Hi guys, my boyfriend of two years proposed to me on Valentine's Day! We have both spoke about getting engaged married quite regularly before hand, and have been living together over a year. Anyway, now I have the ring the excitement has sort of weared down. I asked him if he was happy with getting engaged and he said yeah of course, I do things because I want to but it's not something crazy special, that's changing my life.. because I felt married before I gave you the ring. The ring is just showing everyone where engaged but otherwise it's not changing my feelings. My question is do all men kind of feel normal after their engaged? I felt a little upset first when he said it's not crazy special.. but he has explained to me he means it's a special day, but it's not something crazy special changing his life, because he already felt that way about me long time ago...

For my bridesmaids I asked my 3 biological sisters. My fiancé asked my brother to be part of his groom along with his own biological brother. My fiancé has only 1 sister (younger) and I don't know where to put her. The fact my fiancé asked my own brother to be his groom I feel obligated to ask his only sister, BUT she is NOT fond of me at all. For whatever ******* reason  I know if she stands behind me at that alter she's wanting the worst. She's made it clear to me throughout the years we've dated that I've taken her brother and that she doesn't like me. I've been with my fiancé for 3 years and she's never even addressed me by my name. I can be standing hand in hand with my fiancé and she'll only acknowledge him, thank him on my behalf (When I've done the work) etc. throughout the years I've tried to show I'm trying to have a relationship with her but it gets shot down and she's straight up mean. I don't want my mother-in-law to be upset her only daughter isn't part of her oldest sons wedding but **** I don't like the girl! What should I do?