Yo jamas la vi con ojos de algo mas que amiga hasta que comenzó a hace estas cosas desde hace un tiempo comenzó a abrazarme muy fuerte y quedarnos abrazados un rato, o cada vez que nos sentamos me aprieta la pierna... hasta una ves me quede dormido en su casa y dormimos tipo cucharita abrazaditos y sinceramente no se que hacer o que quiere... No quiero ser el otro....si le gusto por que no termina con su novio

I'm liking a girl and I got her Whatsapp, but I feel like I'd be bothering her If I text. Do you think this is just something in my mind or I'd be ? What should I do ? 

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. He has two kids (ages 5 and 13) from an ex-girlfriend. They are NOT biologically his, but he has been raising them since birth and has guardianship of them. He wasn't even together with his ex when she had the 5yo, but took him in any way. I love his kids and been helping to raise them since early on. His ex rarely sees her kids. Maybe 4-5 times a YEAR. She has been in constant legal trouble: convictions for drug possession, assaulting a police officer, illegal gun possession, etc. Her worse convictions are from 2013 and 2016, for having unlawful sex with minors and giving minors drugs. She is a registered sex offender. She most recently lost custody to 2 other kids to CPS because they were born under the influence of drugs and she kept testing dirty (she had two babies only 11 months apart). She is only allowed supervised visitation. If my boyfriend had not taken the kids in as his own, they would've been put in foster care years ago. Anyway, she has an upcoming visitation date and she asked to meet me since we've been dating for so long. My bf and the kids really want me to meet her. He insisted that she won't cause any drama and thinks it would be a good idea. I really don't want too, though! Every part of me wants to stay far, far away from her and just avoid that situation altogether. I don't see why I should anyway since she is NEVER allowed to have custody of her kids. What do you think?

Iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He's older than I am by 9 years. I had 2 kids when I met him but their father passed away 2 years earlier. then we had a baby together, he's now 18months old. My boyfriend was working when I met him but soon Into the relationship he got very poorly with a blood clot and almost died when it went into his lung so went onto the sick. I work from home and earn around £4000 a month. So now he's not been working for 2 years as he's had a lot of hospital apps for testing and changing blood thinning medication and what not... so I got him a car on finance and paid for finance tax and insurance out of my money. I then got myself a new car. After about 1 year his car got crashed Into and wrote off so he's been using mine when I don't need it or if I need any shopping he will go and do it for me and take my child to nursery for me. He's then went and got a job without telling me he was applying for one. I don't mind him getting a job but I think couples are supposed to talk about these things, it's full time and it's about 15 miles away so he started 2 days ago and had took my car both times leaving me with 3 kids and no car! Yes I work from home but my little boy is in a nursery which is a special nursery because he's disabled and it's 2 miles away so Iv had to walk there and back in the rain !! I want to bring this up but feel like a *****! Am I being a *****?