My husband to be and I have sorted our guest list. Unfortunately our venue only holds 80 people during the day and up to 120 in the evening - this is completely fine as we have 115 guests altogether however my partner tells me that he doesn't want his fathers side of the family during the day for the ceremony or meal and would rather have them at night and I'm unsure about this as this will cause an argument with his family. He keeps telling me he would rather have his friends all day rather than this side of the family.  Also, one of my partners best friends is getting married in a few months and we both really dislike his wife to be, she is incredibly miserable when the spotlight is not on her and causes drama for no reason - a lot of our family and friends have noticed this on different occasions ie friends birthdays, our engagement party, etc and I told him that I would rather this woman come in the evening however he is adamant she should come during the day with the friend. He doesn't want this friend to come at the evening.  Can you please tell me your suggestions and how you worked your guest list! Thanks!