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- Question: Should I put a notice on my door telling people to only knock during emergency?
- Question: Can I go to my best friends house?
- Question: Should I ignore this guy?
- Question: Is it possible I have not been able to make a single friend for many years because I don't know how to connect to people?
- Question: My guy friend has sleepovers with me im a guy too i want to sleep in just my underwear, but he sleeps shirtless and with shorts?
- Question: What could be the reason behind my extreme immaturity at 27?
- Question: Why would she keep coming back to him?
- Question: Is it normal for high school guys to be like this?
- Question: Need polite opinions, what does this mean?
- Question: Do you think she opened there or ended up waiting til she got home?
- Question: Are they jealous of me? If not then should I ignore them? ?
- Question: My guy friend has sleepovers with me im a guy too i want to sleep in just my underwear, but he sleeps with shirt and shorts?
- Question: Did I make the right choice? And what to do now?
- Question: How do I cope with a friend who has drifted apart from me?
- Question: My guy friend and I have sleepovers all the time. I want to wear only underwear, but he sleeps shirtless. How do i ask him if it's ok?
- Question: Advice for s*xual tension??
Question: Should I put a notice on my door telling people to only knock during emergency? Posted: 20 Mar 2020 05:54 PM PDT My neighbor keeps knocking on my door to talk to me about some legal issue she's having. Frankly, I don't want to talk to anyone or go near anyone because of the CV. Should I just put a letter on my door. My son answered the door saying I was sleeping which was true but I even if I was awake. come on! It's the law now to stay away from others. |
Question: Can I go to my best friends house? Posted: 20 Mar 2020 01:00 PM PDT It's her birthday today and we haven't seen each other since christmas, and neither of us come into contact with at risk people, we both feel ok. I haven't gone out in a week and I probably won't go out again for a while after this. We are just planning on staying at her house and maybe watching a movie and having dinner at her house. |
Question: Should I ignore this guy? Posted: 20 Mar 2020 12:22 PM PDT I use the app, wechat, for mainly family and really close friends only. One time a coworker asked to add me on the app, which I reluctantly gave him. We only talk once awhile in person, but I never really saw him as a friend. I actually find this guy a little strange at times. Then I went through a period with a stalker and harassment (not from this guy), which I changed my phone number and emails. I deleted all my contacts, which I've only gotten back by asking everyone individually. I erased everything on the app, as well as other social platforms. Recently, he added me again on wechat (which I'm not sure how he got my information). No one else at work has my wechat. He said I blocked him previously. But my question is, if he feels that I purposely blocked him, why is he trying to add me again? Just to see if I'm gonna block him again? I didn't block him on purpose but I also don't feel comfortable talking to this guy. And he is close with the people who had gossiped about me. And now that he's trying to add me again, I'm afraid if I continue to ignore it, he'll say something or even start gossiping about me with those ladies. |
Posted: 20 Mar 2020 11:07 AM PDT I have wanted friends for a long time now. I think I am being nice and polite enough to welcome or warrant friendships. But apparently that is not enough. One time a mental health worker informed me that I have a flat affect. Perhaps that is one piece in this puzzle? Internally I do experience quite severe emotions and they fluctuate on a regular basis. I also feel attachments to others, whether that is expressed to them or not. But maybe all of that is not sufficient to connecting with others from my end and/or mutually. |
Posted: 20 Mar 2020 10:46 AM PDT how do i ask him if it's ok to sleep in my underwear how do i get him to do it so it's not weird we're both the same age ps.i'm a guy too |
Question: What could be the reason behind my extreme immaturity at 27? Posted: 20 Mar 2020 08:00 AM PDT I get angry easily, and even more when I see guys my age being mature, working, with brand new careers, jobs, etc. Could the fact I've lived off my mom's money my whole life the true reason? |
Question: Why would she keep coming back to him? Posted: 20 Mar 2020 07:46 AM PDT My boyfriend said he was with his ex for 2 years. After graduation, she told him she couldn't be with him because of religion, etc. Yet she tried to contact him when he moved away. But when he asked if she will introduce him to parents, she said no. She has met his parents but wouldn't introduce him to hers. Then, she still came back at least 2 other times (before he met me). Why would she come back so many times even though she doesn't like him? |
Question: Is it normal for high school guys to be like this? Posted: 20 Mar 2020 07:38 AM PDT I am the only girl in my AP Calculus class. My classmates are all my friends and are great guys. We have a lot of home work so we sometimes gather at someone's house and do our homework together. This time it was my house. After we completed the homework, my mom served all the guys fresh homemade apple pie and ice cream. They loved it. We usually rotate whose house we go to for doing the homework. However the guys ask me if we could go to my house again for the homework. That is OK with me. I just thought they liked the pie and ice cream my mom made for them. Then one of the guys told me the real reason they wanted to come to my house. When mom served them pie and ice cream she wore her Daisy Dukes. Are all high school guys like this for someone twice their age? |
Question: Need polite opinions, what does this mean? Posted: 20 Mar 2020 07:33 AM PDT I have a friend who I also do pt with. Before anyone says she isn't a friend, she is cause she told me, and long story short anytime I question it, she tells me, she told me I was and we were fine and I was in my head and introduced me to people at her church as her friend. Anyways, so Tuesday I had an appointment.She told me she went to the dr,mon but didn't say why. Another patient came up to her while we were having our session and after the patient told her she wasn't going to give her a hug today, she said "ok, air hug"(didn't seem like she would have minded if she had given her a hug) and the patient asked how she was, and eventually it came out that she needed shoulder surgery. and even what part of the shoulder and she has a tear in that part. After the patient left, since I knew she had a bad shoulder, I said I was going to ask her about her shoulder, she said "well, now you know." So in the past, she would call to me my session by calling me by a cute nickname, and after every one of our sessions, except 1 she would give me a hug, that was basically our way of saying see you next time/until next time. The last time she called me by a nick name was my 1st 8:30am appointment last round which was Feb 20. I know a lot of people are practicing social distancing right now, but I don't think she is. Cause like I said she didn't seem to mind if the other person gave her a hug yesterday. yet when our session was done (she did get me 12 minutes early and kept me until the end of my appointment time),we walked til she got to the door of the employee office and we said goodbye but no hug, she didn't even say air hug or hey, i know I usually give you a hug, but I'm not going to today to keep us both safe. I also saw her on her way out, and she did happily/excitedly say "bye (my name). Although, she did tell me during my session that she had a doughnut, I'm guessing someone told her that we brought them in. That doesn't seem like anything major, but she was on a very strict diet where she wasn't allowed any carbs and was suppose to continue it for a few more weeks. her co workers knew she had 1, but other than them, I think I'm the only one she told. she also told me her competition got cancelled and since she didn't know if or when it would be now, she was feeling kinda blah about it and decided to give her self a treat on her bday. So the question is,1 if the other patient hadn't come along and I asked how her shoulder was, do you think she would have told me about the surgery, and 2 the differences that happened between me and that patient the other day, was that her way of saying we're not friends anymore, or me overthinking it? I know no one will know for sure, just want to see what others think. |
Question: Do you think she opened there or ended up waiting til she got home? Posted: 20 Mar 2020 05:42 AM PDT Tuesday was my friends bday,so I brought her a gift.After finishing up doing what she needed to do with me for work she asked if I wanted her to open her present, and at first I said it doesn't matter. and she already had taken it off her desk and put it on the bench/bed area.She started taking the tissue paper off either to start opening it or to examine it and maybe see if it was too much to open. She then asked again, Well do you want me to open it while you're here? I could have had her open while I was there and seen her reaction, but instead I opened my big mouth and said you can, but you may want to have a trash can near by. She said, yeah, I better wait til I get in the office. I told her she could still open it there and I could take it off her hands, I guess she thought I meant the presents, cause she had a how dare you face then's like, "oh you meant the trash, I thought you meant" and at that time I knew she thought I meant the gifts so I said no, I'm not that evil and almost at the same time she said "I was going to say". and she said it's ok, they have a trash can in the office. She hung the bag back on the cart and said she probably shouldn't open it in the gym in front of everyone and gestured her hand towards the other people. Which wasn't a lot since a lot of people cancelled their appoinments. for some reason I got disappointed and she told me why she didn't want to to do what I normally do at the end just so she can see how it feels without that. I asked her "I stopped you from opening it didn't I?" She said "I'm still going to open it." I said I know, but..." I don't remember if I said but you were going to open it here or didn't finish the sentence. a little later I saw her leaving with the balloons in hand and she happily/excitedly said "bye (my name) Thanks for the presents" We had brought her bday balloons (2 number 2's and a 3 line happy birthday balloon.) and st patty day doughnouts for the whole staff and she got the one kind there was only one of. Last time I gave her the 1st part of a thank you gift, the next time I was there she thanked me for it by saying thank you for the card (it was a gift card) and thank you for the sweetest card. Cause I also gave her a thank you card. one of the balloons was so big, I remember seeing that balloon and knowing she had a couple others and the bag she usually brings in but can't remember if I saw my gift bag or what the other balloon were. So question, did I get a general thank you because she opened them in the office and didn't like them, or because she decided to wait til she gets home to open them so she can get off and out of there early so she didn't know what they were, or thought since I was being kind of selfish at the end she just threw the whole thing in the trash without opening it? I don't think it was the last one, but just want to see what others think. I know you wont know. Just bored, so thought I would get others opinions. |
Question: Are they jealous of me? If not then should I ignore them? ? Posted: 19 Mar 2020 09:22 PM PDT There are two friends, I will call them A and B. I will just write something that made me upset... During summer retreat, when I asked question to Friend A she just looked at me but then ignored me (idk why?) I even said it loud (but not yell)Friend B said something (made me feel offended), but then she said, "you know its a joke right?"during christmas, I saw friend A and friend B looking at me and sneered at me for no reason, and I pretend to look other way.Before I came to cafe, I saw friend B giggling and talking with others, but when I came in, she made a straight face, asking "why did you came to cafe so early?"When I text friend A, either i get short reply or no respond. Last thing, friend A made joke that wasnt funny at all, so the person that was next to her wasnt happy. Now they are being nice to me, or pretending to be nice to me?I'm just posting here because I never had this feeling before, but my gut is telling me and its still making me upset..I understand but please no rude comments, I am a loser I know I know it's unorganized; i appreciate it |
Posted: 19 Mar 2020 09:02 PM PDT how do i ask him if it's ok to sleep in my underwear how do i get him to do it so it's not weird ps.i'm a guy too |
Question: Did I make the right choice? And what to do now? Posted: 19 Mar 2020 08:31 PM PDT My best friend/roommates She 18 and collage student. They got into a fight about college. The daughter doesn't like it and wants to drop out. She hasn't been going and is acting like she is going. Daughter tells me everthing. The mom again my best friend asked me if she was going. I told her the truth and she asked me how long I have know I said a week. So now both mom and daughter feel betrayed. Daughter because I told and mom because I didn't. Did I make the right choice. Keep in mind the daughter still lives at home and that's the only thing the mom asked her to do and work. I feel like I am in the middle and don't want to choose sides. Mom already thinks I am keeping stuff from her when it comes to the kids witch I am not. |
Question: How do I cope with a friend who has drifted apart from me? Posted: 19 Mar 2020 08:08 PM PDT So I met this friend back in November at my college and we became friends and hung out and shared stories since we didn't know anyone. Well I got a small internship and had to leave to another town for 2 and a half months. Well I left in January and came back last week. Well I saw my friend but I could feel something different like she was being distant and she told me she made many new friends in just 2.5 months. I also bought her a little present for her birthday but that didn't change her mind and she still is distant and not responding to me messages like how she use to. |
Posted: 19 Mar 2020 07:14 PM PDT How do i ask him if it's ok to sleep in my underwear? or ask him to do it too. ? |
Question: Advice for s*xual tension?? Posted: 19 Mar 2020 07:01 PM PDT So my husband and I decided to try polyamory with our house mates. I have literally no emotional connection other than friendship with this guy- like no sexual attraction no feels- but gah our spouses have gone to work and it's just me and him in the house... every time we chat my mind keeps drifting back to the way... he did things.... and I'm feeling so awkward idk how to dissolve this horrible tension! My hubby decided that poly wasn't for him and that he doesn't want to do it ever again and I don't really want to either but my mind keeps running away with these dirty thoughts please someone give me some advice as to how to make this stop. For the sake of my sanity, friendship, and marriage. Thanks in advance |
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