Question: I needs help because I'm going to get hit with a belt!? Mar 10th 2015, 21:42 Okay, so I did not do my homework on 3 different occasions, so the teacher called my mom today and my mom told me she is going to tell my dad... Who will most likely hit me with a belt.... please help I'm in 8th grade and I don't want to go through the pain! (Just in case of more information I am a girl) | Question: 22nd birthday ideas for family & boyfriend? Mar 10th 2015, 20:55 I'm celebrating a late 22nd, & my family (aunt & uncle) are going to be in town. My sister, her husband & daughter, as well as my parents & two other sisters will be there. And I'd like my 3-month-old (not in actual age lol!) boyfriend to be there too. But our house is sort of small & it gets crazy with so many people. So I was thinking about doing something outside. Any simple, laid-back ideas? What would we do for entertainment?? Outdoor board games? | Question: Can I get my dad arrested for not letting me go to my friends house? Mar 10th 2015, 20:49 he won't even let me have friends!!! So this morning before school I asked my dad if I could go to my friends house after school. he said yes. So after school I went to my friends house as planned. Then my dad called my phone saying he was waiting for me outside school. So I argued with him cuz he said yes this morning, so why's he at my school waiting. And he deny it so bad, saying when does he ever say yes (exactly!! That's the problem) and that he's gonna come and get me from my friends house. He could of just toad me I could stay since I was there already. So I got mad and wouldn't tell him where my friend lived. and he made all kinds of abusive threats such as violence and not being allowed to my race this weekend if I didn't tell him. so i toad him and I went home with him. But then just cuz I punched the side of his head while he was driving he said I'm not allowed to my race anyways and said I should be thankful he's too tired to beat me. All of this could of been avoided if he just let me go to my friends. He never let's me do ANYTHING. for example -go places with friends = no. play soccer in the park on my own= no. Walk my dogs alone= no. go to school by myself= no. everything is no!! and he says he will take me instead when I ask to do things with my friends. I don't care about the activity. The fun thing is being with my friends. I'm going to set his car on fire I swear to god | Question: My mother treats me and my sister unfairly, what to do? Mar 10th 2015, 20:47 Well I was making a hash brown and my sister starts smacking it and stuff with the spatula so I tell her to stop and she spits and my face, so I walk over to my mom and tell her what happened she asks my sister why she did it, so she lies and says I was in her face. So I nudge her shoulder over with the back of my hand so I can show my mom where she and I were stand and how she leaned forward and spit in my face, and while I walked past her she said don't touch me, keep in mind she only says not to touch her when my moms around to get me in trouble, so then my mom screams at me to stay out of my sisters face, even when I just showed her where I was standing. Then says not to touch my sister and told me I had a problem with touching people, even though I don't even touch her most of the time but she is always smacking me. Back to my mom, she says that doing stuff like that will get me labeled as a sex offender. Yes you just read that, being told that I could be labeled as a sex offender for nudging somebody's shoulder out of the way because I was in a confined space... ALSO my sister will walk into my room no problem and my mother won't say a thing, but if I even walk in front her DOORWAY my mom is screaming at me for being a pervert and telling my to get out of my sisters room. You just read that also, told to get out of a room that I wasn't even in. F.Y.I I'm 13 and my sis is 10 | Question: How do I get my brother s girlfriend to stop spying on me? Mar 10th 2015, 20:44 Every time I go outside of my room she gets out of her room and pretends to be preoccupied, but then I catch her looking into my room as if I am doign something in there. Sometimes when I m going to the kitchen she ll go out of her room and follow me. It s really disgusting imo and it has forced me to become locked in my room all day. | Question: I have been having trouble with my son's teacher . what should i do? Mar 10th 2015, 20:38 My son is a 5 year old. He has good days and bad days at school more good then bad. And when i say bad it is because he is talking to much or looking at the floor when the teacher is talking. To be honest i dont like his teacher everything has to be perfect with her. She has tould me that my son is very immature. And he need to work harder. They get color days at school i look at this book every day he gets more green days then anything eles not saying he is perfect he is far for it. To day he came home with a red day i asked him what happened and he tould me he was not looking at her when she was talking and he was touching the rug he was sitting on. So she took the paperwork she had in her hand and hit him on the head he said she did it hard. Now my son does not lie to me he has alway tould me the truth even if he was in the wrong. Am pissed that she did that i feel ahe has no right to hit him. She is calling me tomorrow. Befor i go off on her i want to know. Am i over reacted. Was what she did ok? Sorry so long for just a little question. | Question: I'm 12 and super unhappy please help? Mar 10th 2015, 20:32 My mom and dad are divorced and have their own lives. My mom has had kind of a lot of boyfriends and they have all come and gone. But the most recent one I actually liked. Like I saw a future step dad in him. But they broke up and I got all my hopes up for nothing. It really sucks. And with my dad he's something else. He and his wife (my stepmom) argue constantly and I really care for her. I've known her since I was about 6. My dad has some anger issues and other issues and he blames it all in his stroke and his previous divorces. And I deal with this 24/7. Not only that but my mom is also bipolar. I have thought of some things like running away or idk hurting myself but I just don't know what to do. Please help. I just need advice. Thank you. | Question: My mum wants to kill herself? Mar 10th 2015, 20:29 My mum hates my dad and being at home so much today she said she doesn't want to be here anymore, I hate it at home aswell and I don't know what to do or who to talk to im 14 years old and in year 9 my mum is just getting more and more sad and drinking more and more I just want to help her but I don't know who to talk or what to say | Question: My brother and sister NEVER get in trouble? Mar 10th 2015, 20:28 My younger brother(7) and younger sister(9) never get in trouble for anything and I swear I'm about to snap. Just recently my brother peed all over the toilet seat and I told him to stop and now he's peeing on the floor. My mom just said "Don't do it again" and walked away. So I stepped in pointed out how shitty and unacceptable his actions are. He starts crying and I get punished. My sister is horrible as well. She has beat me and my friend with a piñata stick (which left multiple bruises on both of us) and kicked my friend multiple times in the balls. She's also hid my mom's phone so I'd be left stranded at school for an extra 2 hours. She didn't get in trouble for any of that. But when I do something like get an 80 on a test it's the end of the world and I'm a disgrace to the family and my mom tries to sell me for 3 goats. I don't understand why my mom never does anything. I'm the only one who ever gets physically or verbally punished and all I do is sleep and eat and get good grades. I've tried to point out this issue to my mom but she ignores me. I'm not sure how much longer I can take this before I'm overwhelmed by my emotions and physically react. What can I do to make my mom realize she needs to actually do something? Is there anything I can do to enforce rules around the house without getting in trouble? | Question: Would you forgive a 16 years old brother who left his 3 year old sister for a few seconds until she got hurt? Mar 10th 2015, 20:18 I left my sister alone for a few seconds so I could throw some stuff in the trash can, until she tripped and hit her face against a table and started to bleed. I know I don't deserve forgiveness, but I'm thankful that she's alive. I'm probably the worst big brother a girl can have and I think I deserve death after what happened. I love my family more than anything, but it hurts in my heart as much as I've hurt theirs. Do you think I deserve forgiveness or punishment? P.S. If you have younger siblings, please take care of them and keep them away from danger. Thank you for reading this and I wish you all a great life | Question: Can a person get custody of a younger sibling? Mar 10th 2015, 20:09 If they are a half sibling that is. My cousin is only 27 and her half sister is 15 but their dad (my uncle) died years ago and her mom is now in jail so she has no where to go but in foster care. Can she get custody of her to prevent that from happening? Or will they just send her to foster care automatically? She's already in a group home now but my cousin is trying to get her but she's not sure if she can. | Question: What is a good troubled teen program in or near rialto, ca? Mar 10th 2015, 19:48 I have a sister and brother that really need a program to help them. My sister is 15, and my brother is 13. I really want to help them but no matter what I say or do, they don't seem to understand. I need a program like beyond scared straight. They are disrespectful, like to fight, smoke weed, and sometimes sneak out. If anybody knows something please comment. Thank you. | Question: My brother secretly takes pictures of my girlfriend, what should we do? Mar 10th 2015, 19:31 My brother is 31 years old and me and my gf are 26. Yesterday my gf told me that she has noticed that my brother has started taking pictures of her with his cell phone. She said, "he doesn't think I notice, but I do." She said that she feels awkward now around him, and quite honestly, I find what my brother is doing extremely weird and uncomfortable. She said, she didn't want to say anything, but that she can't keep quiet about this and that if she catches my brother doing this again, she will call him out on it and ask him why he is taking pics of her? After hearing of what he is doing, I told her, that I would call him out on it find out why he is doing this. We both suspect that he takes pics and sends them to his best friend (my bro's best friend is a girl). We think that he is sending them to her bc she always talks about how she likes my gf's clothing style; regardless, my brother secretly taking pics of her is extremely weird and makes me look at him differently. What should we do? And how should we approach him about this? | Question: My mom calls me useless garbage? Mar 10th 2015, 18:42 She treats her new husband like a God.Whenever I say to her that she has never been nice to me like to him she says-jealous,yeah ? She calls me useless garbage since me 12 years old(I'm 17 years old).She never supports me or says well done.All she does is yelling at me and calling useless garbage,worst daughter ever and etc.She's a teacher.I understand that it's quite stressful job.In the end of the day she puts all her negative emotions at me.Today she came home and I cooked her dinner.She said that it looks like sh*t,I am stupid idiot and my hands are growing from as* so I don't do something correct.Then her husband comes and she's angel.I simply hate it.I should ask whenever I can come out of my room because I am disturbing Tom(her husband).He's big baby.He blames me for everything I have never done and my mom always trusts hi.Don't get me wrong-I really love my mom since I don't have any other relatives(my dad ditched us and I haven't seen him 9 years), but her attitude is making me cry everyday.I don't like to spend time with my classmates since they always pick up on me because of my acne and again that is my fault...I want to go study to the Germany and I told mom about my plans she made fun of me...She simply destroyed my self-esteem...Now she's saying that she regrets that I am her daughter:( What do I do ? I don't want to report her or something,I really love her.But I don't think I would be able to handle her 1.5 more years until graduation. Help ~Irene | Question: My parents are always telling me i need to marry an asian (my fiancee's white). I might cut off communication (it's that bad). ADVICE!!!!!? Mar 10th 2015, 18:22 I'm a 21 year old asian girl engaged/living with a 27 year old white guy. We've been living together for a year and dated a year before that. I've been with other guys, but I never actually loved any of them until him. I know I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. He's the most amazeng man I've ever met. My parents don't approve. They want me to marry an asian guy. They still have asian guys and date them instead. Not only is it ludicrous it's really hurtful. They talk about his faults a lot. It got a lot worse when my parents heard my fiancee and myself making love My parents had to go to the airport and we live close by. I let them stay the night. Normally I wouldn't have done it with my parents there, but I thought my parents were asleep and he was looking so hot .. I guess we were pretty loud. I orgasmed and said a lot of dirty things I would never otherwise say (especially with my parents). My parents literally came into our room when we were asleep, took some of my sexy lingerie, and left. I was furious. They gave it back, but afterwards they always told me I need to stop having sex with my fiancee and he's making me into a dirty girl. They tell me he's just using me for sex. (That's not true at all. He's done a lot for me because he loves me for more than sex.) My parents have never been so controlling and annal about anything until now. It hurts enough that they don't approve, but I hate it that they're constantly and relentlessly attacking the man I love. Now they unrestrainedly talk to me about how my sex life is a sin and I'm a dirty girl (not those exact words, but still...) I've cried about it before. I want my parents to approve of my fiancee, but I've accepted it won't happen. It is getting to the point that I'm considering cutting off ties from my parents. I don't want to, but I hate that they always want to hate on my fiancé whenever I'm around. It's really painful. Should I cut off ties from my parents? If not is there anything I can do to improve my situation? | |
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