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- Question: Am i the only girl who thinks crushing bugs is fun?
- Question: Are these signs I am not accepted at work?
- Question: Should I run away?
- Question: My Ex Blames his mother passing away as to why he won't get back together with me HELP?
- Question: Is your heart broken?
- Question: Boyfriends parents making him choose between me or them?
- Question: Algebra resources?
- Question: My boyfriend getting involved with his friend's relationship.?
- Question: What's a good housewarming gift?
- Question: Relationship problems?
- Question: Does my best friend like my cousin?
- Question: Big relationship problems. I need advice.?
- Question: How do I get him back?
- Question: I'm in a sexual relationship with my mother.?
- Question: Do you think it's normal to argue a lot?
- Question: Different new name in a new school?
- Question: Dating accused sex offender?
- Question: Why did she cheat on me?
- Question: Why are people so rude & immature??? Like grow up, childish pigs!!!?
- Question: When you're talking to the opposite sex..?
- Question: I don t know what to get my boyfriend for his graduation.?
- Question: Loss of libido after we purchased my wife a vibrator. Advice?
- Question: Should I file a complaint?
- Question: My best friend broke up with her boyfriend, she then wanted him back, she had A LOT of feeling still, within a week he was dating someone?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: My ex husband is nervous around me! Please help 5 stars!!!? Im confused!!?
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- Question: Moving in together?
- Question: What are some good ideas for child abuse awareness month I'm 13 and im doing a fundraiser at school so?
- Question: Turning 17 in a week, I am desperate to leave home. They are crazy, took my door off, took my electronics threaten me & my bf to jail. HELP!?
- Question: Should I move in with my boyfriend or live at home with my parents?
- Question: Any advice for a girl turning 20 soon?
- Question: How do I deal with my boyfriend possibly moving out of state?
- Question: My boyfriend is spoiled by his mom.. and now me!?
- Question: Afraid I won't find "the one"?
- Question: Where can I buy a really big stuffed monkey?
- Question: How can I help my wife overcome the trauma of being abused?
- Question: Is he telling the truth?
- Question: Should my boyfriend attend my uncles funeral?
- Question: I'm turning 18 in a couple weeks and i feel depress?
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- Question: What should i mention to a friend of mine who i just found out cheated on me when we were dating? we were never official though?
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- Question: I'm starting a blog to come out to my family on... I was kind of wondering what to talk about once I get it going or just in general?
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| Question: Am i the only girl who thinks crushing bugs is fun? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 02:27 PM PDT I mean yeah, I dont like ruining my shoes but if im just wearing some flats and i see a snail in my way i'll crush it just to feel it crunch under my foot =] Does anyone else do that? Whats your favorite kind of bug to crush? Your favorite shoes to crush in? |
| Question: Are these signs I am not accepted at work? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 02:11 PM PDT |
| Posted: 27 Mar 2015 01:56 PM PDT Whats wrong with my dad? Why is he yelling at me for working? Spanish II BTW. I'm thinking about it please help me. I don't want to disrespect him. |
| Question: My Ex Blames his mother passing away as to why he won't get back together with me HELP? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 01:46 PM PDT ok me and my ex have been broken up since october cause i was having a STD scare and my doctor thought i had herpes and he was the only guy i was with so naturally i thought he gave it to me he gave me signs that he was cheating and when i confronted him nicely he totally dismissed my feelings and didnt wanna hear it so i told my friend how much of a douche he was being so she cursed him out out of no where without my permission so we broke up (even tho i got my results and i was negative) fast forward to december he starts talking to me again acting like he still liked me and wanted to work things out but then 2 days before christmas his mother passed away which kinda changed everything he was really depressed so we didnt see other for a month so in january we started having s*x constantly every weekend he's even taken me out on dates but when i ask him why he won't ever claim me as his gf again he starts talking about how "he has too much going on in his life or I'm too depressed to be a boyfriend" but he's not too depressed to f**k me every weekend my friend thinks he's bullish!tting and if he wanted to me with me he would have asked me to be his gf again by now DO YOU THINK ITS TRULY GRIEVING OR HE'S JUST USING ME FOR SEX? and he doesnt only hit me up on the weekends he calls me everyday and we have more to talk about than just sex |
| Question: Is your heart broken? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 01:33 PM PDT How long has it been? |
| Question: Boyfriends parents making him choose between me or them? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 01:31 PM PDT My boyfriend and I just started dating a month ago, but we have been friends for a year. Inew the beginning I said we'd never be more than friends,while he was doing everything that he could to make me want to date him. He was very persistent, while I was very stern nothing more than friends. he would buy me things and always do nice things for me I never want to lead him on, well his parents didn't like the fact he did things and thought that I was using hm bla bla I wasn't .. they would talk bad about me he would always take up for me. well we started dating and they told him to choose me or them he chose me no he's stressed out and he doesn't have a family to fall back on and I'm really wanted to break up with him so that he cN have then again in his life like before ..I love him very much it'll hurt me to break up with him but I want what's best for him then what will make his life easy I have no clue what to do please help |
| Posted: 27 Mar 2015 01:25 PM PDT So I was enrolled in an online recovery course for a credit I didn't earn for and algebra requirement. Problem is I've never learned the math that it covers. What are the best resources for algebra? Things like inequalities, systems, rational expressions and equations, discrete math, matrices |
| Question: My boyfriend getting involved with his friend's relationship.? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 12:48 PM PDT My boyfriend always talks about not getting involved in other people's drama, but he recently learned that a friend of his was beating his girlfriend. While his friend is upset about the break up, the girl is the one messaging my boyfriend about how he beat her -- PLUS, she said his friend thought they were sleeping together years ago and she admitted to flirting to with him years ago too. It makes me uncomfortable that she's telling him all of this - and she admitted to flirting with him years ago (before he and iI met). He was just being nice to her, but now I'm wondering what her motive is by telling him she was flirting with him. His goal is to find out if his friend is abusive but now my boyfriend is talking to this girl (who I met a couple times) and she's coming out with all these admissions about how she liked him. Should I be concerned??? |
| Question: What's a good housewarming gift? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 12:28 PM PDT My sister's moving in with her Boyfriend soon, or so I've been informed. So i just considered getting them something, the best store within walking distance is Target....so.... |
| Question: Relationship problems? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 12:19 PM PDT Ive been with the same person for the last 7-8 years. we got married we have a beautiful 2year old son. So after my son was born i ended up getting locked up for a couple months. the day i got locked up i found out she went to her ex place long story short i get out 5 months later and they have an apartment together. she swears she never did anything with him but i have no reason to trust her at all. we all start living together and whenever i was there its not like they did anything that i know of. i went to rehab and at the same time my wife moved back in with her parents. i was in a halfway house after the program. i get out of the halfway house and than her mother past away. i ended up violating probation and did a couple more months but before i get locked up again i noticed some of her ex **** at her place. so 5 months later i get outta jail and i find out that hes living with her at her step dads house. she still expects me to believe that she never did anything with him now i barley get to see my son she puts pics of them all on fb and today i saw something that said that they decided on who the god mother will be. words seriously cant describe how mad i am i wanna beat the **** outta him but i have certain legal obligations i have to meet. she is hiding talking to me from everyone (her dad, ex, etc..) what should i do? this ***** acting like she wants to be with me. whats your opinion about all of this? yea hopefully you get a little laugh outta this situation im in |
| Question: Does my best friend like my cousin? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 12:10 PM PDT I'm kind of worried because my cousin has a girlfriend and he really likes her but my best friend seems to like him. She claims to like someone else but she doesn't seem so interested in him anymore. My cousin started playing Xbox with her and they seem to be getting closer together. She nonstop talks about him but she claims to like someone else. They're always together and I feel like they're becoming closer. I mean, what if they're already together? That would mean he's cheating on his girlfriend! I need some help on this! |
| Question: Big relationship problems. I need advice.? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 12:06 PM PDT Okay. So I met this guy 4 almost 5 yrs ago. We started dating shortly after. Me thinking I was so in love, didnt realize he was hiding something. I got suspicious but he said "Babe, I'm not hiding anything." I asked him if he did drugs and smoked and drinked (at that time we were under-aged) and he said "Babe, I promise you, I'm clean." He said that every time I asked. About 1-2 yrs later into the relationship, I went away on my yearly 2-3 week family vacation. While I was watching tv in my room around 1am, I got a call from him, but I didn't anwser because I was about to go to bed. I let it go to voicemail. When I woke up in the morning I listened to the message and he was definitely drunk. Loud music, girls saying his name and giggling. I think he butt dialed me. But then I checked my messages and got photos from his friend. It was him with girls on his lap, and him doing his drugs with beer cans everywhere. His friend tried stopping him saying "Come on man. Don't do this. You have a girlfriend that loves you more then anything". My bf just pushed him away and did his thing. For the next few weeks I didn't message him. I kept getting voicemails and everything from him. I told him he needs to get better for me to be with him because he was hurting me. He was mentally and emotically Abusing me. We were on and off since then. Then he came back a couple days ago saying he wants to get back together and get serious--if you know what I mean. Please help. I don't know what to do. |
| Question: How do I get him back? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 12:05 PM PDT I'm a girl and I have a step brother about the same age as me, we go to school together and we actually get along well for the most part. But sometimes we make bets, we made a very risky bet a few days ago, and unfortunately for me I lost. If the Rangers beat the kings I won, if they didn't I'd lose, they lost so I did too. The loser had to give the winner a rimjob, so I had to give him one. It was so gross, and I had to give him a handjob while doing it. I like the Rangers and he likes the Islanders, he was sure the Rangers would lose, even though they are way better than the Kings and I was sure they'd win, but I lost. How do I get him back for this? |
| Question: I'm in a sexual relationship with my mother.? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 11:40 AM PDT For starters I'm not trolling. I'm 29 and my mother is 63. I've always been attracted to my mother for as long as I can remember since I was maybe 6 or 7 years old. As a kid I would always enjoy watching her walk around in her bra and panties or any lingerie she would wear around the house. My stepdad worked midnights as I was growing up and my mom was an alcoholic so I would sneak in her room and feel on her breast when she was passed out drunk. I Think she always kinda knew that I was attracted to her because I would always be kinda touchy-feely with her growing up. She even called me out on it one time when she was drunk for grabbing her butt. My feelings kinda went away around 17 when I started becoming interested in girls my age and dating and eventually I found the woman that I would marry and we are still married to this day. 2 years ago my mother and stepfather divorced in large part to her alcoholism. She took it hard they had been together for over 20 years. Needless to say I started being there more for her and coming over more and more and those childhood feelings came roaring back stronger than what they were before. One day we were both heavily intoxicated and I just grabbed her breast and kissed her she ask what I was doing and I kissed her again and that was the beginning of what is now over a year of us having a intimate relationship I'm cheating on my wife with my mother. I know this is wrong but I really don't wanna stop. What should I do? |
| Question: Do you think it's normal to argue a lot? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 11:00 AM PDT In a relationship? |
| Question: Different new name in a new school? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 10:55 AM PDT i want to go by a different name when I change schools (it's not a middle name or anything, it's just a name i happen to like) but when i filled out the application i already put my birth name in the "preferred name" box. its been pretty recent since ive decided to go by a different name. would you be weirded out by this if you were the admissions officer? because he interviewed me with my given name, and now i'm going by a completely different one. [reposted] |
| Question: Dating accused sex offender? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 10:55 AM PDT I have been seeing a guy who is on the sex offenders list from when he was 19 years old, he is now 33 years old. During his divorce his ex wife accused him of touching her daughter with no penetration.The daughter who is now a young adult said she would go tell that this never happened. I have children who adore him, he has never given me a reason to doubt him. Can CPS make me choose between my children and him? |
| Question: Why did she cheat on me? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 10:51 AM PDT We were on a vacation with my exgf. Several weeks after we got home she started to act different. Got nerves suddenly, moodswings etc. I found out She assumed that I will give her a wedding ring on the vacation. She talked every day about babies too.She talked to her friend and coworkers about me that I dont want to get married and move togather. After 3 month from arriving home I dumped her because she cheated on me with a coworker. We were togather for 2 years, worked at same company, spend all the free time togather. Now she is with the other guy. Is it possible if you dont let your gf irrational expections then sho makes such a serious step. She was a financial mess 80% of her payment went for the debts. I dont get it... |
| Question: Why are people so rude & immature??? Like grow up, childish pigs!!!? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 10:41 AM PDT It gives me a headache. Feel like people just come on here to be rude to others. Like you need to get a life, pigs. Sorry but it's rude, you ask a question, I do my best to answer. |
| Question: When you're talking to the opposite sex..? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 09:10 AM PDT Even if you're in a relationship/or married you are scanning them and seeing if they would be a potential mate/partner and have considered leaving your current spouse/partner if they make you happier/better feelings, you feel guilty but yes? |
| Question: I don t know what to get my boyfriend for his graduation.? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 08:59 AM PDT He s graduating in May and I have absolutely no clue what I should get him. -He s going into the Navy in June -He loves metalcore, deathcore and death metal -He loves video games (particularly ones about war or aliens and stuff, like Mass Effect and Fallout) -I ve already given him like hand painted picture frames and t shirts I made and a heck ton of stuffed animals so all that is out of the question. HELP! |
| Question: Loss of libido after we purchased my wife a vibrator. Advice? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 08:54 AM PDT I have always been open to new things in spite of my insecurities, however, after buying her this vibrator I have lost all of my libido. Everything was fine until one day she woke me up for some fun. After the initial excitement from starting she seemed to get bored and we stopped. I asked her if she had climaxed and she said yes, three times with the vibrator before I woke you up. I have difficulty giving her one and she got three in one go from the toy, on top of the fact that now she doesn't want to use the vibrator before me because she said she won't enjoy me as much. I feel like that pretty much makes me useless in bed, why would she need me when she could use it and not want me afterwards? It got to the point where, though I knew she was interested one night, I just preferred to go to bed because I felt there was no point in me doing it when she could get it better from the toy. She ended up using it that night. Are there any flaws in my logic or emotions? How do I overcome this loss if libido? PS. I'm glad that she is discovering her sexuality and learning how to please her body and I actively find ways for her to open up to herself. Most of these feelings I keep to myself so that I don't sabotage her enjoyment of her new adventures. |
| Question: Should I file a complaint? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 08:45 AM PDT I would like to start of by saying I'm 22 years old, I have always been and always will be naturally slim, that is my build. I was recently in a shop in which I am a former employee. I was approached by a former colleague who I believed to be one of the nicest people I knew from working there. She looked me up and down and asked did I lose weight that she never realised I was skin and bone and that I should go eat a burger, she then continued to say she probably never noticed because of our uniform. I also had no make up on that day and she asked was I tired or ill which I responded no this is what I look like without make up and her face was priceless. I have gotten rude comments about my weight all my life but there was just something so different about this time. I am in complete shock and it makes me feel extremely bad about my appearance. I did not go into an establishment to be put down by anyone. It's really hurtful. Do you think I should file a complaint? |
| Posted: 27 Mar 2015 08:03 AM PDT She had a lot of feelings for him still. But she broke up with him, that's a different story, she thought it was a mistake, and would not stop crying, and her ex was ignoring her which got her even more upset, and then he dared someone else within a week?! What can I say to her to cheer her up? Can u guys write me a big paragraph, I don't want her to cut again! |
| Posted: 27 Mar 2015 08:02 AM PDT My boyfriend, his sister, her boyfriend, their dad and I all live together. My boyfriend and I have been thinking about leaving for about six months because of problems with his sister and boyfriend and we would like a place of our own but it never seemed like the right time because I go to school, moving in the winter sucks and he doesn't want to move too far from where he's works. Realistically living in the city there aren't many places we can afford so I would like to move somewhere about an hour away so it would be cheaper. About 3 weeks ago his dad had surgery and has been in the hospital ever since trying to recover. Everyone sees him as the man of the house but since he's been away his sister and her boyfriend have been even more annoying. Everything is an issue and I could write a few pages about it. With the dad in the hospital more rent is falling on our shoulders. My boyfriend cant leave if he does all the rent would be on his sister and her boyfriend so they would probably be homeless. So basically do I stay help my boyfriend out and be miserable with these two low lifes or do I leave and not be able to see my boyfriend because he won't have the money to see me with me not helping out with rent? I'm trying to take it day by day but I figured someone else's opinion couldn't hurt. |
| Question: My ex husband is nervous around me! Please help 5 stars!!!? Im confused!!? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 07:57 AM PDT First off Id ask him but he lacks the ability to speak to me for whatever reason. What I want to know is why he can be so candid on the phone or in a text msg. He has been acting weird! We had a bitter divorce, to the point that he tried to keep our son from me or use our son to hurt me, he lost that battle. He wanted out of the marriage and I didnt put up a fight! Just the other day he asked me why am I so nice to him and what my motivation is after all the things he did. I simply said I was just over it and moved on with my life and cant go through life letting his behavior own me. Anyway, now things have gotten better to the point that he is buying me expensive gifts, texting me selfies etc. He even spends time with my family alone even if Im not present. He even tried to get me to come up stairs to his place! Even so much as to tell me things about having another baby. My question is that when he actually sees me, he clams up. Cant say a word to me other than hello and goodbye. I dont understand that he is very colorful and candid on the phone, via text etc. Yet cant speak to me in person or say more than two words. Like I said, Id ask him put he would clam up and start a fight or something weird! Can someone help me understand. Id ask him but he obviously cant say anything! Just curious! |
| Posted: 27 Mar 2015 07:42 AM PDT Well theres my class mate that i really like and he likes me back and we both know and now were really close and we talked everyday but we kinda stopped talking for a while and i asked him y and he said that he likes another girl but he likes me more than he likes her but i just feel weird and on top of that i am going to move to live somewhere else ( i live in israel and moving to london ) because my mom died ( and i miss her very much and i feel terrible and im only 13 ) so my dads wife is english and shes gonna adopt me and my brother and its also very hard for me to be in this kind of pressure because i dont just wanna give up all the life i lived here and i just dont wanna give up my friends and the peolpe i love...everybody is telling me to open a new page have a new life and meet better people but i dont need any better than i already have and so close to but i also really wanna go because i have a better chance of a better future and i have a family there too soo..i dont know what im supposed to do.. sorry if its too long and thnx for helping |
| Posted: 27 Mar 2015 07:38 AM PDT I'm moving into my boyfriends place with him next week. I have agreed to put my bed and some other boxes in storage but his place is so big that my most of my furniture can fit. However, I'm nervous because I'm moving in in 7 days and he hasn't made any of the changes to his place that he said he was going to make. He's had over a month to do this and it isn't done yet. Whenever I express my concerns he tells me that nothing is going to be perfect in a week and we'll work out the kinks once I move in. I'm upset because we've had plenty of time to do this before hand. I've offered to help and he won't let me. He hasn't asked his friends for any assistance either. I know he likes to surprise me and I'm hoping that he'll surprise me by having things in order before I move in. I'm trying to not be too controlling and say no it has to be done before I'll move in. I don't like living in confusion and caious. All I want to do when I move in is unpack. I don't want to worry about where to put things or cleaning up. I need advice because I don't want to argue with him about it but he just doesn't seem to be getting things done. Advice please...should I just be patient. |
| Posted: 27 Mar 2015 07:29 AM PDT When I was 4 I was adopted because of child abuse and I thought it would be a great idea to get the message out that it's ok to speak up I want people to overcome and rise above just like me I'm 13 now with an awesome forever family |
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| Question: Should I move in with my boyfriend or live at home with my parents? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 07:00 AM PDT I'm 18, still in high school (I graduate in 2 months), and I don't have a job. My boyfriend is 19, goes to community college, has his own place, and he works. I haven't been happy at home for more than a year. Once I turned 18 it got worse because my parents started being mean to me. My dad calls me names when he gets mad and it makes me feel worthless so I cry. I get ignored a lot by my parents (mostly my mom) and I feel like they hate me. My boyfriend lives far away and I was planning to go see him for spring break but my parents said no because they think I'll come back home pregnant but my boyfriend and I are both responsible people. He wants me to move in with him and I'd go to school and work which I am ok with. I'd save up money for a car but still help him a little with the rent. I don't mind moving in with him because he's the only person who shows me how much he cares about me unlike my family but I dont know if I'd be able to just leave my house and I'm stressing out about it. I don't get along with my parents but I'd miss my little brothers. Do you think it would be dumb to move out and move in with my boyfriend at this age? ps. I live in southern cali and he lives in the bay area |
| Question: Any advice for a girl turning 20 soon? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 06:59 AM PDT I m turning 20 on July 29th and I was just wondering if anybody has any advice for me on what to expect. Nothing exciting will probably happen but still I m curious to know your thoughts about it. So if you have any advice or words of wisdom please tell me. P.S No rude answers please. |
| Question: How do I deal with my boyfriend possibly moving out of state? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 06:58 AM PDT The situation is my boyfriend isn't getting along with his roommates and its causing stress and unhappy with the living situation there. I completely understand this but I became upset when he told me he was talking to friends who lives out of state and thought about moving in with them. The thing is before we have discussed about him moving close by where we live so he can keep his job. We got into an argument and he said the decision isn't final. I'm going all sorts of emotions. |
| Question: My boyfriend is spoiled by his mom.. and now me!? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 05:42 AM PDT I've been dating my boyfriend for two years now and I've been noticing how spoiled he is. his mom has always spoiled him, bringing him home food when he's hungry and cleaning his room and doing his laundry. he's 18 years old and I know he can do it on his own. his mom cooks and cleans up after him and makes up excused for him when he doesn't want to go to school. I've noticed all of this before but recently Ive noticed that he's starting to think I'm the same way. I've been working for about a year now whereas he's just recently started working. he lives about 15 minutes away from me and he never wants to come to my house... just yesterday I had softball practice and on my way back he asked me to pick up him AND his brother food... I didn't receive a thank you from either. I've been on spring break and have been dying to sleep in but he wanted me to come over today at 7 in the morning to sleep with him. when I told him I wanted some sleep, he got mad at me. he called me at 8 in the morning and I told him I didn't know if I could because my mom wasn't answering my phone calls. he got very upset with me and he does this thing where he doesn't talk to me for the rest of the day if he doesn't get his way. I've spent all my money on him and I've gone through a whole tank of gas driving to and from his house in a week or less. if I even think about bringing it up to him, he gets mad and won't talk to me. he's very hypocritical.. he can call me out but I can't call him out. help! |
| Question: Afraid I won't find "the one"? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 04:59 AM PDT All I want to be in life is a mom. I am only 20 years old, but my biggest fear is not finding the right guy to marry or getting married past 30 when its harder / more risky to get pregnant.. Where can I meet great guys? |
| Question: Where can I buy a really big stuffed monkey? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 04:20 AM PDT My girlfriend is in love with monkeys and I want to get her one she'll always remember. I'm trying to look for the biggest one possible. I've looked through the Internet and I have found some good sized ones but they all look very ugly. If you know of any website that sells good big stuffed monkeys please let me know. |
| Question: How can I help my wife overcome the trauma of being abused? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 04:11 AM PDT How can I help my wife overcome the trauma of being abused when I am the one who abused her? I struggled with alcoholism and during that time I am ashamed to say I abused my wife severely in every way. I even forced her to have sex with me numerous times. All I cared about what exerting control over her and making her feel powerless to me. We separated until I underwent treatment. Once I got the help I needed I reconnected with her. She agreed to give me another chance but understandably she is very fearful towards me. Any unexpected touch like a hug from behind, or me reaching up to touch her face or stroke her hair causes her to be jumpy or tense up. The one time I tried to initiate sex again she nearly panicked. I do not want her to remain fearful of me. I know what I did is wrong. How can I help fix the damage I have caused? How can I show my wife I will never use my strength to hurt her again and make her feel safe and loved? I also want to help her rebuild her self-esteem which of course was shattered due to my abusiveness |
| Question: Is he telling the truth? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 02:56 AM PDT I was with my boyfriend for just two years. I love him more than words can describe. We have had issues since I discovered he had kissed somebody when we were exclusively dating, I found out a couple months later. He goes out and drinks but fails to contact me, which added to my paranoia, insecurity and worrying. When we had a fight, he went out again drinking and kissed someone which then made our issues even worse. The trust was gone for me but I love him so much I didn't want to just give up. However, I have started to regain a bit of trust and all i asked of him was to contact me when drinking so I know he is okay. We were having a rough patch lately and it had become very difficult. He ended it with me the other day but claimed it was due to the fact he didn't want to hurt me anymore. He said it's the hardest decision he has ever had to make. He emphasises how much he loves me and how I'm irreplaceable to him, but he said i deserve more and he doesn't deserve me because he always let's me down. He said he is devastated but in the long run he knows I'll be better off. I don't know whether to believe him, I think he has possibly fallen out of love but doesn't want to say. Any feedback will be appreciated, 😔 |
| Question: Should my boyfriend attend my uncles funeral? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 02:53 AM PDT My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, however he has never had an official introduction to my extended family, because we started dating in highschool and a lot of our family events just interfered with one another. All of my cousins know about him, and I believe one or two aunts and uncles know about him as well, but he's never really met my extended family. My mom and him are decently close, and he's actually become apart of our family. It was her idea for him to attend the funeral, but he's never met this uncle that passed away. I want him to come, I think it'll be great support for my mother and myself, especially because my dad has past away and for us he's filled that space ( not that he's filled the spot as a father - just that he's apart of our family unit ). I'm just unsure if it's appropriate or not ? My mom says it is, because I shouldn't look at it as an introduction, just as him displaying his support in a time of need. Help me. |
| Question: I'm turning 18 in a couple weeks and i feel depress? Posted: 27 Mar 2015 01:45 AM PDT Never kissed a girl or had much of a social life cause of me home schooled so i'm kind of socially awkward and i have a bit of an annoying voice and was wondering if i looked good enough to where i wouldn't have much trouble of asking a girl out and would like some tips. |
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| Posted: 26 Mar 2015 10:54 PM PDT but we were dating. i was dating my best friend from October 2013- January 2014. However we were never official but we did date and make out. I found out from our mutual friend who i did not know in October 2013 that e was seeing this other girl who was his girlfriend in highschool and he cheated on her with a different girl. My friend told me he also saw them making out at the mall the day he told me he couldn't come to the college we go to to do homework he told me he had work, he clearly lied to me if our mutual friend caught him making out with a girl |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2015 10:48 PM PDT You always wondered why he's been bullying you, just being a menace and provoking fights/ problems. Then you find.. out from your spiritual guide that he's "bent", and is bi- sexual. I kinda figured.. a guy would be bi- sexual, hate certain girls. Just for the fact they keep bullying her, aren't straight! |
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| Question: Which be better tumblr name? Posted: 26 Mar 2015 10:16 PM PDT I'm making a new tumblr for a lot of reasons that have no importance, which would be a better name. It will be mainly bands, Disney, and things I'm not ready for my family to know Mystrangecomfort (strange comfort is one of my favorite songs) Secret_life_of_a_girl_named_chelsea Those are the only ideas I have. thoughts and ideas please. |
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| Question: My boyfriend cheated on me with my BEST friend?!!? Posted: 26 Mar 2015 09:02 PM PDT We were together a year nd a half nd then I found out he was seeing my best friend for a month nd a half nd having sex with her while we were together I am just so confused, mad, angry etc. about the whole situation because he tried to blame it on me for being mean to him before nd now Im just wondering who to blame nd take my anger out on between myself, him nd her! Please help!! |
| Question: What would your reaction be if your daughter brought home a black boyfriend from college? Posted: 26 Mar 2015 09:00 PM PDT |
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| Question: What do you do if someone thinks you are being abused and you are not? Posted: 26 Mar 2015 08:49 PM PDT This is a friend and they keep talking about my situation to other friends. They witnessed a fight between my husband and I. Other people were there, however she doesn't know the reason for the fight & is purely judging over drunk actions. Every one was drunk! No one was hurt. She started the fight between us and doesn't see it. But I feel like that is why she is trying to say my husband is a "psycho". She is generally one of my good friends. I tried to explain the situation to her without hurting her feeling by telling her that she was the cause. I was told by another friend that she said it sounds like I am lying. I am not beaten by husband. I don't want to ruin a friendship but it feels like that could be the end result. If I tell her she is the reason for the fight I think it will ruin our friendship also. Advice... |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2015 08:27 PM PDT I am so lost. My boyfriend is so sweet and kind to be and lately I've been mean to him. I become so annoyed by him sometimes that I can't even stand talking to him. I don't know what my deal is. I feel like hurting myself but the thing that's stopping me from doing that is him. I also have some things in my life happening that are not going how I wish they were. My step dad just moved out, and my mom had been dating a guy when they weren't even divorced yet (they still aren't). My mother is very intelligent but lately she has done things I thought she would never do. He has now moved in with us, but is in Massachusetts as I am in Florida. I hate him. He's so annoying and too out going. I am a girl that likes to stay in her room and be in bed watching YouTube, playing video games, or listening to music. Also on my dads side, my step-grandma is having a hard time and is about to pass away. There are a lot of good things in my life, but all those things just seem to overcome them. I need serious help. How do I stop acting this way, and does anyone know why I am? I am not usually like this. And no, it is not that time of month. Thank you for reading. |
| Question: Am I obligated to like my girlfriend's friends? Posted: 26 Mar 2015 07:50 PM PDT My girlfriend and I have our own groups of friends but they're all polar opposites. She doesn't like my friends because apparently they make me mean, they are a bad influence, and she takes every possible offense from every joke we make. I guess I understand, and she's not like that, but her friends are just as bad. They are boring, prudish people who only talk about school and serious issues. I have every bit of respect for it, and I do my best in school, and there are problems going on in the world. However, I can't tell one joke around them without them blowing up and getting all butthurt. Needless to say, I can't stand them. One of them always gives me this sideways glare, and she asked my girlfriend later on if my friend was a drug dealer. A) That's not your Damn business. B) That's not your damn business. C) That's awfully self-righteous to say that. All in all, I don't try or pretend to understand or like her friends. Do I have some obligation to? |
| Question: Why exactly do I get so upset? What do you think honestly? Posted: 26 Mar 2015 07:33 PM PDT Long story short my close family friend Daliah lost her daughter a couple years ago, she was my age (16), she died in her sleep. Me & Daliah have gotten super close. We always hang out with our family's, we go eat breakfast every week, she's always telling me how much she loves me & gives me hugs all the time. But why does it make me so sad when Daliah misses her daughter?.. Like I never try to replace her daughter, I just want to be the closes thing to her daughter so she won't be sad, which means being as close in friendship as I can with Daliah. Then it makes me sad because I know I will never be as good as her daughter, she will never love me like her daughter, I'm not her daughter & there is nothing I can do about it you know?.. Then I feel me and Daliah will never have a close mother/daughter relationship. I'm sorry idk what I'm trying to say. But why do I feel so, I guess sad? |
| Question: How can I stop loving a married man? Posted: 26 Mar 2015 07:32 PM PDT I had written this long paragraph to explain in further detail the nature of this problem, but now I'm just curious who could actually try and help me without calling me a home wrecking whore. P.S. This has been going on for almost 10 years. |
| Question: Is this right to regret? ASAP? Posted: 26 Mar 2015 07:28 PM PDT I took regular cal this year and I regret It. I get so bored and I have very little respect for the teacher. He never helpped me when I used to ask. He tries to be more of a best friend to the jocks. If ur not one or one of his favorites if then then he pretty much gives u an f-off. Which is y I don't have much use for him. He also takes 2 weeks to 3 weeks to cover a section. I normally know everything within the frist day. Anyways I feel like I would of token ap cal |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2015 07:07 PM PDT I believe I'm begin this girl so should I apologize or not because she'll answer my text messages and comments on Facebook but won't answer my Facebook messages. |
| Question: Can my relationship with my girlfriend be saved? I'm so lost right now? Posted: 26 Mar 2015 06:41 PM PDT I told my girlfriend that I might move out of state and she became very hurt and upset now she won't talk to me. The situation is I'm not getting along with my roommates and it's been causing me stress. I told her about the problems with my roommates before and she understands. The original plan was that I'll find another place and rommate close by where we live so I know the change of plans upset her. Also I haven't decided yet if I'm moving out of state. I do love my girlfriend very much and my parents like her and I want to be with her. What do I do Also she can't afford to move out so that's why we can't move in together |
| Question: Cheating!? help help help so confused? Posted: 26 Mar 2015 06:22 PM PDT So i confronted my bf as something felt weird and he admitted that a lass from work fancies him...so muc infact shes looking for another job..and he admitted she tried to get with him bt he apparently turned her down. So i asked to see his phone as something didnt feel right...he has loads of calls and texts off her in his call log but hes deleted all of the physical texts from his inbox..i confronted him and he said nothing at frst then he admitted hr deleted them as they were flirty and i mite over react..then admitted they can get a bit sexy sometimes bt not sexting and he thought it was all harmless and he wasnt physically cheating amd harmless as i wudnt find out...well i did and im finding it hard to believe that he turned down a girl making a pass at him and then continued to text and flirt wit her? He says she calls him js to chat...this is all crazy and my head is hurting amd i needed some advice or i spose confirmation that im not overreacting...wrve been together 4 years..live together and hes basically a father to my son so i dont know what to do...so confusrd bt how can i evet trust him again? |
| Question: Need answers now I'm paranoid? Posted: 26 Mar 2015 06:11 PM PDT Okay so my girlfriend and I had protected sex and we did it for like 30 seconds because I was too big and the condom didn't break and I'm pretty sure there was pre *** in it. Today just now she said she feels sick her head hurts and her stomach hurts and she has abdominal pain im about 90% sure she isn't pregnant but idk. Please give me professional answers. |
| Posted: 26 Mar 2015 06:09 PM PDT So I'm going to change my name very soon and I do have an idea about what name I would change it to. literally everyone in my family call me by my nickname which correlates with the first letter of my first name ( an E) so would it be best to change my name to something that starts with an E or will that just confuse my memory when I change my name. |
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