Question: In law problems.? Mar 10th 2015, 19:25 I get along with and love my father in law and both my brother in laws. But my sister in law and mother in law are rude to me. As far as my hubby and I know, there is no real reason for their behavior. We have tried to find a reason but can't figure it out. My MIL and I used to actually be close. We would text and call all the time. (They live in nebraska we will in oregon). Though my SIL has never since day one said more than 3 words to me. I've tried and tried to talk to her and have always been friendly but she just doesn't respond. I have even gone out of my way to do things for her (for example she loves the huskers so I knitted her a husker throw). She still doesn't even acknowledge me. She also made some comments on FB insinuating that she doesn't feel I exist or am relevant in my husbands life. This hurts and I don't understand what her prob is. Now my MIL on the other hand just stopped being nice to me and communicating with me. My husband has asked her several times why, she always pretends everything is fine and says she didn't know she was acting this way. I don't have any parents and the family I did have I lost. So it bothers me a great deAl that I don't feel close to my MIL and SIL. I want to but Im done trying all the time. I don't talk about this much with my hubby because I don't want to speak ill of his family or make this an issue for him. He's already said if this doesn't stop he will just stop visiting them and I surely don't want that. | Question: My mom turned against me, what do I do? Mar 10th 2015, 19:16 For my Bar-Mitzva my uncle gave me a smartphone, and after my mom found out she can check her Emails on it, she took full control. One year later, everything just got worse. My mom doesn't let me even look at the TIME on my phone, check Facebook, and etc. Just today I asked if I could use my phone to compare headphones. As always, she exploded, and called me a 'new generation freak'. I have no privacy, and keep to many things secret from my mom, because I can't trust her. My father is dead, and my sister just sides with my mom so she can play on my phone. WHAT DO I DO! PLEASE HELP! | Question: Please answer i am scared.? Mar 10th 2015, 18:47 Recently my mom started to let me use a phone. Well she grounded me from it for a week and hid it somewhere from me. Well now she can not find it and assumes i took it and gave it to a friend or i have it hidden or i got rid of it. Well I do not have it at all and now my mom is saying she and my dad are going to "tag team" me if i don't tell the truth, and keeps saying that if i give her an attitude she will bust my lip. She has smacked me a lot in my childhood, some points where she is on top of me… my lip has been busted. But, now i do not know what to do,, I am very scared because i have no idea where or what happened to that phone, and she says she is going to hurt me.. I want so advice, she is not here at the moment.. and she gave me a long list of chores to do to keep my mind off doing things.. but right now i am thinking about things i shouldn't.. Im cleaning with bleach and i want to go somewhere where i want to be. I don't want to be here and i am scared for my life. My dad is a big man and he has hit me before. Please someone answer quick before my mom gets home, and before I decide for myself. | Question: My dad is using a dating website?!? Mar 10th 2015, 18:14 My mom and dad have been married for 20 years. They argue but i never thought my dad would do this, it is disgusting the way he talks to other women when my grandma passed away 2 weeks ago and he weren't there for my mom. I can't look at him the same way anymore and i really don't know what to do. please help | Question: Are my parents toxic? Mar 10th 2015, 17:49 I'm 20 years old and live at home We argue almost every day about stupid things and usually they end up screaming and yelling They treat me like I am 13 They force me to talk even when I am upset and say I need space If I don't talk or ignore them in order to avoid more fighting, they will do things like turn off my phone They guilt trip me They are very sarcastic when I am trying to explain my side of a story They will text me over and over again They don't accept me in some aspects (religion, sexuality, etc) Also, I'm a college student and don't have a job at the moment, so what can I do in the meantime before I can make arrangements to move out? My friends have even said that they don't treat me like an adult, and they manipulate me as well They will even follow me into my room if I try to get away from the fight before it escalates | |
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