and theres no point of doing that because theres no internet there and im only there once every 2 weeks. Help please with *** hole moms |
Question: How old do you have to be to move out in Ohio? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:18 AM PDT In the state of Ohio, can you move out of your parents house and live alone or with a sibling at 16 or 17? If so, do you have to be emaciated? |
Question: My mom quit buying my dad crack and now my dad is beating the **** out of my mom? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:11 AM PDT |
Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:11 AM PDT Why does my dad do drugs? |
Question: Did my daughter do something wrong? What should she have done? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:08 AM PDT I got a call from the school that there was a problem with my daughter. When I got there they told me she had hit a boy on his hand with a ruler when he tried to put his hand in her pants. It had caused a big bruise. She then told him that if he tried that again, she would kick him in the balls. The principal (a guy) thought she deserved some punishment. I told him what she did was appropriate and she did not deserve some punishment. He said he disagreed. Mothers or teenage girls, what do you think of what my daughter did? Was it appropriate? Teenage girls, what would you have done in this situation? |
Question: Frustrated at my dad's house.? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:07 AM PDT Hey what's up. So here's the deal. I'm visiting my dad's house. It's been a while since I've been here, and there is a reason to it. Here is nothing to do, I get frustrated about it. Just sitting in the computer all day. Not my type of thing. Any tips on how am I gonna get home today? What to say to my dad etc. |
Question: How to tell my parents that I don't want to join the family business? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 07:06 AM PDT My parents have a business, but I don't wish to join it, and spend any time in it. I wish to teach kindergarten. How do I tell them this? |
Question: I'm at a turning point please help!!? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 06:51 AM PDT I'm beyond stressed out. I have a mother and siblings who constantly treat me like garbage. I have my own money and my family seems to think they can use me and ask for money and not pay ot back. Come to my house take my things and not even care. Mind you I am the youngest of 5. I have no one I can talk to about this. People think I have no feelings because I try to be as strong as I can. So people just feel I'm not human and I don't cry or feel anything. I'm so stressed and tired I have been having bible studies trying to turn to god and pray he has been helping me. However my family isn't changing it's getting worse. My mother is mean to me and she always wants something and I can't deal. I feel emotionally empty at times, like I'm alive but I'm not living well. I want something different I want to feel like I have a family that I can turn to I want to be happy for a change. I'm only 29 so please what are somethings I can do to get back to feeling well? I want to feel appreciated and happy. |
Question: Another question for grown males? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 06:48 AM PDT why are males doing stupid stuff more than female? Can you list some things that males do, that real dumb. I love to write so my best friend gave me subject to write about, but it's supost to be in a males point of view. I'm female so it is challenging. |
Question: My dad want to buy a cellphone, which one? Posted: 20 Mar 2015 06:24 AM PDT my dad is 50 ish old, i want to buy him a cellphone. -he want a big screen.(4.7-5.5) -he doesnt use much function, only news and wechat. -not to expensive |
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