My boyfriend is such a sweet guy and he constantly tells me how pretty I am and how much he loves my body. Problem is I dont and I wonder if he's just saying that to make me feel better. He doesn't know I'm insecure either. I'm not super skinny like all the other cookie cutter girls I've got some fat and muscle on me. I don't know how to feel confident again. I have a pretty face but an okay body.... Any advice? Any weight loss tips?

So me and this guy went to a movie a few days ago and he took me to ice cream and a movie, where we held hands (interlaced). I asked him to the movie, and because it was such a fun time and I think he likes me back, I want to go on another date (duh). But, he hasn't mentioned anything about another, and we've been talking nonstop through snapchat or text since then, and before then too. Do I ask him again?

Ok so I've been going out with my gf for 4 months and we say we love each other and stuff but Idk. Now when I'm not with her I wish I was with her, I always love being with her it's always so fun I could spend an eternity with her any contact with her is always awesome. She is the first thing I think about when I wake up and the last thing I think about when I go to sleep. She always brightens my day and I get these urges to say I love her. I'm always asking her if she is ok cause I want to make sure she is doing all good.The reason I have my concerns is that I'm a very jealous person, please don't repremand me and say in so childish ok, ik my problem and I'm working on it. It's just whenever she brings up her friends it always involves her friends wanting to get drunk and party now my girl isn't like that, she is a very sweet and nice girl and isn't into that stuff, I just don't want my gf to being influenced by her friends that's all. Also she is a very talented volleyball player in fact she is going to college to play, but the problem is the college is all the way in Wisconsin and we live in Texas so whenever she brings up volleyball I just don't want to talk about it cause it just reminds me that she will be leaving soon. Do I love this girl or am I just in love with the idea if u get what I mean and Ik Im a selfish person that why I'm wondering if I love her or not because love is selfless so I am told

Lets say hes kind, athletic, wise and focus, but also silly at times with you. Hes selfless in bed your first(foreplay) then yourstill first. He said he doesnt care for sex yet he does alot of groping but never sex(because he wants to avoid it) but one day you feel the need to return the favor you discover that hes actually literally sweet, litterally. But before him you had a **** buddy not even two weeks ago. You still talk to him despite being with you bf. Then you still talk to your ex but tell your boyfriend he wont leave you alone but calls everyday. You eat alot and gain weight despite telling him that you like to workout or atleast get back into it.you let a guy sit on your lap as you give him a back massage and your bf walks into the cafe and doesnt care and you ask if he was bothered he says no... Then one day your talking to your ex **** buddy in the middle of the field sitting down legs wide open with him standing up between them smiling both of you. Little did you know your bf walk pass with his friends and took notice. Then she lets this nerd flirt with her. He tried to dump you three times but you cried and begged and convinced him (hes fed up) the more he saw the more distant he became yet you act like nothings wrong he doesnt talk to you he trys hard to avoid sex, when you do he only gets you off then stops.

There's this guy I've been talking to for about 7 months now. We'd text and call each other pretty much everyday. When I first met him I was trying to get over someone else at the time, (still am) so really I just wanted to be friends with him. We both admit to flirting and he's told me he has feeling for me. He's the sweetest thing! Funny, and makes me smile! I know I like him more then a friend, but sometimes he says he loves me, and I can't say I love him back. Not because I don't feel that way, but because I don't even love myself.... After liking a guy for 4 years, and going through all that heart break, and so resecntly, I don't feel like it's fair for me only be half way with this new guy. I told him that I do like him and more then a friend, but I really want to be just friends with him right now. I told him everything, how I have had gone through a rough heart break, and that I don't want him to get hurt because of me. I didn't text him for two days after I told him how I felt, hoping he would say something he didn't and I couldn't take it anymore so I texted him saying hey! And he said hey right away, we talked and I felt like things were ok. But after that, he just kind of a harder person to get in touch with. He's not ignoring me I know that, he has said he's sorry for not replying right away he's just been busy. Which I believe. I'm afraid I hurt his feeling and that he can't just be friends with me or doesn't want to be.

Alright so when I was sixteen my teacher was around thirty five, I'm twenty one now & I started teaching at my old high school as his teaching assistant around nine months ago. So he is now forty, I suppose I should mention that. Anyhow, none of our colleagues really care that we date, in fact most are really happy that the two of us are happy because we both have had one failed marriage & we really go well together. The super intendent doesn't mind either as long as we keep our affairs private. My only issue is that I want to introduce him to my family, and historically speaking we don't get along and all of my relationships are questioned. The thing thing is this man may be a good deal older than me but he treats me fantastically. I have two twin boys from my previous marriage and he treats them as if they are his own, and that is essential to me considering who their biological father really is. I really do love this man, but he did used to teach me in eleventh grade, and he is nineteen years older than I am. I can see why my family, my parents in particular, may have an issue with it. Is there anything I can say that might help ease their minds? I understand some people may frown upon this but I am just looking for advice. This is nerve wracking for me. (I posted this earlier but didnt get any answers sorry to post again!) I would like to add that neither of us had any interest in each other when I was sixteen. He thought I was a really smart student, and I thought he was a very good teacher.

I'm in an unrequited love situation, I am madly crushing on a girl but she doesn't feel the same way back. I feel like a complete idiot for chasing after her for such a long time, but I don't really know where to go now. She thinks I'm a cool person, but the feelings just aren't returned. More than anything I want this love to be returned but it really doesn't seem like she has any interest and I feel like a useless idiot for attempting to flatter her for such a long time... Any advice? The inability of the unrequited lover to express and fulfill emotional needs may lead to feelings such as depression, low self-esteem, anxiety and rapid mood swings between depression and euphoria.

Girls what are your favorite colognes? I'm almost out and about to get a refill so I'm seeing if I should get anything in particular?

I'm questioning on whether I should try to start dating once more and make an attempt at getting a girlfriend again, but before I do that I need to know something. What should I do to avoid getting rejected?

In short, he stares at me a lot and stares especially when i speak to other guys or hang out with them :) he also does cool stuff for me which I'm pretty sure he hasn't don't for others So he gave me his jacket when i was cold this thursday and he didn't have to.. in fact i didn't see him and he walked up to me and gave me his jacket and offered it and said oh.. I'm not so cold so (: and i took it! however, he seems sort of distant ever since,, like thursday day and friday... like less staring at me.. and seems to avoid me and has this oh crap face or ohh she's here face when he sees me in the halls alone.. i m so confused. how come he is acting this way & likes me or ?

How? What do you do? Are you a guy or a girl?

This has happened to me a lot but only when I watch musicals???? Like I'm a 15 y.o and I saw 2 musical productions in the last two weeks both at the middle schools in my town and like I felt like crying when I was watching them and I actually started tearing up and tears were rolling down my cheek during one of them. This sounds insane af and I rly don't know why I tear up haha maybe its bc I miss middle school or something bc it hasn't really happened before haha

What are some good tips to get over someone? I can't keep my mind off her and I really want to move on but it's hard??!!

There's this really cute guy at a local grocery store near me and I really want to talk to him. He makes an effort to try and get me to go to his checking line so we can talk, but all we ever talk about is basic 'hi's' and 'did you find everything okay?' I try to talk more but I'm always too shy to ever say anything. Any tips on how to get him to talk or give me his number? Oh yeah, a friend of mine found him on facebook and is insisting I just add him there. I mainly don't want to do that because I don't want him to think I'm a creeper :( halp.

Johnna is dating Johnny, and they have been living together for the past 6 months. Every Wednesday night Johnny stays out until 10pm. During that time, he does not answer Johnna text messages or phone calls. When he does come over he smells like a woman's perfume. More recently during the weekends he says he is running errands and going shopping, but never comes home with any bags. Even though they are very much in love, Johnna thinks that Johnny is cheating on her.

I accidentally sent a video through skype mobile, but before it could send i quickly put my phone on airplane mode so now its stuck loading, im scared the video will send if i take it off airplane mode, pls help!

A guy friend texted me and asked if I wanted to come over and hangout with him and his buddy ( who I know). But I have work until 11pm. I'm 18. His "buddy" is 18 but he's 17. We would be at his buddy's house.... Also we are in high school but it's a Saturday night so....😬 Would it be weird if I came over a little bit after 11? Or would that be cool. What should I expect? Lol. The words used were "chill" and hang. Also his buddy has a girlfriend so would that be weird???? If I do come over how late should I stay? there may very well be some drug( weed) usage going on...

So my bf has a degree in engineering but he has been out of work for 3 months.I work full time in a hotel and I enjoy my work.He always makes little comments if I say Im tired after work or had a bad night like saying "you dont do anything" or "all you do is check people in"..Well sometimes my hotel is very busy and I work my shift alone..I will be tired sometimes. So anyway last night he says the you dont do anything comment and I jokingly said..We need to hire someone you should come work with me part time (he is out of work since December)..He said "Im not going to degrade myself"..I said Degrade? Thats rude...He said "Yeah, going from IT job to hotel...I dont think so"..I think thats kinda rude,I do understand his point as its a downgrade from his last job but is my job degrading??

If I'd financially support a GOOD male relative for life, NOT a boyfriend or a husband? I'd much rather financially support a GOOD brother, son, uncle or male cousin for life but NEVER a boyfriend or husband, unless it was a very serious situation. Am I evil or selfish?

okay so we're both 16 (don't say I'm to young, we're both Christian, very mature and weren't even aloud to date until 16) moving on, we've been friends for about 3 years now, I kinda had a crush on him last year but I always felt like I annoyed him so I gave up. but every time we saw eachother he opened doors for me, went out of his way to say hi and that type thing. so one day I wasn't having a good day at all, and he came across the room to cheer me up. the next day he had a bad day and I cheered him up and then we walked together and he said that I was very different, and he liked it. and that I could get any guy I wanted. well a few months later he started talking to me, and we kept up pretty well, both of us started a fair share of the convos, recently he asked to hang out sometime and I said sure, well I started a convo tonight but it took him an hour to answer me, we talked for a little while and he's back to having not answered me in awhile. also in a few of the convos he's mentioned atleast 3 other girls, commenting on 1 or 2 about how 'hot' they were. what's going on with him?? I am so confused does he like me or not??

I was going home from work when i suddenly saw my officemate, whom i like, texting alone outside of our office building. So I approached her and started a conversation. I asked her if she is going home. She said yes, and her sister will fetch her. While we are having the conversation, i noticed that she keeps texting and moving. But at one point she maintained a deep eye contact while i talked. I am getting mixed signals. Please advise. Thanks Also consider that I asked her to have lunch last year but she had a busy week at that time.

I'm used to eating dinner early. Around 4 or 5. My boyfriend usually eats dinner later, at around 7 sometimes 8. How do we compromise this?

My girlfriend and i broke up recently. She ended it, I tried to persuade her not to, but she was insistent. I gave her some space and, a couple of days after the break-up, i found out she had gone to another guys house. I called her, and confronted her. She panicked, quite badly, and said "You re the only on i ve kissed" and hung up. When I asked if they had slept together, she became very angry and refused to talk to me. I had to apologize! We made up and, whilst discussing the effectiveness of the pill, a form of contraception, she told me that it is not effective for STD s and began to list ways i could contract them without having sex. This was very bizarre, and very unexpected. She told me that if i caught an STD it would be from using my parents towels! We ve supposedly only had sex with each other, so this confused me. Laast point, during a conversation i mentioned how selfish it was to cheat, she immediately changed the subject. She is adamant that they did not sleep together, but is that possible? Am i blinded stupidly by love? really need help.

So me and my girlfriend would make out and she would bite my lip and pull it and it would hurt a lot is that how its supposed to feel?

I want to know because I'm curious and also maybe it will help me in my unrequited love situation.

Men are praised for having a lot of sex because men can't just have sex when we want to. Think about that for a moment. What I want women to understand is that a man is only able to have sex if a woman allows him to have sex with her. Men can't just choose who they want to have sex with and actually have sex without the woman allowing us to have sex. That being said women you all CHOOSE who you want to have sex with that is why women who sleep with a lot of different men are considered whores. It's not just because you slept with a lot of guys, it's because you chose all the guys you wanted to sleep with. So women please understand just because a guy was allowed to sleep with multiple women that doesn't mean he's a whore. He simply got an opportunity to have sex. So please stop saying it's ok for women to sleep with multiple guys just because men sleep with multiple women it's not the same because women have more power when it comes to sex. Also this is why I have no sympathy for single mother's who baby daddy is a deadbeat. WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH WHO THEY WANT!!!!!! Yet will not hold themselves accountable for some of the trash men they sleep with. Sorry didn't mean to make it this long XD

FIRST: I'm not talking about make out-session kinda of kisses...I'm talking about sweet and casual kisses, not like French Kissing. SECOND: By 'touched' I do not mean sexually or anything. I mean where do you like the girl to place her hands, for instance: on the back of your head; side of the face; arms wrapped around your neck, etc. Thanks.

Ok so I'm with my girlfriend of three Months and we both are without a doubt in love with eachother. However, whenever we go to have sex I loose it. Literally as soon as I put my penis in her I go soft and I don't get it. We've only ever tried missionary, and tbh it just feels awkward and I feel like my penis is going to fall out the whole time, because I can't go deeper with the way we lay. I don't get it, I can get hard all the time, so it's not q dysfunction, but as soon as it's in I loose it. I guess im afraid, because I feel myself getting tense and my heart rate change when I start to think about moving to the next step. We've tried three times now, all with the same results. Fortunately she's like the best girlfriend ever and loves me anyways even though I'm a total failure. So please help, and it's not the condoms, it's me. What is wrong with me???

So I have been dating this guy for about nine months now, and he's really funny and nice and attractive, of course. But we fight at least once a week over really stupid things. But the stupid things add up. I've been considering breaking up with him for a while now, but something has always held me back. Now, one of the guys on his team told him that I was "definitely a nine or a ten". I know that's a bit shallow, but I can't stop thinking about it, it made me feel really special getting a compliment from someone I've never met. And this guy is really attractive too. I've been asking around about him and I think I may have developed a crush. Do I actually like this guy? Do I still love my boyfriend? Am I just looking for a good reason to break up? i need some other opinions, thanks so much!

I am done with trying to figure out how to tell if a boy likes me? So like a few different boys give me hints that they like me, but then I don't know. How do I tell. So like, how would I tell with a funny guy, and then a popular guy, and a shy guy? Is there a difference? If so, please give me some examples! For seventh grade. Thanks!

I went clubbing yesterday with my best friend and while we were dancing on the dance floor. this one guy approached me first and started talking to me.. then this other guy went to my best friend.. after we danced they both bought us some drinks and towards the end of the night he asked for my number and his friend asked for my best friend's number.. I kind of felt suspicious of him cause when he opened his wallet i thought i saw a mini picture of him and some girl.. but i asked him if he had a girlfriend and he was like straight up nope. The next day when my best friend was talking to the other guy she found out the guy who was hitting on me was ENGAGED.. His friend accidentally said it without thinking but his excuse was that he was trying to be a "Wingman" for his friend. I just don't understand why guys who already have a gf/fiancee do something like that.. that morning when i woke up i found out he also stalked my facebook so he sent me a "poke".. I probably would have appreciated it more if he straight up told me he was trying to be a wingman instead of misleading me.

I have been talking to this guy for a few months. We haven't hung out because we have been busy. So now were on spring break and he keeps talking about hanging out. At first i was fine but then he started implying that he wants to hook up. He is always asking for nudes. I have voiced my concern about his intentions and he swears theyre good but i just dont believe him. Hes really nice and says he likes me but idk if i can trust him. what do you think?

I want to understand my man better. We aren't exclusive because he has a history of cheating and he says he loves me but he can't commit or be the boyfriend I deserve. I actually believe he's telling the truth. I don't think it's bull to avoid commitment, I can just tell he's being honest. It's okay with me that we aren't exclusive, so I am not trying to change his mind about that. I am just wondering why he can't love with his full heart. I started crying the other day when we were talking, and when he asked why I said, "because you will never get to experience real love" and he started crying, which I've never seen him do before. How can I understand him better and help him live the best life full of love? Why does he cheat and close his heart? I know his dad cheated and left when he was young..

i've talked to this guy i sort of work with (different departments) since the end of november. We would talk briefly at work but hung out for real twice recently and also a few times before class at our college. Before he said he didn't think he really wanted a relationship right now awhile back. Recently he said he feels a connection with me too and wants to see where it leads because i was talking to him about being unsure about having sex with him; his intentions etc. we've already made out and stuff but i haven't let him touch me down there yet and i haven't touched him either. Would it be okay to have sex with him now? We hung out not many times but we also have been talking for months.. What do you think? Is there really no such thing as "too soon"?

If yes why and if no what would you think of her? Usually not with an audience or in front of people ....if an audience shows up its by accident....includes groping, tongue, etc. Let me know your honest opinions

I've been talking to this guy for about a year and a half! And he's my best friend! He recently moved... And is turning 21 on the 30th... I've started liking him! We talk every second we get! He plays baseball. He drinks? He likes basketball? If that helps?! But just like every guy... He says he doesn't want anything... However! I want to give him something that shows him... That; I care, I'm totally in love with him, I'm still his best friend, and I want his big day to be special! Something Not too original ?! But not too over used?! And I have to mail, or have it delivered?! Help?!

I am thinking androids, but those won't be out for about 50 years.

This guy was in my math class last semester (I'm in college btw) and he sat by me the first day and we ended up talking every day. One day he walked with me after math. He found out that I got a boyfriend later on so he stopped talking to me. But a couple of weeks before that he told me that he didn't want a girlfriend. My boyfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago and I decided to friend this guy on Facebook. Ever since then we have been talking nonstop for almost 2 weeks. He found out we have history together so he waited for me after class last week and he walked me to the dorm and I invited him in to hang out. Then he invited me to go eat and he bought my meal. He also invited me to his anime club all of a sudden and when the anime was really gruesome and perverted, he apologized and said if he knew it was going to be like that, he wouldn't have invited a lady. Our conversations over text are all general. What we're doing, school, job, how our day was, etc. He did ask me the first day if I had a boyfriend and I said no, it ended a while back and he said poor guy. Other than that, he hasn't really made it obvious that he's interested. My guy friend said that he wouldn't just invite any girl to his anime club and he wouldn't just ask any girl to lunch. We had only been talking a week when he asked me and we don't really know each other THAT well. But he's hard to figure out because he's a little shy at times. My friend just told me to wait it out and see but idk. Help?

I'm a 14 year old girl and I hate how tall I am. All of my friends except one are 5'-5'4. My doctor says I'm going to be 5'9 or 5'10 and I really don't want to be any taller than this. I feel like all the guys like the short girls and none of them like me. Is 5'8 too tall?

And what about her parents, can they accept that? Category = Class or Level.

In the past I would squirt on purpose if I knew a particular guy was into it, but lately it's been happening by accident A LOT!!! And some of the guys' reactions have got me curious on the man's persperctive. For example in instance when the the squirting was completely accidental, he was jackhammering away on top. Then, all of the sudden it just poored out of me and soaked his sheets. He says "Did you pee!!!????" It was embarrassing, and I had to explain. Similar situations have happened with other guys. They didn't act like they liked it...

I just have a really hard time telling people no, and I always feel really bad about it and it's super hard. This is probably because up until last year everyone was always saying no to me and I know how it feels but now I can't turn anyone down and I think I'm leading on one guy but I have a boyfriend and I just can't say no HELP!!!

I know this sounds silly and joking but I had an epiphany that I entered a place and had sex wtih my guardian angel. It was kind of like a hullicination dream. It was odd. I honestly felt other worldy I am 15 and I feel that I accidently had sex with my guardian angel.Btw this isnt a joke , iknow it sounds like it but please take this seriously. yesterday I was in my room at night till then my room got brighter. Than this person came in my room and it said it was my guardian angel here to help me. I had recently been worried about losing my virginity and if I ever would. I say it because it looked more like a girl that a guy but I'm not sure. all I know is I felt really good down there for about a whole 30 minutes and I orgasmed a lot. The angel made me feel amazing and it wasnt like sex but like a full body hug and we both like glowed. I was like moaning and I got scared people would hear. I woke up out of this epiphany covered in sweat and cold in my dark room. Fully aroused and stimulated with my shirt off and i felt something that might of been you know what on my belly. I don't believe this was a dream no dream is this realistic I feel it like I was there. If I did get sexual with a spirit or an angel. Does this mean I lost my virginity. I guess only I can decide that. I now wish it could hapen again. Not to sound slutty but it was amazing and I miss the sensation. Am I demented. I am scared to tell anyone. Noon will belive me.

I have certain things that I really want to like but simply can't, but other things that I really like but don't want to like. My latest thing that I like is black lipstick, and I really don't want to like it. How do I even accept the things I like when half of me hates them? I always fight with myself over which side I should listen to, how can I just accept myself for who I am?

We have been together for over two years, he was my first long term relationship but it wasnt his first and it was the most happiest two years of my life. About a week ago he would kiss me love me cuddle me he would look up horoscope of us and tell me how perfect we are together... like I said it was perfect and so much love, I really thought he was the one because he was the first to tell me he loved me and he wanted to marry me and start a family... basically grow together. But I knew he was the type that likes his space but I told him before in the relationship to let me know when he wants to have the day to himself or hangout with his friends or whatever. The thing I regret is seeing or contacting each other every day basically but I did tell him but he never really said anything. Well anyways about a week ago we had a small fight and I got over it within the ten min but he didnt, I wanted to cheer him up but nothing. We went home that day not in good terms and I called him and he said that lil fight made him realize he needs space to grow and basically focus on his life and he felt he was trapped, he wasnt doing it to meet other people he just want this for himself. his life isnt perfect, his mother is a crazy controlling person that would fight with him every day. we had eachothers back and supported each other in anyways possible and he hated his job but he was going to trucking school for a trucking career, well anyways he told me he doesnt want to be in a relationship anymore and he wanted to feel free, but i dont understand why he doesnt want to be with me, he says he loves me and misses me but he still wants to do this, we agreed on a month of no contacting each other but I failed, I need him in my life he was my only friend and the only person I would go to for everything especially with my stressful, lonely home, I begged him to reconsider but he seemes completely different and wouldnt change his mind and he told me the past couple of days of us not talking made him feel free, but I reminded him that I told him if he needed space during the relationship to let me know! But his excuse was he got cought up in the moment. Well we have been on a break for a week now and it been torture, I cant sleep I dont eat, my memories of us haunts me everywhere I go, I cant wake up without him in my mind and then breaking down crying because im complely alone, its killing me and I want this pain to stop.why would he want to cut me out if all we had was happiness??? I tried contacting him but he would just want to end the conversation quick as possible, I begged him to remember all the wonderful times we had together all the goofy memories, but im in denial and wont accept this without a fight because I have hopes that this will get better. He said hes going to think about us again but he was really set on his decision tho, he told me to contact him in couple of days for his decision, I know I should have some dignity but this is all a huge painfull nightmare that I wish would go away, this is killing me. every couple I see makes me want to break down and cry I just wish there was something I can take to make this pain go away... any comments to save this relationship??