Alright so I know I really shouldn t be dating anyone right now especially about to be a freshmen and with the chance of breaking up because of going to different highschools but this girl was different. So it was the first semester and I started to get to know this girl, she was everything any guy could want but I couldn t see that. So I started getting to know her and we were becoming good friends, I made her laugh, she made me laugh it was all cool nothing else invloved ( I was sitting right behind her). Anyways it s now second semester were still friends( not as close as before due to moving seats) and I am realizing that I like her. So, I ask her to be my valentine she says yes I get her a dozen of roses and give them to her at school, she blushes and says thank you. Now I wasnt gonna ask her out that day but my friends insisted so I HAD to. So, I ask her out get rejected and basically hate myself because I feel like I ruined the relationship and I didn t get to throughly tell her how I feel. So, its been about a month now and I feel so guilty, regretful every single day because I want to tell her all this stuff but I can t because she s always near her friends and I can never talk to her in private. So, yeah I talk to her but not nearly as much and I feel like a complete idiot even telling her I liked her because we weren t that close yet. I feel like I am screwed , thrown down a hole but is there anything I do. Please no negative comments I feel like I really ****** up

I'm 17 and I'm ugly but im super ripped and girls get so turned on by my muscle they don't care if my face is ugly.

I love fantasising about sex, but in reality, I wouldn't have sex several times a week/month. It's not that I dislike the person I'm with, I just don't have the interest to have long, savouring sex. Also, is looking sexy really that important to keep a relationship going? These days, guys expect their women to be sexy all the time otherwise when they become old, they are history to them. Funny thing is, I feel better having sex with a woman than a man for some reason. Women are gentle and more understanding and know how a woman thinks. But back to the main point - what if, one day, I decided not to wear makeup, wear sexy clothes and be sexually available like a prostitute? What if I rather read a good book over a man? Not that I hate men, but they are so demanding. Women are better, they know what periods and childbirths are like, we women can understand each other better.

im in the nineth grade and this girl i like ive caught staring at me and her friends want me to date her and so on but i asked her out she said no then 2 months later she was staring at me hard and would stick her tongue out at me and smile ans so on

When I first saw him in class I made eye contact with him when he came in, later while I had my head turned I saw him in the corner of my eye stare at me for a few seconds then look away, he never did this again for the rest of the class 2nd encounter : I sat behind him in class because it was too cold on the other side (they had the air on for some reason even though it was winter). Everytime he got up his eyes would go crazy and he tried to not directly look at me. While i was checking my phone in the hallway he got up from his chair and saw me, looked like a deer in headlights and sat back down. When I tried to casually talk to him in line, he wouldn't look at me at all. It was basically a one sided conversation that lasted 10 minutes. And every few seconds he would confidentally approach other people nearby. Also, he made eye contact with female that sat next to him in class and seemed very comfortable with talking to her, he seemed nervous around me. When I talked to him in the hall I was a bit of a klutz and made jokes which he found funny but then he would become quiet but he was helpful when we spoke of school. I recall for atleast 60 seconds we walked together and he was totally silent and I felt awkward because I continued walking with him, to this day I felt like I was bothering him. (We were headed towards the exit, maybe he was quiet because he was focused on leaving ?)

All these guys have SAME nice personality, but they're different regarding wealth and appearance, so which one would you choose and why? 1. Tall handsome guy with low income 2. Average looking guy with average income 3. Below average looking guy(he may be short, fat, or kinda ugly) with very high income

I know subconsciously we are drawn to really good looking faces or is that bullshit What even makes a face look attractive on a girl -_- How does an average person rate a face

and mean.. Why don't they practice the golden rule more often? Would you leave a woman/girl if they were your woman and then she became sick or ill?

So I found out that my crush doesn't like me by one of my close friends texting him and asking if he liked me. Any ways, in one of my classes he would stare at me randomly sometimes and it confuses me. Why would he stare at me? Is it because he knows that I like him? It's been two weeks since she asked and he's been distant. We used to talk everyday and joke around, but since she texted him, "you two talk a lot" he hasn't even interacted with me at all. Yesterday was the first time he's talked to me in two weeks, and I'm so frustrated because I want to be his friend. I was sad last week because of the lack of interaction but this week I got over him. Do you think he's warming up to me now? Why does he look at me like that?

My ex was a jerk to me...kicked me out over One fight, ignored me, stood me up, lied to me, led me on, insulted me..but I still want him and want him back and miss him. When we were together he was nice and great it all happened after that fight and totally blindsided me. He makes me feel so flawed. Tje fight was I thought he didn't want to be with me anymore nothing like I cheated or lied

im 15 and im currently dating a girl that we grew apart but i don't wanna hurt her and i already like 2 other girls but i don't wanna seem like i used her to get what i wanted

Intelligent, beautiful woman. Lots of class too - not vulgar in the slightest. However, she was wearing a short skirt & I was finding it difficult to avert my eyes. Am I a pervert?

Soon gym class these are these girls that look at me. I know one of them and it's just weird they keep looking at me.does it mean that the girl i know in the group like me and she told her friends or what? I'm just confused? Help

I met this guy on POF. We have seen each other two times and after each date we go back to my place, have sex, and he spends the night. Those two times were 2 months a part from each other. Cuddling always happens. He has flaked out me 3 other times when we attempted to hang out. I had the "where is this connection going" conversation. He told me that he wants "more" from the relationship after I asked him where we stand. I asked him what his definition of more is. He responded "you by my side". He gives me the "player" vibe: so do you think he really wants more or is trying to say this to continue to have sex? Thoughts?

I was sitting by my crush in class and one of my friends said something funny so i smiled at him and gave him my "flirty face" its a joke since my friend and i are super close and i saw my crush looking at me looking sort of irritated... or sad or curious... or confused..? i dunno it seemed like a mix of emotions and later i asked him if he was ok and he said he's ok and doesn't know how to explain it. it could be about something else but it caught my eye.

this guy texted me one day on kik and said that I was Gourgous and stuff and I usually just ignored guys who I didn't know and that would text me and stuff.. But He was so interesting he ways wanted to talk to me we were liks best friends and he would always be the one texting me first and he told me he loved me once (At the time He was like family but I didnt love him like bf gf way) And He said How he dosent like the guy that I date and was always so gelous and kept saying he was sorry he loved me bc I didnt love him and kwpt sayin he had no chance with me and stuff obviously and he would aways say how beutifull I was and Then I lived him to I told him and basiclly We would text 24/7 not a day would go by we wouldent talk and he would always tell me how beutifull i am and how Im his "Baby girl" Amd how wed be together forever but now hes barely talked to me and like a week ago he hadent talked to me for to weeks and he said hed been thinking about if we were really worth it or not and how he didnt want it to be like all love maybe we could just step back a little and I said Okay And I cryed like every night :'( Then he said "Ik ur sleeping rn but.. I still love u and by thw way u look rrly pretty in that dress Im sorry I hope u feel the same way" And then that night and the like 2 nights after that he made me feel special for 2 days but its like it was before now hes killing me I feel like I can't live life without him he has to be a part of it what should I do This is hard

I ran into a guy I dated about 10 years ago.He approached me, we went out a few times..But clearly he wanted sex..Needless to say it did not go any where "I guess because I did not have sex with him" But when he saw me, he says Melbas's a bar I use to frequent,which is also where I meant him. I felt insulted I do have a name..Men can be such idiots at time..Tells alot about what he thought of me..

So I work night shift tonight and my boyfriend is going out with his friends to Daytona. Probably to bars or something, idk. But this upsets me very much. I feel like guys go there to drink and hit on girls and I can't help but be upset right now. Is that normal for me to feel this way? I just don't see why he would need to go there. I called him to see what he was doing and he texted me, you're not going to like this but I'm going to Daytona with my friends.

Say he is with a friend and I walk up to them and I say hi or talk to his friend why does he turn his body and face the other way or look away? I really like him but idk why he does this!

I'm 17 now about to be 18. I have only dated once but I didn't feel exact romantic feelings. It was more out of curiosity. I have told her this, she was fine with this and said let's just try it out then. We have been together for 6 months up til this January. My feelings have not changed and I am still just not interested in dating. (And no if wasn't because of a bad brealup of whatever. Everything was fine when we broke up. She said she felt like I had enough time to experience and I agreed.) It might be just a phase and im still young and blah blah but is it possible to not be attracted towards any gender sexually and romantically? :^: Also im a girl too Js.

How do I make it less awkward between me and my bf We've been dating for a month and all my friends say that we are awkward what do I do to make it stop?

There's this girl I like and she gives me flirty smiles when I talk to her and every now and then will flirt with me but the thing is I always have to initiate the conversation. I've only seen her stare at me a couple of times but she doesn't really seem to notice me except for when I talk to her. Today we had a pep rally and she and her friends were on the other side of the gym. I occasionally looked over and saw her staring at me, or if she wasn't her friend was and would get her attention and they would all smile and at one point she hid half her face behind her friends head sitting under her. I just don't get it, she never really tries to get my attention any other time, in the hallways or class it's like I don't exist.

I'll make this short and sweet. In a few weeks, I'll be meeting my long distance girlfriend of 1 year for the first time. I'm getting prepared now so I'll be ready and the fact that yes I know that meeting in person is different than online. So I want this to be a good first impression because we want a future together and I don't want to ruin it. I'm 18, she's 16. I'm the one driving to meet her, we're in the same state just 6 hours apart. I'm the guy thats shy at first and nervous. Any tips to overcome my shyness or tips to make this a meet to remember like places to go or things to do? I need all tips as possible please.. PS.. 1. I'm not being catfished. We've video chatted many times before. 1. For those of you who don't believe in LDRs.. I'd much rather be with someone online and build a future with than be with someone who I don't connect with in person.

when I say this I mean ethically, morally not grammatically.

What's your main interest in a girl and why? (Hair, body, clothes, smile, personality, etc....) Just curious.

I was with my girlfriend today and we were in the car driving home from our date and she told me to pull over at the beach, we usually make out there, but today she told me she "wants me to take her" we're both virgins and I really do love her but I told her that we should wait a little (we've been together 7 months) and I just think it's not responsible to have sex now (I'm 17 she's 15) but would it be ok for us to do this?

In december I messaged this to her, I don't really know you at and I don't even know if you know I exist but I've seen you at school and I think we have the same pe period, but I wanted to say I thought you were really beautiful and I would love to get to know you. And she didn't respond for a couple hours and when she did she said, sorry I just got my phone back. but Awh thank you so much☺️. But today in school I walked past her and I stared at her in the corner of my eye and she started at me in the corner of her eye but she glanced really fast at me. Today I saw her holding hands with some ******* swag fag who doesn't even care about her and probably just wants to **** her when I saw them my heart just stopped and I got chills throughout my body what can I do to feel better I was depressed to begin with my family's been going through stuff and I've been through a lot I feel like I just got hit by a train I hate myself what can I do to at least feel a little better?

This girl that's a customer at this grocery store I work at. I seen her a few times and we talked a bit in the past. She talks softly when she talks to me. A few days later I seen her & kinda surprised her. She walks up to me & we immediately face each other. I said "how are your cats doing?" & she replied & shes also like "I've done nothing all day." & start I flirting with a slight smile & were looking in each others eyes as we walk. Also her voice seemed just a tad bit nervous but so did mine but I stayed confident & managed! The conversation started & shes just looking in my eyes. And I can just feel that she wants me to talk to her so I said "how old are you?" her: 20. I go to (her college which I wont say) me: oh I thought you were older. - her: why? *soft smile* - me: I don't know...im 20 too. How old do you think I am? her: to be honest 19 no offense me: no its good that's a good thing.(She continues walking & I say "well I'll be here") A week later, I had to take something back & as I was walking toward her she had on that same little shy warm smile looking straight at me & I put on my same little grin and did a nod.. A few weeks later, I seen her from a distance as I was bagging & she did a wave with a smile & I waved back. I had to go on cart duty & I brought some in and she came in the lobby. I said "What are you doing here?" smiling, she was smiling shyly "Shopping.." It seemed like she was looking for something to say again nervous body language I felt So I got out of her way & I said "Oh yeah? So what did you get?". Still smiling she said "Stuff.." walking out kinda hastily..A week later I seen her RIGHT on Valentines day. I seen her so I went in the lobby, some time goes by & I knew she was coming but I wasn't even looking in her direction. It's crowded so I didn't get to talk to her but she right at me & does the shyest smile..so I grin back & say "Whats going on with you?..Cold isn't it?" & she says softly & silently "yup.." Like 3 weeks later I'm walking about to chill outside & I see her get a cart from the lobby. So I pointed at her a little bit and said "There she isss" like very enthusiastic with my mouth open and everything. She just smiled shyly showing her pretty teeth. I kept walking slowly when it happened cause I didn't have my note to with my # to give her. Thoughts?

A year ago I met this guy and we immediately hit off and soon enough were practically dating. Yet, before he asked me out he ran into his ex and that was it. They started dating again and of course I became upset with him and we pretty much never really talked after. Once they broke he came back to me trying to get me to forget about his ex and get together with him. But i never liked being someone's choice or a rebound so completely distance myself. Well now its a year later and no matter how much i try to lose these feeling i have toward him i cant . Especially since now I practically see him everyday day and we make eye contact but never really acknowledge each other. Yet, everyday i catch him staring at me. Hes even talks about me to my friends. Does this mean he still has feelings for me? And should i tell him that i still like him? P.s- he doesnt have a girlfriend

My crush JM (Let's call him that for now) gave me a note saying "Do you like me?" I asked him why he gave me that note and he said "G told me to do it." This made me feel terrible and now I am so depressed. What should I do?

Me and my girlfiend have been dating for 10 months, ive been starting to wonder about the green light to move on to more intimate things like booty rubs and fore play maybe even sex but i dont know how she feels. We always make out and shes a sweat heart but i also always put my hands gently between her thighs and gently rub them and she lets me do it but i want to move on to bigger things. I havent tried grabbing her butt while kissing because im afriad of rejecting any advice will help thanks

me and my gf have been dating for 10 months and all we have done was make out but i want to do more and be more intimate. we make out and i kiss her neck but i dont know if it turns her on and whenever we sit down next to each other i usually put my hands in between her thighs and gently rub her thigh and she always lets me do it but i want to move on to booty rubbing and hopefully sex but i dont know if shes ready. She also lets me grab her waist whenever i want too but i will xcept any help

Hello! Thank you for your time to read my question.... I am very sad, im a freshman in highschool, and I'm fortunate to have a decent appearance.... But I am only 5 ft, (I'm not a dwarf I am just very small) I have no boyfriend, some guys have liked me but not anyone I want to be with... I am new to to the school, but everyone's dating. Love feels hopeless, I've never had a boyfriend, I like guys but they arent single and Idk if they like me back.... :( I am grateful for what I have, and love myself mostly... But I am very sad... What can I do? I guess looking like a 7th grader is ruining any chances..... Any advice? Btw I'm not picky, I just have different tastes in guys....

A long time ago I liked my friend a lot and I think he liked me too but he had a gf. I forced myself to stop talking to him because I'm sure he would have cheated on her for me. So now they're engaged and he says I'm one of his best friends. The thing is he keeps calling me everyday. He's in the military so he lives by himself and his gf still lives in my town. So I'm not sure if he's being friendly or bad because this started when he left.

I like this boy but I'm stuck in the friend zone hhheeellllpppp

My boyfriend and I are currently taking a break in our relationship. We are both freshmen in college. He goes to a school out of state and lives on campus but I commute to a local university. Before he left for school, I suggested that we should take a break because I didn't want him to feel guilty about going to parties or worrying about me or how I would feel. Now I really miss him and I'm lonely but I don't want him to feel like I'm holding him back from having fun at school. What are your opinions on breaks and this situation? Thanks.

This kid just said I was. It hurt mys feelings.

An athletic toned body, a thick/curvy body, or a thinner body? Obviously every guy is different, but what's your opinion?

This girl that I want to date that agreed to date me back but she's "putting me on hold" for another guy she liked before me, meaning that she wants to clear everything up with him and make sure she has absolutely 0% chance with him before she goes out with me. Should I be okay with this and patiently wait for her? Or should I not be ok with this and move on because she doesn't like me enough to date me right now. I see where she's coming from tho and we both agreed to probably date in the future. What do you think?

i went to the local pool everyday for a swim workout in the summer, and there's this lifeguard that i think liked me. So one time i was swimming and i stopped at the wall, and she was on her break, and she asked me if we can share the lane i was swimming in, even though she could've asked someone else.we were swimming in the same lane, and at one point we both stopped at the wall together, and i think she was gonna say something when she turned to look at me(we were so close i just wanted to kiss her so bad. lol), but i pushed off the wall and continued swimming. ouch.haha.did i screw up?? She always smiles at me. Every time i'd walk past her to go to the pool she'd smile at me as i walk by. She always waved goodbye to me as i headed to the locker room after my swim. This one time, i wanted to use the pace clock at the pool, so i asked her if i could, and she smiled and said yes, and out of nowhere, she dragged the pace clock all the way down to my side of the pool so i can see it well.(i was gonna climb out of the pool and do that myself. lol) this other time, we were walking past each other, and we made eye contact, she smiled, and then kinda looked down after.So thing is, i got hired as a lifeguard there at the end of the summer, and she went to college, and i think she'll be coming back in a few days to work here for winter break.do you guys think she likes me??should i make a move p.s not necessarily love, but at least like me??haha. Btw i like her.

I want to get laid, but I'm a Virgin and I've never tried to get a girlfriend before girls call me cute or handsome and when I go to my fraternity parties they always give me hugs or let me hug them even though we might be a tad bit drunk lol. And twice girls have asked me if I was going to a party or where I was at the party. That being said I am overweight. I honestly think if I just talk to people there and go to parties I can at least get something.

I am a virgin and I don't know what to do when I'm with a group of people and they are all talking about different times they had sex. It's very awkward for me. I just don't know how to make it less awkward and I don't like saying I'm a virgin. There's nothing wrong with it but no one likes being the odd one out. I also feel like they would think that somethings wrong with me since no one has slept with me or that I'm religious and waiting for marriage. I've had plenty of opportunities and I'm not waiting for marriage I just don't want to do that with just anyone. I would at least like to be in love first and I have never been in love. Thank you! and just to clarify I'm not some you teenager or anything I'm a 21 year old college student!

I'm 16 and my ex is 21. I'm 21 weeks pregnant now and we broke up before I knew I was. He broke up with me and when I found out, I tried to keep it as secret as possible so he wouldn't feel obligated to be with me. But now I'm showing and I go to school with his brother and he told him about it. My ex has been constantly messaging me on Facebook and texting me and saying he wants to be in the baby's life. He keeps asking if I want to live with him because my parents threw me out and I'm living with my best friend. I've ignored all of his messages because I doubt he's being sincere. But he will not leave me alone. He said he wants to see me when he comes home from college and I don't know what to do. If I do agree to see him, it'll be so awkward. I don't want him near me or the baby especially because he has a new girlfriend. I can do this on my own. But he's making me so stressed and anxious. What should I do?

I'm new to Tinder. I swiped right and matched with a few guys. But they didn't send me message. How long do you guys take to start a conversation?

No funny business from me just sext. Yup, and I ain't desperate. Ha, i have exactly 117 character(s) remaining. Whoop!