Friends: Question: What is a platonic friend? |
- Question: What is a platonic friend?
- Question: Why am I so mad when my best friend talks about someone else?
- Question: Jealous of my best friend?
- Question: What kind of a friend am I?
- Question: My friend is being super clingy?
- Question: Why will nobody talk to me besides a few people.(feeling depressed)?
- Question: I'm not sure what to do.....(friendship and self-esteem)?
- Question: How can I help my sibling?
- Question: I told a HUGE lie to my friends and now i regret it!!!?
- Question: Why is everyone always mad at me?
- Question: Is my friend's behavior rude or am I overreacting?
- Question: Friend Troubles?
- Question: How NOT to be an annoying person?
- Question: I don't have a best friend. Is that sad?
- Question: Quien es el hijo de puta que me esta hackeando la cuenta?
- Question: Why doesn't she send pictures of herself on Snapchat?
- Question: My bestfriend s birthday is Tuesday. Any ideas on what I should get her?
- Question: Please help me I screwed up big time!!!?
- Question: Problem with my BFF?
- Question: How can we help our friend out (please read)?
- Question: What Should I Do?
- Question: Is it ok to make a video about being bullied?
- Question: Why am I so hung up on this guy?
- Question: What to say when someone congratulates?
- Question: Nobody understands me?
- Question: My friend tells me that her mom buses her, but she is known for lying and getting attention. What should i do?
- Question: How do I get my friend to listen to me?
- Question: What could be the reason?
- Question: Is this an awkward sexual tension?
- Question: My friend got gold?
- Question: Was this mean? pls help?
- Question: What should I do about my roommates who talk about me?
- Question: What Should I Do?
- Question: Me gusta mi amigaaa? :(?
- Question: I got suspended from school?!?!?
- Question: I regret having friends?
- Question: Close friend recently became homeless across country?
- Question: Does anyone else ever feel left out?
- Question: Does anyone else ever feel left out?
- Question: Travel plans with my best friend changed because of boyfriend?
- Question: Does my "best friend" even care about me anymore? Is this friendship ending? Advice please!!!?
- Question: My best friend love his uncles wife, what is your opinion in this and what to till him?
- Question: Does this sound like a "real friend"?
- Question: How would you feel if your best friend dated your sister?
- Question: I feel like I need to bring a knife to school for self defense, please help me?
- Question: Please help me create a bucket list of things we did as children that we want to do again.?
- Question: Why do I feel bad after this?
- Question: One of my good friends pushed me today?
- Question: Is it even worth it?
- Question: Friend basically ditched me?
- Question: Should i delete my instagram account?
- Question: What to say when you get new shoes and there will always haters saying " they are so gay " or they look gay. What to respond to shut them up?
- Question: Ladies, what should I do?
- Question: Is it weird that our friend never asks us to go out with her? Should we bring it up?
- Question: Depressed friend started smoking. She said that she doesn't feel the need to cut if she smokes, and that it's just a cigarette a day?
- Question: Highschool everyday is a struggle?
- Question: Is this guy uninterested now?
- Question: My friends keep talking behind my back?
- Question: Help!?? I peed my pants!! :(?
- Question: Omg im soooo pissed right now!?
| Question: What is a platonic friend? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 05:11 PM PDT |
| Question: Why am I so mad when my best friend talks about someone else? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 05:10 PM PDT I m a 14-year-old female, and my friend, who is also female, recently found a friend online that she talks about all the time. 24/7, she always talks about how much they have in common and how nice she is. She says that they do everything that we used to do. But, every time I hear my friend say her name, I feel like punching a wall, and when I think about my friend hanging out with someone else, I start to feel depressed. I just don t understand. |
| Question: Jealous of my best friend? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 05:04 PM PDT I'm absolutely jealous of my best friend. I'm in 8th grade, and I have a best friend who has the perfect life. her parents let her do as she pleases, and her family has a lot of money, so she can pretty much get whatever she want. she also has a perfect body, she's small, and is known around the school for her perfect butt. all the boys in my grade, and the freshman all talk to her and all flirt with her and stuff even though she's an absolutely *****. she can be the meanest person, and guys will still talk to her and flirt with her. and when guys are around me and her, she completely ignores me and the guys dont even realize I'm there. and I'm the complete opposite of her. but she's my best friend. |
| Question: What kind of a friend am I? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:59 PM PDT I feel sad for my friend when she's sad. But now that she's happy, I'm jealous and mad. Am I a confused friend? |
| Question: My friend is being super clingy? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:54 PM PDT My friend is being really clingy, she always follow me and my friends around like a dog and it is really annoying. She has this laugh which I hate and it is so annoying since she laughs alot. I am sometimes even embarrassed by her, one of my guy friends was playing assigns with her so she crumpled up his paper, took his hat,and slammed his computer and the teacher yelled at him not her. She asks the stupidest questions ever. I want to tell her to stop and that it is very annoying, I need my space sometimes and she is not giving it to me. She always has to be are pi understand people. She also tries too hard to fit in. |
| Question: Why will nobody talk to me besides a few people.(feeling depressed)? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:53 PM PDT I've been kinda down recently because my grades are starting to slip and only my handful of friends actually talk to me. (no im not like some super nerdy or whatever guy) But i never seem to be able to make good friends with anyone else anymore. Ive liked some girls but they always just go for the douche guys that dump them in about 3 weeks. Then im the guy who will actually talk them through it and make them feel better. Why do i never get anything special when im nice to others and am really a nice guy. I dont want to act all fake and be a jerk to make friends. If anyone has any advice please tell me, i need it. Im sick of being down all the time. |
| Question: I'm not sure what to do.....(friendship and self-esteem)? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:52 PM PDT So basically, I have been having trouble for a couple weeks now. I seem to have two constant thoughts running through my mind throughout the day. 1. That when I say anything, no matter what it is, to my friends, I am hurting their feelings or making them think bad about me. Sometimes I bet I am, but the feeling is constant. I can't have a simple conversation with friends sometimes because if I don't think of what I am saying, it will come out wrong, and they will think bad of me, or hurt by my words. 2. That I am unintelligent. Most of my friends are A+ students and I range from a solid B and up. I don't do bad in school, but am always comparing myself to other people. I know deep down that I'm not stupid, I'm on the honor roll, and doing pretty good in school this semester. I do not know why I always feel so negative about myself. What can I do? My actual questions: -What can I do? -Is this like...anxiety? -Is this normal? Thanks again :) |
| Question: How can I help my sibling? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:48 PM PDT My brother has started hanging out with bad people. Now he's swearing, doing drugs, having gay sex, drinking underage, and shoplifting. He has a therapist but doesn't see her very often and doesn't really care about getting help anymore. But lately, he's been bringing this crap home. His friends come over and smoke in my house, and he steals my things all the time. Is it too late to help something like this? If not, how can I make him realize what he's done to himself? SERIOUS ADVICE ONLY PLEASE! |
| Question: I told a HUGE lie to my friends and now i regret it!!!? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:46 PM PDT So there was this girl that I went out with for about two weeks in high school. But she broke it off with me because she liked some other guy. We didn't kiss when we went out. But I told 3 of my friends that we kissed and made out the night before she dumped me, but in reality I didn't. I think I just did it because I haven't had my first kiss and all of my other friends have. I was just trying to be cool. I knew I was taking a risk lying like that but I didn't know it would come back to haunt me. So one of the people I told asked her about it and she said that never happened and that I was a liar. So now I feel horrible because A. Now she completely hates me... And B. My friend knows I lied. In spite of all this, my friend promised me he wouldn't tell anybody else I told that I lied. So the only people who know I lied is her and my friend. Who knows, she could tell more people that I lied and make things even worse. Help!!!!! This is killing me!!!! I feel like an awful person for doing that and it's making me worried and sad. I know I made a mistake. I feel like a jerk and loser right now. |
| Question: Why is everyone always mad at me? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:46 PM PDT I don't understand why people are always mean to me and mad at me. Today someone at my high school yelled at me because she said I annoy her. I asked her how I annoy her and she said because I'm always happy and always smile and I'm never sad or mean. Am I weird or something is there anything I should change about myself ? :( |
| Question: Is my friend's behavior rude or am I overreacting? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:46 PM PDT I'm studying abroad, and whenever I hangout with my friends they start speaking their foreign language and I feel left out. I confessed to my friend and told her that I'm not going to hang out with them if they're not going to speak in english. she told me that they're going to speak in english this time so i went. It turned out that i was wrong. she totally ignored me this day. I tried to remind her saying "you said you'll speak in english" but she replied rudly to me saying "I'm not speaking with you". I don't feel included in the convos and I was bored the whole time. my friend ignored me and was talking with the others only. and she kept on hugging my other friends and telling them how much she loves them and I was just sitting there. at the end I wanted to let her know that I'm not happy with her behavior so I decided to leave early. she just told me goodbye and I went. now I'm feeling upset. am I overreacting? what should I do? should I stop talking to her? |
| Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:36 PM PDT I have a friend who copies almost everything I do. From what I wear, what I eat, how I act, my habits, what I like, to who I am friends with. She will say that she hates a singer or something but once I say that I like that singer, she suddenly does too, for example. I understand about how it should flatter me and I did feel flattered at first when she began doing things like me. I figured she was just going through something. That was 2 years ago amd nothing has changed, just got worse. I am not the only one who has noticed these little things. My closest friend once pointed it out, and some others did point it out as well. I was so relieved that I wasn't the only one who saw what my friend was doing. I just feel so unoriginal whenever I do things and she does them right after. It is getting to be very annoying and I do not want to seem rude, if I talk about it to her. I am just really done with her. How can I talk to her about this problem without being rude, or am I just being paranoid about the whole situation? |
| Question: How NOT to be an annoying person? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:31 PM PDT I feel like I annoy people a lot. I don't want to. How can I stop? please? I don't want to be the annoy person people talk about behind their back. p.s 16 yr old girl. Thanks you!! and please, give good advice. nothing like "just don't be." That really gets on my nerves. Thanks! |
| Question: I don't have a best friend. Is that sad? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:24 PM PDT Or normal? For an adult. |
| Question: Quien es el hijo de puta que me esta hackeando la cuenta? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:21 PM PDT No se si a ustedes les esta pasando lo mismo, PERO UN HUEVON HIJO DE PUTA ME ESTA HACKEANDO LA CUENTA COLOCANDO PREGUNTAS INSULTANDOME A MI MISMA O A LOS DEMAS, COSAS QUE YO JAMAS HE PREGUNTADO |
| Question: Why doesn't she send pictures of herself on Snapchat? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:20 PM PDT This girl and I met last week and became really close, and we kinda like each other. But I've noticed that she NEVER sends pictures of herself on Snapchat. Only of the things around her. It's gotten to the point where I can't remember what she looks like, since she lives far away and we never see each other...I want to see her!! But why does she do this? Is it normal? |
| Question: My bestfriend s birthday is Tuesday. Any ideas on what I should get her? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:17 PM PDT |
| Question: Please help me I screwed up big time!!!? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:16 PM PDT anyways so there is this thing that the football players at my school have to do where if someone challenges them to a push-up contest they have to do it or they get in trouble. So anyways, one of my friends plays football and as a joke I was going to pretend to send an email to his coach saying that he backed out of the push-up challenge and that he should be punished. I was never going to send it I was just going to mess with my friend and pretend to but all of a sudden I accidentally clicked send and I sent it to his coach :( I quickly sent him another email saying that I don't mean to send the last email and explained that he didn't back out of a challenge. But my friend and parents found out that I did that and now they are all really mad at me. I have no idea if the coach is going to take the email seriously and actually punish him. I feel really guilty and I didn't mean to click the send button. But there's no way to take the email back. I am really freaking out and I need someone's advice on what to do :( |
| Question: Problem with my BFF? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:13 PM PDT Hi, so my BFF is mad at me and hasn't really been talking to me for a while. It started when my BFF... Jamie, got a message from her friend Grace, and it was very inappropriate text messages.. GROSS! She put the contact name as my name (AMANDA) and when her mom saw it, her mom began yelling at me! Jamie DIDNT defend me at all, and she asked me to LIE to her mom LIKE ALWAYS! So when I confronted her mom I told her that it wasn't me, and her mom was just saying things like OH IT IS YOU; YOU ALWAYS LIE... I told her mom to look at the contact #, but by that time Jamie already changed the name and deleted the texts. I should be the one who is actually mad! But I've forgiven her, and I can't really block Jamie because she's the apartment right across from me. What should I do! Also how do I get a new friend? |
| Question: How can we help our friend out (please read)? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:12 PM PDT Okay so we have this friend and she's out of town right now. She's coming back today or tomorrow. My other friend told me the other day that she and her late sister told our friend that she can't sit in the house all day. She should get a job and make her own money which is true. I agreed with her. Out friend used to attend college. She had to babysit her little sister who now is in kindergarten. I know it's up to our friend to make her own choices. She asked me how much money I saved up to party for her birthday. I can't bring $50 because I only have $80 left for myself. I don't even know if she's going to have her own money. What can we do to help her out? She just turned 24. |
| Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:10 PM PDT So I have a guy friend he's like my best guy friend because I dont't have any guy friends and he's really nice and cool. So anyways he hasnt been too long ago joined the school like maybe 2 or so months ago almost as soon as he got to the school I got to know him and he became my buddy. Lately I've been really trying to talk to him and hang out but he barely talks to me. I almost always have to talk to him like 1/10 times he will come up to me first or text me first. He a really nice person so far but he's not talking to me alot and he cool with me he doesnt dislike me or anything and he's not shy. We said we were going to talk more but it never really happens I dont want to give up but still. He talks to his other friends who are guys Im a girl btw but still. I dont understand |
| Question: Is it ok to make a video about being bullied? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 04:08 PM PDT Hello everyone its me again. I'm still getting bullied by my enemies that started over this stupid boy who I rejected and it's been going on since I was 16 I'm 23 now and I'm still getting harassed, because of them I have some really horrible things about me that will follow me for the rest of my life and I'm not just talking about rumors but anyway Ive followed people's advice by calling the cops and they can't do anything unless I have proof(SO GOING TO THE COPS WON'T WORK), I've also tried to ignore them and move on I've been doing that for over a year and that doesn't work they come by my job all the time and they think because I don't say anything they have me scare and that's totally isn't the case. I asked my friend for advice and you guys here before to see if I could post a video of my side of the story and maybe people think twice about judging me. But you guys and my friend say it won't make a difference but what's the difference of me defending myself a millions times to anyone who wants to judge me face to face seriously, I'm running out of idea's and I feel voiceless and powerless by not saying anything. I don't see a problem with making a vid , people do all the time on YouTube about how they were bullied or raped. I believe in fighting back, by the way I could have guys to kick there butt because I'm being billed by girls and guy and I really wanna be a singer. And I live in st.Louis where there is always negative people. |
| Question: Why am I so hung up on this guy? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:59 PM PDT I was at work last week and I was placed and I was sent to do a task for an hour with a guy who I had never met. We started talking and ended up having a lot of fun together, just talking about life and joking around with each other. Afterward he asked me if I was single, which I am not, and naturally he seemed a bit disappointed. I felt badly that night for having to shut him down like that, but I m new to town and I thought that maybe we could be friends instead. The next day we were placed at the same task again and I asked him if he wanted to hang out later after our shifts, but our schedules didn t line up and we didn t have much time to plan anything since we were busy working, so it never ended up happening. I didn t get any of his contact info and he has since switched to another department, so I don t think I could ever get ahold of him. The thing is it s been a week and I m still feeling significantly upset that we couldn t be friends. I feel almost as if I lost an old pal, and I miss him now whenever I get placed at that position at work. I never feel this way about my other coworkers, or even my friends back home for that matter. So why am I so hung up on this guy, I only knew him for like 2 hours! |
| Question: What to say when someone congratulates? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:54 PM PDT I had replied with "Thank you for your kind words. I am so thrilled to start grad school" |
| Question: Nobody understands me? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:49 PM PDT I just feel so left out.. Like nobody gets me! Nobody can understand me or what i feel! Its so painful having no friends around just at the moments you feel the worse. I feel like my parents don't understand me too. I try to talk to them but they get the total opposite of what I am trying to explain. Is it so hard to understand someone? |
| Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:46 PM PDT she tells me that she has scars and she tries to show them to me, but i really dont see anything. but then when she was talking to me about it she started crying. And i heard her say to her mom things like f u and shut up. plus her mom appears to be really nice. but is it all just an act? |
| Question: How do I get my friend to listen to me? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:45 PM PDT I'm adopted, and I just recently got adopted in October, and one of my best friends was talking to someone who I've known since I was 6 and she told him I wasn't adopted because I told her not to tell anyone and she thought he didn't know and now he thinks I lied about everything and he won't talk to me and he's started spreading rumors and I've lost almost every friend I have at school because of this |
| Question: What could be the reason? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:43 PM PDT So in my opinion (and a lot of others) i am just that chill friend who watches netflix all the time and who can keep a secret. I heard a lot of secrets and i never told any of them. Sometimes i gossip a bit but hey, every teenage girl does that, and mine arent even that bad its more like 'she needs to shut up'. So i have lost 2friends. They had a massice fight with my best friend and they started not talking to me. Now they made up with my best friend, and told her they hated me and never wanted to be friends with me again. My best friend asked them why and they said both that theres no reason for it. We all know there is a reason. Why would they want to make up with the girl who they made a massive fight with but not with me? Does anyone know a possible reason? Btw i havent said anything bad about them before |
| Question: Is this an awkward sexual tension? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:40 PM PDT I'm 23 and happily married but I've sensed a weird sexual vibe coming from my sister in law's boyfriend. He seems like a good guy and they are in a relationship but I've caught him staring at my boobs(I've been blessed with big boobs lol) and I've sensed on several occasions that he was checking me out. He always wants to give me a hug, that seems lingering, when saying good bye he asks me stuff like if we are going to the beach with them. I was showing him my art and he got blushed by standing close to me and sounded nervous. He enjoys talking to me when we all get together and I feel like there's always a strange sexual tension in the air whenever he is around. Could it all be in my head? |
| Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:25 PM PDT Not kidding,my friend chased a lepracon over a rainbow and managed to get five pieces out of his pot of gold |
| Question: Was this mean? pls help? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:19 PM PDT okay so in social studies we had to do a group project and one girl in my group, Cassie, didn't do any work. my friend Jake and I told her to, and he even asked her if she could to make sure it got done. she didn't do any. now we have the final due tomorrow and me and jake are worried cassie won't do anything so we told her she had to and she said maybe I can later. so I told her this: we have to do it today. Noah and I did all the rest of it and it's not fair to us if you blow us off and let us down. it's our grade too. was this too mean? I feel really bad. |
| Question: What should I do about my roommates who talk about me? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:14 PM PDT I'm in college and two of my roommates will text about me while I'm in the same room, sometimes when i walk in the room they'll stop talking, sometimes i hear them whisper about me, etc. They also don't invite me to stuff even though I always tell them to come with me when I do something fun. Should I move out? I have other friends that I hangout with and I'm busy but it just sucks when I do have to be home with them |
| Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:09 PM PDT So I have a guy friend he's like my best guy friend because I dont't have any guy friends and he's really nice and cool. So anyways he hasnt been too long ago joined the school like maybe 2 or so months ago almost as soon as he got to the school I got to know him and he became my buddy. Lately I've been really trying to talk to him and hang out but he barely talks to me. I almost always have to talk to him like 1/10 times he will come up to me first or text me first. He a really nice person so far but he's not talking to me alot and he cool with me he doesnt dislike me or anything and he's not shy. We said we were going to talk more but it never really happens I dont want to give up but still. |
| Question: Me gusta mi amigaaa? :(? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:09 PM PDT Bueno, mi nombre lo dice, Alejandra. Tengo 14 años, estoy en plena adolescencia en la cual la bisexualidad esta MUY presente (eso creo;-;) Y el punto es que no sé si me esta llegando a "gustar" una de mis amigas. Es súper bonita dsjklsa y tiene el pelo shino (oc ya) mmm, cuando su mejor amiga la abraza o me dice que ella es suya me da un tipo de celos. Me gusta cuando MI amiga me abraza:( cuando nos saludamos de beso, cuando me agarra de la mano o del brazo para que no este sola, cuando me escucha. He tratado de alejarme de ella, aunque esta detrás de mi banco en el salón así que es inevitable, trato de no hablarle pero o ella me habla o yo termino hablándole y YA NO SÉ QUE HACER PORQUE LES ASEGURO QUE ELLA ES HETERO. |
| Question: I got suspended from school?!?!? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:08 PM PDT Ok so I was in a fb group chat with my friends and one of them found a photo of one of our other friends. So he photoshopped his face on pornography. So the photos were sent through the Facebook app called messenger and automatically saved to my phone. Later that day my friend who was photoshopped punched my friend who was involved and then he went to hospital. The police came and asked me quesitons about EVERYTHING, and when they asked me why I saved the photos, i told them that it does it automatically and they didn t believe me. They then told me not to lie when I go for an interview at the police station this friday. I m so nervous, and I could be suspended from school for up to 20 days! I m so nervous what should I do? and there are about 5 other people that are getting punished too. Pls help |
| Question: I regret having friends? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 03:00 PM PDT Lately i have been alone and i love it, i moved to a new country 6 months ago and i started to be alone because in school i didnt know anybody but then i met people amd we became friends but now i regret it. is this normal? What can I do? Do i stay alone or stay with friends? |
| Question: Close friend recently became homeless across country? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:56 PM PDT A friend of mine who I grew up living with (as close as brothers) has recently become homeless, he is in the Midwest though and I'm in east coast now but want to help. Not just with money but I'd like to get him here to a place to stay, how can I do that in an affordable way? |
| Question: Does anyone else ever feel left out? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:53 PM PDT I notice that when it comes to my aunt and her husband inviting people, they never invite me. They always invite my other cousin. I know I shouldn't let it bug me but it does. It feels like they don't give a 💩 about me anymore. No one ever invites me anywhere except my one uncle who has no kids. Im very well behaved and i dont ever ask for someone to buy me something unless it's a necessity so i dont think i bug. I dont know whats wrong with me. Can anyone else relate? |
| Question: Does anyone else ever feel left out? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:53 PM PDT I notice that when it comes to my aunt and her husband inviting people, they never invite me. They always invite my other cousin. I know I shouldn't let it bug me but it does. It feels like they don't give a 💩 about me anymore. No one ever invites me anywhere except my one uncle who has no kids. Im very well behaved and i dont ever ask for someone to buy me something unless it's a necessity so i dont think i bug. I dont know whats wrong with me. Can anyone else relate? |
| Question: Travel plans with my best friend changed because of boyfriend? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:51 PM PDT So, my best friend and I have been planning a trip since September, along with two other girls, to go to Asia. We were so excited to go on this spectacular girls trip of a lifetime that is until about a month ago when my best friend informed me that her boyfriend will be most likely joining us. Now, I really do like her boyfriend but for me this is a girls trip and bringing her boyfriend changes the entire atmosphere. I have spoken to her about it and she doesn't see anything wrong. I do not feel comfortable going on this trip with both of them. I have told her I do not want to go if he comes because it changes everything. She said she's going to let me know soon what she's going to decide to do. I really don't know what I am going to do if she chooses him over me. & I know it's an awkward situation for her but it was in fact our girls trip. |
| Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:49 PM PDT I don't get it, my best friend and I have been friends for a year and we were super close, inseparable, this year were still close, but she has changed drastically. She cares way more about boys, and to smoke and drink, I don't care because it's her life, but I don't do that. She found this new friend who is really big on drinking and smoking and she's changed because of her. We keep in touch kinda, but its awkward now. Like its almost as if she is forced to talk to me. Like she never ever texts me anymore, it always is me texting her but sometimes I don't want to text her waiting to see if she texts me and she doesn't. She says she will and doesn't. We say hi I'm school but like it doesn't seem meaningful. Like last year we would joke. Laugh, smile,hang out all the time. I get friends change and friendships and she says she loves me and cares about me but I don't know anymore. I've been trying to distance myself even though its very hard because I really care about her, but when I'm having fun laughing and joking with other people I always see her staring at me, or shell talk to someone and look at me too. Well say hi and text sometimes but it feels so different and I'm so hurt. We used to be super duper close like we kissed as a dare just a peck, were "wives" always hugging, kisses on the cheek, I still get them but when were hanging out alone. Around other people its so different and never used to be. What changed?? Why does she stare at me too???? |
| Question: My best friend love his uncles wife, what is your opinion in this and what to till him? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:47 PM PDT Actually it is not my problem, my best friend told me that he and his uncles wife love each other, he is 24 and she is about 32 with two kids, actually I don't tell him my opinion in the case but I am really don't like it but now she always text me and tell me about their problems. Their houses are beside each other and spend a lot of time together. I don't talk about this and told her not to tell me their problems but she keeps talking. My friend said that their problem that she is too jealous but I see this as small part of problem. My friend is a new graduate, I told her that I don't like such a relation. I tried to tell them to use their minds, but they keep said they cannot live without each other. I don't want my friend to get hurt, so I don't tell him to leave her because he may think I am against him and I will lose my best friend, and that women wants me to be her friend since I keep their secret but she always said that she cannot live without him, she doesn't love her husband but she love her kids and don't want to get divorce. Even if she get divorce, this relation is really strange, because my friend will lose many of his family members if he keep going. In my opinion, I see this a wrong relation, it is type of cheating even if they have no sexual relation, it is not logical or rational to me. I want to hear some opinions in this, and what is the true thing to be done by me? and by my friend? |
| Question: Does this sound like a "real friend"? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:36 PM PDT Ok so today my ex made me snap and that RARELY happens and i basically got mad and started telling her to shut up and bringing back the past and what not but then my friend who happens to be BEST friends with her ended up taking her side because she was trying to force me to move ( another story) and my friend then stuck up for her and said dude she's just insulting you and when she does make a good come back and i could tell he felt bad for me and was trying to keep me from being depressed also i asked him why he always takes her side and he said that he was trying to make me not embarass myself infront of people who could beat me up and i told him that him and someone else were my only to friends and he was like "ok" i know its confusing but is that really a good friend, or just being compassionate? i mean he's tough all the time |
| Question: How would you feel if your best friend dated your sister? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:33 PM PDT I have a crush on my friend's older sister and she has admitted she feels the same. Would it be awkward to him? How would you feel if your friend was dating your sister? |
| Question: I feel like I need to bring a knife to school for self defense, please help me? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:31 PM PDT So I had to hang out with a kid that went to my school over the weekend, he has been dating my best friend. He told me how he said if his gf got hot he would say he hooked up with her and he went into detail about how he was gonna break up with her and how he cheated on her. I told my best friend this the next day and now he is gonna get a bunch of kids in our friend group to beat me up tommorow. I keep getting threats from these kids and I'm really scared. My friends say they are just joking but I'm really sure they are serious, what do I do, I'm thinking of bringing a knife to protect me but I could risk getting expelled from my school if I get caught. I'm really scared and I don't know what to do |
| Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:24 PM PDT My best friend and I did not grow up together. We didn't meet until we were in our twenties. We are trying to create a bucket list of things we missed out doing together and any help would be appreciated. Simple easy to obtain goals like riding bikes and situation goals we may find ourselves in like passing notes in class. (Which we already marked off our "list" during a very long PowerPoint presentation at our kids school we got tricked into.) What do you miss doing with your friends? |
| Question: Why do I feel bad after this? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:22 PM PDT There was this boy he bullied me a lot for about 2 years and he did some pretty nasty things to me he knew I didn't like. That caused me to feel suicidal and depressed. I never did anything bad to him or anyone. He then started to be a bit nicer to me but still bullied me a bit and one day he asked to be friends I got really angry at him for asking this and said no but really rudely. It did hurt his feelings pretty bad but after that he never bullied me again. But now I actually feel bad for what I did. Why? Other people told me I did a good job and should be proud but I actually feel really bad. |
| Question: One of my good friends pushed me today? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:21 PM PDT Hi, so I was at school today and I was with my group of friends. One boy and three girls. The boy fixed his tie and being the prick I am, I pulled on it, making it tight. He did the same to me, but spun me in circles close to the floor, and then once i got back to my normal height once he let go he pushed me onto the bench near us, spraining my finger. I don't know what to do, I told one of my friends about it but all she said was "he's v violent." I don't know what to do at all, help? |
| Question: Is it even worth it? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:20 PM PDT My ex girlfriend is SOOO annoying and she's ruining my friendships and shes been trying to piss me off and it finally happened today i snapped and started cursing at her and thats pretty much it and that RARELY happens to me.....Its gone too far shes called me the "bad guy" gender doesn't matter shes bullying me and when i threated to report her to the office for bullying and harrasment all she said was " You ain't gonna do nothin, and my mom won't believe you because my mom believes that im an "angel" " pwh! more like demon anyways what can i do my friends are sorta on my side but i still don't know what to do she keeps on trying to get into my conversations and annoy me is it even worth telling the office and maybe risk losing my friends when MAYBE ( less likely) i could try to ignore her? |
| Question: Friend basically ditched me? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 02:19 PM PDT So in the beginning of the year up until the end of the semester, my friend and I were super close. We ate lunch together, talked all the time, as made plans to do stuff. Then after we came back from winter break, she started hanging with this other girl and barely even texts me unless I text first. I'm lucky if I even get a response. Sometimes in the hall way if we see each other we say hey and have a really short conversation like what's up, and she goes to hang with the other girl. Now she's moving at the end of the school year, and I want to hang with her before she leaves but whenever I text her and say we should do something, she doesn't reply or talks about something else. I don't know what to do because she's my closest friend at the school and she's a really great person. I have other friends, but I'm like the odd one out with them and it's just really hard for me to make friends at this school since I didn't go to middle school here like they all did. What should I do? *Please don't say I should try to hang with her and the other girl, I've tried that and the other girl doesn't really like me being around.* |
| Question: Should i delete my instagram account? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 01:56 PM PDT i don't know why i got it in the first place but i'm really not a social person with very few friends and it makes me a bit anxious. I want to make friends though and get more out there but there's no one to follow since i dont talk to many people and of course they arent gonna follow me back. So is there even a point? |
| Posted: 17 Mar 2015 01:56 PM PDT Another question I have is how to get vengeance on the ppl that have done you wrong. like there is this kid always picking on me. I wore white converse and right away he said they looked gay and that only girls wore them. Im so tired of him im glad i switched classes at school. the other day he called me a *****. And the worse part is that i let him i dont do anything about it. If it were my cousin he would go up and punch him like never before and fight im just not the fight type. I want to let my anger out. BTW im skinny 16 year old guy. I could get ripped with effort and this matters because i dont know how to fight and am really scared. Im not a pussy. I want to learn and pleaseee dont comment FIGHTING IS NEVER THE ANSWER |
| Question: Ladies, what should I do? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 01:55 PM PDT My wife of 4 years is wanting to take a road trip to visit a couple guys she says are just friends. Im nervous about this because I dont really know if they are just "friends". I want to trust her but at the same time I'm very nervous about this. These guys live in another state and I will be unable to join my wife because of my job. Should I quit worrying and just let her do this or do I have good cause to have these jealous feelings im experiencing? What should I do? |
| Question: Is it weird that our friend never asks us to go out with her? Should we bring it up? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 01:30 PM PDT PLEASE READ THIS. This girl always wants to do stuff with us. She always wants to go to meals with us and we invite her to a lot of things. I also know that she likes me a lot because she asked to room with me next year. But she never asks any of us to go out with her, even when we have mentioned that we would like to go. She doesn't even tell us about parties that are open to everyone so that we could go by ourselves if we wanted to. Isn't this weird? I know that people don't always do everything together, and they shouldn't. It just seems peculiar to me, especially because I know for a fact that she likes me and everyone else in our friend group. None of us know if we should bring it up, though. |
| Posted: 17 Mar 2015 01:30 PM PDT What should I do? |
| Question: Highschool everyday is a struggle? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 01:23 PM PDT I'm 16 years old (female) and in year 11. I wake up every morning three hours early just so I can procrastinate going in to school. I'm constantly anxious. A little background info: I moved countries 3 times in 4 years and now finally, I've got to stay in this one. It's my first time being in a mainstream highschool as my previous school had a total of 100 kids. This one has 3,500. I feel like I have nobody here. I've been at the school since the last 6 months of grade 10 and now we're 2 months into grade 11. Lots of kids have known eachother for years. I feel like I have nothing in common with anyone. I have "acquaintances" who smile a hello at me but no actual friends. Lunchtimes are the worst. I drift around aimlessly convinced everyone is staring at me and thinking I'm weird. I try and go from group to group (my school is extremely cliquey) but can't fit in anywhere. I've skipped school multiple times and find myself hating myself as it must be me that's the problem since everyone else manages to make friends. I can't focus on anything, I'm constantly tense and on edge. I'm an only child so it's not like I even have siblings to sit with. I am just so lost. I left all my friends behind when I moved country and can't help feeling I've made a dreadful mistake. my guidance counsellor wasn't of much help and said " this school isn't the place for everyone". I've joined clubs and that made me feel just as alone. What should I do? sorry it's so long. |
| Question: Is this guy uninterested now? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 01:16 PM PDT This guy asked for my number and we was texting only for two days and on Saturday he asked if we can hang out on Sunday, but I said how about some other time because I didn't know if I could make it. Since then he hadn't texted me back. What did I do wrong? |
| Question: My friends keep talking behind my back? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 01:16 PM PDT Ok so I have these two friends that I've know for about a year. But then this new kid showed up at school and everyone is talking about how he likes rock music, how cute he is, and how every girl is trying to do something to get his attention. I didn't know that. I never even knew there was a new kid. So the next day that he was new I wore my Nirvana shirt, you know, because I really like them and it wasn't just a"trick" to make him like me. Oh but then of course my friends all commented on my shirt and thought I was only trying to impress him. So I walk into the room, and there's my two friends. They were whispering to each other as I walked in the room and then I heard (friend B) say "oh and of course she's wearing a nirvana shirt". I don't know... It just made me kinda mad because I can wear whatever shirt I want without trying to impress people! But that's not the only time they have talked about me. At lunch they always look over at me then start whispering to each other, and they always exclude me from things. What should I do? |
| Question: Help!?? I peed my pants!! :(? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 01:13 PM PDT Omg, im so embarrassed! So since its the march break my friend's (who's also a girl) parents offered to take me on a road trip up into northern Ontario where she had some relatives. Mid way through the trip we decided to stop at a place to get something to drink (we were all thirsty). We stopped at a 7-11 and i got a very large pop (whichh i regret). As we continued to drive I realized I had to pee quite baddly as the pop made its way to my bladder. I decided i wouldnt be a hastle so i kept quite about it. But around 20 minutes later I was absolutly bursting to go. I was still quite about it, but my friend must have noticed how fidgety I was and asked if i had to go, so i admitted i had to go quite bad. We were deep into northern ontario by then and we were in the middle of nowhere, so her parents asked me if I wanted them to pull over. I didn't want to seem like I was a baby who couldn't hold her pee so i saiid no. another 15 minutes went by and knew i was gonna pee myself soon but i just held on. My friend was looking at me as if she was worried id pee all over the car seat or somthing. By the time we were almost there i was spurting in my jeans and i decided to ask to pull over and said iwas peeing my pants. I did pee on the side of the road but i had to sit the rest of the trip with a giant pee stain onmy pants! idk if she'll ever talk to me again im so embarassed! :( Also, tell me about your stories, I wont feel as bad if other people have been in my shoes :) |
| Question: Omg im soooo pissed right now!? Posted: 17 Mar 2015 01:10 PM PDT Ok, so about 2 months ago me and my ex broke up and now she's a B**** she's tried stealing my seat twice! ( yes i know childish but it was my assigned seat and she just took it like it was nothing and tried forcing me too move and then she tries to annoy me and tries to judge me and no matter how hard i try to threaten her about going to the office and reporting her it doesn't work and today i officially told my friends that im ignoring her from now on and then shes gonna try to call me the bad guy when im telling her that she's the one being the bully here my friends are mixed up my bestfriend took my side but my other friend took her side but also had compassion on me and tried to make me feel better and i can tell he's in agreance with me but shes still gonna try and get into my conversations IS THERE ANYTHING I COULD DO? ( were both in 8th grade) Plz read im sorry its soo long |
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